I am a former unhappy wife who emasculated my husband until I had an awakening that I was the problem in my marriage. Now, I teach other married women the journey of finding happiness within so they can evolve as women and wives. I also teach good men how to constructively navigate their wives' emasculating behaviors to rebuild their strength and confidence as men.
Each podcast episode is taken from my live show on YouTube, which streams on Saturdays at 10:00 am PST / 1:00 pm EST.
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In this episode, I discuss the underlying issue of married women becoming disinterested in sex so that we can heal and re-engage with sex in our marriages.
(17:23) 5 Reasons Why Women Have So Many Excuses Not to Have Sex
(27:07) How to Find the Solution
Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.
Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.
Why Good Men Don't Pack Their Bags and Leave a Toxic Woman
Wednesday, August 6, 2025 • Duration 32:14
In this video, I discuss the different reasons good men stay in a toxic marriage.
Is Your Wife Using Her Emotional Past As An Excuse In Your Marriage?
Wednesday, July 16, 2025 • Duration 32:23
In this episode, I discuss how, as women, we use our past circumstances as an excuse for our poor behavior and how to let our past go and move into Camp Take Responsibility.
In this episode, I discuss why married women develop a repulsion toward our husbands and what women and good men can do to address this common marital issue.
Q&A - What Advice Do You Have About Raising Girls to Someday Be Happy Wives...And More
Wednesday, June 4, 2025 • Duration 42:48
In this episode, I answer a number from listeners ranging from how to raise your daughters to be happy wives some day to how to get your husband to initiate sex.
(15:56) 5 Reasons Good Men Don't Leave a Toxic Marriage
(24:22) The Solution for Women
(28:32) The Solution for Men
Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.
Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.
(00:00) Podcast Intro
(01:36) The Question - What Does Arguing Look Like With a Happy Wife?
(04:27) Arguing With An Unhappy Wife vs. Happy Wife
(11:08) The Myth of "Healthy Arguing"
(21:57) 5 Reasons Women are Never Interested in Conflict Resolution
(34:18) Conflict Resolution With a Happy Wife
(36:58) The Solution for Women
(40:36) The Solution for Men
Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.
Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.
(00:00) Podcast Intro
(01:34) Topic Introduction
(20:32) 5 Common Excuses Women Use From Their Past
(24:05) Why Women Use Excuses From Their Past
(27:30) The Solution for Women
(29:36) The Solution for Men
Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.
Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.
(00:00) Podcast Intro
(01:42) The Question
(3:03) Defining Repulsion
(16:52) It's Not the Man's Fault
(26:45) 5 Ways to Know Your Wife is Repulsed By You
(31:49) The Solution for Women
(35:20) The Solution for Men
Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.
Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.
(01:38) Topic Introduction
(7:53) 3 Ways a Good Man Can Know He's NOT a Narcissist
(21:49) 10 Ways to Know Your Wife is a Narcissist
(36:00) The Solution for Women
(39:28) The Solution for Men
Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.
Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.
(00:00) Podcast Intro
(01:48) Topic Introduction
(2:56) Q1 - What Advice Do You Have About Raising Girls to Someday Be Happy Wives?
(11:32) Q2 - What If You Don't Feel Like a Good Man Anymore?
(19:54) Q3 - How Can You Be a Kind, Loving Wife After Being Betrayed By Your Husband's Porn Use?
(27:54) Q4 - Is It Easier to Have 'The Dance' With a Younger Wife?
(36:34) Q5 - How Can I Inspire My Husband to Initiate More?
Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.
Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.
(01:28) Topic Introduction
(02:34) Definition of Selfish (in the context of my message)
(04:15) The Reason Women Are So Selfish
(14:10) 10 Selfish Behaviors Married Women Have
(28:10) The Solution for Women
(33:46) The Solution for Men
Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.
Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.
(19:38) 3 Reasons Your Wife Is So Emotionally Dysregulated
(31:17) The Solution for Women
(35:09) The Solution for Men
Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.
Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.
(01:31) Topic Introduction
(03:20) Question 1: If a Wife Doesn't Want Sex, Should a Husband Ask for "Something Else"?
(15:05) Question 2: Am I Selfish for Expecting Intimacy During "That Time of the Month"?
(29:28) Question 3: What Should I Do If My Wife Says She's Asexual?
Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my podcast and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual – what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for abusive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.
Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my podcast as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.
