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Ep. 113 Trey Tucker | Shame, Ownership, and the Reps That Make You Stronger 23 Jun 202501:00:12

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What actually keeps men stuck? In this honest conversation, Jason sits down with therapist and podcast host Trey Tucker to unpack the invisible battles most men face — anxiety, shame, isolation, and the quiet grief we don’t know how to name.

Trey shares real-life insight on:

  • Why most men fear being seen — and how friendship can change everything
  • How subtle, formative experiences shape our emotional patterns for decades
  • The cost of tying your worth to a job, status, or image
  • Anger, avoidance, and using physical movement to regulate emotion
  • Low testosterone, fatigue, and why so many men feel checked out
  • The truth about hookup culture, dating fatigue, and setting standards that matter
  • Taking ownership inside hell moments — not to blame yourself, but to reclaim control

This episode is about reps — not just in the gym, but in how you think, relate, and lead. Whether you're facing a major pivot or trying to break old patterns, what you’ll hear here is practical, grounded, and long overdue.

Connect with Trey: https://www.ruggedcounseling.com/ 

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Ep. 112 Craig Ballantyne | Reinvention and Discipline: Navigating Change and Unlocking Your Potential 10 Jun 202500:49:47

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About Craig Ballantyne:

Craig Ballantyne is a renowned high-performance coach, author, and entrepreneur. He is the author of "The Perfect Day Formula," "Unstoppable," and "The Dark Side of Discipline." Craig is known for his no-nonsense approach to personal and business growth, emphasizing discipline, strategic planning, and mindset shifts to help individuals and businesses achieve their full potential.

In this powerful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith sits down with best-selling author and high-performance coach Craig Ballantyne for a candid conversation about navigating the ever-changing landscape of business and life. Craig shares invaluable insights on adapting to algorithm shifts, embracing reinvention, and overcoming the hidden roadblocks that prevent us from achieving our greatest desires.

What You'll Learn:

  • The Truth About Algorithm Changes: Why blaming external factors like algorithm shifts is unproductive and what to do instead when your content views plummet.

  • The Art of Reinvention: Discover the first steps to reinventing yourself or your business, including the critical importance of understanding what your audience truly wants.

  • Unmasking Your Level 10 Problem: Learn to identify the core issue that's holding you back – often a difficult conversation you've been avoiding – and how to tackle it head-on.

  • The Trap of Performative Productivity: Understand how "good" activities can prevent you from achieving "great" things, and how to prioritize what truly matters.

  • The Power of Systems Over Willpower: Craig reveals why relying solely on willpower is a losing battle and how to establish systems and standards that make good habits effortless.

  • Overcoming the "Doom Loop": Practical strategies for breaking free from negative cycles like emotional eating, including identifying triggers and implementing pattern interrupts.

  • Structuring Your Day for Success: Craig shares how his daily routine has evolved, demonstrating how to align your schedule with your values and maximize your most productive hours.

  • The Game-Changing Impact of Accountability: Why having someone you deeply don't want to disappoint is the ultimate catalyst for consistent action and sustained results.

  • The Philosophy of Knowing Good People: Discover why building a strong network of positive connections can make every aspect of your life easier and more fulfilling.

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Key Takeaways:

  • Don't blame the algorithm; improve your content or find what the algorithm is currently rewarding.

  • Reinvention starts with understanding what your audience desires.

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Ep. 103 Amber Nelms – Resilience, Leadership, and the Psychology of Success12 Mar 202500:50:44

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Episode Summary:

What does it take to build resilience, lead with impact, and scale a mission-driven business? Amber Nelms is a board-certified behavior analyst, entrepreneur, and personal development advocate who's reshaping the way we approach leadership, personal growth, and success.

In this episode, Amber shares how she built Triangle ABA, a leading autism therapy company, while navigating the challenges of entrepreneurship, personal transformation, and leadership development. She breaks down the neuroscience of success, the mindset shifts required for breaking through upper limits, and why putting yourself in the right rooms is key to growth.

Amber also opens up about her personal journey—from rebuilding her life after divorce to scaling her business while staying aligned with her purpose. If you're looking for inspiration on how to push past fear, commit to your goals, and lead with authenticity, this episode is a must-listen.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✔️ How Amber committed to 365 days of content creation—and what it taught her about resilience
✔️ The power of showing up for yourself first before leading others
✔️ The biggest mistakes entrepreneurs make when scaling a mission-driven business
✔️ Why breaking through personal limits is the key to transformation
✔️ How to handle judgment, criticism, and self-doubt when building a personal brand
✔️ The science behind behavior change and how it applies to business and leadership
✔️ How Amber balances running a company, personal development, and content creation
✔️ The importance of community, mentorship, and putting yourself in the right rooms
✔️ How to navigate major life pivots and redefine success on your own terms

About Amber Nelms:

Amber Nelms is the founder of Triangle ABA, a leader in applied behavior analysis therapy for children with autism. A board-certified behavior analyst, entrepreneur, and coach, she is passionate about personal development, leadership, and the neuroscience of success. Through her business, speaking engagements, and content, she helps people push past their limits, develop resilience, and scale businesses without losing their heart.

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Ep. 12 Law of Attraction - Introduction19 Mar 202300:03:09

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The concept of the Law of Attraction, as presented in the movie "The Secret" and the book "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill, suggests that our thoughts and intentions can influence the experiences and outcomes in our lives. It's the idea that we are like a magnet and attract into our lives what we are currently being. It's the way we think, act, and feel or our emotional setpoint. It the difference of seeing things as happening to you (Victim mindset) or happening for you (Take the lesson.) It's the words that we use with ourselves daily and how we tell the story of our lives to ourselves and to others. Although this idea may be seen as unconventional, it can still have a positive impact on one's mental and emotional well-being. Just like a magnet, our thoughts, actions, and emotions can attract or repel certain experiences. When we have positive thoughts and good intentions, we are more open to receiving what the world has to offer. This can lead to a happier, lighter vibration and a greater chance of attracting the things we want in life. However, many of us tend to focus on what we don't want, leading to negative emotions such as doubt, worry, and anxiety. To overcome this hurdle, it's important to focus on the lessons of past experiences and to ask yourself "Why not me?" instead of dwelling on negative outcomes. Keep in mind that the Law of Attraction is not a linear path and there will be ups and downs. It doesn't make you immune to negative experiences but by doing the work you certainly become more resilient. By responding positively to difficult situations and asking how you can do better next time, you can open yourself up to new opportunities and better outcomes. Remember that the universe may have something even better in store for you, even if it's not exactly what you had planned. Allow yourself to be focused more on the moment than a particular outcome that you desire. If you focus too much on the outcome and it doesn't work out the way you wanted it, you may miss the gift that particular moment gave you. To stay connected and sign up for the 21 Day Self-Love Challenge head over to my Stan Store below. There are also tons of freebies to get you started! https://stan.store/Jbirdfit

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Ep. 13 Limiting Beliefs Be Gone! 19 Mar 202300:04:25

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5 Tips to Overcome the Fear of Rejection Practice mindfulness and breathwork to take control of your nervous system and reduce the fear of rejection. Challenge and change your limiting beliefs about yourself and rejection. Start small by initiating conversations with people you're comfortable with, and gradually building up to more challenging interactions. Take ownership of your emotions and understand that rejection is not a reflection of your self-worth. Learn to detach from the outcome of a situation and focus on the process of what led up to it. We all have a fear of rejection in some area of our life, but we can overcome it by taking control of our nervous system through breathwork and by not being so attached to the outcome of a situation. It's important to remember that rejection is not a reflection of our self-worth, but rather a result of our attachment style and limiting beliefs. To practice overcoming the fear of rejection, try starting small by striking up a conversation with a cashier or someone you find interesting such as a mentor and take those interactions as a win even though it made you feel uncomfortable! As you do this more often, you'll feel empowered and gain confidence. Additionally, it's important to understand that rejection can be an opportunity for healing and growth, and it's not your job to convince someone of who you are. It's also important to remember that when someone leaves a relationship, it's not always a reflection on you, but rather an opportunity for them to heal their own unhealed trauma. How to overcome your limiting beliefs Start by becoming aware of the thoughts, feelings, and beliefs that are holding you back. What are they? Write them down. Once you've identified your limiting beliefs, take a step back and ask yourself if this is even true? What supporting evidence do you have for that? Once you've had the opportunity to digest your self-evaluation you can reframe the limiting belief of "I'm not enough" and reframe it to "I'm capable of amazing things." Be kind...to yourself! Give yourself grace and practice self-compassion. It's time to wire in new beliefs by counteracting the old ones with positive self-talk. Inventory your friend group. Who is in support of your goals, dreams, and desires? Do you feel supported in your friend group or with your family? Do you need to limit time with the people who bring you down? If you would like to learn more about 1:1 Coaching or how you can be a part of the 21 Day Self-Love Challenge just head to the link below and make sure you get all your freebies while you're there! https://stan.store/Jbirdfit

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Ep. 10 Letting GO!27 Feb 202300:03:54

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Letting go is a process that can be difficult, but it's necessary for growth and healing. It's important to understand that letting go does not mean forgetting or dismissing the past, but rather accepting and moving forward. 

Understand your pain is a message that is often never confronted. We tend to ignore or suppress the emotions and situations that we believe is causing the pain. However, pain also keeps us safe, think about touching a hot stove with your right hand and you'll have a physical response just from me talking about it. Try seeing your pain a guide in your life that is there to help you navigate difficult situations. It's a warning sign that something isn't right and needs to be confronted, challenged, changed, or overcome.  

It's time to start letting go of what no longer serves you. It's time to acknowledge the pain exists and where it comes from. It's time to accept that you cannot change the past but you no longer have to live there. 

It's time to embrace the present and co-create your future. 

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Ep. 11 Love and Attachment27 Feb 202300:06:41

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All we need is love, right? In modern dating things have gotten really interesting. I recently scanned the dating apps and saw A LOT of really familiar faces. I very quickly deleted the apps because that style of connection doesn't resonate with me and never really has. As I've done the inner work and took the deep dive into personal development and relationship dynamics, I quickly had a realization that changed the way I viewed starting relationships or rather it brought me back to my goals, values, and standards for a relationship with me and what that actually looks like. I was a teenager in the late 1900's and we did things like talk on the phone and had to wait a week to see each other with no conversation in between. Can you imagine!!! Not having any connection from the time, you set a date to the time you had the date??? That's unheard of today. Instead, we text 24 / 7 and have whole conversations all the while creating the meaning behind those messages in our heads. You don't even know this person yet. It gives a false sense of intimacy and closeness, but it's built off of your own emotions and meaning. We have lost the art of connection. So many people now will avoid a phone call because it makes them feel a certain way but THAT is connection! They prefer to text, private message, chat, or snap but the emotion that brings up isn't real. That's emotion you are assigning to that experience and that person based on your past experiences. They make you laugh via a meme that they didn't create or put any effort into, yet we will create the story about that person in our heads that they are funny. The meme is funny, they may end up only being slightly funny, or even not funny at all! They just know what makes them laugh and thought it would make you laugh as well. So in a way, you are connecting, and they acknowledge what is funny to you but still there is low to no effort being exerted. I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Do you know your goals, values, and standards for a relationship? Have you taken the time to write down what you are looking for? Have you take the time to do the inner work so you can become ALL of those things yourself? A few key takeaways to remember Your attachment style isn't fixed. You can heal your attachment style Professional help, coaching, and other modalities are available to help you heal Take what resonates with you and leave what doesn't The key to healing is Self-Love, learning to trust yourself, and learning to let go of what no longer serves you! Make sure you check out my links below for all my other content! https://stan.store/Jbirdfit Additional Resources: Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller The Power of Attachment by Diane Heller It's Not Me It's You By John Kim The Mountain is You by Brianna Wiest The Origins of You by Vienna Pharaon

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Ep. 9 Finding Purpose26 Feb 202300:03:06

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5 Steps to Finding Purpose Understand yourself: Take time to reflect on your beliefs, emotions, and past experiences. Journaling and meditation can be helpful tools to gain a deeper understanding of yourself. A great question to start with is, "Who am I?" Hint: You are more than your job or family title. Identify your highest self: Think about the person you want to become and what qualities and characteristics define that person. Make a conscious effort to work towards becoming that person. Identify your values: Determine what is truly important to you and align your actions and relationships with those values. Seek out supportive relationships: Surround yourself with people who support and align with your goals and values. Continuously seek knowledge and inspiration: Reading books, listening to podcasts, and taking courses on personal development can provide valuable insights and tools to help guide your journey towards finding your purpose. If you're interested in learning more about Life and Breath Coaching as well as the 21 Self-Love Challenge, then check out my Stan Store! https://stan.store/Jbirdfit

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Ep. 7 Getting Started Again with a Fitness Routine 30 Nov 202200:08:21

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In today's world there are tons of FITNESS programs out there to choose from, but it can be intimidating if you don't currently work out or have a fitness ROUTINE like running, spin class, or CrossFit but this is your opportunity to reignite your motivation, discipline, and to take your personal POWER back! The NUMBER 1 place you are going to make the biggest difference in your health and wellness is in the KITCHEN. I can tell you as a former chef who oversaw multiple kitchens in hotels, resorts, corporations and sports arenas that what you CONSUME physically, mentally, and emotionally has a direct impact on your overall health. There was period of in my life when I would eat a tube of chocolate chip cookies in one sitting, and I wouldn't think twice about it until I started having different types of health issues that led me to start QUESTIONING what was going on. Am I getting old? Is this my new way of living? How did I get here? Is there anything I can do to CHANGE this? Why do I feel sad, angry, frustrated, and depressed all the time? These thoughts, feelings, and emotions were the CATALYST in my own life that PROPELLED me into a new way of living....for a while. When you try to do too many new things at one time it is easy to become OVERWHELMED. When you become overwhelmed you go right back to the HABITS and EMOTIONS that keep you feeling STUCK because they are the most FAMILIAR. You may find yourself doing really well on a diet plan but two weeks in you have a semi-significant life event that totally derails your progress, and this is when the negative self-talk starts. It happened again, I never finish anything, I can't do this, this is too hard, or the most difficult to overcome, "I give up!" This is why it's important to start slow and build on your new HABITS. As you CREATE and CELEBRATE your small WINS each day you become more confident, capable, and believe that you can ACCOMPLISH whatever your next goal is. You are now developing RESILIENCE and EMOTIONAL FORTITUDE in the face of doing hard things! CONGRATULATIONS! Right now, is a great OPPORTUNITY to take an inventory of your cabinets. With your current KNOWLEDGE and experience what type of foods do you think are problematic for you? If you are unsure, take a week or two and write down everything that you eat in a day to include your portion size. This will help create AWARENESS around what type of food you eat but I also want you to write down what you are FEELING in that moment. I know exactly what I was FEELING and what I was going through when I turned to the tube of cookies but more on FOOD RELATIONSHIPS later in the program. A great way to START back into a fitness routine is by walking! I know it sounds stupid simple because it is. You don't have to buy any equipment except a solid pair of shoes, and you are on your way. Eventually you will start doing research on zero platform shoe and the benefits of spending more time BAREFOOT. That is definitely worth a Google search! For now, let's focus on the basics and WALK it out!

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Ep. 6 Beginner Meditation08 Sep 202200:03:17

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If you are new to MEDITATION, I want you to know that you don't need any fancy new tools, equipment, or candles but I can tell you as you become more COMFORTABLE you will see the benefit of having a cushion, candle, and some high vibration music or your favorite YouTube meditation. I cannot link a meditation in here because the link keeps changing due to copyright but if you look up 15 Minute Morning Meditation by Joe Dispenza you should be ablet to find it on YouTube. As the link changes I will post it in the Facebook group! What is MEDITATION good for? Here are my top reasons for meditating! Reduce Feelings of Stress - This is probably the primary reason you are willing to try meditation in the first place. You feel stressed! Reduce Feelings of Anxiousness - This is the second reason most people give meditation a try BUT you have to remain CONSISTENT with this practice to receive the maximum benefit. Improve Emotional Health - Whenever you begin a physical, mental, or emotional practice a potential natural byproduct is better emotional health. Increase Self-Awareness- Meditation gives you an opportunity to close the door on your external environment and go inward. A place where don't often feel comfortable going for long because old thoughts, feelings, and emotions pop up! Increase Mindfulness- When the mind drifts allow it to happen. Journal what is coming up for you. Over time those thoughts, feelings, and emotions will lose their impact as you allow yourself to feel the FEELINGS. Move you into your Parasympathetic Nervous System- They call this your rest, digest, and calm. This is a place we want to be able to go to whenever we have big emotions, stress, or feelings of anxiety pop up. This is a good opportunity to move into our breathwork practices. Always Available to you and FREE I want to say CONGRATULATIONS and I am proud of you for making it through the first week of the challenge! Make sure you leave a comment below about your experience so far!

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Ep. 5 Raising Your Vibration07 Sep 202200:08:17

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Welcome to Day 5! Raising Your Vibration can be confusing at first with all the chaos going on in your life right now and sound out of balance or alignment but let's break it down a little further. ​“Everything is ENERGY and that is all there is to it. Match the FREQUENCY of the reality you want, and you cannot help but get that REALITY. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics” ~Albert Einstein. I believe that we are all ENERGY and that everything in our life has a DOMINANT VIBRATION. Your dominant vibration is the way you think, act, and feel most often. Ask yourself, what do you think of the most? Worry Fear Anxiousness Uncertainty / Doubt Anger When you CHANGE your PERSPECTIVE and begin to see yourself as an INFINITE being having a limited human experience it sets you FREE from your current state of feeling STUCK. You have been given an OPPORTUNITY to be here on this Earth for a FINITE amount of time. YOU get to CHOOSE how you spend that time daily! Sadly, many of us ALLOW our thoughts, feelings, and emotions to be tied to things that are outside of us and it's those ENERGETIC ties that keep us feeling stuck and powerless. A great example of being in a HIGH VIBRATIONAL state is going to the beach. Imagine walking up to the beach entrance from the hot concrete sidewalk and hitting the sand for the first time. You can feel the soft hot sand in between your toes and as your feet begin to sink further into the sand you can feel how cool it is just beneath the surface. Now, walk down to the shoreline where you can hear the waves crashing just a short distance away from you. The seagulls are flying above you letting out their high-pitched call and you close your eyes and allow the waves to slowly creep up and over your feet. The water is cool and refreshing and as the water is pulled back into the ocean you can feel your worries, fears, and anxiety being pulled away with it. You have just moved from your sympathetic nervous system of fight, flight, or freeze into your parasympathetic nervous system of rest, digest, and heal. Any time you need a reminder of a CALMING experience you can always move into your imagination or VISUALIZATION and allow yourself to feel that experience in the NOW! This is also an opportunity to begin to write a new story. While visualizing, allow the emotions to come up for you and wash them away each time the ocean creeps slowly over your feet and pulls the negativity away. This is you LETTING GO of what no longer serves you! Top 10 Ways to Raise Your Vibration 1. Gratitude - Showing gratitude for all things in your life. Knowing that everything is temporary, and that people will be a lesson or a blessing in your life, be thankful for both! 2. Service to Self / Service to Others - This is great when you struggle to find PURPOSE, but you have to determine what you need. When you serve yourself, you are looking to improve areas of your life and focus inward which allows you to also serve others in return. When you are your best self the people in your life get to benefit and receive all you have to offer to them. You become the LIGHT. 3. Food & Alcohol - This is always a difficult subject but lean into eating foods that make you feel good and don't be afraid to ask for help from a professional who can help you achieve your goals. Limiting or eliminating alcohol will greatly improve so many different areas in your life to include the way you think, act, feel, and even your sleeping patterns. 4. Fitness / Go for a Walk - A daily fitness routine or simply going for walk will make massive improvements in your life. A 10-minute walk daily is good for you, cardio vascularly, and will help you RESET your mindset. If you are feeling stressed or having a mental block a 10-mi

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Ep. 3 Beginner Breathwork 06 Sep 202200:03:42

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I began practicing breathwork in 2020 at a low point in my life with high stress. I found myself not sleeping well, I was tired all the time, and had an overwhelming feeling of anxiousness. Remember, it's not I am anxious" it's "I feel anxious". I've been anxious my whole life but didn't know that was the feeling I was experiencing. I thought the feeling of anxiousness and overthinking was normal. Then I discovered the work of Joe Dispenza, started MEDITATING, and realized I could overcome the anxiousness and the overthinking. I went down the spirituality rabbit hole and that led me to neuroplasticity, breathwork, binaural beats, and learning about the reticular activating system and nervous system regulation. I even found a breathwork certification online and became certified in XPT Performance Breathing. Through all my research, reading, podcasts, and audibles I was introduced to Wim Hof who is known on social media as the ICE MAN. Wim's story is compelling and his pain became his purpose. To train you to become more RESILIENT to the daily stress you experience through BREATH. If you are ready to jump in let's figure out your BOLT score. Determining Your BOLT Score Body Oxygen Level Test (Bolt) which determines how quickly do you get breathless during physical activity. Even think about how quickly you become breathless when taking a flight of stairs and you consider yourself in great shape, but you can still gas out quickly. Directions: Make sure you are in a seated position and in a safe space. Normal breath in through the nose. Normal breath out through the nose. Then pinch the nose. Set your stopwatch on your phone, watch, or other device When you feel the first indication to breath release your nose and go back to breathing normally. A low BOLT score of 10 seconds means you will gas out sooner during physical activity A high BOLT score of 30 seconds or greater means you have good breathing technique As you apply breathwork in your daily routine and begin to regulate your breathing dysfunction you will increase your CO2 tolerance and increase your BOLT score. Which means less breathlessness or gassing out early in a workout!

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Ep. 4 Change Your Story 06 Sep 202200:03:49

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Tony Robbins famous quote, "Change your thoughts, change your life". An important aspect of that quote is understanding that you are not your thoughts. Another quote, "No one will choose you unless you choose you!" Take a look at the people in your life. How are they showing up in your life? Are they givers? Takers? How do they make your nervous system feel? Anxious, Stressed, or Angry? Sad, Frustrated, or Depressed? We need to pay attention to HOW people make you FEEL. What is one thing you can do today to change your relationships? Do you need to set a healthy boundary with an intrusive parent? Do you feel unseen, unheard, and unappreciated by your spouse? If you're single, are you dating the same type of person over and over again? This applies to our friendships and co-workers as well. Your relationships have the power to impact your STORY in a POSITIVE or negative way. Those relationships can also keep you from moving the needle FORWARD in your own life! If you are ready to set HEALTHY boundaries and start saying NO to what no longer serves you then let's start rewriting your story! How do we rewrite our story? 1. Pattern Recognition- What are the bad HABITS or patterns of behavior that you would like to change and why? What is this habit causing you to experience? If you were to change that habit how would that make you feel? Once you recognize what you would like to change the next question is what will replace that bad habit? When I stopped smoking, I first used gum to help kick the bad habit and eventually worked my way through the bad habit and was able to stop chewing gum as well. 2. Journal - Journaling is an important piece of rewriting your story. When you write things down it sends different signals to the brain and solidifies the content of the information. While journaling you can talk about how you feel and how you would like to feel as well as the difficulties you are experiencing. As you write out the negative feelings it will feel like you are releasing them from your heart. 3. Prepare for the Worst! - As you write your new story, wire in new habits, and set healthy boundaries the people in your life will begin to test and reject your new narrative. Your friends that smoke will offer you that cigarette. Your family members will tell you to go ahead and have that slice of cake even though you already told them you are on a diet and need their support. Understand, they aren't doing this intentionally, but they can't break their own habits and it seems harsh but if you have never made changes before, they may not believe you can do it. Please know it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with their own limited mindset and beliefs. They simply don't believe they can do it so you can't either.

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Ep. 102 Adam Allred, The Cost of Complacency 09 Mar 202500:52:38

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Adam Allred on The Cost of Complacency 

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Episode Overview:
In this episode, I sit down with Adam Allred, a leading voice in modern masculinity and the founder of the DGHBOY movement. Adam is on a mission to help men step out of their comfort zones, develop unshakable discipline, and reclaim their authentic power. We dive deep into why most men stay stuck, the role of hardship in building strength, and how real confidence is forged—not inherited.

If you’ve ever felt stagnant, lost, or unsure of your next move, this episode will challenge you to rise up, take control, and push past the limits you’ve placed on yourself.

Topics Covered in This Episode:
  • Why comfort is the biggest enemy of personal growth
  • The key mindset shift every man needs to break out of mediocrity
  • How to build real confidence without external validation
  • The role of brotherhood and why men need strong communities
  • The most common mistakes men make in relationships and self-development
  • Why discipline—not motivation—is the foundation of authentic masculinity
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Ep. 2 Morning Routine for Self-Love Step 120 Aug 202200:03:52

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Today....right NOW....is a great OPPORTUNITY to take massive action towards your goals and make another CHANGE! The reason many people aren't successful when they begin to make changes in their life is because they go from 0 to 60 mph with their goals. The DESIRE is there, The PASSION is there, but that MOMENTUM quickly burns out because that pace isn't sustainable. The key to making sustainable change is to take it slow. You go slow to go fast. Meaning when you slowly stack your NEW habits on top of each other you are building a solid foundation of skills and abilities that you didn't have before. The difference is those new skills are now built into your DNA, they are HABITS, they are subconscious. A good quote to remember is, "We are what we repeatedly do" Aristotle. What does it look like to stack a HABIT? Hydration is always a great place to start because most of us don't drink enough water in a day. Now, let's build the habit! Each night before you go to bed fill a 1-liter water bottle up and put it on your nightstand. Then make a COMMITMENT to yourself that you will drink that entire water bottle before you leave your bedroom for the next 30 days. You can track each day in your journal and be accountable to yourself. When you make a promise to yourself and keep it you will feel more confident building on top of that habit. Remember, your journey is unique to you and there will be days where you negotiate with your mind to NOT drink the water. You'll tell yourself...I don't want to, I'm so tired, I'm not even thirsty, and that is the self-sabotage kicking in, but you have been there before. NOT THIS TIME! This is the last time you give up on yourself! On the hard days I want you to tell your mind, "Stop, I'm drinking my water" "We aren't talking about that today". Don't worry, we all talk to ourselves whether you realize it or not. It's time to narrate your story differently! CHALLENGE! When you get up each day make a COMMITMENT to making your bed every day without fail. There is a substantial mental health benefit to making your bed each day. You'll feel more Accomplished Reduced Anxiety Better Sleep Improved Focus Higher Productivity Empowered

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Ep. 1 Breaking Patterns and Habits19 Aug 202200:03:33

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One of the biggest hacks I can give you to eliminate LIMITING BELIEFS and take your power back is to journal regularly and take notes when you hear something that resonates with you. Journaling works out in the real world, and I encourage you to use your notes app when inspiration strikes, when you are triggered by an event, or feel anxious. Using your notes app creates awareness around the thoughts, feelings, and emotions that keep you stuck but also the ones that lead you to a place of creation or reaching a "flow state." A flow state is simply when you feel at peace or in deep connection with your inner being and it allows you to be creative in your own way. THIS is the path to feeling joy! The first step in healing is creating awareness around your patterns of behavior, daily thoughts, or situations that leave you feeling drained or anxious. A good example is waking up in the morning and immediately reaching for your phone. Please know, you are not alone! We have all done it, but the real question is. 1. How does that make you feel? 2. How long do you stay in bed scrolling on your phone? Answer: Take a moment to answer these questions in your notebook. This one habit can produce many negative outcomes in your day. You may feel invalidated, frustrated, sad, angry, resentful, or depressed depending on what type of content you interacted with. This is where your first TRANSFORMATION begins. Make a PROMISE to yourself that you are going to start your day by leaving your phone alone for the first hour after you wake up in the morning. This is an extremely hard habit to break but I BELIEVE you can do it! At first you may feel even more anxious because you want to grab your phone. This is a great opportunity to grab your journal or a notebook and start writing about what you are feeling in that moment and why. The primary reason you want to scroll through your phone is that you desire CONNECTION. Connection is something we all desire, but do you feel more connected to yourself or less connected when you scroll through your phone? Self-Love is really about taking your power back by realizing how strong you really are. You will hear me say this throughout the program, "This is your opportunity to take your power back from the things that no longer serve you." You can apply this technique to other areas in your life and begin to think about is what I'm doing right now getting me closer to or further away from my goals?

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Ep. 101 Joy Through the Journey, Amberly Lago 03 Mar 202500:54:59

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Episode 101: Amberly Lago – Resilience, Pain, and the Power of Joy

What if the worst moment of your life became the defining moment of your greatest strength?

In this episode, I sit down with Amberly Lago, bestselling author, speaker, and resilience coach, to discuss her journey from near death to unstoppable success.

Amberly shares how a life-altering motorcycle accident left her with a one percent chance of saving her leg, yet she defied the odds through grit, gratitude, and an unshakable mindset. After 34 surgeries, she rebuilt her life, proving that pain and joy can coexist—and that true resilience is forged in the hardest moments.

Topics We Cover:
  • The accident that changed everything—and the moment she chose to fight
  • Overcoming excruciating pain, 34 surgeries, and an incurable nerve disease
  • How gratitude is the fastest way to shift perspective and overcome suffering
  • The PACER Method—Amberly’s framework for resilience, healing, and growth
  • Why community and proximity are the real shortcuts to success
  • How Amberly’s latest book, Joy Through the Journey, is redefining happiness
  • The power of asking for what you want and the mindset shift behind it
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Website: AmberlyLago.com
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Ep. 100 Beating the Burnout with AK Dozanti First Responder Wellness27 Feb 202500:55:23

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 🎙 EPISODE 100! We're celebrating this milestone with a powerful conversation featuring AK Dozanti, former law enforcement officer, coach, speaker, and author of Beat the Burnout: Prevention and Recovery Solutions for Frontline Professionals.

Burnout is a silent epidemic in first responder careers, yet it's often ignored or normalized. In this episode, AK and I dive into the realities of first responder mental health, nervous system regulation, and the process of rebuilding after burnout. We discuss unpacking trauma, recognizing burnout before it’s too late, and how to reset your nervous system for long-term resilience.

  • Key Takeaways from This Episode:
  • The Signs of Burnout No One Talks About – How to identify them before they take over your life.
  • The Role of Childhood Trauma in First Responder Careers – Why many enter the profession already carrying emotional weight.
  • Practical Strategies for Nervous System Regulation – Small daily habits that make a massive impact.
  • The Journey of Writing a Book & Coaching First Responders – AK’s personal experience of transforming adversity into impact.
  • The Culture Shift in Law Enforcement Mental Health – Are we making progress, and what still needs to change?

If you're a first responder or someone struggling with burnout, this episode is a must-listen.

📖 Get AK Dozanti’s book, Beat the Burnout, and learn how to prevent, recognize, and recover from burnout before it’s too late: akadizanti.com

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Ep. 99 No Ticket to High Ticket: Tanner Chidester’s Rise to Millions25 Feb 202500:50:57

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Tanner Chidester went from struggling entrepreneur to scaling multiple seven and eight-figure businesses—but after hitting $1M/month, he realized something was missing. In this episode, we dive deep into his journey, from early hustle to high-ticket coaching success, and the hard lessons about money, fulfillment, and business scalability.

Tanner reveals why most entrepreneurs stall at six figures, how to pivot when strategies stop working, and what separates business owners who plateau from those who scale past $1M/month.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✔️ The mindset shift Tanner made after hitting $1M/month
✔️ Why coaching & consulting businesses have an income ceiling
✔️ The biggest hiring mistakes that prevent business growth
✔️ How to scale past $100K/month (most entrepreneurs get this wrong)
✔️ The future of AI in business, content, and marketing
✔️ Why high-ticket is actually easier to sell than low-ticket

If you’re scaling your business, struggling with sales, or looking for your next big pivot, this episode is packed with insights from someone who’s done it at the highest level.

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Key Takeaways & Lessons from the Episode1. The “Million a Month” Realization: Money Won’t Fix Everything
  • Tanner hit $1M/month, threw a huge party, and quickly realized… no one cared.
  • After sacrificing friendships, relationships, and free time, he started questioning what actually mattered.
  • His new goal: Building businesses that don’t just make money, but also fuel personal growth and freedom.
2. Why Coaching & Consulting Won’t Make You a Billionaire
  • High-ticket coaching is great for cash flow, but bad for scale because it requires manual fulfillment.
  • After interviewing ultra-high-net-worth individuals, Tanner found that billion-dollar businesses have:
    • Private Equity: Buying & scaling businesses.
    • Hedge Funds: Managing investor capital at scale.
    • Tech & SaaS: Low-overhead, high-leverage products.
  • If freedom & scalability matter, you need a business that delivers consistent value without constant effort.
3. The 80/20 Rule for Pivoting When Business Strategies Stop Working
  • Many entrepreneurs panic and completely overhaul their strategies too quickly.
  • Instead, test new strategies gradually → Keep 80% of your budget/resources in what’s still working and 20% in testing new approaches.
  • Example: If spending $10K/month on ads, keep $8K in proven methods, $2K for testing.
4. Scaling from $100K to $1M: Why Most Entrepreneurs Stall
  • 0-100K/month: Can be brute-forced with hard work and personal effort.
  • 100K-1M/month: Requires hiring, delegation

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Ep. 98 The Cost of Growth & Handling Criticism Like a Pro20 Feb 202500:22:24

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Synopsis

In this solo episode, Jason Smith breaks down what happens when you start stepping into your truth—why it makes people uncomfortable, how to navigate criticism, and what it really takes to grow without shrinking in the face of projections. If you’ve ever felt the weight of other people’s opinions holding you back, this episode is for you.

Key Topics Covered

  • The emotional and social cost of growth
  • Why expansion creates resistance (from others and within yourself)
  • Understanding the difference between healthy feedback and projection
  • How to build your capacity for uncertainty
  • Why faceless critics are often the loudest
  • Practical strategies to navigate criticism without shrinking

Key Takeaways

  • Growth triggers people—not because of you, but because it forces them to reflect on their own stagnation.
  • Uncertainty is a skill—the more you expose yourself to it, the stronger your capacity becomes.
  • Most criticism is projection—don’t internalize what someone else hasn’t processed for themselves.
  • Your energy is valuable—learn when to engage and when to walk away.

Powerful Questions to Ask Yourself

  • Where am I shrinking because of other people’s opinions?
  • Am I waiting for permission to be fully seen?
  • What would I do differently if I truly trusted myself?

Resources & Next Steps

If this episode resonated with you, do three things:

  1. Rate and review the podcast—it helps spread the message.
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Growth isn’t comfortable, but it’s always worth it. Step into your next level.

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Ep.97 Ciara Devereux: Breaking Free: Healing, Radical Self-Ownership, and the Power of Story 12 Feb 202501:13:38

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In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, Jason welcomes Ciara Devereux, a licensed psychotherapist, trauma, grief, and loss specialist, and public speaker based in San Francisco. With a background spanning addiction recovery, post-incarceration rehabilitation, and relationship counseling, Ciara brings a wealth of experience to the conversation. She shares how her own personal journey led her into the mental health space, emphasizing the importance of radical self-ownership and the power of rewriting the stories we tell ourselves.

Together, Jason and Ciara dive deep into why people-pleasing keeps so many stuck in cycles of external validation and self-sacrifice. They explore the hidden cost of avoiding conflict, the role of shame in shaping identity, and how unprocessed emotions often manifest as anger, anxiety, and avoidance. Ciara introduces the concept of “if you spot it, you got it,” explaining how our triggers reveal deep-seated wounds and offer opportunities for growth.

The discussion shifts to relationships and attachment, breaking down the anxious-avoidant cycle and why so many people mistake familiarity for love. Ciara challenges the narrative of waiting for external validation and explains why true transformation begins with internal work. She also provides insight into why boundary-setting is difficult and how men, in particular, struggle to advocate for their own needs due to societal conditioning.

As the conversation unfolds, Jason and Ciara examine grief, trauma, and the misconceptions surrounding healing. They discuss why grief is often misunderstood, how to recognize its presence in everyday life, and why people unknowingly carry unresolved loss into relationships and decision-making. Ciara shares strategies for self-regulation, including how shifting internal narratives can create a foundation for lasting change.

The episode concludes with an exploration of the future of mental health and the shift toward self-healing. Ciara emphasizes the need for emotional literacy, particularly for men, and highlights the importance of building real-life community and mentorship. She challenges the traditional approach to therapy, advocating for a more holistic and empowering model that places individuals in control of their own healing.

For those looking to connect with Ciara, she can be found on TikTok and Instagram under RealTalkTherapy. She also offers coaching for individuals navigating relational distress and personal transformation. To join Jason’s free men’s community, The Antares Society, or explore his coaching programs, visit the link in his bio.

This episode is packed with insight, practical tools, and hard-hitting truths about self-awareness, relationships, and overcoming past conditioning. If you found value in this conversation, consider sharing it with someone who needs it and leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.

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Ep. 96 Believing in Yourself with Paola Michelle15 Jan 202500:59:06

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In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, Jason Smith welcomes back Paola Michelle for an inspiring conversation about self-discovery, healing, and authenticity. Paola shares her transformative journey of moving to California, where she faced solitude, overcame challenges, and discovered deeper truths about herself. She reflects on the lessons learned, including the importance of embracing loneliness as a gift, releasing codependency, and building a foundation of independence. Together, Jason and Paola explore the power of integration, reframing healing as a process of self-acceptance and growth rather than a linear journey.

Paola discusses her approach to authenticity in content creation, sharing how she stays true to herself while navigating judgment and embracing the creative process. She candidly addresses the commercialization of spirituality, the need for discernment when choosing guides and practices, and the importance of grounding oneself in real-life experiences. Humor also plays a vital role in her life and content, providing balance and connection during challenging times.

This episode highlights key insights about living in alignment, making intentional choices, and showing up as the most integrated version of yourself. Paola and Jason also dive into the transformative power of mindfulness, the impact of what we consume, and the importance of being present in the moment. Paola shares her future aspirations for content creation, focusing on real-life struggles, relationships, and creating a deeper connection with her audience.

Whether you're navigating your own journey of self-discovery or looking for inspiration to embrace authenticity, this episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and practical advice. Tune in to learn how to cultivate resilience, embrace solitude, and create a life rooted in purpose and self-awareness.

Key Takeaway: You’re always in a state of becoming, and the choices you make each day shape who you are and who you will become. It’s time to align with your highest self and take steps toward living authentically.

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Ep. 95 Talia Bombola, LMFT Breaking Free from Old Patterns17 Dec 202400:36:40

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In Episode 95 of The Blueprint Podcast, Jason sits down with licensed marriage and family therapist Talia Bombola for an honest, raw, and empowering conversation about personal growth, healing, and transformation. As the year comes to a close, many people set big goals for the new year, often aiming to “fix” everything at once. But Talia offers a refreshing perspective — it’s not about healing from being broken, it’s about learning to adapt and grow.

They discuss the power of radical accountability, how to navigate life’s inevitable challenges, and why "doing the work" doesn’t mean overhauling your entire life overnight. Talia breaks down the stages of conscious change, the concept of self-sabotage, and the need to stop viewing ourselves as "broken." Instead, she encourages us to see ourselves as people who are always adapting, always evolving, and always capable of more than we realize.

This episode will leave you with a powerful message: You are not broken. You are becoming.

If you’re stepping into a season of change, preparing for 2025, or simply want to understand yourself on a deeper level, this episode is filled with practical tools and thought-provoking insights. Listen now to learn how to:

  • Shift from "healing" to "adapting"
  • Navigate the tricky terrain of relationships when you grow but others don’t
  • Recognize and break free from the victim mentality
  • Develop radical self-accountability and personal agency
  • Understand how childhood programming impacts adult decisions

This episode is a wake-up call for anyone ready to rewrite their narrative, drop the victim label, and step into their authentic, most powerful self.

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Ep. 94 Finding Strength in Heartbreak, Love After Loss, and The Power of Self-Discovery11 Dec 202401:04:41

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Episode Description: In this powerful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, we’re joined by bestselling author, entrepreneur, and creative force Brittany Bacinski. Brittany’s journey is one of resilience, creativity, and bold defiance of societal expectations. She’s the author of Reaching for Driftwood, On His Way Back to Me, and co-author of Hippie Eats. Her works have captured hearts worldwide and are now making their way to the big screen.

We dive into Brittany’s incredible evolution from a small-town girl with big dreams to a self-published bestseller with a film deal on the way. She shares her journey through divorce, self-discovery, and the power of following her intuition—even when it defied logic. Brittany’s philosophy of "being a defiant human" is a recurring theme throughout the episode as she shares her lessons on love, independence, and creating a career outside of the traditional mold.

Key Topics in This Episode:

  • Brittany’s journey to becoming an author: How she channeled childhood trauma into creative energy.

  • Writing Reaching for Driftwood and On His Way Back to Me: The process of turning life’s hardest lessons into art.

  • How Brittany’s Reaching for Driftwood and her upcoming TV/film adaptation came to be.

  • Age-gap relationships, attachment styles, and the complexities of love and dating.

  • Navigating the "fearful avoidant" attachment style and how it’s impacted her romantic relationships.

  • The origins of "The Defiant Human" brand and how it became a driving force in Brittany’s life.

  • Brittany’s disciplined approach to fitness, self-care, and life’s daily challenges.

  • Her journey of self-publishing her books and how TikTok played a major role in building her audience.

  • Manifesting dreams on your own terms and overcoming "gatekeepers" in traditional publishing.

Guest Bio:
Brittany Bacinski is a bestselling author, entrepreneur, and host of The Defiant Human podcast. Her books include the memoir Reaching for Driftwood, the novel On His Way Back to Me, and the co-authored plant-based cookbook Hippie Eats. Known for her unfiltered honesty and "defiant human" philosophy, Brittany’s story is a testament to the power of intuition, self-determination, and creative passion. From self-publishing success to landing a movie deal, Brittany’s path has been anything but ordinary—and she wouldn’t have it any other way.

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Ep. 111 Relational Masculinity: Beyond Toxic | G.S. Youngblood07 Jun 202500:34:13

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Today’s guest is GS Youngblood — author of The Masculine in Relationship and The Art of Embodiment for Men. His work centers around helping men live, love, and lead from their masculine core. If you’ve ever felt stuck in Nice Guy tendencies, struggled to lead in your relationship, or wanted to deepen your emotional strength without losing your edge — this one’s for you."

GS challenges the idea that all masculinity is toxic by offering an actionable model — the Masculine Blueprint — that helps men become grounded in their own power while becoming more relational with their feminine partners. His work bridges grounded leadership, emotional connection, and embodiment, rooted in disciplines ranging from psychology and martial arts to spirituality and BDSM. His two books have sold nearly 90,000 copies, and he’s become a highly sought-after coach for men seeking depth, direction, and relational mastery.

At its core, The Masculine in Relationship is about how masculine power can successfully coexist with the strong feminine — especially in modern relationships where polarity often collapses under stress, kids, Nice Guy habits, or passivity. GS provides a grounded, accessible framework for what he calls Relational Masculinity — a combination of emotional depth, structural leadership, and grounded nervous system regulation that pulls a woman back into play, softness, and sexual openness without control, manipulation, or passivity.

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Ep. 93 Unlocking Abundance: How to Break Free from Self-Doubt and Receive More from Life with Cathy Heller 11 Dec 202400:51:24

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Episode Summary: In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, Jason sits down with the one and only Cathy Heller — renowned teacher, bestselling author, and host of the top-rated podcast Abundant Ever After with over 45 million downloads. Cathy shares her powerful philosophy on abundance, manifestation, and the "Law of Reception." This episode dives into deep, practical wisdom for anyone feeling stuck, unworthy, or unsure how to tap into their potential.

Cathy reveals how to overcome feelings of lack, release old programming, and rewire the mind to receive more abundance in every area of life. They explore how to cultivate authentic power, find creative flow, and become the person who can hold the blessings that are already waiting for you. With personal stories, relatable metaphors, and actionable insights, Cathy provides a guide to stepping into alignment, trusting your inner wisdom, and living a life of deeper fulfillment and love.

Whether you’re struggling to believe abundance is available to you, feeling stuck in your career, or seeking a sense of purpose and joy, this episode is packed with tools to help you shift from scarcity to abundance. Tune in to learn how to become a vessel for infinite possibility and how to access your true creative genius.

Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction to Cathy Heller and the themes of the episode 3:45 - Jason’s reflections on Cathy’s new book, Abundant Ever After 7:30 - What inspired Cathy to write Abundant Ever After and what she hopes readers take away from it 12:50 - Why feeling "unworthy" is a false story we’ve been conditioned to believe 18:40 - How to recognize when your ego is in control and shift to a state of flow 25:10 - The "Law of Reception" explained and how to expand your capacity to receive 30:45 - Why abundance is our natural design (and how nature reveals this truth) 37:20 - How triggers from others are actually opportunities for growth and self-reflection 43:55 - Cathy's personal journey through music, pivots in her career, and lessons on following intuition 52:15 - Why alignment impacts every part of your life, from career to relationships 58:10 - How to overcome the fear of "not being enough" and give yourself permission to thrive 1:05:45 - Why manifestation is about energy and alignment, not just "positive thinking" 1:10:20 - The power of checking in with yourself daily and setting "intention alarms" 1:16:45 - The Christmas lights story and the lesson about capacity and holding abundance 1:22:30 - The takeaway: How to begin expanding your capacity to receive abundance today 1:26:15 - How to connect with Cathy Heller and join her 21-day challenge

Key Takeaways:

  1. The Law of Reception: Abundance isn’t something you "attract" — it’s something you "receive" by expanding your capacity. Just like a light bulb’s wattage, you’re only able to hold as much energy (wealth, love, joy) as your internal circuitry allows.

  2. The Power of Flow State: When you’re aligned and in flow, everything you desire is drawn to you naturally. Flow state can be achieved by rewiring old mental programs and stepping into a mindset of limitless possibility.

  3. Triggers Are Teachers: If someone’s success triggers you, it’s an opportunity to notice what’s unresolved within yourself. Use that moment to reflect, realign, and gr

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Ep. 92 Dr. Taylor Burrowes Finding Love, Balancing Desire, and Building Authentic Relationships10 Dec 202401:46:36

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On this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, Jason Smith welcomes Dr. Taylor Burrowes, a relationship coach and creator of the transformative "vetting system" for dating. In this insightful conversation, Dr. Burrowes shares her expert approach to vetting potential partners, overcoming dating challenges, and building stronger, healthier relationships.

Jason and Dr. Burrowes discuss the biggest struggles men face in dating today, the dangers of chasing superficial connections, and how men can reclaim their confidence. Dr. Burrowes emphasizes the importance of compatibility beyond chemistry, emotional regulation, and the power of discernment in both dating and life.

From navigating long-distance relationships to understanding attachment styles, this episode offers essential advice for men (and women) seeking meaningful relationships. Dr. Burrowes also dives into her own personal journey as a former licensed mental health counselor turned relationship coach and new mom, sharing how her experiences shape the unique perspective she offers her clients.

Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or striving for personal growth, this episode is packed with actionable strategies to help you build better relationships and become the person you’re meant to be.

What You'll Learn:

  1. The Vetting System - How to apply logic, desire, and love to find the right partner. Dr. Burrowes explains her tried-and-true system for selecting partners and making sound relationship decisions.

  2. The Importance of Compatibility - Learn how to assess compatibility early in the dating process, looking beyond surface-level attraction.

  3. Avoiding Dating Pitfalls - Discover the common traps people fall into during the dating process, such as "professional dating" and attachment system manipulation.

  4. Emotional Regulation - Dr. Burrowes explains the importance of recognizing when you’re dysregulated and how to use upregulation and downregulation techniques to find calm in difficult moments.

  5. Healthy Boundaries in Relationships - Learn how to establish healthy boundaries with exes, opposite-sex friends, and in new relationships.

  6. Long-Distance Relationships - Tips for navigating long-distance dating successfully, including how often you should meet in person and why constant texting can be problematic.

  7. Why Men Struggle in Modern Dating - A discussion on why older men often feel insecure about their attractiveness, and how to develop confidence through self-improvement and intentionality.

  8. Social Media Vetting - Advice on how to use social media to present yourself authentically and vet potential partners without falling into the trap of "over-sharing" or "online stalking."

  9. Breaking Toxic Relationship Cycles - How to identify and avoid toxic relationship patterns, as well as Dr. Burrowes’ approach to helping clients break free from these cycles.

  10. Accountability and Self-Growth - Learn why taking personal responsibility for your growth is essential for finding a long-term partner.

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    Ep. 91 - Meghan Elinor: Hot Takes, Relationships, and the Reality of Social Media 25 Nov 202401:29:06

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    Meghan Elinor is a dynamic content creator known for her unfiltered opinions, thought-provoking hot takes, and her ability to spark meaningful dialogue on social media. With a career that spans lifestyle, beauty, and political commentary, Meghan uses platforms like TikTok to engage her audience with a mix of relatability and bold perspectives. Her viral journey began in 2023 when she committed to posting consistently, quickly amassing over 100,000 followers with her unique voice and authentic storytelling.

    Balancing her role in the plastic surgery industry with her content creation, Meghan brings a grounded perspective to her online presence. She credits her success to her willingness to share real, raw experiences while navigating controversial topics with honesty and self-awareness. A self-described “professional yapper,” Meghan has cultivated a community of followers drawn to her wit, vulnerability, and ability to challenge societal norms.

    Outside of her digital persona, Meghan is deeply introspective, highly values self-growth, and uses her platform to inspire others to reflect, evolve, and embrace their individuality. From viral Starbucks debates to nuanced discussions on relationships and personal accountability, Meghan continues to carve out her space as a voice for thoughtful and engaging content creation.

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    Ep. 90 Navigating Holiday Stress with Amy Morin, LCSW14 Nov 202400:49:52

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    In this episode, Jason Smith, Host of The Blueprint Podcast, sits down with Amy Morin, LCSW, psychotherapist, mental strength trainer, and bestselling author, to explore the power of mental strength and its role in fostering healthier relationships.

    Together, they tackle common challenges like feelings of inadequacy, grief, and the pitfalls of bad relationship advice. The discussion shines a light on the importance of emotional intelligence, self-compassion, and boundary-setting, particularly during the holiday season—a time that often amplifies stress, burnout, and emotional struggles.

    Amy shares actionable strategies for managing workplace stress, overcoming burnout, and navigating tough emotions. You’ll also hear practical tips for setting personal boundaries, practicing gratitude, and making small yet impactful changes to strengthen your mental resilience.

    Whether you're preparing for the holidays or seeking tools to thrive year-round, this episode is packed with insights to help you take control of your mental and emotional well-being.

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    Ep. 89 The People Dis-Pleaser, Nick Pollard11 Sep 202400:44:54

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    Nick Pollard, Born in April of 1980, is a world-renowned coach and speaker specializing in People Pleasing, Codependency, and Addiction. With over 50 million views on his social media channels, Nick has become a thought leader in personal growth and change. He ranks in the top 10% of coaches worldwide.

    Nick had a (in his own words) less-than-ideal childhood. His father was an alcoholic, workaholic, se* abuser. The latter would later push Nick to his psychological end, which landed him in a hospital in 2009. After that, Nick struggled mightily to hold his life together but could not (or so he felt) battle the mounting demons and turned to drugs and alcohol to solve the problem. It did not solve the problem, and roughly 9 years later, a change had to be made. Nick willingly checked himself into rehab, and the PeopleDisPleaser was born. Since then, Nick has traveled the world, learning and helping others and communicating his journey. His love for seeing people grow and the "light bulb go on and then explode" is what he credits, his drive.

    Nick has been very successful in business, forming and selling many companies. His first entrepreneurial venture, at age ten, was door sales for his car wash company that would later net him enough money to buy fireworks for the Fourth of July. "My parents said we did not have any money. I knew that was a lie, but I went anyway. I have made my own money since." If you ask Nick what he feels the key to success is, he would say, "Do the work. It is not fashionable or even slightly pretty. Just do the work." He enjoys walking on the beach, working out, and traveling. When he is not on the road, he spends time with his two cats, Azula and Zuko, reading, and working.

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    Episode 88: In Loving Memory of Candace Harmony – A Journey of Faith, Self-Love, and Divine Purpose03 Sep 202401:12:03

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    In this enlightening episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes the inspiring Candace Harmony, a passionate speaker and advocate for self-love and faith-driven living. Candace shares her journey from a challenging childhood to becoming a beacon of light for others through her work on social media and her focus on helping truck drivers maintain a healthy lifestyle.

    Key Topics Discussed:

    1. Discovering Self-Love Through Faith

      • Candace discusses the importance of self-love rooted in faith. She emphasizes that understanding who you are and who created you is crucial for true self-love and confidence.
    2. Overcoming Life’s Challenges

      • With personal anecdotes, Candace talks about overcoming significant obstacles and how her faith has been a guiding force. She likens herself to a "streetlight" for others, aiming to be a source of hope and guidance in their darkest times.
    3. The Power of Authenticity

      • Both Candace and Jason delve into the idea of authenticity and the courage it takes to be yourself. Candace stresses the importance of knowing that everything you need is already within you and that you don’t need external validation to be your true self.
    4. Living with Purpose

      • Candace shares insights on finding one’s purpose not by changing external circumstances, but by focusing on internal growth and standing firm in one’s current position with faith and trust in God.
    5. Guidance for the Journey of Self-Discovery

      • Candace provides practical advice for those struggling with self-doubt and seeking permission to be themselves. She encourages listeners to stop looking for permission from others and instead learn to trust themselves and their own journey.
    6. Equally Yoked Relationships

      • Discussing relationships, Candace explains the concept of being "equally yoked" with a partner. She highlights the importance of being with someone who is spiritually aligned and equally committed to personal and collective growth.
    7. Fitness and Faith

      • Candace talks about her unique fitness journey and how it led her to focus on helping truck drivers with their health and wellness, emphasizing the importance of caring for oneself physically as part of overall spiritual well-being.
    8. Candace’s New Ventures

      • Introducing her upcoming program, "Wellness at the Well," Candace speaks about creating a community focused on thriving in every area of life through biblical principles, ensuring participants are not just surviving but truly living fulfilled lives.

    Quotes to Remember:

    • “Our life is our gift from God. What you do with your life is your gift back to Him.”
    • “You are not supposed to love anybody with all your heart. You're setting yourself up for failure because they were never qualified or created to be able to handle all of your heart.”

    Synopsis:

    In this heartfelt episode, Jason Smith and Candace Harmony explore the depths of self-love, faith, and purpose. Candace shares her personal journey of transformation, highlighting how she overcame significant life challenges through her unwavering faith and determination. Her message is clear: true self-love begins with understanding your divine creation and purpose. Candace’s story is a testament to the power of authenticity, faith, and resilience.

    Listeners will be inspired to embrace their imperfections

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    Ep. 87 The Moody Therapist, Anna Axiotis29 Aug 202401:03:54

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    The Blueprint Podcast with Jason Smith and Guest Anna Axiotis (aka The Moody Therapist)

    In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith sits down with Anna Axiotis, also known as The Moody Therapist, to discuss the complexities of attachment styles, emotional healing, and the impact of social media on personal growth. Anna shares her journey from being a casual social media viewer to becoming a content creator and therapist who uses her platform to discuss mental health, relationships, and attachment dynamics.

    The conversation dives deep into Anna’s experience with attachment styles, particularly avoidant and anxious attachments, and how understanding these styles can help individuals form healthier relationships. Anna discusses her approach to therapy, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, vulnerability, and compassion in overcoming shame and trauma.

    Jason and Anna explore the challenges and benefits of being vulnerable online, including the potential for both positive and negative feedback from the audience. They also discuss the importance of taking time for oneself, through practices like relationship fasts and chosen solitude, to better understand personal needs and desires.

    Show Notes:
    • Introduction

      • Jason and Anna introduce each other, reminiscing about how they connected on social media and the common interests that brought them together.
    • Anna’s Journey on Social Media

      • Anna describes her transition from a social media viewer to a content creator and therapist, sharing personal stories that resonated with a wide audience.
      • Discussion on the impact of her first viral post and how it led to her niche in mental health and therapy on platforms like TikTok.
    • Understanding Attachment Styles

      • Deep dive into attachment styles, particularly anxious and avoidant attachments, and their impact on relationships.
      • Anna explains the importance of recognizing and working through attachment issues to form secure and healthy relationships.
    • The Power of Vulnerability and Compassion

      • Exploration of how vulnerability and compassion can help heal past wounds and reduce feelings of shame.
      • Jason and Anna discuss how sharing personal experiences can create a sense of freedom and community support.
    • Navigating Social Media Feedback

      • The duo talks about the highs and lows of receiving feedback on social media and its effects on mental health.
      • Strategies for managing negative comments and staying true to one’s message.
    • The Concept of Relationship Fasts and Chosen Solitude

      • Anna shares the benefits of taking a break from romantic relationships to focus on self-growth and self-discovery.
      • The importance of maintaining individuality within relationships and avoiding the trap of codependency.
    • Practical Advice for Attachment Healing

      • Tips and strategies for moving from insecure to secure attachment styles, including self-soothing techniques and the importance of setting boundaries.
      • Discussion on how to engage with partners about personal triggers and the importance of creating a safe space for open communication.
    • Closing Thoughts

      • Jason and Anna emphasize the importance of continuous self-development and growth in relationships.
      • Anna shares details about her upcoming breakup/divorce journal, designed to help people process emotions and heal after

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    Ep. 86 Mark Groves: Navigating Social Media and Embracing Authentic Relationships23 Aug 202401:02:37

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    This episode contains discussions about mental health, social media burnout, abusive relationship dynamics, and references to trauma. Listener discretion is advised.

    In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith sits down with Mark Groves, widely known as "Create the Love," and co-author of Liberated Love, written alongside his wife, Kylie McBeath. Mark shares his transformative journey from being a prominent social media influencer to stepping back from the demands of digital platforms. He opens up about the psychological toll of constant content creation, the manipulative nature of social media algorithms, and his decision to prioritize mental health and authentic expression over online metrics.

    Mark discusses the profound impact of his break from social media, likening the dynamics of platform algorithms to an abusive relationship. He delves into the importance of boundaries, both in digital and personal spaces, and highlights how he navigated his departure from major social media platforms while still maintaining meaningful connections with his audience.

    The conversation also explores the foundational principles behind Liberated Love, focusing on the themes of self-awareness, relational patterns, and the journey toward more conscious, liberated love. Mark and Jason discuss the role of men's groups, personal growth, and the transformative power of initiating authentic conversations in relationships.

    Listeners will gain insight into the importance of stepping into one's true self, the challenges and rewards of breaking free from codependent behaviors, and the value of setting boundaries in all forms of relationships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in personal growth, relational healing, and the journey toward a more authentic life.

    Show Notes:

    • Introduction and Connection: Mark Groves and Jason Smith introduce the episode, highlighting their connection through mutual acquaintances like Sabrina Zohar and their shared journey in the self-development space.

    • The Social Media Hamster Wheel: Mark shares his experiences with social media burnout, the decision to step back from content creation, and the psychological effects of constantly engaging with digital platforms.

    • Comparison to Abusive Relationships: A discussion on how social media platforms manipulate user engagement through algorithms, drawing parallels to abusive relationship dynamics and the importance of reclaiming personal power.

    • Liberated Love and Authentic Relationships: Mark discusses the themes of his book, Liberated Love, co-authored with his wife, Kylie McBeath. The conversation focuses on breaking free from codependent patterns, embracing authenticity, and fostering conscious relationships.

    • Men's Groups and Healing: The importance of men's groups in personal growth and healing is explored, with insights into how these spaces support the development of healthier attachment styles and emotional expression.

    • The Sacred Pause and Moving Forward: Mark explains the concept of a "sacred pause" in relationships—a period of intentional separation and self-reflection that can lead to deeper understanding and growth, either individually or together.

    • Personal Evolution and Surrender: A reflection on the process of letting go of old identities, embracing new paths, and the continuous journey of self-discovery

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    Ep. 85 Exploring The Mystical World: Metaphysics And Tarot With Shayla Kummer16 Aug 202400:50:46

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    Shayla Kummer is a distinguished Metaphysician and Conscious Business Coach, dedicated to empowering individuals to align with their Highest Calling.

    As the founder of Lionessencee, Shayla specializes in guiding clients toward personal mastery and spiritual actualization, enabling them to launch impactful brands and businesses that resonate with their true purpose.  With a self-made entrepreneurial spirit, Shayla is on a mission to inspire and uplift humanity, creating a ripple effect of positive change across the globe.

    She has cultivated a vibrant online community of over 180,000 followers across social media platforms, and her coaching services have reached clients in 14 different countries.  Shayla holds a Bachelor's degree in Metaphysics, combining her academic background with her passion for personal development and spiritual growth.

    Through her work, she provides the tools and insights necessary for individuals to embrace their unique gifts and make the meaningful impact they are destined to create on this planet.  

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    Ep. 84 Disorganized Attachment with Talia Bombola, LMFT 02 Jul 202400:11:26

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    Understanding Disorganized Attachment with Talia Bombola, LMFT | The Blueprint Podcast

    Description: In this insightful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes licensed marriage and family therapist Talia Bombola to discuss the complexities of disorganized attachment. Talia provides a deep dive into this often misunderstood attachment style, drawing from her extensive training in psychoanalysis and her therapeutic practice.

    Key Topics Discussed:

    • Introduction to Disorganized Attachment: Talia explains the origins and characteristics of disorganized attachment, referencing the foundational research of Mary Ainsworth and John Bowlby.

    • Impact of Childhood Experiences: A detailed exploration of how chaotic and alarm-inducing interactions with primary caregivers shape disorganized attachment, highlighting the prevalence and consequences of such experiences.

    • Behavioral Manifestations: Understanding the unique push-pull dynamics in relationships and the psychological defenses that individuals with disorganized attachment develop to cope with childhood trauma.

    • Comparison with Other Attachment Styles: Differentiating disorganized attachment from avoidant and anxious attachment styles, focusing on the absence of consistent caregiving models and the resulting relational patterns.

    • Challenges in Relationships: Discussing the difficulties faced by individuals with disorganized attachment in forming secure, healthy relationships and the potential for relationship sabotage driven by unresolved trauma.

    • Therapeutic Approaches: Insight into effective therapeutic strategies for managing and healing disorganized attachment, including the importance of therapy in achieving earned secure attachment.

    • Personal and Relational Growth: Emphasizing the significance of self-awareness and therapeutic support in overcoming disorganized attachment and fostering healthier relational dynamics.

    Join Jason and Talia as they navigate the intricate world of disorganized attachment, providing valuable perspectives for anyone looking to understand this attachment style better, whether for personal insight or professional development.

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    Ep. 110 Dr. Sabrina Romanoff Dr. Sabrina Romanoff on Attachment, Avoidance & High-Achievers22 May 202500:51:39

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    Welcome to The Blueprint Podcast.

    Today, we are incredibly excited to introduce Dr. Sabrina Romanoff. Dr. Romanoff is a Harvard-trained clinical psychologist, professor, and writer based in New York City. She specializes in helping high-achieving individuals and couples bridge the gap between their outward success and the often-complex reality of their personal relationships. Dr. Romanoff brings a unique perspective on attachment theory, trauma, and personality, offering practical strategies for building more authentic and fulfilling connections. Get ready to dive deep with Dr. Sabrina Romanoff.

    Ever wonder why your relationships feel complex despite your success? This episode with Dr. Sabrina Romanoff sheds light on the often-misunderstood world of attachment theory.

    Dr. Romanoff, an expert in relationships, trauma, and personality, explores how our attachment styles are fluid, not fixed, and how they impact every connection – from romantic partners to colleagues. She shares vital insights for high-achievers who chase external validation, helping them understand the path to true self-worth.

    Discover practical tools to navigate anxiety, overcome self-sabotage, and build deeper connections. We discuss the hidden costs of avoidance, how to combat displaced anger like road rage, and the power of "retroactive joy."

    If you're ready to move beyond stagnation and embrace authentic growth, this conversation is for you.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Attachment styles are fluid and can change.
    • High-achievers often struggle with internal self-worth.
    • Avoidance leads to loneliness and erodes intimacy.
    • Emotional regulation is key to breaking unhealthy patterns.
    • Repairing ruptures in relationships strengthens bonds.

    Listen now to unlock your relationship blueprint!

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    Ep. 83 The Way of Men with author Jack Donovan28 Jun 202400:53:52

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    In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes Jack Donovan, author of The Way of Men and A More Complete Beast, and founder of the men's group Order of Fire. The conversation kicks off with a recommendation from Jason's online friend, Ray Gardner, who introduced him to Jack's work. Jason shares how reading The Way of Men resonated with his own experiences of seeking purpose and understanding one's place in the world.

    Jack and Jason delve into the concept of "Vesperance," a term that encapsulates the wistful recognition of a past era and the anticipation of an unknown future. They discuss how the events of 2020 have left many feeling disoriented and the importance of adapting to the constantly shifting landscape. Jack draws parallels from classical philosophy, sharing insights from his studies of Plato and Socrates, and emphasizes the perennial nature of societal upheaval.

    The discussion shifts to practical aspects of self-improvement and masculinity. Jack introduces the idea of finding purpose and meaning in life, even in a world that feels increasingly chaotic. He stresses the importance of focusing on what can be controlled within one's sphere of influence and the value of male peer groups in providing validation, identity, and a sense of belonging.

    Jack also talks about the philosophy behind his men's group, Order of Fire, which aims to create a supportive community where men can develop and thrive. He shares the group's core rituals and the significance of having a personal system of values that guide one's actions.

    Join Jason and Jack for an insightful conversation that explores the dynamics of masculinity, the impact of societal changes, and the journey towards self-actualization.

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    Ep. 82 Finding Integrity and Purpose with Jimmy Rex, Author of Be One26 Jun 202400:43:48

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    In this powerful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith sits down with Jimmy Rex, author of Be One and founder of the men's group "We Are The They." This episode dives deep into Jimmy's journey from a successful real estate career to creating a transformative community for men.

    Key Highlights:

    1. Comedy Beginnings: Jimmy shares how he started his journey with stand-up comedy in Utah and how those experiences helped shape his public speaking skills.

    2. Inception of "We Are The They": Learn about the origins of Jimmy's impactful men's group, the inspiration behind it, and the unique challenges he faced while building and evolving the community.

    3. Experiences and Lessons: Jimmy discusses his real estate career, his time spent doing undercover work to combat sex trafficking, and how these intense experiences led him to a deeper purpose.

    4. Creating Be One: Insights into Jimmy’s book, Be One, where he discusses the importance of integrity, being a good man, and how to cultivate deep, meaningful relationships.

    5. Challenges and Solutions: Jimmy and Jason explore the common struggles men face, the importance of finding the right community, and practical steps for overcoming personal obstacles and achieving growth.

    6. Manifesting Success: Jimmy shares a remarkable story of manifesting a giant hammerhead shark during a retreat, emphasizing the power of intention and belief.

    7. Daily Habits for Happiness: Practical advice on the daily habits that contribute to happiness and well-being, and the significance of a supportive community.

    8. The Importance of Integrity: The episode underscores the importance of integrity in personal and professional life, how to recognize and address out-of-integrity behaviors, and the value of true friendships.

    Guest Information:

    • Jimmy Rex: Follow Jimmy on Instagram @mrjimmyrex for more insights and updates. Check out his podcast, The Jimmy Rex Show, and watch his documentary on YouTube. Don’t miss his book, Be One, available now.

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    Ep. 81 Talia Tuesday with Talia Bombola, LMFT Avoidant vs. Narcissist 25 Jun 202400:16:21

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    Episode Overview: The Blueprint Podcast with Host Jason Smith and Guest Talia Bombola, LMFT

    Episode Title: Understanding the Difference Between Avoidant Attachment and Narcissism with Talia Bombola

    Guest: Talia Bombola, LMFT - Every Tuesday, Talia joins us to answer questions from social media.

    Overview: In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith is joined by Talia Bombola, LMFT, to delve into the nuances between avoidant attachment and narcissistic personality disorder. Talia clarifies that avoidant attachment is not a diagnosis but a response pattern rooted in childhood experiences with primary caregivers. She contrasts this with narcissistic personality disorder, a clinical diagnosis characterized by ego-syntonic traits where the individual often lacks self-awareness about the distress they cause others.

    Talia explains that avoidant attachment develops when a child's needs are inconsistently met, leading to a self-reliant mindset and emotional distance from others. This attachment style is malleable and can change over time with effort and proper support.

    On the other hand, narcissistic personality disorder is marked by a lack of empathy and accountability, with individuals typically unaware of their harmful behaviors. Talia highlights the difficulties in treating malignant narcissism and the potential for some individuals with narcissistic traits to seek change, albeit rare.

    Jason and Talia also touch on the misconceptions proliferated on social media about narcissism and the importance of accurate diagnosis by trained professionals. They discuss the empowerment that comes from understanding one's attachment style and making conscious choices in relationships.

    Key Points:

    1. Avoidant Attachment: A response pattern from inconsistent childhood caregiving, leading to self-reliance and emotional distance. It is not a clinical diagnosis and can change over time.
    2. Narcissistic Personality Disorder: A clinical diagnosis with ego-syntonic traits, lacking empathy and accountability. It is challenging to treat, especially malignant narcissism.
    3. Social Media Misconceptions: Highlighting the importance of accurate diagnosis and the misinformation prevalent on social media.
    4. Empowerment Through Understanding: Encouraging self-awareness and conscious decision-making in relationships.

    Join us for an enlightening discussion that will help you navigate your relationships with greater clarity and compassion. Tune in every Tuesday for more insights from Talia Bombola on The Blueprint Podcast.

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    Ep. 80 Dashing Date Kavita Ajwani Love Coach for Men21 Jun 202400:52:45

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    In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith talks with Kavita Ajwani, a men's relationship coach from Dashing Date. Kavita shares her journey from running a speed dating company to becoming a dedicated coach for growth-minded men seeking love. She discusses the challenges men face in dating, such as confidence issues and the proper use of dating apps.

    Kavita explains her transition from event planning to coaching, emphasizing the importance of rebuilding confidence from within and maintaining a positive mindset. She offers practical advice on creating a strong dating profile, balancing online and in-person interactions, and confidently approaching women. Kavita introduces the "Y plus 1 method" for clear communication, helping reduce anxiety and build trust in early-stage dating.

    The episode also delves into self-awareness, encouraging men to reflect on past relationships to identify and change unhelpful behaviors. Kavita and Jason discuss red and green flags in dating, highlighting the significance of honoring commitments and rescheduling canceled dates as signs of genuine interest. This episode is packed with actionable insights and strategies for men looking to improve their dating experiences and build meaningful connections.

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    Ep. 79 The Reclaimed Woman with Dr. Kelly Brogan19 Jun 202401:17:21

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    Welcome to another episode of The Blueprint Podcast with your host, Jason Smith. In this episode, Jason sits down with Dr. Kelly Brogan, the author of The Reclaimed Woman.

    Jason kicks off the episode by sharing a serendipitous moment where he stumbled upon the documentary Heal, featuring Dr. Kelly Brogan, just as he was preparing for this interview. This synchronicity sets the stage for a deep and engaging conversation.

    Dr. Kelly Brogan dives into her background, detailing her journey from a conventional psychiatrist to embracing holistic practices after her own health crisis. She shares her personal transformation story, including her diagnosis of Hashimoto’s thyroiditis and how dietary changes led to her recovery. This experience led her to challenge the allopathic medical system and become a passionate advocate for naturopathy and lifestyle changes.

    The conversation takes a turn into the dynamics of family and the integration of masculine and feminine values. Kelly, influenced by her law enforcement family background, discusses the importance of these dynamics in personal development. She also explores the concept of victim consciousness, emphasizing the transformative power of taking ownership of our own suffering and seeing ourselves in those we blame.

    Kelly introduces the practice of Family Constellation therapy, explaining its impact on her understanding of relationships and personal dynamics. She highlights the significance of offering belonging and acknowledging all family members, including those excluded or forgotten, to heal ancestral wounds.

    The episode also delves into empowering relationships. Kelly shares insights from teachers like Laura Doyle on improving romantic relationships through respect and support. She stresses the importance of seeing your partner’s potential and allowing them the freedom to make mistakes without judgment.

    Parenting is another key topic, with Kelly offering advice on raising children with respect for their individuality and sovereignty. She emphasizes giving to children without expecting anything in return and allowing them to make their own choices, fostering a healthy and supportive environment.

    Jason and Kelly then discuss the societal challenges facing men and women today, touching on the war on masculinity and femininity. They highlight the need for men to heal with men and women to heal with women to restore natural dynamics and complementary relationships.

    As the episode concludes, Kelly shares her excitement about her upcoming book, The Reclaimed Woman, and its companion program, Reclaimed, launching on July 8th. She invites listeners to join her on this transformative journey.

    To connect with Dr. Kelly Brogan, visit her website at kellybroganmd.com.
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    Ep. 78 Unsticking the Self: A Journey through Trauma, Healing, and Growth with Brit Frank, LSCSW06 Jun 202400:53:55

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    In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, I sit down with Britt Frank, a licensed neuropsychotherapist and trauma specialist, to explore the many facets of personal growth, self-healing, and relationship dynamics. Britt brings her wealth of knowledge to the table, sharing profound insights from her books, The Science of Stuck and The Getting Unstuck Workbook.

    We discuss practical ways to navigate anxiety, trauma, and disordered thinking, providing listeners with actionable steps to apply in their daily lives. Our conversation delves into the importance of self-education, breaking unhealthy patterns, and understanding attachment styles. Britt emphasizes the significance of confronting and transforming one's inner narrative to achieve lasting change.

    Whether you're struggling with feeling stuck or seeking to deepen your understanding of secure attachments, this episode is packed with strategies to help you reclaim your personal power and foster healthier relationships with yourself and others. Tune in for a deep dive into the transformative journey of self-discovery and healing.

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    Ep. 77 Steve Bourdo28 May 202400:57:25

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    In this insightful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes TikTok sensation Steve Bourdo, who boasts over 420,000 followers. Steve, a dedicated father and everyday man, delves into his unexpected rise on TikTok, which began as a way to combat loneliness during the early days of COVID-19. His candid stories range from humorous family antics to deep relationship advice, especially surrounding co-parenting post-divorce.

    Steve opens up about the transformative experiences of his two divorces, sharing the emotional challenges and personal growth that followed. He emphasizes the importance of facing emotions head-on, a philosophy he sums up as "you have to feel it to heal it." This raw and honest dialogue explores how vulnerability and self-reflection have been crucial in overcoming life's obstacles and improving family dynamics, especially in co-parenting.

    Listeners will find value in Steve's journey from heartache to healing, providing a powerful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the importance of community support in times of personal turmoil.

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    Ep. 76 Cultivating Connections: A Dive into Relationships with Brianna Diorio22 May 202401:07:46

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    In this engaging episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes Brianna DiOrio, a dynamic voice in the realm of integrative medicine and personal development. Known for her thought-provoking content on social media, Brianna shares insights into the complexities of modern relationships, drawing from her extensive background in health, wellness, and life coaching. The conversation delves into the impact of social media on relationship dynamics, the nuances of dating in the digital age, and Brianna’s unique approach to content creation that blends personal experiences with professional knowledge. The episode is a deep dive into how we build and sustain relationships, the challenges individuals face, and the personal growth that accompanies our interactions with others. Whether you’re navigating the dating world or seeking to deepen existing relationships, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical advice to enhance your relational toolkit.

    Brianna DiOrio is a dynamic expert in integrative medicine, a clinical nutritionist, and a holistic life coach, recognized for her vibrant approach to health and wellness. With a PhD in Integrative Medicine and a background as a NASM certified personal trainer, she brings a unique blend of scientific knowledge and practical wisdom to her work. Brianna is deeply passionate about educating and empowering individuals to take charge of their health through holistic and functional practices. Her approach is centered on understanding the interplay between mental, physical, and emotional health, which she communicates engagingly through her social media platforms and her podcast, "Brianna Approved." Whether it’s debunking health myths or providing nuanced perspectives on wellness, Brianna’s content is both informative and transformative, encouraging her audience to live their healthiest lives.

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    Ep. 75 Unlocking Secure Love: Julie Menanno on Attachment Styles and Healthy Relationships 15 May 202400:48:18

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    Julie Menanno (MA, LMFT, LCPC) is a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples. She also provides insight and advice for couples at @TheSecureRelationship on Instagram, with over one million followers. She founded and runs the Bozeman Therapy & Counseling clinic, and The Secure Relationship Coaching. She lives in Bozeman, Montana, with her husband and six children.

    Jason and Julie kick off the conversation by discussing the beauty of Bozeman, Montana, and the unique experiences that come with living there. They delve into Julie's professional journey, her passion for helping couples build secure attachments, and the inspiration behind her book, "Secure Love."

    The discussion covers a range of topics, including the impact of childhood attachment on adult relationships, the challenges posed by technology in maintaining healthy attachments, and the different attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized. Julie provides insights into how these styles manifest in relationships and offers practical advice for individuals struggling with attachment issues.

    Julie also addresses the common tendency for people to label themselves with attachment styles and the potential pitfalls of using these labels as permanent identifiers. She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's behaviors and feelings in relationships and working towards healthier patterns through self-awareness and communication.

    Throughout the episode, Julie shares personal anecdotes and professional experiences that highlight the complexities of human emotions and relationships. She underscores the importance of vulnerability and resilience in building and maintaining healthy connections with others.

    Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of attachment theory, practical tools for improving their relationships, and the reassurance that perfection is not the goal. As Julie poignantly concludes, "Go be imperfect," reminding us all to give ourselves grace in the journey of self-discovery and relationship-building.

    Tune in to this insightful episode for valuable relationship advice and a candid conversation about the power of secure attachment.

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    Ep. 74 Unraveling Attachment: Adam Lane Smith on Healing Relationships and Societal Bonds01 May 202400:48:57

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    Sensitive Content Warning: This episode contains discussions on sensitive topics including mental health, historical events, and personal and societal challenges related to attachment theory. Some content may be emotionally impactful as it addresses complex issues such as relationship dynamics, mental health struggles, and societal changes. Listener discretion is advised, especially for those who may find topics of mental health distressing. The views expressed by the guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of The Blueprint Podcast or its hosts.

    In this insightful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith engages in a deep dive with guest Adam Lane Smith, an expert in attachment theory. Adam shares his personal journey from grappling with attachment issues in a challenging environment to choosing a career in therapy to help others overcome similar struggles. He emphasizes the critical importance of attachment theory in understanding and addressing broader social problems.

    Adam elaborates on the prevailing misconceptions within the academic sphere regarding attachment theory, underscoring its foundational role in building healthier societal structures. He discusses his encounters with leading experts and integrates cutting-edge research into his practice, reinforcing attachment theory’s relevance across various interpersonal connections.

    The conversation also explores the dire state of attachment in today’s youth, with Adam highlighting alarming statistics about the prevalence of insecure attachments. He stresses the urgency of addressing these issues to prevent further societal deterioration.

    Adam’s narrative is rich with historical context, connecting past societal shifts to current attachment challenges. He discusses the impacts of significant events like World Wars and the Industrial Revolution on family dynamics and societal health, offering a comprehensive perspective on the developmental origins of current attachment styles.

    This episode not only illuminates the critical implications of attachment theory but also serves as a call to action for listeners to reflect on and improve their own relational dynamics. Adam's deep expertise and passionate advocacy for understanding and addressing attachment issues make this a compelling and educational listen.

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    Ep. 109 From Rock Bottom to Brotherhood: JR Harvey on Reclaiming Your Power and Leading as a Man10 May 202501:27:00

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    In this raw and real episode of The Blueprint Podcast, Jason sits down with JR Harvey, the founder of the Kings Community, a fast-growing support network for men committed to personal growth, healing, and accountability. With over 20,000 men inside his free Discord group, JR shares his journey from job loss and personal breakdown to creating one of the most respected men's spaces online.

    We talk about:

    The truth about male loneliness and why brotherhood is essential

    Why most men are operating on outdated survival strategies

    How social media can be a tool for transformation—or destruction

    The dangers of "Nice Guy Syndrome" and covert contracts

    Navigating rejection, loss, and the real meaning of healing after divorce

    How JR lost everything, pivoted, and rebuilt a stronger, more authentic life

    The power of masculine leadership, personal accountability, and embodying your values

    We also dive deep into:

    The problem with modern mental health labels

    Why knowing isn’t the same as doing

    How men can stop self-abandoning and start leading

    What a real rite of passage could look like today

    Whether you're recovering from heartbreak, trying to find your purpose, or ready to step into real masculine leadership, this episode is for you.

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    Ep. 73 The Blueprint Q&A On Attachment & Relationships23 Apr 202400:42:34

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    Welcome to Talia Tuesday's on The Blueprint Podcast, Today's episode is a solo episode where I answer questions during a recent live on social media about love, relationships, and attachment styles. 

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    Ep. 72 Transforming Lives Through Fitness and Faith: Donny Mallin on Building Crucible Fitness Community20 Apr 202401:05:10

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    In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith welcomes Donny Mallin, the dynamic force behind Crucible Fitness, to share his journey and insights on building a fitness community with Nathan Mansfield grounded in faith and camaraderie. This episode dives into how Crucible Fitness fosters a unique environment where relationships thrive without the barriers of awkwardness, a testament to the community's strength and shared values.

    Donny opens up about his transition from law enforcement to fitness coaching, reflecting on his lifelong passion for fitness and how personal faith has played a crucial role in shaping his new path. The duo discusses the importance of teamwork and the seamless integration of new members into the Crucible community, highlighting the immediate cohesion and shared vision among the group.

    Listeners will gain insights into how Donny's faith influences his leadership style, the entrepreneurial spirit driving Crucible Fitness, and the personal transformations that happen when people engage in a supportive and goal-oriented fitness community. This episode is not just a story of fitness entrepreneurship but a deeper look at how personal connections and shared values can create powerful community impacts.

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    Ep. 71 Breaking Free from the "Nice Guy" Syndrome with Dr. Robert Glover17 Apr 202401:02:55

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    Join host Jason Smith on The Blueprint Podcast for an enlightening conversation with Dr. Robert Glover, the renowned author of "No More Mr. Nice Guy." In this episode, Dr. Glover dives deep into the misconceptions of the "nice guy" stereotype and discusses the psychological framework that underpins it. He explores how men can overcome people-pleasing behaviors and reclaim their authenticity.

    Listeners will gain insight into why the "nice guy" persona is problematic, how it affects relationships, and the steps to take to develop more honest and fulfilling connections with others. Dr. Glover shares practical advice and strategies for men who want to transform their lives by being assertive, direct, and genuine.

    This episode is a must-listen for anyone who feels trapped by the need to constantly appease others at the expense of their own happiness and well-being. Tune in to discover how to embrace your true self and lead a life that's aligned with your values and desires.

    Whether you're struggling with the "nice guy" syndrome yourself or you know someone who is, Dr. Glover's expert insights and Jason's thoughtful questions provide the blueprint for personal growth and empowerment.

    Listen to The Blueprint Podcast for this transformative discussion and start your journey towards genuine self-improvement today!

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