Navigating an autism or ADHD assessment can often feel overwhelming, isolating, and filled with uncertainty. From facing long waiting lists and school attendance struggles, to managing post-diagnostic identity and burnout, how do we best support children and parents through the assessment journey?
In this episode, Family Futures team members Charlotte Mumford, ADHDer and Autistic person, and Georgie Kovoor, Clinical Specialist, Senior Music Therapist, and member of the neurodiversity assessment team draw on both clinical practice and personal lived experience. They discuss the reality of assessments: why a diagnosis is never just a label, how early masking leads to after-school meltdowns, and why a neuro-affirming approach bridges the gap between home, school, and therapy.
Together, they discuss:
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Timestamps
00:00 – Welcome and introductions: lived experience and clinical perspective
01:00 – 'Unauthorised Absence': school distress, attendance struggles, and parental blame
04:15 – The assessment waiting game: uncertainty, advocacy, and late diagnosis
06:45 – What happens after a diagnosis: communicating strengths and needs to children
10:10 – Supporting schools: insights from our neuro-affirming and trauma-informed webinar
12:15 – Trauma vs. autism/ADHD: exploring the diagnostic overlap in the classroom
14:15 – Classroom observations: bridging the gap for teachers and SENCOs
17:15 – Masking at school and after-school meltdowns: why children crash at home
19:30 – Parental burnout, self-care, and letting go of comparison guilt
24:00 – The power of rest: honouring neurodivergent downtime
25:30 – Where to start: discovery calls, parent consultations and sensory assessments
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