In this compelling episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell sits down with Tom and Sanja Hendrick, co-directors of a thriving speaking and communication training business, to explore their remarkable journey from direct competitors to life and business partners. Their story reveals how authentic vulnerability, strategic communication, and calculated trust-building can transform potential rivalry into extraordinary collaboration.

Key Takeaways

Strategic vulnerability accelerates relationship building - When time is critical, having structured conversations about non-negotiables, values, and expectations can compress years of relationship development into weeks

Communication frameworks enable difficult conversations - Establishing clear protocols like "hear my heart" and "let me talk in draft" creates safe spaces for honest dialogue without defensive reactions

Complementary strengths multiply impact - Fast thinkers and slow thinkers, makers and managers, visionaries and analysts can achieve more together than either could alone when roles are clearly defined

Healthy conflict drives innovation - Teams that challenge each other appropriately create better outcomes than those that avoid all disagreement; conflict becomes a feature, not a bug

Test and trust methodology builds solid foundations - Early testing of assumptions, difficult conversations, and collaborative models, followed by daily choices to trust the process, creates sustainable partnerships

Audience-centric communication trumps speaker-centric approaches - Like basketball players who don't look at the ball while dribbling, skilled leaders focus on reading their audience rather than perfecting their delivery

Clear lane delineation prevents co-leadership chaos - Understanding personality profiles, work styles, and natural strengths allows co-directors to operate efficiently without stepping on each other's toes

Pressure can create diamonds in relationships - High-stakes situations with time constraints can accelerate trust-building and reveal character more quickly than extended courtship periods

Episode Timeline

00:00 Introduction and the serendipitous meeting at a networking workshop

08:30 Tom's journey from mumbling teenager to tax lawyer to public speaking entrepreneur

15:40 The COVID crisis, business closure, and fertility challenges that created urgency

20:15 Strategic conversations that built trust rapidly - both personal and professional

28:45 The "hear my heart" communication protocol and other relationship frameworks

35:20 How Yin and Yang personalities complement each other in leadership

42:10 Managing teams with different work styles - makers vs. managers

48:30 Final advice on audience-centric communication and the test-and-trust methodology

Featured Discussion

Tom and Sanja Hendrick's story defies conventional wisdom about competitor relationships and business partnerships. When COVID-19 threatened to shut down Sanja's 12-year-old speaking training business, a chance encounter with her "direct competitor", Tom, at a networking workshop led to an extraordinary collaboration. Their approach to rapid trust-building through structured, vulnerable conversations offers a masterclass in authentic leadership communication.

From Tom's early confidence-building journey with radio mentor Hal Bannister to Sanja's theatre background and fertility challenges, their individual stories shaped complementary leadership styles. Tom's analytical, slow-thinking approach to decision-making perfectly balances Sanja's intuitive, fast-thinking crisis management skills. Their success demonstrates how clear communication protocols, defined roles, and mutual respect can transform potential conflict into collaborative advantage.

Quotable Moments

"No one should go through this alone" - Tom's support during Sanja's IVF journey

"Collaborate, don't compete" - The foundational principle that guided their partnership

"Communication can time compress five years into five minutes sometimes" - On the power of strategic conversations

"Everything's possible, everything's achievable - it just comes down to people" - Tom on the fundamentals of success

"Healthy conflict is a feature, not a bug of good teams" - On the value of constructive disagreement

"If they're all doing their job, they'll all annoy the heck out of each other" - Describing functional team dynamics

"Test and trust - testing assumptions early and then choosing to trust daily" - Sanja's advice for collaboration

"Vulnerability is an absolute strength, not a weakness" - Reframing perceived soft skills

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell sits down with Jude Henshall, former professional actor turned creative technology producer, to explore the intersection of innovation, storytelling, and authentic leadership. Jude reveals how her journey from the theatrical stage to cutting-edge creative technology projects has shaped her unique approach to leading through uncertainty and calculated risk-taking. The conversation delves deep into the art of collaborative leadership, the power of walking away from projects that have outgrown you, and why embracing the mindset that "everything's possible" is essential for driving meaningful innovation in today's rapidly changing world.

Key Takeaways

Innovation requires calculated courage - True innovation isn't about fearless leaping; it's about thorough risk assessment, stakeholder alignment, and strategic planning that transforms uncertainty into opportunity

Ownership is an illusion in creative leadership - The most profound projects become public goods; great leaders create lasting impact by building works that transcend individual ownership

Collaborative problem-solving multiplies success - Breaking down silos and encouraging cross-functional thinking creates outcomes that exceed what any individual contributor could achieve alone

Clear vision anchors team motivation - Leaders who can connect daily tasks to overarching meaning and community impact inspire teams to move from competence to excellence

Failure contains valuable intelligence - Even ventures that don't survive provide critical learning experiences and validation that can influence broader industry innovation

Risk mitigation enables bold action - Identifying every potential failure point and planning contingencies transforms intimidating projects into manageable strategic initiatives

Relationships are the foundation of innovation - Complex creative technology projects succeed or fail based on the quality of human connections and communication within the team

Uncertainty is the new normal - Effective leaders acknowledge collective anxiety about climate, politics, and social change while fostering hope through creative action

Creating heals communities - Arts, technology, and storytelling serve as powerful tools for processing trauma, building connection, and inspiring positive change

Future generations hold transformative potential - Young leaders bring profound wisdom and courage that can guide society through current challenges toward hopeful futures

Episode Timeline

00:00 Introduction to Jude Henshall's journey from actor to innovation leader

08:30 The evolution from live theatre to permanent digital storytelling

16:40 Deep dive into the Ediacaran fossil animation project in the Flinders Ranges

25:10 Learning to walk away from projects and embrace collaborative ownership

28:50 The startup experience: from big data dreams to federal competition

35:20 Risk assessment frameworks for high-stakes creative technology projects

42:10 Building teams that thrive on shared vision and mutual support

48:30 Leading through uncertainty while maintaining hope and purpose

Featured Discussion

Jude Henshall brings a rare perspective to innovation leadership, combining theatrical storytelling expertise with cutting-edge creative technology experience. From training AI robots to speak authentically to creating immersive museum experiences in remote locations, Jude has mastered the art of making the impossible possible through meticulous planning and collaborative leadership. Her work spans from intimate theatre productions to large-scale public installations, including a groundbreaking project that brings 550-million-year-old Ediacaran fossils to life through projection mapping and visual effects. Jude's leadership philosophy centers on calculated risk-taking, transparent communication about potential failures, and the profound impact that comes from creating works that serve the greater good rather than individual achievement.

Quotable Moments

"Innovation is a huge gift - we couldn't have thought it was possible even 10 years ago"

"We don't own anything really, do we? Works of scale like this really get handed over to the public"

"Everything's possible, everything's achievable - it just comes down to people"

"Calculated risk is a really healthy, excellent way of moving through uncomfortable spots"

"If I'm not clear about what we're trying to achieve, then you're a bit lost - why are we doing all of this?"

"We all get to celebrate together rather than an individual hand-on-the-back slap"

"Risk doesn't sit with someone - it can be objectified and viewed analytically as something outside of ourselves"

"We're often battling similar things and they tend to pop up in cycles - we don't own the idea all by ourselves"

"Creating can heal - we continue to do these activities to understand ourselves and our environment"

"The future will be in good hands - it's up to us to continue to shepherd them in"

This episode provides essential insights for leaders navigating innovation in uncertain times, offering practical frameworks for risk assessment, team collaboration, and maintaining hope while driving meaningful change. Jude's unique blend of creative storytelling and technology leadership offers valuable lessons for transforming bold visions into lasting public impact through authentic, values-driven leadership.

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In this thought-provoking episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell engages with psychologist and chief difference maker Bram Lagrou in a candid conversation about effective communication in leadership. With 20 years of experience working in 18 countries, Bram shares valuable insights on how understanding communication styles can transform workplace dynamics and create safer, more productive environments.

Key Takeaways

• The golden rule fails 75% of the time when it comes to communication
• Rigid thinking is one of the biggest barriers to effective communication
• The platinum rule encourages treating people the way they want to be treated
• DISC profiles provide a framework for understanding different communication styles
• Safety is essential for creating fertile ground for open communication
• Nonverbal cues offer valuable information that leaders often miss
• "Difficult people" can be our greatest teachers and reveal our own blind spots
• Leaders with a D style may create a "revolving door" due to their communication style
• Effective sales come from genuine connection, not pressure tactics
• Heart-centered leadership creates reciprocity in relationships

Episode Timeline

00:00 Introduction to Bram Lagrou

01:01 Initial discussion on DISC and Communication Mastery

03:51 Barriers to effective communication

06:11 How leaders can communicate with different styles

09:28 Creating safety in communication

11:38 The danger of playing the "blame game"

15:18 The motivation to change communication styles

19:04 Nonverbal communication in leadership

22:46 Seeing difficult people as opportunities

25:52 The heart as the power centre

27:00 Applying communication principles to sales

Featured Discussion Bram and Kate explore how communication styles can be understood through the DISC framework, comparing it to speaking different languages. They discuss how leaders often fall into the trap of communicating the way they prefer rather than adapting to their team members' needs.

Particularly insightful is their examination of safety in communication and how leaders' behaviours can either foster or hinder psychological safety. As Bram explains, "We need to create the right fertile ground for communication to be fruitful for everyone. Safety really, it's almost like water on plants and sunlight on plants, which means it makes people come alive."

The conversation highlights practical strategies for addressing communication challenges, from understanding nonverbal cues to reframing difficult interactions as growth opportunities. Both Kate and Bram candidly share examples of how rigid thinking leads to judgment and disconnection, while an open heart creates space for genuine connection.

Quotable Moments

• "If you cannot understand somebody in your head, and then you start labelling them and judging them, which means you're shutting your heart down to them... that is always a recipe for failure predictably in advance." - Bram Lagrou
• "I've come to see in life that difficult people, challenging people, people that do our head in... to me is opportunity. If we start looking at difficult people as our biggest teachers, there's suddenly a spiritual opportunity for us." - Bram Lagrou
• "Treat people the way they want to be treated. And yes, that means that you've got to take the next steps." - Bram Lagrou
• "It's not knowledge that is power. It's what you do with the knowledge, which means you got to apply it long enough so that you become really good at it." - Bram Lagrou
• "Communication, we need to create the right fertile ground for communication to be fruitful for everyone." - Bram Lagrou

This episode offers valuable insights for leaders seeking to improve their communication effectiveness and emphasises that creating connections requires understanding and adapting to different communication styles.

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In this thought-provoking episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell engages with communications expert Anneli Blundell in a candid conversation about gender bias in the workplace. As a specialist in creating humane, safe, and engaging work environments, Anneli shares valuable insights on how systemic barriers and cultural conditioning continue to shape workplace dynamics, even as we strive for equality.

Key Takeaways

• Awareness is the first step in addressing gender bias in the workplace
• Implicit bias has replaced explicit bias as the primary barrier to equality
• Cultural conditioning affects how both men and women perceive gender roles
• Women leaders face a "double bind" between being "ladylike" or "leaderlike"
• Creating equitable workplaces benefits everyone, not just women
• Quotas and targets help organizations stay focused on equality goals
• Confidence in women is often misinterpreted as arrogance
• Individual actions can contribute significantly to systemic change
• Both men and women need to engage in addressing gender bias
• Vulnerability in discussing personal biases creates space for change

Episode Timeline

00:00 Introduction and Workshop Changes

01:13 Creating Humane Workplaces

02:35 Understanding Systemic Gender Bias

04:58 From Explicit to Implicit Bias

06:31 Cultural Conditioning and Gender Norms

08:50 The Double Standards in Parenting

10:28 Awareness and Collective Responsibility

12:44 Strategies for Addressing Gender Bias

14:51 The Role of Quotas in Equality

19:21 Confidence and Competence in Women

22:45 Leadership Challenges for Women

25:55 Navigating the Double Bind

30:34 Creating Safe and Fair Workplaces

Featured Discussion

Anneli and Kate explore how gender bias has evolved from explicit discrimination to more subtle forms that are "not in our faces, just in our spaces." They discuss how men and women with identical qualifications and starting points often end up with vastly different career trajectories due to systemic barriers and inherited expectations.

Particularly insightful is their examination of the "double bind" women leaders face—being perceived as either too aggressive or too soft—and the extra cognitive load this creates. As Anneli explains, "Women are constantly asking: How do I need to play this? It's exhausting."

The conversation highlights practical strategies for addressing these challenges, from organizational approaches like implementing quotas to individual actions like questioning our own assumptions. Both Kate and Anneli candidly share personal examples of their own internalized biases, such as being surprised by female pilots, demonstrating that

awareness is an ongoing process for everyone.

Quotable Moments

• "It's not men against women, it's all of us against what we've inherited." - Anneli Blundell
• "If partners have children in the workplace, men are seen as more responsible when they have kids, and women are seen as less committed." - Anneli Blundell
• "Women aren't biologically less confident. They just learn how to display it less." - Anneli Blundell
• "To be leader like, you need to be strong and confident and decisive and bold... To be ladylike is to be supportive, helpful, humble, caring." - Anneli Blundell
• "Awareness is powerful." - Kate Russell

This episode offers valuable insights for leaders seeking to create more equitable workplaces and emphasises that addressing gender bias requires collective effort from people of all genders.

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, we've done something a little different... Instead of our usual format, we explore the world of performing arts and leadership through the eyes of actor Tom Russell. As both a professional actor and part of The Huddle team, Tom brings unique insights into how direction, team dynamics, and leadership principles in the arts can translate to any workplace environment. Host Kate Russell (Tom's mom) guides the conversation, uncovering valuable lessons from Tom's extensive experience on stage and screen since childhood.

Key Takeaways

• Clear Vision: Tom emphasises that good directors communicate their vision clearly, helping everyone understand the shared goal.
• Comfort Creates Excellence: People perform at their best when they feel comfortable and supported in their environment.
• Team Dynamics: Each project in the arts involves a unique team, requiring quick adaptation and relationship building.
• Collective Responsibility: Nurturing new team members shouldn't fall to one person but should be everyone's priority.
• Small Gestures Matter: Simple acts of inclusion like inviting someone to join for lunch can transform a new team member's experience.
• Clarity Prevents Problems: Vague directions like "do it better" create confusion and anxiety rather than improvement.
• Positive Reinforcement: People at all levels benefit from hearing what they're doing well, not just where they need to improve.
• Communication Adaptation: Effective leaders adjust their communication style to meet the needs of different team members.
• Supportive Environment: Teams that build connection around each other create more welcoming, productive spaces.
• Arts Industry Evolution: The conversation touches on how the industry has developed better practices for working with child actors.

Episode Timeline

• 00:00 Introduction to Tom Russell's acting background
• 01:31 What makes a good director: vision and communication
• 06:00 Communication styles and adapting to different actors
• 09:02 The importance of team dynamics in film projects
• 14:01 Experiences with different team environments
• 17:47 Nurturing new team members as a collective responsibility
• 22:21 Creating inclusive environments for newcomers
• 25:00 The power of clarity in communication
• 27:41 The value of positive reinforcement for everyone
• 31:03 Looking ahead to future discussions on "Yes And" philosophy

This episode offers valuable leadership insights through the unique lens of the performing arts. Tom's experiences working with various directors and teams highlight how clarity of vision, effective communication, and supportive environments are crucial in any leadership context. The conversation reveals how principles from film and theater productions can be applied to improve team dynamics and leadership effectiveness in any organisation.

The discussion challenges traditional leadership approaches by emphasising collective responsibility for team culture and highlighting how small gestures of inclusion can significantly impact performance and belonging. Tom's journey from child actor to adult performer demonstrates how respect, clear communication, and positive reinforcement create environments where people can do their best work.

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, we've done something a little different... Podcast producer, Tom Russell, steps into the role of the host and interviews Kate Russell, the founder and CEO of The Huddle, exploring her extensive experience in conflict management, leadership coaching, and workplace dynamics. Through candid conversation, Kate shares insights from her nine-year journey building The Huddle and discusses how the organisation has evolved to meet changing workplace needs, particularly during the COVID-19 pandemic.

Key Takeaways

• Leadership Evolution: Kate's approach emphasises empathy and coaching over control, fostering genuine growth in leaders.
• Conflict Management: Rather than viewing conflict as negative, Kate sees it as an opportunity for organisational and personal development.
• COVID Impact: The pandemic created unique challenges in workplace dynamics, leading to increased conflict management needs.
• Root Cause Focus: Kate emphasises the importance of addressing underlying issues rather than applying superficial solutions.
• Empathetic Leadership: The conversation highlights how vulnerability and empathy create safer, more productive work environments.
• Coaching Philosophy: Kate's transition to leadership coaching reflects her belief in empowering others to become better leaders.
• Organisational Culture: The Huddle's name and approach draw inspiration from sports team dynamics, emphasising support and collaboration.

Episode Timeline

• 00:00 Introduction to Kate Russell
• 02:55 The Huddle's Origins and Evolution
• 04:03 COVID's Impact on Workplace Conflict
• 05:35 Understanding Conflict as an Opportunity
• 07:57 Beyond Surface-Level Solutions
• 12:10 Conflict Management Strategies
• 17:01 Leadership Coaching Development
• 20:49 Impact of Effective Leadership
• 22:55 Identifying Strong Leadership
• 26:03 Empathy and Future Legacy

This episode offers valuable insights for leaders navigating workplace dynamics and conflict resolution. Kate's expertise reveals how embracing conflict as a growth opportunity, combined with empathetic leadership, can transform organisational culture and foster meaningful change.

The conversation challenges traditional views on conflict management while providing practical guidance for leaders seeking to create more supportive, understanding workplace environments. Kate's journey demonstrates how authentic leadership and genuine empathy can drive both personal and organisational success.

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell interviews Craig, the general manager of Kilic Engineering, about their innovative hiring practices and commitment to creating meaningful employment opportunities, particularly for ex-offenders. The conversation explores how the company has adapted its workplace culture and recruitment strategies while making a significant impact on both individual lives and the broader community.

Key Takeaways

• Workplace Culture: Kilic Engineering prioritises employee retention and satisfaction through a supportive, understanding environment.
• Innovative Recruitment: The company successfully adapted its hiring practices during COVID-19, finding creative solutions to workforce challenges.
• Ex-Offender Integration: Currently employing three ex-offenders, the company has seen significant success in providing second chances through stable employment.
• Team Dynamics: The workplace culture emphasises mutual support and understanding, leading to improved team relationships and productivity.
• Community Impact: Their hiring practices demonstrate the positive effects of giving employment opportunities to ex-offenders, contributing to reduced recidivism rates.
• Workplace Navigation: The company has developed effective strategies for integrating ex-offenders into the workforce while maintaining a positive team environment.
• Social Impact: Craig highlights the "win-win" nature of their hiring approach, benefiting both the company and individuals seeking a fresh start.

Episode Timeline

• 00:00 Introduction to Kilic Engineering
• 02:53 Employee Retention Strategies
• 06:01 COVID-19 Hiring Adaptations
• 08:56 Ex-Offender Employment Experience
• 11:50 Workplace Integration Challenges
• 15:01 Team Support Systems
• 18:02 Employment Stability Impact
• 20:55 Community Influence
• 24:00 Concluding Reflections

This episode provides valuable insights for businesses considering inclusive hiring practices and demonstrates how companies can successfully balance business needs with social responsibility. Craig's experiences show that giving second chances through employment can create positive outcomes for both organisations and individuals.

This conversation challenges traditional hiring perspectives while offering practical insights into creating inclusive workplaces and supporting community reintegration through meaningful employment opportunities.

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell speaks with Charli English, the 23-year-old CEO of Oak Tree, about her remarkable journey into leadership and her insights on youth-led organisations. From her early experiences in public service to her current role leading a youth-focused international development organisation, Charli shares valuable perspectives on leadership, organisational culture, and the unique value young leaders bring to the workplace.

Key Takeaways

• Early Leadership Experience: Starting in public service at 16, Charli developed crucial skills in conflict resolution and constituent advocacy that prepared her for future leadership roles.
• Crisis Management: Working in a Prime Minister's electorate office during COVID-19 provided intense experience in handling high-pressure situations and public interactions.
• Leadership Philosophy: Charli emphasises trust, work-life balance, and minimal micromanagement, shaped by both positive and negative experiences.
• Youth-Led Organisations: Oak Tree demonstrates the effectiveness of young leadership, with all staff and volunteers under 27 years old.
• Board Dynamics: Despite age differences, the organisation maintains open dialogue and values diverse perspectives across generations.
• Volunteer Management: Charli's approach focuses on creating meaningful experiences for volunteers while ensuring organisational sustainability.
• Young Leadership Value: She advocates for recognising young leaders' capabilities and the unique energy and innovation they bring to organisations.

Episode Timeline

• 00:00 Introduction and Early Career
• 09:55 Public Service Experience
• 20:02 Leadership Style Development
• 29:59 Young Leadership Advocacy

This episode offers valuable insights for organisations considering young leaders, current young leaders seeking validation and guidance, and anyone interested in the evolution of modern leadership approaches. Charli English's story demonstrates that effective leadership isn't about age but about capability, adaptability, and genuine commitment to organisational mission and team development.

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• Oaktree Website
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• Oaktree Instagram

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell engages in an illuminating conversation with Dr. Nick Tellis, a General Practitioner, about the comprehensive nature of health and wellness in both personal and professional contexts. Drawing from his extensive experience in general practice and preventive healthcare, Dr. Tellis shares insights into how good health encompasses physical, mental, and social well-being, while exploring the critical role of healthcare providers and employers in supporting overall wellness.

The discussion delves into the SNAP framework (Smoking, Nutrition, Alcohol, Physical activity, plus Loneliness) for optimizing health, the importance of consistent healthcare relationships, and the crucial role of GPs in mental health support. Dr. Tellis explains how the Australian healthcare system provides accessible mental health services while highlighting the importance of workplace wellness and leadership in supporting employee health.

Key Takeaways

• Holistic Health Definition: Understanding health as complete physical, mental, and social well-being, not merely the absence of disease.
• Preventive Healthcare: The SNAP framework provides a practical approach to maintaining good health through lifestyle choices.
• Healthcare Relationships: The value of maintaining a consistent relationship with a GP and medical practice for optimal health outcomes.
• Workplace Wellness: How employers can create supportive environments that promote employee health and well-being.
• Mental Health Support: The central role of GPs in providing mental health care and the importance of accessible support systems.

Resources

• Mental Health Support Line (South Australia): 13 14 65
• Health Direct: 24/7 nurse-staffed government health line
• Medicare Mental Health Care Plans
• GP-provided mental health services
• Urgent Care and Priority Care Centres

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This episode provides valuable insights for individuals seeking to optimize their health, employers looking to support employee wellness, and healthcare professionals working to maintain their own well-being while serving others. The discussion emphasizes Australia's robust healthcare system and the importance of proactive health management through established support networks.

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In this episode of The Huddles Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell engages in an insightful conversation with Andrew Carnegie, Director of the Carnegie Consulting Group, about strength-based leadership and its transformative impact on coaching and organizational development. Drawing from his background in clinical neuropsychology and positive psychology, Andrew shares how focusing on strengths rather than deficits can create more effective and sustainable leadership outcomes.

The discussion explores how strength-based approaches can revolutionize coaching and leadership development, particularly in handling conflict and managing feedback. Andrew explains how traditional deficit-focused methods can trigger defensive responses, while strength-based approaches unlock potential and motivate genuine growth.

Key Takeaways

• Strength-Based Leadership: Understanding how focusing on inherent strengths rather than weaknesses creates more effective development outcomes.
• Neurological Impact: Learn how deficit-focused feedback can trigger fight-or-flight responses, while strength-based approaches enhance learning and growth.
• 360-Degree Feedback: Discover innovative approaches to feedback that build rather than diminish confidence and motivation.
• Coaching Partnership: Explore how effective coaching creates supportive environments for sustainable leadership development.
• Stress Management: Understand how strengths can become limitations when overused under pressure.

Resources

• Connect with Andrew Carnegie at Carnegie Consulting Group
• Access the VIA Strengths Assessment tool mentioned in the episode
• Explore authentic leadership development programs

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell sits down with psychotherapist Kirrilly Falivene from The Inspired Mind to explore the complex dynamics of people pleasing and its impact on leadership and mental health. Drawing from her professional expertise and personal experience, Kirrilly shares valuable insights on recognizing people-pleasing patterns, understanding their connection to trauma, and developing healthier approaches to leadership and self-care.

The conversation examines how people-pleasing behaviours can lead to burnout, particularly among women juggling multiple responsibilities. Kirrilly offers practical strategies for recovery, emphasizing the importance of internal validation and boundary-setting. Through compelling examples and therapeutic insights, she illustrates how leaders can create supportive environments that encourage authentic communication and personal growth.

Key Takeaways

• Understanding People Pleasing: Learn how external validation-seeking and trauma responses shape people-pleasing behaviours.
• Signs of Burnout: Recognize key indicators including extreme fatigue, irritability, sleep disturbance, and loss of joy.
• Empathetic Leadership: Discover how curiosity and understanding can transform workplace dynamics and build trust.
• Recovery Strategies: Explore practical approaches to developing boundaries, self-awareness, and internal validation.
• Leadership Challenges: Understand how people pleasing affects leadership effectiveness and team dynamics.

Resources

• Connect with Kirrilly Falivene at The Inspired Mind for psychotherapy and leadership facilitation
• Explore people-pleasing recovery programs and empathetic communication training

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell sits down with Priya Robert and Mel Gibson, co-founders of PM Enrich, to explore the transformative power of referral networks in business. Drawing from their extensive experience, Priya and Mel share insights on building authentic relationships and leveraging strategic networking for business growth, particularly in the evolving post-COVID landscape.

The conversation delves into how businesses can cultivate meaningful partnerships, navigate networking events effectively, and create sustainable referral networks that benefit all parties involved. Through their personal experiences and professional expertise, the co-founders highlight the importance of curiosity, transparency, and goal-setting in networking endeavours.

Key Takeaways

• The Foundation of Referral Networks: Learn how PM Enrich's approach to relationship-building creates sustainable business growth.
• Post-COVID Networking Evolution: Discover how collaboration and networking dynamics have transformed since the pandemic.
• Strategic Networking Essentials: Understand the key elements of effective networking and relationship management.
• Partnership Power: Explore the benefits of having business partners and building supportive communities.

Resources and Links

• Connect with Priya Robert and Mel Gibson at PM Enrich here.
• Explore networking events and referral opportunities through PM Enrich's platform

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In this compelling episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell sits down with Matt Hyde, founder of Speakers Corner and accomplished actor, to explore the transformative power of communication and storytelling in leadership. Matt reveals how psychological, physical, and vocal "armour" that we develop over time creates barriers to authentic leadership and shares proven techniques from the acting world to help leaders strip away these protective barriers. The conversation delves deep into the art of quieting the "monkey mind," the strategic power of silence, and why emotional connection through storytelling is essential for effective leadership in today's corporate environment.

Key Takeaways

Armour affects authentic leadership - We all develop psychological, physical, and vocal armour from childhood that prevents us from communicating with confidence and authenticity

Core values anchor true power - Leaders who anchor themselves to their three core values communicate with unshakeable confidence, even in high-pressure situations

Less is more in communication - Verbose leaders often ramble from nerves; clarity comes from knowing what your audience needs to know, do, and feel

Silence creates a powerful connection - Real communication happens in the pauses; strategic silence allows profound responses to emerge

Stories reveal leadership character - Every number tells a story, and personal mini-stories demonstrate values in action, creating trust and followership

Peak state memories overcome anxiety - Priming yourself with moments when you "smashed it" counters the monkey mind's negative self-chatter

Emotion makes data memorable - We are feeling human beings who think, not thinking beings who feel; emotion transforms dry information into compelling communication

Vulnerability enables authentic authority - True leadership power comes from allowing yourself to be seen, not from maintaining protective barriers

Storytelling is a hardwired human connection - We naturally respond to narrative structure; great leaders use stories to inspire, connect, and drive change

Breathing from your core transforms presence - Diaphragmatic breathing creates vocal power and physical confidence that commands attention

Episode Timeline

00:00 Introduction to Matt Hyde and Speakers Corner

02:50 Understanding psychological and physical armour in leadership

05:57 Drama school techniques for stripping away protective barriers

09:11 The role of authenticity versus performative leadership

12:07 Anchoring to core values for unshakeable confidence

15:00 Techniques for quieting the monkey mind and negative self-chatter

18:05 The strategic art of speaking less and embracing silence

20:56 The transformative impact of storytelling in corporate leadership

23:59 Creating emotional connection through mini-stories and vulnerability

27:13 The critical importance of arts and human connection in leadership

Featured Discussion

Matt Hyde brings a unique perspective to leadership communication, combining two decades of acting expertise with practical corporate training experience. From working with Olympic athletes to training the London Metropolitan Police, Matt has witnessed firsthand how communication under pressure can either create safety or cause trauma. His approach focuses on identifying and dismantling the "armour" we've built up since childhood - those protective mechanisms that actually prevent us from leading with authenticity and power. Matt's framework reveals how leaders can transform from armoured presenters into compelling storytellers who inspire genuine followership through vulnerability, values-based decision making, and emotional intelligence.

Quotable Moments

"Fear is the biggest handbrake to achieving our goals"

"We all develop armour - psychological, physical, and vocal - that we've built up over years"

"Real communication happens in a silence"

"Less is more - don't go for the obvious, go for the subtlety"

"We are feeling human beings that think, not thinking human beings that feel"

"True power comes from our values - no one and nothing can take those away from you"

"If you don't look or sound confident, why would we have confidence in what you've got to say?"

"Stories change lives - the right story at the right time can change the world"

"Unless you've been living under a rock, you qualify to tell a story"

"We're starved of genuine human connection - that's why when it happens, it's so profound"

This episode provides essential insights for leaders seeking to develop authentic communication skills, overcome speaking anxiety, and harness the power of storytelling to create deeper connections with their teams. Matt's unique blend of theatrical training and corporate expertise offers practical tools for transforming from armoured communication into vulnerable, values-driven leadership that inspires genuine followership.

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell chats with Stephen Woods, founder and director of Employee Wellness Australia. Stephen shares his unique journey from being an electrician in Glasgow to leading a groundbreaking employee wellness initiative in Australia. Through his personal and professional experiences, Stephen highlights the importance of holistic wellness in the workplace, addressing challenges like retention, stress, and team engagement.

He also introduces innovative approaches like gamifying wellness programs, creating meaningful engagement challenges, and building a people-first culture that fosters retention and collaboration. Whether you're a leader aiming to inspire your team or an HR professional looking to improve employee well-being, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you create a thriving workplace.

• Why Employee Wellness is a Leadership Priority: Discover how a people-first approach improves retention, culture, and team performance.
• Gamification That Works: Learn how gamified challenges increase engagement and transform workplace dynamics.
• Beyond the Workshop: Building Sustainable Wellness Programs: Understand why workshops are only the beginning and how ongoing support drives results.
• The Third Space: Balancing Work and Life: Explore strategies for leaders and employees to transition smoothly between work and home life.

• Connect with Stephen Woods and learn about Employee Wellness Australia here.
• Recommended: The Third Space by Dr. Adam Fraser

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell welcomes Melissa Whitrow, Manager of Library Services at Barossa Council. Melissa shares her inspiring journey from an academic career in public health to her leadership role in libraries. With candid reflections, she discusses the transformative power of grassroots initiatives, the role libraries play in fostering connection, and what leaders can learn from the inclusivity and adaptability of library spaces. Melissa also delves into the challenges of leadership, and offers powerful insights into creating safe, welcoming environments that empower individuals and communities alike.

Stick around until the end to hear how Melissa’s work in libraries is reshaping her community and why she believes libraries are the ultimate space for growth, learning, and connection.

How libraries act as community hubs: Discover how libraries offer connection, belonging, and access to vital resources.

What leaders can learn from grassroots models: Explore the impact of empowering teams and communities through trust and adaptability.

Why boundaries are essential for leadership: Learn how setting clear boundaries fosters resilience and protects well-being.

The leadership lessons behind the shelves: Understand how libraries teach patience, humanity, and the value of meeting people where they are.

• Barossa Council Library Services
• Libraries SA
• Episode 32 of The Huddle Leadership Podcast (on resilience and boundaries)

This episode is a must-listen for leaders seeking inspiration on creating people-centered environments and fostering true connection.

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In this inspiring episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell sits down with Paralympic gold medalist Jed Altschwager to explore the journey beyond the podium. Jed shares his transition from elite athlete to leadership roles, reflecting on how the discipline, resilience, and joy cultivated in sport translate to meaningful leadership. From grounding himself under pressure to celebrating success with authenticity, Jed’s story is a testament to the power of persistence, self-awareness, and community.

Whether you're navigating a major career shift or seeking more joy and connection in leadership, Jed’s insights will leave you inspired to embrace growth, celebrate achievements, and lead with purpose.

Key Takeaways

• How the Joy of Leadership Is Found in Connection and Authenticity
• Jed discusses creating safe, supportive environments as the key to successful teams.
• What Paralympic Racing Teaches About Staying Grounded Under Pressure
• Hear Jed’s strategies for managing mental chatter, trusting the process, and performing under intense scrutiny.
• Why Celebrating Success Matters for Building Confidence and Team Spirit
• Explore how to own your achievements and let go of the fear of judgment.
• The Importance of Leading with Joy and Purpose in Every Chapter of Life
• Learn how Jed transitioned to new roles while maintaining energy, passion, and a growth mindset.

Resources Mentioned

• South Australian Sports Institute (SASI) – Explore para-sport talent development opportunities.

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, Kate Russell sits down with Anne Andrews, to explore the unique challenges and opportunities of leading in one of Australia’s most remote regions. Anne shares her insights on balancing professional and personal presence, building resilience during seasonal isolation, and empowering teams to see their roles as vital contributions to the community. From managing cultural diversity to addressing housing shortages, Anne’s leadership is a masterclass in authenticity, empathy, and strategic impact.

This episode is a must-listen for leaders looking to inspire and strengthen their teams while creating meaningful change in their communities.

Key Takeaways:

• How to lead authentically in remote communities: Why being visible, approachable, and consistent matters.
• What resilience looks like during isolation: Strategies for supporting mental health and minimizing social isolation.
• Why every team member is a leader: Empowering individuals to recognize their value and impact.
• How to transform workplace culture: Moving from gossip to growth by modeling positive communication.

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In this powerful episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, Kate Russell is joined by psychologist Ishma Alvi to explore how trauma and neurodiversity manifest in the workplace and what leaders can do to foster environments of equity and empathy. Together, they dive into the crucial differences between equality and equity and share practical steps for creating inclusive workplaces that truly support all employees.

Ishma shares actionable insights on building empathetic cultures through storytelling, transparent communication, and leadership-led vulnerability. This episode is a must-listen for leaders seeking to inspire their teams while addressing the unseen challenges their people may face.

Key Takeaways:

• What trauma looks like in the workplace: Recognize the emotional, cognitive, and relational signs.
• Why equity matters more than equality: Understand how fairness creates inclusive environments.
• How empathy transforms leadership: Discover how storytelling can dismantle defensive mindsets.
• What leaders can do to support neurodiverse teams: Tailored strategies for individual strengths.

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell sits down with Erin Fairman, Chief Play Officer at Lead with Play, to explore the world of purposeful play in leadership and team dynamics. Erin introduces the concept of "serious play"—a technique that uses playful approaches for real workplace breakthroughs. They discuss the many benefits of adult play, from building resilience to fostering creativity and connection. Erin shares her journey to becoming a play advocate and offers actionable insights on how leaders can introduce purposeful play to their teams to promote wellbeing and innovation. Get ready to rethink what it means to "play" as an adult and discover how even small, intentional shifts can help your team thrive.

Conversations That Work Event - Nov 19th.

Key Takeaways:

• Why play isn’t just for kids: Discover how play strengthens creativity, resilience, and team connection.
• How to introduce purposeful play at work: Ideas for incorporating “serious play” like the Marshmallow Challenge or walk-and-talk meetings.
• What play style suits you best? Learn about Dr. Stuart Brown’s eight adult play styles and how to tap into yours for better work-life balance.

Resources Mentioned:

• Dr. Stuart Brown’s Adult Play Styles: Learn more about the eight unique play styles to find your own.

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell dives deep into crisis management with Craig Goldberg, CEO of Battleground, a consultancy focused on crisis resilience. Craig introduces the "PRIZE" formula (People, Reputation, Information, Site, and External) as a framework for identifying and managing crises. From sudden executive departures to cyber attacks, Craig shares real-world strategies and compelling stories to illustrate the importance of preparedness. He also emphasizes the role of core and extended teams in crisis situations and why certain leadership skills shine in emergencies, not just in business-as-usual contexts. Tune in to discover how to build crisis-fit teams that can adapt to any challenge, large or small.

Conversations That Work Event - 19th Nov

Key Takeaways:

• Why a crisis-ready team is essential: Learn who to have on your team and why CEOs aren’t always the best crisis leaders.
• How the PRIZE formula works: Unpack Craig’s PRIZE acronym to handle crises effectively.
• Why testing is crucial: Discover why regular testing and crisis “fitness” can make or break an organisation.
• What to communicate and when: Tips for maintaining transparency without fuelling rumours or reputation damage.

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Jason Ardler, co-founder and director of Thirriwirri, discusses his role as chair of the National Indigenous Australians Agency, Indigenous Evaluation Committee and the work they do to improve the quality and credibility of evaluations in Indigenous affairs programs. He also talks about Thirriwirri's mission to support Aboriginal leadership and build confidence, capability, and connections. They also discuss the importance of separating cultural issues from leadership issues.

You'll also hear:

• why it is crucial to understand the difference between dignity and respect
• how to seperate leadership issues from cultural issues
• what creating meaningful connections does for workplace cohesion... and so much more!

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TEDx Speaker and Director of Agile Mind, Amanda Goodfellow, helps corporate leaders manage stress with mindfulness. In this episode of The Huddle Leadership podcast, Kate and Amanda explore the challenges of implementing wellbeing programs in the workplace and the importance of group practice. The conversation delves into the impact of mindfulness on workplace productivity and the value of emotional wellbeing.

You'll also hear about:

• why emotional wellbeing in the workplace requires an individualised approach
• what group practice does for building resilience in the workplace
• how to create a safe and supportive environment for addressing addictive behaviours
• what mindfulness does to help us navigate life's complexities... and so much more!

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In this conversation, Jodi Glass, a non-executive director and chairperson, shares insights on the differences between being a CEO and sitting on a board, the challenges faced by CEOs, the importance of purpose and vision, and the role of the board in supporting CEOs. The conversation also touches on the complexities of working with boards, the need for effective communication, and the impact of crises on decision-making and organizational performance.

You'll also hear:

• How the weight of responsibility differs for CEOs and board members
• Why effective communication and active listening are crucial for building trust and understanding between CEOs and boards
• The one thing that is fundamental for guiding decision-making and prioritisation within an organisation
• Why crises present an opportunity for reflection and improvement, and how seeking fresh perspectives is essential for effective crisis management

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell welcomes Leah Fogarty, performance psychologist, who explores the psychology behind peak performance and reveals how fear becomes our biggest barrier to success. Leah shares transformative insights on reframing failure, building trust, and developing emotional intelligence that can revolutionise performance in both sporting and corporate environments.

Key Takeaways

Fear management is fundamental to performance - Fear acts as the biggest handbrake to achieving our goals, but making friends with fear transforms it from enemy to ally

Reframing failure accelerates growth - Viewing failure as a learning opportunity rather than defeat creates resilience and continuous improvement

Curiosity beats judgment in feedback - Approaching performance reviews and mistakes with "what happened?" instead of criticism leads to breakthrough insights

Emotional intelligence drives high-pressure success - Managing emotional responses in critical moments separates good performers from great ones

Selective opinion filtering protects mental performance - Identifying whose opinions truly matter shields you from destructive external noise

Trust is the foundation of team performance - Teams with deep trust anticipate, support, and elevate each other's performance naturally

Vulnerability enables accountability - Leaders who show vulnerability create environments where team members take ownership and responsibility

Connection creates emotional safety - Performance thrives when individuals feel psychologically safe to take risks and be authentic

Fun environments reduce performance anxiety - Creating enjoyable atmospheres naturally diminishes fear of failure and enhances creativity

Feedback prevents negative narratives - Regular, constructive feedback stops destructive internal stories from taking root and damaging confidence

Episode Timeline

00:00 Introduction to performance psychology and overcoming barriers

03:00 Understanding the role of a performance psychologist in various settings

06:00 The impact of fear and anxiety on performance across sports and corporate environments

08:56 Reframing failure: introducing the three F's framework for growth

12:08 Applying psychological principles in corporate settings and leadership

19:10 The power of curiosity and present-moment awareness

20:06 Emotional intelligence strategies for high-pressure situations

22:01 Identifying whose opinions matter: filtering external criticism

24:43 Building trust within teams and organisations

26:42 The science of trust and interpersonal connection

29:38 Accountability and vulnerability in effective leadership

30:51 The importance of feedback and validation in team dynamics

Featured Discussion

Leah Fogarty brings a unique perspective to performance psychology, working across both athletic and corporate environments to help individuals and teams unlock their potential. She reveals how fear operates as the primary barrier to peak performance and shares practical strategies for transforming that fear into fuel for growth. Her approach emphasises the critical role of emotional safety, trust-building, and reframing failure as essential components of high-performance environments. Leah demonstrates how the principles that drive sporting excellence translate directly to corporate leadership, offering listeners actionable insights for managing pressure, building resilient teams, and creating cultures of continuous improvement.

Quotable Moments

"Fear is the biggest handbrake."

"We need to make friends with fear."

"Remain curious instead of judgmental."

"Be curious, not judgmental."

"Whose opinion of you really matters?"

"We might have to get you back on."

This episode provides essential insights for leaders, coaches, and high performers seeking to break through psychological barriers and create environments where individuals and teams can thrive under pressure. Leah's expertise in both sports and corporate psychology offers listeners practical tools for managing fear, building trust, and developing the emotional intelligence necessary for sustained high performance in any challenging environment.

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In this podcast episode Kate talks with Jodie Atkinson, a Grief Recovery Specialist, about the diverse manifestations of grief and the importance of empathetic support in workplaces. We also learn about why leaders should avoid clichéd responses and how to offer a range of support options with compassionate communication and understanding to help individuals and teams navigate grief.

You'll also hear:

• what to say to someone who is grieving
• why avoidance is not the answer
• grief in the context of workplace changes
• how to move forward with grief.... and so much more!

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In this podcast episode Kate chats with Wala Truscott, Intimate Relationship Expert, now you might be thinking what does that have to do with leadership? Well, a lot! Listen in to find out how to create safe spaces for difficult conversations to occur and the importance of developing skills to navigate these conversations effectively in leadership. We also learn that when we as leaders can communicate with directness, integrity, and honesty as well as an open-heart we create safety that allows our teams or workplaces to thrive!

You'll also hear:

• how to have integrity when assigning projects or asking questions
• what the difference is between obligation and genuine interest
• why language can shape power dynamics
• what owning your needs does for workplaces (and intimate relationships).... and so much more!

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Have you ever considered that knowing and understanding the different personality styles in your team or workplace can give you an added advantage? In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast we chat to The Personality Coach, Kate Mason about how considering personality styles when implementing changes and providing support tailored to different preferences can create more harmony and better communication within workplaces.

You'll also hear:

• the role personality style plays in communication challenges and workplace dynamics
• why identifying strengths and weaknesses is useful
• how to recognise and overcome biases in workplace interactions
• how personality types adds a lens to perceptive unfairness.... and so much more!

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell chats with mental health and wellbeing expert, Bel Ryan. Listen as they discuss how leadership plays a crucial role in fostering a mentally healthy workplace and what three keys you can use to address poor behaviour.

You'll also hear:

• how to feel confident giving feedback in a caring way
• why delegating leadership responsibilities to HR leads to disaster
• how to inspire employees to feel valued, motivated and supported
• what you can do to avoid blame culture in the workplace... and so much more!

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Anisa Varasteh, Director at Relate Training Institute, is helping workplaces become more psychologically safe. Listen as Kate and Anisa discuss the new law mandates and changes in legislation, and what you can do as a company or business to take a proactive approach to preventing sexual harassment in the workplace.

You'll also hear:

• how to identify and mitigate psychological hazards
• the importance of setting boundaries and clear expectations
• what constitutes harassment and how to provide support
• how to respond to allegations in a nuanced manner... and so much more!

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Out-of-the-box thinking is what sets exceptional leaders apart, so what can we learn about leadership from the performing arts? In this episode of The Huddle Leadership podcast, Kate chats with Artistic Director of The StateTheatre Company of South Australia, Mitchell Butel. Listen as they discuss collaboration, creativity, and conflict resolution, as well as how to manage time pressure whilst building trust among team members.

You'll also hear:

• the complexities of leadership in theatre and finding common ground
• why building a successful team is *not* just about talent
• what serving the long-term vision of a company does for your leadership and reputation
• the role innovation plays in being an exceptional leader... and so much more!

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Listen as Tamie Durdin shares the leadership lessons she learned from her stellar golf career, emphasizing the value of mental preparation, practice, and mindset in managing pressure to achieve peak performance. She also discussed the psychological pressures of professional golf and the importance of embracing imperfections to overcome pressure and achieve success. 

You'll also hear:

• how calmness in elite athletes comes from technical tidiness and mental control
• decision making and discipline are critical for exceptional leadership
• the unique lens Tamie views feedback through
• the role acceptance plays in your success.. and so much more!

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This conversation with Michelle De Heiden centered around the low representation of women in high performance coaching roles in Australia, listen as Kate and Michelle discuss creating an environment where women feel safe to fail and experiment with new approaches in leadership development. Press play to hear how we are advancing women in sports leadership in Australia.

You'll also hear:

• how Australia is increasing gender diversity in high performance sport
• the factors influencing women in high performance sport
• what programs are enhancing women's coaching
• why storytelling is playing such a pivotal role to address gender equity issues... and so much more!

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership podcast, Kate talks to Véronique Richard who highlights the power of embodiment and movement in enhancing cognition, particularly in the context of creativity. If you're wanting peak performance in any area of your life, listen as Véronique shares with us the cutting-edge research on optimising mental skills and how using constraints to challenge stability actually encourages creative problem solving.

You'll also hear:

• how doing movement on an on-going basis helps develop skills over time
• what you can do to overcome the challenge of repetitive tasks
• how you can use movement activities to foster openness
• why challenging your habits and routines can make you a better leader... and so much more!

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Jed Altschwager lost his leg in a workplace accident in 2015, this experience taught him the power of forgiveness, gratitude and resilience in the face of adversity. Listen as Kate chats with Jed about his journey to becoming an elite athlete and Paralympian and the importance of daily practice and perseverance within that process.

You'll also hear:

• how Jed stayed positive after his life-altering injury
• why physical and mental wellbeing go hand in hand
• how to help yourself let go of negative emotions
• why finding forgiveness actually benefits you... and so much more!

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell welcomes Dr. Ben Robbins, high-performance psychologist at Essendon Football Club, who shares his remarkable transformation from AFL player to mental health advocate, revealing how elite sports psychology principles can revolutionise leadership and performance in any high-pressure environment.

Key Takeaways

• Mental training is as crucial as physical training - Just like lifting weights builds muscle, practising pressure management builds psychological resilience
• Present-moment focus prevents performance breakdowns - Getting stuck on mistakes takes you away from what needs to happen next
• Emotional regulation requires deliberate practice - Moving past perceived injustices quickly is essential when the game (or business) keeps moving
• Attention control is a trainable skill - In our distracted world, knowing where to direct your focus is a competitive advantage
• Curiosity beats criticism for performance improvement - Asking "what happened?" instead of self-blame leads to better solutions
• Feedback culture accelerates team development - Elite sports environments excel at continuous improvement through constant, constructive feedback
• Connection builds trust and team performance - When team members know each other deeply, they anticipate and support each other better
• Young people adapt faster to feedback-rich environments - 18-year-old athletes often handle performance reviews better than seasoned executives
• Whose opinion matters most - Filtering external noise by focusing only on feedback from people who truly matter to your success
• Psychological support isn't weakness, it's performance optimisation - High performers need safe spaces to process pressure and maintain mental health

Episode Timeline

00:00 Introduction to high-performance psychology and Ben's background

01:52 A day in the life of a sports psychologist at AFL level

05:05 Managing pressure and performance: mental training fundamentals

09:07 Emotional regulation techniques for high-stakes environments

12:01 Coping with rejection: being dropped and career transitions

14:03 Mental health challenges and social media impact on young athletes

15:57 Building team dynamics, trust, and connection in competitive environments

20:01 Feedback culture: why sports teams excel where corporate teams struggle

24:03 Transferring sports psychology principles to corporate and blue-collar settings

27:00 Attention control and emotional regulation techniques for everyday application

Featured Discussion Dr. Robbins reveals the stark contrast between his playing days (zero psychological support in 10 years) and modern AFL environments where mental health and performance coaching are integral. He explains how elite athletes train their minds, such as muscles, and develop skills in pressure management, emotional regulation, and attention control that directly translate to corporate leadership. His work extends beyond sport into high-risk industries where focus and concentration can be matters of life and death, demonstrating the universal application of sports psychology principles.

Quotable Moments

• "You go into the gym, you lift weights, you get stronger... If we want to improve our ability to manage pressure, the inevitable pressure, manage adversity... You cannot get bogged down in a mistake because it takes you away from what has to happen next."
• "It's a skill to focus and pay attention. So it's got to be trained... we call it attention control, shifting your attention from wherever it is to where you want it to be."
• "Everyone's vying for your attention. That's the currency of sort of the modern world: attention. And so, where's yours going? Who's getting it? Do you want that thing to get it?"
• "Sometimes you just need somebody to talk to. Who's not gonna judge you? And so that's honestly a very big part of my role."
• "It's more than a bit lonely at times... Sometimes you just need somebody to talk to."
• "The team lives and dies by it, really" - on the power of feedback culture in high-performance environments

This episode offers invaluable insights for any leader operating under pressure, from managing emotional responses during critical decisions to building resilient, connected teams. Dr. Robbins' unique perspective - having experienced both sides as player and psychologist - provides listeners with proven strategies for mental performance optimisation that extend far beyond the sporting arena into every aspect of leadership and high performance.

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Leading a team can become especially challenging when there are complex issues like a global pandemic, limited resources, and a high demand for services. In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell chats with Gaby Thomson about how to navigate leadership in the not-for-profit sectors. In particular the two discuss maintaining volunteer engagement and motivation in the post-COVID era.

Gaby Thomson has 30+ years of experience in leadership roles for not-for-profit organisations, including as a CEO for early childhood education.

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• how to address underlying issues in your leadership role
• what ways you can mitigate anger and burnout with your team
• how to manage resource constraints and lack of support as a leader
• the importance of recognition and appreciation... and so much more!

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell chats with Nathan Silby and Ben Stapleton about joint leadership, highlighting the the three things important for building a solid shared leadership role. Listen as they discuss how they prioritise people over profits and emphasise the need for aligned values when making decisions.

You'll also hear about:

• why it is important they have different to complement each other
• what big benefits come from sharing a leadership role
• how they maintain connection with a large staff spread nation wide
• why acting as one isn't the best strategy for joint leadership
• how they trust each other's decision making... and so much more!

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Challenges often arise when leading a distributed workforce across a large geographic area, in today's episode of The Huddle Leadership podcast, Kate chats with Dr Hannah Brown about how she effectively broke down barriers and makes herself accessible to team members. Listen as she also shares the importance of empathy, communication, curiosity, vulnerability, and authenticity in leadership.

You'll also hear about:

• the intersection of science and leadership
• how Dr Hannah ensures she keeps a digital 'open door' policy
• what ways Dr Hannah creates trust and connection with employees
• why she accredits some of her success to surrounding herself with emotionally intelligent people
• how she navigated authentic leadership despite criticism from others... and so much more!

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In today's episode of The Huddle Leadership podcast, we delve into the crucial role of clear and consistent communication in leadership, focusing on fostering a positive workplace culture through everyday interactions. Our guest speaker, Chris Melotti from Melotti Content Media gives valuable strategies for effective communication within a creative marketing team, including the innovative use of voice messages to engage team members.

You'll also hear about:

• How to foster a positive workplace culture
• Why defining company values prevents conflicts and unifies your team
• Chris' personal evolution with delegation for more business success
• Best practices for remote work management.. and so much more!

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In today's episode of The Huddle Leadership podcast, Kate chats with Author, IFS Coach and Executive Leadership Consultant, Cassandra Goodman. Cassandra lives by the motto that it's not enough to love what you do... Unless you love who you're BEING while you do it. Listen as they discuss the importance of authentic leadership and self-awareness.

You'll also hear about:

• how to liberate your highest potential
• why connecting to your core qualities is so important as a leader
• what to do when you feel your protective being triggered
• the role self-awareness plays in leadership
• Cassandra's self-leadership practice... and so much more!

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Gabor Mate podcast on how we trade off authenticity for attachment as children.

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Sarah Paddick, an experienced Architect designs prisons and other detention facilities. In this fascinating chat with Kate, Sarah shares how using her humanity to design better secure facilities leads to better outcomes. Listening through the lens of leadership, we can learn in this episode how valuing a person's lived experience will always generate improved performance.

You'll also hear about:

• how Sarah fell into this work and expanded her knowledge over time
• why it's the simple things that make a huge difference in people's lives
• the importance of leadership that provides a therapeutic environment rather than a punitive one
• how we can all challenge our beliefs about reform and reintegration of former prisoners into society... and so much more!

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Mick Nelson, Olympic Coach and coach development expert chats with Kate Russell about the challenges of coaching in high-pressure situations. Listen as they share insights on the importance of self-awareness and emotional intelligence in leadership, particularly when facing conflict and pressure. They also highlight the value of modelling humanity and vulnerability to inspire and empower others, and emphasised the importance of adapting coaching methods to accommodate the changing needs and experiences of young athletes.

You'll also hear about:

• how high performance coaches make decisions at speed with high consequences
• why coaches often struggle to accept they can't control the outcome
• what bringing humanity to interactions with your team can do for performance
• why leadership actually isn't about you at all... and so much more!

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Tune in each week to The Huddle Leadership Podcast to hear conversations with fascinating leaders who will share their stories on leadership and what they have learned from their lived experiences. We're going to cover such topics as communication, accountability, performance, culture, finding enjoyment, and so much more. The Huddle knows that loving your team is important because leadership is about looking after your people, so if that's you, press play and let's get started!

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell welcomes Kristy-Lee Billett, an HR expert with a unique background in forensic psychology, who shares her extraordinary journey from aspiring criminal profiler to transforming workplace cultures across Australia.

Key Takeaways

• Letting go is essential for growth - Leaders must overcome perfectionism and control tendencies to empower their teams truly
• 80% done by someone else beats 100% done by you - Effective delegation creates freedom and develops team capabilities
• Psychology applies powerfully to workplace dynamics - Understanding behavioural patterns helps identify and address team challenges early
• Clear communication prevents most conflicts - "Clear is kind, unclear is unkind" when setting expectations and KPIs
• Hiring decisions impact everything - Most long-term people problems stem from poor initial hiring choices
• Curiosity is a leadership superpower - Asking questions instead of making assumptions transforms difficult conversations
• High performance and positive culture aren't mutually exclusive - Both can coexist with the right approach
• Technical brilliance doesn't excuse toxic behaviour - Cultural fit matters more than individual skills for team success
• Leaders must have their own difficult conversations - HR should support, not replace, direct leadership communication
• Values alignment trumps desperation hiring - Better to wait for the right person than settle for the wrong one

Episode Timeline

00:00 Introduction to Kristy-Lee and her forensic psychology background

02:05 Mindset shifts for leaders: Embracing team dynamics and letting go

05:55 Creating a positive workplace culture through clear communication

09:28 Setting effective KPIs and performance measurements

11:50 Performance management and the power of curious conversations

15:11 The challenge of finding time for one-on-ones and meaningful connections

18:03 Dealing with talent scarcity in regional areas without compromising standards

21:31 Managing toxic high performers and the damage they cause

24:24 The transition from technical expertise to team leadership

26:08 HR's proper role: support, not replacement for leadership conversations

27:13 The magic wand question: Better hiring decisions solve most problems

Featured Discussion Kristy-Lee reveals her philosophy on "people-powered businesses," explaining how successful companies require the right team members to achieve both growth and freedom for leaders. She breaks down the common trap of micromanagement versus abdication, sharing practical frameworks for effective delegation and performance management. Her forensic psychology background provides unique insights into reading behavioural patterns and having curious conversations that solve problems rather than create defensiveness.

Quotable Moments

• "Learning to let go is a huge mindset shift because we're perfectionists, we're sometimes control freaks, and we think that we have to have our finger in every pie."
• "Clear is kind and unclear is unkind. If we're clear about expectations, then that's actually really helpful for our team."
• "Curious is a superpower we don't tap into enough as leaders, and we really should - it's so powerful."
• "Just because someone is technically exceptional at their job does not mean they are the best person for your team."
• "So many of the issues that I see people dealing with, whether it's 12 months in or 20 years in, are because it's a hiring mistake at the outset."

This episode offers essential guidance for any leader struggling with team management, from avoiding micromanagement traps to making better hiring decisions. Kristy-Lee's unique perspective combining behavioral psychology with practical HR experience provides listeners with both the mindset shifts and tactical tools needed to build truly people-powered businesses.

Connect with Kristy-Lee Billett

• People Powered Business
• LinkedIn
• Instagram
• People Powered Business Podcast

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In this season premiere of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell welcomes Trang Nova, a dynamic speaker and coach who shares her extraordinary journey from a shy Vietnamese Australian child to an empowering leadership voice.

Key Takeaways

• Cultural identity shapes resilience - Trang's Vietnamese heritage and family history provided perspective that built inner strength
• Quarter-life crisis can spark transformation - Questioning career choices led Trang to discover her true purpose
• The Enlightened Model requires balance - Body (action), mind (strategy), and heart (passion) must all be present for true thriving
• Confidence is created, not discovered - Through deliberate practice and embodied techniques
• Visualisation with all five senses creates neural pathways that increase confidence
• Power posing for two minutes can increase testosterone by 20% and decrease stress hormones by 25%
• People's judgments are arbitrary - The same traits can be valued differently in different contexts
• Effective leadership requires heart connection - Technical expertise isn't enough without authentic passion

Episode Timeline

00:00 Introduction to Trang Nova and her background

03:41 The quarter-life crisis that changed her direction

09:08 Learning resilience from family history and personal experiences

11:56 The Enlightened Model: body, mind, and heart

17:52 Connection between leadership and effective speaking

24:16 Creating confidence through embodied cognition

26:11 The power of visualisation and using all five senses

Featured Discussion

Trang shares her powerful "Enlightened Model" (also called the Thriving Three), explaining how true fulfilment requires alignment of all three pillars: body, mind, and heart. She illustrates how leaders often excel at action and strategy but neglect emotional connection, resulting in accomplishment without satisfaction. When applied to public speaking, Trang reveals how this framework helps leaders develop authentic confidence and connection with audiences.

Quotable Moments

• "People's judgments are transient. They're arbitrary. They're not even real."
• "It's not that you have confidence to do something. You have to do something to get confidence."
• "How many people are passionate about a topic... but they think, 'Who am I to be able to speak? Who am I to be able to lead?'"
• "Our brain doesn't actually know the difference between a very powerful visualisation and reality."
• "If any one pillar is missing, you'll always be just one step short of truly thriving."

This episode offers practical wisdom for anyone seeking to develop their leadership voice, overcome self-doubt, and create meaningful impact through authentic communication. Trang's journey from isolation to empowerment provides inspiration, while her tactical approaches to building confidence give listeners immediate tools for growth.

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• Speaker Coach & Leadership Consultant
• Linkedin
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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell engages with Simon Derrick-Roberts, Executive Director of BNI South Australia, in a discussion about effective leadership principles within business networking communities. Simon shares valuable insights from his 15-year journey with BNI, highlighting strategies for conflict resolution, volunteer engagement, and creating successful business communities.

Key Takeaways

• Servant leadership is crucial - focusing on service over prestige creates thriving chapters
• Effective conflict resolution begins with listening and understanding good-faith intentions
• Members should "carry their own bags" - take ownership of their experience and outcomes
• Storytelling motivates action better than metrics or abstract concepts
• Balance between systems and heart is essential for sustainable community leadership
• Leadership visibility enhances credibility and referral opportunities
• Clear boundaries and processes provide safety nets for volunteer engagement
• Prevention is better than resolution when it comes to interpersonal drama
• Selection of the right leaders who care about the group is fundamental to success
• Success in BNI is collective - as members succeed, they have more to give back

Episode Timeline

00:00 Introduction to Simon Derrick-Roberts and BNI

02:54 Leadership traits in successful BNI chapters

06:08 Approaches to conflict resolution and managing disappointment

10:37 The power of storytelling in leadership

12:03 Balancing systems and people-focused leadership

15:10 Working effectively with volunteers

22:12 Cultivating belonging and engagement

26:14 Tough leadership lessons learned

Featured Discussion

Simon explains how the most successful BNI chapters operate under the principle of "the leadership team works the systems, the systems run the chapter, and the chapter serves the members." This creates alignment where leaders understand their purpose, allowing their heart to follow. He shares how this structure enables members to take ownership of their experience while contributing to collective success.

The conversation explores the delicate balance between providing clear systems and processes while fostering genuine human connection. Simon emphasizes that when members understand how serving benefits both themselves and others, engagement naturally follows.

Quotable Moments

• "Service over prestige - people who take on roles because they really care about their chapter."
• "The leadership team works the systems. The systems run the chapter. And the chapter is there to serve the members."
• "Give people a big enough why and they will find their own how and what."
• "How you do one thing is how you do everything."
• "Carry your own bags - take ownership of your own experience."
• "Too much by too few for too long is not sustainable."
• "People want to belong desperately. Make it easy for them."
• "Don't do drama. Drama sucks energy and enthusiasm and all fun out of people's experience."

This episode offers valuable insights for leaders in any organization, particularly those working with volunteers or community groups. Simon's experience demonstrates how clear systems combined with servant leadership create thriving communities where everyone contributes to collective success.

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In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast, hosts Kate Russell and David Watts tackle a common leadership challenge as they answer a question from listener Alex, who is struggling with the transition from a technical role to a leadership position.

Key Takeaways

• Technical expertise doesn't translate to leadership skills - What makes someone excellent in a technical role can actually hinder their leadership effectiveness
• Micromanagement stems from discomfort - Leaders often control more when they feel they're losing control
• Achieving through others - Finding satisfaction in team success rather than personal achievement is a critical mindset shift
• Team conflict may have hidden causes - Including competition for the leadership role or unclear responsibilities
• DiSC profiles can help teams understand communication preferences and stress responses
• Team norms need resetting after leadership changes - Teams return to the "forming" stage with any personnel change
• Vulnerability builds trust - Acknowledging limitations and being authentic creates psychological safety

Episode Timeline

00:01 Introduction to Alex's leadership challenge

02:26 The mindset shift from having answers to empowering others

04:40 Leadership is about people, not tasks

06:59 Finding satisfaction in "achieving through others"

09:16 How micromanagement affects team confidence

11:36 Using DiSC to understand team dynamics

13:55 Communication preferences and misunderstandings

16:15 Leveraging team strengths and alignment

18:42 Understanding leadership stress responses

21:03 The importance of coaching and team huddles

23:27 Creating safety through vulnerability and transparency

Featured Discussion

Kate and David explore how Alex, newly promoted from a technical expert to a team leader, is struggling with team disengagement and conflict between team members. They discuss how technical experts often see the world through tasks rather than people, leading to micromanagement when faced with uncertainty.

The conversation highlights how leadership requires a fundamental shift from personal achievement to finding satisfaction through the success of others. As David explains, "The sense of satisfaction that he's not gaining at the moment is because he's been so used to being the achiever, he now needs to better seek the satisfaction through achieving through others."

They propose several strategies to support Alex, including DiSC profiling to understand communication styles, establishing team norms, exploring what respect means to different team members, and individual coaching to develop emotional intelligence and leadership skills.

Quotable Moments

• "Leadership is not about the tasks that need to be done. We often think leadership is about how do we get things done, but it's about how do we empower people in our team to get things done." - Kate Russell
• "We achieve, I achieve. Whereas perhaps in his previous role, it was I achieve, I achieve. And it's quite a different shift and it's a very mental shift." - Kate Russell
• "Every time you make a change, you go back to forming. It doesn't matter where you were, you go back to forming." - David Watts
• "When people don't feel safe, you'll get conflict and they won't speak up." - David Watts
• "Let the team know that when I get stressed, this is what it might look like... Then that creates that safety." - Kate Russell

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In this insightful episode of The Huddles Leadership Podcast, host Kate Russell engages with clinical psychologist Annemarie Menne in a thought-provoking conversation about the relationship between stress, trauma, and leadership. Annemarie shares valuable insights from her private practice where she treats anxiety, depression, stress, and trauma-related concerns.

Key Takeaways

• There are no "difficult people" - behaviors that seem difficult are usually stress responses
• Every human behavior communicates something and is typically aimed at managing threats
• Leaders must manage their own stress first before addressing others' behaviors
• The body holds wisdom that can help identify and regulate stress responses
• Awareness of triggers is essential for breaking negative behavioral cycles
• Safety is paramount when addressing any stress or trauma response
• Trauma-informed approaches focus on reconnecting mind and body
• Our nervous system responds to patterns that may resemble past traumas
• Breathing techniques can help regain cognitive function during stress
• Trauma-informed yoga helps people experience their bodies as safe places

Episode Timeline

00:01 Introduction to Annemarie Mene and her private practice

01:33 Discussion on "difficult people" and stress responses

04:20 Understanding why people behave in challenging ways

05:59 The importance of leaders managing their own stress

08:12 How personal triggers affect leadership

11:10 The hand model of the brain and stress responses

15:24 Relationship between stress and trauma

17:08 Managing trauma responses in the workplace

20:55 Leadership self-awareness and emotional regulation

23:43 Introduction to trauma-informed yoga

29:18 The body as a source of wisdom and safety

Featured Discussion

Annemarie explains how our brains function under stress using the "hand model" of the brain. When stress activates our limbic system (represented by the thumb), it can cause our "lid to flip" (fingers lifting), shutting down our frontal lobes' capacity for rational thought. This physiological response explains why we can't "think our way out of stress" and must instead focus on calming our bodies first.

The conversation explores how seemingly disproportionate reactions to workplace situations (like someone taking your yogurt from the office fridge) might actually be trauma responses triggered by pattern recognition in the nervous system. Annemarie emphasizes that providing safety is the most important element when addressing these responses.

Quotable Moments

• "Every human behavior communicates. There's no such thing as a behavior that just happens out of the blue, and humans don't, by and large, do things just to be difficult." - Annemarie Menne
• "When we are stressed, then our limbic system is activated... with an activated limbic system, the frontal lobe switches off. It's literally like flipping our lids." - Annemarie Menne
• "We can't think our way out of stress. We really need to work with the body to then get back into the thinking space." - Annemarie Menne
• "The most important element when it comes to addressing any type of stress response and any type of trauma is safety." - Annemarie Menne
• "Our bodies hold a lot of wisdom. And when we allow ourselves to feel uncomfortable and to actually notice what's going on, there's a lot of information there." - Annemarie Menne

This episode offers valuable insights for leaders seeking to understand the psychological underpinnings of workplace dynamics and provides practical strategies for creating safer, more supportive environments that acknowledge the impact of stress and trauma on behavior.

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• Private practice in North Adelaide AM Clinical
• AM Mind Your Body
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• LinkedIn

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