Explore every episode of the podcast The Bullpen with J.D. Greear

Is temptation itself a sin? Why do Christians follow some Old Testament laws but not others? And can you be pro-life while supporting the death penalty?

This week on The Bullpen, J.D., Matt, and Curtis welcome a special guest: J.D.’s wife, Veronica Greear! After Veronica grades J.D.’s sermon (and his fashion choices), the conversation turns to what it means that Jesus fulfilled the Old Testament law—and why Christians still follow some commands but not others.

They also tackle some difficult questions about capital punishment, biblical justice, and the relationship between being pro-life and supporting the death penalty.

Finally, they explore the difference between temptation and sin, why changing our behavior isn’t the same as changing our hearts, how obedience and accountability help us grow, and why baptism is a starting point rather than something we have to earn.

Scripture: Matt. 5:17-22

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Can God lead you into a decision that fails?

J.D., Matt, and Curtis close out Ecclesiastes by talking about the small compromises that can eventually take someone out, the difference between faith and recklessness, how to discern God’s will, and why peace isn’t necessarily proof that a decision will succeed.

Then they turn to Christian nationalism—religious liberty, who gets to define what counts as Christian, the viral University of Texas student-section photo, race and national identity, immigration and enculturation, and the difference between Christian influence in government and government authority over Christianity.

Read Pastor J.D.’s article, “Why I’m Not a Christian Nationalist,” at The Gospel Coalition: HERE

Scripture: Ecclesiastes 10-12

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Are you building a life that looks successful—or one that will actually matter when it’s over?

In this episode of The Bullpen, J.D. Greear sits down with Matt Love, Curtis Andrusko, and special guest Julius Tennal to go deeper into Ecclesiastes 7 and the surprising wisdom that can come from hardship, loss, and even thinking about death. They talk about the difference between résumé virtues and eulogy virtues, what we tend to sacrifice in the pursuit of success, why we need people in our lives who are willing to tell us the truth, and how obedience can quietly become an attempt to control God. Julius also shares what it means to “live sent,” why Christians shouldn’t always wait for a dramatic calling before taking a step of obedience, and his family’s journey toward planting a church in South Africa. Plus, with football season back, we tackle the explosion of sports betting and ask whether “Is it a sin?” is even the right question.

Scripture: Ecclesiastes 7

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Why do bad things happen to good people—or are we asking the wrong question?

In this episode of The Bullpen, J.D. Greear sits down with Matt Love and Curtis Andrusko to go deeper into Ecclesiastes 3 and what it means to trust God in seasons we don’t understand. They talk about why “God has a plan” can be true and still be difficult to hear when you’re hurting, how Christians can respond to suffering without minimizing someone’s pain, and why J.D. says the Bible actually reframes one of our biggest questions about God and evil. They also talk about learning to enjoy the season you’re in instead of constantly waiting for the next one, whether our pets will be in heaven, and how Christians can hold together grace and truth as questions about gender and sexuality continue to play out in culture.

Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:1-14

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Why is it that getting what we want so often leaves us wanting something more?

In the first episode of The Bullpen, J.D. Greear sits down with Matt Love and Curtis Andrusko to go deeper into his first sermon in the book of Ecclesiastes and the search for a meaningful, satisfying life. They talk about why success and pleasure can’t carry the weight we put on them, how Christians can genuinely enjoy God’s gifts without turning them into idols, and what Ecclesiastes has to say to a culture constantly looking for the next thing.

They also discuss social media, our endless appetite for more, and what it looks like to build your life around the things that actually last.

Scripture: Ecclesiastes 1:1-11

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For years now, whenever Pastor J.D. Greear preaches, he writes far more than he can actually say in the sermon. The material that doesn’t make the cut—the extra illustrations, the rabbit trails, the good questions he didn’t have time to chase—gets kept in a section of his notes he calls the “bullpen.”

All of that material, all these years, has just sat there and never seen the light of day.

But that changes next week.

Each time J.D. preaches, he’ll sit down with a couple of people and unpack the message. They’ll go deeper into the passage, wrestle with the hard questions just like they always have, and bring out implications they didn’t have time to get into during the message.

And if there’s something big happening in the world, or a controversial question that could use some Christian wisdom applied to it—even if it wasn’t directly addressed by the text—they’ll discuss that too.

No scripts. Just a free-flowing conversation.

And as always, J.D. is praying it will be a resource to help you grow deeper in your love and understanding of the gospel.

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In another special episode, Pastor J.D.  addresses the question: “Is the Deliberate Pursuit of Ethnic Unity the Same As DEI?”

• • There is an unbiblical DEI that really is about quota and virtue signaling.
  • Hiring practices should consider the experience of candidates over age 50.
  • Ageism can be a concern when hiring for specific demographics.
  • DEI initiatives can sometimes miss the mark by focusing on superficial metrics.
  • Experience can be more valuable than age in certain roles.
  • The conversation challenges traditional views on diversity in hiring.
  • Understanding the context of DEI is crucial for effective implementation.
  • Church leadership hiring should prioritize the ability to connect with the community.
  • Quotas can undermine the true purpose of diversity initiatives.
  • Real diversity includes valuing experience alongside demographic factors.

Dive more into this conversation with Pastor J.D.’s new book, Everyday Revolutionary, which explores how ordinary believers can live out the gospel in ways that transform their communities.

• Listen to Pastor J.D.’s interview on the Bully Pulpit podcast HERE
• Watch on YouTube: YouTube Channel
• Listen on Apple Podcasts: Ask the Pastor
• Listen on Spotify: Ask the Pastor
• Become a Gospel Partner: jdgreear.com/donate

In another special episode, Pastor J.D.  addresses the question: “Is ‘Voting Blue’ the First Sign of Losing Faith?”

The conversation explores a question Pastor J.D. was asked recently about whether “voting blue” is a harbinger of losing your faith.

• • Silence on moral issues can lead to distrust.
  • The character of leaders matters to faith communities.
  • Inconsistencies in beliefs can alienate younger members.
  • The church’s political stance affects its moral authority.
  • Transparency is crucial for maintaining faith.
  • Younger people are seeking authenticity in leadership.
  • The future of the church depends on addressing these issues.

Dive more into this conversation with Pastor J.D.’s new book, Everyday Revolutionary, which explores how ordinary believers can live out the gospel in ways that transform their communities.

• Listen to Pastor J.D.’s interview on the Bully Pulpit podcast HERE
• Watch on YouTube: YouTube Channel
• Listen on Apple Podcasts: Ask the Pastor
• Listen on Spotify: Ask the Pastor
• Become a Gospel Partner: jdgreear.com/donate

In this episode, Pastor J.D.  concludes our mini-series about his latest book, Everyday Revolutionary, by asking the question: “WHY Is Gen Z Returning to the Church?”

This conversation features Wes Smith, College Pastor at The Summit Church. Much has been said about how Gen Z is returning to the church… but why is that happening? We explore the reasons behind this trend, including a dissatisfaction with secular ideologies and a desire for community and fulfillment.

• • Gen Z shows a significant curiosity about Jesus and the Bible.
  • Many Gen Z individuals feel a void in their lives that they seek to fill.
  • The church can provide a sense of community that Gen Z lacks online.
  • Spiritual openness on college campuses is at an all-time high.
  • Clarity on cultural issues is essential for engaging with Gen Z.
  • The church should focus on gospel priority over political alignment.
  • Many young people are coming to faith through authentic community.
  • The rise in baptisms indicates a genuine spiritual revival among youth.
  • Church leaders should emphasize identity in Christ to resonate with Gen Z.
  • Engaging in conversations about controversial topics can lead to deeper understanding.

Dive more into this conversation with Pastor J.D.’s new book, Everyday Revolutionary, which explores how ordinary believers can live out the gospel in ways that transform their communities.

• Last week’s episode: https://jdgreear.com/podcasts/are-christians-c…-the-culture-war/
• Watch on YouTube: YouTube Channel
• Listen on Apple Podcasts: Ask the Pastor
• Listen on Spotify: Ask the Pastor
• Become a Gospel Partner: jdgreear.com/donate

In this episode, Pastor J.D.  discusses a question many of us are asking ourselves right now, “Are Christians Called to the Culture War?”

As part of a short series surrounding Pastor J.D.’s new book Everyday Revolutionary, the conversation explains that while believers must be bold in truth, faithfulness to Jesus goes beyond cultural confrontation—it involves embodying grace and truth in everyday life. It’s not less than clarity on issues, but it’s much more.

Pastor J.D. identifies five components of the “quiet life” that creates a “loud testimony” (1 Peter 3:15):

• Creation-Fulfilling
  • Every job contributes to beautifying and ordering the world.
  • We’re co-creators with God, showing His glory through our work.
• Excellence-Pursuing
  • Daniel had “an excellent spirit.”
  • Work “as unto the Lord,” demonstrating God’s perfection through diligence and quality.
• Holiness-Reflecting
  • Our ethics and integrity mirror the holiness of God.
  • Poor work or unethical behavior damages our witness.
• Redemption-Displaying
  • Extend grace in surprising ways.
  • Example: a Madison Avenue executive takes the blame for his intern’s costly mistake, using it as a gospel moment — “My life was transformed by someone who took my punishment.”
• Mission-Advancing
  • Excellence earns influence.
  • Use platforms and opportunities to point to Jesus (Proverbs 22:29).

Dive more into this conversation with Pastor J.D.’s new book, Everyday Revolutionary, which explores how ordinary believers can live out the gospel in ways that transform their communities.

• Last week’s episode: https://jdgreear.com/podcasts/should-pastors-be-more-political-from-the-pulpit/
• Watch on YouTube: YouTube Channel
• Listen on Apple Podcasts: Ask the Pastor
• Listen on Spotify: Ask the Pastor
• Become a Gospel Partner: jdgreear.com/donate

In this episode, Pastor J.D.  discusses a question many church leaders face: Should pastors be more political from the pulpit?

As part of a short series surrounding Pastor J.D.’s new book Everyday Revolutionary, the conversation explores how faithfulness to the gospel intersects with public issues, when to speak clearly, and when to show restraint.

J.D. argues that pastors must boldly proclaim biblical truth even when it overlaps with politics—but resist aligning the name of Jesus with any political party. Political engagement  is a result of discipleship, not the gateway to it.

• Be bold on biblical truth, even when it’s political. Some moral issues, like the sanctity of life and God’s design for gender, require clear biblical conviction.
• Don’t confuse political alignment with gospel faithfulness. The pulpit should be reserved for “thus says the Lord,” not personal policy opinions.
• Discipleship precedes political realignment. True change begins in the heart before it’s reflected in the ballot box.
• Avoid both ditches. On one side lies cowardly silence; on the other, a Christless conservatism that replaces the gospel with partisanship.
• Keep Jesus’ name holy. Associating Christ too closely with a political party risks damaging His reputation and alienating those who need the gospel.

Dive more into this conversation with Pastor J.D.’s new book, Everyday Revolutionary, which explores how ordinary believers can live out the gospel in ways that transform their communities.

• Watch on YouTube: YouTube Channel
• Listen on Apple Podcasts: Ask the Pastor
• Listen on Spotify: Ask the Pastor
• Become a Gospel Partner: jdgreer.com/donate

This week on Ask the Pastor, we have a special bonus episode on the question, “Which of the Bible’s promises apply today?”

We covered a similar question several years ago, and you can find that episode HERE.

A glimpse inside this episode:

• The Bible contains approximately 3,000 promises from God.
• All promises of God are fulfilled in Christ.
• Understanding the context of promises is crucial for application.
• There are unconditional and conditional promises in the Bible.
• God’s character remains consistent despite changing circumstances.
• Promises made to Israel can still have relevance today.
• The New Testament often cites Old Testament promises.
• Believers are encouraged to expect God’s goodness in their lives now.
• Faith in God’s promises is essential for spiritual growth.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. continues his series called, “Why Does It Matter?” with the question, “Why Does Correct Theology Matter?”

A glimpse inside this episode:

• Theological doctrine shapes our relationship with God and others.
• Understanding essential beliefs is crucial for unity in the church.
• Not all theological issues are of equal importance.
• Spiritual maturity involves developing strong convictions with restraint.
• Knowledge of God should not outpace our love for Him.
• The Bible emphasizes a proper view of God.
• We must discern between essential and non-essential beliefs.
• Personal opinions should not be equated with biblical truths.
• Theological study is important for all believers, not just seminarians.
• Unity in the church is vital for the integrity of the gospel.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. continues his series called, “Why Does It Matter?” with the question, “Why Does Everyday Faithfulness Matter?”

A glimpse inside this episode:

• Living a faithful life is essential, even in mundane tasks.
• Every believer has a role in God’s mission, regardless of their position.
• Motherhood and domestic roles can be fulfilling and significant in God’s eyes.
• Ordinary obedience can lead to extraordinary outcomes in God’s plan.
• Faithfulness is what God desires from us in our daily lives.
• The quiet life can demonstrate the beauty of the gospel.
• Service to others is a calling for all believers.
• God uses ordinary people to accomplish his purposes.
• The influence of a godly mother can shape generations.
• Living remarkably in everyday life can attract others to Christ.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. continues his series called, “Why Does It Matter?” with the question, “Why Does the Existence of Hell Matter?”

A glimpse inside this episode:

• The doctrine of hell is crucial for understanding God’s justice.
• Many people struggle with the concept of hell, leading to doubt.
• Biblical imagery of hell should be taken seriously, not metaphorically.
• The severity of hell reflects the infinite nature of God.
• Hell serves as a means to understand injustice in the world.
• God’s judgment is an expression of His holiness and righteousness.
• Understanding hell magnifies the love of God in salvation.
• The conversation about hell is essential for a robust faith.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. continues his series called, “Why Does It Matter?” with the question, “Why Does Prayer Matter?”

A glimpse inside this episode:

• Prayer is essential for experiencing the fullness of joy.
• Unanswered prayer can be a part of God’s better plan.
• Persistence in prayer is often necessary for receiving answers.
• Prayer is a means by which God accomplishes His will on earth.
• God’s sovereignty does not negate the importance of prayer.
• Sometimes God answers prayers in ways we do not expect.
• Prayer changes us and the circumstances around us.
• The act of praying is a way to inhabit God’s presence.
• Unanswered prayers can lead to spiritual growth and understanding.
• The gospel reassures us of God’s constant presence and care.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. pauses his series called, “Why Does It Matter?” to answer a listener question about challenges of tithing when a spouse disagree.

A glimpse inside this episode:

• Tithing is a biblical command that reflects trust in God.
• Communication is key when spouses disagree on financial matters.
• It’s important to honor each other’s perspectives in marriage.
• Testing God through tithing can lead to personal testimonies of faithfulness.
• You can’t give what you don’t have authority over.
• Prayer is essential in changing hearts regarding financial decisions.
• Generosity can be demonstrated through small acts of giving.
• God values the spirit of generosity over the amount given.
• Mutual respect in financial decisions strengthens marriage.
• Encouragement and prayer can lead to shifts in financial perspectives.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. continues his series called, “Why Does It Matter?” with a question on why it matters to live a gospel-centered life.

A glimpse inside the episode:

• The gospel is central to every part of the Christian life.
• Living a gospel-centered life means returning to the gospel daily.
• The gospel fosters organic change rather than external pressure.
• Daily reminders of the gospel help combat idolatry and insecurity.
• The gospel prayer is a practical tool for spiritual growth.
• Understanding our identity in Christ is crucial for transformation.
• The gospel is not just a starting point but a lifelong journey.
• Faith in the gospel activates the Holy Spirit’s power in our lives.
• Generosity flows from a heart transformed by the gospel.
• The gospel teaches us to desire what God desires.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. continues his series called, “Why Does It Matter?” by diving into the significance of the virgin birth of Jesus.

A glimpse inside this episode:

• The virgin birth is crucial to understanding Jesus’ identity.
• Jesus was born without a sin nature due to the virgin birth.
• The doctrine of the virgin birth is essential for salvation.
• Jesus had to be fully God and fully man to save us.
• The sin nature is passed down through the man’s seed.
• Isaiah 7:14 prophesies the virgin birth of Jesus.
• The term ‘Alma’ in Hebrew contextually means virgin.
• Matthew’s interpretation of Isaiah confirms the virgin birth.
• Jesus understands human experiences because he was fully man.
• The virgin birth leads us to worship God for His miraculous work.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D.pauses his “Why Does It Matter” series to answer a listener question who asked, “Are You Committed to Only Preaching Expositionally?”Pastor J.D. addresses some common questions and emphasizes the importance of grounding sermons in Scripture, the role of the preacher as a steward of God’s word, and the overarching goal of discipleship in ministry.

A glimpse inside this episode:

• Expositional preaching is essential for the life of the church.
• The message should find its source in Scripture through careful exegesis.
• Preachers are stewards of God’s word, responsible for delivering it faithfully.
• Discipleship is the primary goal of preaching.
• Feedback from the congregation is valuable and should be welcomed.
• Expositional preaching can still address topical issues when grounded in Scripture.
• A balanced diet of Scripture is important for congregational growth.
• Preaching should not be driven solely by personal preferences.
• Understanding the definitions of preaching styles helps clarify expectations.
• The focus should always be on the word of God, not personal opinions.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. continues his series called, “Why Does It Matter?” and focuses on why purity before marriage even matters by exploring the biblical stance on sexual ethics.

A glimpse inside this episode:

• Many people question why sex before marriage is a big deal.
• God’s instructions on sex are rooted in wisdom and love.
• Sex is designed to bond two lives together, not just for pleasure.
• Casual sex can have lasting psychological effects.
• God’s limitations on sex are meant to protect us from harm.
• Marriage is a covenant that signifies a deeper commitment.
• The church has sometimes failed to communicate the reasons behind sexual ethics.
• There is grace and redemption available for those who have sinned sexually.
• Sexual sin can rob individuals of feelings of cleanliness, safety, and specialness.
• God’s grace is greater than our sins, offering hope and restoration.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. starts a brand new series called, “Why Does It Matter.” Listen as he unpacks  the significance of the Bible’s authority, inerrancy, and its role in Christian life.

A glimpse inside this episode:

• The Bible’s authority is foundational to Christian faith.
• Understanding why the Bible matters is crucial for believers.
• The concept of inerrancy is essential for trusting scripture.
• The Bible presents itself as the word of God, not merely human thoughts.
• Historical context is important in interpreting scripture.
• The Bible has faced challenges and attacks throughout history.
• Scripture serves as the standard for moral and theological truths.
• Believers must wrestle with difficult passages and teachings.
• The Bible’s message is ultimately about God’s rescue through Jesus.
• Engaging with scripture is vital for spiritual growth and understanding.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. shares part two of his favorite books in 2024.

A glimpse inside this episode:

Pastor J.D. shares his favorite books from 2024 ranging from spiritual and secular literature.

• Forgive by Tim Keller
• The Unseen Realm: Recovering the Supernatural Worldview of the Bible by Dr. Michael Heiser
• Where the Light Fell: A Memoir by Philip Yancey
• The Courage to Be Protestant by Gavin Ortlund
• Martin Luther: The Man Who Rediscovered God and Changed the World by Eric Metaxas
• Jesus and the Powers by NT Wright and Michael Bird
• Ghosted: An American Story by Nancy French
• Spare by Prince Harry
• The Wager: A Tale of Shipwreck, Mutiny and Murder by David Grann

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. shares his favorite books in 2024.

A glimpse inside this episode:

Pastor J.D. shares his favorite books from 2024 ranging from spiritual and secular literature.

• Bless God and Take Courage: The Judson History and Legacy: Rosalie Hall Hunt
• How to Know a Person, David Brooks
• Marks of a Movement: What the church Today Can Learn from the Wesleyan Revival, Winfield Bevins
• Surprised by Doubt: How Disillusionment Can Invite Us Into a Deeper Faith by Dr. Joshua Chatraw and Jack Carson
• Reading While Black: African American Biblical Interpretation as an Exercise in Hope by Esau McCaulley

A few secular books:

• The Rulebreaker: Biography of Barbara Walters
• Zero Fail: The Rise and Fall of the Secret Service, Carol Leonnig
• Open: An Autobiography, Andre Agassi
• TED Talks: The Official TED Guide to Public Speaking, Chris Anderson

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. answers “Should Followers of Jesus Get Plastic Surgery?”

A glimpse inside this episode:

There are many the nuances for Christians around plastic surgery, enhancing beauty, the cultural pressures surrounding appearance, and the importance of focusing on inner beauty and heart posture. While cosmetic enhancements are not inherently wrong, they should not become idols that dictate self-worth or decision-making.

• The question of cosmetic surgery is nuanced and complex.
• Enhancing beauty is not inherently wrong; it’s about the heart behind it.
• Cultural pressures can lead to unhealthy decisions regarding appearance.
• The Bible encourages focusing on inner beauty rather than outward adornment.
• Idols related to beauty can lead to poor decision-making.
• Aging is a natural process that should be embraced, not fought against.
• Self-image should be rooted in God’s love, not physical appearance.
• It’s important to ask oneself if beauty and youth are idols.
• The inward person can be renewed even as the outward person deteriorates.
• Heart posture is crucial in making decisions about cosmetic enhancements.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. answers “Should Christians be concerned about AI?”

A glimpse inside this episode:

In this week’s episode, Pastor J.D. looks at the ethical implications of artificial intelligence (AI) from a Christian perspective. While AI is a tool that can be used for good or bad, the underlying human nature can lead to the amplification of wickedness.

• AI raises questions about human dignity and moral agency.
• Bias and fairness in AI can exacerbate existing societal issues.
• Privacy concerns arise with the increasing use of AI.
• AI can impact employment and economic justice.
• Human enhancement through AI challenges our understanding of being made in God’s image.
• The core of humanity is fallen, which can be magnified by AI.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. answers “Are Denominations Biblical?”

A glimpse inside this episode:

In this week’s episode, Pastor J.D. explores the biblical basis for denominations while addressing common criticisms. While denominations may not be explicitly mentioned in the Bible, the concept of cooperation in the mission of the church is prevalent. Denominations serve as a practical tool for collaboration in advancing the mission of God.

• Denominations are not explicitly mentioned in the Bible.
• Cooperation among churches is a biblical principle.
• Different levels of cooperation require varying levels of doctrinal conformity.
• Movements and institutions are both necessary in the church.
• A unified authority does not guarantee doctrinal purity.
• Protestantism allows for recognition of valid churches outside its own.
• Denominations can facilitate mission advancement.
• The Bible is the ultimate authority for Christians.
• Historical context is crucial in understanding church authority.
• Denominations are tools for cooperation, not division.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. answers a question that has actually been asked by two listeners, Lillian and Jesse: “Is it OK for Christians to do Yoga?”

A glimpse inside this episode:

In this week’s episode, Pastor J.D. explores the historical roots of yoga in Eastern religions and how it contrasts with Christian meditation. He emphasizes the importance of individual conscience in making decisions about practices that may have spiritual implications while also introducing a framework for categorizing theological issues and highlighting the need for unity in the church while allowing for personal convictions.

• Yoga has historical roots in Eastern religions like Hinduism.
• Christian meditation differs from Eastern meditation in purpose.
• Believers should wrestle with their own conscience regarding yoga.
• Not all practices with pagan origins are off-limits for Christians.
• Unity in the church is more important than strict conformity on disputed matters.
• The framework of essential, important, and indifferent matters helps navigate faith issues.
• Personal convictions should guide individual practices like yoga.
• Jesus’ authority supersedes the origins of certain practices.
• Engaging with differing opinions requires patience and understanding.
• Practices should honor Christ and align with biblical principles.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. answers a question that asked, “I’m currently married to a man who had an unbiblical divorce. To make it worse, we actually began dating before the divorce was finalized. We recently both got saved, and now are facing the question: are we living in continuous adultery? We’re both sick over how our marriage began, but at the same time, we don’t feel right divorcing. Do you have any guidance?”

A glimpse inside this episode:

This is a really complex question regarding marriage, divorce, and the implications of their past decisions in light of their newfound faith. Pastor J.D. dives into the biblical teachings on divorce, the nature of marriage as a covenant, and the importance of repentance and grace in moving forward. While the circumstances of their marriage may have been sinful, God’s mercy allows for redemption and blessing in their current relationship.

• Jesus’ teachings on divorce emphasize the sanctity of marriage.
• Divorce is allowed in cases of adultery, but not required.
• God’s view of marriage is a covenant of oneness.
• Repentance is key to moving forward in faith.
• Deuteronomy 24 warns against returning to a previous marriage.
• God can redeem even the worst situations.
• Acknowledging past sins is important for healing.
• God’s grace allows for new beginnings in relationships.
• The podcast serves as a resource for vulnerable questions.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. answers a question submitted by Tristan who asked, “As Christians, how can we be honest about an individual’s poor performance (in my case, scoring a poor performer based on their work quality) with grace and love?”

A glimpse inside this episode:

Honest criticism can be done in a loving and graceful manner. It’s so vital to balance feedback with grace, as well as address poor performance. Humility and relational context will play a huge factor in graceful feedback. Ultimately, there is a huge need for specific feedback because that fosters growth and development.

• The goal of salvation is a new kind of righteousness.
• Understanding sin requires both head knowledge and heart transformation.
• Living by faith means choosing what is right despite feelings.
• Growth in grace involves recognizing our ongoing need for grace.
• Sowing seeds of righteousness leads to spiritual growth.
• Habits shape our desires and affections.
• Choosing against fleshly desires is a step of faith.
• Reckoning ourselves dead to sin empowers us to resist temptation.
• Prayer and belief in the gospel are essential for spiritual life.
• Continuous reliance on God’s grace is crucial in the Christian walk.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. answers a question submitted by Tyler who asked, ““I know in my head that my sin is sinful, but I can’t seem to ‘metabolize’ it and get that truth into my heart. How can I do that?”

A glimpse inside this episode:

• The goal of salvation is a new kind of righteousness.
• Understanding sin requires both head knowledge and heart transformation.
• Living by faith means choosing what is right despite feelings.
• Growth in grace involves recognizing our ongoing need for grace.
• Sowing seeds of righteousness leads to spiritual growth.
• Habits shape our desires and affections.
• Choosing against fleshly desires is a step of faith.
• Reckoning ourselves dead to sin empowers us to resist temptation.
• Prayer and belief in the gospel are essential for spiritual life.
• Continuous reliance on God’s grace is crucial in the Christian walk.

This week on Ask the Pastor, Pastor J.D. answers a question submitted by Andrew who asked, “Could you attempt to provide some clarity on whether an earthly marriage between Christians means that husband/wife relationship carries into eternity?”

Thank you Andrew for your question!

A glimpse inside this episode:

• Jesus teaches that there is no marriage in heaven.
• Marriage was created to address loneliness on earth.
• In heaven, companionship will be fulfilled in a better way.
• Our joys in heaven will be heightened and transformed.
• C.S. Lewis compares earthly pleasures to heavenly joys.
• Marriage is a temporary picture of our relationship with Christ.
• Single people are full-fledged family members in Christ.
• The episode encourages listeners to submit their questions.

This week on Ask the Pastor features a conversation between Pastor J.D. Greear and Joseph Backholm. Joseph is a Senior Fellow for Biblical Worldview and Strategic Engagement at Family Research Council. He combines extensive legal, political, and policy experience with a love for the way biblical truth cultivates human flourishing.

A glimpse inside this episode:

• Politics is the process through which we make decisions.
• Christians should engage in politics as a blessing.
• Avoiding difficult conversations can hinder important discussions.
• Evaluate political choices based on biblical principles.
• Political parties should not overshadow our allegiance to Christ.
• Parents should teach children about the complexities of human nature.
• Election seasons provide unique opportunities for disciple-making.
• Sober-mindedness is crucial in political discourse.
• Confirmation bias can lead to being misled in politics.
• Good politics reflects a love for our neighbors.

This week on Ask the Pastor features a conversation between Pastor J.D. Greear and Neil Shenvi where they discuss the complexities of critical theory, its implications for society, and how it intersects with Christian beliefs. Neil is another member of the Summit Church with a Ph.D. from Berkeley in Theoretical Chemistry. 

A glimpse inside this episode:

• Race is a social construct, which aligns with a Christian worldview.
• Privilege is context-dependent and cannot be viewed in absolutes.
• Intersectionality complicates discussions of race and gender for Christians.
• Critical theory can lead to false assumptions about disparities in society.
• Christians should advocate for justice based on biblical principles.
• The church’s mission should focus on the gospel above all.
• Addressing systemic injustice requires evidence and context.
• Equity should not be equated with equality of outcome.
• The family unit is crucial for addressing social issues like poverty.

This week on Ask the Pastor features a conversation between Pastor J.D. Greear and Brooke Medina. Brooke is a member of the Summit Church and serves as Vice President of Communications for the John Locke Foundation. She’s been published in numerous outlets including The Hill, Entrepreneur, Washington Examiner, WORLD, Daily Signal, FEE, and others.

A glimpse inside this episode:

• Economics is fundamentally about human action and dignity.
• Understanding economics through a Christian lens is crucial.
• Private property ownership is essential for a well-ordered society.
• Disagreement among Christians on economic issues is natural and necessary.
• Welfare programs need to be structured to encourage economic mobility.
• Ideas have consequences; bad ideas can harm individuals.
• Christians should engage in political discourse with charity.
• Free speech in the digital age presents new challenges for Christians.
• The church should encourage members to enter all spheres of influence.
• We must be witnesses of truth and grace in the public square.

This week on Ask the Pastor features a conversation between Pastor J.D. Greear and Katie McCoy. Dr. McCoy serves as the director of Women’s Ministry for the Baptist General Convention of Texas. She holds a Ph.D. from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. She is the author of To Be A Woman: The Confusion Over Female Identity and How Christians Can Respond.

A glimpse inside this episode:

• The cultural moment we are in is a result of decades of ideological shifts.
• Teen girls are particularly vulnerable to social contagion regarding gender identity.
• Gender identity is both a biological and a theological reality.
• The rise of identity politics has led to a reorientation of moral systems.
• Language is viewed as creating reality rather than reflecting it in today’s society.
• Christians are called to navigate these issues with grace and conviction.
• The indoctrination of children through media is a significant concern.
• There is a strong correlation between gender confusion and past trauma or abuse.
• Resources are available for Christians to better understand and respond to gender issues.

This week on Ask the Pastor features a conversation between Pastor J.D. Greear and Dr. Jason Thacker. Dr. Thacker serves as an assistant professor of philosophy and ethics at Boyce College and Southern Seminary in Louisville, Kentucky. He also is a senior fellow in bioethics and director of the research institute at The Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission of the Southern Baptist Convention. He is the author of several books including Following Jesus in the Digital Age and The Age of AI: Artificial Intelligence and the Future of Humanity.

A glimpse inside this episode:

• AI is transforming every aspect of society, including faith and identity.
• The concept of human dignity is central to understanding our value in the age of AI.
• AI should not be viewed as a neutral tool; it shapes and forms us.
• The image of God is crucial in discussions about technology and ethics.
• We must slow down and ask the right questions about technology’s impact.
• Humanity’s uniqueness lies in being created in the image of God.
• AI raises important questions about what it means to be human.
• Wisdom in technology use is more important than convenience.
• Parents should engage with their children in understanding technology.
• Government regulation of AI should prioritize human dignity.

This week on Ask the Pastor features a conversation between Pastor J.D. Greear and Ben Watson. Watson is a former NFL tight end as well as a writer, speaker, and activist. He is a college football studio analyst with the SEC Network, and he serves as VP of Strategic Relationships with the Human Coalition, one of the largest pro-life and pro-women’s organizations in the country.

A glimpse inside this episode:

• The pro-life movement is fundamentally about justice.
• Children have inherent value from the moment of conception.
• Roe v. Wade’s overturn is a step, but not the end of the fight.
• Compassion is crucial in discussing pro-life issues.
• Voting is just one aspect of activism.
• Both political sides lack a complete solution for human flourishing.
• Church unity is essential despite political differences.
• Engagement in the pro-life movement can take many forms.
• Believers should seek to understand each other’s perspectives.
• Faith should guide political identity over party affiliation.

Ask the Pastor is continuing our Gospel & Politics series. This week features a conversation between Pastor J.D. Greear and Dr. Ed Stetzer. Stetzer is a leading thinker in his field and has planted, revitalized, and pastored churches; trained pastors and church planters on six continents; earned two master’s degrees and two doctorates.

A glimpse inside this episode:

• The cultural moment feels different than prior cultural moments.
• Christians must engage politically without compromising their faith.
• Character in leadership is crucial for effective governance.
• Clarity in beliefs is essential for kindness in discourse.
• Diverse perspectives exist within the Christian community regarding political issues.
• The church’s mission should not pause due to political tensions.
• Engaging as winsome ambassadors is vital in today’s culture.Christians should be cautious of being influenced by media narratives.
• Political engagement should be informed by biblical teachings.
• The importance of unity in essentials and liberty in non-essentials.

This week’s Ask the Pastor episode kicks off our brand new series, Gospel & Politics. This series will feature Pastor J.D. with other respected leaders talking about how we can integrate both the gospel and politics into our lives this election season. 

A glimpse inside this episode:

• Secular beliefs often have Christian foundations, and Christians should recognize the influence of their faith in shaping moral values.
• The witness of the church is not about being good people, but about recognizing our need for Jesus and sharing the gospel with others.
• The decline in church attendance presents an evangelistic opportunity, as many people are searching for meaning and purpose.
• Christians should engage in politics and vote according to their Christian values, while also recognizing the limitations of legislation in enforcing personal beliefs.
• Christian engagement in politics can have a significant impact, and Christians should strive for a holistic understanding of scripture in shaping political discourse.

In this final edition of Ask the Pastor’s Greatest Hits, Pastor J.D. talks about the pain of unanswered prayer and the realities of prayer for the Christian.

A glimpse inside this episode:

This is a tricky question. I’ve often heard that behind every question is a questioner. When we’re dealing with unanswered prayer, the Bible has a lot to say. But the heart of the questioner matters a lot here. More often than not, when someone asks me about unanswered prayer, it’s not an academic question for them. It’s a question coming from a place of deep hurt. They asked God for healing in their life—and it didn’t happen. They asked God to reconcile a relationship—but the other person still left. They asked God to work in their kid’s life—but it’s been years and there’s no sign of that child returning. 

So first off, I want to say, when it seems like God isn’t answering prayer, that’s legitimately painful. It makes us question God’s goodness. It makes us wonder if he’s real. Those are the kinds of doubts that all of us, at one point or another in our walk of faith, deal with. I’ve wrestled with them. Every great saint has wrestled with them. So if you’re in that spot, don’t despair. Walk through that difficult question with God.

And here, I think, is the best road forward: If we’re walking in fellowship with the Spirit, there isn’t technically any such thing as unanswered prayer. (Now, this is different than the way God responds to those outside of Christ: He may hear them, but he hasn’t promised to.) With believers, though, the Apostle John reminds us, “This is the confidence we have before him: If we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears whatever we ask, we know that we have what we have asked of him” (1 John 5:14–15). If we are walking with God, we can be sure we have his ear. 

Whatever your situation, whatever your request, if you are God’s child, he’s listening. 

Now, does that mean he says “Yes” to everything you ask? Of course not. At times, since God’s wisdom is so much greater than our own, he re-directs our answer. Or he sometimes tells us to wait. Or sometimes he simply says, “No.” 

But saying “No” doesn’t mean he’s being cruel. As Jesus taught, a good father gives his children food like eggs and fish, not dangerous animals like scorpions and snakes (cf. Luke 11:12–13). The point is that even earthly parents withhold things from their children—but that withholding is a result of their love, not a lack of it. 

Sometimes the exercise of God’s love means he gives us what we would have asked for if we knew what he knew. (I think I first heard that from Tim Keller.) What feels like unanswered prayer is actually God answering according to the wisdom and love of the Father.

In this edition of Ask the Pastor’s Greatest Hits, Pastor J.D. shares how God called him to the mission field before calling him to be a pastor of a church that sends and supplies the mission field in extravagant ways.

A glimpse inside this episode:

When God called me to be a pastor, he did so by first calling me to the mission field. I spent the first two years of my ministry as a church planter among Muslims overseas. God never relinquished that call to missions; he showed me that my role in it is to be a part of a church that sends and supplies the mission field.

Even though my primary role in the Great Commission is now as an equipper, it is always such a joy to get back on the front lines. Sure, it can be frustrating not being able to speak the language. But I share Christ more, person to person, in a two-week span than I probably do the entire rest of the year here in the States. It is my identity there, the entire reason I had go short term now. So when an opportunity comes up, I simply share the gospel. I wasn’t “Pastor J.D.” there. I was just “J.D. the guy talking about Jesus.” I want that to last: I want to just be the “Jesus guy” even here.

In this edition of Ask the Pastor’s Greatest Hits, Pastor J.D. talks how to live in the world but not of the world.

A glimpse inside this episode:

Who do you feel the closest kinship with? Who do you spend most of your time with? The lesson from Lot’s life is that you have to make up your mind from the beginning: Who do you really want to be? If it’s with the world, go there 100%. If it’s with God, go with him 100%.

What do you love? What does that say about what your heart really desires?

Are you trying to get as close to the world as you can without becoming it?

So how can I be around “Sodom” but not make the mistake Lot did? It has to do with who you choose to make your close friends and your community. Those are the ones you become like—just like Proverbs 13:20 tells us.

The most miserable person in the world is the half-committed Christian.

In this edition of Ask the Pastor’s Greatest Hits, Pastor J.D. talks about whether the legal use of marijuana is wise or helpful for Christians.

A glimpse inside this episode:

In the past, this was an easy enough question, because marijuana was illegal. It wasn’t a “gray area” for Christians. The drug was illegal, so it was off-limits to those who are “subject to the governing authorities” (Rom. 13:1). But as recreational marijuana becomes legal in more states, some Christians are having conversations about whether there could be an acceptable use.

• While the Bible never mentions marijuana, it does prohibit intoxication. If one hit of marijuana makes you high, there’s no way to smoke it and obey the Bible’s commands against drunkenness. No drug should not move us to the point of losing control. But that’s much of the intrigue and mystique of marijuana.
• Furthermore, marijuana has been demonstrated to have a lot of addictive qualities, more so than alcohol and nicotine, and Paul says: “Though all things are lawful, but I will not be ruled by them.”
• So, on the whole, it’s just hard to see how this could ever be wise. And that’s the wisest question: Is it helpful?
• I will add: marijuana use makes you demonstrably dumber. I mean, so does watching the Bachelor or 5–6 hours of golf. But it’s not a helpful variable in this equation.

One deeper issue: the effects of marijuana work against the kind of community we should seek in the body of Christ.

In Ephesians, Paul contrasts being drunk with wine vs. filled with the Spirit. That’s not an accidental comparison. Both are ways you deal with stress and problems. Wine (and we could add marijuana) dull your awareness of reality. The Spirit heightens your awareness of an alternate reality–the promises of the gospel and the sovereignty of God. And you speak those to one another in the church, in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs.

• Some who speak from experience say that getting high “pulls you within yourself, causes you to become more disengaged, not only from people, but also from life in general.”
• One says: “Before I was a Christian, I smoked marijuana to . . . disengage from both people and issues.”
• One guy said: “By causing users to disengage from life, marijuana works against the love of neighbor Jesus commands. Christians seeking to honor God with their lives would do well to avoid it.

In this edition of Ask the Pastor’s Greatest Hits, Pastor J.D. shares four important things to keep in mind when responding to instances of sexual abuse.

A glimpse into this episode:

This is an extremely important question, so much so that after becoming SBC president, the first thing I did was appoint a Sexual Abuse Advisory Group to lead our denomination. They have been leading in dozens of ways—one of the biggest is they’re developing a curriculum to help churches answer this very question. Churches should be a safe haven for the vulnerable, so we need to do everything we can to make our churches safe for survivors and safe from abuse.

A few preliminary thoughts:

• Don’t be shocked it’s happening.

• Prioritize the protection of victims, not the guarding of your reputations.

• Your goal is not to meet the minimal requirements–but as a shepherd to protect your flock.

This is just the start of an answer, but here are four important things to keep in mind:

1. Disclosing sexual abuse takes an enormous amount of courage, so we should honor that.

This may be the least understood aspect of sexual abuse—it results in a huge loss of voice for the victim. Abuse is usually followed by threats not to say anything, and that’s usually what happens.

What you need to know is that the first time you hear about an instance of abuse, chances are the person talking to you has been carrying this for years. They’ve been terrified about what people will think. They’ve assumed they wouldn’t be believed. To speak up takes bravery.

Now, there are important responses and action steps after you hear of abuse. But don’t be so quick to rush to the action step that you forget your first response—listening to a person, made in God’s image, reveal one of the most hurtful experiences of their lives. Listen, listen, listen.

1. If you know of a report of sexual abuse against a minor, you are legally obligated to alert the authorities.

This is not a “Matthew 18” situation. This is a “Romans 13” situation. Because certain sins are not only immoral; they are also illegal. This is never clearer than in the case of sexual abuse against minors.

If you know of sexual abuse against a minor, no matter who you are, no matter who they are, your first response is to alert the authorities. Call CPS or call the police. You may not know all of the best next steps. But they do, and you need to bring them in. The safety of more children than you know may be on the line.

1. If an abuser has access to minors at your church, remove the access immediately—and, again, call the authorities.

Statistics here are horrifying. Those who abuse minors don’t just do it once or twice. They do it repeatedly, even after they’ve been caught (if given the opportunity). So if you know about one case, you need to see that as dozens of more potential cases. This isn’t a gray area: Bring in the authorities.

We need to reject any understanding of grace that puts the vulnerable in harm’s way by giving abusers a chance to do it again

1. Help connect the survivor to other resources.

If someone has disclosed to you, that’s an honor. And you will have a key role in their healing process. But you need to know you shouldn’t be shouldering this alone.

Questions are going to come up—pretty early—that are best processed through a counseling relationship. So one of the best things you can do for a victim is to get them connected to a counselor. This isn’t a handoff—you need to remind the victim that you are still there and want to process everything with them—but it allows other people more trained in abuse care to do what they do best.

Conclusion: It’s a gospel issue

In this edition of Ask the Pastor’s Greatest Hits, Pastor J.D. talks about some key advantages and disadvantages to each type of schooling and how Scripture guides our decision-making.

A glimpse inside this episode:

My friend Joby Martin says if you want some entertainment, get a home-school mama and a public school mama together and ask what the best educational approach is and then just get some popcorn and sit back and prepare for a UFC bout.

• Home-school mom be like: Sure, you can send your kid to the place where they outlaw prayer like in the times of Nebuchadnezzar and teach your kid that he came from monkeys and where he might get stabbed in the face by a gang member… that’s fine … but we love our son and want him to develop a biblical worldview so we homeschool. Statistically they are more likely to walk with Jesus if you do that, so clearly homeschooling is the godly choice.”
• Public-school mom: Yeah, that’s cool. We just want our kids to have things like…  social skills. We think it’s cool that Timmy can churn his own butter and make his own clothes but we want our son to know things like … math. And we think our kids need to learn how to deal with the temptation of the world and not just run from it. After all, Jesus promised he would protect us in the world, not to vacate from it—and if all the Christians flee the public school, where is that going to leave society? How can we be salt and light to the world if we vacate it? Keeping our kids in public school is an act of love for our neighbor.

First, Romans 14. Chapter 14 and the first half of 15 are one extended discussion about how to get along with people in the church who disagree with you on something you feel passionate about.

Second: We’ve done all three: private school, home school, and public school and saw advantages in each.

• 3 in private now, 1 in public
• (Veronica says she couldn’t homeschool all 4 at once because the Bible clearly says Thou shalt not murder. And my wife would’ve killed my kids if they were home-schooled.)

Third, I’ll say: It really is ‘by kid.’

• There haven’t been a lot of studies on this, but those that are out there indicate that there’s not a significant difference in homeschool and public regarding whether the child adopts the faith if the parent is involved.  “The data also suggest that family climate, especially faithful religious devotion by both parents, delivered in a context of loving nurture, is far more important than where a child goes to school.”
• Parental involvement is more key than school choice.
• That’s similar to the studies on how much doing devotions impacts a kid. It is the quality of the relationship more than the amount of the teaching that makes the difference. Here it is: Sociologist Vern Bengston says in his book Families and Faith that studies conclusively show that the quality of the child’s relationship to the father is the single-most important factor in whether the child adopts the faith of the parents.

What are advantages to private/home schooling?

• Studies show that both homeschooled kids and private school kids usually do slightly better on standardized testing than public school students.
• Private school students may get more intentionally-tailored Bible teaching and Christian curriculum (takes some pressure off), and homeschool parents have all the freedom they want to disciple their kids and teach them the Bible as a part of everyday school.
• Homeschooling (and private schooling to some extent) allows you the opportunity to tailor your child’s education to that child.
• If in a public school, it can be difficult to control what they’re exposed to at an early age.
• Public school curriculum can be notoriously harsh to Christianity–you’ve got to do due diligence. We had our older kids read apologetics books for that purpose.

What are disadvantages to private/home schooling?

• Social interaction (not just a joke) if you’re not careful when homeschooling.
  • Church is a great place to build the kind of community that can compensate for this, by the way, along with things like sports, extracurricular clubs, etc.
• Exposing them to world. We wanted to have them come home every night and process with us the hard discussions, the temptations, before college.
• Missional element: be careful with this one. That’s your calling not theirs yet.
• Private school is really expensive. 
  • It’s a privileged person who even gets to ask a question like this. I understand that. Private schools are really expensive, and not only does that make it impossible for some people … it’s also something that Christians might want to consider even if they can afford it. Do you want your child to only interact with other kids who can afford that kind of school? Or do you want them to have friends from other walks of life, other socio-economic statuses?
• Homeschooling can be really tough.
  • Sometimes it’s nice to have some help shouldering the load of teaching your kids — especially when it comes to subjects that might be out of your comfort zone (which, for me, would come embarrassingly early in the process).

Every kid is different.

Show Notes:

• The answer to this question comes from the lips of Jesus, the most compassionate person ever to live.
• Marriage is a covenant you make with your spouse before God. God created it in Genesis 2 as a union where two literally become one, and death is the only thing that can dissolve that covenant (with a couple of death-related exceptions which we’ll talk about).
• So, is it ever OK to divorce? Jesus says in Matthew 19 that you can do it in the case of adultery. Paul, in 1 Corinthians 7, is going to expand that to say desertion by an unbeliever. Why are those exceptions?
• The logic is very important. In the case of both desertion/abandonment and adultery, they both kill the covenant. That’s why I called them “death-related” exceptions earlier.
• So, you say, what about the case of abuse? Or what if the spouse is involved in some illegal activity that they refuse to stop and it’s putting our family at risk?
• First, if you are in an abusive situation, you need to get yourself to a place of safety immediately. Talk to your church, let them help, or if you’re not feeling safe reach out to the Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-SAFE.
• Second, I would argue that the logic of Paul and Jesus’ exceptions applies also to divorce in the case of a spouse who is doing something that makes them unable to be lived with and puts the family in danger. Creating in abusive environment also kills the marriage covenant, and you are no longer bound to it.

Lean not on your ability as a parent; lean on God’s grace as the hope for your child.

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Show Notes:

• We should be as intentional with our families as we are with our jobs.
• There is a sense that, on one level, I as a parent affect the faith journey of my kids.
• But on another level, there is a limit to the responsibility parents have for the choices our kids make. God has made them as individuals. A lot of godly parents will have a child who wanders. And it’s not because they did something wrong.
• Think about it: God was a perfect Father. And the only two humans he “fathered” directly (Adam and Eve) both rebelled. It wasn’t because of deficiencies in God’s parenting.
• There are decisions only our kids can make. Even under the best of circumstances, they can decide to pursue things that are contrary to what God would have for them.
• Pray for your kids. Speak truth to them. But ultimately, know that God wants us to lean into his grace.

God cares more for our kids than we do and he can pursue our kids in ways that we can’t.

Lean not on your ability as a parent; lean on God’s grace as the hope for your child.

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Pastor J.D. answers a question about what it really means to be a Christian.

Show Notes:

• Everyone has a different assumption of what it means to be a Christian. In the Western world, a lot of people have the assumption that if you’re not a Jew, not a Muslim, and not an atheist, you must be a Christian.
• Some people think it means a certain amount of “religiosity”—a certain amount of church attendance, a desire to live by the Golden Rule, to do good to others, etc. The problem there is, “how much is enough?” At what point do you become good enough to be a Christian?
• There are two defining marks of a Christian to point out:
  • First, a Christian is born again. To be born again means that you’ve come to a point where you recognize that your sin has separated you from God and there’s nothing you can do that would ever make you good enough to be accepted by God. Then Jesus, in your place, lived a life you were supposed to live, died a death you were condemned to die, and was then resurrected from the dead. He wants to take away the penalty of your sin by applying his death on the cross to your account and put the new life of his Spirit into you.
  • Second, a Christian is a disciple of Jesus—which means you follow him, do what he did, live like he did, and obey his commandments. You devote your life to him. That’s what it means to make him Lord of your life.

Jesus came to seek and save the lost, which means we should live our lives as disciple-making disciples.

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This summer we are looking at some of the most popular Ask the Pastor episodes over the years. This week, Pastor J.D. answers the question of whether or not you can lose your salvation.

Show Notes:

• At first glance, Hebrews 6 seems to say that not only can you lose your salvation, but once you do, you can never get it back! So what does it mean?
• This is important: I believe the writer of Hebrews is giving a general, pastoral warning to his congregation rather than attempting to delineate how the processes of regeneration, justification and eternal security work together.
• So, the warning here is a statement to believers and unbelievers alike about the importance of the gospel. Hopefully, it will rouse unbelievers out of their slumber. To the believer, we know that God will use it to keep his believers tethered closely to the gospel. Warnings like this one are one of God’s means of keeping believers awake to the gospel.
• If you persevere to the end, that proves you had the salvation you could never lose. If you don’t, it proves you never had that faith to begin with.

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