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The Better Sex Podcast ~ Unfiltered Conversations

DeborahKat

Health & Fitness

Frequency: 1 episode/17d. Total Eps: 97

Sit down with Tantra teacher and professional Dominatrix Deborah Kat as she interviews experts in sex, intimacy and relationship. These rich and dynamic conversations share each guest's wisdom, caution and encouragement to support you to have the Better Sex you crave!

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The Better Man: Redefining Masculinity and Sex with Dr. Eric Fitz Medrude

Thursday, October 30, 2025 • Duration 01:00:49

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with psychologist and author Dr. Eric Fitz Medrude about what it really means to be "a better man." Together, we explore how cultural conditioning, shame, and lack of real education have left so many men confused about sex, masculinity, and intimacy.

Eric shares how his Catholic upbringing and family's unusually frank conversations about sex shaped his perspective, and how those early experiences inspired his book, The Better Man. We dive into common myths about porn, testosterone, and what men are "supposed" to want—and how those beliefs often block real connection and pleasure.

Along the way, Eric opens up about the importance of platonic touch, the emotional cost of living inside "the man box," and what it takes to build relationships rooted in honesty and consent. We also talk about resentment, boundaries, and the hard truth that being a better lover starts with being a better human.

Connect with Eric

Website: https://www.drericfitz.com/

Book: The Better Man https://www.drericfitz.com/the-better-man/

Connect with Deborah

Substack: https://substack.com/@deborahkat

YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@deborahkat9349

Instagram https://www.instagram.com/deborahtantrakat/

Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com

Book a breakthrough session with Deborah

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Fierce and Tender Masculinity with Dene Sebastiana

Monday, October 27, 2025 • Duration 56:28

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with elder, teacher, author, and longtime men's work facilitator Dene Maria Sebastiana, author of Fierce & Tender: Healing the Deep Masculine. We explore what really happens inside men's circles—and why emotional maturity, vulnerability, and deep male connection are essential for better sex and healthier relationships.

Dene shares his journey from growing up in a hyper-masculine world to leading transformational circles across the U.S. and Mexico. He talks about the power of integrating both the fierce and the tender—the masculine and feminine energies within all of us—and how that integration shapes intimacy, partnership, and personal growth.

This conversation is grounded, heart-centered, and full of insight—a reminder that healing the masculine isn't abstract. It's embodied, relational, and deeply human.

Connect with Dene

Website: https://www.denemariasebastiana.com/

Book Fierce & Tender: Healing The Deep Masculine https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09XSSBGXP

Connect with Deborah

Substack: https://substack.com/@deborahkat

YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@deborahkat9349

Instagram https://www.instagram.com/deborahtantrakat/

Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com

Book a breakthrough session with Deborah

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From Taboo to Truth: Inside the World of Adult Film with Rachel Steele

Wednesday, May 21, 2025 • Duration 39:59

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Adult Film Performer, Producer and CEO of Red MILF Productions, Rachel Steele about the liberating—and often misunderstood—world of sexual fantasy. From taboo storylines to personal empowerment, Rachel shares how her work creates space for people to safely explore their desires without shame.

In this fascinating conversation, we take you behind the scenes of the adult film industry—from camming and casting to scripting and shooting—and unpack the difference between sexual entertainment and education. Rachel opens up about how she accidentally entered the industry, why she started her own production company, and the deep psychology behind the fantasies that resonate most.

Together, we explore how shame shapes our desires, and how storytelling can actually help release it. Rachel talks candidly about censorship, societal stigma, and the emotional impact her work has on viewers who finally feel seen and accepted.

If you've ever wondered what really goes into adult content—or why certain fantasies pull at you—this conversation offers an honest, eye-opening look at how fantasy can be a force for healing, creativity, and connection.

Connect with Rachel

X: https://x.com/RedMILFRachel

Website: https://www.rachel-steele.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachel_steelexoxo

Connect with Deborah

 Questions and Answers

Substack: https://substack.com/@deborahkat

Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com

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Keeping the Spark Alive Beyond the Honeymoon Stage with Jason and Tina Marie Scott

Thursday, May 1, 2025 • Duration 01:00:16

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with relationship coaches, podcast hosts, and longtime partners Jason and Tina Marie Scott. We explore what it really takes to keep love alive beyond the honeymoon stage—and how a thriving relationship is built not on perfection, but on presence, communication, and intentional care.

During this conversation, Jason and Tina Marie discuss the foundation of friendship in their 33-year marriage, how they've redefined traditional roles in their partnership, and why self-awareness is key to lasting intimacy. Along the way, they share their own story—from a bumpy first meeting to creating a life of love, laughter, and growth together.

They also introduce their Manifest Method, a practical framework couples can use to strengthen communication, deepen emotional connection, and bring intention into everyday interactions. With tools like their 20 Emotional Intimacy Questions, they offer a clear path for couples to reconnect and evolve—together.

This episode is packed with heart, humor, and wisdom—and a reminder that great relationships don't just happen. They're created, moment by moment, with care.

Connect with Jason and Tina Marie Scott

Website https://legendaryrelationship.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/legendaryrelationship/

Connect with Deborah

 Questions and Answers

Substack: https://substack.com/@deborahkat

Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com

Book a breakthrough session with Deborah

 https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935

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Kinks, Fetishes, and Boundaries: A Deep Dive with Miss Em

Friday, April 18, 2025 • Duration 01:03:50

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I chat with Dominatrix and kink educator Miss. Em, who brings over 20 years of experience in the world of BDSM, fetishes, and power dynamics. Hear about how her early curiosity around taboo desires became a calling—and how she uses passion, presence, and emotional intelligence to create safe, transformative experiences.

During this conversation, Miss. Em shares her insights on everything from the origins of fetish and submission to the importance of aftercare and the art of psychological play. We explore how kink isn't always about sex—and how rituals, scent, and memory can create deep arousal and connection.

Along the way, we talk about what it means to be an ethical Dominant, the surprising challenges of online BDSM, and why honest communication is at the center of any powerful erotic exchange.

This episode invites you to drop the shame, get curious, and expand your understanding of intimacy—through the lens of kink, consent, and deep trust.

Connect with Miss Em

Website - https://www.sultrymissem.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sultrymissem/

Connect with Deborah

 Questions and Answers

Substack: https://substack.com/@deborahkat

Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com

Book a breakthrough session with Deborah

 https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935

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Tools to Make Sex Talks Easy with Dr. Evelin Dacker

Thursday, April 10, 2025 • Duration 48:40

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I chat with Sexologist and Educator Dr. Evelin Molina Dacker about the power of open conversations around sexual health at every stage of life. She gets real about her own journey—breaking free from societal expectations and redefining what pleasure looks like, especially through menopause.

During this conversation, Dr. Eveline shares her simple but powerful STARS framework to help guide open and shame-free discussions around intimacy. We discuss how this tool can help anyone—whether single or partnered—navigate important conversations about sex with ease and confidence.

Along the way, we dive into the emotional and physical changes that come with aging, the surprising joys of this new chapter, and how shifting cultural attitudes are making space for deeper, more honest conversations about desire. We chat about how embracing these changes can lead to greater intimacy and confidence rather than fear or uncertainty.

This episode is a reminder that talking about sex shouldn't be awkward—it should be empowering. You'll walk away with fresh insights on how to communicate your desires, navigate changes with confidence, and embrace pleasure at any stage of life

Connect with Dr Ducker

Website - MakeTimeForTheTalk.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexmeddoc/

Connect with Deborah

 Questions and Answers

Substack: https://substack.com/@deborahkat

Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com

Book a breakthrough session with Deborah

 https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935

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Fantasies, Secrets & Good Sex with Dr. Toni Bear

Friday, March 28, 2025 • Duration 58:21

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with sexologist and intimacy expert Dr. Toni Baer. We dive into sexual identity, fantasies, and the power of secrets in relationships. Dr. Toni shares how her personal journey—from high school teacher to sexologist—was shaped by a deeply personal family tragedy that ignited her passion for helping others embrace their desires and navigate sexual identity.

Along the way, we explore common sexual fantasies, why some are better left unspoken, and how privacy and consent shape intimate conversations. Dr. Toni also reveals how secrets can create stress in relationships offering guidance on how to balance openness with discretion.

From cultural perspectives on sexuality to vetting within kink and polyamorous communities, this conversation sheds light on how our different backgrounds can shape different desires. Dr. Toni also teases her upcoming TV show, The Voyage of Desire, offering a global look at human passion.

Listen in to discover how understanding your fantasies—and the role of secrets in your life—can lead to deeper intimacy and greater self-acceptance.

Tune in wherever you listen to podcasts, and don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review!

Connect with Dr Toni

Website - https://www.tonibearedd.com/

Free Gift: Aphrodite's Love Secrets https://www.tonibearedd.com/opt-in

Annual ReAwakening Women's Retreat in Costa Rica. https://www.tonibearedd.com/retreats

Connect with Deborah

Got questions about sex and relationship? 

Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com

Book a breakthrough session with Deborah

 https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935

Unpacking Jealousy & Pleasure with Ken Blackman

Wednesday, February 19, 2025 • Duration 01:01:49

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with international Sex and Intimacy Educator and Relationship Coach, Ken Blackman. In this conversation, we dive deep into the nuance of jealousy and how it appears in relationships, exploring the different types of jealousy that can uniquely affect intimate connections. We also touch upon the transformative power of identifying different relationship motivations and how understanding these can shift things from transactional interactions to passionate partnerships.

Along the way, Ken shares his inspiring story from being an Apple software engineer to his current mission of helping couples co-create thriving and fulfilling relationships. Ken gives us some valuable insights and practical tools to enhance sexual satisfaction through somatic pleasure and bridge the 'orgasm gap' – the disparity in orgasm between partners.

Listen to this powerful episode and learn how to identify your own jealousy patterns to foster a more relaxed, fulfilling approach to intimacy.

Connect with Ken

Website - https://kenblackman.com

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/KenBlackmanPersonal

Free Gift: "JEALOUSY—Everything You Need to Know" https://tally.so/r/3jPrEY

Connect with Deborah

Got questions about sex and relationship? 

Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com

Book a breakthrough session with Deborah

 https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935

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Flirting and the Feminine with Coco Williams

Thursday, January 30, 2025 • Duration 55:21

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Certified Bondassage Trainer, Entrepreneur & Coach, Coco Williams who dives deep with us into the power of feminine energy, the art of flirting, and the journey of personal growth and healing. We talk about how subtle shifts in communication can significantly affect our interactions and relationships and the ways flirting can elevate your mood and energy while also exploring the nuances of flirting across different cultures and the cultural fears around it. Along the way, Coco opens up about her healing journey, including therapy, coaching, and self-reflection techniques all leading her to finding joy in femininity and the empowering aspects of sex work. Coco shares her unique coaching techniques and personal experiences, including stories about the powerful role of maintaining a high vibration to manifest your desires. Learn about the importance of human interaction and flirtation beyond the bedroom, and how embodying specific fantasies in marketing has brought Coco both joy and financial success. You won't want to miss Coco's powerful insights and tools to manifest your desires in this fun conversation!

Connect with Coco

Website - TheHeauxprenuer.com

Twitter - https://x.com/theheauxprenuer

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theheauxprenuer/

Pinterest - SoWellMsBehaved

Connect with Deborah

Got questions about sex and relationship? 

Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com

Book a breakthrough session with Deborah

 https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935

 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox

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Navigating Sexual Communication with Tallulah Sulis

Wednesday, January 15, 2025 • Duration 01:03:01

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I chat with Sex Educator, Somatic Sex Therapist and Female Ejaculation Expert, Tallulah Sulis about empowering female sexuality, fostering better communication, and enhancing intimacy in relationships. As we talk, Tallulah shares a bit of her journey into somatic coaching as she learned the deep importance of nervous system regulation and discovered the concept of core erotic desires to deepen connection. Along the way, we chat about the value of slow seduction, the dynamics of initiating and responding partners, and how open, reciprocal communication can transform sexual experiences. This episode is absolutely packed with practical tools like "special attention dates" and "erotic mapping," giving you some very actionable steps to reduce pressure, explore desires, and cultivate a more fulfilling intimate life.

Connect with Tallulah

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Connect with Deborah

Got questions about sex and relationship? 

Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com

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