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| The hidden side of club culture that patriarchy killed | 04 Nov 2026 | 00:32:33 | |
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__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| EXPOSED: The dark truth clean beauty doesn't want you to see | 28 Oct 2026 | 00:42:30 | |
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__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Machiavelli for Women Ep. 3: How to read people like a book | 21 Oct 2026 | 00:39:11 | |
Get your early bird tickets for my Toronto meet & greet and party here 🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Welcome to the third episode of Machiavelli for Women. In this series, I decode The Prince, one of the most controversial texts in history, to help women flip the patriarchy on its head. Most of us need to get better at reading between the lines. On top of that, too many of us don't see reality for what it is, because we're clouded by projection, fairness, and reciprocity. In this episode, I'll walk us through a 4-step funnel inspired by Machiavelli's The Prince and Discourses on Livy that'll help us make sense of people's behaviour and buffoonery. xoxoxo Neekolo Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:14 The 4-step funnel 4:41 1- Environment 15:07 2- Ambition 24:43 3- Perception 32:15 4- Self-concept If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Episodes mentioned:
Music credit © Chœur des Marais, Villefranche sur Saône, Fr __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| The hidden way patriarchy keeps you poor | 14 Oct 2026 | 00:44:15 | |
Tickets for my Toronto meet & greet and party: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bad-btch-bash-tickets-2003183354337?aff=oddtdtcreator 🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. The patriarchy has tag teamed with its friends capitalism and cultural norms to make us as uncomfortable as possible talking about money and (GASP!!!) wanting money. In this episode I’m going to break some taboos by discussing 5 ways the patriarchy keeps us finally illiterate, while also disclosing some ways I’ve spent and invested my money. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:05 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT 4:51 1) Zero sum thinking 10:19 2) The myth of hard work 16:29 3) Guilt 26:37 4) Intimidation 31:07 5) Misinformation 38:32 Book recos If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Episodes mentioned:
__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Patriarchy Hack #39: Strategically leave certain things unfinished | 07 Oct 2026 | 00:36:36 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Second last Hack y'all!!! We're going to discuss how to apply the Zeigarnik effect (leaving things unfinished) as a way to navigate through the patriarchy and through life in general. ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:19 Learning some stuff 9:46 Unlearning the crap 26:28 What this means for you If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Episodes mentioned:
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__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| The 6 behaviours of highly confident women | 30 Sep 2026 | 00:24:35 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. The title says it all. In this episode, we're going to discuss 6 behaviours that every highly confident woman needs. Remember, no one is born with the confidence of a mediocre man. We must consciously build the right behaviours while unlearning the crap taught to us through patriarchy. Episodes mentioned:
Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 4:28 1- Move more slowly 7:48 2- Be slightly overdressed 11:47 3- Stop fidgeting & touching yourself 12:54 4- Always say less than necessary 15:00 5- Avoid (over)explaining yourself 20:35 6- Never say anything self-deprecating If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| The 7 levels of consciousness of a woman living in the patriarchy | 23 Sep 2026 | 00:28:13 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. If patriarchy were the natural order, it wouldn't need violence, coercion, and brainwashing to uphold itself. In this episode, we're going to look at brainwashing (one of the top 3 fave tool of the patriarchy's PR team). What does it really look like to wake up from the trance and reach the other side of the veil? Also, I've come to realize that the more enlightened we become, the more we sound like conspiracy theories. Wackadoodle baddies unite! xo PS I highly recommend watching this on YouTube so you can see the visuals <3 Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:11 Level 1 3:29 Level 2 6:02 Level 3 9:08 Level 4 16:26 Level 5 19:07 Level 6 23:18 Level 7 If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Sources:
__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| The dark side of corporate (that your boss hides from you) | 16 Sep 2026 | 00:46:43 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. The role of a corporate worker is to make rich people more money (and this is coming from an ex-corporate employee). Corporate work feels meaningless because it deprives us of consciousness, monopolizes our time, divorces us from our labour, and gives us no purpose. I'll discuss each of these elements and map them along what I call the continuum of control/doom/misery. And keep an eye out for Joanne V Pious ;) PS I highly recommend watching this on YouTube so you can see the visuals <3 Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 5:17 Consciousness 17:32 Time 24:20 Interlude (Skit) 29:46 Labour 31:14 Purpose If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Sources:
__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| The satisfying downfall of the influencer economy | 09 Sep 2026 | 00:42:31 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Is it the end of the influencer era? In this episode I discuss the lies and exploitation keeping most influencers relevant. I'll also get into some data and history because the math ain't mathing y'all. PS I highly recommend watching this on YouTube so you can see the visuals <3 Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 10:12 Why do they all look the same? 13:26 The rise of the middle class influencer 17:33 How influencers prey on your insecurities 35:40 Is being anti-influencer a disguise for misogyny? If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Sources:
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__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Patriarchy Hack #38: Create an alter ego | 02 Sep 2026 | 00:30:34 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Creating an alter ego is a cheat code not only in navigating the patriarchy, but in navigating life. It enables us to create a version of ourselves that's not weighed down by our fears and limiting beliefs. It's no surprise so many celebrities have an alter ego...and that religions (literally) demonize people who channel them... ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:55 Unlearning the crap 18:49 The law in the wild 24:16 What this means for you 28:36 Exceptions and final thoughts If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Sources:
__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| I worked with some of the most powerful female execs: 7 things you need to know | 26 Aug 2026 | 00:30:21 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. I worked with some of the highest-ranking women in corporate Canada. Here are 7 behaviours I observed among all these women. As Machiavelli says in The Prince, appearances matter more than reality. Enjoy ;) Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:05 Behaviour 1 4:30 Behaviour 2 12:54 Behaviour 3 14:34 Behaviour 4 17:05 Behaviour 5 21:14 Behaviour 6 24:11 Behaviour 7 26:23 Bonus behaviour If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Episodes mentioned:
__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Has short form “women empowerment” content quietly redpilled you? | 19 Aug 2026 | 00:36:14 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Short form content has enshittified a lot of the discourse around women empowerment. A lot of “feminist” content has been condensed into easy to digest soundbites that follows a specific formula (which I’ll get into). In this episode I’m going to discuss three big cases of what I call “brain rot feminism” (aka pseudo women empowerment or choice feminism) that have probably shown up on your feed at some point. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 6:08 The formula 7:46 Example 1: Having a bf is embarrassing 18:09 Example 2: “As he should” 27:22 Example 3: Being a girl’s girl 32:30 The solution If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Episodes mentioned:
__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Machiavelli for Women Ep. 2: Beware the most dangerous type of friend | 12 Aug 2026 | 00:35:56 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Welcome to the second episode of Machiavelli for Women. In this series, I decode The Prince, one of the most controversial texts in history, to help women flip the patriarchy on its head. In this episode, I discuss the most dangerous type of friend in our circle. This person hides in plain sight and their danger might be dormant for years, until triggered. And sometimes, that dangerous friend is not even a person at all... BTW this article by Elizabeth Stice was my inspo for the AI angle of this discussion.
xoxoxo Neekolo Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:57 What Machiavelli says 13:04 Two reasons women aren't united 23:12 The MOST dangerous of all 29:48 How to take back control If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Music credit © Chœur des Marais, Villefranche sur Saône, Fr __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Patriarchy Hack #37: Always have one foot out | 05 Aug 2026 | 00:44:24 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Commitment and loyalty are glorified ways of infantilizing ourselves. Patriarchy needs to mentally capture women in order to function, and one of its PR team's favourite marketing tactics is "commitment." In this episode I'll discuss:
In a world full of sheep and wolves, be a fox. ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 6:02 Unlearning the crap 21:35 The law in the wild 27:32 What this means for you 41:00 Exceptions & final thoughts If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| There’s a big loophole in the patriarchy & it’s been hidden in ancient texts | 29 Jul 2026 | 00:43:12 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Patriarchy has made us believe we’re separate. It has pitted men against women, women against women, women against men. But this division is based on manufactured fear and scarcity. The truth is, we were never separate and we never can be. In fact, the ancients revealed five fundamental truths about humanity, the meaning of life, and what it means to be you. Those truths tell us exactly how to escape from the patriarchy. And it all starts with the consciousness you’re about to gain. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 6:34 The first truth 15:53 The second truth 21:53 The third truth 30:37 The fourth truth 34:43 The fifth truth If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps The inspiration behind this episode: https://youtu.be/ADYdypHZb2A Sources: __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Patriarchy’s secret that Disney tried warning us about | 22 Jul 2026 | 00:34:32 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Classic Disney villains aren't just baddies with red nails, colourful eyeshadows, and arched eyebrows, they're a goldmine of information. Just like its Hidden Mickeys, Disney left some hidden messages about patriarchy, female power, and self-actualization among its baddie villains. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 4:58 The first truth 19:39 The second truth 24:57 The third truth 32:21 Recap + closing thoughts If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Episodes mentioned:
__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Machiavelli for Women Ep. 1: Do NOTHING for men | 15 Jul 2026 | 00:28:23 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Welcome to the first episode of Machiavelli vs Patriarchy. In this series, I decode The Prince, one of the most controversial texts in history, to help women flip the patriarchy on its head. In this episode, I discuss the Machiavellian strategy of why we should never build up another person and apply it to relationship dynamics with men. xoxoxo Neekolo Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:22 What Machiavelli says 7:33 Why being in love makes you stupid 11:36 The sneaky way we're socialized 19:46 Why you've been doing too much for men If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Music credit © Chœur des Marais, Villefranche sur Saône, Fr Episodes mentioned:
__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Stop giving people the benefit of the doubt | 08 Jul 2026 | 00:22:51 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. First things first, make sure to watch until the VERY END of the episode...you'll know what I mean. Second of all, the benefit of the doubt is a way we've normalized gaslighting ourselves. We dismiss our intuition, which patriarchy deems un-empirical and unreliable, and give people chances they don't deserve. Rinse and repeat until we get burned enough times that we finally stop. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 1:23 We've glorified gaslighting ourselves 9:58 We act like doormats 16:49 The bad habits holding you back If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Episodes mentioned:
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| Patriarchy Hack #36: Avoid nostalgia like the plague | 01 Jul 2026 | 00:40:30 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Patriarchy fetishizes youth and disdains aging. On top of that, it also functions based on zero-sum thinking: that for you to succeed, someone else has to lose. Although these sound like a load of baloney, we're all mirroring these patriarchal mindsets.
That, in turn, keeps us in a debilitating cycle of nostalgia. We romanticize the past and become mentally stuck in a location we physically left. In this episode, we’ll discuss:
The past is dead, the future is unborn, and the only thing alive is the present.
✨ Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:05 How we mirror the patriarchy 7:23 4 bad habits to unlearn 18:48 Example- Charli XCX & brat 25:38 Your 7 new habits 36:39 Exceptions & final thoughts If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Episodes mentioned: 2016 collage in thumbnail created by Hannah Bell, Creative Director at The Concordian __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| The 5 habits that trigger people to lose respect for you | 24 Jun 2026 | 00:39:50 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚There are 20 other habits to unlearn, habits that the patriarchy groomed into you. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. No self-improvement journey is complete without unlearning our internalized patriarchy. This doesn't only manifest itself as macro-level behaviours, like being a huge pick me. Some habits are so subtle, they're almost hidden within our subconscious... Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:32 1- Saying "sorry" instead of "thank you" 10:19 2- Not ending your sentences 17:39 3- Using qualifiers to soften your contribution 23:29 4- Taking yourself too seriously 30:12 5- Being overly reactive If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Episodes mentioned: Life in a patriarchy is a game, and it’s time to win (listen on Spotify or Apple) The ultimate revenge: The psychological power of being unbothered (listen on Spotify or Apple) Patriarchy Hack #33: Trigger people’s need to prove themselves to you (listen on Spotify or Apple) Patriarchy Hack #Hack 34: Never argue, make them look stupid instead (listen on Spotify or Apple) __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| There's an entire side of patriarchy you know nothing about | 17 Jun 2026 | 00:41:48 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Read more about 20 ways to unlearn how the patriarchy groomed us. Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. The patriarchy is a textbook example of the law of inversion: what we see isn't the truth, it's a defence mechanism. In fact, the entire system is an institutionalized defence mechanism of Venus/womb envy and it's governed by slave morality (hi, Nietzsche). Flip what it tells you and that's when you get the truth. In this episode, I'll discuss 5 examples of how the patriarchy hides the truth in plain sight. I encourage you to do the same with anything presented to you as "truth" or "nature." Make sure to watch until the end to see a little satirical skit of the patriarchy's first PR meeting BTW you can listen to my episode the biological clock as a patriarchal myth on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube <3 Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 8:29 Lie 1- Women are naturally nurturing 11:25 Lie 2- Men are dominant because they're stronger 15:06 Lie 3- Women only have worth when they're of service 19:49 Lie 4- Men are scarce 26:56 Lie 5- The default is male If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Sources:
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| 5 sneaky examples of medical misogyny: which ones have you faced? | 10 Jun 2026 | 00:34:05 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want a better, expanded version of the first 20 Patriarchy Hacks in book format? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Women are not small men, yet for decades medical research has treated us as such. What's even worse is that women have been excluded from research because of our menstrual cycles. And what's even worser is that because of this bias, many girls and women get misdiagnosed, undiagnosed, and gaslit. In this episode I'll debunk some myths, share some useful information, and hopefully give you a starting point to do your own research. Disclaimer: I am not a medical, dental, or mental health professional and this video is not medical advice, dental, or mental health advice. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:14 Gender bias in ADHD diagnoses 7:31 Oral hygiene 16:16 Needing 6-8 hrs of sleep 19:39 Cold plunges/cold showers 25:01 Intermittent fasting If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps Sources:
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| Patriarchy Hack #35: Never do anything with the expectation of gratitude | 03 Jun 2026 | 00:40:14 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want a better, expanded version of the first 20 Patriarchy Hacks in book format? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Doing anything with the expectation that we’ll be appreciated and recognized is a surefire path to disappointment. However, it’s something many women and people pleasers continue doing.
In this episode, we’ll discuss:
Let’s stop appealing to the past. The past is dead, the future is unborn, and the only thing alive is the present. ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki Timestamps:
If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Your anger towards men is quietly marginalizing you | 27 May 2026 | 00:27:51 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Female rage can move mountains. As women, we have so much to be angry about, and rightfully so. However, many women get caught in the trap of channelling their anger towards men. Don't get me wrong, that anger is justified. But anger without an outlet becomes, at best, resentment, and worst, self-destruction. In this episode, I'll help you unlock a new level of consciousness about your anger and how it could be rooted in things you never thought of. I highly suggest you also listen to my episode "7 ways to make your feminine rage work for you" on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube. Timestamps:
If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| “Treat people how you want to be treated” is a scam | 20 May 2026 | 00:35:44 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. This week's episode is a bit counterintuitive. Every culture and religion (yikes) has a variation of "The Golden Rule": Treat people how you want to be treated. This principle has brainwashed many women into a false sense of fairness and reciprocity with the world. It keeps us running in a hamster wheel, waiting for a reward that never materializes. Worst of all, it makes us oblivious to the way the world really operates. Listen to find out how The Golden Rule may have damaged your relationships, and four new rules to replace it with. Timestamps:
If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| The ultimate revenge: The psychological power of being unbothered | 13 May 2026 | 00:27:57 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Your compulsion to argue, get the last word, or make someone "pay" for what they did to you is a projection. You think, "If I were in their shoes, I would've never done that." Well you're not in their janky Crocs. In this episode, I'll discuss:
Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:49 Why people want to trigger you 6:08 A textbook example of an energy vulture 12:37 The psychological power of being unbothered 15:58 How to be unbothered 20:50 The power of ambiguity If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Girly law of power #34: Never argue, make them look stupid instead | 06 May 2026 | 00:37:18 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Most of us are so caught up in arguing, trying to get the last word, or shattering someone's ego that we fail to realize how GOOFY we look. Not to mention arguing and trying to be understood are forms of emotional labour. So cut it out. Besides, why would you want to shatter someone's ego when you can trigger it? In this episode, you'll understand that real power is making your opponent look goofy, often without saying a word. I'll discuss: - Two things we need to unlearn - Why there's no such thing as winning an argument - The real reason people want you to argue with them - A crazy example of how I implemented this law - The silent, Machiavellian strategy of winning ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:08 Unlearning the crap (#1) 7:58 Unlearning the crap (#2) 17:16 The law in the wild (and I mean WILD) 23:19 What this means for you (#1) 30:17 What this means for you (#2) 34:59 Exceptions & final thoughts If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| The dark side of "sprinkle sprinkle" | 29 Apr 2026 | 00:42:51 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Over the last few years, Shera Seven's content has taken social media by storm. Her "sprinkle sprinkle" philosophy preaches that women should be gold diggers and marry a man solely based on his ability to financially provide. Don't get me wrong, I love the woman and agree with most of what she says. However, there are some flaws in her advice that at best, get bastardized and misinterpreted, and at worst, lead to deeply engrained patriarchy. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:00 Spending money on someone is a cop out 8:42 Reality isn't real, it's mediated 13:34 The 9 to 5 trap 19:36 The femininity trap 26:31 The dark side of sprinkle sprinkle 32:31 Do all men cheat? 38:57 What should we do? If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| You don't fear failure, you fear your own success | 22 Apr 2026 | 00:29:52 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Most of us want best for ourselves. We want the dream job, salary, house. But that's all it is: a want. You can't want something and have it at the same time. So you stay in a perpetual state of want to prevent yourself from getting the things you desire. Then you breathe a sigh of relief, because nothing has to change. Unfortunately, stagnation feels more comfortable than success because your brain and nervous system want to keep you safe and comfy. On top of that, you've internalized a lot of crap about how women should behave and what we should aspire to be. In this episode I'll discuss exactly how to stop standing in the way of your own success so you can finally build the life you deserve. BTW here's the lifetraps quiz I mentioned. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:15 Your body’s been programmed for misogyny 6:15 You’re a parasite to yourself 11:13 Reinvent yourself in 3 steps 20:51 A VERY important note 23:59 Never fear success again If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Life in a patriarchy is a game...and it's time to win | 15 Apr 2026 | 00:31:55 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Life is a game and it’s rigged. Some say we should opt out altogether. Others say we should play by the rules and hope for the best. There’s no shortage of terrible advice that will make us lose. We’re in the game whether we want to be or not, and it’s our responsibility to ourselves to win. Once you understand not just the code of the game, but the blueprint of the universe, hacking the game becomes a breeze. Life in a patriarchy is a game, and it’s time to win. It's time to hack the patriarchy. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:06 How we’re programmed to lose 7:32 Is it even possible to win? 10:47 Taking back control of reality 20:52 How to hack the game If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Your focus on healing is silently holding you back | 08 Apr 2026 | 00:25:16 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Healing is great. It's an act of self-love and self-care. However, healing won't prevent you from ending up in the same situation that hurt you. In fact, it's a way many women internalize the external abuse they've encountered, and think they're broken. People don't treat you better based on how healed you are, they treat you based on what you tolerate and what you believe you deserve. And as women, we've been groomed to tolerate a lot of crap. There's only one way to unlearn this grooming, and healing won't get you there. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:15 Why you're superstitious, even if you don't think so 8:06 The hidden agenda behind "healing" 14:52 You're not broken, but this type of person is 18:40 If healing isn't the answer, what is? If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Girly law of power #33: Trigger people’s need to prove themselves to you | 01 Apr 2026 | 00:37:30 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Most women think we need chase people/things. That's because patriarchy has brainwashed us to think we need to prove ourselves in order to affirm our self-worth. In this episode, I'll get into why the complete opposite is true. In fact, making women think they're the chasers rather than the choosers goes against the matriarchal nature of human beings. When we sit back and let people prove themselves to us, we trigger a very basic psychological need for validation. I call this being an anus and shifting the onus. In this episode, I’ll discuss:
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:48 Why proving yourself makes people respect you less 16:00 The law in the wild 19:39 Three ways to trigger people's psychological need to prove themselves 35:42 Exceptions & final thoughts If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| You're not mean enough | 25 Mar 2026 | 00:33:06 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the book that upset a bunch of fragile men? Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Niceness is a way of grooming women for extraction. We're brainwashed into thinking it's more important to be liked than to be respected, and we can only be liked by doing things for others. Not only does this set you up for failure, it also makes people much less likely to respect you. Sure, everyone likes the nice girl because they can use her, but no one respects her. And chances are, you're not mean enough. In this episode, I’ll discuss:
Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 2:13 The dangers of "nice girl" grooming 8:04 Niceness vs kindness 15:27 How to be mean & gain respect 29:00 Three mindsets every self-respecting woman needs If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| How to use mansplainers to your advantage | 18 Mar 2026 | 00:37:16 | |
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon! 📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Mansplainers are the unpaid interns of the patriarchy. Annoying, yes. Useful, also yes. In this episode, I break down a simple psychological formula that turns mansplaining into a strategic advantage. Because it’s time to stop playing fair in an unfair world. When you understand the psychology behind why someone feels the need to explain everything to you, the dynamic DRASTICALLY changes. Instead of shutting them down, you guide the conversation, lower their guard, and steer the interaction where you want it to go. Smart women don’t get mad. They redirect a mansplainer’s impulse to explain into leverage. This episode explains the same elicitation techniques used by intelligence professionals in agencies like the FBI and CIA. These methods help investigators gather information without triggering defensiveness. The same principles apply in everyday conversations, at work, in dating, and in social settings. I’ll discuss:
Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 3:30 How to use elicitation on mansplainers 9:10 Unlearning “nice girl” grooming 19:07 Join the Patreon 20:54 The psychological formula 33:41 Is this manipulative? If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| How to stop over explaining yourself: The hidden social rule you need to know | 11 Mar 2026 | 00:35:40 | |
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. In this episode, I talk about why so many women feel the need to keep explaining themselves. Over explaining often comes from people pleasing, fear of judgment, and subtle social power dynamics. Once you see the pattern, you start noticing how explaining yourself too much affects confidence, boundaries, and the way people (don't) respect you. I'll break down the psychology behind over explaining, why women do it, and the mindset shift that helps you stop explaining yourself and start being taken seriously. This episode is complimentary to the one directly preceding it (Girly law of power #32: Stop trying to be understood by everyone). PS I strongly recommend you listen to this with earphones to get the full experience. You'll see what I mean...because when I told y'all everything up until late 2025 was just a WARM UP!! This is the most intricately produced episode I've ever created. I'm so excited for you to listen. 0:00 Intro 3:32 Why women have a compulsion to over explain 12:52 How over explaining creates an ENERGY VACUUM 17:02 6 ways to stop over explaining yourself 31:43 My final gift to you If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Girly law of power #32: Stop trying to be understood by everyone | 04 Mar 2026 | 00:36:31 | |
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. We've made it to law #32! Not that it's a particularly important number...I'm just grateful to have all you baddies here <3 Being understood is bloody exhausting. It's also a way we get emotional safety, because we've been brainwashed to believe that our truth is only valid if others understand and accept it. What a load of baloney. In this episode, we're throwing out this rotten baloney by discussing:
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Everything you need to know about your menstrual cycle & how to sync it with your life | 25 Feb 2026 | 00:57:10 | |
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. In this episode, I break down every week of our menstrual cycle and to help you understand what’s happening hormonally, what your body needs from you, and how you can sync your cycle to your life. We’ll discuss:
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Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to each timestamp Sources: Ovulatory cycle effects on tip earnings by lap dancers: economic evidence for human estrus? Oxygen, Hormones, and Performance: A Case Study of Menstrual Cycle Effects on Athletic Physiology The effect of diet and aerobic exercise on Premenstrual Syndrome: Randomized controlled trial The Estrobolome: The Gut Microbiome-Estrogen Connection Women’s body odour during the ovulatory phase modulates testosterone and cortisol levels in men __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Smart women can’t afford to romanticize love | 18 Feb 2026 | 00:34:49 | |
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. From the time we're little girls, we're taught that romantic love is something we should aspire to. That when we grow up, we have to find Mr. Right and marry him for love. And if we don't marry for love, we're shallow, demanding, gold diggers. The real gold diggers are men who sell the myth of romantic love, because they have nothing else to offer. In this episode, we'll map out romantic love to the 4 rungs of the marketing funnel (awareness, consideration, conversion, loyalty) and discuss how love has been used as a recruitment strategy by the patriarchy.
__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Can you trust your coworkers? | 11 Feb 2026 | 00:45:35 | |
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. In this highly-requested episode, we’re going to discuss the question everyone’s asked at some point: Can you trust your coworkers? Because I’m a Machiavellian Barbie and not just some sheep, I’m going to go WAY deeper than anyone ever has when discussing this question. We’ll talk about:
9 types of people to watch out for:
10 ways to protect yourself:
Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 mins to each timestamp __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Girly law of power #31: Be the fantasy woman | 04 Feb 2026 | 00:41:20 | |
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. People don't want the truth, they want what's going to make them feel better. And that's exactly what the fantasy woman does. Too many women are caught up in the Righteousness Olympics, and think they have to be 100% honest all the time. LOL. Imagine playing fair in an unfair, patriarchal world. In this episode, we'll discuss:
Timestamps:
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| Why the biological clock is a damaging patriarchal myth | 28 Jan 2026 | 00:35:01 | |
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or purchase the signed paperback, PDF or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. You won't believe what I'm about to tell you. Women don't have a "biological clock." That term was coined by journalist Richard Cohen in his misogynistic 1978 article "The Clock Is Ticking For The Career Woman." This article hits the two Ps (pseudoscience and patriarchy) and does what these silly Ps do best: rush women into motherhood and shame them for prioritizing their careers. In the words of Kesha, "Tik tok on the clock but the party don't stop." Because for women, the party truly doesn't stop. That's why humans are one of the only mammals with menopause. In fact, research is finding that MEN have a biological clock, and it begins ticking around age 35. Sources:
__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| 7 lessons that will save you from a toxic relationship (I spent 5 years in one) | 21 Jan 2026 | 00:35:16 | |
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. This episode is a listener requested topic on my origin story. I'll briefly discuss the god awful relationship I was in for 5 YEARS. Then I'll discuss 7 lessons we can all learn so we never make the same mistakes I did.
Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to these timestamps. __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| 7 ways to make your feminine rage work for you | 14 Jan 2026 | 00:30:56 | |
📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. Feminine/female rage is the righteous anger we feel at a world that subjugates and violates us daily. Female rage has become a ubiquitous topic, but it’s time we discuss how to channel it productively. Unresolved anger turns into resentment, hatred, and psychosomatic symptoms like digestive issues and migraines. And guess what – we’re not contestants in the Suffering Olympics like Victimella is. So let’s put our female rage to work.
Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to these timestamps. Here’s Shelby K Morrison’s podcast, The Serpent Signal, I mentioned. 🎶 Music credit: Mozart - Requiem in D minor - K. 626 IIIf Lacrimosa © Chœur des Marais, Villefranche sur Saône, Fr. __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Girly law of power #30: Use people’s big egos to your advantage | 07 Jan 2026 | 00:36:07 | |
❤️🩹 Try Stress Less by Semaine Health, a clinically formulated gummy designed to support healthier stress response and cortisol balance. Use code NEEKI20 for 20% off. 📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. What people show you isn't their true selves, it's their defence mechanisms. And if you look just beneath the surface, you'll see exactly what they're trying to hide. In fact, if you look deep enough, you might even see yourself. In this episode, I'll discuss:
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| The 5 love languages: Genuine advice or Christian control in disguise? | 31 Dec 2025 | 00:54:33 | |
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. Most people think the five love languages are a pop psychology phenomenon. However, they're not rooted in psychology at all. The origins of the five love languages are closer to the Bible than to science, and they were never made as a tool to help women in their relationships. That's because they were created by Baptist preacher Gary Chapman, a man who's trained in Biblical counselling. His background involves no scientific or psychological training. The crazy thing is, that isn't even the most problematic part. I read Chapman's book, The 5 Love Languages, and in this episode I critically dissect his theory from a feminist lens in a way no one's ever done before. I'll discuss:
Sources:
__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| I turn 28 tomorrow & I'm terrified of aging | 24 Dec 2025 | 00:24:55 | |
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. Tomorrow is my 28th birthday & I want to open up about a fear I've had for most of my 20s: aging. __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| Patriarchy demonized gossip because it hates when women speak | 17 Dec 2025 | 00:41:12 | |
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. Most of us think of gossip as something malicious. However, for centuries, gossip had no negative connotation. A woman's "gossip" were her close friends, and female friendships were a form of social power that gave women's lives fulfillment and security. It all became topsy turvy in the 16th century, when the church combined forces with labour guilds (you'll see what I mean). That's when gossip became demonized into something malicious, aggressive, and bitchy. Because patriarchy and early capitalism needed quiet, subservient women in order to function. In this episode, we'll discuss:
Sources:
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| Religion groomed girls so we'd never realize Woman is god | 10 Dec 2025 | 00:55:40 | |
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. Have you ever wondered why every Abrahamic religion treats menstruating women as dirty and spiritually contaminated? That’s because religion took creation – something that’s uniquely feminine – and attributed it to a male god. And because it couldn’t erase the physical evidence of female creation, it warped it into something shameful and impure. In this episode, I roll up my sleeves and answer the questions many of us are afraid to ask. I’ll discuss:
✨ God isn’t a woman. Woman is god. 📚 Get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or purchase the EPUB file. Sources:
__________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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| SUNDAY SCHOOL: The real reason you keep getting ghosted | 07 Dec 2025 | 00:10:08 | |
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. Have you ever wondered why someone ghosted you? I bet you felt pretty crappy afterward, and spent days thinking of something you said or did that pushed the person away. You probably replayed your interactions over and over again to spot where it all went wrong. I have some good news for you that will settle the question of "Why do I keep getting ghosted" once and for all. After this episode, you'll never ask that question again, I guarantee it. Thanks for tuning in to my new weekly mini-series, Sunday School, where I share a small lesson from my new book, How to Hack the Patriarchy. This one's from Patriarchy Hack 4: Never Take Anything Personally. __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:
👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created. __________
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| Girly law of power #29: Stop being afraid of being alone | 03 Dec 2025 | 00:47:44 | |
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. Society tells us the major “accomplishments” in a woman’s life are getting married and having kids. Both of which are actions that bring people into her life. Unfortunately, most of what’s celebrated in women is about distracting us from our power and finding ourselves in other people. On top of that, there’s so much fear instilled in us: “Who’s going to take care of you when you’re old?” “Your biological clock is ticking!” “Who’s going to protect you?” “You’re happy now but what about when you’re 50 and alone?” There’s only ONE thing guaranteed in your life: your relationship with yourself. So why is it that so many women are terrified of being alone? In this episode we discuss:
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________
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