Conversations about sex—mostly between men—that might surprise you. Host Paul Rosenberg, writer, community organizer, and sex-positive activist in Seattle, talks with bloggers, writers, scientists, sexologists, artists, teachers, and regular folks about the “ordinary magic” of authentic human sexuality and everything that gets stirred up by it. Listen in and join the conversation.
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The Heart of Jacks PodcastEpisode #23 (S02E01) - The Myth of Sex Addiction
Guest: Dr. David Ley Released January 19, 2025
Grappling with the big questions like:
Is being an army brat as effective as witness protection?
If you're late for work because you are enjoying porn, do you need a 12 step program or a different job?
And Dr David Ley on the myth of sex addiction.
Segment 1: Paul returns with questions about sex addiction, plus a very niche pet peeve about "addicted" masturbators. Segment 2: Introduction to Dr. David Ley, clinical psychologist and author, known for his critical stance regarding sex addiction. His first book, Insatiable Wives, won a Silver Medal in the Foreword Magazine Book of the Year in 2009. A Publishers Weekly review said that his book The Myth of Sex Addiction "makes a thoughtful and persuasive argument, using case studies and ample references to the work of other psychologists to flesh out his case. While serving as an excellent resource on sex addiction, Ley's study also sheds light on the myriad cultural and sociological factors that influence relationships." [Wikipedia]
The Heart of Jacks Podcast is returning soon with new episodes. Here's the complete transcript of this teaser:
Hey! It's been a minute! I'm reaching out to ask for your input for an upcoming episode of The Heart of Jacks Podcast.
I'm currently editing a multi-episode piece on “sex positivity” that started over a year ago and was put on a shelf (with the rest of the pod) when my club restarted operations and I got a new job and my music group began live performances again. Those three big things interrupted the HOJ project in a big way… which… you might have noticed.
AAAAAnyway, I'm now circling back to The Heart of Jacks and this particular episode and it would benefit from a few more voices and that’s where your input comes in.
Here’s what I’d like you to do, if you’re up for it. I’m going to give you a conversation starter—a few short questions and I’d like you to call The Heart of Jacks phone line and simply respond with your thoughts in a voicemail. You don’t have to answer every question like it’s a quiz. Just listen, mull it over a little and call with your response. If you write it out before you call, that’s fine but absolutely not required. I’d like your feedback to sound spontaneous, honest, just your take on the subject, and it can be just one or two sentences.
If you were one of the fine folks who contributed to this in the past, you don't need to do it again.
Now, please don't worry about being perfect. Just consider the questions for a few seconds or a few minutes and then send me your response. Here goes!
Are you familiar with the term, “sex positive?” Does it mean anything to you? Have you never encountered it or is it a term you or somebody you know uses? Do you have any particular thoughts about what “sex positive” is or isn’t? Is it just jargon or a trend or is it an important idea? How about this: do you have any… feelings or judgements about somebody who casually uses the term, “sex positive?” What does it bring up for you?
Again, consider all of that as a conversation starter, not the fucking SAT or a job application. Nothing is on the line here and your input is anonymous. I’m going to edit responses to be pretty short, so don’t think about it too much and don’t worry about being perfect. I just want your honest take. Simply consider the subject and send me your thoughts.
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What is Sex?
Episode 22
Monday, November 29, 2021 • Duration 01:07:23
The Heart of Jacks Podcast Episode #22 - What is "Sex?" Guest: Dr. Eric Sprankle Released November 29, 2021
Celery, Soccer and Solosex Character limitations, And getting back to basics
Segment 1: Paul connects the dots between vegetables, sports and masturbation… but not how you might think.
Segment 2: Dr. Eric Sprankle returns for a deep dive into the fundamentals of sex. “Fundamentals” as in, what the hell is it? He is an Associate Professor of Clinical Psychology and Co-Director of the Sexuality Studies program at Minnesota State University, Mankato, as well as a licensed clinical psychologist and an AASECT-certified sex therapist affiliated with the Minnesota Sexual Health Institute. After we chew on what sex gets to be thought of as “sex,” we look at sexual health.
Brian McNaught has been a pioneering educator on LGBTQ issues since he was fired by the Catholic Church in 1974 for being gay. He’s the author of 11 books, the best known of which are the groundbreaking On Being Gay, Gay Issues in the Workplace, which is now in the Library of Congress, and Sex Camp, required reading in some graduate classes. He’s a columnist, has hosted radio and television programs in Provincetown, has a podcast, has spoken to corporate senior executives around the world AND, he received a lengthy standing ovation from the NSA. Brian now offers most of his books and DVDs free. He’s certified as a sexuality educator, and is in a 45-year relationship with his husband, Ray.
Send your questions and they might be included in future episodes.
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Going Under - Daniel McGlothlen (part 2)
Episode 19
Wednesday, June 2, 2021 • Duration 43:49
The Heart of Jacks Podcast
Episode #19 - Going Under
Guest: Daniel McGlothlen (part 2)
Released June 2, 2021
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Ethics of a 12-year-old boy
Sticking with the wizards
And Going Under with Daniel McGlothlen
Daniel McGlothlen is a bondage performer and photographer, a рornographer, an erotic hypnotist, a sex educator, a sex-positive community organizer and a multi-year Seattle Erotic Art Festival juror. He is the proprietor of visiblerestraint.com, the web platform for his homemade amateur bondage рorn. He lives in Seattle with his husband and their cats.
This episode is final half of a 2-part interview. In this show, Daniel tells the story of his interest in hypnosis, a skill he came by honestly, and his exploration and development of his current expertise in erotic hypnosis, taking Paul on a tour via an exhibition of “guided gooning” conducted via private Discord server, as well as a demonstration of a pre-installed trigger connecting horniness with math impairment.
Supported by Patreon at https://patreon.com/theheartofjacks/
Bursting the vanilla bubble
Finding your spicy star-level
And talking kink with Daniel McGlothlen
Daniel McGlothlen. Daniel is a bondage performer and photographer, a рornographer, an erotic hypnotist, a sex educator, a sex-positive community organizer and a multi-year Seattle Erotic Art Festival juror. He is the proprietor of visiblerestraint.com, the web platform for his homemade amateur bondage рorn. He lives in Seattle with his husband and their cats.
This episode is part 1 of a 2-show interview. In this installment, Paul and Daniel discuss kink, levels of spiciness, the “hot sauce effect” and Rain City Jacks.
Part two, Going Under, will be posted June 2, 2021.
Monday Again, Frankie Lane with Carl Fischers Orchestra (1948)
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Placeholder: A Brief, Personal History
Monday, May 3, 2021 • Duration 13:13
There’s a reason why the podcast has taken an occasional hiatus since it’s launch in the fall, and it’s not vacations. I’ve been cagey about it but I’ve decided that it’s time to come clean. Here’s a short, personal history of the last couple of years to serve as a placeholder until the next full episode. Please send your feedback to podcast@theheartofjacks.com.Support The Heart of Jacks Podcast
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Sorting out the sorting out Appearances can be deceiving and James goes to the Jacks
Segment 1: Age is an issue in many places and in some ways, it’s less of an issue in jack-off clubs than in many other places, but it still presents challenges for the members and managers of the Jacks everywhere. Paul has some thoughts.
Segment 2: James was 24 when he first attended Rain City Jacks. It was also only his second experience having sex with men and remarkably, that was the night he met his current boyfriend, some 5 years ago. At 29, both he and his boyfriend still attend Jacks events regularly. His experience isn’t wildly different from other Jacks members, but it is uniquely his and we get into it together.
When you’re ready, call The Heart of Jacks phone line at (206) 580-3120. You can also record a voice memo with your smart phone and email that to paul@theheartofjacks.com - And if you really want to contribute but you’re just super shy about using your voice, you can email me your response too. It’s just more likely that I’ll actually use it if you call in and leave voicemail or send me a voice memo.
If you mess something up, just repeat it. I’ll make you sound good. I really just want to know what YOU think about this thing called “sex positivity.”
Thank you so much for helping me out with this and for listening to The Heart of Jacks Podcast. I can’t wait to serve up all the good stuff that’s been cooking over the past year… or so.
I’m Paul Rosenberg.
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Seeking men with experience at JO clubs for interviews!
If you have a significant experience of masturbation groups, consider being interviewed on The Heart of Jacks Podcast. Just complete this short survey to be considered: https://theheartofjacks.com/jacksinterview
Patreon for subscriptions and premium benefits. Ko-Fi for one-time support options.
Seeking men with experience at JO clubs for interviews!
If you have a significant experience of masturbation groups, consider being interviewed on The Heart of Jacks Podcast. Just complete this short survey to be considered: https://theheartofjacks.com/jacksinterview
Patreon for subscriptions and premium benefits. Ko-Fi for one-time support options.
Seeking men with experience at JO clubs for interviews!
If you have a significant experience of masturbation groups, consider being interviewed on The Heart of Jacks Podcast. Just complete this short survey to be considered!
Patreon for subscriptions and premium benefits. Ko-Fi for one-time support options.
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