Explore every episode of the podcast The Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor

Dirty Secrets Ep 058

“Taylor Vixxen – Corporate Life, Hotwife Marriage & Wild Requests”

Taylor Vixxen spent almost 20 years climbing the corporate ladder before deciding she’d rather start living out the fantasies she’d been keeping behind closed doors. 😈

We talk about going from finance executive to adult performer, her hotwife marriage, swinger clubs, picking up younger guys in Vegas, being dominant with women and submissive with men, her boundaries on set, and some of the wildest custom requests she’s ever received.

One involved faking an entire heart attack for a cardiovascular surgeon. Yes. Really.

And just when I thought THAT was going to be the craziest story, Taylor gives me a dirty secret involving a very hot boxer from her gym, a swinger club, performance anxiety and something she just happened to have in her bag that saved the night. 😂

Trust me, stay for the ending.

@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor

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Dirty Secrets Ep 057

“Derek Kage – From the DOD to Adult Films”

Derek Kage went from working for the Department of Defense to becoming an award-winning adult performer… and somehow that’s only the beginning of this story.

Derek opens up about growing up gay in Alabama, living two completely different lives while working in D.C., and why walking away from the stable career everyone told him to keep ultimately changed his life.

We also get into his accidental first studio scene, being “straight for pay,” the shame men attach to certain fantasies, why there shouldn’t be a rulebook for intimacy, and what working with men, women and trans performers has taught him about communication.

Plus, BDSM, voyeurism, pegging, monster fantasies and one VERY memorable dirty secret from Germany.

This conversation goes places. 😂

@DirtySecretsPodcast @kateShelor @derek_kage

Dirty Secrets Ep 056

“Ray Ray - Hotwife Life & The Woman Chasing 100”

Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Ray Ray

Most people have a bucket list. Ray Ray has a goal of sleeping with 100 men... in one day. 😳

Known as the "Queen of the Gang Bang," Ray Ray pulls back the curtain on what really goes into organizing an event with 80 men, why she does it for the challenge instead of the camera, and the surprising athletic mindset behind pushing herself to the limit.

We also talk about ethical non-monogamy, life with her husband, why mainstream adult scenes are nothing like real sex, and how she's building a brand around cinematic storytelling instead of shock value.

Whether you're curious, skeptical, or just fascinated, this conversation is funny, thoughtful, and unlike anything you've heard before.

@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @TheRTrain

Dirty Secrets Ep 054

“Missy Davis – Nip Slip Fame, Monogamish Marriage & The Truth”

One accidental TikTok nip slip changed Missy Davis' life forever... and somehow TikTok never even took it down. 😏

In this episode, Missy shares how a viral moment led her into OnlyFans, the emotional journey of telling her parents what she really does for a living, and why getting caught forced her to finally stop living a double life.

We also dive into monogamish relationships, stag/vixen dynamics, play parties, and the biggest misconceptions people have about ethical non-monogamy. Plus, hear the hilarious story of the Barbie-themed play party that completely changed her perspective on intimacy, and why a kiss turned out to be more controversial than everything that came after.

Come laugh with us... and maybe question a few things you thought you knew.

@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @Missfitdavis

Dirty Secrets Ep 054

“Oh Olivia – Fired for OnlyFans, Teacher by Day & Finding Her Freedom”

Imagine spending 22 years as a respected special education teacher... then losing your career because someone paid to see your OnlyFans.

Oh Olivia opens up about the day everything changed, how her husband encouraged her to start creating content, and why revealing her face behind the paywall ultimately cost her the job she'd loved for decades.

Then we get into the fun stuff...

Her first-ever boy-girl scene after being with only her husband for 27 years, filming six scenes during her very first creator weekend, embracing her hypersexual side after a lifetime of religious shame, and why she's now checking off "firsts" she never imagined she'd experience.

Plus, we talk hotwife fantasies, group scenes, flirting as a love language, and the surprisingly naughty experience that may have opened the door to a whole new kink.

👑 Host: @thekatykat @thekatykatvip

Guest: @oh_olivia_xoxo @Therealoholivia

Dirty Secrets Ep 0453

“Momma B & Vanna – The Mother-Daughter OnlyFans

Conversation Everyone's Talking About”

A mother and daughter... both successful content creators... and both willing to answer the questions everyone else is too afraid to ask.

In this unforgettable episode, Momma B and Vanna Rose open up about how Vanna was actually the one who encouraged her mom to join OnlyFans, why they refuse to create adult content together despite constant assumptions, and how they navigate an industry that most people completely misunderstand.

We also talk about confidence after 40, leaving toxic relationships, life as a dancer versus content creator, dating inside the adult industry, BDSM, dominance versus submission, body confidence, family boundaries, and why genuine personality matters more than perfection online.

It's funny, emotional, surprisingly wholesome at times, and packed with stories you've definitely never heard before.

@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @vannarosetv @mommabombshell

Dirty Secrets Ep 052

Sophia Locke – Porn Myths, Dating Disasters & Chasing the Edge

What happens when a hypersexual thrill-seeker turns her curiosity into a 16-year career in the adult industry?

Sophia Locke joins me for one of the most fascinating conversations we've had yet. We talk about the biggest myths people believe about porn, why porn performers are often better lovers than civilians, and how dating gets surprisingly complicated when your job involves sex.

We also dive into BDSM, fear play, power dynamics, the reality of filming adult scenes, and why Sophia says she's gone from chasing extreme experiences to craving intimacy and connection.

Plus, we get into awkward dating stories, jealous partners, dominant men who aren't actually dominant, and how a lifelong exhibitionist eventually found peace in being exactly who she is.

This one is funny, honest, thought-provoking, and absolutely unforgettable.

@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @sophiavincentmusic

Dirty Secrets Ep 051

“Sofie Marie – Hotwife Dates, 30-Man Gangbangs & The Husband Who Drops Her Off”

Most husbands get nervous when their wife goes on a date with another man. Sofie Marie’s husband drives her there. 😏

In this episode, Sofie shares how a former nanny ended up becoming an adult creator, hotwife, and swinger with a husband who absolutely loves hearing every juicy detail afterward. We talk about first-date butterflies, navigating open relationships, and the surprisingly sweet rituals they’ve built around their lifestyle.

We also dive into the logistics of organizing a 30-man gangbang, the reality behind hotwife dating, and why Sofie still gets nervous meeting new people, even after years in the industry.

And wait until you hear what happens when she gets home from a date...

@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @YummyGirlphotography

🎙️ Ep 050 – Amanda the Kink Consultant – Dom/Sub Truths, Male Submission & Kink Myths

Dirty Secrets Ep 050

So… what if your partner is kinky and you’re not? Or worse—you are kinky and have no idea how to say it out loud? 😏

Amanda the Kink Consultant is breaking it ALL down. We talk about how to actually start that conversation (hint: it’s not “I want to be spanked”), why male submission is way more common than people think, and what dominance really looks like beyond whips and chains.

We also get into power dynamics, the psychology behind kink, and why consent—not intensity—is what separates sexy from scary.

And yes… we go there with hypnotherapy, punishment fantasies, and the real truth about 50 Shades.

This one’s eye-opening, smart, and just the right amount of spicy. Come play.

@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @the_kinkconsultant

Dirty Secrets Ep 049

Ash & Tanya – Swinger Clubs, Reality TV Drama & LifestyleRules

🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Ash & Tanya

What happens when a random night out turns into a full-blown swinger lifestyle… and then lands you on reality TV? 😏

Ash & Tanya share how one unexpected question sparked their journey, how they found a club four minutes from their house, and why their first experiences were equal parts hot and chaotic (wait until you hear the Viagra story…).

We get into the real rules that make swinging work, how to avoid resentment, and why “don’t take one for the team” might be the most important advice you’ll ever hear.

Plus, their reality TV experience where producers literally tried to mess with their relationship for entertainment… yeah, it’s wild.

Come laugh with us.

@thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @ashandtanya

Dirty Secrets Ep 048

🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Jaimie Smiles

She went from “normal mom next door” to confidently owning her sexuality… and it all started during COVID.

Jaimie Smiles opens up about her glow-up journey, how losing weight and gaining attention sparked something new, and the moment her husband casually said, “I made you an OnlyFans.” 😳

We get into hotwife dynamics (and what people totally misunderstand about them), the rules that actually make it work, and how their relationship evolved from private exploration to filming content together.

We also talk about confidence, staying grounded while building a following, and why she still sees herself as just a chill, normal girl… who happens to love putting on a show.

Plus, a convo about orgasms, expectations, and why sex doesn’t always need a grand finale.

@thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @jaimiesmiles

Dirty Secrets Ep 047

“Chris Petrone – “Captain Tampon,” Dating Advice & Why Men Need to Wash Their Ass”

🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Chris Petrone

Is washing your ass… controversial now? Apparently, yes. 😳

Chris Petrone joins me to talk about going from dating advice guy to creating spicy content, and the unexpected backlash that comes with it. We get into parasocial fans who think they know you, why being respectful to women gets you labeled “Captain Tampon,” and the wild DMs he gets (from both men and women).

We also talk about porn vs real-life sex, why connection beats technique every time, and how something as simple as communication can completely change your sex life.

Plus, wait until you hear the custom request involving a cartoon cow… I wish I was kidding.

This one’s funny, honest, and low-key educational in the best way.

@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @ChrisPetrone

Dirty Secrets Ep 046

“Mallory Knight – Starting OnlyFans at 57, Dommy MommyEnergy & Swinger Stories”

Most people think the adult industry is a young person’s game. Mallory Knight started her career at 57.

In this episode, Mallory shares how curiosity, a supportive husband, and one intriguing conversation led her into OnlyFans later in life—and why she’s loved every minute of it since. We talk about her years in the swinger lifestyle, the surprising dynamics of filming scenes while staying happily married, and how editing her own content sometimes leaves her a little… turned on.

We also dive into her “goddess dommy mommy” persona, why younger fans are drawn to nurturing dominance, and the strange but fascinating custom content requests creators get.

Plus, the story of the night her husband encouraged her to invite a stranger from a strip club back home… and what happened next.

Host: @thekatykat @thekatykatvip

Guest: @mallorykxoxo

DirtySecrets Ep 045

“Justine Jakobs – Porn Prep Secrets, Deep-Throat Tricks & Dating While Filming”

What does it really take to perform in professional adult films?

In this episode, Justine Jakobs gets real about what life on a porn set is actually like. From the intense physical demands of filming to the surprising behind-the-scenes prep routines, she shares stories that most people never hear about.

We talk about the differences between OnlyFans collabs and professional porn sets, how performers prepare their bodies before scenes, and the reality of filming long days while staying energized and camera-ready. Justine also opens up about starting porn in her 40s, navigating relationships while working in the industry, and why professionalism and awareness matter so much on set.

Plus, she shares some wild on-set secrets, the techniques performers use to master certain scenes, and a personal story about finally testing out a fantasy she’d only seen in massage videos.

This conversation is funny, honest, and full of behind-the-curtain insights into a world most people only see through a screen.

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@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor

Follow @thekatykat @justinejakobs

Dirty Secrets Ep 044

“Mrs. Englewood – Swinger Clubs, Glory Hole Stories & 20 Years in Adult”

What happens when a casual wine night turns into a 20-year career in adult content?

Mrs. Englewood joins me in bed to talk about how she went from “girl next door” on early adult websites to a modern creator navigating OnlyFans, lifestyle clubs, and the wild evolution of the industry. We get into how adult content has changed since 2005, why personality matters more than just showing skin, and what it’s like building a career while maintaining real relationships.

We also dive into swinger clubs, lifestyle etiquette, dating after divorce, and the surprisingly sweet side of the adult community.

And of course… her dirty secret involves a pair of hidden panties, a bookstore scavenger hunt, and a very determined former pro athlete.

This one is funny, honest, and full of stories you definitely didn’t hear in health class.

Follow our guest and the show below 👇

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@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor

Follow @thekatykat @MrsEnglewood

DirtySecrets Ep 043

“Fallon Jane – Giantess Kinks, BBC Confessions & Compassionate Bukkake”

She’s 6 feet tall, turned on by cameras, and once apologized to God every time she came. Fallon Jane is not your average former church girl.

In this episode, we talk about going from pharmaceutical rep to full-time creator, why her husband doesn’t watch her scenes, and how her first bukkake needed a “do-over.” We get into giantess fetishes, mommy roleplay, money kinks, and the wild reality of filming between 4–6 PM before the kids get home.

And wait until you hear the dirty secret about her mother-in-law walking in…!

This one is hilarious, honest, and surprisingly thoughtful.

@thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @fallonjanexoxo

Dirty Secrets Ep 042

“Barefoot Mama – Getting Recognized, Collab Chaos & Ranch on Her Feet”

🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Barefoot Mama (@@barefootmamamn)

She got recognized in a Vegas restaurant by a woman screaming, “You’re that b*tch my husband pays for.” And honestly? She kind of loved it.

This episode is WILD—in the best way. Barefoot Mama (aka Jen) shares how she went from child protection investigator to viral TikToker to full-blown adult content creator. We talk about secret OnlyFans launches, collab house drama, fisting injuries (yep), gangbang goals, and what it’s really like filming back-to-back scenes with strangers.

She opens up about racism in the industry, dating disasters, feet in ranch dressing, and the pressure to be emotionally available to men while getting railed on camera. You’ve never heard a Minnesota girl tell it quite like this.

@thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @barefootmamamn

Bone on a Zamboni, anyone?

Dirty Secrets Ep 041

“Lauren Elise Rogers – Purity Culture, Secret Fantasies & Escaping Shame”

Ever tried to go from “don’t touch yourself” to “be a sex goddess overnight”? Yeah... it doesn’t exactly work. Lauren Elise Rogers was raised in deep evangelical purity culture, married a man who later came out as gay, and spent years untangling shame from her sexuality. Now? She’s a sex educator on a mission.

We go deep on obligatory sex, religious guilt, post-divorce horniness, and why masturbation was her ultimate act of rebellion. Lauren shares her fantasies (hello, teacher/student), the therapy that saved her, and what purity culture really does to long-term relationships. If you were raised to feel bad about pleasure—or still can’t shake that inner guilt—you’re going to love this one.

@thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @laureneliserogers

Dirty Secrets Ep 040

“Coy Wilder – Stranger Videos, Open-ish Marriage & Getting Caught Kissing”

Coy Wilder spills everything—from her wild past filming real-life “stranger” encounters to her unapologetically hot cheating wife fantasy series. In this no-filter convo, Coy opens up about being raised in a small Southern town, how OnlyF’s cost her friendships and family, and why getting “caught” is still her favorite thrill.

Kate and Coy dive into cuck dynamics, kissing boundaries (that went too far), and how her husband went from jealous to fully supportive… well, sort of. They talk about collabs, content, and the unexpected reality of filming sex for a living—like when Coy squirted on the cameraman from 20 feet away.

If you’ve ever wondered what really goes down behind those stranger video titles or how to balance a hotwife fantasy with real-life love, Coy doesn’t hold anything back.

@thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @officiallycoywilder

🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Brooke Ryan (@brookebanter) & Coy Wilder (@officiallycoywilder) (OF @brooke_lovelydd @brookeryanvip @coywilderxxx @coywilder)

Besties turned collab queens! Brooke and Coy open up about how they met in a creator house, went down on each other on day one, and never looked back. They talk about the blurred lines between friendship and intimacy, how collabs turned into sleepovers, and why their chemistry has fans begging for more.

From strap-on 3somes and FaceTime cuck vids to live cam parties with double “come shows,” nothing is off-limits. They dive into orgy logistics, DILF preferences, and their most popular toys—plus, how preheating the oven is essential before getting wrecked on camera.

They’re funny, flirty, and maybe in a full-blown relationship. But don’t worry, it’s still non-monogamous and profitable.

@DirtySecretsPodcast@KateShelor @brookebanter @officiallycoywilder

OF @thekatykat @brooke_lovelydd @brookeryanvip @coywilderxxx @coywilder

Dirty Secrets Ep 038

“Brooke Ryan – Banking by Day, D*ck Ratings by Night”

🎙️ Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Brooke Ryan (@brookebanter)

What happens when a conservative corporate banker discovers the wild world of OnlyF’s? Brooke Ryan tells all—from launching her secret no-face account duringthe pandemic to finally going full-face and full-throttle. Kate and Brooke talk about transitioning from buttoned-up banking to live cm shows, what makes a good dck pic (hint: it’s not size), and how dirty fingernails can ruin everything.

Brooke also opens up about her late-blooming sxual confidence, her first squirting experience, why she prefers girth over length, and the emotional balance of humiliation customs and girly collabs. This episode is full of charm, surprise, and juicy behind-the-scenes life from one of the most likable content creatorsaround.

@thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @brookebanter

Dirty Secrets Ep 037

“Autumn Rain – Fetish Fame, Trans Porn & Cosplay Confessions”

Dirty Secrets Ep 037 – 🎙️ Autumn Rain – Fetish Fame,Trans Porn & Cosplay Confessions

Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Autumn Rain (@awwtumdabottom)

Autumn Rain joins Kate to talk about how she went from pharmacy tech to viral trans adult film star—thanks to a Grindr hookup and a rebellious streak. They dive into what it’s like navigating the porn world as a trans woman, finding kinky community through FetLife, and why being a switch comes with unexpected challenges when everyone wants her to dom.

Autumn shares stories about cosplay scenes, customs she’s tired of faking, and why topping cis women is her favorite kind of shoot (hint: no prep required). They also go deep on gender identity, hormones, and why tongue tricks and lip fetishes are more important than you think.

@thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @awwtumduck

DirtySecrets Ep 036

“Vic Lagina – Brazzers, Burnout, and the Dark Side of Mainstream P*rn

Dirty Secrets Ep 036 – 🎙️ Vic Lagina – Brazzers,Burnout, and the Dark Side of Mainstream P*rn

🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Vic Lagina (@viclagina)

What really happens behind the scenes of the biggest p*rn empire in the world? Director and producer Vic Lagina opens up about his 20-year career with Brazzers—sharing how it all started with a chaotic crack-fueled first shoot and spiraled into becoming the workhorse behind one of the industry's biggest brands. Vic gets brutally honest about burnout, insane scene requests (elevator sex and prolapse stories included), and why the industry is more about ad clicks than pleasure.

They dive deep into the Me Too era, performer boundaries, and what led Vic to finally walk away after decades on top. This is a raw, unfiltered look at the rise and fall of one man’s love affair with adult films—and the toll it took along the way.

@thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @viclagina

Dirty Secrets Ep 035

“Phoenix Marie – 3,000 Scenes, Porn Politics & the Truth About Gang Bangs”

Dirty Secrets Ep 035 – 🎙️ Phoenix Marie – 3,000 Scenes,Porn Politics & the Truth About Gang Bangs

Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Phoenix Marie (@PMarizzle)

Legendary adult film icon Phoenix Marie joins Kate for a raw, hilarious, and unfiltered conversation about what it’s really like after filming 3,000+ scenes. From AVN Hall of Fame to calling out the fakes, Phoenix opens up about her preferences, orgasms, and why she’s never done a gang bang (despite being airtight more than once). They get real about industry myths, the evolution of s*x work, and the power dynamics on set—plus behind-the-scenes drama, strap-on struggles, and being cum-drunk for five hours.

Also joining is former director Vic Lagina, who dishes on porn’s glory days, male talent mishaps, and why being a “Pornasaurus” still has perks.

@thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @PMarizzle

Dirty Secrets Ep 034

“Bad Bella – Boob Jobs, Sex Wrestling & Anal Prep Diaries”

Dirty Secrets Ep 034 – 🎙️ Bad Bella – Boob Jobs, SexWrestling & Anal Prep Diaries

Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Bad Bella (@badbellaxo)

She’s got 1,000cc boobs, a psychology degree, and a wrestling scene with over a million views—and she’s just getting started. Bad Bella talks with Kate about her journey from Catholic school MySpace rebel to top 0% creator on OnlyF’s. From accidental boob jobs and feature dancing to why she’s finally prepping for her first anal scene (spoiler: she’s got a 12.5-inch dildo), Bella spills it all.

They dive into live show secrets, crazy content requests, and how being self-managed means she works harder than anyone to keep her fans fed. This episode is full of outrageous stories, big laughs, and real talk about what it takes to stay at the top in adult entertainment.

Follow @thekatykat and @badbellaxo for more from this unfiltered powerhouse. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @badbellaxo

Dirty Secrets Ep 033

“Mae Ling – Ball-Busting & Turning Subs Into Better Men”

🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Mae Ling (@adorabledomme)

Mae Ling is a professional dominatrix—and she’s not here to sugarcoat it. In this wild episode, she and Kate talk about everything from early morning ball-busting sessions to cuck fantasies, and why some men beg to be used likefurniture.

But it’s not all shock and awe. Mae explains the emotional layers behind kink, how she uses domination to help subs better themselves, and the unique bond formed through mindful sensuality. She even shares how she discovered power dynamics through bisexual play, saline breast inflation, and a very unexpected moment involving a strawberry and a 70-year-old man.

Follow @thekatykat and @adorabledomme for more of Mae’s mind-bending adventures in pleasure and power. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @adorabledomme

Dirty Secrets Ep 032

“Brittany Williams – Voyeurism, BJ Bars, and Lifestyle Confidence”

Dirty Secrets Ep 032 – 🎙️ BrittanyWilliams – Voyeurism, BJ Bars, and Lifestyle Confidence

DirtySecrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Brittany Williams (@litebritenation)

What happens when an off-road influencer finds herself at the center of a playroom on a swingers cruise? Brittany Williams opens up about her wildest adventures, including unexpected public play, her bisexuality, and why voyeurism turned out to be her favorite surprise turn-on. From threesomes with her husband to surprise bar hook-ups and sexy lifestyle parties, Brittany shares what really goes down at these adults-only events—and why she says they’ve strengthened her marriage.

They also talk about sexual freedom, body confidence, and how building trust through open communication made her relationship nearly jealousy-proof. Plus, Brittany reveals her most awkward encounter with a fan... mid-trail hookup.

Follow @thekatykat and @litebritenation for more behind-the-scenes on her wild lifestyle and off-road adventures.

@DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @litebritenation

Dirty Secrets Ep 030

“Rocky Emerson: From Gothic Giantess to Porn’s Most Unfiltered Voice”

Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Rocky Emerson

Rocky Emerson is 6'3", tattooed, and totally unfiltered—and in this episode, she opens up like never before. From her early days as a goth kid in Utah to becoming one of the most recognizable alt stars in adult film, Rocky shares howshe built a career on her own terms.

She talks about navigating the industry as a tall, heavily tattooed performer, her love for BDSM and taboo kinks, and why she’s never been afraid to speak her mind—even when it ruffles feathers. Rocky also dives into her experiences withmental health, body image, and the challenges of being both a performer and a person with boundaries.

This is a raw, honest, and often hilarious conversation with one of porn’s most compelling voices.

Dirty Secrets Ep 029

“Rebel Rhyder: Tentacle Toys & Engineering to Extreme P*rn”

🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Rebel Rhyder (@RebelRhyderXXX)

Rebel Rhyder opens up about her wildest experiences in the adult world—from shooting a basketball out of her booty to organizing not one, but two g*ng b*ngs with 102 men. And yes, she shares all the jaw-dropping logistics behind those events (fluffers, wristbands, the lube situation—you name it).

She and Kate get into the weirdest things she’s shoved in her a**, how she made the leap from aerospace engineer to p*rn star, and what it’s like watching her husband shoot scenes with other women while she films naked behind the camera.

There’s talk of tentacle play, submissive fantasies, working with trans performers, and the secret soft spot she has for frail old men. This episode is part sex-ed, part pure chaos—and all Rebel.

Follow @RebelRhyderXXX for more of her outrageous adventures and wild content.

Dirty Secrets Ep 028

“Elayna Love: Ex-Mormon Phone Sx Operator”

🎙️Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor featuring Elayna Love (@elaynalovesglamor)

Kate sits down with Elayna Love, a stripper, OnlyF’s creator, and phone sx operator who opens up about her journey from devout Mormon to erotic entrepreneur. Elayna shares how she navigated the world of sx work after years of repression and shame, revealing how the stripper pole became both her stage and her fantasy.

They dive into the wild world of fetishes—from nose-blowing requests to humiliating powerful men—and how she found healing through domination, roleplay, and radical self-acceptance. With raw honesty and unexpected humor, Elayna talks about climbing out of religious guilt, doing lap dances as a form of therapy, and why her “dirty secret” is thinking about pole dancing when she gets off.

If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like behind the scenes of NiteFlirt, strip clubs, and the real emotional journey of someone reclaiming her sexual identity—this is the episode you don’t want to miss.

Dirty Secrets Ep 027

“Carmen Valentina: 14 Guys, Wild Customs & Her No-Anal Rule”

Veteran adult film star Carmen Valentina joins Kate to talk about her 16-year career in the industry, why she prefers gangbangs over 3somes, and what it’s really like on set. Carmen opens up about her first shoot off Craigslist, how she got into Hustler, and the unexpected ease of 14-man blowbangs.

She dishes on why she refuses to do anal (you’ll want to hear the horror stories), how MILF roles took over her bookings, and the weirdest custom request she’s ever received. Plus, the two bond over Hitachi wands, clit sensitivity, and the dangers of cheap boob jobs. This is an unfiltered, hilarious, and brutally honest look at the adult industry—one that covers everything from SPH to the politics of AVN parties.

Tune in if you’re ready to learn what porn stars really think about d*ck size, swinging, and their own high sex drives.

Follow @bootyfulcarmenvalentina for more uncensored stories and sexy content. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor

Dirty Secrets Ep 026

“Milf Stardom, Taboo Fantasies & Why She’ll Never Retire”

Veronica Avluv is the ultimate MILF legend—bold, smart, and unfiltered. In this episode, Kate and Veronica dive deep into her wild ride through the adult industry, how she became a fan-favorite in taboo roles, and the truth behind those steamy stepmom scenes.

They get into everything from industry politics to Veronica’s love for real connection on camera, why she doesn’t believe in aging out of sx work, and her thoughts on how p*rn has changed over the years. Plus, she shares why she’ll never fully retire—and how she keeps fans hooked decades into her career.

This one’s funny, fiery, and full of behind-the-scenes dirt from a true icon.

Follow @TheOnlyVeronicaAvluv for moreuncensored stories and sexy content. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @TheOnlyVeronicaAvluv

DirtySecrets Ep 025

“Legal Brothels, BDSM & The Price of Intimacy”

What really happens inside Nevada’slegal brothels? Alice Little has spent a decade working as a legal courtesan, and she’s here to break down the reality of working in one of the most highly regulated industries in the U.S. She spills the truth about the screening process, wild client requests, and why men pay four to five figures for a night with a legal sx worker.

Kate and Alice also dive into misconceptions about brothels, the cost of entry for courtesans, and the unexpected FBI background checks that come with the job. They discuss the power of sex work, the stigma surrounding the industry, and why banning it does more harm than good.

Alice opens up about her background asa BDSM educator, what it’s really like to see virgins for their first time, and the strangest requests she’s ever gotten!

Follow @thekatykat and @thealicelittle for more insights into the world of intimacy, kink, and legal sx work!

Dirty Secrets Ep 024

“Milli & Jasmin: 3somes, Dating Scammers & OnlyF’s Hustle”

Kate sits down with UK creators Milli and Jasmin to talk about their wildest dating stories, including exes whoturned out to be full-blown scammers, love triangles gone wrong, and the time one of them was literally held hostage in a hotel room.

They dive into the ups and downs of their OnlyF’s careers, from the most bizarre custom requests to making contentwith partners who can’t handle the heat. Plus, they spill on their wildest 3some experiences, public play adventures, and how they ended up dropping a tape inside a Cheesecake Factory.

From escaping toxic relationships to navigating the world of adult content, this episode is full of jaw-dropping moments and unfiltered honesty.

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Dirty Secrets Ep 023

“Agatha Delicious: Sx Wrestling & Giantess K*nks”

Kate dives into the fascinating world of Agatha Delicious—wrestler, dominatrix, and OnlyF’s powerhouse. Agatha spills all about the underground world of competitive sx wrestling—where domination earns points, pegg*ng is a prize, and losers submit in more ways than one.

She also breaks down the bizarre and extreme fetish requests she gets, from vore (yes, swallowing tiny men)to even wilder! Nothing is off-limits as she dishes on wild customs and why some guys beg to get crushed between her powerful thighs.

From stripping to fetish wrestling to dominating the most submissive of men, Agatha’s journey is one of strength,sensuality, and pure power. Get ready for an episode packed with k*nk, chaos, and jaw-dropping revelations.

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Dirty Secrets Ep 022

“PAWG Emily: Phat Ass White Girl Trolling Incels”

Kate sits down with PAWG Emily (@pawgemily)to talk about the real meaning behind "Phat Ass White Girl" and howshe turned her natural curves into a thriving OnlyF’s business. Emily opens up about her journey into the industry, what it's like dealing with internet trolls, and why some guys pay just to talk sh*t to her.

They also dive into her experiences with wild custom requests, cuck fantasies, and why ass worship is one of hertop-selling knks. Emily doesn’t hold back when sharing her thoughts on body positivity, incels, and the weirdest comments she’s ever received online.

From making thousands off of viral content to navigating dating as a sx worker, this episode is raw, real, and completely unfiltered.

Follow @thekatykat, @pawgemily for more of her spicy content and @DirtySecretsPodcast for more!

Dirty Secrets Ep 021

“Momma B: MILFs, Open Marriages & Orgies”

Kate Shelor welcomes the powerhouse MILF creator, Momma B (@mommabombshell), for a deep dive into the world of OnlyFans success, open relationships, and the art of collaboration in the adult industry. Momma B shares how her own daughter convinced her to start OF, the wildest moments from her collab houses, and why she believes in sex without shame.

She dishes on her experiences with orgies, pegging, bisexuality, and how she helps new creators navigate theindustry while maintaining professionalism. Plus, she reveals the biggest misconceptions people have about her and what it’s really like being married while working in adult content.

Follow @thekatykat, @mommabombshell and @DirtySecretsPodcast for more!

Dirty Secrets Ep 020

“From CNA Senior Care to $300 Boobreveal!”

Angel Dreaming didn’t plan on becomingan adult star, but when a missed flight led to a very unconventional cash grab, everything changed. From her first-ever nude to running an OnlyFans empire, Angel shares how she went from the world of senior care to starring in wild orgies and mastering the art of roleplay.

She reveals the truth behind the industry, including her biggest turn-ons, most shocking fan requests (including one she definitely said no to), and why so many people still misunderstand porn stars. Plus, she spills on her favorite positions, the surprising way she preps for anal, and how a trip to a swinger’s resort almost led to something she never expected.

And don’t miss her dirty secret—because let’s just say, this one involves a packed bus ride, a boyfriend, and a very bold move.

Follow @thekatykat and @Angelxdreaming for more of Angel’s wild stories!

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Dirty Secrets Ep 019

“Pastor turned OnlyFs creator. God, Guilt and Getting Naked”

From the pulpit to the pole, Nikole Mitchell’s story is unlike any other. Once a mega-church pastor, she walked away from religion, came out as queer, and embraced her sexuality in a way she never imagined—by becoming an OnlyFs creator. In this episode, Nikole spills all the details about leaving her faith behind, navigating the backlash, and finding empowerment through stripping, sensuality, and online content.

She opens up about her first nude shoot, the thrill of being watched, and how she’s built a powerful career while breaking every rule she was raised with. Plus, we dive into her experiences with married men, luxury-paid dates, and the unexpected ways sex work has transformed her confidence and independence.

This is one transformation story you won’t want to miss.

Follow @thekatykat @DirtySecretsPodcast @kateshelor and @nikolemitchellofficial for more!

Dirty Secrets Ep 018

“Viral Org*es, STI Scares, and Boob Cloning”

British OnlyFans star Gia Clarke joins Kate Shelor for a no-holds-barred conversation about the raw, unfiltered side of adult content. From her viral travel lodge orgy to creating her own boob clones for fans, Gia gives an inside look at the unexpected and sometimes wild reality of sex work.

She opens up about AI-generated girlfriends, virtual sex dolls, and the future of intimacy, plus the bizarre custom request that still haunts her. But it’s not all fun and games—Gia gets real about the dangers of collaborating, the STI scare that almost ended her career, and why dating as an adult content creator is harder than ever.

If you’ve ever been curious about the behind-the-scenes of the adult industry, this is the episode you can’t miss.

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Dirty Secrets Ep 017

“PlayboyAuditions, 3some Fails, and AI Girlfriends”

Step into the glamorous and unpredictable world of Angel Porrino, where nothing is off-limits. In this episode, Angel takes us behind the scenes of her Playboy auditions, spills the tea on 3some fails, and dives into the fascinating world of AI girlfriends.

Angel shares her journey from being a Las Vegas showgirl to embracing confidence, comedy, and creativity in every aspect of her life. This is your chance to laugh, learn, and get inspired by Angel’s unapologetically bold approach to life and love.

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Dirty Secrets Ep 016

“First girl/girl experience and Sensual Art!”

Kate Shelor gets personal with Brittney Palmer, the ultimate triple threat: UFC icon, Playboy model, and accomplished artist. Brittney shares her journey from lighting up the Octagon to gracing the cover of Playboy, where she discovered a new level of confidenceand empowerment.

In this episode, she opens up about her Playboy shoot, its impact on her career and self-expression, and how shenavigates the fine line between art and sensuality in her work today. They discuss how Brittney channels her boldness into her art, her experiences in the public eye, and how she uses platforms like OnlyFs to embrace and celebrate hersensuality.

And for the Dirty Secrets moment? Brittney spills the steamy details of her first (and only!) encounter with another woman—an unforgettable experience that changed her perspectiveforever.

Follow Brittney Palmer @BrittneyPalmerArtfor more of her work and journey & @thekatykat

Dirty Secrets Ep 015

“Katie Kush - From Teacher to THOT”

In this episode, Kate Shelor sits down with the dynamic Katie Kush, a seasoned star in the adult industry. Kati shares her captivating journey from teaching in a school to building a thriving career in adult entertainment. With humor and candor, she recounts her initial steps into the industry, navigating Craigslist camming gigs, and eventually becoming a fan-favorite on mainstream adult platforms.

Katie opens up about the misconceptions surrounding adult stars, the challenges of maintaining relationships while working in adult entertainment, and the surprising realities of creating content in the digital age. She also dives into her personal experiences, from discovering her sexual energy to handling jealousy in her personal life and her plans for life beyond the industry.

This conversation is packed with eye-opening insights and hilarious anecdotes, including Katie’s “dirty secret” about her steamy escapades in gym saunas! Don’t miss this bold, intimate look at life as a modern-day adult film star.

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Dirty Secrets Ep 014

“Love Being A Sub”

In this episode, Kate Shelor sits down with Kayla, better known as Kaylust, to uncover her journey through love, lust, and liberation. Kaylust reveals how she transitioned from being known as "Submissive Cat" to forging her own path as a solo creator on OnlyFans. She opens up about navigating dominance, submission, and the complexities of consent, all while creating spicy custom content for her fans.

Kaylust shares how her marriage evolved from a series of surprise threesomes to a lifestyle of mutual exploration and personal growth. From the hurdles of being a content creator to redefining her identity and passions, this episode is packed with raw confessions and tantalizing secrets.

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Dirty Secrets Ep 013"Talk soup to talk dirty"

This episode dives headfirst into Hal's razor-sharp wit and unabashed takes on relationships, sex positivity, and societal taboos. Known for his iconic roles in Queer as Folk and Talk Soup, Hal brings his unique blend of humor and intellect to the table as he and Kate unpack the complexities ofmodern intimacy and what it means to truly connect.

From wild stories to heartfelt revelations, this conversation is as provocative as it is hilarious, offering an unfiltered glimpse into the mind of a man who’s never been afraid to push boundaries. And yes, Hal has a dirty secret to share that will leave you laughing—and maybe blushing!

Follow@thekatykat @kateshelor @HalSparks @infotainmentwars for more.

#ComedyLife#SexPositivity #HalSparks #DirtySecretsPodcast #BehindTheScene

Dirty Secrets Ep 012

"Sensory Play With Emerald"

Dive headfirst into the world of sensory play, swinging, and sensational seduction with Emerald Kiss, a dancer-turned-OnlyFans star and intimacy coach. From navigating non-monogamy to spicing up sex lives with sensory workshops, Emerald shares her captivating journey into ethical non-monogamy and her transformative approach to intimacy.

Uncover how her passion for exploration turned a late-night swingers' club visit into a life-changing experience, sparking a new chapter of erotic discovery and energy alignment with her husband. From bottle brushes to blindfolds, Emerald reveals her favorite tools for enhancing connection and unleashing pleasure in ways you’ve never imagined.

Prepare to be inspired, intrigued, and maybe even tempted to add a little sensory magic to your own bedroom adventures. Don’t miss the steamy confessions, insightful tips, and unforgettable moments as Emerald shows us how to blend energy, trust, and creativity into a truly mind-blowing experience.

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#SensoryPlay #SwingersLife #NonMonogamy #DirtySecretsPodcast #KateShelor #IntimacyJourney #EmeraldKiss

Dirty Secrets Ep 011

"Bisexual and Unfiltered"

Step into the chaotic and colorful world of Brendon Queue! In this episode, we dive deep into Brendon’s journey from corrugated box industry worker to celebrated OnlyFs content creator. Known for his bisexuality and bold authenticity, Brendon shares how he discovered his sxxuality and found freedom through adult content creation.

Explore his insights on navigating relationships in the non-monogamous and polyamorous communities, maintaining sxxual health, and breaking down societal stigmas about k*nk, masculinity, and pleasure. With stories that range from jaw-dropping gym escapades to heartwarming moments of self-discovery, Brendon opens up about the importance of safety, respect, and communication in all aspects of life—on and off camera.

Plus, Brendon spills the tea on wild behind-the-scenes antics, reveals his thoughts on modern dating, and shares a tantalizing dirty secret that might just leave you speechless.

Don’t miss this candid and compelling episode that’s equal parts hilarious, heartfelt, and hot.

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#SexPositivity #KinkLife #NonMonogamy #Bisexual #BrendonQueue #DirtySecretsPodcast #KateShelor #AdultIndustry #BehindTheScenes

Dirty Secrets Ep 010

“The Hotwife Life”

Kate Shelor interviews Monique her husband Christian and they are setting their own rules for romance, blending passion and adventure in a way that’s as daring as it is seductive. Together, they’re pushing the boundaries of what it means to share love, lust, and loyalty in the world of open relationships, all while heating up screens on OnlyFs.

In this episode, Monique unveils the secrets behind herthriving hotwife life, revealing how she balances the thrill of independence with the deep bond she shares with Christian. With Christian by her side, they dive into everything from handling jealousy to exploring fantasies, showing howtrust fuels their desire and keeps the fire burning.

Curious about what it takes to live on the edge of love anddesire? Join us for a no-holds-barred conversation that promises to reveal just how wild love can get.

Follow @thekatykat  @asianhotwife @moniquemaefree and @christianmaefor an intimate peek into Monique and Christian's electrifying world.

#HotwifeLife #ForbiddenDesires#DirtySecretsPodcast #KateShelor #OnlyFs #PassionUnleashed #RelationshipGoals#openrelationship #openmarriage

Dirty Secrets Ep 009

“RVD's Power Move: Polyamory”

Step into the ring (or bed!) with the legendary Rob Van Damas he shares his wild journey from high-flying wrestling stardom to unconventional relationship dynamics. Known for his iconic ECW and WWE career, Rob’s life has been a mix of action-packed ambition and unique personalphilosophies.

In this episode, Rob dives into the raw truths behindwrestling’s “bro culture” and how he’s navigated his non-traditional relationships, opening up about the balance of being in a throuple and the unexpected pros of polyamory. Get the inside scoop on his candid thoughts on everything from wrestling scandals to how OnlyFs and adult films are reshaping male expectations in intimacy. Rob even gives an unfiltered take on staying grounded, sharing what he calls “RVD-ology”—his personal code of Zen living and honesty that keeps him true to himself amid the glitz of wrestling and beyond.

Join us as Rob shares his dirty secret about losing hisvirginity in a way that’s pure RVD: candid, slightly shocking, and hilarious. Wrestling fans and newcomers alike, don’t miss this deep dive into the life of one of wrestling’s most unique personalities.

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#Polyamory #RVDology #WWEChampion #PodcastLife#RelationshipTalk #education

Dirty Secrets Ep 008

"HR Boss with Hot Buns"In this episode, Kate sits down with Jessica Lynn, an HR professional with a spicy side hustle. Now known on this podcast as the “HR Boss with Hot Buns,” Jess opens up about how she balances her career in HR with her passion for baking…and sharing it all on her OnlyFans. From the kitchen to the office, Jess talks about blending her love of sweets and her entrepreneurial spirit, all while keeping things sweet yet fiery. Don't miss her "dirty secret," where she shares a peek into her journey of dual careers and creativity!

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#HRBoss #HotBuns #OnlyFs #DirtySecretsPodcast #KateShelor#Empowerment #SexPositivity #DoubleLife #PodcastLife #BehindTheScenes