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The Affair Recovery Room

AffairHealing.com

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Frequency: 1 episode/6d. Total Eps: 64

Honest conversations about affair recovery, with practical guidance and real hope. The Affair Recovery Room is a podcast for anyone reeling from infidelity: the betrayed, the unfaithful, and those trying to rebuild together or alone.

Hosted by counselor and coach Tim Tedder of AffairHealing.com, each episode offers insight and compassion for those navigating the long road from heartbreak to healing.

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What Counts as Cheating… Really?

Episode 25

Tuesday, October 7, 2025 • Duration 26:21

What actually counts as cheating? A kiss? A message? A “like” on an ex’s beach photo? In this episode, Tim Tedder explores how couples define (and often misdefine) the lines that shape trust. Through candid street interviews, audio sketches, survey results, and insights from affair recovery specialists, he reveals why some boundaries feel universal while others depend entirely on a couple’s unique agreement.

Listeners will hear from Dr. Erin Weaver, a psychologist who works with clients in non-monogamous relationships, offering a fascinating look at how trust can be negotiated differently while still maintaining the same need for honesty and consent.

By the end, you’ll understand that boundaries aren’t about controlling behavior—they’re about defining what safety, respect, and loyalty mean for your relationship. Because when it comes to trust, the rules only work if you both helped write them.

LINKS and EXTRAS

Episode Page: https://AffairHealing.com/podcasts/025

Couple’s Exercise: Clarify Your Relationship Boundaries

Information about Dr. Erin Weaver

More information about Tim Tedder’s new resources for involved partners.

Sign up for our Weekly Newsletter for encouragement and information about recommendations and new resources for affair healing, relationship growth, and personal change.

Need personal help? Schedule a Session with one of our coaches.

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Stop Repairing Your Marriage After an Affair

Episode 24

Tuesday, September 30, 2025 • Duration 17:38

After infidelity, many couples try to repair their marriage by patching cracks, setting up boundaries, and promising fidelity. While those steps are essential, they rarely restore the deep stability that betrayed partners long for. Why? Because real healing requires more than repair. It requires renovation.

In this episode, Tim Tedder uses the powerful metaphor of a house with a secret basement to show why repair alone often leaves couples stuck. Tim explains why authentic self-examination—especially for the unfaithful partner—is the missing piece in so many recovery efforts.

Through storytelling, a creative audio sketch, and real-life examples of two men who took very different paths after betrayal, this episode highlights the difference between settling for negotiated stability and building a new foundation of genuine trust.

LINKS and EXTRAS

Episode Web Page: https://www.affairhealing.com/podcasts/024

Sign up for our Weekly Newsletter for encouragement and information about new resources for affair healing, relationship growth, and personal change.

Need personal help? Schedule a Session with one of our coaches.

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Multiple Affairs: The Counselors

Episode 15

Tuesday, August 19, 2025 • Duration 33:08

When infidelity happens more than once, recovery gets even harder. Therapists Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras unpack the challenges of multiple affairs—the unique characteristics and considerations for each partner. Honest, compassionate conversations for partners, strayers, and the professionals who support them.

Whether you’re a partner trying to understand or the one who strayed, this podcast offers insight, guidance, and hope for navigating this difficult terrain of relational repair.

EPISODE NOTES

00:00 Introduction
03:10 Multiple Affair Measures: Timeline, Frequency, Discoveries, Patterns
09:45 Considering the Betrayed Partner
14:40 Considering the Involved Partner
19:40 The Risk of Ongoing Infidelity
22:05 The Hard Work of Change
28:30 Counselor Perspectives

LINKS & EXTRAS

Course: Truth Talk: Asking Questions - a guide to asking for the truth about your partner’s affair.

Course: Truth Talk: Giving Answers - a guide for answering your partner’s questions about your affair.

Sign up for our Weekly Newsletter for encouragement and information about recommendations and new resources for affair healing, relationship growth, and personal change.

Tim Tedder: Coaching Information

Jennifer Gingras: Coaching Information and Counseling Website

6 Affair Motives

Episode 14

Tuesday, August 12, 2025 • Duration 20:00

Not all affairs start for the same reason. Discover the motives that drive infidelity and how each shapes the road to healing.

Why do people have affairs? In this episode of The Recovery Room, Tim Tedder explores six common motives behind infidelity—the Alarm, Exit, Quest, Revenge, Impulse, and Habit affairs. Drawing on illustrations and real-life examples, Tim explains how each motive takes shape, how it can change over time, and why understanding the “why” matters for healing.

You’ll also learn what each motive reveals about the work that needs to be done for recovery and how to protect your relationship from future harm. Whether you’re the betrayed or the unfaithful partner, this conversation offers clarity, direction, and hope.

EPISODE NOTES

00:00 Introduction
02:30 Alarm Affair
04:25 Exit Affair
06:00 Quest Affair
08:00 Revenge Affair
09:15 Impulse Affai
10:30 Habit Affair
11:55 Questions to Ask Yourself

LINKS & EXTRAS

Download: 6 Motives Guide (PDF)

Sign up for our Weekly Newsletter for encouragement and information about recommendations and new resources for affair healing, relationship growth, and personal change.

Need personal help? Schedule a Session with one of our coaches.

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SongTalk: Haunting of My Heart

Episode 13

Friday, August 8, 2025 • Duration 31:04

A song of loss, longing, and lingering hope.

In this episode, Tim Tedder and guest Betsy Prentice discuss The Haunting of My Heart—a song written from the perspective of a woman left behind after betrayal. They explore how music gives voice to heartbreak, memory, and the slow return of light after love is lost.

EPISODE NOTES

00:00 Introduction
03:05 Tim and Betsy talk about the song’s message of abandonment, loneliness, and hope
27:20 The complete song: Haunting of My Heart

LINKS and EXTRAS

Sign up for our Weekly Newsletter for encouragement and information about recommendations and new resources for affair healing, relationship growth, and personal change. https://www.affairhealing.com/newsletter

Need personal help? Schedule a Session with one of our coaches. https://www.affairhealing.com/infidelity-recovery-coaching

Download an MP3 file of the whole song on the episode page: https://www.affairhealing.com/podcasts/013

OUR GUEST: BETSY PRENTICE

After over a decade in public health, Betsy earned a Master’s Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy. Her background gives her a unique lens to view mental health and relationship issues within broader family, community, and policy systems.

Betsy has worked with couples facing infidelity, distress, and other relationship challenges, as well as families, teens, and adults navigating difficult seasons. She brings both professional and personal experience to each session, creating a welcoming space for healing.

LYRICS: HAUNTING OF MY HEART
© 2025 Tim Tedder

Runaway Husbands Part 2

Episode 12

Tuesday, August 5, 2025 • Duration 25:25

An abandoned wife talks about her experience and how she’s grown beyond the betrayal. Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras conclude their discussion of the book, Runaway Husbands.

EPISODE NOTES

00:00 Introduction
02:10 Elisa Talks about Her Abandonment
11:10 Tim and Jennifer talk more about the book
19:35 More from Elisa

LINKS

Book Review: Runaway Husbands https://www.affairhealing.com/blog/runaway-husbands

Join Our Newsletter! https://www.affairhealing.com/newsletter

Coaching with Jennifer https://www.affairhealing.com/jennifer-gingras-coaching

Coaching with Tim https://www.affairhealing.com/tim-tedder-coaching

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Runaway Husbands Part 1

Episode 11

Wednesday, July 30, 2025 • Duration 28:12

Discussing the book, Runaway Husbands, and its message to wives who have been unexpectedly abandoned, Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras give their input based on their experiences as affair recovery counselors and coaches.

EPISODE NOTES

00:00 Introduction
03:00 Overview of the book, Runaway Husbands
10:30 Hallmarks of Wife Abandonment Syndrome

LINKS

Book Review: Runaway Husbands https://www.affairhealing.com/blog/runaway-husbands

Coaching with Jennifer https://www.affairhealing.com/jennifer-gingras-coaching

Coaching with Tim https://www.affairhealing.com/tim-tedder-coaching

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Crossing the Line: Steps Into Infidelity

Episode 10

Saturday, July 26, 2025 • Duration 22:49

Explore the compromising choices and justifications that lead to infidelity. This episode examines two affairs to understand how this happens in real-life experiences, then considers what can be done when crossing lines affects your marriage.

EPISODE NOTES

00:00 Introduction
01:45 Compromises in Narnia
04:20 Episode Overview
5:00 Amanda’s Story
11:35 Tim’s Story
17:50 Applications and Recommendations

LINKS AND EXTRAS

Download: Identifying Your Steps Toward Infidelity https://www.affairhealing.com/blog/compromising-choices

Download: Emotional Affair Self-Assessment https://www.affairhealing.com/blog/emotional-affair-self-assessment

The book Mistakes Were Made But Not By Me is recommended on this page: https://www.affairhealing.com/more-books

Information on personal coaching: https://www.affairhealing.com/infidelity-recovery-coaching

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SongTalk: Lovely Fruit

Episode 9

Tuesday, July 22, 2025 • Duration 23:16

The blinding pull of an affair and self-deception are explored as Tim Tedder and Suzanne Jahnke discuss "Lovely Fruit," a song Tim wrote to his former self.

This episode offers more than just a conversation about music—it’s a personal reflection on brokenness and change. Whether you’ve experienced betrayal, made your own mistakes, or are simply interested in the process of learning from failure, you’ll find this discussion honest, insightful, and relatable.

EPISODE NOTES

00:00 Introduction
01:55 Conversation about the song
19:55 Lovey Fruit (full song)

I'm gonna tell you somethin'
Your pitchman is a liar
This path that you are walkin'
Will take you through the fire

I know it feels like heaven
That's what the promos say
I bought the pitch myself once
Watched promise slip away

This is the best you've ever had
Your old life is a joke
You finally won the big prize
Oops - the lottery's broke

Chorus:
Pick from the tree
Bite its lovely fruit
(let the juice flow down)
Muddy the soil
Poison the root
Pick from the tree
Bite its lovely fruit
(feel the juice run down)
Muddy the soil
Poison the root

You think you're gonna make it
When others didn't last
They may have missed the boarding
Your ticket is first-class

Sit back, enjoy the ride
Sip down another gin
Dream of where you're going
Forget where you have been

This is the best you've ever had
Your old life is a joke (tell yourself)
You finally won the big prizeOops - the lottery's broke

It Feels Like Love: The Neuroscience of Limerence

Episode 8

Friday, July 18, 2025 • Duration 35:00

Learn about limerence, that “falling in love” feeling, from neuroscientist Dr. Tom Bellany in this candid conversation with therapists Tim Tedder and Sharon Barbour.

EPISODE NOTES

00:00 Introduction
01:35 What is limerence?
06:20 Limerence and Love
10:00 What's going on in the brain?
15:10 What triggers limerence?
19:27 Infidelity and Limerence
23:10 Leaving Limerence
32:24 Are some people more prone to limerence?
33:30 Final Thoughts

LINKS & EXTRAS

Dr Tom Bellamy’s website: https://livingwithlimerence.com

Information about the book, Smitten: https://livingwithlimerence.com/lwl-book/

Related article - The Neuroscience of Affair Fog (by Dr Bellamy): https://www.affairhealing.com/affair-recovery-articles/neuroscience-of-affair-fog

Information on personal coaching: https://www.affairhealing.com/infidelity-recovery-coaching

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