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| 55. The Empath is the Narcissist | 31 Mar 2024 | 00:33:47 | |
Aasha T. is a Certified Emotional & Energetics Intelligence Facilitator and Keynote Speaker. She has been an entrepreneur & consultant for over 15 years and is a certified trauma Specialist as well as a few other healing modalities. She is the author of The Empath is the Narcissist. You can find Aasha here:
In this episode: Unique lens on dynamics of pushing and pulling in relationships and who we attract • Emotional intelligence • Twin flame activation • Definition of a narcissist • Relationship between a narcissist and ghoster • The experience of energy • How we heal • How to spot a narcissist • When to walk away from a relationship • The power of energy Find us online | |||
| 54. Talk To Me | 11 Feb 2024 | 00:28:09 | |
Marïe Pratt is a singer/songwriter from Barcelona and her new Single, Talk to Me, is about ghosting. On this episode we discuss Marïe’s inspiration for the song, the impact of ghosting on society and why it’s important for us to have these conversations about ghosting. You can find Marïe here: Talk to me talk talk to me Find us online | |||
| 45. Love and Games | 02 Jul 2023 | 00:36:36 | |
Robert, a 33 year old disabled man from Germany, met and fell in love with a woman in Texas. A cross world romance that developed in a gaming chat room ends in a ghost. In this episode: Chat rooms • Dating with disabilities • Love and video games • Catfishes • Disappearing after “I Love You” • The loneliness of ghosting Find us online | |||
| 44. Responsibility | 18 Jun 2023 | 00:31:22 | |
Laura dated a man who told her that he loved her on the 2nd date. They continued to date for almost a year and then he ghosted. In this episode: Love bombing • Emotional unavailability • When you can’t have real conversations • Silence as punishment • Why can’t they just send a text? • When they call their ex’s “crazy” • Do avoidants have regrets? • Seeing them on the apps after a ghost • Recap of the 333 episode • Gut feelings ....plus a teaser of an upcoming episode on Rosemary’s ghost story. Find us online | |||
| 43. Ghosted Girl Project | 04 Jun 2023 | 00:25:02 | |
Cash is the creator of the Ghosted Girl project. We discuss dating, ghosting, friendship ghosting and more on this episode. In this episode: The evolution of dating • Friendship ghosting • The last text • When they come back • Ghosting lessons • Healing from faith Where you can find Cash Find us online | |||
| 42. Avoidant | 07 May 2023 | 00:48:05 | |
Ken Reid is a relationship counselor who helps those who have been in relationships that are more avoidantly traited. On this episode we discuss all things about people with avoidant attachment style. In this episode: Traits of avoidants • Narcissists versus avoidants • Avoidants and guilt • Avoidants and relationships • When an avoidant comes back • Avoidants and ghosting • How to spot an avoidant • Should we feel bad for avoidants? • If they wanted to, they would? • How avoidants can heal Books Referenced in this Episode Where to find Ken Find us online | |||
| 41. An Unusual Situation | 23 Apr 2023 | 00:28:58 | |
Our latest ghost story features a fast and furious connection, and what she finds out about him post ghost. In this episode: • Fast connections • One picture profiles • Slow disappearances • The pain of rejection • When you see your ghost in real life • When women should look someone up IRL • The only person you have to live with is yourself • Finding closure for yourself Find us online | |||
| 40. Ghost Pilot | 09 Apr 2023 | 00:42:24 | |
Shelly dated a pilot long distance for nine months, then he ghosted. In this episode: Using dating apps to find friends • How dating helps you find yourself • Boundaries • Relationship Anarchy • But do I like them? • Matching effort • Intuition • Are We Dating the Same Guy? Facebook groups • Do people ghost because they’re too nice? • Men break up before the next step Find us online | |||
| 39. How Far We've Come | 19 Mar 2023 | 00:28:21 | |
Rosemary and Gretta are back with another joint episode to reflect on what why we started our podcasts, what we have learned and what’s next. In this episode: Podcast motivation • Most downloaded episodes • Favorite guests • What we’ve learned • Unexpected outcomes • How coping with ghosting skills can help you with other aspects of life • How we feel about ghosting now vs. before our podcasts • Relationship education • The effect of media on relationships • What’s next Find us online | |||
| 38. Ghosting the Friend Group | 05 Mar 2023 | 00:39:46 | |
Andrea came out of a 14-year marriage with a narcissist and straight into a relationship that ended in ghosting not only her, but an entire friend group. In this episode: Dating after divorce • Ghosting a friend group • When there are no red flags • Dating with kids • Avoidants • Dating long distance • First relationships post marriage • When men freak out • Ambiguous loss Find us online | |||
| 37. Self Love | 19 Feb 2023 | 00:21:11 | |
Hashondra is a life coach, musician, business woman, author and much more! She shares her ghost story on this episode. In this episode: Situationships • The biggest challenges in dating • When people ghost, after asking them not to • When ghosting is praised • Not looking for red flags • When they don’t pick you • Self love • Successful women Find us online | |||
| 36. Ghost Busters | 05 Feb 2023 | 00:46:34 | |
JX is a recording artist, podcaster and writer, as well as a Ghost Podcast fan! We dive into multiple topics from self worth, how to be a ghost buster, and astrology. In this episode: Why you attract toxic people • The definition of ghosting • Grieving the loss of potential • Healed people are lonely people • The importance of your relationship with yourself • How to find happiness when you’re alone • Value your time • Why ghosting is selfish • The best dating app • How to be a ghost buster • Individuation • If he wanted to, he would Where to find JX: https://linktr.ee/JtotheMfX Find us online | |||
| 53. I'm Ghosting You But I'm Still Here | 28 Jan 2024 | 00:36:07 | |
Emma is a French trans woman living in Chicago. She was ghosted, but not for the reason that she thought. Find us online | |||
| 35. Why People Ghost | 20 Nov 2022 | 00:49:02 | |
Mike Thomas calls himself an every day consciousness coach. He is the founder of Holistic Fitness Lifestyle and an educator on Relationflix. In this episode we explore how childhood trauma and attachment styles affects your behavior as an adult, and why this leads to ghosting. In this episode: How nervous system regulation can change behaviors • Attachment styles • Why we need to address our trauma • Why avoidants ghost more • Avoidant culture • How to develop self-awareness • Never date a project • Why willingness to do the work is so important • Is there hope for avoidants? • How to heal from being ghosted • The biggest red flag in a relationship Where to find Mike Media referenced in this episode Find us online | |||
| 34. Zane | 09 Oct 2022 | 00:37:20 | |
Zane Landin is an authentic storyteller, DEIA advocate and entrepreneur. He joins this episode to share his ghost story and the impact it had. In this episode: Mental health advocacy • Short term ghosting • Education on dating and relationships • Love bombing vs. real connections • Why communication matters • Ghosting in the queer community • The impact of vulnerability • The mental health impact of ghosting • Ghosting for fun • Fear of conflict • The impact of media on relationships Find us online | |||
| 33. Taste of Blonde | 25 Sep 2022 | 00:45:57 | |
Mackenzie Metcalf from Taste of Blonde joins Rosemary to discusses dating apps, relationships and ghosting. In this episode: Using dating apps in high school • Mackenzie’s ghosts • Dating apps vs. real life • Dating on Instagram • Dating older men • Ghosting at University • The normalization of ghosting • Toxic self care • Do men ghost more than women • How to have the hard conversations • F*boys • WYD • Dating intentionally Follow Mackenzie @TasteofBlonde Find us online | |||
| 32. Bookclub | 11 Sep 2022 | 01:00:00 | |
Frequent guest Nicolas Bueno joins the show to discuss the patriarchy, feminism, Andrew Tate, the rise of lonely single men (of course) and books we discussed on Episode 19. In this episode: Seeking Arrangements • How to have ho's • Who benefits the most from marriage • Are men more aggressive? • Alpha women • The definition of power • Men's insecurity • Women’s safety • Price of admission • Male role models • Why men don't like to talk about their feelings • Male validation • Genuine desire • Societal conditioning • Why men need to feel useful You can find the books referenced on the Resources page on our website. Please enjoy this TikTok: If Andrew Tate were female. You can follow Nicolas on Instagram at @buenonobuenoo. Find us online | |||
| 31. My Little Black Book | 28 Aug 2022 | 00:18:58 | |
My Little Black Book ® is THE Dating organizer. We are 2 women who want to make dating fun and make a huge impact on dating safety. We are helping users Date More, Stress Less! MLBB was created by dating app users for dating app users. Our vision is to help users' navigate all of their online dates by keeping track of them through a one stop shop site, making dating on multiple sites more productive, easy, organized, safer, and fun! Users can make dates with one of our partners, organize dates by dating apps, social media apps, and our patent pending dating status buckets like Just For Fun, Hard No, and Potential! After the date, users can rate their dates and see who is on their leader board and why. Co-founders Billie Prisby and Melissa Gross join us to discuss their new app, dating safety and ghosting. In this episode: How many dating apps do people have on average • How to stay organized when dating • Dating app conglomerates • How to use My Little Black Book • How to stay safe on dates • Dating app research Where to find MLBB Here is a short explainer video also: https://youtu.be/82PehTOLvsw Find us online | |||
| 30. Pagosta | 14 Aug 2022 | 00:30:15 | |
Golda shares her ghosting story. In this episode: The Feeld App • Why you should Google your date • Travel dating • When there’s no obvious red flags • When you just want to know • Is Matching Making making a comeback? Where to find Golda Find us online | |||
| 29. 333 | 31 Jul 2022 | 00:50:54 | |
Are dating apps terrible, or are you just bad at dating? Haifa Barbari is a love strategist, author & founder of a self coaching app called Be What Matters, her work has been featured on BBC news, Grazia, Refinery29 and more. Haifa famously developed a dating strategy called 333 to help people navigate the roller coaster of dating apps, modern love and achieve dating success while taking care of your well-being at the same time. 333 dating strategy helps you confidently take control of your dating life and choose the best person for you. Her next launch will be a podcast called Love & Stardust with her astrologer bestie. Links to all below. In this episode: Why you need a dating strategy • What dating apps are really for • How long you should spend on dating apps a day • Why you should do video dates • How to build a dating pipeline • Why you shouldn’t be negative on your dating profile • Do dating apps cater to the male gaze? • Why people really use dating apps • How to use the 333 dating strategy Where to find Haifa Find us online | |||
| 28. Garbage | 17 Jul 2022 | 00:24:15 | |
Gretta and Rosemary answer your ghosting questions. To submit a question for a future episode, reach out at theghostpodcast.com or on Instagram @theghostpodcaststories. In this episode: Friendship ghosting • What can we do against love bombing • Why do ghosts orbit? • What should you do if you have your ghosts belongings• What to do if you’ve been ghosted in a casual relationship • Ghosting terms The Ghost Podcast Resource Page Find us online | |||
| 27. The Rise of Tinder – Why Dating Apps Want You Single | 03 Jul 2022 | 00:39:34 | |
There are some who say that Tinder has caused the biggest shift in human behavior in recent history. In this episode, we discuss why dating apps are motivated to keep you single and swiping, and how online dating has normalized behaviors like ghosting. In this episode: How Tinder has changed human behavior • The numbers behind Tinder • Are you addicted to dating apps? • How dating apps have evolved • Digital cowboys • Have we lost our ability to form human connections? • How the apps gets you hooked • Infinite choice conundrum • Rejection violence • Dating apps and mental health • Zeigarnik effect • Devaluation of relationships • The Golden Rule Articles mentioned in this episode can be found on our website Resources page. Find us online | |||
| 26. Zombies | 19 Jun 2022 | 00:40:36 | |
What happens when ghosts rise from the dead? Catch up with the latest on two guests from season one. Listen to the original episodes here: Ep 6: Comfort Comes Around Find us online | |||
| 52. Root Causes | 31 Dec 2023 | 00:55:47 | |
Mandy shares her life and ghosting experiences. In this episode: FWB • High school reunions • Love bombing • Future faking • Vacation ghosting • Narcissism • When to block • Cab light theory Find us online | |||
| 25. Attached | 06 Jun 2022 | 00:42:00 | |
Dave Glaser is a podcaster, fitness coach, and TikTok creator. We sit down to discuss how attachment styles relate to dating, ghosting and more. In this episode: How to date on social media • TikTok as a community • What are attachment styles • Attachment wounds • Throw away culture • When is it appropriate to ask someone what their attachment style is? • Why avoidants and anxious attachment styles keep matching: the Anxious-Avoidant Trap • Relational programming • Earned security • Do avoidants ghost more than others? • How we are products of the dating apps • Does Bumble attract more passive men? Books and Resources You can find Dave here: Find us online | |||
| 24. Love Ghost | 22 May 2022 | 00:46:03 | |
Michelle was in her first relationship post-divorce, after a twenty-year marriage. They dated for ten months long distance. He said he loved her, then he ghosted. In this episode: First relationship post marriage • Ghosting and mental health • Dating on Social Media • Love ghosts • Long distance relationships • When should you define the relationship? • Love bombing • Self worth and ghosting • Signs he may be married • How to know if they are a narcissist? • Trust your instincts Find us online | |||
| 23. Biohazard | 08 May 2022 | 00:23:35 | |
On this episode we are talking about a type of ghosting you have probably never heard of or thought much about. The Bio•Clean Team is a bio-remediation company, which means they clean up crime scenes and other biohazard scenarios you probably don’t want to think about. And ... they get ghosted all the time from clients and employees. In this episode: Biohazard cleaning • People who ghost their job • How to prevent ghosting from clients and employees • How to recover from bill paying ghosting • How to have compassion but also get paid You can find Stacy and The Bio•Clean Team online here: Website: https://www.thebiocleanteam.com/ Find us online | |||
| 22. Not Your Person | 01 May 2022 | 00:38:20 | |
Coping With Ghosting and The Ghost Podcast team up for another joint episode to answer all your ghosting questions. In this episode: My wife is a narcissist, how do I live? • Ghosting in a marriage • Ghosting again after a second chance • Dysfunctional Moonwalk • Is ending a relationship abruptly still a ghost? • Acknowledge instead of accept • Can you see a ghost coming? • Dating post divorce • Why do people ghost when things are going well • Oxytocin, avoidants and ghosting • How to predict a ghost • Reasons to go slow • How to have compassion for your ghost • How long does it take to get over a ghost • Shame and anger post ghost Podcast Hosts: Resources mentioned on the episode: Find us online | |||
| 21. Delia | 24 Apr 2022 | 00:41:14 | |
Delia shares her story of a friendship ghost. In this episode: Friendship ghosting • Reckless behavior • When silence drags on • Ghosting digital presence • Social media and boundaries • Orbiting • When to block someone • How to mourn a lost friendship • Is it ever too late for a ghost to come back? • When to connect with someone online • When to confront a friend Find us online | |||
| 20. Let's Talk About Dating - Part 2 | 10 Apr 2022 | 00:41:04 | |
To wrap up Season 1, we are featuring a two-part series on dating. On part 2, Rosemary discusses dating in the US vs. UK with a previous show guest. In this episode: Is chemistry good or bad? • What are the boundaries on the first date • Can you go from hook up category to relationship material? • How to know if a guy is just looking for sex? • Why men lie on their profiles • Dating with children – should you disclose you have kids on your dating profile? • Should men approach women first? • Who should pay for the first drink? • Do people really ghost from fear? • Why you feel ashamed when you are ghosted • Do ghosters have empathy? • Sex ghosting • Men with area codes Find us online | |||
| 19. Let's Talk About Dating - Part 1 | 27 Mar 2022 | 01:57:08 | |
To wrap up Season 1, we are featuring a two-part series on dating. On part 1, Rosemary sits down with two previous show guests, Nicolas and Kay, to discuss dating today. In this episode: Rosemary's recent ghost • Should you date multiple people at once? • Does height matter? Really, does it? • Signs of a serial killer/kidnapper • How options kill human decency • What does casual really mean? • Why do guys fall off at the six-week mark? • Alpha, beta, low effort, and high value • The average guy • Do guys care how successful a woman is? Or do men choose the easiest option? • Do high value women have less options? • Time myths • Red pill/black pill society and MGTOW • Positive male role models • Should you wait to have sex? • When should you walk away • Do men hunt for sex? • What does it mean to cook for someone? • Why we need a dating revolution and what is ethical dating • Why we need boundaries and cut off game • Why men are only as genuine as their options You can find our favorite books, concepts and podcasts that we discuss on this episode on the Resource page on our website: https://theghostpodcast.com/resources Find us online | |||
| 18. Rejection to Redirection | 13 Mar 2022 | 00:25:05 | |
Hannah Cardiff is a dating coach who was influenced to start helping others from her own traumatic ghosting experience. Find us online | |||
| 17. A Ghosting Conversation with Jonathon Aslay | 27 Feb 2022 | 00:27:50 | |
Author, podcaster and dating coach Jonathon Aslay sits down with us for an honest conversation about ghosting. In this episode: What is ghosting • The evolution of dating • How does modern dating contribute to ghosting acceptance • Self love • What to do if you’ve been ghosted • How to ghost proof yourself You can find Jonathon online here - Find us online | |||
| 16. Fairytale and The Ghost | 13 Feb 2022 | 00:39:43 | |
She thought it was just like a fairytale - girl meets boy via chance encounter in London, boy flies her to the US to meet his family and for a week long vacation. Then, she never hears from him again. In this episode: Love bombing • Narcissism • Narcissistic abuse cycle • The Wild West • A cross planet romance • It’s OK to be sad Find us online | |||
| 51. The New Way to be Single with Peter McGraw | 05 Nov 2023 | 01:12:23 | |
Peter McGraw is a bachelor, behavioral economist, author and host of the podcast Solo. In this episode: Relationship anarchy • Relationship design • The Solo movement • Relationship escalator • The difference between Single and Solo • The happiness data of marriage • Relationship hierarchy • Veto power • The 4 types of singles • Normalizing not wanting a relationship • The new way to have relationships • Core relationship values • How children fit into the “New Way” • Peter’s ghost story Find us online | |||
| 15. No Bueno | 30 Jan 2022 | 00:25:36 | |
Nicolas Bueno is a comedian who was ghosted by someone who made a podcast about never ghosting. You can follow Nicolas on Instagram at @buenonobuenoo. Find us online | |||
| 14. Reflections of a Ghoster | 16 Jan 2022 | 00:18:39 | |
Krystal is an empowerment coach who focuses on helping women work through their limiting beliefs. Krystal is also a reformed ghoster. You can follow Krystal on Instagram at @krystalsouza.co. Find us online | |||
| 13. Aaron | 02 Jan 2022 | 00:19:59 | |
Aaron shares his ghosting story of his six year relationship with multiple ghosting scenarios throughout the entire relationship. Find us online | |||
| 12. Letter to a Ghost | 19 Dec 2021 | 01:01:22 | |
Kay emerges from a long dating break to a ghost story. In this episode: What it's like to date today after a long hiatus • Modern dating • Ghosting red flags • A letter to a ghost • How dating used to be • How to be brave Find us online | |||
| 11. Ghosting Defined: Everything You Need To Know About Ghosting | 05 Dec 2021 | 00:23:51 | |
What does ghosting really mean? Have you heard of breadcrumbing before? How do you know if you've been love bombed? Why is ghosting so traumatic? What is the best way to cope with being ghosted? What are attachment styles? These questions and more are answered in a special joint episode with The Ghost Podcast and Coping With Ghosting Podcast. You can find our complete ghosting dictionary on our website, theghostpodcast.com. Find us online | |||
| 10. Hot Mailman | 21 Nov 2021 | 00:30:13 | |
Lorenzo is a mail carrier in Milwaukee - he developed a relationship with and was ghosted by someone on his route. In this episode: Everyone is capable of ghosting • Friendship turned ghost • Post ghost encounters • Ghosting after sex Find us online | |||
| 9. Marble Jar Friendship | 07 Nov 2021 | 00:53:33 | |
Losing a friend to ghosting is hard. In this episode, a Jacqueline shares her story of friendship loss and the effects that rippled through her community and shattered her found framily. Find us online | |||
| 8. Stronger Than Her | 24 Oct 2021 | 00:22:01 | |
A listener shares her story of a friendship turned more relationship with multiple ghosts. In this episode: Dating while married • Dating while bisexual • Work friendship turned more • Multiple ghostings Find us online | |||
| 7. Silence Kills | 10 Oct 2021 | 00:40:13 | |
CJ grew up in Montana and moved to Chicago about a year ago. Find us online | |||
| 6. Comfort Comes Around | 26 Sep 2021 | 00:37:15 | |
A listener from North Carolina shares her ghost story, and the lessons she learned from it as well as her journey of self discovery. In this episode: There's a lot of silver linings you can find... keep trying to focus on that. Put your pain and love into things that deserve it, instead of things that are not interested in you. Find us online | |||
| 50. The Audacity of Men | 15 Oct 2023 | 00:26:58 | |
Podcast creator Rosemary shares her latest ghost story as well as an update on the original ghoster that this podcast was created about. In this episode: Rosemary’s recent ghosting • Long distance relationships • When they promise they won’t ghost • Male audacity • Why therapy is important • Lessons learned • Dinosaur behavior • Why men pick convenience • Backstory on Rosemary’s original ghoster Find us online | |||
| 5. Marina | 12 Sep 2021 | 00:23:48 | |
Marina was ghosted not once, but twice - by the same person. In this episode: I'm a person. You took all this time in getting to know me. I have real feelings. I just wanted you to be better than this. I'm just super disappointed. I could never hurt someone, twice, that did nothing to me. We were friends. We're not now. Hopefully he can have real relationships for himself in the future. Find us online | |||
| 4. Aftermath | 29 Aug 2021 | 00:27:38 | |
Being ghosted is hard and traumatic. Gretta has created an entire podcast about how to deal with this - Coping with Ghosting. On this episode, special guest Gretta from the podcast, Coping with Ghosting shares advice on many aspects of how to deal with the post ghosting experience. You can find Gretta online here: Find us online | |||
| 3. Clover | 15 Aug 2021 | 00:36:40 | |
Clover shares the story of her ghost on this episode. Find us online | |||
| 2. Rosemary | 01 Aug 2021 | 00:26:48 | |
The Ghost Podcast creator Rosemary shares her ghost story, which lead to the creation of this podcast. In this episode: Ghosting can feel like violence • Ghosting is the silent treatment • Ghosting as emotional abuse • The power dynamic in ghosting Find us online | |||