This is a BONUS episode, Hi, this is Kelly here - co-host of The Big Home Ed Conversations. I run this workshop live regularly on my TikTok account @Banish.Home.Ed.Burnout but if you want to listen on the go, you can listen now to this clean recording made just for you!

Home Education is an incredible opportunity and one that can create so much freedom and easefulness for your family, but I know as well as anyone, that it can also be a recipe for burn out! 

Burn out tends to look like - becoming disengaged, lacking creativity, feeling frustrated or fed up, or numb. You may find yourself not enjoying being with your kids as much, or your other relationships. You may even start to feel like you have made a mistake. 

I am determined to be the person who stands in your way of throwing in the towel by boosting your self belief, confidence, trust or faith in yourself and the process, by helping you to increase your joy and potential, to set better boundaries, to prioritise you alongside your kids to ensure an incredible experience for the whole family. 

Reach out if you would like to learn more about working with me and if you want to get your hands on Banish Home Ed Burnout itself, click here.

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Keywords: Banish Home Ed Burnout Workshop, Home Education Opportunities, Freedom in Home Education, Avoiding Burnout in Home Schooling, Signs of Burnout, Boosting Self-Belief, Building Confidence in Home Education, Trust in the Education Process, Increasing Joy and Potential, Setting Better Boundaries, Prioritizing Self and Family, Ensuring a Positive Home Education Experience

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley discuss the benefits of traveling with kids and the value of hands-on experiences in education. They share personal stories of their recent travels and how it has enhanced their children's learning. They also express their frustration with schools cracking down on attendance and the lack of freedom for families to make their own choices. The conversation highlights the importance of curiosity, play, and learning alongside children. The conversation explores the idea of incorporating different subjects into homeschooling through real-world experiences and hands-on learning. It emphasizes the importance of taking learning outside of the traditional classroom setting and allowing children to explore and engage with the world around them. The conversation also discusses the limitations of the current education system and the need for a more holistic approach to learning. The hosts encourage parents to think creatively and find ways to make learning relevant and practical for their children.

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Keywords: traveling with kids, hands-on experiences, education, school attendance, freedom, curiosity, play, learning alongside children, homeschooling, real-world experiences, hands-on learning, traditional classroom, education system, holistic approach, creativity, practical learning

Are you aware of how the messages we receive around what success and failure are in our western culture are poisoning your home education journey? Even if you spend your time objecting to them? In this episode we dive into what we believe success looks like if you can free yourself from the reigns of what others feel life 'should' be.

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00:00 Introduction 04:01 Society's Definition of Success 08:26 Personal Experiences of Success and Failure 26:26 Fear of Failure and Parenting 32:15 Defining our own version of Success and Failure 35:21 Happiness and Role Modelling 36:26 Feeling All Emotions 37:45 Conclusion

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Keywords: Success and Failure in Western Culture, Home Education Journey, Redefining Success, Cultural Expectations, UK culture, Breaking Free from Norms, Alternative Education, Personal Growth in Education, Cultural Beliefs on Success, Educational Freedom, Challenging Societal Norms, Home Schooling Insights, Success Redefined, Empowering Education, Overcoming Cultural Pressures, Authentic Learning

What did you believe your home education experience would look like? What were you fearful of? What did you think would be hard? What did you think would be easy? And what has the reality been? These are some of the questions we ask ourselves in this episode, getting into the real talk of what our home education experience has been and what can happen if we hold too much stock on outcomes both for ourselves and our children.

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00:00 Introduction 00:59 Expectations versus Reality 04:49 Balancing Structure and Playfulness 06:14 Challenges of Home Educating Multiple Children 12:16 Education Beyond 16, life-long learning 13:34 The Beauty of Learning and Embracing Curiosity 25:27 Letting Go of Expectations 32:02 The Realities of Home Education for us 35:22 The Rewards

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Keywords: Home Education Expectations, Home Schooling Fears, Challenges in Home Education, Home Education Reality, Real Talk on Home Schooling, Home Education Outcomes, Parental Expectations in Education, Home Schooling Insights, Managing Education Fears, Educational Challenges and Successes, Reality vs Expectations in Education, Personal Growth in Home Education, Home Schooling Experience, Balancing Expectations and Reality, Educational Journey Reflections

Welcome to The Big Home Ed Conversations with your hosts Kelly Rigg, Home Education Consultant & Coach, founder of Offroading Motherhood and her good friend, Ashley Vanerio, Home Educating mother of 3 and ex-primary school teacher.

Sick of hearing about the same old home education myths, we wanted to go deeper - diving into the real and varied challenges that we experience as home educating parents.

This episode will tell you a bit about us, our stories as home educating mothers and why this podcast exists, what you can expect and why you should keep on listening. Tune in and come say hi!

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Keywords: Home Education Podcast, Home Educating Mothers, Home Education Stories, Why Home Educate, Home Education Benefits, Home Education Tips, Home Education Advice, Home Education Journey.

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley discuss the US school system for a compare and contrast on the UK system discussed last time. The conversation explores the flaws and limitations of the traditional school system, highlighting issues such as poor teaching, lack of support and resources, inflexibility, and missed opportunities for learning. It discusses the pressures and stress that students face, the negative messaging and social dynamics within schools, and the constant need to compare and compete. The conversation also emphasizes the importance of allowing children to be themselves, to form their own opinions and values, and to pursue their own interests and paths. It concludes by highlighting the benefits of homeschooling in providing a more individualized and flexible education that focuses on collaboration rather than competition.

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Keywords: US school system, extracurricular activities, college applications, school start dates, standardized testing, school system, traditional education, flaws, limitations, poor teaching, lack of support, inflexibility, missed opportunities, pressures, stress, negative messaging, social dynamics, comparison, competition, individuality, opinions, values, homeschooling, collaboration. US School System Analysis, Comparing UK and US Education, Flaws in Traditional School Systems, Poor Teaching and Resources, Inflexibility in Education, Missed Learning Opportunities, Student Stress and Pressure, Negative School Dynamics, Importance of Individuality, Forming Opinions and Values, Pursuing Interests and Paths, Benefits of Homeschooling, Individualized Flexible Education, Collaboration over Competition, Educational System Comparison

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley discuss the UK school system and the issues they have with it. They talk about the compulsory schooling age, the emphasis on standardized testing, the lack of play-based learning, the long hours children spend in school, and the elitism associated with academia. They also touch on the challenges faced by teachers, including large class sizes, lack of support for children with special needs, and the disillusionment and frustration many teachers experience. Overall, they highlight the need for a more flexible and inclusive education system. It discusses the pressure on students to choose their career path at a young age and the limited options available to them. The conversation also highlights the lack of support for vocational education and the negative perception of non-academic paths. The hosts express their concerns about the impact of the school system on mental health and advocate for a more flexible and inclusive approach to education.

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Keywords: UK school system, compulsory schooling, standardized testing, play-based learning, long hours, elitism, challenges for teachers, flexible education, school system, education, career path, vocational education, mental health, UK School System Issues, Compulsory Schooling Age, Standardized Testing Emphasis, Lack of Play-Based Learning, Long School Hours, Elitism in Academia, Challenges for Teachers, Large Class Sizes, Support for Special Needs Children, Teacher Disillusionment, Need for Flexible Education System, Pressure on Career Choices, Limited Career Options, Support for Vocational Education, Perception of Non-Academic Paths, Impact on Mental Health, Advocacy for Inclusive Education, Educational System Reform, Flexibility in Education, Inclusive Educational Approaches

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley explore the concept of de-schooling and how traditional schooling has affected individuals as adults. They discuss the origins of schooling and the ideologies behind it, highlighting the influence of wealthy white men in history and now the affluence of the elite industrialists in how we are educated. The conversation delves into the arbitrary nature of educational standards and the need to question the current school system. The hosts recommend books that provide insights into de-schooling and the flaws of traditional education. Overall, it encourages parents to take back power and trust themselves in choosing home education.  

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• 00:00 Introduction to De-schooling
• 09:49 Questioning Educational Standards
• 29:30 Limitations and Frustrations of the Current Education System
• 36:55 The Impact of the School System on Thinking and Behaviour
• 44:48 Taking Back Power: Choosing Alternative Approaches to Education

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Keywords: de-schooling, traditional schooling, education, home education, curriculum, ideologies, outdoor play, educational standards, school system, origins, history, industrial leaders, government policies, limitations, frustrations, academics, practical skills, flexibility, alternative approaches, education otherwise. Concept of De-Schooling, Impact of Traditional Schooling, Origins of Schooling, Educational Ideologies, Influence of Wealthy White Men, Affluence of Elite Industrialists, Arbitrary Educational Standards, Questioning the School System, How to Deschool, Flaws of Traditional Education, Empowering Parents in Education, Trusting Home Education Choices, Educational System Critique, Historical Influence on Education, Reclaiming Educational Power

In this conversation, Kelly and Ashley discuss the impact of Western culture on parenting and home education. They explore the importance of slowing down, being present, and meeting our own needs as parents, the role of technology and the challenges of balancing screen time with other activities and the need to observe and appreciate our children's natural behaviours and to create a home education / homeschooling environment that allows for flexibility and individuality. Overall, they encourage parents to prioritize pleasure, connection, and self-care in their homeschooling journey.

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Key words: Impact of Western Culture on Parenting, Importance of Slowing Down, Being Present as Parents, Meeting Parental Needs, Role of Technology in Education, Balancing Screen Time, Observing Natural Behaviors, Flexible Home Education Environment, Individuality in Homeschooling, Prioritizing Pleasure in Education, Connection in Homeschooling, Self-Care for Parents, Challenges of Screen Time, Creating a Flexible Learning Environment, Encouraging Individuality in Education

In this conversation, Kelly and Ashley discuss the myth that home-educated kids are sheltered. They explore what people mean by sheltered and why it's important not to shelter children too much. They also discuss the possible limitations of home education and how to overcome them, including the importance of street-wiseness and resilience. 

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00:00 Introduction 10:39 Debunking the Myth: Home-Educated Kids Are Not Sheltered 28:07 Embracing Diversity: Real-World Experiences of Home-Educated Children 35:58 Dispelling the Myths of Homeschooling 45:49 Teaching Children about the Real World 53:27 Addressing Socialization, Mental Health, and Body Image

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Keywords: Myth of Sheltered Home-Educated Kids, Understanding Sheltering in Education, Importance of Not Over-Sheltering, Limitations of Home Education, Overcoming Educational Limitations, Street-Wiseness in Education, Building Resilience in Children, Home Education Challenges, Developing Resilience, Addressing Home Schooling Myths, Social Skills in Home Education, Balancing Protection and Exposure, Educational Resilience, Street Smarts for Kids, Navigating Home Education Barriers, Mental Health, Body Image.

 

 

This is such an interesting conversation, your hosts, Kelly and Ashley, are discussing what has changed for human existence in the last 30 years - and how much of it as schooled children was it beyond our wildest dreams. Therefore, how important it is to have access to time and intrinsic curiosity to be able to explore the current day and imagine what it could be in the future. If we constantly have someone - an adult - present us with what is important to spend our time learning about, will we actually develop an ability to learn what is needed to make the future a better place?

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Keywords: Changes in Human Existence, Education and Intrinsic Curiosity, Exploring the Present and Future, Importance of Time in Learning, Impact of Schooling on Imagination, Encouraging Curiosity in Education, Future-Oriented Learning, Adult Influence on Learning, Developing Learning Abilities, Intrinsic Motivation in Education, Imagining Future Possibilities, Education and Personal Growth, Learning for a Better Future, Role of Curiosity in Education, Importance of Self-Directed Learning. Futureproofing 

 

In this conversation, we, Kelly and Ashley, discuss the impact of limiting beliefs on home education. We explore the conflicting beliefs that parents often face and the challenges of balancing individuality with societal expectations. Overall, this conversation highlights the importance of questioning and dismantling beliefs that do not serve our home education journey. We delve into the concept of unschooling and personalized learning and talk about how we recognize and challenge our own beliefs, practice conscious parenting, and apologise when necessary. We acknowledge wholeheartedly that no parent or child is perfect and encourage self-reflection and self-compassion in the parenting journey.

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Keywords: Limiting Beliefs in Home Education, Conflicting Parental Beliefs, Balancing Individuality and Societal Expectations, Questioning Beliefs in Education, Dismantling Unhelpful Beliefs, Unschooling and Personalized Learning, Challenging Personal Beliefs, Conscious Parenting Practices, Importance of Apology in Parenting, Embracing Imperfection in Parenting, Self-Reflection in Education, Self-Compassion for Parents, Home Education Challenges, Recognizing Limiting Beliefs, Parenting Journey Insights

 

This podcast is intended to be thought provoking, to give you pause and allow you to develop your own ideas, but if you could do with a bit more of a helping hand, this bonus content is how we have developed our beliefs and conviction around success and failure as home educators and gives ideas on how to do that for yourself. 

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00:00 Introduction 00:59 Internal Work and Role Modelling 04:12 Scaffolding and Celebrating 05:33 Building a Meaningful Life 06:32 Open Conversations and Honest Communication 07:01 Modelling Our Own Interests and Values 09:03 Recommended Books 21:39 Defining Success and Failure 25:02 Conclusion

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Keywords: Success and Failure in Western Culture, Home Education Journey, Redefining Success, Cultural Expectations, UK culture, Breaking Free from Norms, Alternative Education, Personal Growth in Education, Cultural Beliefs on Success, Educational Freedom, Challenging Societal Norms, Home Schooling Insights, Success Redefined, Empowering Education, Overcoming Cultural Pressures, Authentic Learning

Get ready for an electrifying welcome back episode! 🎉 Kelly and Ashley dive into the booming trend of home education (or home schooling for our US friends) , revealing why more parents in the UK and US are opting to deregister their children! They explore compelling reasons like mental health concerns, dissatisfaction with traditional schools, and the desire for educational flexibility to protect kids from bullying, peer pressure and in some cases even danger.

This episode isn't just about trends; it's a call for change! Kelly and Ashley discuss the limitations of conventional schooling, emphasizing the need for customization and flexibility in education. They also question the motives behind strict attendance policies, advocating for a society that values individual needs and mental health. Tune in to be inspired by a revolution in learning! 🚀 Are you ready to see where this season takes us?

 

Keywords: Home education trends, homeschooling benefits, education flexibility, mental health in education, traditional school challenges, personalized learning, protecting children from bullying, homeschooling movement UK, education customization, school absenteeism issues.

 

 

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the importance of critical thinking in home education. They explore the challenges of fostering critical thinking in a world that often discourages it, share personal experiences, and emphasize the need for autonomy and self-trust in children. The conversation highlights the impact of generational beliefs and the importance of flexibility in educational approaches. Ultimately, they encourage parents to trust their instincts and make informed decisions that align with their family's values.

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00:00 Introduction to Critical Thinking in Home Education 05:05 Defining Critical Thinking and Its Importance 09:57 Personal Experiences with Critical Thinking 15:05 Navigating External Opinions and Beliefs 19:58 The Role of Context in Decision Making 25:00 Encouraging Autonomy and Self-Trust in Children 30:07 The Impact of Generational Beliefs 34:57 Flexibility and Adaptability in Home Education 40:02 Building Confidence in Decision Making 45:11 Conclusion and Encouragement for Home Educators   Keywords: critical thinking, home education, parenting, autonomy, self-trust, decision making, education philosophy, generational beliefs, flexibility, adaptability

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley discuss the concept of child-led learning in home education, emphasizing the importance of following children's interests and fostering their curiosity. They share personal experiences of how allowing children to explore their passions leads to deeper learning and engagement. The conversation also touches on the integration of current events into learning, the significance of special interests, and the joy of reclaiming education for both parents and children.

Chapters

00:00 Embracing Child-Led Learning
06:12 The Power of Interests in Education
12:40 Incorporating Current Events
18:27 The Importance of Curiosity
25:30 Observing and Supporting Interests
31:59 The Value of Special Interests
38:52 Reclaiming Education Together

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Keywords: Child-led learning, Home education, Following children's interests, Fostering curiosity, Child-led education, Personal learning experiences, Exploring passions, Deeper learning engagement, Integrating current events, Importance of curiosity, Supporting children's interests, Special interests in education, Reclaiming education, Parental involvement in learning, Joy of learning.

 

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley discuss the challenges of navigating difficult conversations surrounding home education. They share personal experiences, emphasizing the importance of building conviction, setting boundaries, and understanding family dynamics. The conversation highlights the need for reassurance from the right sources and the significance of community support in the home education journey. They also touch on the societal norms that often challenge home educators and the importance of compassion in conversations with others.

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00:00 Navigating Difficult Conversations in Home Education
03:03 Personal Experiences and Family Dynamics
06:03 Understanding Family Concerns and Societal Norms
09:47 Setting Boundaries in Conversations
12:43 Building Conviction and Seeking Reassurance
15:22 The Importance of Intent in Conversations
18:12 Recognizing the Goal of Conversations
21:56 Handling Defensive Reactions
24:33 Compassion in Conversations
27:39 Finding Your Community
30:53 The Journey of Home Education
34:30 Reassurance Through Community Support
37:35 The Growth of Conviction Over Time
40:21 Final Thoughts

 

 

This conversation delves into the complexities of home education rights and duties, both as parents and for our children. Kelly and Ashley chat with special guest Wendy Charles-Warner about the role of local authorities, and the importance of mutual respect in these relationships as Education Otherwise work hard to support parents, train local authorities and advise government bodies to address the inconsistencies and trust issues that are at the heart of fearful dealings with LA education departments - especially when parents are already disillusioned. Wendy Charles-Warner shares her extensive experience in home education, highlighting historical changes in laws and the current landscape of home ed rights and duties. The discussion emphasizes the need for respectful communication, understanding your legal rights, and the importance of valuing individualized education for children. A fascinating discussion and one not to be missed, whether you are new to home ed or otherwise! 

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00:00 Introduction to Home Education Rights
01:48 Wendy's Journey in Home Education
04:43 Historical Context of Home Education Laws
07:37 Navigating Local Authority Relationships
10:42 The Importance of Respectful Communication
14:05 Understanding Local Authority Requests
18:23 The Role of Local Authorities in Home Education
22:36 Inconsistencies in Local Authority Practices
25:52 The Need for Standardized Training
29:09 Building Mutual Respect and Trust
32:34 The Impact of Parental Attitudes
35:03 Understanding Human Rights in Home Education
39:58 Qualified Rights and Responsibilities
43:04 The Role of Education in Society
46:12 The Importance of Individual Learning Styles
49:07 The Balance of Rights and Responsibilities
52:45 The Future of Home Education

Home Education Rights, Local Authorities and Home Education, Legal Rights in Home Education, Home Education Laws, Trust in Education Systems, Standardized Training for Education Authorities, Human Rights in Education, Role of Education in Society, Personalized Learning Styles.

 

Personal Note: Myself, Kelly, and Ashley have been going through an extremely busy and tough period and it has meant that we have both found that steady guilt creeping in - where you feel like you are missing out on time with your kids, you aren't handling things well, you are losing your patience quicker, you are forgetting things, prioritising the wrong things, feeling like you should be able to do it all, all the time. 

Our western culture glorifies the hustle. If you aren't driving 25 miles a day minimum, cooking your kids a perfectly well rounded diet, exercising, donating to charity, heading to an activity every day for your kids whilst also keeping up a full time job, cleaning a home, being perfectly calm and patient every second - you aren't 'doing enough' and so much of the time we forget that these expectations aren't actually OURS and nor are they actually real, achievable OR essential.

So often we are doing all of it to please some external message about what 'enough' is and 'success' is. 

This episode is pretty from the heart, a little raw and vulnerable as we discuss our recent struggles with this fine balance and how important it is to find love for yourself in the chaos and maybe CHOOSE slower to reset your intentions, even if that means disappointing other people. 

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Keywords: slowing down, family connection, hustle culture, self-care, intentional living, seasonal changes, expectations, mindfulness, home education, personal growth, parenting, boundaries, self-care, expectations, mental health, work-life balance, modern parenting, family dynamics, personal growth, compassion

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the challenges and realities of home education amidst life's chaos. They explore the importance of real-life learning experiences, the value of boredom and self-directed play, and the balance between parental involvement and children's independence. The conversation emphasizes that learning happens in various forms, not just through structured education, and highlights the significance of allowing children to engage with everyday life to develop essential life skills. In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the challenges and strategies of parenting, particularly focusing on managing household responsibilities, screen time, and fostering creative learning in children. They share personal experiences and insights on how to involve children in household tasks, set boundaries around screen time, and reflect on daily learning activities. The discussion emphasizes the importance of recognizing that learning occurs in various forms and that parents should embrace flexibility in their educational approaches.

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Keywords: home education, real-life learning, chaos, self-directed play, independence, life skills, boredom, parenting, education, family life, parenting, screen time, household responsibilities, creative learning, education, family dynamics, homeschooling, daily reflections, curriculum planning, child involvement

In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio explore the complexities of home education, focusing on the role of routines, the challenges of neurodiversity, and the balance between structure and flexibility. They share personal experiences and insights on how to navigate these themes while catering to the diverse needs of their children. The discussion emphasizes the importance of motivation, adaptability, and the need for a tailored approach to home education that respects each family's unique dynamics. In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio explore the themes of mindfulness in parenting, the importance of structure in learning, and the need for self-compassion in the face of educational pressures. They discuss the balance between providing guidance and allowing children to explore independently, emphasizing the privilege of choice in home education. The conversation highlights the significance of recognizing internal pressures and finding joy in the learning process, ultimately encouraging parents to cut themselves some slack and appreciate the journey of education. Keywords: home education, routines, neurodiversity, flexibility, motivation, learning, homeschooling, family dynamics, education strategies, parenting, mindfulness, parenting, education, structure, self-compassion, learning, balance, flexibility, gratitude, home education

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley reflect on their personal growth and experiences throughout the year, discussing the challenges and successes of home education. They share stories of their children's independence, the importance of understanding neurodiversity, and the need for balance in their lives. The conversation emphasizes the significance of creating supportive environments for both parents and children, while also exploring ways to reclaim their lives through home education. In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the importance of establishing boundaries for self-care, encouraging independence in children, and the growth that comes from facing adversity. They reflect on their experiences with home education, the challenges of parenting, and the significance of finding passion and purpose in their lives. The discussion emphasizes the need for self-reflection and gratitude as they wrap up the year, highlighting the transformative moments that have shaped their journey.

Keywords: home education, personal growth, neurodiversity, parenting, independence, education challenges, balance, support, family life, reflections, self-care, boundaries, independence, parenting, home education, personal growth, adversity, reflection, family, passion

In this conversation, Ashley Vanerio and Kelly Rigg discuss their experiences for 2024 and how they have inspired them and their kids to learn and grow, focusing on various educational outings and resources. They share insights on the benefits of memberships to educational venues, the importance of experiential learning, and how to engage children in history and culture through travel. The conversation highlights the value of planning ahead for educational trips and utilizing local resources to enhance learning experiences. In this conversation, Ashley Vanerio and Kelly Rigg discuss various engaging resources and innovative approaches to homeschooling. They explore platforms like Teachers Pay Teachers and Twinkl, emphasizing the importance of creative and interactive learning materials. The discussion also covers the use of AI tools like ChatGPT for educational purposes and highlights unique gift ideas for children that promote learning. The conversation wraps up with reflections on their experiences and plans for future discussions. keywords home education, experiential learning, family activities, educational resources, membership benefits, travel learning, local events, nature exploration, cultural education, STEM activities, homeschooling, educational resources, creative learning, unit studies, teaching tools, curriculum, online resources, interactive learning, ChatGPT, holiday gifts

In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Wendy Charles-Warner are aiming to reassure you that whilst it is important not to panic about the implications of the Children's Wellbeing and Schools Bill, it is important to take on an advocating role.

They address the anxiety surrounding the bill, the misconceptions about home education, and the statistics that highlight the quality of education and safeguarding in both home-educated and school settings. The conversation emphasizes the need for parents to engage with their MPs and advocate for their rights and the well-being of their children. The discussion emphasizes the role of parents in teaching consent and critical thinking, the limitations of institutional safeguarding, and the bureaucratic challenges that come with home education. Ultimately, they encourage parents to empower themselves and engage with educational policy to ensure their children's well-being.

Watch this space for more episodes about the bill as things develop!

Keywords:

Children's Wellbeing, Schools Bill, Home Education, Parental Rights, Advocacy, Education Quality, Safeguarding, Malicious Referrals, Regulations, Parental Involvement, home education, parental rights, safeguarding children, educational perspectives, consent education, advocacy, community support, educational policy

00:00 Introduction to the Children's Wellbeing and Schools Bill 05:45 Challenging Misconceptions About Home Education 15:30 The Impact of Malicious Referrals 20:41 The Burden of New Regulations on Home Educators 25:51 The Importance of Parental Involvement 37:39 Exploring Unique Educational Approaches 43:30 Teaching Consent and Critical Thinking 49:08 Empowering Parents to Advocate for Their Children 56:35 The Importance of Community Support

Welcome back for Season 3 of The Big Home Ed Conversations. Kelly Rigg, Founder of Offroading Motherhood and Ashley Vanerio, fellow home educator and mum of 3 discuss the struggle that is trusting the process, believing all will come right in the end when we have spent our lives being told what success looks like and how many different ways we can 'fail'. Home education is an opportunity to love learning as a process, but we need to know when to tend to that learning and when to let it go wild.

Keywords: Homeschooling, Home Education, Education Otherwise, Learning skills, Teaching, Development, Primary Education, Parenting, Parenting Young Children, Parenting Teens, Child Mental Health, Intrinsic Motivation, Extrinsic Motivation.

Anyone who has been home educating a while will have had a conversation with someone that goes 'oh we home educate....' 'oh gosh, we did that during covid - never again!!'

In this episode, Kelly Rigg & Ashley Vanerio discuss the stark differences between 2020 - a year of global fear, anxiety, trying to complete a full time job from home and suddenly schooling house bound, bored, under-stimulated kids...and what home education looks like when you get the lifestyle right.

Check out Defensive to Determined series on the www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk website if you are sick of feeling defensive whenever you tell someone you home educate! 

Keywords: Home Education, Homeschooling, Education, Mental Health, Stigma, Judgement, Defensive, Parenting, Parenting Tools, Parenting Tricks, Primary, Secondary, Intrinsic Motivation.

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio explore the challenges and joys of home education, the societal pressures to conform, and the importance of embracing individuality. They discuss the concept of being 'weird' as adults, the journey of stepping outside societal expectations, and the empowerment of children to embrace their uniqueness. The conversation highlights the value of play in childhood and the significance of self-care and personal growth in the context of parenting. In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio explore the complexities of modern parenting, particularly in relation to neurodiversity, the importance of outdoor play, and the shift in societal expectations of children. They discuss the significance of fostering a sense of belonging over fitting in, the challenges of instilling confidence in adolescents, and the journey towards body positivity and self-acceptance. The dialogue emphasizes the responsibility of parents to raise compassionate, critical thinkers who can navigate societal pressures and embrace their individuality.

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the theme of missing out in the context of home education. They reflect on their own school experiences, the importance of social interactions, and how home education can provide a supportive environment for children to grow and learn. The conversation emphasizes the value of relationships, boundaries, and the unique opportunities that home education offers, while also addressing common concerns parents have about their children missing out on traditional school experiences.

Keywords: home education, parenting, social interactions, missing out, education experiences, boundaries, childhood memories, homeschooling, family dynamics, personal growth

In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio explore the complexities of sensory sensitivities and not just through the eyes of neurodivergence, but the importance of setting boundaries, and the need for self-care in parenting as we work so hard to meet the needs of our children. They discuss how sensory overload affects family dynamics and the significance of  engaging and understanding our sensory experience of the world. They discuss how overstimulation and under-stimulation - be it too much noise or being stuck at home for days, can affect focus, drive, satisfaction and emotional well-being, and emphasize the significance of recognizing personal limits and needs. Ultimately, they advocate for listening to one's body and respecting your needs as well as your children's, to foster a healthier family environment that is sustainable.

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the evolution of home education, particularly in the UK, highlighting the significant growth of the community post-COVID. They explore the challenges and opportunities that arise from this expansion, emphasizing the importance of maintaining the core values of home education while adapting to new realities. The conversation also touches on the need for sustainability in community activities and the value of gratitude in parenting. In this conversation, Ashley Vanerio and Kelly Rigg discuss the importance of community engagement in home education, the need for support and resources for local educators, and the challenges of funding for home educators. They explore the concept of active inclusion in education, the evolving nature of the home education community, and the significance of building relationships and support networks among parents.

Keywords: home education, community growth, sustainability, parenting, neurodivergent families, education evolution, gratitude, family activities, home ed community, mindset coaching, home education, community support, local resources, funding, active inclusion, homeschooling, parent relationships, educational resources, online learning, home educators

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the joys of home education, particularly focusing on the insane benefits of world schooling, learning through travel and experiences. They reflect on their own experiences with travel, how it serves as a powerful teacher for children, and the importance of contextual learning. The conversation emphasizes the value of creating relevant and engaging learning opportunities for children through real-world experiences, allowing children time to delve into their own child-led interests, and the benefits of embracing tangents in learning. The discussion emphasizes the joy of learning for its own sake and the importance of fostering a curious mindset in both children and adults and the benefit that brings us in life.

Keywords:

home education, experiential learning, travel, parenting, education, homeschooling, family, learning, nature, wildlife, homeschooling, learning, curiosity, education, ocean exploration, hands-on activities, flexibility in education, lifelong learning, parenting, experiential learning, worldschooling, travelling with kids. 

In this episode, May 2025, Kelly Rigg and Wendy Charles-Warner discuss the ongoing Children's Wellbeing and Schools Bill, its implications for home education, and the community's response. They explore the current status of the bill in Parliament, concerns regarding registration and data requirements, and the potential impact on families, particularly those under scrutiny from social services. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community activism, the role of media in advocacy, and the need for parents to overcome fear and take action to protect their rights. In this conversation, Wendy Charles-Warner and Kelly Rigg discuss the complexities and challenges surrounding home education, particularly in light of proposed government registration measures. They explore the limitations of government oversight, the need for funding and support for home educators, and the impact of draconian measures on relationships between parents and local authorities. The discussion emphasizes the importance of celebrating diversity in education and the ideological motivations behind current education policies. Ultimately, they advocate for parental rights and the need for a more supportive approach to home education.

Share you thoughts and feedback with Kelly and Ashley on TikTok and Instagram @bighomeedpodcast

Sign the petition mentioned in the podcast here:

https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/716515?fbclid=IwY2xjawKv8GNleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBicmlkETFvNHVwTzZEVlMzWURiZmMxAR63S6Urz5MQUOqJZh9q4JoJIfNjHH81vVn18umW96KqfDCbkHgxbkwjulZnLg_aem_s4NWwDJ_dlbFAGa5FcX1Yw 

Keywords:

Children's Wellbeing, Schools Bill, Home Education, Parental Rights, Social Services, Education Otherwise, Community Activism, Legislative Process, Family Rights, Education Policy, home education, registration, government oversight, funding, support, education policy, parental rights, diversity, advocacy

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss their reactions and lasting feelings after the interview last week with Wendy Charles-Warner, Co-Chair of Education Otherwise. They emphasize the importance of community support, the need for a unified approach to advocacy, and the ongoing fight for home education rights. The hosts address stereotypes, government agendas, and the necessity for compassionate dialogue while highlighting the value of home education in promoting diversity and creativity in society. In this conversation, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss the implications of the Children's Wellbeing and Schools Bill affecting home education, focusing on the burdensome reporting requirements for parents, the perceived overreach of government control, and the emotional toll on families. They critically examine the narrative that schools are inherently safer for children and advocate for parental rights and autonomy in education. The discussion emphasizes the importance of building relationships with children and the need for community advocacy to protect these rights.

Share you thoughts and feedback with Kelly and Ashley on TikTok and Instagram @bighomeedpodcast

Sign the petition mentioned in the podcast here:

https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/716515?fbclid=IwY2xjawKv8GNleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBicmlkETFvNHVwTzZEVlMzWURiZmMxAR63S6Urz5MQUOqJZh9q4JoJIfNjHH81vVn18umW96KqfDCbkHgxbkwjulZnLg_aem_s4NWwDJ_dlbFAGa5FcX1Yw 

Keywords: home education, rights, community, legislation, misconceptions, government agenda, financial support, compassionate dialogue, education diversity, home educators, home education, parental rights, government overreach, children's safety, education policy, homeschooling, family values, safeguarding, education reform, community advocacy

In this episode, Kelly Rigg and Ashley Vanerio discuss their journey in home education, reflecting on their podcast's evolution and the importance of individual learning paths. They share personal anecdotes about family dynamics, gratitude, and the challenges of parenting. The conversation emphasizes the significance of values in education and different learning styles, encouraging listeners to embrace their unique approaches to home education. In this conversation, they discuss the evolution of their educational methods, whether its a more school-like approach to unschooling to a more structured yet flexible approach that prioritizes child-led learning. The conversation also touches on the significance of fostering a positive parent-child relationship and the values that guide their educational philosophy. Additionally, they reflect on their podcast's growth and share plans for future episodes, highlighting the importance of community feedback.

Follow us over on @bighomeedpodcast on instagram and tiktok! Let us know who you want to hear from in upcoming interviews and please do share the podcast with a friend! 

In this episode, Kelly and Ashley discuss the feelings and reflections that arise as the 'school year' comes to a close, as home educators we don't always adhere to the concepts of school years/grade levels and otherwise - but we do still have some hang ups that like to rear their ugly heads this time of year. In this episode, Kelly and Ashley reflect on how this time of year has made them feel, what it inspires us to do over the summer and how this can be turned into a positive, reflective and joyful time of year as easily as it could end up being stressful. The conversation emphasizes the significance of trusting the home education process, reducing anxiety, and recognizing the progress made throughout the year.

Find us on Instagram and Tiktok @bighomeedpodcast - don't forget to rate if you loved this episode! 

Keywords: home education, school year, learning, flexibility, planning, summer break, school anxiety, parenting, education, reflections, end of term, summer holidays, unschooling, parenting, motherhood, reframing, mindset, limiting beliefs, deschooling, deregistering, changing mindsets around education

In this episode, Kelly Rigg & Ashley Vanerio chat to Luna Flowerday—radical unschooler, worldschooler, and inspiring mum of three—who is currently traveling the world with her husband and children.   Luna’s journey started with a bold leap into bus life during Covid, while pregnant and with a toddler in tow. What began as a necessity has become years of adventure, joy, and challenge—reshaping her family’s outlook on life, learning, and what’s truly possible beyond the usual social constructs.   We dive into:

• The truths about worldschooling and radical unschooling (from someone living it right now!)
• Luna’s story: from starting out on the road to building a life of freedom and connection
• How little you really need in order to travel full-time with kids (and why it costs less than you think)
• Work-from-home ideas and creative ways to fund your journey
• The practicalities: packing light, staying regulated as a family, and overcoming fears
• Why worldschooling is more achievable and possible than most people imagine—with a bit of imagination, perseverance, and willingness to ditch the “shoulds”
• Parenting tips, travel hacks, and the real challenges and joys of learning through life on the road

Whether you’re a home educator, a travel dreamer, or just curious about alternative ways to live and learn, this episode will open your mind to what’s possible. If you’ve ever dreamed of ditching the routine and living life on your own terms, Luna’s story is sure to inspire you.   Follow us for more real-life home ed conversations:
TikTok & Instagram: @bighomeedpodcast
Follow Luna: @lunaflowerday
Want to learn more or make this lifestyle a reality?
Check out Luna’s resources and guides: https://stan.store/LunaFlowerday   See you next week for an impromptu debate between myself and Ashley about the use of AI in home education! Eeek! That was so much fun to record—can’t wait to hear your thoughts.

Is artificial intelligence (AI) a helpful tool for home educators—or a shortcut that risks critical thinking? In this lively episode (more like debate), Kelly and Ashley dig into the real pros and cons of using AI (like ChatGPT) in home education, sharing personal experiences, practical tips, and honest concerns.   We cover:

• How AI can streamline planning, spark creativity, and save time for busy home ed parents (think: instant topic ideas, bedtime stories, personalized lesson plans, and more)
• Why clear, thoughtful prompts are the secret to getting useful results from AI (and how to avoid the “rubbish” outputs!)
• The debate: does using AI for research or writing undermine kids’ learning—or is it just the next step after Google and Wikipedia?
• Concerns about plagiarism, loss of patience, and the temptation to let AI “do the thinking” for us (and how to balance tech with real-world skills)
• Creative ways to use AI with kids: generating custom stories, social scripts, activity ideas, and even coloring pages
• Why AI can be a neuroaffirming, inclusive tool—especially for children who struggle with handwriting or need learning adapted to their interests
• The importance of using tech intentionally: reclaiming your time for rest, connection, and slowing down—not just squeezing more into your day

Listener tip:
If you’re curious about using AI in your home ed journey, start small and play around! Ask it to help with lesson ideas, simplify tricky topics, or create custom stories for your kids. But remember: the goal isn’t to do more, faster—it’s to make your life easier and your learning more joyful.   Join the conversation:
This has been a very controversial subject! How are you using (or avoiding) AI in your home education?   Share your thoughts or questions with us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast—or drop us a message if you’d like a deeper workshop on making AI work for your family.

Is “sit down and focus” really the best way for kids to learn? In this lively episode, Kelly and Ashley dig into the myths and realities of “sit down culture” in education—and why home educators are uniquely positioned to break free from it.   We explore:

• The hidden costs of sit-down, desk-based learning (especially for neurodivergent kids)
• Why movement, play, and hands-on experiences are essential for real learning and regulation
• How “real life” moments—like reading menus, counting on walks, or exploring local foods—build reading, maths, and critical thinking skills
• The science behind learning through play (and why it’s so much more effective than worksheets!)
• Practical tips for weaving movement and creativity into every subject—even the “desk” ones like reading, writing, and maths
• The power of daily rhythm over strict schedules (hello, Charlotte Mason!)
• Why it’s okay if your home ed day looks nothing like school—and how to silence the guilt when you ditch the desk

Plus:

• Real talk about parental needs, self-regulation, and why your well-being matters too
• Stories from Montessori, alternative schooling, and the world’s most creative thinkers—proving that movement and curiosity build the best minds

Listener question:
Do you ever feel pressured to “make them sit down and do school”? What helps you break the mould?   Share your stories or tips with us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast, or send us a message for some solidarity!

Thinking about home education but feeling overwhelmed by doubts, fears, or pushback from others? You’re not alone! In this bonus episode, Kelly Rigg (home ed mum, mindset coach, and founder of Offroading Motherhood) kicks off the “Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed” series with a deep dive into the mindset shifts every new home educating parent needs to make.   We’ll talk about:

• Why “de-schooling” yourself (and your kids) is the essential first step
• How to spot and challenge the beliefs holding you back—like “sitting down is the only way to learn” or “I’m not qualified”
• The real-life journey from school/nursery stress to thriving at home (even if you’re starting from scratch, or feeling scared!)
• How to handle doubts, fears, and family resistance—and why it’s normal to feel all the feelings
• Practical steps: deregistration, legal rights, and what to expect from the local authority
• Why you don’t have to recreate school at home (and what to do instead)
• The power of reconnecting with your child, observing their needs, and letting your home ed journey evolve

Resource:
Download the “Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed” workbook for self-reflection prompts, practical checklists, and family conversation starters: offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/work-with-me   Listener homework:
Stick a piece of paper on your fridge and jot down every doubt, fear, or question that pops up about home ed—no judgment, just awareness. Notice the stories in your head and start asking “why?” (Kelly shares how this simple exercise transformed her own journey.)   Ready for support?
Connect with Kelly for coaching, reassurance, or just a friendly chat on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast, or via WhatsApp through her website.

Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just a bit “meh” about home education right now? You’re not alone! In this honest episode, Kelly and Ashley dive deep into the reality of home ed slumps—those periods when motivation dips, life gets in the way, and routines seem impossible to maintain.   We chat about:

• Why home ed slumps happen (burnout, big life events, travel, illness, family stress, or just plain old exhaustion)
• The emotional rollercoaster of home educating—especially for neurodivergent families and parents juggling work, home, and learning
• How “real life” IS learning: from moving house to camping trips, grief, or just catching up on laundry, your kids are still growing and learning every day
• Guilt, comparison, and the myth of “falling behind”—and why schools aren’t as non-stop as you might think!
• Practical strategies for easing back into routines: starting small, building momentum, and letting go of perfection
• The power of noticing the little wins (and a little hack for noticing the positives!)
• When to switch things up: changing subjects, trying new approaches, or simply giving everyone a break

Plus:

• Why home education doesn’t have to look like school at home
• The importance of self-compassion, flexibility, and adjusting your expectations (for yourself and your kids)
• How to use “real life” as curriculum, and why every conversation, walk, or pancake breakfast counts

Listener shout-out:
If you’ve been binge-listening or found our chats helpful, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it really helps us reach more home ed families! And if you’re climbing out of a slump (or still deep in one), let us know what’s helped you—or if you badly need some help right now - send us a message on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast, or drop us a line for a bit of solidarity.

Are you asking yourself, “Why am I doing this?” as you step into home education? You’re not alone!   In this episode of the Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed summer series, Kelly Rigg (mindset coach, home ed mum, and co-host of the BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast) helps you dig deep into the real reasons behind your home ed decision—and how to turn your hopes, fears, and family dreams into a philosophy that actually works for you.   We explore:

• The most common questions and worries parents have when starting home education (social life, exams, university, family pressure, and more)
• How to clarify your motivations—whether it’s about lifestyle, flexibility, travel, wellbeing, or simply wanting something different for your family
• Why your reasons are valid (even if they’re not what you expected!)
• The importance of visualising your “perfect day” and weaving home ed naturally into family life
• How to set realistic expectations (vs. reality!) and embrace flexibility when things don’t go to plan
• The value of writing down your hopes and dreams for your kids, your family, and yourself
• A gentle introduction to popular home education philosophies: unschooling (John Holt), Charlotte Mason, Montessori, Ken Robinson, Peter Gray, Ivan Illich, Julie Bogart, and more—plus tips for blending approaches to suit your unique family

Practical resources mentioned:

• The Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed Workbook (with prompts for self-reflection and family discussion) – head to offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/work-with-me
• Free 30-minute clarity call with Kelly for parents who want extra support or just need a sounding board

Whether you’re feeling excited, nervous, overwhelmed, or all three, this episode will help you get clear on your “why,” explore what really matters to you, and start building a home ed journey that’s grounded in your own values—not just what everyone else expects.   What’s your “why” for home educating?
Share your thoughts or questions with Kelly on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast, or reach out for a free clarity call. You don’t have to figure this out alone!

Ever wonder how home educating families actually plan, stay flexible, and fit everything in—without burning out? In this episode, Kelly and Ashley spill their real-life “home ed secrets,” sharing what planning looks like for seasoned (and sometimes scatterbrained!) home educators, how to stay creative without getting overwhelmed, and why flexibility is the true superpower for families learning outside the system.   We chat about:

• Why planning as a home educator looks nothing like school—and why that’s a good thing!
• How to use frameworks (like the UK national curriculum or US grade-level guides) without getting boxed in
• Balancing structure and spontaneity—so you don’t lose your mind (or your creativity)
• The power of following your child’s interests and letting go of perfection
• How to handle “rabbit holes,” project-based learning, and the endless questions that spark real learning
• Tips for planning non-academic parts of your day—like routines, family values, and self-care
• Why it’s totally normal (and healthy!) for your approach to evolve over time or even get completely scrapped and started over again

This summer, Outschool have offered us a sponsored opportunity to use—and honestly review—their learning platform right here on the podcast. Go listen to what we have to say! If you’d like to take advantage of the offer we mention, head to www.outschool.com/HOMEED and use code HOMEED35 to get $35 off your family’s first month!   Whether you’re a new home educator, an unschooler, or just looking to refresh your planning style, this episode is packed with practical tips, gentle reassurance, and plenty of laughs about what really works (and what doesn’t) when you’re learning at home.    Resources mentioned:

• UK national curriculum and US grade-level “What Your ___ Grader Needs to Know” books.
• AI and creative planning tools
• Our honest experiences with Outschool classes for SEND and neurodivergent children

What’s your biggest planning headache or home ed win?
Share your thoughts or questions with us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast—or send us a message to help shape future episodes!

Thinking about home education but feeling overwhelmed by doubts, legal questions, or worries about what others will think? You’re not alone! In this episode, Kelly and Ashley get real about the most common roadblocks families face when starting (or even just considering) their home ed journey—from legalities and partner hesitations to social pressure, money worries, and the myth that you need to replicate school at home.

We discuss:

• Is home education really legal in the UK (and beyond)? How to get confident about the rules
• Navigating partner, family, and friend scepticism—especially when no one around you “gets it”
• The fear of “ruining” your child’s education, missing out on socialisation, or not being “qualified”
• Why you don’t need to replicate school at home (and how much time home ed actually takes)
• The realities of working, budgeting, and fitting in self-care as a home educating parent
• How to handle awkward questions from strangers and the pressure to justify your choices
• The importance of building a supportive community and trusting your instincts

Plus, we share our own stories—honest moments of doubt, funny run-ins with “concerned” strangers, and what finally helped us move past the biggest mental and practical barriers.   This summer, Outschool have offered us a sponsored opportunity to use—and honestly review—their learning platform right here on the podcast. Go listen to what we have to say! If you’d like to take advantage of the offer we mention, head to www.outschool.com/HOMEED and use code HOMEED35 to get $35 off your family’s first month!   Whether you’re just researching, feeling stuck, or already on your home ed journey but hitting new hurdles, this episode will help you breathe, reframe your worries, and find practical ways forward.   Remember: most “roadblocks” are just questions waiting for honest answers—and you’re allowed to do things differently.   Resources mentioned:

• Mindset coaching and support (with Kelly) - go to www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/work-with-me 
• Real-life examples and encouragement from the home ed community

What’s the biggest roadblock on your mind right now? DM us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast and let’s talk about it!

Feeling the urge to buy new pens or lunchboxes—even though your kids aren’t going “back to school”?

You’re not alone!

In this heartfelt episode, Kelly and Ashley dive deep into the rituals and traditions that sneak into home education, and how social conditioning around “back-to-school” can trigger anxiety, guilt, or FOMO—even for seasoned home ed families.

We unpack:

• Why back-to-school shopping and new routines tug at our emotions (even when we know we don’t need them)
• The difference between meaningful family traditions and habits that are just social pressure in disguise
• How to create authentic, empowering rituals that suit your unique home ed lifestyle
• Letting go of external judgment, performance anxiety, and the need to “keep up”
• Practical ways to build core memories and intentional family traditions—without the overwhelm
• Plus, we share real-life stories, gentle mindset shifts, and plenty of laughs about muddy camping clothes, first impressions, and the power of saying “no” to unnecessary expectations.

This summer, Outschool have offered us a sponsored opportunity to use—and honestly review—their learning platform right here on the podcast. Go listen to what we have to say!

If you’d like to take advantage of the offer we mention, head to www.outschool.com/HOMEED and use code HOMEED35 to get $35 off your family’s first month! Perfect for home educating parents in the UK (and beyond!) who want to break free from school-based conditioning, trust their instincts, and build a home ed life that feels good all year round.

Let us know: What rituals or pressures are you letting go of this year? Drop us a message on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast!

Are you about to start home education and feeling overwhelmed by all the choices, routines, and expectations? You’re not alone! In this episode of the Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed series, Kelly Rigg (home educating mum, mindset coach, and podcast co-founder) talks honestly about the realities of transitioning into home ed life—especially how to create a routine that actually works for your whole family, not just your kids.   We explore:

• Why home education is a lifestyle shift, not just an education decision
• How to factor in YOUR needs, ambitions, and well-being (not just your child’s)
• The truth about time, structure, and finding balance as a home ed parent
• Why “busy” isn’t always better—and how to avoid hustle culture and burnout
• The power of intrinsic learning, curiosity, and letting go of school-based routines
• Practical tips for building a rhythm that feels good for everyone, including you

You’ll also hear about Kelly’s own journey (and mistakes!), why it’s okay to use the national curriculum as a starting point, and how to gently question what really matters most for your family. Plus, get reassurance that it’s normal to feel unsteady—and that you’re allowed to slow down, say no, and make space for your own growth and happiness.   Mentioned in this episode:

• The “Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed” workbook (journaling prompts & self-reflection tools)
• The “First 30 Days of Home Ed” calendar (gentle daily prompts for a soft landing—grab it from the Offroading Motherhood website)
• Free 30-minute coaching chat with Kelly for parents who want extra support

You can grab all of these from www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/work-with-me  

If you’re struggling to balance everyone’s needs or worried you’ll lose yourself in the process, this episode will help you breathe, reset, and step into home ed with more confidence and clarity. Ready to build a home ed life that works for all of you?
Share your thoughts, questions, or routines with us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast—or book a free chat with Kelly today!

This week, Ashley pops in solo to launch something new and fun for our community—the BIG Home Ed Book Club! Think bite-sized, practical reflections you can listen to on a walk, while folding laundry, or between activities.   In this intro, Ashley:

• Shares why we’re starting a book club now (hello accountability and actually finishing the gems on our shelves)
• Walks through the books on her current list and why they matter for home-educating families
• Explains how the series will work: short recaps, key takeaways, surprises, and who each book is best for—even if you don’t read along!

Books mentioned

• The Four-Hour School Day by Durenda Wilson — Next week’s pick!
• The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt
• Untangled by Lisa Damour
• The Case for Make-Believe by Susan Linn
• Between by Sarah Ockwell-Smith
• Hold On to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté
• Hunt, Gather, Parent by Michaeleen Doucleff
• Peaceful Parent, Happy Siblings by Dr. Laura Markham
• The Read-Aloud Family by Sarah Mackenzie
• Let Them Be Kids by Jessica Smartt
• Raising Critical Thinkers by Julie Bogart

What’s next

• Read along: The Four-Hour School Day by Durenda Wilson
• Ashley will share a practical, no-fluff recap next week: big ideas, what surprised her, and how to apply it in real life

Why this series will help

• Quick refreshers so the good stuff actually sticks
• Support for parents at different stages—from little years to tweens and teens
• Curated, relevant reads for UK home ed families (and beyond)

Links

• Read-Aloud Revival: readaloudrevival.com (book lists, podcast, family book club)
• Follow us on TikTok and Instagram: @bighomeedpodcast
• Podcast page: www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/podcast

If you’re new here This is a bonus mini-episode. For our usual conversations, start with earlier episodes to get a feel for our style and mission! In the mean time don't forget to:

• Subscribe so you don’t miss the first book club review!
• Share this episode with a home ed friend who loves a good book stack!
• Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help others find us!!

Keywords: home education, homeschooling, book club, home ed resources, Durenda Wilson, The Four-Hour School Day, parenting books, tween parenting, read-alouds, Julie Bogart, UK home education

Newly deregistered or just beginning your home ed journey this September? You’re in the right place.

In the final episode of the “Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed” series, Kelly Rigg (home education mindset coach and co-host of the BIG Home Ed Conversations Podcast) shares a calm, practical 90‑day plan to help you find your feet without recreating school at home.

Kelly’s simple three-Rs framework:

Regulate: Lower stress by meeting basic needs first—breath, water, food, sleep, movement, and sensory decompression. Expect dysregulation after leaving school; make space for it.

Reconnect: Rebuild trust and joy with 10 minutes of undivided attention, low-pressure outings, and child-led choices. Get their buy-in before booking clubs to avoid resentment.

Read the room (Observe): Light-touch notes on what lights them up, what frustrates them, and where you connect. Spot patterns and gently follow their rabbit holes—without overengineering and killing the spark.

You’ll learn: 

Why the early 'mess' is normal—and how to reduce overwhelm fast!

How to balance your needs with theirs (boundaries and compromises that work.)

What to do if your kids ask to go back to school (and why that feeling is common.)

How much “education time” you actually need (hint: far less than a school day!)

Permission slips: it’s okay to pause, scrap a plan, or write off a day (or longer!) Focus on meeting those needs, reconnecting and noticing and you will lay the best foundations for your home ed journey.

Helpful resources:

Get Your Head Straight to Home Ed Workbook and the First 30 Days of Home Ed calendar (daily prompts to regulate, reconnect, and observe): www.offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/work-with-me

What’s up next: 

Ashley’s Book Club mini-series kicks off next week! Your chance to find out what we have been loving reading lately!

Season 4 (Fresh Perspectives) starts early October with inspiring guests and conversations that stretch curiosity and empathy towards individuals in our diverse communities who are seriously under-represented in education. Subscribe now to make sure you don't miss it!

Join the conversation:

Are you just starting out or still have questions? Share with us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast.

Keywords: home education UK, starting home education, first 90 days home ed, deschooling, home education mindset, deregistration UK, home ed routine, neurodivergent home education, gentle parenting, unschooling principles

In this special Book Club episode, Ashley Vanerio dives into The Four-Hour School Day—a practical, encouraging guide for new and seasoned home educators alike. Written by veteran homeschool mum of eight, Durenda Wilson, this book challenges the myth that learning at home needs to look like the 8am–4pm school grind.  

Ashley shares her honest first impressions (including a heads-up about the book’s strong Christian perspective), and why this title is still packed with value for all home ed families—religious or not. From the realities of how little time home learning actually takes, to the importance of rhythm, consistency, and nurturing relationships, Ashley explores the book’s most helpful themes:

• Why “less is more” in home education—and how you can get more done in less time
• The difference between “socialization” and “socializing” (and how to answer the dreaded question!)
• How to avoid comparison traps and build a home ed life that fits your unique family
• The power of following your child’s passions and letting go of schoolish pressure
• Encouragement for parents: you don’t need a teaching degree, just trust, time, and connection

Ashley highlights her favourite chapters, shares honest reactions, and explains why this book makes a great confidence booster for new home educators—or a gentle resource to hand to sceptical family members.   Ready to read?   Grab it from Amazon or Waterstones or any other retailer!  

Have you read The Four-Hour School Day? Share your thoughts with us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast, or let us know what you think of this review!  

Next up for Book Club: Hunt, Gather, Parent—what ancient cultures can teach us about raising happy, helpful kids. Stay tuned for more short, honest reviews and practical home ed inspiration.

Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, leave us a review or share with a friend! Follow us over on TikTok or Instagram @BIGHomeEdPodcast 

 

Welcome back to Season 4 of the Big Home Ed Conversations Podcast!

In this new “Changing Perspectives” series, Kelly and Ashley dive into the big, sometimes uncomfortable, but always essential conversations about diversity, inclusion, and breaking out of our bubbles as home educating families.

This season is all about stretching our thinking—beyond our own lived experiences, beliefs, and backgrounds—to raise kids who are compassionate, curious, and ready to thrive in a diverse world.

We’re opening the door to voices and stories we might not hear in our everyday circles, and asking the questions that really matter:

Who isn’t represented in our community?

How can we make home education more welcoming and accessible?

What does true belonging look like for all families?

In this kickoff episode, you’ll hear:

Why we’re making space for new perspectives and lived experiences in home ed.

Honest reflections on privilege, accessibility, and the myths of home education.

The importance of teaching our kids to step into someone else’s shoes—whether it’s about race, religion, disability, gender, family structure, or life circumstances.

Our hopes for this series:

More empathy, more critical thinking, and more real conversations at home.

Book recommendations and practical ways to start these conversations with your own children.

How YOU can get involved by sharing your stories, questions, or lived experiences (see below!)

PLUS: Our honest review of Outschool after a summer of classes—what worked, what didn’t, and a special discount code for listeners (details in the episode!).

Listener Invitation: We want your voices and stories! Visit the blog at offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/blog for a list of upcoming topics, or message us directly on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast. If you have a personal experience, question, or comment about diversity, inclusion, or belonging in home education, send it our way—we’d love to read it on air (anonymously if you prefer).

What’s coming up: Throughout this season, expect open-hearted conversations with authors, experts, real voices and home educators from all walks of life. We’ll tackle tough topics: prejudice and privilege, whitewashing in education, banned books, gender and sexuality, ableism, neurodiversity, and more.

Each episode will include a book recommendation for you and your kids—perfect for expanding your family’s bookshelf and worldview. Let’s break the cycle of “fixed facts” and automatic assumptions, and raise kids who know that every voice matters—including their own.

In this powerful episode of the Big Home Ed Conversations Podcast, Kelly and Ashley sit down with Atlanta-based educator, tech specialist, and author Chris Linder—founder of Homeschool Remix—to dig deep into what real diversity and inclusion can look like in home education.

Chris brings a wealth of lived experience, working with all families, but especially Black, Brown, Indigenous, and marginalized families to create flexible, hybrid homeschooling solutions that fit real life—not just the “ideal” often seen online.

Together, we explore why representation in education matters, how to actively include all voices, and the practical barriers many families face in both the UK and US.

This episode covers:

• Chris’s unique journey from radio DJ to teacher, tech expert, and home education advocate.
• What “hybrid homeschooling” really means—and why it’s a lifeline for diverse and working families.
• The invisible barriers and stigmas that keep home education feeling out of reach for many.
• Why representation and critical thinking are essential—at home and in the curriculum.
• The chilling reality of banned books, whitewashing, and whose stories get told in schools.
• How to start tough conversations about race, privilege, ableism, and identity with your kids.
• Practical, honest advice for making home education accessible (even on a tight budget).
• The “folding chair” philosophy: if there’s no seat at the table, bring your own—and build community.

Plus: Why critical thinking—not just travel—is the antidote to prejudice.

Book recommendations for building empathy and perspective at home:

Our recommendation this week is Ghost by Jason Reynolds - get it here from World of Books.

We’re recommending Ghost by Jason Reynolds to accompany this episode because it’s a powerful, accessible novel that tackles themes of race, poverty, resilience, and belonging through the eyes of a young Black boy navigating life’s challenges. Ghost’s story offers a window into experiences often underrepresented in mainstream curricula, making it a brilliant conversation starter for families wanting to build empathy, discuss diversity, and see the world from a different perspective. It’s an engaging, fast-paced read that encourages critical thinking, compassion, and honest conversations about what it means to find your place in the world—perfect for the heart of today’s discussion.

How to join Chris’s “Seat Squad” community for ongoing support: Head to www.homeschoolremix.com to grab Chris’s book, 'Homeschool Remix' and join his community.

Listener invitation: We want your voices! Have you faced barriers, prejudice, or found creative ways to make home education work for your family? Share your story or question with us on Instagram or TikTok @bighomeedpodcast, or visit our blog at offroadingmotherhood.co.uk/blog to join the conversation. We’d love to feature your lived experience in a future episode.