The Break Up Break Down – Details, episodes & analysis

First comes love, then comes baby, then comes marriage...maybe? This week's interviewee says all three almost all happened within a few months. However, when tragedy strikes this budding family, things change for the worst. How did this all come to an end in less than one years time? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(05:26): How they met

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(11:08): The red flags

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(14:18): When their relationship went to the next level

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(19:35): The miscarriage/the breakup

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(23:08): Reflecting/advice

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(32:05)): Teaser

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CW: Miscarriage

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Suzanne Goodwin, from Parkside Psychotherapy joins me on the podcast this week to talk about how your religious upbringing impacts how you view your romantic relationships

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Suzanne's practice's contact info: Parksidepsychotherapy.com / 404-914-0279

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She and her ex husband split up before their wedding photos even got released...and now two years later she says they're friends...and he's dating someone she's close with! How did our interviewee from S3E7 end up there and how did she end up in another relationship worthy of a BUBD episode? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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This week we're raising awareness for The Spring in Tampa, FL: https://www.safehaventc.org/

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(08:02): Recap on S3E7

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(14:42): How they met

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(16:19): The red flags

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(18:05): When the truth came out

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(25:19): How she is approaching life as a single mom

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(27:13): Reflecting on her relationships that ended

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(34:27): Advice

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(36:22); Teaser

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This week we're raising awareness for Jessie's Place in Birmingham, AL: https://jimmiehalemission.com/donate/

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(04:08): How they met

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(08:16): The cracks in the relationship

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(12:29): When he broke things off

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(17:22): How people reacted

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(19:01): The aftermath

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(24:00): When he tried to get her back

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(26:32): Her healing process

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(29:24): How her dating life is now

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(33:09): Advice

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(34:56): Teaser

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More from Jessica Anne Pressler, LCSW: https://www.jessicaannepressler.com/

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This week we're raising awareness for Choices in Columbus, OH: https://lssnetworkofhope.org/donate/?dr=LSS%20CHOICES%20for%20Victims%20of%20Domestic%20Violence

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Follow the podcast!

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(02:49): How they met

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(06:14): When they moved in together

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(08:14): When he introduces her to the woman he'd leave her for

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(11:45): When things started to go wrong

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(17:29): When they had their child

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(20:02): When she saw signs of an affair

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(26:52): The aftermath after he left her

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(29:29): Where everyone is at now

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(37:15): Reflecting/what she learned

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(44:29): Teaser

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Check out more from Amy from New Perspectives: https://newperspectivesforlife.com/

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This week we're raising awareness for Hope Inc in Clarksburg, WV: https://hopeincwv.org/

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Follow the podcast!

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(03:21): How they met

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(10:01): When she found out about the engagement

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(14:58): What happened when she confronted him

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(19:41): Is the wedding still on?

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(24:36): Reflecting on the relationships

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(27:39): Advice/what she's learned

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(32:10): Teaser

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We're diving deeper into the conversation surrounding domestic violence and verbal abuse on today's break down.

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LCSW Amethyst St. Thomas came on to react to this week's main episode and help us understand why victims choose to stay in abusive relationships and how we can help our friends and family escape a dangerous situation!

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Connect with Amethyst !

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Website: https://www.inclusivetherapyclub.com/

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IG: https://www.instagram.com/inclusivetherapyclub/

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Timestamps:

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(00:00-01:32): Episode intro/general reactions

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(01:32-03:36): Defining verbal abuse

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(03:36-04:34): The need for control in abusive relationships

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(04:34-06:29): Defining what abuse looks like in conflict

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(06:29-08:12): Reasons people choose to stay in abusive relationships

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(08:12-15:12): How to encourage someone to leave an abusive relationship

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(15:12-17:12): Common things people need to heal from after an abusive relationship

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(17:12-19:60): Closing out/where to follow Inclusive Therapy Club

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CW: Domestic violence: physical abuse, verbal abuse, emotional abuse.

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This episode originally aired in October 2022

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Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

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Text START to 88788

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Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/

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Timestamps:

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(00:00-04:09): Episode Intro

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(04:53): How they got together

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(06:20): When the red flags started to show

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(07:37): When things started to take a turn for the worst

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(10:16): Why she decided to stay when things got violent

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(11:49): When the relationship finally came to an end

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(13:09): Why she wanted to stay in this relationship 

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(14:18): The aftermath of the relationship

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(17:36): When she finally identified that this was abuse

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(20:25): Advice she would give to people in her situation

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(25:02): Thursday Episode

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[CW: Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence/Intimate Partner Violence, Miscarriage, Mental Health]

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