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| 8 types of anti-seducers: are you one of them? | 02 Jul 2025 | 00:36:05 | |
Welcome to part 2 of my two-part series on 🌹seduction🌹 If you've ever felt frustrated that people don't seem to listen to you and take you seriously, or if you struggle with hyper-independence, self-sabotage, and masculine tendencies -- this is for you babe. This episode is all about 🥀anti-seduction🥀 and how it might be interfering with your ability to navigate and hack the patriarchy. We discuss:
Let's put our insecurities by the curb where they belong. 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #20: Master the art of non-sexual seduction | 25 Jun 2025 | 00:42:29 | |
WE HIT LAW 2️⃣0️⃣!!! To celebrate making it to this milestone, I’ve prepared a 2-part series for you on 🌹seduction🌹 If you're listening to this today, you're one of the OG baddies and I'm sosososo grateful for you ❤️ In this episode, I’m going to discuss how you can use the art of non-sexual seduction to grease people up (especially men), put them under your enchantment, and get what you want from them. Next week's episode will be about 🥀anti-seduction🥀 Because this is a special episode, we’re going to uno reverse the patriarchy onto the boys and dive into a patriarchy loophole that affects men. We’ll discuss:
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #16: Master the art of silence | 30 Apr 2025 | 00:31:13 | |
A big flaw of the patriarchy is that it assumes power is loud. The good news for the girlies is that because there’s so much emphasis on being loud and obnoxious, the power behind silence is completely neglected. That's where law 16 comes into play. But also...WHY IS IT that when a man is quiet, he's "thoughtful." But when a woman is quiet she's "lost, confused, disengaged, a stupid idiot, blahblahblah..." Not only are we labelled a hundred things when we're quiet, but we're also expected to be people pleasers and fill the silence to make sure other people are comfortable. At our expense. Because silence is pretty uncomfortable. Well guess what, in this episode we're going to discuss:
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| The Pinkprint of Power: CEO Daniel Pillai discusses that when women lead, the fabulous rise | 23 Apr 2025 | 00:48:31 | |
I'm joined by Daniel Pillai, the Head Bitch in Charge (or the President & CEO, if we want to use technical terms) of Langton PR - a public relations & creative agency in Toronto, Canada. Daniel came from a cultural background where he was expected to become a doctor/lawyer/engineer, marry a woman, and live a nice, traditional life. So when he came out as gay, started a career in TV, and eventually became the CEO of a PR firm, I guess we can say he broke a cultural norm or two. Daniel shares his journey of self-discovery, navigating fear & imposter syndrome, and what happens when you work in female-dominated spaces. Oh and we close the episode with a tarot card reading🔮 🎀 Follow Daniel's personal and tarot pages on Instagram 💘 Follow Langton PR on Instagram 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #15: Let people underestimate you | 16 Apr 2025 | 00:25:51 | |
Some guy from the 1600s is quoted saying "the truth is generally seen, rarely heard." That's the basis of this law, which is one of the sneakier girly laws of power. In this episode we're going to discuss:
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Beauty with a backbone: How Jenn Harper turned a 3 A.M. dream into a clean beauty empire | 09 Apr 2025 | 01:00:00 | |
I sat down to talk with Jenn Harper, the founder & CEO of Cheekbone Beauty Cosmetics - the biggest Indigenous-founded beauty brand in Canada. Jenn opens up about mental health, intergenerational trauma, and the way she turned her life around by refusing to let her challenges define who she is. This conversation was so special, and Jenn shared some very personal and vulnerable moments. Regardless of where you are in life, I’m sure you’ll resonate with her story and learn a thing or two about yourself 🩷 I definitely did. 💄Follow Cheekbone on Instagram and TikTok 👸Follow Jenn on Instagram and LinkedIn 🌐 Shop Cheekbone products on their website (use code NEEKI20 for 20% off - FYI this Barbie will get a small commission!), Sephora Canada, and JCPenny Jenn founded Cheekbone Beauty in 2015. The company’s journey began as an online business that took pride in its commitment to reducing environmental impact and supporting Indigenous communities. In 2019, Jenn appeared on Dragon's Den. She turned down the Dragons’ offers and went on to steer Cheekbone towards exponential growth, including contracts with major retailers in North America. This placed Cheekbone on equal footing with global industry giants. Cheekbone products are now sold in Sephora Canada and JCPenney in the USA. Jenn is a voice for topics that are reshaping the business landscape: social entrepreneurship, empathy, representation, inclusivity, and sustainability. In 2022, Jenn was listed among the 100 Women of Influence by Entrepreneur Magazine (a list graced by the likes of Jennifer Lopez and Kim Kardashian). In 2023, Jenn was conferred an Honorary Doctorate degree from the Goodman School of Business at Brock University. This honorary degree recognized her dedication to community betterment and sustainability. In 2024, Jenn was also named as one of Canada’s Top 100 Most Powerful Women. 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #14: Always be the centre of attention | 02 Apr 2025 | 00:28:14 | |
We live in a world where women are judged by their appearances. Instead of complaining about it, let’s flip the script and work backwards. Let’s decide how we want to be perceived, then dress for the part. That way, we’re in control of the narrative. Let the world judge us by our appearance allllllll it wants. In this episode we’ll discuss:
I highly recommend you listen to law 9 (act like a queen to be treated like one) and law 3 (so much depends on your looks, use that to your advantage), as they have many parallels to this law! ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| I answer your messy (and I mean MESSY) dating questions | 26 Mar 2025 | 00:28:30 | |
You asked and I answered! This episode is another unscripted one, but with a twist. I’m answering your messy dating-related questions. Be sure to follow me on IG so you can participate in my next call for questions/stories 💓 2:00 - When is it ok to go 50/50 on a date? 2:15 - What would you do if you were with a rich provider man and you find out he cheated? 5:23 - The guy I’ve been casually seeing since January asked for me to share my location. I did but he never shared it back, and when I asked him about it he said he wants to make sure I’m safe. Should I believe him? 7:02 - Which Disney princess are you and why is it Shrek? 7:21 - Would you date someone who was religious or has different religious beliefs as you? 7:48 - What are your thoughts on having a roster? 14:55 - How would you tell someone you don’t want to date them because they live with their parents? 15:43 - If a man doesn’t listen and I end up being right, how would you respond to his behaviour? 18:19 - Is it ok to date two people and still feel single? 20:20 - Drop your haircare routine 21:36 - Have you ever picked up a guy for a date? 21:41 - Have you ever dated a mutual friend and didn’t tell that mutual friend? 22:51 - How do I ask situationships to pay for things? Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #13: Think of everything as a business to ensure the best outcome for yourself | 19 Mar 2025 | 00:25:36 | |
If your relationships were a business would you be bankrupt because you're giving too much? Probably.... As women, we need to get better at standing on business. That's why we need to start thinking of things as a business. And take a shot every time I say "business." In this episode, we'll discuss:
✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| How to be a bitch 💄 (with Cami Sophia) | 12 Mar 2025 | 00:45:40 | |
Today we're joined by the lovely Cami Sophia as we discuss one of the best books of all time, Why Men Love Bitches. The fact that this author hasn't won a Nobel Prize is beyond me. The pretty girls are already familiar with what we mean by "bitch," but in case you need a refresher - a bitch is a woman who holds her own, doesn't need anyone's acceptance, and doesn't compromise on her standards. Aka she's someone who loves herself unconditionally. In this episode, we get into:
Love, Neeki xo 📍Follow Cami on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube 🌐 Check out her other links here 🎧 Listen to Cami’s podcast, With Intention on Spotify or Apple 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #12: Receive more than you give to be treated like a princess | 05 Mar 2025 | 00:29:57 | |
In order to take advantage of the patriarchy and be the universe's passenger princess, you need to be comfortable in the receiver role. That means you're able to receive favours, gifts, compliments, help, etc. I understand that lots of women struggle with being comfortable as a receiver (I struggled with this for a long time). That's why law #12 is all about how to RECEIVE 💕 In this episode, we'll discuss:
✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| The science behind delulu is the solulu, manifestations & emotional fitness (with Dr Laura Beavin-Yates) | 26 Feb 2025 | 00:49:08 | |
HELLO IT’S OUR FIRST GUEST EPISODE💓 You know how I always tell you that mentally I’m in Barbieland and I’m kind of delusional? Well it turns out that having a positive worldview can actually rewire our brains. You don’t have to take my word for it, that’s why I invited a scientist onto the show. Today, the baddest bitch in the building is Dr. Laura Beavin-Yates, PhD. She’s the Chief Marketing Officer of SIX, an app which helps you measure and find the hidden moments in your daily life that shape your emotional wellbeing. The app uses 20 years of neuroscience research and links to your wearable technology (e.g. your Apple Watch) to pick up the automatic signals your brain sends throughout the day and measure how your body responds to different experiences. Prior to filming this episode, I used the app and found out some fascinating stuff about my daily activities. In this episode we discuss:
This episode is especially relevant for anyone who feels like they’re in a rut or struggling to find their spark. Love, Neeki xo 📍Follow SIX on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, and LinkedIn 🌐 Learn more about SIX on their website 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| How morality has held women back for millennia | 18 Jun 2025 | 00:52:39 | |
I'm back with Talia and we're discussing one of our fave topics: mOraLitY. In this chaotic convo we dive into:
🩷 Visit Talia's office hours on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #11: Use the power of suggestion to always get your way | 19 Feb 2025 | 00:33:54 | |
People don't like being told what to do. But you need people to do things. So WHAT is a girl to do?!? A girl needs to stop telling people to outright do things, and she needs to learn how to use the power of suggestion. Using the power of suggestion is like planting a seed, and letting the other person fill in the gaps. You want your man to buy you flowers? Start admiring flowers when you go out and stopping by flower shops to smell a bouquet. I mean, you could ask him to get you flowers...but the magical thing about nagging your partner is that it makes him do the exact opposite of what you want. And you also don't want to set the precedent of "if she wants something, she'll just ask." The same applies to friendships, work, roommates, and all other dynamics . In this episode, we’ll discuss:
✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Unscripted: Is marriage a scam? | 12 Feb 2025 | 00:23:32 | |
Hello to all the pretty girls tuning in…so hello everyone. Y’all asked for more unscripted episodes, so that’s what I’m bringing to the table today. Here’s some context for the new baddies: In between the girly laws of power, I'll be dropping these off the cuff, unscripted episodes. 24 hours before filming, I put a poll on my Instagram story for the baddies to pick a topic. The one with the most votes becomes the topic of the episode. There was actually a tie in the last poll, “is marriage a scam” and “are pick mes a product of the patriarchy” both got 44% of the vote! We’re going with the marriage topic, since a lot of you have messaged me over the last few weeks asking me to talk about whether marriage is a scam for women. Which is surprising given I’m not married nor have I ever been!!!! Anywhoooo I hope you enjoy hearing me yap about this. Let me know what you think - is marriage a scam? Or are there ways for women to negotiate a favourable outcome for themselves? I'll be responding to all comments and DMs 🩷 Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #10: Be selective with who you give your truth | 05 Feb 2025 | 00:26:52 | |
As a woman, your truth is one of the most sacred and valuable things you have. What I mean by your truth is all your life experiences, thoughts, goals, insecurities, traumas….everything that makes you, YOU. Your truth is a garden that most people don’t deserve to access. The problem is that the patriarchy understands how valuable a woman’s truth is, and people are lying to you from every direction to try and access your truth. Telling the truth isn’t the default for most people. In this episode, we’ll discuss: - The different tiers of people who want to access your truth - An example of a silly man from the 1500s who made it known he was using the truth for bad intentions, and how people came together to send him on a 2000-mile wild goose chase for 1.5 years - A technique for testing someone’s reaction to your truth, without actually sharing your truth and making yourself vulnerable - How and why withholding your truth is different from “lying” ✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Unscripted: Is building a career a capitalist scam? | 29 Jan 2025 | 00:25:26 | |
The baddies asked and I have delivered. I'M DROPPING WEEKLY EPISODES!!! In between the girly laws of power, I'll be dropping these off the cuff, unscripted episodes. 24 hours before filming, I put a poll on my instagram story for the baddies to pick a topic. The one with the most votes becomes the topic of the episode. The baddies chose "is building a career a capitalist scam," so that's what we're yapping about today. I share my own experiences of getting my soul sucked by working in a corporate job. After working with CEOs, execs, and boards, I've seen some STUFF. And I lived to tell the tale. I'll also discuss a way to save ourselves from the dementors. I feel like this might (??) be less applicable to jobs in certain fields (e.g. healthcare, teaching, etc.). But the capitalism pandemic is everywhere, so I'm curious to hear from the non corporate baddies. Drop a comment and lmk! I'll be responding to all comments 🩷 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #9: Act like a queen to be treated like one | 23 Jan 2025 | 00:33:39 | |
We keep getting told to “know our worth” but like…how much is our worth? In the same way that Hermes will charge $50,000 for a bag, we can set our own price and make it as high as we want. The only catch is that we have to actually believe we’re worth that much. In this episode, we’ll discuss: - How to set your price, believe your worth, and stand on business - Why the way you carry yourself reflects what you think of yourself - How to set yourself apart from other people by using what I call the triple Ds (not to be confused with double Ds): 1. Dignified: Having unconditional self love 2. Different: Choosing not to blend in 3. Distinctly feminine: Being feminine in the way you act and dress (heavy on the “acting”) And guess what. Men have to be loud and obnoxious to command attention. Women can literally just ✨enchant✨ people with their presence. So we’re also going to talk about how to do that. ✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #8: Know when to act dumb to get what you want | 09 Jan 2025 | 00:33:41 | |
There’s a Japanese proverb that says, “The nail that sticks up will be hammered down.” A lot of the time, showing people how smart you are works in the opposite way you intended. People will feel envious, threatened, and jealous. So…sometimes, the smartest thing you can do is to play dumb. In this episode, we’ll discuss:
Here are my viral/popular reels that I mentioned: And here’s the book I referenced, “Why Men Love Bitches” ✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #7: Remove guilt from your emotions | 11 Dec 2024 | 00:26:31 | |
If you want something, it's because you KNOW you deserve it. And if that makes you feel uneasy, then it's time to talk about guilt - the most useless emotion to ever exist. In this episode we dive into:
Let's get rid of this stupid guilt!! Let me know your thoughts in the comments 🩷 ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #6: To succeed at anything, you must be emotionally detached | 28 Nov 2024 | 00:24:43 | |
Hello to all the pretty girls (so hello everyone, because I know only pretty bitches listen to this podcast). In this episode, we're getting into law #6: to succeed at anything (and I mean ANYTHING), you must be emotionally detached. We'll be discussing:
✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #5: Appeal to peoples' self interest when asking for anything | 15 Nov 2024 | 00:24:00 | |
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. Hello to all the returning baddies and welcome to the new baddies tuning into the podcast! In this episode, we're getting into Law #5: Appeal to peoples' self interest when asking for anything. This is sososo important for getting what you want!! We'll be discussing:
✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #4: Never take anything personally | 17 Oct 2024 | 00:19:21 | |
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. Let the baddies know I'm back and ready with another Law of Power for the girly pops. In this episode, we're getting into Law #4: Never take anything personally. We all know this in theory, but there's a lot more to it. We'll be discussing: - Why the way people treat you has nothing to actually do with you (hint: it's a reflection of how they feel about themselves) - An example of a situation we prob all took personally (getting ghosted) - How to separate your sense of self from peoples' opinions of you - How you're setting yourself back from reaching your goals when you take things personally ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #19: Treat your demons as your employees | 11 Jun 2025 | 00:42:15 | |
We've been socialized to hide half of who we are. To repress traits that would help our success, like assertiveness, ambition, and self-prioritization. To be nice, agreeable, non-confrontational girls. To be the version of the woman who keeps the patriarchy alive. I say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! In this episode, we discuss:
I know this episode is longer than usual, and that's because we're going to go through 5 common traits/emotions that most women suppress, including their job titles, job descriptions, and how you can flip the script & make them serve you. It's time to put these hoes on your payroll! Btw here's the lifetraps quiz ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #3: SO MUCH depends on your looks, use that to your advantage | 16 Aug 2024 | 00:28:11 | |
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. Another Law of Power for the girls! In this episode, we're getting into Law #3: So much depends on your looks, use that to your advantage. This one is going to be controversial, but it had to be said. Here's what we'll be discussing: - EVERYONE judges people first on their appearance - The cheat code to hacking the patriarchy (hint: get ahead of most men by fitting the right feminine "stereotype") - How to come across as more feminine - The way men are hard wired to trust beautiful women, and how to take advantage of that - An example of how Bethenny Frankel (a famous multimillionaire) got turned away at the Chanel store for the way she looked ✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:
About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created. 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #2: Stop being guided by right & wrong | 17 Jul 2024 | 00:22:12 | |
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. We're back with the Laws of Power for the girls! In this episode, we're getting into Law #2: stop being guided by right & wrong. We'll be discussing: - Why we shouldn't play fair in an unfair world - How "morality" is a made up concept - Why the only moral compass you should be using is your self interest - How no one got to the pinnacle of success by worrying about what's RiGhT oR wRoNg - An example of how Jennifer Lopez went from barely being a backup dancer to being one of the richest women in Hollywood (hint: she didn't get there by being a good person) ✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:
About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created. 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #1: Don't be humble | 05 Jul 2024 | 00:30:38 | |
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. Hello to all the baddies. You may have read or heard of "The 48 Laws of Power." That book is amazing and I highly recommend it, but if you've read it, you probably noticed that it's very...masculine. Well guess what?!? I'm launching a new series: The Hidden Laws of Power (for women). This is a feminine twist on the Laws of Power, with emphasis on how we can take advantage of the systems that are meant to control us (e.g. the patriarchy, women's beauty standards). It's basically a series of life hacks. In this episode, we're discussing Law #1: Don't be humble. We'll be getting into: - Why humility is a scam and how it's meant to control us - How to use humility and confidence to push our self interest (and when to pretend to be humble) - An example of how one of the greatest scientists of all time, known as a "humble genius," didn't get a lick of recognition for his work - How to stop being humble while not coming off as a douchebag ✨Hope you love it and can use this Law to make your dreams come true. About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:
About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created. 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| The ultimate patriarchy hack: being childfree (ft. "The Girl With The List" aka @z00mie) | 04 Jun 2025 | 00:58:42 | |
I’m sure many of y’all know Abigail Porter aka @z00mie aka “The Girl With The List.” Abigail has built a following of over 1 million people with her content on destigmatizing the childfree lifestyle and educating women on what having kids is really like. 🍒 Follow Abigail on TikTok and Instagram, and check out her upcoming merch line here PS remember to take your birth control!! 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #18: Refuse labels and become a shapeshifter | 28 May 2025 | 00:37:59 | |
The woman no one can label is the woman no one can control, because you can't control what you can't define. In this episode, we discuss:
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| 💍 Discussing patriarchal roots of wedding traditions & debunking wedding myths (with Victoria Alario, host of For the Girls podcast) | 21 May 2025 | 00:53:14 | |
I sit down with confidence coach Victoria Alario to discuss how she planned her wedding in under a year with no stress and burnout, and without losing herself in the process. If you’re planning a wedding or think that it will be "the best day of your life," this one's for you. We discuss:
🤍 Follow Victoria on Instagram and TikTok 🎧 Listen to For the Girls on Spotify, Apple, or YouTube 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Life is a game & it's time to win 💕 [podcast trailer] | 14 May 2025 | 00:02:27 | |
Welcome to all the bad bitches. Bum bitches stay on lookout. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #17: Act like a winner before you even won | 14 May 2025 | 00:33:08 | |
💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, a 1-minute read that will change the way you see the world, delivered twice monthly on Fridays The difference between victims and winners is that winners act on circumstances, while victims wait for circumstances to be fair. Which they never will be. As women, we need to master the art of acting like a winner, even when we feel like a big fat loser. In this episode, we discuss:
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Why dating apps have ruined dating for women & where to look instead (with Princezz Talia) | 07 May 2025 | 00:48:43 | |
Dating apps are one of the worst things to happen to humanity in the 21st century. In this episode,Talia & I discuss:
💙 Follow Talia on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #21: Stop giving the benefit of the doubt | 09 Jul 2025 | 00:44:56 | |
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. If you're a sharp, clever woman but you find yourself being taken advantage of, this law is for you. While grace and forgiveness can be good things, giving most people the benefit of the doubt is a naive thing to do, especially as a woman. Because who benefits? Not you. On top of that, we're often told that our intuition isn't reliable and we should focus on the cold, hard facts...which is idiotic because a gut feeling is the OUTCOME of empirical INPUTS that our brain has gathered unconsciously. So yeah, it's hard to explain why we have a gut feeling. But that doesn't make it any less valid. In this episode, we'll discuss:
Btw here's the article I mentioned on short-term thinking ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Is falling in love a patriarchal trap? | 30 Jul 2025 | 00:42:37 | |
As little girls, many of us fantasize about falling in love and getting married. But boys don't do the same. Men don't romanticize falling in love, getting married, and being husbands in the way women do. It's not their life's goal to fall in love. They don't see marriage as an accomplishment. In this episode, we'll get into the truth behind "love." I'll discuss what's really happening to our brains and hormones when we're "falling in love" (hint: it's a chemical reaction to push us to reproduce). Then we'll get into the social elements of falling in love, including the creation of marriage, and how love was weaponized as a tool to control women from the very start. Btw here's the book The Female Brain by Dr. Louann Brizendine 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #22: Use elicitation to bypass gatekeepers & egos | 23 Jul 2025 | 00:30:56 | |
This one's crazy because we'll be discussing how to use an FBI-backed technique to get past the gatekeepers and the egos controlling the patriarchy. Because when we really boil it down, the patriarchy is just a bunch of insecure dudes who've institutionalized gatekeeping. We'll discuss:
Btw here's Chase Hughes, the former military chief and expert on elicitation ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Beware of "woke" men, they're dangerous | 13 Aug 2025 | 00:31:54 | |
We tend to think that the alpha, macho men are dangerous because of their superiority complex (which is rooted in an inferiority complex). BUT what if I told you there's a category of men who are even more dangerous? They have a hidden agenda, a goal in mind, and they're clever enough to know how to push a woman's buttons. In this episode (whose topic you baddies voted on!), I get into why we need to be cautious of "woke" men (let's call them the deltas), especially romantically and professionally. PS THE PATREON IS NOW LIVE!!! If you'd like to join our private community, complete monthly adventures on a specific patriarchy hack, get voting power on which girly law drops next, and unlock monthly bonus episodes, make sure to join here 🩷 (I've also opened up additional, limited spots to work with me 1:1!!!) 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 🖥️ Watch this episode on YouTube 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #23: Stop competing with other women | 06 Aug 2025 | 00:30:50 | |
Scarcity leads to competition which leads to dehumanization. One of the gears that keeps the patriarchy turning is zero-sum thinking -- the belief that there's only a fixed amount of success, power, attention, or value to go around. So if someone else gets more, you must get less. This brainwashes us into believing in a scarcity mindset, which keeps us in the eternal rat race. Instead of seeing other women as allies, we perceive them as threats. Jealousy and envy oil the wheels of the patriarchy, and zero-sum thinking keeps those wheels turning on autopilot. We'll discuss:
The opposite of competing isn't collaborating -- it's creating. As women, we already ARE creators. It's time to exit the rat race and get back in touch with the essence of our being. ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo PS THE PATREON IS NOW LIVE!!! If you'd like to join our private community, complete monthly adventures on a specific patriarchy hack, get voting power on which girly law drops next, and unlock monthly bonus episodes, make sure to join here 🩷 (I've also opened up additional, limited spots to work with me 1:1!!!) 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 🖥️ Watch this episode on YouTube 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Girly law of power #24: Let go of the need to be liked | 20 Aug 2025 | 00:30:35 | |
We're taught from a very young age that our social acceptance depends on being liked. However, the patriarchy assumes women will always want to be liked, so it relies on that desire to keep us compliant & constantly seeking social approval. The thing is, most people don't even like themselves. So who cares if they don't like you. Besides, you're in a much better position to get what you want from the world when you don't give two hoots what others think. In this episode, we get into:
Oh and enjoy the extremely unserious skit at the beginning of this episode. ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| I haven't been feeling like myself lately | 14 Sep 2025 | 00:21:05 | |
Not gonna lie, editing this icked me out. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| The truth about online "divine femininity" | 10 Sep 2025 | 00:39:41 | |
Being a woman is a gift, it's the highest form of being. Everything exists because of a woman, and we should celebrate and love ourselves unconditionally. Lately, there’s been a wave of online “divine femininity” content that looks empowering at first… but it’s really patriarchy dressed up as spirituality. It tells women that to be “in our feminine” we need to sit back, receive, and let men lead, provide, and decide. In this episode, I discuss:
If you’ve ever scrolled past those videos about “being in your feminine” and felt something was off, this episode is for you.
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| Girly law of power #25: Treat excuses as data, not truth | 03 Sep 2025 | 00:45:37 | |
"People never do something just once" - Robert Greene There's no such thing as an isolated incident, because people's actions are always part of a pattern of behaviour. However, the patriarchy made us believe the complete opposite, because accepting excuses keeps power where it is. The patriarchy is based on repetition: people repeat the same behaviours, institutions repeat the same patterns, cultures repeat the same stories. The thing is, excuses are data, they reveal so much info!!! They're breadcrumbs people leave behind because they're not careful in covering their tracks... In this episode, we'll discuss:
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo
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| Why people pleasing traps you in mental poverty | 27 Aug 2025 | 00:24:17 | |
People pleasing is rooted in superstitions like "If I give everything, then I'll finally be enough" and "If someone likes me, then I'll finally like myself." This way of thinking puts us in mental poverty, which keeps us trapped in survival mode. It's perfect for people who want to exploit our lack of boundaries, and it's harmful for us in every way.
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| Girly law of power #26: Stop being so available | 17 Sep 2025 | 00:29:10 | |
We've been bamboozled into thinking that the more we're present and the more we prove ourselves, the more people will respect us. This is a load of crap. The truth is that the more people see you, the less they notice you. They'll take you for granted and respect you less. In this episode, we'll discuss:
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg 💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg 💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com 🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon 💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays 💄 Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
| Why the nuclear family keeps patriarchy alive [pt. 2/5] | 15 Oct 2025 | 00:25:58 | |
The nuclear family wasn’t built for love – it was built for labour. In the second episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership, we break down how the nuclear family became an economic machine that keeps both systems alive. From the rise of private property to the post-war suburban ideal, this episode exposes how family structure was engineered to reproduce patriarchy generation after generation. If you’ve ever questioned why “traditional family values” always seem to benefit men and corporations, this episode explains the architecture behind it. Stay until the end for a cliffhanger on how women’s financial independence disrupted men’s role – by accident 😉 Keywords: nuclear family, patriarchy explained, capitalism, feminism, gender roles, unpaid labor, domestic work, women and work, feminist podcast, feminist theory, family and capitalism, women’s history About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:
About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.
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| How patriarchy started [pt. 1/5] | 10 Oct 2025 | 00:17:59 | |
Patriarchy wasn’t born – it was built. In the first episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership, we break down how power, property, and control over women’s labor built the world’s oldest system of domination – one that still shapes our lives today. This is the blueprint of male power, the origin story patriarchy doesn’t want you to know. If you’ve ever wondered where patriarchy came from or how it keeps itself alive, this episode is for you. Stay until the end for a cliffhanger on what’s coming next 😉 Tags: patriarchy, feminism, capitalism, gender roles, women and power, feminist podcast, history of patriarchy, women’s empowerment About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:
About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.
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| Girly law of power #27: Start being mean | 01 Oct 2025 | 00:34:08 | |
📚 AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or get a signed paperback, PDF, or EPUB directly from me. Free preview available here. Niceness is a scam. Being "nice" describes someone who is polite and pleasant to be around, focusing on surface-level interactions and social harmony. It's a performance. It's how the patriarchy grooms us for exploitation and disrespect, because the nice girl is taught to that being liked is more important than being respected. Being mean is the opposite of that -- it's prioritizing being respected more than being liked. (& I don't mean acting like Regina George.) In this episode, we discuss:
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki xo About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:
About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.
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| Calling yourself a "high value woman" isn't empowering | 24 Sep 2025 | 00:29:26 | |
You're not a Pokemon or some kind of collectible, but the wrong type of people will see you as a commodity, something to collect. In this episode, we discuss why the term "high value woman" is not only icky, but counterproductive. Like most things in this world, we can't do what men do and expect the same result. This also goes for labels men use to try and prove their worth. About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:
About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.
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| How men accidentally became obsolete [pt. 3/5] | 22 Oct 2025 | 00:27:28 | |
Patriarchy wasn’t built to serve women — but it was never built to serve most men either. In this third episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism's toxic relationship, we break down how patriarchy accidentally made men obsolete. When capitalism tied masculinity to money and productivity, men became workers before all else. That’s how they received their patriarchal dividends. When second wave feminism enabled women to gain financial independence, men lost their monopoly on survival. Stay until the end for the cliffhanger on how capitalism rebranded servitude as empowerment. Keywords: patriarchy explained, masculinity, feminism, capitalism, gender roles, modern masculinity, feminist podcast, gender inequality, men and power About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:
About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.
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| Every time you choose YOURSELF, you kick patriarchy in the balls [pt. 5/5] | 31 Oct 2025 | 00:22:37 | |
Patriarchy’s biggest fear: women’s choice. In episode 5 of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism’s toxic partnership, we uncover why choice is the real revolution—the one thing power can’t monetize. From work to marriage to money, control only works when women stop choosing. Because at the end of the day, it’s all a fight over the world’s most valuable resource: women. These systems exist to distract us from that simple fact. This finale connects every thread we've pulled in the last four episodes to show how real freedom begins when women realize their power and wake up from the trance of consumerism. We don't need to spend money or perform labour to prove our worth. We're already worthy. If you’ve followed this series from the start, this is the closing argument: if patriarchy is the cell, women’s choice is the radiation that kills it. Tags: women’s choice, patriarchy explained, feminism, capitalism, gender roles, women and power, feminist podcast, empowerment, modern feminism, gender inequality About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by The 48 Laws of Power, The Baddest Bitch in the Building is the first and only podcast discussing how to hack the patriarchy by teaching thousands of women how to:
About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. That’s where I learned firsthand that power isn’t given – it’s either taken or created.
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