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Ep. 110: Women Aren’t Allowed to Want12 May 202600:30:46

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 You’ve been told to be content. 

To wait quietly.

To make sure you never look desperate.

But what if the desire you keep trying to silence is not the problem?

This is a bold, tender word for the Christian woman who wants marriage and is tired of apologizing for it.

You’re also invited to Come and Pray this Saturday, May 16th, 2026.

No teaching. No coaching. Just prayer for women who desire marriage.

To receive the invitation, email michelle@thechristiandatingcoach.com
with the word PRAYER.

Ep. 109: You’re Still Settling14 Apr 202600:06:34

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This is for the Christian woman who is no longer available for an “almost” life and is ready to leave the wrong path behind.

In this episode, I’m talking about what changes when a woman is truly done settling—not just for the wrong man, but for any path that is not leading to the life she desires.

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Ep. 100: The 4 Heart Postures of My Clients Who Marry High-Caliber Men27 Oct 202500:09:01

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After 100 episodes, hundreds of coaching calls, and more weddings than she ever imagined, Michelle has seen the pattern — the women who get married think, believe, and show up differently.

In this milestone episode, she reveals the 4 heart postures that define her most successful clients — the ones who attract high-caliber, godly men and build lasting, covenant marriages.

This isn’t a pep talk or dating advice. It’s a roadmap for transformation.
If you’ve ever wondered what makes love “click” for some women while others stay stuck, this episode will show you exactly what separates the breakthrough from the burnout.

💍 Faith. Ownership. Alignment. Transformation.
 Let’s get you married, sis. 💙

Ep. 10: Honey Words23 Jun 202400:05:50

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It's what it sounds like, but with a twist.

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Ep. 9: Show your Value23 Jun 202400:09:12

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This is the toughest part of the foundation of my coaching. This is why people hire me. Have a listen.

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Ep. 8: Grow your Value23 Jun 202400:10:26

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You're already doing this, but you're missing one key step.

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Ep. 7: Know your Value23 Jun 202400:10:38

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This title says it all. Do not skip this podcast.

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Ep. 6: Siren Energy23 Jun 202400:09:00

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This is something you have NEVER heard of before. This podcast is a must listen.

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Ep. 5: Siren Voice23 Jun 202400:04:03

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OK, Disney gets a lot of credit for this particular concept. Enjoy!

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Ep. 4: Flirt Pure23 Jun 202400:12:19

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Flirt Pure is my brain child. Listen to hear some beautiful concepts.

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Ep. 3: Know Grow Show23 Jun 202400:08:11

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This is the foundation of my coaching program.

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Ep. 2: 3 Needs23 Jun 202400:07:46

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You need these 3 things to get married this year.

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Ep. 1: Welcome23 Jun 202400:07:11

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Hello World! This is my first podcast. Come get to know me. I have  A LOT to say and can't wait to meet you. I am THE Christian Dating Coach and I want to help you get married - this year!

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Ep. 99: Behind the Scenes: So Much Love Is in the Air. Are You Ready for It Too?23 Oct 202500:05:27

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Love is in the air—holy, romantic, life-changing love. 💙

In this short behind-the-scenes update, Michelle shares what’s been happening inside the Kingdom Bride Unlocked coaching program and in her own home.

Clients who once started single are now in relationships. They’re glowing from makeovers and photo shoots that have them saying, “I feel like Beyoncé. I feel like J.Lo.” 👑

Others are being pursued by godly men who plan romantic, Spirit-filled trips and even holiday family visits. And on Michelle’s end? There are corn-maze walks with her kids, haunted-house dates with Caleb, and gratitude for the way God restores the years the locusts have eaten.

She’s also unveiling what’s next: Relationship Success Secrets — a brand-new series drawn straight from the lessons her clients are learning about confidence, connection, communication, and holy chemistry in real time.

If you’re ready to feel that same movement in your own love life, join Michelle for the Swipe. Match. Marry. Masterclass — happening this Sunday, just in time for the holidays. 🎄

👉 Reserve your free seat: www.TheChristianDatingCoach.com/masterclass

You’re not behind. You’re being prepared. Let’s get you ready for love. 💍

Ep. 98: Mind Reading Isn’t Love — Learn to Speak His Language20 Oct 202500:12:38

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If you’ve ever wished a man could just know what you need — this episode is for you.

In “Mind Reading Isn’t Love — Learn to Speak His Language,” Christian dating coach Michelle Joiner reveals the secret to creating real connection: not through hints or pressure, but through communication that inspires. She shares her own long-distance story with her husband Caleb, the moment she stopped wishing he’d read her mind, and how learning to speak King’s Language transformed everything.

Discover how to express your heart with clarity, call out the hero in a godly man, and experience the kind of love that feels safe, warm, and secure.

🎓 Join the Swipe. Match. Marry. Masterclass this Sunday, October 26 — and upgrade to VIP for Male Language Secrets.
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Ep. 97: Your Thoughts Create Your Results — and Some Thoughts Will Keep You Single16 Oct 202500:15:03

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What if the biggest thing keeping you single isn’t your circumstances… but your thoughts?

In this episode, Michelle breaks down the biblical and practical truth that your thoughts don’t just describe your life — they create it. You’ll learn how what you think determines how you feel, how you show up, and the kind of relationships you attract.

This isn’t just mindset work. It’s Romans 12:2 in action — renewing your mind so that transformation becomes inevitable. 💙

💌 Connect with Michelle:
If this episode hit home, email michelle@thechristiandatingcoach.com
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Ready to renew your mind, restore your confidence, and meet the man God’s been preparing for you?

Book your consultation call using this link: Consultation Call — The Christian Dating Coach

Ep. 96: Crazy Things Christian Singles Hear13 Oct 202500:07:33

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You know what’s crazy? The things Christian singles get told.
“Just be content.” “Jesus should be enough for you.” “It’ll happen when you least expect it.”

We’ve all heard them — the clichés that sound holy but secretly make you feel unseen, confused, or stuck.

In this episode, Michelle gets real about the advice that holds singles back — and what faith actually looks like when you’re believing for marriage. It’s honest, freeing, and just the eye-roll of understanding you needed this week. 💙

💌 Connect with Michelle:
What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever heard as a Christian single?
Email her at michelle@thechristiandatingcoach.com
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If this episode hit home, leave a review and forward it to a friend who needs to hear it.


Because your handsome, godly husband is closer than you think… and Michelle’s here to help you find him. 💙

Ep. 95: Shocking Words from My Dating Coach That Will Encourage and Heal You06 Oct 202500:16:51

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I had to stop recording this episode three times because I couldn’t stop crying.

This might be the most important message I’ve ever shared on the podcast — and yes, it’s marked explicit, because there was no other way to say it.

In this raw, unfiltered conversation, I open up about what it was really like to be single into my 30s — the waiting, the loneliness, the “be content” comments that only made it worse.

And then I share the moment everything changed — five shocking words from my dating coach that broke the chains I’d been living under for far too long.

If you’ve ever cried in confusion while waiting for love, this one’s for you. Listen all the way through — there’s healing woven into every word.

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Ep. 94: A Kiss in Time for New Year's02 Oct 202500:12:46

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Imagine walking into the holidays with more than just another lonely year behind you… imagine a man by your side, a best friend, a partner who adores you — and a kiss in time for New Year’s.

This episode will show you why it hasn’t happened yet, what’s really been holding you back, and the one different approach that changes everything. If you’ve ever wondered if it’s too late for you, the answer is no. Your story isn’t over, and love can still come faster than you think.

💙 Ready for your kiss in time for New Year’s? Don’t let another year slip away.

Book your consultation today: [CLICK HERE TO SCHEDULE YOUR FREE CONSULTATION]

Ep. 93: Ask the Guys Interview – “Why He Hasn’t Asked You Out”29 Sep 202500:58:08

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You asked to hear from Caleb again—and this time he’s joined by two of his friends for an unfiltered, faith-filled conversation about dating and marriage. In this special extended episode, the guys share what really goes on in a man’s mind:

  • Making the first move (and why he hasn’t yet)
  • Communication in marriage and gracious reminders
  • How long it takes a guy to know if he wants to marry you
  • Red flags in Christian men
  • What men actually look for in a wife

This conversation is straight from the Ask a Guy section inside Kingdom Bride Unlocked: The Course. Inside the course, there are seven full conversations just like this one, where Caleb and other godly men answer the exact questions my clients ask.

If you loved this conversation, imagine what the other six will unlock for you.

👉 Join Kingdom Bride Unlocked: The Course today and get access to all seven Ask a Guy sessions—plus my full blueprint for meeting, attracting, and marrying your handsome, godly husband: [CLICK HERE FOR COURSE LINK]

Ep.92: This is How I Created the Chemistry That Won Caleb25 Sep 202500:22:30

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Last episode, you heard from Caleb, his side of our love story—how we met, what drew him in, and what made him commit. But what if I told you there’s a reason behind the chemistry he kept describing? In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how attraction, desire, and connection can be created intentionally—without compromising your faith or your values.

If you’ve ever wondered why some conversations fizzle while others spark electricity that can lead to commitment, this one will open your eyes.

Sis, don’t leave your love story up to chance. The same strategies that won Caleb are the ones I now teach my clients—and they’re seeing real results. One of my clients met an incredible man just 14 weeks into coaching, and two months later, they’re already talking about marriage.

CLICK HERE to book your free consult call today and let’s see if Kingdom Bride Unlocked is right for you. Your love story doesn’t have to wait another year. Let’s get you married, sis. 💙

Ep. 91: How We Met & Why He Chose Me: An Interview with My Husband22 Sep 202500:41:30

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It's Caleb's birthday today, and in this special episode, he's joining Michelle to share his unfiltered journey—what it was like being single, using dating apps, and wondering if the right woman was even out there. 

He reveals what caught his attention when he saw Michelle’s profile, why saving sex for marriage impressed him, and that moment in Michigan when he realized he wanted to commit. 

If you’ve ever doubted that godly men still exist, this conversation will remind you they do. 

Praying this episode brings you hope and clarity. Subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs encouragement. 

Want to connect more? DM me on Instagram or email michelle@thechristiandatingcoach.com
—I’d love to hear your story.

Ep. 108: The Man You Want Has Already Met You10 Mar 202600:13:22

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Many extraordinary women quietly come to the same painful conclusion:

The kind of man I want must not exist.

But what if that isn’t true?

What if the man you want has already crossed your path…
 and simply didn’t recognize you?

In this episode, Michelle Joiner shares a surprising insight about modern dating, recognition, and why the strategy most women use to find love may actually be working against them.

Stop looking.

Be findable.

If you’re ready to become unmistakably recognizable to the kind of man you’re looking for, you can request a private consult through the link below.

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Ep. 90: Dating App Photos That Make Him Commit18 Sep 202500:17:06

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Dating apps are brutally visual — and low-quality photos are the #1 reason amazing women are being overlooked online.

In this episode, Michelle unpacks why photos matter more than your bio, what rules to follow if you want to attract a high-quality man, and how her clients transform their results when they upgrade their photos strategically. You’ll hear:

The quick “six-month test” to know if your photos are working or not

Why selfies and group shots actually hold you back

Five rules for photos that create pursuit, not just likes

A client story that proves the right photos can make a man cross 2,000 miles to meet you

The deeper truth: high-quality men respond to high-strategy photos

Your photos aren’t just decoration — they’re decision makers. And when they’re not optimized, they could be holding your love story hostage.

👉 If you’re ready to stop hiding and step into the love story God has for you, don’t waste another six months on the apps with the wrong photos. [Click HERE to Book your consult with Michelle today.]

Ep. 89: The Secret to Feeling Beautiful — What Men Really Think15 Sep 202500:14:22

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Every woman wonders: what do men really think about beauty? In this episode, Michelle reveals the secret to feeling beautiful—not by chasing perfection, but by aligning with God’s definition of beauty and your own. 

You’ll hear surprising insights from Christian men on attraction, discover why confidence is more magnetic than looks, and learn the simple shift that changes how the world responds to you.

This isn’t about filters or celebrity standards. It’s about uncovering the truth that can transform your confidence, your relationships, and your future.

✨ And if you’re ready to take this deeper, everything we talked about today—the biblical redefinition of beauty, the confidence framework, plus the raw conversations from my Ask a Guy sessions—is waiting for you inside my Kingdom Bride Unlocked course. Get instant access here: The Course — The Christian Dating Coach
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📲 And don’t forget, I share my daily beauty and confidence routines, outfits, and behind-the-scenes family life over on Instagram. Follow me here: Instagram: Christian Dating Coach
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Let’s get you married, sis.

Ep. 88: The Four Truths That Will Get You Married Faster11 Sep 202500:18:55

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In this powerful episode, Michelle Joiner reveals The Four Truths That Will Get You Married Faster—truths no one ever told you about why you’re still single and how to break free from the cycle of delay.

With raw honesty, biblical wisdom, and real client success stories, Michelle dismantles the lies that keep women stuck and shows you the proven roadmap out of delay.

If you’re ready to stop paying the “Single Tax,” guard your heart, and finally step into the love God has prepared for you, this episode will light the fire to act today.

✨ Ready to stop the cycle of dead-end dates and finally be married to a high-caliber, godly husband? [Click HERE to book your consult call today.]

Ep. 87: How to Speak the Language of High-Value Men08 Sep 202500:14:04

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The godly, marriage-minded man you’re praying for? He speaks a certain language. A King’s Language. If you don’t know how to speak it, you’ll get stuck in friend-zone conversations that go nowhere.

In this episode, I’ll show you the three things every man needs to hear and how to use your words to unlock his heart. This isn’t about chasing or striving. It’s about carrying yourself in a way that inspires pursuit, commitment, and lasting love.

When you master King’s Language, you stop wondering “what’s wrong with me?” and start becoming that good thing Proverbs 18:22 is talking about.

✨ Ready to stop staying stuck and start walking into your love story? Click HERE to book your consult call today.

Ep. 86: Kingdom Bride Series — Sarah: The Kingdom Marriage You’ve Longed For04 Sep 202500:11:10

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It’s one thing to attract a man. It’s another to captivate him. But God’s design is bigger than attraction — His vision is Kingdom Marriage.

In this final episode of the Kingdom Bride Series, we turn to Sarah, covenant partner of Abraham and example of unfading beauty. Her story points us to the marriage you’ve been longing for: one built on honor, tenderness, respect, and sacrificial love.

If Ruth showed you the power of mentorship, Esther revealed specialized knowledge, and the Shulammite modeled holy desire, Sarah now shows you the promise — the Kingdom Marriage you were made for.

👉 Apply for Kingdom Bride Unlocked and prepare not just for a husband, but for the Kingdom Marriage you’ve longed for: Click Here to Book a Consultation and Apply to Work with Michelle.

Ep. 85: Kingdom Bride Series — Solomon’s Beloved: The Mystery of Passion + Purity01 Sep 202500:10:36

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The Shulammite woman’s romance with King Solomon is one of the most passionate love stories in Scripture — filled with desire 🔥, longing, and covenant promise 🙏. Her story reveals a mystery: passion and purity aren’t opposites. They’re meant to go together.

In this episode of the Kingdom Bride Series, discover how to unlock the mystery to Passion 🔥 + Purity 🙏 in your own love story. Learn the secret of Flirt Pure — the art of sparking attraction, evoking desire, and creating irresistible chemistry while still honoring God’s boundaries.

👉 Apply for Kingdom Bride Unlocked and let me show you how to ignite passion that lasts a lifetime while keeping purity at the center: Click Here to Book a Consultation and Apply to Work with Michelle.

Ep. 84: Kingdom Bride Series — Esther: The Secret to Captivating a King28 Aug 202500:18:21

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Esther didn’t win her crown by chance. She carried wisdom, guidance, and a secret that set her apart — a secret that captivated the most powerful man in her world.

In this episode of the Kingdom Bride Series, discover Esther’s secret to favor and why the men you dream of — godly, high-caliber, marriage-minded men — still exist today. More importantly, learn how to unlock the same kind of presence and King Language that moves a man to pursue and commit.

👉 Apply for Kingdom Bride Unlocked and let me show you the secrets to captivating your own king: Click Here to Book a Consultation and Apply to Work with Michelle.

Ep. 83: Kingdom Bride Series — Ruth: Why You Haven’t Met Your Boaz Yet25 Aug 202500:20:43

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Ruth didn’t stumble into her love story—she was guided, positioned, and bold enough to move when others stayed behind. In this episode, discover the hidden reason many women never meet their Boaz, and how mentorship and decisive action can shift everything in your love life.

👉 Apply for Kingdom Bride Unlocked and step into the strategy that leads to your Boaz: Click Here to Book a Consultation and Apply to Work with Michelle.

Ep. 82: Weary About Love? Here’s How to Carry Hope Into a New Season21 Aug 202500:09:36

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If you’ve been praying, showing up, and believing for love—yet another season is ending without the relationship you hoped for—you’re not alone. 

In this episode, Michelle offers heartfelt biblical encouragement for the woman who feels tired of waiting, drawing on the stories of Hannah, Ruth, and God’s promises to remind you that His timing is perfect and His love story for you is still unfolding. 

You’ll learn how to refresh your vision, take life-giving action, and anchor yourself in Scripture so you can step into the next season with faith instead of frustration.

If you’re ready to stop waiting passively and start positioning yourself for the marriage God has for you, this could be the turning point in your love story. 

Apply for private coaching today, and together we’ll create a Spirit-led, intentional plan so your hope doesn’t just stay alive—it becomes fulfilled.

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Ep. 81: How to Stop Choosing the Wrong Guy18 Aug 202500:12:57

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The wrong relationship can cost you years, confidence, and even your sense of identity—and it’s almost never worth the price. 

In this episode, Michelle shows you how to use biblical discernment to recognize a man’s true character, so you stop confusing chemistry for compatibility.

 You’ll learn how to stay open and curious while dating, but crystal-clear and uncompromising when it’s time to commit—so you can choose a husband whose life already reflects the fruits of a godly marriage.

If you’re ready to stop wasting time on the wrong men and prepare yourself to recognize and receive the right one, this could be the turning point in your love story. 

Book a call and apply for private coaching today, and let’s get you to the day you can say, “I knew he was the one because God gave me peace—and I chose well.

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Ep. 107: You Can Buy Roses. You Can’t Buy This.10 Feb 202600:06:49

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Real love isn’t roses.
 It isn’t candlelight dinners.
 It isn’t Instagram.

It’s quieter than that.

It’s someone doing the dishes.
 Jazz in the kitchen.
 Being chosen on an ordinary Tuesday night.

In this episode, Michelle shares a small moment at home — and the truth most women don’t realize until years have already passed:

Delay isn’t neutral.

If you’re ready to stop waiting and marry well, Michelle will show you the path.

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Old-fashioned love stories begin here. 💙

Ep. 80: Stop Interviewing on Dates. Start Creating Chemistry.14 Aug 202500:16:44

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If your dates keep feeling more like interviews than romance, you’re not alone—and it’s not because you’re “bad at conversation.” 

There’s one subtle habit that’s quietly killing your chemistry, and you may not even know you’re doing it. 

In this episode, Michelle reveals the small but powerful shift that can turn surface-level Q&A into real, magnetic connection—fast. 

Don’t waste another date stuck in polite small talk when you could be creating sparks that last.

If you’re ready to enjoy your dates again, draw men in without overthinking, and finally create the kind of connection that can lead to marriage, this could be the turning point in your love story. 

Ready to take these insights to the next level and get the result you truly want? Apply for private mentorship today—because the right man can’t find you if he can’t feel you.

Click the link below to apply and meet Michelle for a consultation.


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Ep. 79: Success Took Your Love Life — Here’s How to Take It Back11 Aug 202500:07:31

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You’ve built the career, the income, and the life others admire — but somewhere along the way, success quietly stole your love life. 

In this episode, I reveal the two surprising reasons high-achieving women are the least likely to get help in love… and the exact steps to take it back.

💙 Special for podcast listeners: Be one of the first 10 women to join my Kingdom Bride Unlocked course this week and you’ll get a bonus private coaching call with me to tailor everything you learn to your unique love story. 

Two spots are already gone — just eight left.

⏳ Offer ends Saturday, August 16, 2025 at midnight PT.
👉 Enroll now: Kingdom Bride Unlocked + Bonus Call

Ep. 78: Success Doesn’t Have to Cost You Love07 Aug 202500:18:52

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She got the degrees. She got the corner office. She built the life everyone applauded—but success still left her empty.

In this raw and prophetic episode, Michelle exposes the hidden emotional and spiritual cost of success for high-achieving Christian women—and why the love you were meant to experience keeps getting delayed.

She tells the story of her own “golden touch” career…and the private heartbreak that came with it. Then she offers a redemptive, biblically grounded path back to what you truly desire: a godly, masculine, high-caliber man to build legacy with.

If you've ever wondered "Did I wait too long?" or "Why does love keep eluding me?"—this episode will break something open.

At the end, Michelle shares a surprise announcement that could be the bridge from stuck to chosen—and invites you into something that may change your love life forever.

🎁 Want early access to the surprise? You just need to get on my email list.

Send a request to michelle@thechristiandatingcoach.com to be added to the list.

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👰‍♀️ It’s time, sis. Let’s get you married.

Ep. 77: The Secret to Being Irresistible04 Aug 202500:19:09

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There’s a reason some women turn heads without even trying. They don’t chase. They don’t compete. They just are.

In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what makes a woman unforgettable—not in a flashy or fake way, but in a quiet, magnetic, Spirit-led way that changes everything.

If you’ve ever wondered how to go from overlooked to undeniable, this one’s for you.

💌 Want to be the first to hear about something new I’ve got brewing? 

Join my email list at www.thechristiandatingcoach.com and stay in the loop. 

You can also email me, and I'll be happy to add you myself. Just send an email to michelle@thechristiandatingcoach.com.

Ep. 76: Single. Christian. And Confident.31 Jul 202500:41:27

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🎁 SPECIAL EPISODE: The Confidence Call You Didn’t Know You Needed

This week, I’m gifting you something special—straight from my heart.

You’ll be listening in on a live coaching call I hosted called “Single, Christian, and Confident.” It’s unfiltered, faith-filled, and packed with truth bombs that will shift how you see yourself today.

💙 Inside, I walk you through the five pillars of confidence every single woman needs to walk boldly into love—including the biblical truth that will set you free from comparison for good.

My voice might’ve had a frog in it—but the Holy Spirit came through loud and clear.

So if you’ve been feeling stuck, discouraged, or wondering if you’re enough—this episode is your reminder and your reset.

Come listen. It’s my gift to you.

—Michelle 💙
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Ep. 75: 5 Mistakes Keeping Christian Women Single28 Jul 202500:34:27

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Want to know what’s actually keeping you single?

This special edition episode is pulled straight from Michelle’s powerful webinar Five Mistakes Keeping Christian Women Single. 

If you’ve been praying, waiting, and doing “all the right things” but still find yourself stuck, this episode will show you exactly why—and what needs to shift if you want to meet the love of your life and get married now.

You’ll walk away with clarity, conviction, and practical steps grounded in faith and strategy. Don’t miss this eye-opening breakdown of the hidden mistakes that delay love—and how to finally break free.

Ep. 74: My Story: From Résumés to Romance24 Jul 202500:10:38

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In this deeply personal birthday episode, Michelle pulls back the curtain on her journey from climbing ladders to creating legacy. She opens up about her high-achieving 20s, the drive to succeed, and the secret ache that degrees and promotions couldn’t quiet.

From getting into the top engineering schools in the country to crying alone in the shower, Michelle shares the pivotal moment that changed everything—and the bold decision to pursue what she really wanted: love, marriage, and a family of her own.

And don’t get it twisted—she didn’t give up her ambition. She just redirected it. Today, she runs a thriving coaching business helping other smart, faith-filled women find godly love too.

If you’ve ever felt like you were doing all the “right” things and still felt something missing, this episode is your permission slip to want more.

Because you don’t have to settle for performance when what you really want is partnership.

Ep. 73: Costly Dating App Mistakes Keeping You from Love21 Jul 202500:18:38

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You don’t need to delete the apps—you need a strategy. 

Dating app purgatory. You know the feeling.
Endless messages. Constant profile tweaks. Flat conversations that go nowhere — when all you want is a godly man who initiates, engages, and actually follows through.

Here’s what no one tells you:
 90% of Michelle’s clients meet their husbands online.
They just stop doing what doesn’t work — and start using the apps like a secret weapon.

You don’t need to delete the apps—you need a strategy. 

In this episode, Michelle breaks down the six hidden reasons high achieving, godly women get stuck on dating apps (and none of them are about being “not enough”). If you’re ready to go from stalled-out texting to real pursuit and commitment, you’ll want to hear this.

💙 Apply for coaching at thechristiandatingcoach.com/apply
 Let’s get you married, sis.

Ep. 72: Stop Window Shopping for Love & Start Dating Like a Future Wife.17 Jul 202500:11:30

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Today, Michelle breaks down the real transformation required to attract a godly, emotionally available, high-quality man.

You’ll learn the four core shifts you need to make—and why “window shopping” the process is what’s quietly delaying your breakthrough for high-value love.

💡 If you're hoping for once-in-a-lifetime, high-level love, stop making low-level moves. That’s like dreaming of a NYC Plaza wedding outcome but giving it backyard BBQ effort.

This episode will show you what actually creates elite love—the kind that lasts.

💙 Ready for real transformation?

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Ep. 71: The 4 Truths My Clients Know — and Why They Met Their Husbands in Months14 Jul 202500:23:46

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In this powerful episode, Michelle breaks down the four truths her clients live by—truths that radically shifted their mindset, their strategy, and their results. These are the women who met their husbands in months… and it wasn’t by accident.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things but still stuck in dating purgatory, you need to hear this. It’s not just about trying harder—it’s about aligning with strategy, support, and God’s timing. With powerful client stories, bold biblical insights, and a clear picture of what’s possible, this episode will stir your spirit and awaken your hope.

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Ep. 106: Something Has Changed13 Jan 202600:05:49

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Most single Christian women feel quietly trapped between two unsatisfying extremes.

On one side, church silence and simplification —
 Pray. Wait. Don’t think too much.

On the other, secular overexposure —
 crude, transactional, dopamine-driven explanations of sex, attraction, and desire.

This episode marks a shift.

There is a third way — one that is intelligent, reverent, and real.

My private work guides women from singleness into marriage — through strategic counsel and exquisite, biblical guidance.

In this brief reflection, I share what has changed in my work, why this podcast is returning in a new form, and the kind of conversations we’ll be having moving forward.

These are not how-to episodes.

They are monthly, unrushed reflections on singleness and marriage, covenant sex and holiness, discernment, polarity, attraction — including the biology behind what draws men and women together — and the technologies shaping how modern couples now meet.

This podcast is for women who don’t want to perform holiness while waiting for marriage, or outsource their understanding to secular voices that feel misaligned — but who still desire clarity, wisdom, and real guidance.

If you’ve been looking for a quieter, wiser conversation about love, marriage, and becoming — you’re in the right place.

Ep. 70: It’s Not a Numbers Game10 Jul 202500:13:09

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There’s a lie keeping far too many high-value Christian women single:
 “It’s just a numbers game.”

But piling up mediocre dates with mediocre men and having mediocre conversations doesn’t get you any closer to the godly, high-caliber marriage you’ve been praying for.

In this episode, I’m breaking that lie wide open—and showing you why dating is not about trying harder, but about moving smarter.

I share my own story—why I only went on five dates before meeting my husband Caleb—and what I had to learn in order to shift from being overlooked… to being pursued, protected, and chosen.

If your spirit is tired of striving and you're ready to date with the kind of confidence that gets results…

👉 Come learn godly strategy with me.
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Ep. 69: Marriage Lessons That Changed Me07 Jul 202500:12:13

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Marriage didn’t just teach Michelle how to love her husband — it taught her how to love better. Period.

Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or already married, this episode will open your eyes to the one word that transforms every stage of relationship: grace. Real love isn’t built on perfection. It’s built on patience, forgiveness, understanding, and humility — the kind of grace that lets both people grow.

Michelle shares personal stories and hard-won truths about emotional maturity, unmet expectations, speaking your needs clearly, and learning to see love in the small, ordinary moments. Because love isn’t lived in highlight reels — it’s lived in the quiet, faithful choices you make every day.

💍 If you’re not just looking for a boyfriend, but for a Christ-centered, fruit-bearing marriage — Michelle’s coaching is for you.

Book your free call now at thechristiandatingcoach.com, and let’s get you married, sis.

Ep. 68: Are You Overlooking a Great Guy?30 Jun 202500:10:28

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What if you’re not single because there are no good men — but because you keep passing by the right ones for the wrong reasons?

In this episode, Michelle shares the honest truth about why so many women miss out on truly great, godly men. 

If you’re ready to stop overthinking and start seeing clearly, this is your invitation to slow down, check your heart, and give love a chance to grow — even if it doesn’t look how you imagined.

💍 Want help discerning the right man — and attracting him with confidence? Book a free consult at thechristiandatingcoach.com and let’s get you married, sis.

Ep. 67: Where to Meet Godly Men23 Jun 202500:14:45

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If you’ve ever said, “There are no good men out there,” this episode will lovingly shake that belief — and show you exactly where the high-value, godly men actually are.

Michelle reveals the three types of spaces where Christian men consistently show up — and how you can start putting yourself in those rooms with strategy, joy, and boldness (not desperation). You’ll walk away seeing just how many possibilities you’ve been missing… and how to start showing up like the woman who gets chosen.

And if you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and actually go where love is waiting — Michelle’s coaching gives you a personalized Connection Injection™ list based on your city, your interests, and the kind of man you’re praying for. You’ll know where to go and how to connect with confidence.

Book your consultation today at www.thechristiandatingcoach.com — and let’s get you married, sis.

Ep. 66: The Single Tax: The Real Cost of Delayed Marriage That No One Else Is Telling You16 Jun 202500:42:51

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You’ve been told to pray.
 To wait.
 To be content.

But no one told you what it’s costing you to stay stuck in that cycle.

This episode will shake you—in the best way.
 It’s not angry. It’s not rushed.
 It’s truth-telling. Legacy-building. Spirit-freeing.

If you’ve been feeling the quiet ache of delay...
 If something in your soul knows there’s more...
 You need this one.

🎧 Listen now.

And if you're ready to stop guessing and start growing toward the marriage you were made for, apply here:
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