Explore every episode of the podcast The Impactful Coach: Learn Coaching Skills and from Coaching Demos
| Title | Pub. Date | Duration | |
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| The Work / Inquiry-Based Stress Reduction with Sandra Megahed | 09 oct. 2026 | 01:03:59 | |
A coaching podcast with Sandra Megahed and Tobias Weghorn, where we unpack a The Work (Byron Katie) coaching demo and why “presence comes first” even when you’re following a clear method. Sandra introduces Inquiry-Based Stress Reduction (IBSR), walks through the four questions and turnarounds, and shares how she integrates embodied coaching (body and breath) to make inquiry more effective. You’ll also hear a live mini-session on limiting beliefs about belonging and inclusion, and how a small everyday trigger can open up a big shift. If you want to learn coaching tools you can use on yourself first, this episode is a practical starting point. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Presence Comes First (Even With A Method) 01:07 What Is The Work (Byron Katie) / IBSR? 02:00 The Four Questions And Turnarounds Overview 06:00 Sandra’s Path: Research Mindset, Health Challenge, Daily Practice 11:20 How IBSR Works: Self-Inquiry, Yes/No, And The Body 19:00 How To Choose A Thought (Lists, Feelings, Pictures, Breath) 24:00 Coaching Demo: Belonging, Inclusion, And A Small Real-Life Trigger 31:00 Question 3: Reactions, Body Sensations, And What It Costs 37:00 Turnarounds Practice (To Self, To Other, Opposite) 52:00 Using IBSR In Business Coaching (And Staying In Scope) 58:00 Start By Practicing On Yourself + Recommended Resources | |||
| Becoming Present and What Coaches Learn from the Indian Scriptures with Yatish Chandrasekhar | 25 sept. 2026 | 00:54:30 | |
A coaching podcast with Yatish Chandrasekhar and Tobias Weghorn about coaching skills through the lens of Indian scriptures and modern coaching. Yatish, an ICF PCC coach educator from Bengaluru and the mind behind the Yogi Compass, shares why he believes India didn’t “catch up” with coaching—it’s been practicing it for thousands of years through dialogue-based teaching. Together, they connect the ICF core competencies to stages of learning like listening (Shravana), reflection (Manana), and contemplation (Nididhyasana), and explore coaching presence as a state of being rather than a technique. You’ll also hear practical ways to build a not knowing mindset—especially relevant in leader as coach conversations—using ideas like Sakshi Bhava (witness consciousness), silence, journaling, and breathwork. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Not Knowing Mindset and Curiosity in Coaching 01:00 Indian Scriptures Meet ICF Core Competencies 09:00 Shravana, Manana, Nididhyasana as Coaching Skills 13:00 Sakshi Bhava: Coaching Presence as Witness Consciousness 19:00 “Coach to Zero, Client to 100” and Psychological Safety 23:00 Leader as Coach: Shifting From Answers to Wonder 44:00 Mentor Coaching: Silence, Reflection, and Avoiding the “Fixing” Trap 47:00 Pranayama and Box Breathing to Access Presence | |||
| Inclusive Facilitation with Shaheen Hajira | 11 sept. 2026 | 01:02:31 | |
A coaching podcast with Shaheen Hajira and Tobias Weghorn, digging into inclusive facilitation and what actually needs to change in how we design workshops so we don’t just hear from the fastest voices in the room. Shaheen shares practical moves like giving real thinking time, using Think Pair Share, and sending a clear “what to expect” email so more people can participate—especially in neurodiversity in workshops. You’ll also hear how co-design workshops shift power, plus Shaheen’s POWER framework (five lenses for spotting inclusion gaps) and what trauma-informed facilitation can look like in an ordinary session. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:01 Inclusive Facilitation Starts With a Design Choice 00:03 Learning In Context and Connection (Constructivist Social Learning) 00:07 Co-Design Workshops and Who Gets Invited Into the Room 00:16 Why “Raise Your Hand” Excludes People 00:21 Think Pair Share and Giving People Options 00:23 The Pre-Game Email for Neurodiversity in Workshops 00:33 The POWER Framework: Five Lenses for Inclusion 00:48 Trauma-Informed Facilitation in Everyday Sessions 00:55 Auditing Workshop Design + The Picture Check-In Critique | |||
| Team Coaching with the 5 Dysfunctions of a Team with Tina Blunsdon | 28 août 2026 | 00:58:08 | |
A coaching podcast with Tina Blunston and Tobias Weghorn. They get practical about team coaching by tackling “bathroom chatter” (the real conversation that happens after the meeting) and using Patrick Lencioni’s five dysfunctions of a team as a starting point. Tina shares how she builds psychological safety in teams with simple exercises, why she asks the most senior person to go first when it’s about vulnerability (and last when it’s about decisions), and how she creates space for constructive conflict in meetings without it turning personal. You’ll also hear how she uses a DiSC assessment to create a shared language for communication and peer accountability. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Bathroom Chatter And Why Quiet Voices Matter 01:00 Framing The Episode: Team Coaching And The Five Dysfunctions Of A Team 06:55 DiSC Assessment As A First Step In Team Communication 11:00 Building Trust And Psychological Safety In Teams 22:00 Active Listening Drill: Headphones, Observation, And Body Language 25:40 Healthy Rules For Constructive Conflict In Meetings (Five Whys, Baton) 28:00 “Throwing A Grenade”: Facilitating Disagreement With Scaling Votes 38:00 Decision-Making: Senior Vulnerable First, Senior Speaks Last 40:50 Holding Peers Accountable With Team-Written Rules 46:10 Blue, Red, Pause: Do The Work, Then Reflect On Results 50:35 Learn Coaching: How To Start With Team Coaching In Real Companies | |||
| The Neuroscience of Emotions and Images with Sue Langley | 14 août 2026 | 00:56:33 | |
A coaching podcast with Sue Langley and Tobias Weghorn about coaching skills you can use to read emotional cues, expand emotional vocabulary, and work more intentionally with emotions in sessions. Starting with a simple picture-based check-in, Sue explains why using picture cards in coaching can help clients talk about what’s going on “behind the words” and access richer insights than a standard “How do you feel?” question. You’ll also hear the neuroscience angle behind emotion cards and emotional vocabulary, including how the limbic system vs prefrontal cortex in coaching can shape empathy, clarity, and progress. Along the way, Sue shares practical ways to notice body language and physiology (interoception) so you can learn coaching that’s both human and evidence-informed. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Reading Emotional Cues As A Coach 01:00 Why Picture Cards Make Feelings Easier To Express 04:00 Picture-Based Check-In: Two Images And What They Reveal 08:45 Using Picture Cards In Coaching For Feedback And Strengths 14:40 Limbic System vs Prefrontal Cortex in Coaching (What’s Happening In The Brain) 19:45 Compassion vs Empathy: Staying Warm Without Losing Clarity 23:20 Interoception: Using Physiology To Read Emotions (Foot Tapping Example) 32:00 In-Session Techniques To Shift A Client’s State 37:20 Emotion Cards And Emotional Vocabulary: Labeling For Better Management 40:10 Shame vs Guilt: Why The Distinction Changes What Clients Do Next 47:45 Strengths, Values, And Choosing The Right Tool In The Moment 54:10 How To Learn More And Connect With Sue Langley | |||
| The Craft of Asking Questions with Stephen Nock | 31 juil. 2026 | 00:53:48 | |
A coaching podcast with Stephen Nock and Tobias Weghorn about sharpening your coaching skills through better questions and a stronger coaching presence. Using the episode’s intro as a starting point, Stephen and Tobi get practical about what makes a good coaching question (hint: it’s often less about the “perfect” wording and more about curiosity, tone, and timing). You’ll hear why what vs why questions can reduce defensiveness, how “And what else?” opens up new thinking, and how The Coaching Habit 7 questions can work as an everyday toolkit for coaches and leaders. They also explore journaling with coaching questions and Stephen’s And What Else coaching cards as a simple way to practice asking cleaner, more useful questions. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 What Do You Want? Why “What” Questions Matter 01:00 What Makes A Good Coaching Question? 06:00 What Vs Why Questions (And When “Why” Backfires) 15:00 The Coaching Habit 7 Questions As A Coaching Toolkit 17:00 “And What Else?” For Idea Generation And Deeper Insight 28:00 And What Else Coaching Cards: A 4-Step Question Flow 33:00 A Live Coaching Demo: Enoughness, Trust, And Not Knowing 41:00 Foster Trust: Working With Uncertainty In Coaching 46:00 Presence, Calm, And The Coach’s “I Don’t Know” Mindset 51:00 Where To Find Stephen + Journaling With Coaching Questions | |||
| Designing Strengths-based Journeys with the Sailboat Metaphor with Mirna Smidt from Trainers Toolbox | 17 juil. 2026 | 00:55:25 | |
A coaching podcast with Mirna Smidt and Tobias Weghorn on coaching methods that make strengths work feel more intuitive, less “report-heavy,” and easier to remember. Mirna (Trainers Toolbox / Happiness Academy) shares how she uses positive psychology coaching tools in workshops and coaching, and why she prefers adapting frameworks instead of following them rigidly. You’ll learn the sailboat metaphor coaching model for combining goals, values, strengths-based coaching, and real-life constraints into one visual journey. They also connect strengths to flow state coaching—using strengths as a shortcut to more engagement, energy, and learning. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Permission To Adapt Frameworks (Not Be Rigid) 00:01 Positive Psychology, Strengths, And Flourishing 00:05 PERMA And Positive Psychology Coaching Tools 00:12 Flow State Coaching And Strengths As A Shortcut 00:16 The Sailboat Metaphor Coaching Model (Sails Vs. Leaks) 00:21 The Full Sailboat Map: Values, Goals, Weather, Other Boats 00:27 How To Use The Model In Workshops (Non-Linear Coaching Methods) 00:29 Strengths Assessment Debrief Using The Sailboat Visual 00:39 Goal-Setting Prompts: Ikigai, Ideal Day, Rocking Chair 00:44 Weather And Resilience: Control, Acceptance, And Resources | |||
| Why Facilitation Skills are Not Optional For You as a Coach with Mehdi El-Naizi | 03 juil. 2026 | 00:51:49 | |
A coaching podcast with Mehdi En Naizi and Tobias Weghorn. If you’ve ever sat through a cringe icebreaker and felt your body tense up, this episode is for you: we unpack coaching methods coaches can borrow from facilitation to build real psychological safety in workshops. Mehdi shares what stand-up comedy taught him about reading the room, designing workshop warm-up activities that create connection without awkwardness, and how to stay flexible when the “real problem” shows up mid-session. You’ll also get a practical walkthrough of the double diamond process and Mehdi’s 6C facilitation framework to structure group work from clear outcomes to commitment. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Creativity, Prompts, and the “Sunset” Warm-Up 01:00 Psychological Safety in Workshops vs. Awkward Icebreakers 03:00 Reading the Room: What Stand-Up Teaches Facilitators 07:30 Why Coaches Need Group Facilitation Skills 12:30 Contracting: Outcome, Purpose, and Success Metrics 18:00 Preparing Your State: Rehearsing the First 5–10 Minutes 24:00 Workshop Warm-Up Activities That Build Connection (No Cringe) 30:00 Pivoting with the Double Diamond Process 37:30 The 6C Facilitation Framework (Connect to Celebrate) 44:00 Challenge the Client, Don’t Just Execute | |||
| Strengths Coaching with Val Baguios III | 19 juin 2026 | 01:02:56 | |
A coaching podcast with Val Baguios III and Tobias Weghorn where you get a front-row seat to a live coaching demo using CliftonStrengths. Val coaches MetaFox COO Trisha through a Gallup CliftonStrengths report debrief, exploring how Consistency shows up as realism and how Harmony can slide into conflict avoidance. Along the way, you’ll hear strengths spotting in action and how strengths-based leadership coaching can focus less on “fixing weaknesses” and more on owning your leadership style. If you want to learn coaching by observing real moves in a session, this coaching podcast breaks down what the coach is listening for and how to turn insights into next steps.Key Learnings:Run a simple coaching demo homework: ask clients to track one real conflict moment and note their response to spot Harmony strength conflict avoidance patterns (and when it’s actually working).Use strengths spotting during storytelling: reflect back specific behaviors (e.g., setting one goal per month) and name the strength/theme you hear to build a strengths-based language clients can reuse in coaching.In strengths-based leadership coaching, “delegate the gap”: if innovation isn’t the client’s lane, design a step-by-step way to pull ideas from the team while still making decisions with their coaching demo strengths (e.g., Consistency + Focus).Resources:Val Baguios III's Website: https://solacademy.phVal Baguios III's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/valbaguiosd3rdCliftonStrengths Assessment (Gallup): https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/252137/home.aspxFind your Coaching Tool: https://metaFox.euTry the metaFox Strengths Discovery: https://strengths-discovery.comConnect with Tobi on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/tobiasweghornEpisode Chapters:00:00 Noticing Conflict Responses (Harmony & Consistency)01:33 Coaching Demo Setup: CliftonStrengths + Harmony as Conflict Avoidance03:17 Val’s Strengths Coaching Background (From Engineering to People Development)05:03 Strengths-Based Leadership Coaching for Managers and SME Owners11:00 Gallup CliftonStrengths Report Debrief: Achiever, Consistency, Harmony, Focus, Responsibility26:00 Strengths Spotting in Action (Naming Focus and Achiever)31:00 Overuse: When Harmony Turns Into Conflict Avoidance42:00 Delegating Weaknesses: Getting Innovation From the Team50:00 Naming, Claiming, Aiming: A Simple Strengths Coaching Flow59:10 Advice to Coaches: Take the Assessment and Find a Strengths Community | |||
| Beyond Cognitive Coaching: Somatic Energy Awareness with Ram Ramanathan | 05 juin 2026 | 00:55:06 | |
A coaching podcast with Ram Ramanathan and Tobias Weghorn exploring why “not knowing” can be a stronger coaching stance than problem-solving, especially when clients are stuck in stories and perceptions. In this somatic coaching demo, Ram guides Tobi through a short, practical process that blends a body scan meditation for coaching with the sensory energy awareness model to access what’s actually happening in the body. You’ll hear how simple breathwork, sensing in the trunk (throat to belly), and metaphor work can shift a client’s state without needing the full backstory. The episode also touches on clean language coaching, NLP-style anchoring, and how to bring chakra-based coaching concepts into sessions with very cognitive, science-minded leaders. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Coaching As “Not Knowing” Vs. Problem-Solving 01:00 Introduction: A Somatic Coaching Demo With Ram Ramanathan 04:10 Why Cognitive Coaching Can Miss The “Raw Data” 10:00 From “Is It True?” To “Is It Useful?” (Energy, Language, And Practice) 14:50 Body Scan Meditation For Coaching: Centering And Anchoring A Resourceful State 23:00 Sensing In The Body: Emptiness, Fog, Temperature, And Metaphor 27:00 Breathwork Shifts The Felt Sense (Observer Effect) 30:00 New Image, New State: Safety, Community, And Belonging 37:00 Chakra-Based Coaching And Left/Right Nostril Breathing 45:00 Bringing Somatic Work Into ICF-Style Coaching Without Needing The Story | |||
| Supervision Demo with Pictures and Dr. Nannette Reuther | 22 mai 2026 | 00:58:50 | |
A coaching podcast with Dr. Nannette Reuther and Tobias Weghorn. In this episode, Tobias brings two real client cases to explore what coaching supervision looks like in practice, including a supervision demo for coaches using images and metaphor. You’ll hear how supervision helps coaches notice when they’re taking over “the steering wheel,” and how simple ICF core competencies contracting can reset the partnership when sessions start to feel heavy. Along the way, Dr. Reuther shares practical ways to use coaching with images to bypass pure logic, access emotions, and build accountability. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 When Coaching Starts Feeling Like Work 01:00 Why Coaching Supervision Matters (And Why Tobi Finally Tried It) 06:00 Coaching with Images: Why Pictures Bypass Logic and Create Accountability 09:00 A Supervision Demo for Coaches: Using a Library Image in Group Supervision 13:00 Case 1: The “Storyteller” Client and Letting Go of the Steering Wheel 20:00 ICF Core Competencies Contracting in the Moment (Where Does the Client Want to Drive?) 24:00 Coach Position vs. Personal Patterns: “Put Your Baggage in the Trunk” 31:00 Case 2: Inner Team Model Coaching Meets a Very Rational Client 36:00 Coffee-Spilling Metaphor: When Coaching Feels Exhausting 40:00 Re-Contracting So You’re Coach, Not Consultant 53:00 How to Get Started with Coaching Supervision (Accredited Supervisors, Groups, Budget) | |||
| The Art of Growing Up with Jerry Colonna: Coaching Queries, Ancestral Beliefs & Coaching vs Therapy | 08 mai 2026 | 00:41:27 | |
A coaching podcast with Jerry Colonna and Tobias Weghorn, digging into radical self-inquiry coaching and what it really means to “grow up” as a leader and as a human. Jerry shares why the past is always present in executive coaching with a psychoanalytic perspective, and how compassion and curiosity unlock the unconscious patterns that keep clients stuck. You’ll also unpack his well-known “how have I been complicit” question, why “complicit” is different from “responsible,” and how shame and guilt derail real change. The episode also gets practical about coaching vs therapy boundaries, including when to bring in a therapist, and why coaching supervision for coaches (and strong referral networks) is part of the ethical job. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Coaching vs Therapy Boundaries: When to Bring in a Therapist 02:12 What It Means to “Grow Up” + Radical Self-Inquiry Coaching 04:34 The “How Have I Been Complicit?” Question (Complicit vs Responsible) 09:00 Why Shame, Guilt, and Blame Block Change 11:22 Finding the Hidden Benefit: The IPO (Intended Positive Outcome) 14:05 Don’t Turn Questions Into a Script: Coaching Presence Over Methodology 16:20 Executive Coaching With a Psychoanalytic Perspective: The Reboot Venn Diagram 19:10 “Who Are You Really Serving Right Now?” and Ancestral Patterns 26:10 How Reboot Bootcamps Work: Safety, Container, Dyads/Triads 33:10 Pathology vs Non-Pathology + Coaching Supervision for Coaches | |||
| Befriending Inherited Beliefs: Coaching Demo with Jerry Colonna | 24 avr. 2026 | 00:50:55 | |
A coaching podcast with Jerry Colonna and Tobias Weghorn, centered around a coaching demo that quickly moves from “Am I enough?” to where that belief may come from in the first place. Tobi shares how safety and financial security shaped parts of his family story, and Jerry helps reframe those fears through compassion for inherited patterns. They also unpack why coaching mastery beyond methodology often requires dropping the “right way vs. wrong way” obsession and paying attention to what actually works in the moment. Along the way, they touch on radical self-inquiry, the role of supervision, and how countertransference and the third can become practical data for coaches. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Mastery Beyond Methodology: The “Right Way” Trap 01:00 Introduction: The “Am I Enough?” Belief And A Coaching Demo Setup 04:00 Leaders, Safety, And The Human Condition Behind “Not Enough” 14:00 Coaching Demo: Inherited Family Trauma And Safety Beliefs 21:00 Making “I Am Enough” Stick: Benefits, Repetition, And Radical Self-Inquiry 30:00 Why Coaches Get Stuck: Methodology, The Third, And Countertransference 43:00 Coaching Supervision And Tracking What You Feel In Session 47:00 A Practical Habit: Notes On What The Client Says vs. What You Feel | |||
| Visual Coaching Demo with Christina Merkley | 10 avr. 2026 | 00:49:46 | |
A coaching podcast with Christina Merkley and Tobias Weghorn where Tobi steps into the client seat for a real coaching demo and you get to experience what visual coaching feels like on a live digital canvas. Christina guides a step-by-step process using her visual self-inquiry map, moving from the “mind and doer” into somatic signals (hello, tight lungs) and into parts work (IFS coaching) with an exile, protectors, and inner child healing. The session lands in a grounded future self visualization where Tobi meets his 55-year-old self, borrows some calm perspective, and leaves with a simple way to reconnect anytime. If you want to learn coaching through an honest, in-the-moment demo, this episode shows how visuals can make inner work more tangible. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Meeting The Younger Self (Inner Child Healing) 01:00 Why This Coaching Demo Blurs Coaching vs. Therapy 02:00 Visual Self-Inquiry Map: How The Process Works 05:00 Parts Work (IFS Coaching): Protectors, Managers, And The Mind-Doer 10:00 From Logic To Body: Tight Lungs And Somatic Clues 13:00 Presence Creates Space: “Give The Doer The Job Of Being” 17:00 Finding The Origin Story: Belonging, The Village, And The Exile 23:00 Reparenting Moment: Hugging The 5-Year-Old 27:00 Future Self Visualization: Meeting The 55-Year-Old On The Couch 37:00 Making It Tangible: Why Visual Coaching “Completes The Puzzle” | |||
| From Graphic Recording to Visual Coaching with Christina Merkley | 27 mars 2026 | 00:47:37 | |
A coaching podcast with Christina Merkley and Tobias Weghorn. They unpack graphic recording at conferences and how Christina's "visual coaching" work today goes deeper - combining visual work with the coach’s role of holding space, asking questions, and mirroring what clients say on a live canvas. You’ll hear how graphic facilitation works in real time (not just as “fun notes”), why listening and synthesis matter as much as drawing, and how visuals can support visioning and action planning. Christina also walks through her SHIFT-IT process, including life map coaching and the “alignment work” that helps when plans stall at the “trouble at the border” between where you are and where you want to be. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:01 Visual Coaching Beyond Graphic Recording 00:05 Graphic Facilitation vs. Static Visuals (Interactive, Live, Fast) 00:08 From Conference Graphic Recording to Deeper 1:1 Visual Coaching 00:13 The “Four Animals”: Studio Work vs. Process Work 00:18 How Graphic Recording Works: Listening, Synthesis, and “Gold Nuggets” 00:22 What Visuals Do to a Room (Attention, Buffering Intensity, Recall) 00:31 Visual Coaching with Individuals: From Strategy to Somatics and Trauma Awareness 00:33 SHIFT-IT + Life Map Coaching, Visioning and Action Planning, and Alignment Work 00:45 Where to Find Christina (Shift-It-Coach.com) | |||
| 3 Ways to Use AI to Become a More Impactful Coach with Tim Brownson | 13 mars 2026 | 00:41:42 | |
A coaching podcast with Tim Brownson and Tobias Weghorn on how AI coaching tools can support (not replace) good coaching—if you use them with clear intent, permission, and discernment. In the intro, Tobi frames the big question: is AI a shortcut that dilutes the craft, or a tool that sharpens it while keeping your voice and integrity intact? Tim shares practical demos, including AI as coach supervisor for ICF mentor coaching feedback, plus ways to feed context fast (including voice-to-text prompts for ChatGPT). You’ll also hear how Google NotebookLM for coaches can help you stay “source-grounded” when working with your own transcripts and content. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Pushing AI Harder Gets Better Results 00:01 AI as Coach Supervisor: Shortcut or Sharpening the Craft? 00:05 ICF Mentor Coaching Feedback with a Transcript + Prompt 00:12 Google NotebookLM for Coaches: Source-Grounded Learning From Your Content 00:19 Writing in Your Authentic Voice With Better Context 00:23 Persona Prompts: Critique Your Copy Like a Skeptical Buyer 00:30 Voice-to-Text Prompts for ChatGPT (Willow Voice, Whisper Flow) 00:39 Getting Started: Why Paid AI Models Can Be Worth It | |||
| Values Coaching with the Clarity Method by Tim Brownson | 27 févr. 2026 | 00:54:26 | |
A coaching podcast with Tim Brownson and Tobias Weghorn exploring values coaching as a practical way to create clarity when clients feel stuck, conflicted, or at odds with other people or their workplace. Tim (aka “The Fully Booked Coach”) breaks down his Clarity Method step-by-step: identifying what’s non-negotiable, using a values ranking exercise to build a core values hierarchy, and then spotting internal and external value conflicts. You’ll also hear why anti-values in coaching matter just as much as “positive” values, and how they can reveal what clients are strongly motivated to move away from. If you’re looking to learn coaching approaches that get concrete quickly, this coaching podcast is a hands-on walkthrough you can borrow for your next session. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Anti-Values And Moving Away From What You Don’t Want 01:00 Values Coaching, The Clarity Method, And Value Conflicts 03:00 Why Values Create Breakthroughs (More Than Other Tools) 08:00 The 3 Stages: Define Values, Build A Core Values Hierarchy, Resolve Conflicts 12:00 Clarifying What A Value Word Means To The Client 18:00 Money Isn’t A Value: What Money Represents 27:00 The Values Ranking Exercise (Pairwise Comparisons) 34:00 Anti-Values In Coaching: Rank What’s “Worst,” Not What You Prefer 41:00 Internal And External Value Conflicts In Real Client Situations 51:00 How To Learn Coaching With The Clarity Method (Getting Started) | |||
| Facilitating Feedback and Psychological Safety in Team Coaching with Nils Cornelissen | 13 févr. 2026 | 00:36:41 | |
A coaching podcast with Nils I. Cornelissen and Tobias Weghorn about psychological safety in teams and what it really takes to make high-performing groups speak honestly. Drawing on Google’s Project Aristotle, Nils shares how he helps executive team coaching clients build vulnerability in the boardroom (or offsite) without turning it into “touchy-feely theater.” You’ll hear why he intentionally “stains the white tablecloth” to role-model imperfection, plus two practical feedback methods you can use right away: the Keep Consider feedback method and a laser feedback exercise. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Failure Culture vs. “No Mistakes” and Missing Behavioral Feedback 01:00 Intro: Psychological Safety in Teams (Google Project Aristotle) 02:10 Entering the Boardroom: Executive Team Coaching Context and Characters 06:00 Individual Journeys, Group Dynamics, and Creating Vulnerability 08:00 Asking “Stupid Questions” to Shift Team Habits 10:30 Contracting and Shared Responsibility in Team Coaching 13:00 Role-Modeling Imperfection: The “Stain on the Tablecloth” Story 20:30 Keep Consider Feedback Method (Fast, Balanced, Repeatable) 26:00 Laser Feedback Exercise: Appreciation + “Even More If…” 30:00 Habits, Feelings, and Getting Rational Leaders On Board | |||
| Executive Coaching and Preparing your State for Difficult Conversations with Nils Cornelissen | 30 janv. 2026 | 00:47:23 | |
A coaching podcast with Nils I. Cornelissen and Tobias Weghorn on why leadership coaching in times of transformation starts with the leader, not the org chart. Drawing from his work with executive teams in large corporations, Nils shares why organizational change management so often fails even when the strategy looks “right” on paper. You’ll hear practical ways to stay “above the line” (vs. “below the line”) in difficult conversations, including tiny questions that build ownership and a short centering routine for high-stakes moments. It’s a candid look at emotional intelligence for leaders, self-management, and how to model the mindset you want to see across the organization. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:06 “How Are You Going To Change?” Starting with the Leader 00:12 Coaching the Solution Out of the Client (Not Solving It for Them) 00:14 The 3 Questions That Build Ownership (Treat People Like Adults) 00:22 Preparing for the Boardroom: Your Mindset Is the Tool 00:25 The 60-Second Centering Routine (Sigh, Gratitude, Empathy) 00:33 Above the Line Below the Line Mindset in Executive Team Coaching 00:35 Inner Thermometers: How to Notice You’ve Gone Reactive 00:42 Training Emotional Intelligence for Leaders (Momentum Program) | |||
| Mindset, Methods, Skills & Tools of Impactful Coaches: Highlights from one year 'Making of a Coach' | 16 janv. 2026 | 00:41:04 | |
A coaching podcast with Max Friedle and Tobias Weghorn to close out a year of "The Making of a Coach" and kick off the rebrand to "The Impactful Coach". Using Max’s coaching development framework (mindset, methods, skills, tools), they look back at highlights from coaching demos and episodes - and what actually makes sessions more impactful in real life. You’ll hear how solution focused coaching keeps conversations light and future-oriented, when the miracle question helps clients move fast, and why “ready, willing, and eager” can be a useful readiness gate. They also get practical about emotional hygiene before coaching sessions and silence as a coaching intervention (yes: count to six). Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Teaser: Ready, Willing, And Eager + “You Gotta Shut Up At Times” 01:00 Anniversary Episode: Rebrand To Impactful Coach 03:00 The Coaching Development Framework: Mindset, Methods, Skills, Tools 06:00 Mindset: Hold Space, Don’t Fix (“It’s Not The Pam Show”) 09:00 Emotional Hygiene Before Coaching Sessions 11:00 Methods: Readiness Gate + Coaching Demos Focus 13:00 Solution Focused Coaching: Exceptions + Miracle Question 16:00 Zurich Resource Model (ZRM) Picture Work Meets Somatics 18:00 Skills: Silence As A Coaching Intervention (Count To Six) 24:00 Tools: Shared Language (Belbin, Strengths, MBTI) + Risks Of “Boxing” 34:00 What Changes In 2026: More Coaching Skills, Less CV Stories | |||
| Demo Coaching: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome through Clear Brand Positioning with Julika Franke | 02 janv. 2026 | 00:45:13 | |
On this episode, Tobi meets Julika Franke for a coaching demo that starts as brand positioning and quickly turns into imposter syndrome coaching around stepping into a coach‑trainer role. Julika usually uses her Business Hub approach to map roles, goals, and visibility, revealing to come up with clear positioning and a crisp mission. In Tobi's example they find a way to fit all his hats under the vision statement of metaFox: "A world embracing emotional intelligence". Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Opening: Emotional Intelligence And Identity Friction 01:00 Coaching Demo Setup: From Positioning To Imposter Syndrome 03:00 The Business Hub: Structuring Brand Positioning 06:00 Meta Fox Inner Journey And Tools For Emotional Intelligence Coaching 12:00 Training Roots: MBTI And Early Facilitation 15:00 Naming The Imposter Syndrome Coaching Challenge 18:00 Mission, Roles, And Personal Branding For Coaches 25:00 Two Worlds Collide: Engineering Vs Coaching Identity 35:00 From Clarity To Market: Positioning, Offer, And Visibility 41:00 Rethinking The Coaching Industry And Value Focus | |||
| Creating an irresistible coaching offer (feat. Alex Hormozi's value equation) with Julika Franke | 19 déc. 2025 | 00:41:26 | |
On this 'Making of a Coach', Tobi meets Julika Franke for a deep dive into creating a compelling offer that genuinely helps coaches find paying clients. Grounded in Alex Hormozi’s Value Equation, Julika unpacks how to define a crystal‑clear dream outcome, increase the perceived likelihood of achievement, and shape real offer components that reduce time delay and client effort. They discuss ethics, specificity (“riches in the niches”), and how to align marketing with authenticity—not hype—for sustainable client acquisition. You’ll also hear practical ways to price your offer and become a “category of one.” Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Teaser: Niches And Offers 00:01 Creating A Compelling Offer — Why It Matters 00:03 Julika Franke’s Journey Into Coaching And Marketing 00:09 The Value Equation For Client Acquisition 00:13 From Dream Outcome To Target Market Clarity 00:15 Riches In The Niches: Specificity Beats Generic 00:23 Time Delay, Offer Ladders, And B2B vs B2C 00:26 Reducing Effort And Sacrifice In Your Offer 00:27 Relationship Coach Example: Should I Stay Or Go? 00:36 First Steps And Pricing: Build Your Category Of One | |||
| Coaching Demo with Lucy Higgins: Overcoming Restlessness with the Saboteur Assessment by Positive Intelligence | 05 déc. 2025 | 00:44:27 | |
On this 'Making of a Coach', Tobi meets career coach and coach trainer Lucy Higgins for a coaching demo that explores restlessness using the saboteur assessment from Positive Intelligence. Drawing on the Introduction, we frame Lucy’s directive career change program for ambitious mothers and how she resolves blockers like unhelpful beliefs with lightweight mindset tools. Together, Lucy and Tobi run a live coaching demo around the Restless and Hyper‑Achiever patterns, aiming for presence and peace of mind during early parenthood. You’ll hear how a shared language from Positive Intelligence can carry through a coaching journey without needing the full accreditation program. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Seeking Peace Of Mind And Restlessness 00:02 Intro: Lucy’s Directive Career Change Program 00:05 Mindset Tools And When To Use The Saboteur Assessment 00:09 How The Positive Intelligence Test Works 00:13 Choosing The Restless Saboteur 00:18 Coaching Demo Goal: Presence Over Restlessness 00:21 Judge And Accomplice Saboteurs Explained 00:26 Costs Of Restlessness And Finding Balance 00:30 Switching Off: What Already Works For Tobi 00:37 Beyond The Tool: TA And Polyvagal In Practice | |||
| Becoming a Career Coach with Lucy Higgins: Reinventing Careers After Motherhood | 21 nov. 2025 | 00:40:03 | |
On this 'Making of a Coach', Tobi meets Lucy Higgins to unpack how she became a career coach and built a private practice around a career change program for ambitious mothers. They contrast non-directive coaching with a more directive coaching offer and walk through Explore - Dream - Discover as adapted from Fireworks Coaching. Lucy connects her own matrescence journey to clear positioning, pricing, and the balance between platform work (BetterUp) and private clients - useful if you want to become a coach with a tangible, outcomes-based offer. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Welcome & Framing The Career Change Program 00:03 Platforms vs Private Work 00:04 Mission: Helping Women Navigate Systems 00:06 Motherhood As Catalyst For Career Change 00:12 What Is Matrescence? 00:17 Non-Directive Coaching Packages 00:20 Directive Coaching: Explore, Dream, Discover 00:23 Tackling Fear, Identity & Systemic Barriers 00:31 Pricing: Packages And Corporate Rates 00:36 Advice To New Coaches: Lean Into What You Love | |||
| Coach-Trainer-FAQ: A Masterclass in becoming a coach with Lucy Higgins | 07 nov. 2025 | 00:45:43 | |
On this 'Making of a Coach', Tobi meets Lucy Higgins to unpack real "Frequently Asked Questions" from aspiring coaches wanting to become a coach. Drawing on her work training cohorts of new coaches at Animas in the UK and her own practice, Lucy digs into client acquisition strategies, whether to niche, and the true timeline of coaching business building. They also explore coaching pricing models, the balance between directive and non‑directive work, why supervision matters and when ICF/EMCC accreditation helps (and when it doesn’t). Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Teaser: Hell Island To Heaven Island 00:02 Why This Coach‑Trainer FAQ Episode 00:10 Client Acquisition Strategies: Avatar, Channels, Referrals 00:13 Coaching Business Building Timeline And Buffer 00:15 Should I Niche Or Be The Niche? 00:17 Selling As A Helper, Not A Salesperson 00:19 Coaching Pricing Models And Sliding Scales 00:25 Systems That Save Time: Calendly, Xero, SEO 00:36 Directive vs Non‑Directive Coaching 00:40 Coaching Accreditation: ICF, EMCC, AC | |||
| Entrepreneurship in the coaching industry: Making of the LINC Personality Profiler with Dr. Ronald Franke | 24 oct. 2025 | 00:32:21 | |
On this 'Making of a Coach', Tobi meets Dr. Ronald Franke, the co-founder behind the LINC Personality Profiler, to trace how a psychology student became a coach, researcher, and entrepreneur. Next to a deep dive into the personality and coaching, the conversation unfolded as an entrepreneurial journey through the coaching industry - from cultural research to launching a B2B tool now used by 5,000+ coaches running 40,000+ assessments a year. Along the way, they unpack where personality assessments fit into real coaching versus debriefs, and why type-based tools fall short of trait-based approaches. Originally recorded in German and shared here via AI transcreation, this coaching podcast doubles as a candid playbook for turning expertise into a scalable tool. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 00:00 Opening: Why Personality Assessments Matter 01:00 Meet Dr. Ronald Franke And The LINC Personality Profiler 03:00 From Psychology Studies To Coaching And Research 05:00 Culture Research To Product: Early Tests And Pivots 06:00 Choosing Coaches Over HR: Finding The Initial Niche 12:00 Building Products, MVPs, And What Actually Sells 17:00 Beyond The Tool: HR Solutions And B2B Services 20:00 Big Five Model In Coaching: From Debrief To Real Change 29:00 Internationalization And What’s Next | |||
| Unternehmertum in der Coaching-Branche: Das "Making of" des LINC Personality Profilers mit Dr. Ronald Franke | 24 oct. 2025 | 00:48:12 | |
This is a German Original Episode. For its English version, click here! In dieser Folge von Making of a Coach spricht Tobi mit Dr. Ronald Franke, dem Mitgründer des LINC Personality Profilers. Gemeinsam zeichnen sie nach, wie aus einem Psychologiestudenten ein Coach, Forscher und Unternehmer wurde. Neben einem tiefen Einblick in Persönlichkeit und Coaching entwickelt sich das Gespräch zu einer unternehmerischen Reise durch die Coaching-Branche – von kulturpsychologischer Forschung bis hin zur Entwicklung eines B2B-Tools, das heute von über 5.000 Coaches genutzt wird und jährlich mehr als 40.000 Auswertungen ermöglicht. Unterwegs beleuchten die beiden, welche Rolle Persönlichkeitsanalysen im echten Coaching – jenseits von Auswertungs-Gesprächen – spielen und warum typbasierte Instrumente gegenüber eigenschaftsbasierten Ansätzen an ihre Grenzen stoßen. Key Learnings:
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Episode Chapters: 01:58 Die Entstehung des LINC Personality Profilers 02:56 Von der Wissenschaft zum Coaching 05:02 Herausforderungen und Learnings im Unternehmertum 07:57 Die Rolle der Persönlichkeit im Coaching 16:10 Entwicklung und Anwendung des LINC Profilers 41:09 Unternehmenskultur und internationale Expansion 44:46 Lightning Round Fragerunde zum Abschluss | |||
| Unpacking Personality with the BIG 5 Model: Coaching Demo / Report Debrief with Lars Voigt from LINC Personality Profiler | 10 oct. 2025 | 00:43:53 | |
Why is personality relevant in almost all coaching issues? How can we best assess and describe it? In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," Tobi from metaFox sits down with Lars Voigt from LINC and explores Tobi's Personality Profile. Lars shares insights into the Big Five model and how it forms the foundation of the Link Personality Profiler, a tool widely used in Europe and beyond. They discuss the importance of understanding personality holistically, incorporating character, motives, and competencies, and how these elements can be effectively measured and applied in coaching. After analysing Tobi's profile, they also compare the LINC Personality Profiler to other tools like DISC, emphasizing the depth and scientific grounding of the Big Five model.Key Learnings:Integrating personality assessments like the Big Five model at the start of a coaching journey provides a comprehensive diagnostic tool for both coaches and clients. Understanding the interplay between character, motives, and competencies is crucial for effective coaching and personal development.Coaches should be trained on the tools they use to ensure they can convey nuanced insights and avoid oversimplifying complex personality traits.Resources:Lars Voigt's Website: https://linc.de/unternehmen/Lars Voigt's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lars-voigt-linc/Find your Coaching Tool: https://metaFox.euTry the metaFox Strengths Discovery: https://strengths-discovery.comConnect with Tobi on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/tobiasweghornEpisode Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Personality Assessments00:02 The Big Five Model and Link Personality Profiler00:04 Integrating Psychometrics in Coaching00:06 Understanding Motives and Competencies00:10 Comparing DISC and Link Personality Profiler00:20 The Importance of Training for Coaches | |||
| Supervision in Coaching with Katja von Glinowiecki: Unpacking Professional Reflection and Industry Standards | 26 sept. 2025 | 00:45:44 | |
In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," Katja von Glinowiecki, a seasoned coach and supervisor, shares her journey from feeling isolated in her coaching practice to discovering the transformative power of supervision in coaching. Based in Germany, Katja discusses how supervision in coaching provides a structured, professional reflection space that enhances both personal and professional growth. She explains the differences between coaching, supervision, and mentoring, and highlights the importance of supervision in maintaining coaching industry standards. Katja also touches on the cultural variations in the acceptance of supervision and the potential impact of making it a norm in the coaching industry. Key Learnings: Supervision in coaching offers a structured space for professional reflection, helping coaches to grow and maintain ethical standards.Engaging in regular supervision can prevent feelings of isolation and enhance resilience, ultimately benefiting client interactions.Understanding the cultural differences in coaching and supervision practices can provide insights into improving coaching industry standards globally. Resources: Join the metaFox Community: https://join.metafox.community/ Katja von Glinowiecki's Websites: https://www.my-circus.de/ https://orientierungs-coaching.de/ Connect with Katja on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katja-von-glinowiecki/ Connect with Tobi on LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/tobiasweghorn Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Supervision in Coaching 00:05 Katja's Journey to Discovering Supervision 00:10 Defining Supervision and Its Benefits 00:15 The Role of Supervision in Professional Growth 00:20 Cultural Perspectives on Supervision 00:25 How to Get Started with Supervision | |||
| Making of a Mental Health NGO: How Phlourish Coaches Teenagers using Psychoeducation Workbooks & Effective Altruism | 12 sept. 2025 | 00:42:00 | |
In this "Making of a Coach," topical deep dive, we unpack mental health interventions with Rochelle Bata and Shen Javier, co-founders of Phlourish, a nonprofit in the Philippines. They discuss their mission to help adolescents flourish and solve a mental health crisis through evidence-based solutions, based on the principles of "effective altruism". The episode explores the challenges of mind-blowing suicide rates and mental health stigma in low-resource areas and the impact-driven approaches Phlourish employs to address these issues, including the use of lay mental health workers and guided self-help workbooks.Key Learnings:Understand the importance of mental health stigma (and literacy) and how it can be improved through targeted interventions.Learn how to effectively use lay mental health workers to bridge the gap in mental health services.Discover the principles of "effective altruism" in creating scalable and impactful mental health solutions.Resources:Meet Phlourish on: https://phlourish.phConnect with Roc: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rochelle-bata/ Connect with Shen: https://www.linkedin.com/in/reynaly-shen-javier/ Connect with Tobi: https://linkedin.com/in/tobiasweghornFind your Coaching Tool: https://metaFox.eu Try the metaFox Strengths Discovery: https://strengths-discovery.com Episode Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Mental Health in the Philippines00:02 Meet the Founders of Phlourish00:05 Phlourish's Mission and Approach00:10 Challenges in Mental Health in the Philippines00:15 Orientation and Parental Involvement00:20 John's Journey with Phlourish00:25 The Role of Lay Mental Health Workers00:30 Effective Altruism and Evidence-Based Approach | |||
| Coaching-Demo mit Dr. Jasmin Messerschmidt: Coaching mit Bildern & dem Zürcher Ressourcen Modell (ZRM) | 29 août 2025 | 00:49:06 | |
Beschreibung In dieser Folge von „The Making of a Coach“ coacht Dr. Jasmin Messerschmidt Tobi live und zeigt, wie sich Arbeit mit Bildern und somatische Marker wirkungsvoll in Coachingprozesse integrieren lassen. Jasmin gibt Einblicke in das Zürcher Ressourcen Modell (ZRM) – eine Verbindung aus Motivationspsychologie und Neurowissenschaft – und wie es Klient:innen stärkt, selbstgewählte Ziele zu erreichen. Wir sprechen über Embodiment im Coaching und darüber, warum es für nachhaltige Veränderung entscheidend ist, Unbewusstes und Bewusstes in Einklang zu bringen. Key Learnings
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Kapitel 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 01:29 Coaching Session Begins 04:16 Exploring Personal Challenges 08:31 Selecting and Interpreting Images 26:53 Formulating the Motto-Ziel 34:20 Reflection and Embodiment 42:17 Conclusion and Takeaways 46:27 Additional Resources and Farewell | |||
| Coaching Demo with Dr. Jasmin Messerschmidt: Learn Coaching with Pictures and the Zurich-Resource-Model | 29 août 2025 | 00:29:01 | |
In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," Dr. Jasmin Messerschmidt, a renowned expert in the Zurich Resource Model coaches Tobi exploring the integration of image-based coaching and somatic markers in coaching practices. Dr. Messerschmidt shares insights into how the Zurich Resource Model, a blend of motivational psychology and neuroscience, can empower clients to achieve self-chosen goals. The discussion delves into the embodiment in coaching, highlighting the importance of aligning the unconscious and conscious mind for effective change. Key Learnings: Incorporate image-based coaching to connect the conscious and unconscious mind, enhancing clarity and focus in coaching sessions. Utilize somatic markers to identify and address clients' physical sensations and emotional responses, fostering deeper self-awareness. Apply the Zurich resource model to create structured self-management strategies, enabling clients to achieve their goals through self-directed efforts. Resources:
Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Image-Based Coaching 00:44 Understanding the Zurich Resource Model 02:28 Personal and Professional Transitions 05:08 Exploring Somatic Markers 09:15 Selecting Images for Coaching 13:00 Positive Associations with Images 18:29 Formulating a Motto Goal 24:11 Embodiment and Practical Application 28:01 Conclusion and Reflections | |||
| Learn Coaching with Picture Cards: Dr. Jasmin Messerschmidt About Accessing Emotions and Body Sensations Through Pictures | 15 août 2025 | 00:32:46 | |
In this insightful episode of The Making of a Coach Podcast, Tobi sits down with Dr. Jasmin Messerschmidt, an expert in leadership coaching, the Zurich Resource Model, and the transformative use of images in coaching. Discover how picture cards, somatic markers, and visual resonance can help clients unlock emotions, overcome blocks, and create meaningful self-change — even when words fall short. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
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Chapters 00:00 Emotional Impact of Images in Coaching 00:56 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest 01:22 Jasmine's Expertise and Dissertation on Picture Cards 01:57 The Power of Images in Coaching 02:28 Experimenting with AI Translation 03:05 Jasmine's Personal Reflection on an Image 05:35 Examples of Coaching with Images 07:56 Deep Dive into Jasmine's Dissertation 12:01 Understanding Somatic Markers 14:14 Practical Application of Images in Coaching 32:54 Using Positive and Negative Images 42:28 Conclusion and Next Episode Teaser | |||
| Lerne Coaching mit Bildkarten: Dr. Jasmin Messerschmidt über den Zugang zu Emotionen und Körpergefühl durch Bilder | 15 août 2025 | 00:48:42 | |
In dieser Folge des Making of a Coach spricht Tobi mit Dr. Jasmin Messerschmidt – Expertin für Leadership Coaching, das Zürcher Ressourcen Modell und den transformativen Einsatz von Bildern im Coaching. Erfahre, wie Bildkarten, somatische Marker und visuelle Resonanz Klient:innen helfen können, Zugang zu ihren Körpergefühlen und Emotionen zu erlangen, Blockaden zu überwinden und nachhaltige Selbstveränderung zu bewirken. Was du mitnimmst:
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| Awakening in Coaching: Bringing Buddhist Teachings into Leadership Coaching with Monica Bryant-Ruiz | 01 août 2025 | 00:46:50 | |
What does it mean to lead with both grit and grace—and how can coaching unlock that balance? In this episode, professional certified coach Monica Bryant-Ruiz shares how her awakening redefined her identity as a high-achieving executive. Today, she helps leaders navigate constant pressure and change not by pushing harder, but by letting go. Through deep presence, reflective dialogue, and Buddhist-informed coaching techniques, Monica invites her clients to explore what's driving their ambitions, question inherited narratives, and choose peace over performance. This conversation is a powerful look at how coaching becomes a space for awakening, authenticity, and courageous clarity. Key Learnings:
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| Innovation Consultant Paris Thomas: Leveraging AI and Business Model Canvas for Success | 18 juil. 2025 | 00:53:31 | |
In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," Tobi Ox explores the intersection of innovation and coaching with Paris Thomas, an experienced innovation consultant and leadership trainer. Paris shares insights on leveraging AI and frameworks like the Business Model Canvas to revolutionize innovation processes. The discussion delves into the importance of customer interviews and the role of failure in innovation, providing valuable lessons for coaches and consultants looking to enhance their offerings. Key Learnings:
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Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the Business Model Canvas 00:53 Real-World Application and Challenges 01:30 Guest Introduction: Paris Thomas 02:08 Paris's Journey from Leadership to Innovation 05:21 The Role of AI in Innovation 06:11 Lessons from Entrepreneurial Failures 11:31 Building and Testing Business Models with AI 26:24 AI vs Human Insights in Workshops 27:04 Creating Customer Value Scenes 28:02 Using AI for Customer Interviews 29:25 Strategic Business Model Enhancements 30:31 AI Conversations for Better Revenue 33:54 Scaling Customer Interactions with AI 41:09 Experimenting with Pricing Strategies 46:07 Lightning Round: Facilitator Insights 51:49 Final Thoughts and Takeaways | |||
| Edutainment with Paris Thomas: Innovating Online Training and How to Become a Coach | 04 juil. 2025 | 00:34:54 | |
In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," we delve into the innovative world of edutainment with Paris Thomas, founder of Talent Hacks in Cyprus. Paris shares his journey of transforming traditional corporate training into engaging online experiences that rival the entertainment industry. By integrating humor and psychometric learning, Paris and his team have redefined online training innovation, making it both entertaining and educational. Discover how they leverage platforms like TikTok and Netflix to create compelling content that captivates and educates. Key Learnings:
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| Becoming a Facilitator with Paris Thomas: Mastering Team Dynamics and Communication Science | 20 juin 2025 | 00:40:14 | |
Paris Thomas, a facilitator based in Cyprus, shares his journey from Canada to becoming a key figure in corporate training. In this episode, we delve into the challenges and misconceptions of traditional corporate training and explore how Paris redefined team dynamics through innovative facilitation techniques. With a focus on communication science and team dynamics, Paris discusses the importance of creating authentic experiences that lead to meaningful change. Discover how his unique approach to facilitation, including the bootcamp effect, transforms team interactions and leadership dynamics. Key Learnings:
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| Making of the Strengths Discovery and Strengths Coaching Demo with Taina Nicolicin | 03 juin 2025 | 00:45:59 | |
In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," Tobi from metaFox is joined by Taina Nicolicin to explore the development of the metaFox Strengths Discovery, a tool designed for strength assessment and feedback. Taina, an experienced strengths coach, quizzes Tobi on the creation of this web app, which is built for coaches and facilitators. The episode delves into the intricacies of building psychometric assessments and includes a live coaching demo using Tobi's strengths report from the app. Listeners will gain insights into how strengths can be integrated into coaching practices and the benefits of using tools like the metaFox Strength Discovery. Key Learnings:
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Chapter Timeline 00:00 Introduction to The Making of a Coaching Tool 01:28 Guest Introduction and Strengths Coaching Overview 03:33 Personal Journey with Strengths Assessment 06:16 Development of the Strength Explorer Tool 12:07 Challenges and Refinements in Strengths Assessment 19:57 Current State of the Strength Explorer App 20:39 Condensing Assessments for Coaching 24:19 Integrating Strengths into Coaching Sessions 25:22 Exploring Strengths and Their Impact 35:07 Unrealized Strengths and Actions 41:39 Concluding Thoughts and Next Steps | |||
| Strengths Coaching with Taina Nicolicin: How Character Strengths transform Coaching Sessions | 23 mai 2025 | 00:41:38 | |
In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," Tobi from metaFox is joined by Taina Nicolicin to explore the development and application of the metaFox Strength Explorer, a tool designed for strengths assessment and feedback. Taina, a strengths coach, delves into the importance of strengths coaching and how psychometric tools like the Strength Explorer can enhance self-awareness and personal development. The episode includes a coaching demo where Taina uses Tobi's strengths report to illustrate how coaches can integrate strengths into their sessions, highlighting the dynamic nature of strengths and their impact on personal and professional growth. Key Learnings:
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| DISC Coaching Demo with Roel Schaart: Debriefing a DISC Assessment for Leadership Development | 16 mai 2025 | 01:02:11 | |
In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," ICF-certified Master Coach Roel Schaart debriefs the official DISC assessment, a tool frequently used in coaching to understand personality types and improve leadership styles. Roel coaches podcast host Tobi and shares insights on how the DISC model can be applied in coaching practices, highlighting its benefits and potential pitfalls. The conversation also touches on solution-focused coaching and how it can be integrated with DISC to enhance leadership development. Key Learnings:
Chapter Timeline [00:00] Introduction and context for using DISC in coaching [01:05] The 4 DISC styles explained in color and behavior terms [04:45] How Roel adjusts coaching pace and tone by DISC profile [07:18] Client reactions to DISC and avoiding the box trap [10:22] Using DISC and Motivators together to detect misalignment [13:40] Real-life coaching example with DISC report interpretation [19:00] Differences between adaptive vs. natural styles [27:00] Handling internal conflict: Speed vs. quality expectations [33:00] Motivator breakdown and ranking interpretation [38:00] Altruism, boundaries, and self-awareness in leadership [44:00] Using DISC in team and group coaching settings [52:00] Communication strategies based on color types [54:00] Final client reflection: From self-awareness to adaptation Resources
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| Becoming a Coach with Roel Schaart: From IT Nerd to Tony Robbins Coach and ICF Mastery | 09 mai 2025 | 00:59:54 | |
Roel Schaart, a seasoned Tony Robbins coach and Master Certified Coach (MCC) with the International Coaching Federation (ICF), shares his transformative journey from being an IT professional to becoming a renowned coach. Based in Germany and soon relocating to Cyprus, Roel discusses his experiences with Tony Robbins coaching and his current focus on solution-focused coaching. Throughout the episode, Roel emphasizes the importance of ICF certification and the impact of frameworks like the Wheel of Life and solution-focused coaching in his practice. Key Learnings:
[00:00] Intro & Roel’s typical clients [03:00] The LinkedIn photo and Roel’s transformation [06:00] Journey from IT nerd to internal coach [08:00] Working with Tony Robbins & the “hell week” mindset [12:00] What the Navy SEAL Crucible taught him about failure [17:00] Daily discomfort: cold showers, breathing, and mindset [22:00] Coaching congruence: appearance, ethics, and example [29:00] Leaving the Tony world & the shift in values [33:00] Coaching saturation, certification, and ethical blind spots [37:00] Continuous development and MCC practice [40:00] Observing what matters: identity vs. actions [44:00] Merging styles: Tony’s RPM & ICF markers [47:00] Final reflections on authenticity and staying coach-like Resources Mentioned
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| Becoming a Coach with Todd Roach: From Musician to Transformational Energy Work and Coaching | 02 mai 2025 | 00:44:36 | |
In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," we delve into the journey of Todd Roache, a UK-based practitioner specializing in energy work coaching and mentoring. Todd shares his transition from a musician to a coach, highlighting his experiences with the Animas Coach Academy and his unique approach to transformational coaching. The conversation explores Todd's diverse roles, including his private practice, corporate coaching, and his work as a Coach Development Facilitator. Listeners will gain insights into Todd's methods, including his use of energy work and his philosophy on pricing and client acquisition. Key Learnings:
Chapters & Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction to Reflective Spaces 01:02 – Transition to Coaching and Mentoring 03:55 – Todd’s Journey from Music to Mental Health 05:58 – Lessons from Working with Trauma Survivors 08:07 – Discovering Coaching through Animas 11:10 – Navigating Coach Education and Business Building 15:07 – Branching into Energy Work 17:12 – Teaching and Training at Animas 23:16 – Presence, Stage Comfort, and Authenticity 24:15 – Evolving Private Practice and Pricing 30:00 – Personal Retreats and Energy Sessions 32:32 – The Role of Supervision and Continuous Learning 34:00 – Advice for Aspiring Coaches 39:10 – Role Models and Inspiration 41:16 – Final Reflection and Closing Question Resources: Connect with Todd: https://www.toddroache.com/ Connect with Todd Roache on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/todd-roache-pcc-144b0a16b Animas Coaching School - https://www.animascoaching.com/ ICF PCC Accreditation - https://coachingfederation.org/credentials-and-standards/credentials-paths/pcc-credential Join our WhatsApp Community: https://metaFox.eu/community | |||
| Coaching Demo with Todd Roache: Navigating Inner Journeys and Energy Work | 25 avr. 2025 | 00:59:29 | |
In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," Todd Roache, a practitioner and coach from the UK demos his coaching and energy work with Tobi from metaFox. They explore the nuances of energy work and inner journeys. Todd shares his experiences and insights into how energy work can reveal deeper truths about one's self, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and the balance between light and dark. The conversation delves into the role of suffering in self-discovery and how coaches can support clients in navigating their inner journeys. Todd's unique approach combines traditional coaching with energy work, offering a holistic perspective on personal growth and transformation. Key Learnings:
0:00:00 – Teaser 0:00:46 – Introduction 0:02:04 – The Crossroads of Truth 0:02:27 – Navigating Inner Journeys 0:02:49 – Facing the Darkness Within 0:04:32 – The Role of Suffering in Self-Discovery 0:06:34 – The Practitioner’s Path 0:08:15 – The Balance of Light and Dark 0:09:18 – Client Relationships and Resonance 0:09:38 – Diverse Roles and Sanity 0:25:00 – Exploring Identity and Beliefs 0:34:00 – Awareness vs. Energy Work 0:35:21 – Practical Applications of Energy Work 0:38:00 – Combining Coaching and Energy Work Resources: Connect with Todd: https://www.toddroache.com/ Connect with Todd Roache on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/todd-roache-pcc-144b0a16b Owning Your Own Shadow by Robert A. Johnson: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2717298 The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself by Michael Robert Smith: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1963638.The_Untethered_Soul Animas Coaching School: https://www.animascoaching.com/ ICF PCC Accreditation: https://coachingfederation.org/credentials-and-standards/credentials-paths/pcc-credential Join our WhatsApp Community: https://metaFox.eu/community | |||
| Becoming a Coach with Kirsten Dierolf: From Language Teacher to Leading a Global Coaching Academy | 17 avr. 2025 | 01:03:39 | |
In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," Tobi from metaFox sits down with Kirsten Dierolf, a renowned businesswoman and thought leader in the coaching industry. Kirsten shares her journey from studying theology and teaching English to building a successful online coaching academy with over 6,000 graduates. The discussion delves into the importance of personalized coaching, the value of ICF and EMCC accreditations, and how coaching skills for managers can transform leadership practices. Kirsten also highlights the significance of creating a coaching culture within organizations and the role of reflective practice in coaching development. Key Learnings:
Chapters Intro & Teaser – 00:00:00 Exploring Personal Coaching Journeys – 00:01:50 Creating an Inclusive Training Environment – 00:09:00 Balancing ICF and EMCC Standards – 00:10:22 The Early Days: From Theology to Coaching – 00:11:01 Discovering Solution-Focused Coaching – 00:15:45 Building a Coaching Business – 00:20:05 Training Programs at Solutions Academy – 00:23:04 Joining Solutions Academy: What to Expect – 00:24:05 Course Structure and Community Engagement – 00:25:00 Innovative Tools and Techniques – 00:26:24 Global Diversity and Networking – 00:27:22 The Evolution of Coaching Training – 00:32:00 The Evolution of Solutions Academy – 00:33:00 Accreditation and Growth Strategies – 00:39:14 Marketing and Building Trust – 00:42:49 References & Resources Check out Solutions Academy: https://www.solutionsacademy.com/ Check out Solutions Academy on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SolutionsAcademy Check out this book for client relationships: The Trusted Advisor AI Coaching Feedback Tool - Ovida.IO Join our metaFox Community on WhatsApp - https://metaFox.eu/community ICF (International Coaching Federation) – https://coachingfederation.org EMCC (European Mentoring & Coaching Council) – https://www.emccglobal.org Insoo Kim Berg & Steve de Shazer – Pioneers of Solution-Focused Coaching | |||
| Coaching Demo with Kirsten Dierolf: Embracing Flexibility and Competence through Solution-Focused Coaching | 11 avr. 2025 | 00:54:56 | |
In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," we delve into the world of solution-focused coaching with Kirsten Dierolf, a renowned coach trainer and former president of ICF Germany. Based in Germany, Kirsten shares her insights on social constructivism and how it shapes her approach to coaching. Through a coaching demo, she illustrates the practical application of solution-focused and narrative coaching, emphasizing the importance of co-constructing realities with clients. Kirsten's unique perspective, influenced by her international background, offers a fresh take on collaborative coaching practices. Key Learnings:
Chapters 00:00 Introduction to a Lighter Coaching Philosophy 00:57 Guest Introduction: Kirsten and Her Coaching Philosophy 02:31 Kirsten's Coaching Journey and Early Influences 04:48 Intercultural Experiences and Social Constructivism 07:21 Exploring Social Constructivism in Coaching 11:39 Practical Applications of Social Constructivism 19:18 Different Coaching Approaches: Solution-Focused, Narrative, and Collaborative 24:03 Demo: Addressing Flexibility in Coaching 30:26 Balancing Leadership and Openness 31:56 The Miracle Question Technique 35:09 Embracing Playfulness and Learning 41:47 Applying Solution-Focused Coaching 46:09 The Philosophy Behind Coaching 53:31 Closing Thoughts and Future Insights References & Resources Books Mentioned Coaching Plain and Simple – Peter Szabo & Daniel Meier Solution Focused Team Coaching (New Edition) – Kirsten Dierolf et al. Meditations – René Descartes Works by Judith Butler, Heinz von Foerster, Paul Watzlawick, Ernst von Glasersfeld Links Learn more about Solutions Academy - https://www.solutionsacademy.com/ Get your coaching tools: https://www.metafox.eu Connect with Kirsten Dierolf - https://de.linkedin.com/in/kirstendierolf Story of the Chinese Farmer by Alan Watts - https://www.craftdeology.com/the-story-of-the-chinese-farmer-by-alan-watts/ | |||
| Coaching Demo with Kristen Harcourt: Mastering Emotional Intelligence with the EQ-i Assessment | 04 avr. 2025 | 00:48:08 | |
In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," Tobi from metaFox engages in a coaching demo with Kristen Harcourt, focusing on emotional intelligence coaching and the EQI assessment. Kristen, a seasoned coach, shares insights into her coaching practice, emphasizing the Co-Active Coaching model and its application in leadership development. The discussion delves into the importance of emotional intelligence in coaching, exploring frameworks like the EQI assessment and how they aid in understanding and improving leadership skills. Kristen also highlights the significance of self-awareness and self-management in coaching, providing a comprehensive look at her approach to fostering growth and transformation in leaders. Key Learnings:
You’ll also hear a live coaching demo between Kristen and Tobi, exploring how emotional intelligence shows up in both work and personal life—and how to take the first steps toward lasting growth. Chapters 00:00 The Power of Silence in Coaching 00:19 Transitioning to Leadership Roles 02:01 The Coaching Journey Begins 04:58 Introducing the Cove Coaching Model 10:42 Embracing Emotional Intelligence 15:59 The EQI 360 Assessment Process 23:24 Understanding the Impact of Personal and Professional Life on Assessments 24:50 Exploring the 15 Dimensions of the Model 25:58 Top Three Strengths: Emotional Expression, Social Responsibility, and Impulse Control 28:16 Challenges with Stress Tolerance and Coping Strategies 32:24 Developing New Approaches to Stress and Independence 37:06 The Coaching Process: Setting Goals and Creating Action Plans 42:14 Long-Term Coaching Commitment and Client Interaction 43:39 Final Thoughts on Coaching and Professional Growth References: The Co-Active Coaching Book: https://goodreads.com/book/show/12514436-co-active-coaching The EQ-i Assessment: https://eitrainingcompany.com/eq-i/ The metaFox Strengths Explorer: https://metaFox.eu/strengths | |||
| Becoming a Coach with Kristen Harcourt: Elevating Leadership through Emotional Intelligence | 28 mars 2025 | 00:50:01 | |
Kristen Harcourt, an executive coach and speaker from Toronto, joins "The Making of a Coach" to discuss her journey in becoming a coach. Kristen shares insights on how she built her coaching practice through podcasting and leveraging social media. She emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence coaching and leadership development, particularly for emerging leaders and senior executives. Kristen's approach integrates frameworks like EQ-i to help leaders identify and overcome their blind spots, enhancing their ability to lead with empathy and assertiveness. Key Learnings:
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Chapters 00:00 Advice to My Younger Self 00:35 Introduction to the Episode 01:13 Meet Kristen Harcourt 01:34 Challenges Faced by Leaders 03:34 Icebreaker Exercise 04:12 Kristen's Journey to Coaching 07:43 Taking the Leap of Faith 08:10 Building a Coaching Business 17:15 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence 22:36 Corporate vs. Private Coaching 26:58 Balancing Coaching Clients and Other Work 27:10 Managing Client Load and Scheduling 29:01 Private vs Corporate Practice Pricing 30:21 The Organic Growth of Clientele 32:38 The Passion Project: Starting a Podcast 35:06 Podcast Content Strategy and Impact 42:44 Social Media Strategies for Coaches 46:46 Advice for Aspiring Coaches 47:47 Final Thoughts and Reflections | |||
| Coaching Demo with Ebony Fagbuyi: Exploring the Wheel of Life for Personal Growth | 20 mars 2025 | 00:26:52 | |
In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," Tobi from metaFox engages in a coaching demo with Ebony Fagbuyi, focusing on the Wheel of Life, a fundamental coaching tool. Ebony, a seasoned coach, guides Tobi through a reflective process using the Wheel of Life to assess various life areas such as career, personal growth, and recreation. This episode provides listeners with insights into how the Wheel of Life can be used to facilitate client reflection and personal growth, making it a valuable addition to any coach's toolkit. Key Learnings:
Links & Resources Listen to the full podcast episode: https://open.spotify.com/show/7GLdVzbeIdKlVkG3yAiPsf Download the Wheel of Life Template: https://metafox.eu/wheel-of-life Learn more about metaFox: https://www.metafox.eu Connect with Ebony Fagbui: https://ebonyfagbuyi.com/ Get Ebony as your mentor for ICF Accreditation: linkedin.com/in/ebonyfagbuyi | |||
| Ebony Fagbuyi: Coaching Leaders in Collaboration with Top B2B Platforms | 14 mars 2025 | 00:56:58 | |
In this episode of "The Making of a Coach," Tobi from metaFox sits down with Ebony Fagbuyi, a leadership coach based in Berlin. Ebony shares her journey from working in customer support to becoming a coach for leaders in SMEs and large corporations. The discussion highlights the importance of finding the right environment for growth and the role of coaching service providers in connecting coaches with clients. Ebony also emphasizes the significance of emotional hygiene and the ability to hold space for clients, which are crucial skills for anyone looking to become a coach. Key Learnings:
Chapter Timeline [00:00:00] Introduction – Who is Ebony Fagbuyi? [00:02:00] Who Ebony coaches and how she finds clients [00:04:10] Coaching Providers – How platforms like Sharpist and BetterUp impact her business [00:07:31] Client journeys and common leadership challenges [00:10:30] Leadership struggles – How coaching helps leaders grow [00:13:55] Icebreaker: The picture that defines Ebony as a coach [00:17:04] Ebony’s career origins – Learning leadership in call centers [00:19:39] Jamba and the start of her coaching and training journey [00:24:50] Transition to Sony – Becoming a leader and facing leadership challenges [00:30:15] The impact of leadership values and key learning moments [00:35:40] ICF Accreditation – What it means for Ebony’s coaching approach [00:40:00] How leadership influences Ebony’s coaching philosophy Work with Ebony - for example as a mentor for your ICF accreditation: Ebony's website: https://ebonyfagbuyi.com/ Connect with her on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ebonyfagbuyi/ Coaching Providers Ebony mentions: NILO: https://nilohealth.com/ Sharpist: https://www.sharpist.com/ BetterUp: https://www.betterup.com/ CoachHub: https://coachhub.com Find out more about metaFox Coaching Tools: https://metafox.eu | |||