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| Email Follow-up Coach Ely Delaney on Nurturing Your List Without Treating People Like an ATM | 01 Mar 2026 | 00:45:46 | |
This episode is a deep dive on follow up as a coaching skill, not a tech trick.Ely breaks down why most coaches lose sales after the first conversation, and how email keeps relationships warm until people are actually ready.You also get a simple “bring them back” email you can send this week, plus the mindset shift that makes follow up feel human instead of salesy.Connect with Ely Delaney→Website: elydelaney.com→LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elydelaney/ → https://connectwithely.com/→Podcast: Meet Cool PeopleWhat this episode is about→Why email is still the most underused relationship tool in coaching→How to turn “not ready yet” leads into future clients with simple follow up→Ely’s “bring them back” approach, and why most people misjudge what “success” meansWho this helps→Coaches, speakers, and authors who meet lots of people but struggle to follow up→Service providers who want better sales conversations without chasing or spammingKey takeaways→The goal of email is relationship, not “send more newsletters.”→A good campaign creates replies, conversations, and calendar asks.→If replies are up and sales are flat, the breakdown is usually the sales conversation.→Track the journey step by step, then fix the exact step that is leaking.→Open rates are a signal, they tell you if trust and relevance are improving.→Evergreen systems win because they keep showing up without burning you out.→Add value, stay top of mind, and avoid treating people like ATMs.→Speaking works because it builds trust fast, then email keeps it alive.→Most “follow up” fails because it feels self serving.→The money is not in the list, it’s in the relationship with the list.Quotables→“My job is to keep ’em in the castle.”→“Keep ’em away from the village idiot.”→“The money is not in the list. The money is in your relationship with the list.”→“What can I help you with?”Practical tools and frameworks→The “I’m such a slacker” reactivation email→Subject: I’m such a slacker→Body: quick apology for dropping the ball, ask “What’s new and exciting in your world?”→No pitch, no graphics, make it feel like a plain email→Diagnose the funnel by steps, not vibes, find the exact drop off point→Use reply driven emails to restart conversations, then make an offer on calls→Build an evergreen nurture sequence so follow up keeps running even when you are busyBooks mentioned→Me, Inc. by Gene Simmons→On Power by Gene SimmonsHosted by Jordan Ring→I’m Jordan, ghostwriter, book coach, and developmental editor.→Let’s turn your coaching insights into a book that builds trust and grows your business.→Connect with me at jmring.com | |||
| Team Development Coach Nadine Lavigne on the Human Skills Leaders Can't Afford to Miss | 01 Mar 2026 | 00:41:05 | |
Connect with Nadine Lavigne→LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nadinelavigne/→Website: Linked in her LinkedIn profileWhat this episode is about→Why most leaders think people are “fine,” while teams feel overloaded and unclear→How curiosity and deep listening create real breakthroughs in coaching and leadership→What companies miss after rapid growth or acquisitions, and why retention needs a planWho this helps→Leaders and HR partners in fast growing companies who need clarity, goals, and accountability→Coaches and consultants who want better questions, better listening, and better outcomesKey takeaways→Most people listen to respond, not to understand.→If leaders do the human stuff well, it spreads through the organization.→Clarity is a retention tool, not a nice to have.→Goal setting and accountability systems solve more than people think.→Workshops can start change, but 1 session rarely finishes it.→Curiosity is a muscle, and it gets stronger with reps.→Ask how someone wants you to show up before you jump into advice.→Gratitude shifts leadership from command and control to human and steady.→Self advocacy matters, especially when you actually have the credibility.→Genuine connection beats cold outreach, especially in a trust heavy market.Quotables→“People don’t listen to listen, they listen to respond.”→“Do you want me to help you, hear you, or handle it?”→“It’s a process.”Practical tools and frameworks→Triple H opener: “Do you want me to help, hear, or handle?”→Curiosity reps: keep 3 to 5 go to questions you can ask in any conversation.→Deep listening prompt: “What are they saying beneath the surface?”→Clarity reset: “What are the top 3 priorities this quarter, and what gets deprioritized?”→Accountability structure: goals, owners, check ins, and follow through.Books mentioned→The Trumpet of the Swan by E.B. White→Nadine’s favorite children’s book about a mother and son, title not recalled in the episodeHosted by Jordan Ring→I’m Jordan, ghostwriter, book coach, and developmental editor.→Let’s turn your coaching insights into a book that builds trust and grows your business.→Connect with me at jmring.com | |||
| The Coachability Code Podcast — Hank Wethington on Feedback, Trust, and Measuring Coaching ROI | 17 Nov 2025 | 00:48:03 | |
Connect with Hank Wethington In this episode, executive coach and founder of Wethington Leadership, Hank Wethington, shares how real leadership growth happens through trust-based feedback, measurable coaching outcomes, and human connection. We talk about what makes feedback land, why trust is the foundation for every coaching relationship, and how leaders can prove the ROI of coaching to their organizations without losing the heart of the work. What this episode is about Who this helps Key takeaways Quotables Practical tools and frameworks Books mentioned Hosted by Jordan Ring #Coaching #Leadership #Feedback #Coachability #Trust #ROI #PersonalGrowth #ExecutiveCoaching #HR #LearningAndDevelopment | |||
| Intuitive Coaching Meets Personal Branding with Stacey Gonzales | 10 Nov 2025 | 00:43:17 | |
Connect with Dr. Stacey Gonzales: Dr. Stacey Gonzales is an intuitive transformational coach and personal branding strategist who blends deep inner work with clear marketing strategy. In this episode, we explore how intuition meets business, why clarity is everything, and what it means to build a brand from the inside out. Stacey shares stories from her own growth journey, lessons from her marathon mindset, and how she helps clients regulate their nervous systems so they can step confidently into who they’re becoming. What this episode is about Who this helps Key takeaways Quotables Practical tools and frameworks Books and movies mentioned Hosted by Jordan Ring Subscribe for more conversations on coachability, leadership, and growth. #Coaching #Leadership #PersonalBranding #Transformation #SelfLeadership #Coachability #Authenticity #EmotionalIntelligence #Mindfulness | |||
| Financial Behavior Coach (Money Coach) DonJay Rice on Financial Behavior, Coachable Change, and Hope | 02 Nov 2025 | 00:36:26 | |
Connect with DonJay Rice→ Website: https://www.drumbeatofwealth.com/→ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/donjay-rice-fbs%C2%AE-36950a297/What this episode is about→ What “financial behavior coaching” really means, and how grief and trauma shape money decisions.→ The “broken record” pattern, how it keeps repeating, and how to scratch a new groove.→ Curiosity, shame work, and small wins that compound into lasting change.Who this helps→ Individuals and couples stuck in repeating money patterns, anxiety, or avoidance.→ Coaches who want practical ways to guide clients through money emotions and behavior change.Key takeaways→ “Financial behavior coach” means rewiring habits, not just building a budget.→ The broken record shows up as repeat credit card cycles, penny pinching, or enabling kids.→ Curiosity is fuel. You cannot fix what you will not examine.→ Shame loses power when it is named, not hidden.→ Coachability looks like facing the unknown and staying open when it gets uncomfortable.→ Relentlessness matters. Momentum comes from honest work between sessions.→ Start with emotions, then skills. Calm the nervous system, then pick tools.→ Progress counts, even if you are not ready for every hard step yet.→ Community helps. LinkedIn, podcasts, and real relationships open doors and support.→ Failures are not final. Learn the lesson, give grace, and move forward.Quotables→ “I help you fix your broken record.”→ “You cannot work on what you cannot see.”→ “If you have a pulse, you have shame.”→ “Failures are not final. They are feedback.”→ “Books and budgets are tools, behavior is the engine.”Practical tools and frameworks→ Discovery journaling, map the repeating money moment and the trigger behind it.→ Motivational Interviewing, ask, reflect, and let the client choose the next step.→ 6 Stages of Change, meet people where they are, not where you wish they were.→ Enneagram awareness, notice default stress patterns around money conversations.→ Grace practice, 1 sentence of self-compassion any time you slip.Books mentioned→ Wooden by John Wooden.→ Grace Is Greater by Kyle Idleman.→ Genius of Generosity by Chip Ingram.→ Money Mammoth by Brad Klontz, Edward Horwitz, and Ted Klontz.Hosted by Jordan Ring→ I’m Jordan, ghostwriter, book coach, and developmental editor.→ Let’s turn your ideas into a book that moves people and drives results.→ Connect with me at https://jmring.com/ | |||
| Finding Your Story [Tips from a Book Coach] w/ Jonathan Jordan | 27 Oct 2025 | 00:58:32 | |
Connect with Jonathan Jordan Jonathan Jordan is a professional writer, ghostwriter, and book coach who helps authors bring their ideas to life. In this episode, we talk about how to find your story, lead with empathy, and keep your focus on the reader. Jonathan shares how his background in social work shaped his coaching approach, why “books are for readers, not authors,” and how to handle competing feedback without losing your voice. We also explore what it means to be truly coachable, how to scale your message after you niche down, and why publishing your book is actually the start of something much greater. If you’re a coach, creative, or aspiring author, this conversation will help you rethink how you tell your story and who you’re really writing it for. What this episode is about Who this helps Key takeaways Quotables Practical tools and frameworks Hosted by Jordan Ring Subscribe for more conversations on coachability, leadership, and growth. #BookCoaching #Ghostwriting #WritingTips #Storytelling #Coachability #Leadership #Creativity #Feedback #Empathy #SelfLeadership | |||
| What it (Really) Means to Coach from the Heart | A Coaching Conversation with Renée DeVore | 19 Oct 2025 | 00:44:04 | |
Connect with Renée DeVore→LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachrene...→Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soulgrowtha...→Substack: https://soulgrowthsanctuary.substack....Renée DeVore helps women build a love that lasts through self-leadership and truth. In this episode, we explore what real coaching for women looks like when it’s focused on healing from within. Renée shares how self-leadership transforms relationships, how to stop people-pleasing, and what it takes to create love that starts with yourself. She also opens up about the realities of coaching inside organizations, protecting confidentiality, and giving feedback that helps people grow without losing connection.If you’re ready to build healthier boundaries, rediscover your truth, and lead yourself before leading anyone else, this conversation is your invitation to begin.What this episode is about→How self-leadership and truth create lasting love and freedom→Why so many women feel stuck and how to break that cycle→Letting go of people-pleasing and learning to set real boundaries→Balancing heart and head in leadership and life→What happens when you coach inside a company and how to protect trust→Why sharing your story can attract the right clients naturallyWho this helps→Women ready to grow, heal, and lead from self-love→Coaches and leaders learning to balance empathy with clarityKey takeaways→Everything starts with you. Lead yourself first.→Stuck often means you’ve ignored your own truth.→Boundaries protect love. People-pleasing drains it.→Being direct in feedback builds trust faster than avoiding it.→Leadership is personal development in disguise.→Sharing your story invites connection and healing.→Coaching inside companies requires clarity on confidentiality.→Your ideal clients find you when you show up authentically.Quotables→“I help women build a love that lasts.”→“Everything starts with us.”→“Preface the conversation; Can I give you some tough feedback?”→“We are creating an opportunity to heal humanity.”→“There’s always certainty beyond logic.”Practical tools and frameworks→Five-word introduction: say what you do in five words to spark real conversation→Use feedback prompts that give people choice: “Can I give you feedback?”→Clarify who you serve and the problem they bring (“I feel stuck”)→Reflect mid-coaching: ask clients how the process feels and adjustHosted by Jordan Ring→https://jmring.comSubscribe for more conversations on coachability, leadership, and growth.If this episode inspired you, share it with someone who needs a reminder that change starts from within.#CoachingForWomen #SelfLeadership #PersonalGrowth #Relationships #Boundaries #Coachability #Leadership #Mindset #EmotionalIntelligence | |||
| Coachability, Confidence, and Playing the Long Game in Growth with Sales Coach Taylor Martino | 12 Oct 2025 | 00:34:11 | |
Connect with Taylor Martino In this episode, Taylor Martino shares what it really takes to lead, sell, and coach in the modern sales world. From her roots as a competitive athlete to her experience in B2B SaaS leadership, Taylor has much to teach us about the power of genuine human connection. She and Jordan talk about what makes someone truly coachable, how to give feedback with empathy and accountability, and why investing in your own coaching is the best way to grow your business and leadership skills. What this episode is about Who this helps Key takeaways Quotables→“If you’re not investing in yourself, how can you expect other people to invest in you?” Practical tools and frameworks Hosted by Jordan Ring Subscribe if this helped you rethink coachability. Share it with a coach who is ready for sustainable growth. | |||
| Client-Centered Coaching, Asking Good Questions, and Being Fit Over 40 with Coach Matt Fried | 12 Oct 2025 | 00:46:35 | |
Matt Fried, aka Coach Matt, is a health, nutrition, and fitness coach who helps men and women in their 40s get fit and keep the weight off. On this episode of The Coachability Code Podcast, Jordan and Matt dig into client-centered coaching, sustainable change, and how to build confidence that lasts long after the program ends. Connect with Matt Fried →Vitality Community on Skool: https://www.skool.com/vitality/about →Social: @CoachMattFried→LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachmattfried/ What this episode is about →Why most diets fail and how client-centered coaching fixes it →How to help clients create sustainable change through trust and self-awareness →Why being "fit over 40" is not a dream, it’s a decision Who this helps →Coaches who want to build deeper client trust and accountability →Anyone over 40 who’s tired of yo-yo results and ready for lasting change Key takeaways →Most diets are one-size-fits-all. Coaching works when it’s personalized, collaborative, and rooted in behavior change. →"Responsible to you, not for you." Coaches guide, clients act. →Use Ready, Willing, and Able (1–10 scale). If a task is below a 9, shrink the step. →Progress is usually squiggly line, not a straight drop. Expect fluctuations, not failure. →Words matter. Replace "I was bad" with "I made choices that didn’t serve my goal." →Feedback is fuel. There is no failure, only feedback. →Build trust through empathy and silence. Listen more than you talk. →Confidence is the true graduation. Clients who can decide what works on their own have won. →Long-term success comes from small, sustainable actions, not quick fixes. →Being fit over 40 is absolutely possible with consistency and patience. Quotables →"Good coaches ask good questions. The answers are already inside you." →"Be direct with the problem, soft with the person." →"There is no failure, only feedback." →"Slow the step down until it’s a 9 or 10 on Ready, Willing, Able." →"Most people don’t need more information, they need better support." →"Confidence is built by doing small things well, over and over." Practical tools and frameworks →Client-centered intake: start with "Why are we on this call right now?" →Ready, Willing, and Able: 1–10 scale to size habits properly →The "weight window" mindset for long-term consistency →Reframing language from shame to curiosity →Creating a safe, judgment-free container for feedback Books mentioned →The Icarus Deception by Seth Godin →The Three-Body Problem Trilogy by Cixin Liu →Nonviolent Communication by Wayland Myers Hosted by Jordan Ring →Ghostwriter, Book Coach, Author, and Host of The Coachability Code Podcast →Connect: https://jmring.com Subscribe if this conversation helped you rethink what it means to be coachable, and share it with someone who’s ready for sustainable change. | |||
| Slow to Hurry: Jacob Dyke on Unlocking Coachability with Patience, Clarity, and Faith | 05 Oct 2025 | 00:46:25 | |
Connect with Jacob LinkedIn: Jacob Dyke: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacob-dyke/ Newsletter: The Anchored Entrepreneur. Practical ways to improve productivity without burnout while keeping Christ at the center: https://sites.google.com/anchorcoaching.co/productivityguide/Home Who’s Jacob Dyke Founder of Anchor Coaching, Jacob helps Christian entrepreneurs make faster, better decisions and execute without burning out. Think clarity of vision, ruthless prioritization, and steady follow-through. Quick icebreakers →Favorite books: The Lord of the Rings trilogy; runner-up: Mistborn: The Final Empire by Brandon Sanderson →Favorite movie: Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back →One weird thing: Dressed as Moses to lead college game-day cheers in a student section called “The Red Sea.” Event security once tackled him mid-Moses. Topics discussed on the show: →Trust before tactics: Clients open up about fear, confusion, and resistance only when there is real trust. That honesty reveals the real blocker and the right next step. →Vision before velocity: The hardest clients are not lazy. They are unclear. No clear where means no consistent how. Jacob helps them narrow options and commit. →Isolation, overwhelm, burnout: Founders make constant decisions and carry the load alone. Jacob builds sustainable rhythms so productivity lasts beyond a short sprint. Wins and sticking points →Best student vibe: As soon as priorities are clear, they execute. Clarity plus bias to action equals rapid compounding progress. →Where people get stuck: Action items stall when the goal is fuzzy, fear is unspoken, or the step was the coach’s idea. The fix is co-created steps, a smaller first move, or revisiting the vision. Practical takeaways you can use this week →Co-create next actions. Ask, “What feels like the single next step you choose to take?” Let them say it, size it, and schedule it. →Run a vision check. If progress is stalling, revisit the outcome. Ask, “What would make this direction a clear yes or a no?” →Decide by subtraction. In confusion, eliminate two options this week. Fewer choices create momentum. →Install a feedback loop. Use start, stop, continue with your client or team after key actions. →Right-size the schedule. Build a realistic week that protects deep work and family time. →Accountability cadence. Confirm who, what, when, how you will know it is done. →Breath and reset. Jacob’s micro-ritual for overwhelm: slow down, breathe, talk to God. →Adopt his mantra: be slow to hurry, be quick to execute. Set direction with care, then move. Building a coaching business, Jacob’s way →Pick your people. He niched to Christian entrepreneurs so messaging and programs speak directly to real pains. →Go where they are. Most content and conversations happen on LinkedIn, where his audience already hangs out. →Iterate the message. Test, learn, refine. He chose depth over chasing every possible segment or format. Soapbox moment: Be slow to hurry, quick to execute. Take the pause to aim your efforts, then commit and move. Sprinting is useful, not permanent. Sustainable pace wins. Connect with Jordan Enjoyed this convo? Subscribe to The Coachability Code Podcast on YouTube and Spotify. Thinking about writing a book and need a coach or ghostwriter who will keep you moving? Visit https://jmring.com/hire-jordan/ or email: jordan@jmring.com | |||
| Living Your Reckoning: Jason Blydell on Courage, Embracing Imperfection, and the Raw Power of Real Connection | 30 Sep 2025 | 00:49:43 | |
This week on the Coachability Code Podcast I have Jason BlydeIl, father of four under six, husband, and professional coach based in North Carolina. His work is all about guiding people into deeper conversations with themselves so they can create lives full of aliveness and meaning. I loved our conversation and its many insights, and I know you will too!
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| Space for Growth: How Leaders Think, Grow, and Actually find Time to Lead with Leadership Coach Jennifer Recla | 30 Sep 2025 | 00:48:13 | |
In this episode I sat down with Jennifer Recla, Colorado-based leadership coach and consultant who helps senior leaders, especially in nonprofit and healthcare, manage time, build high-performing teams, and lead with confidence. We had a blast discussing all things coachability in this episode. Enjoy!
Connect with Jennifer Recla on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenniferrecla/ and at https://jenrecla.com | |||
| GB Men's Padel Coach Sandy Farquharson on Why Most People Plateau And How to Help Them Break Through | 22 Feb 2026 | 00:40:18 | |
Connect with Sandy Farquharson What this episode is about Who this helps Key takeaways Quotables Practical tools and frameworks Books mentioned Hosted by Jordan Ring | |||
| From SEAL to Coach: Kevin Stark on Purpose, Patience, and the Power of Accountability in Coaching | 30 Sep 2025 | 00:50:02 | |
In this episode, I sit down with Kevin Stark, Navy SEAL veteran turned leadership coach. Kevin shares how his journey from military service to personal and leadership development has shaped the way he helps leaders, executives, veterans, and teams live with more purpose and clarity. Kevin’s work focuses on guiding clients to manage energy, self-awareness, and structure in life so they can be better leaders, parents, and humans. We talk about:
🔗 Connect with Kevin: aretepath.com 🔗 Find him on LinkedIn: Kevin Stark | |||
| Clear Before Clever: Anna Ludwinowski on Growing Your Business with the Power of Clarity | 30 Sep 2025 | 00:48:38 | |
Today with me on The Coachability Code we have Anna Ludwinowski, Business CLARITY Coach for STUCK & SCATTERED 7-figure Founders & Solos. Anna is a dear friend, mentor, and LinkedIn compatriot. I hope you cherish her wisdom here as much (or more!) than I have.
👉 Connect with Anna Ludwinowski on LinkedIn and visit her website here to connect with her for business coaching opportunities. | |||
| What is The Coachability Code Podcast? | 25 Sep 2025 | 00:13:27 | |
In this first episode, Jordan brought on his wife, Miranda, to make the intro more fun and less one-sided. They used to run a podcast together, so she was a natural fit to introduce this new show.
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| Business Coach Lisa Klein on Simplicity, Sustainability and Why all Coaches NEED a Lead Magnet | 18 Feb 2026 | 00:33:11 | |
Connect with Lisa Klein→Website: lisakleinco.com→LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisakleinco/What this episode is about→Why high achievers get stuck in perfectionism and how to keep moving anyway→What a lead magnet really is, and why it protects your business from platform risk→How to build a simple foundation so launches stop feeling chaoticWho this helps→Coaches and online service providers who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or burnt out→High achieving women who know the vision, but need a clear path to get thereKey takeaways→Most people know point B, they just can’t create a clear plan to reach it.→The best clients trust the process, implement, and keep taking action.→Perfectionism delays results, “ready” is a trap.→A lead magnet is any value exchange that earns an email address, not just a PDF.→Owned audience matters because social platforms can restrict or remove accounts.→Relationships drive growth, kindness and consistency win.→Launches often feel slow until the final stretch, that’s normal.→If something doesn’t work, audit the breakdown instead of scrapping everything.→Confidence is built after action, not before.→Simple can be sustainable, and sustainable is what compounds.Quotables→“Trust the process.”→“Letting go of perfectionism.”→“No, just do it.”→“Keep it super simple.”Practical tools and frameworks→Create a lead magnet that fits your style, PDF, workshop, challenge, event, podcast, anything that captures email.→Set launch benchmarks early, open cart date, close date, and realistic targets.→When a launch stalls, audit subject lines, open rates, follow up, and outreach, before changing the offer.→Prioritize relationship building, comments, DMs, and coffee chats.→Focus on 1 small, consistent step that builds momentum.Books mentioned→Atomic Habits by James ClearHosted by Jordan Ring→I’m Jordan, ghostwriter, book coach, author, and developmental editor.→Have you ever thought about writing a book.→Contact me at jordan@jmring.com→Connect with me at jmring.com | |||
| Phone Readiness Coach Kathy Van Benthuysen on Tech Responsibility, Developing Character, and Coaching Teens | 09 Feb 2026 | 01:02:39 | |
Connect with Kathy Van Benthuysen What this episode is about Who this helps Key takeaways Quotables Practical tools and frameworks Books mentioned Hosted by Jordan Ring | |||
| The Coachability Code Podcast — Tina Robinson on Accountability, Ownership, and Coachability | 02 Feb 2026 | 01:04:59 | |
Connect with Tina Robinson →Website: workjoycoaching.com →LinkedIn: Search “Tina Robinson Work Joy” →LinkedIn hashtag: #TinaRobinsonSpeaks What this episode is about →Why leadership programs fail when nobody can explain the “why” →How to choose the right “how,” coaching vs training vs accountability →Tina’s new book, Developing Your Business Leaders: A Guide to Investing At All Levels, and the framework behind it Who this helps →Coaches, HR leaders, and talent teams who want leadership investment to stick →Founders and managers who are tired of programs that change nothing Key takeaways →Most leadership initiatives die because they start with the how. →If you can’t explain the business why, people will treat it like fluff. →Coaching is powerful, AND it’s the wrong tool for a lot of problems. →If a whole group has the same gap, training usually beats 1:1 coaching. →Some “coaching needs” are performance issues wearing a coaching costume. →The best work starts with what now, not what next. →Giving someone permission to pause can be the breakthrough. →A good coach adapts to the human, not the other way around. →Rigid processes create compliant clients, not changed behavior. →Ownership and accountability are coachable, but they need modeling too. Quotables →“Write when you feel it, keep writing until there isn’t.” →“You helped me focus on what now.” →“We skip to the how, and then nothing sticks.” →“Coaches must have coaches.” Practical tools and frameworks →Start with Why, then What, then Who, then choose the How. →Ask “Is this a coaching problem, or an accountability problem?” →If you’re in transition, pause the merry-go-round before picking “what next.” →Define the behaviors you want changed before you buy a program. Books mentioned →Truman by David McCullough →Developing Your Business Leaders: A Guide to Investing At All Levels by Tina Robinson →Multipliers by Liz Wiseman →Radical Candor by Kim Scott →Crucial Conversations by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, Al Switzler Hosted by Jordan Ring →I’m Jordan, ghostwriter, book coach, and developmental editor. →Let’s turn your coaching insights into a book that builds trust and grows your business. →Connect with me at jmring.com | |||
| → The Coachability Code Podcast — Jared H on Passion, Pressure, and Personal Growth | 27 Jan 2026 | 00:46:42 | |
Connect with Jared H →LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaredwilliamhamilton/ →Instagram: @jaredw.hamilton What this episode is about →Why “1 sentence branding” breaks for people who live multi-threaded lives →What makes someone coachable, especially under pressure and pain →How to lead, coach, and build systems when your life is full Who this helps →Business owners who love the business AND feel trapped by it →Leaders, coaches, and parents who want to develop people with clarity and backbone Key takeaways →Jared doesn’t try to shrink his identity to sound clean online, he owns the complexity. →Coachability shows up fast in humility, not in “I know everything” energy. →Pain can crack people open in a good way, it creates the willingness to learn. →A coach who’s been in the mud can warn you about the emotional toll of change. →Change is rarely the problem, the transition is where people melt down. →Great coaching starts with expectations, before anything gets hard. →Accountability works better with deadlines and clear follow-up, not hand-holding. →Praise the behaviors you want repeated, then you get more of them. →Sometimes the best “coach” is a peer group that makes you feel less alone. →A coach who is light-years ahead can expand what you believe is possible, then pull you back to the next tiny step. Quotables →“I don’t think I can introduce myself briefly.” →“I am too many.” →“If there is something that gets a hold of me that I want to know more of, just do not stand in my way.” →“Change doesn’t kill the business, it’s the transition.” →“True coaching, I believe, is transferring your passion.” →“Send me a DM that says Freedom.” Practical tools and frameworks →Set expectations up front, so you have a clear standard to coach back to later. →2-week coaching cadence with 2 to 3 homework items, plus a real accountability deadline. →Use personality lenses like DISC or Color Code to tailor how you coach each person. →Reverse-engineer growth with: “What has to be true for this to happen?” →Freedom assessment: DM Jared “Freedom” to get his survey on how much the business owns you. Books mentioned →Atomic Habits by James Clear →Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg →The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy →Dirt to Soil by Gabe Brown →Profit First by Mike Michalowicz →Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss →How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie →David Goggins books → I’m Jordan, ghostwriter, book coach, and developmental editor. → Let’s turn your coaching insights into a book that builds trust and grows your business. → Connect with me at jmring.com #Coaching #Entrepreneurship #Leadership #Coachability #BusinessOwner #Mentorship #Habits #TeamBuilding #TimeManagement | |||
| The Coachability Code Podcast — Christian Lessing on Pain, Trust, and Coachability | 06 Jan 2026 | 00:45:47 | |
Connect with Christian Lessing→LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/christian-lessing-6a4357122/What this episode is about→Why real growth requires walking through discomfort→How trust shapes every coaching relationship→What “initiation” looks like in leadership and coachingWho this helps→Leaders who want to develop people, not just manage tasks→Coaches working with clients who avoid discomfort, feedback, or follow-throughKey takeaways→If you want transformation, you cannot keep dodging the painful parts.→Coaching that actually works takes time, trust, and repetition.→A real coach helps you see blind spots you cannot name on your own.→Initiation matters, someone needs to point at what you are missing.→Curiosity is a cheat code for growth, in work and in life.→Self-awareness makes feedback usable instead of threatening.→People-pleasing can look like “progress,” while quietly killing the work.→Good coaching includes healthy friction and honest disagreement.→If trust is missing, say it out loud and deal with it directly.→Sometimes the best coaching move is referring someone to a different kind of help.Quotables→“Don’t avoid pain.”→“Trust is CRIS.”→“Let’s go for a walk and let’s talk.”→“You can learn from each and every person that you meet.”→“If you don’t have trust with your coach, quit.”Practical tools and frameworks→CRIS trust check: credibility, reliability, intimacy, and self-interest.→Johari Window prompt: ask someone what they see in you that you do not see yet.→Initiation sentence: “I think there’s something you could pay attention to.”→Anti-people-pleasing rule: digest the feedback, challenge it, and keep what fits.→Relationship reset: name the trust gap directly, then decide if you continue.Books mentioned→The Schopenhauer Cure by Irvin D. YalomHosted by Jordan Ring→ I’m Jordan, ghostwriter, book coach, and developmental editor.→ Let’s turn your coaching insights into a book that builds trust and grows your business.→ Connect with me at jmring.com#Coaching #Leadership #Trust #Feedback #Growth #Coachability #SelfAwareness #PersonalDevelopment | |||
| The Coachability Code Podcast with Candice Van Dertholen on Energy Work, Identity, and Confidence | 01 Dec 2025 | 00:50:10 | |
Connect with Candice Van Dertholen → Instagram: instagram.com/candice_elizabeth.co → Website: heal.me/candice → Email: thewarriorwithinhealing@gmail.com In this episode, holistic energy practitioner Candice Van Dertholen shares how grounded energy work helps entrepreneurs reconnect with themselves, clear old patterns, and build the capacity for real growth. We talk about identity, embodied confidence, breaking cycles, and the truth about why some people stay stuck even when they are doing all the “right” things. What this episode is about → Why high achieving people lose their inner connection → How clarity and grounded awareness shift everything → Patterns that repeat across relationships, business, and money → What energy actually is inside the body and how to work with it → How clients sabotage themselves when they are not ready → Why inner work prepares you for aligned clients and growth → The real reason coaches struggle with confidence and capacity → How to trust your intuition in your business → Using energy practices to reduce burnout and rebuild presence Who this helps → Coaches who want to understand how energy impacts client results Key takeaways → Energy work is not about performance, it is about clarity and identity. → Your patterns repeat until you finally look at them. → Inner work increases your ability to hold clients, money, and visibility. → When you embody who you are, the right people find you. → Confidence grows from consistency, not overnight breakthroughs. → You cannot fake grounded energy. → Success does not arrive until your nervous system can hold it. → Clarity comes from doing the deeper work, not skipping around it. → You attract clients at the level of your own alignment. Quotables → “You cannot sell what you are not aligned with.” → “Embodiment is the real confidence.” → “Your business has its own energy and its own signature.” → “Most entrepreneurs are hyper independent until it breaks them.” Books mentioned Hosted by Jordan Ring → Let’s turn your coaching insights into a book that builds trust and grows your business. → Connect with me at jmring.com #Coaching #EnergyWork #Leadership #Identity #Entrepreneurship #PersonalGrowth #GroundedConfidence #HolisticHealing #Coachability | |||
| The Coachability Code Podcast, Brian LaFontaine on Owning Your Voice and Being Unapologetically You | 30 Nov 2025 | 00:48:54 | |
Connect with Brian LaFontaine→ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/brian-lafontaine→ Instagram: instagram.com/blafontaineymhs→ Website: brianlafontaine.comIn this episode, actor turned public speaking coach Brian LaFontaine shares the truth about confidence, presence, and dropping the exhausting need to perform.We talk about transitioning careers after 30 years in acting, how to bring the real you on stage, and what happens when fear, ego, and identity get tangled up in your work.What this episode is about→ How to shift careers after a long season of identity dressing→ Bringing the offstage version of yourself onstage→ Why audiences connect to authenticity more than perfection→ How to help clients who are terrified of visibility→ Releasing the pressure to be the smartest person in the room→ Coaching people who never practice between sessions→ How rejection builds resilience and trust in your craft→ Learning to speak in a way that people can actually hear→ Why trying to sound like everyone else kills your impact→ Using your strengths to build your business from the ground upWho this helps→ Coaches working with clients who struggle to show up as themselves→ Anyone building a speaking or communications based businessKey takeaways→ Your audience wants you, not the polished performance version of you.→ You cannot fake presence.→ Confidence comes from talking about what you already know.→ Speaking is personal work, not just professional work.→ Silence is not danger, silence is power.→ People buy from energy, not scripts.→ You cannot coach someone who refuses to practice outside the session.→ Rejection is not a stop sign, it is training.→ If you want to stand out, stop blending in.→ Your first strength is the one you should build your business on.Quotables→ “Be unapologetically you.”→ “Don’t change who you are the moment you start talking.”→ “You don’t have to be the smartest person in the room.”→ “Most people are terrified to let themselves be seen.”→ “Blending in is for makeup, not for speaking.”Practical tools and frameworks→ Start with what you know to build your speaking confidence→ Practice being the same person onstage and offstage→ Let clients rehearse imperfectly so they can find their real voice→ Ask clients where they feel most confident and build from that→ Use simple, human language in place of rigid corporate scriptingBooks mentioned→ Superfudge by Judy Blume→ The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay StanierHosted by Jordan Ring→ I’m Jordan, ghostwriter, book coach, and developmental editor.→ Let’s turn your coaching insights into a book that builds trust and grows your business.→ Connect with me at jmring.com#Coaching #PublicSpeaking #Authenticity #Leadership #Communication #Coachability #StagePresence #Confidence #PersonalGrowth | |||