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The 3L’s Podcast

Emmanuel/Mariam Asuquo

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Society & Culture

Frequency: 1 episode/51d. Total Eps: 26

Welcome to The 3L’s Podcast, a raw, unfiltered, and hilarious take on marriage, relationships, parenting, money, and everything in between.

We’re a husband-and-wife duo, married nearly 15 years with four kids and more stories than we can count. Each week, we dive into the highs and lows of building a life together, from dating and raising children to navigating finances, intimacy, and family drama.

We’ll also break down the money moves and mindset shifts that help couples build wealth and create a legacy for their families. Because love is great, but generational impact? That’s the real goal.

Expect real talk, laughter, a little bit of raunchiness (because marriage isn’t always PG), and lessons we’ve learned along the way. Whether you’re dating, newly married, knee-deep in parenting, or just curious how couples make it work, this is the podcast for you.

🎙️ New episodes every Friday.
Subscribe and join us as we share the journey of building love, money, and legacy.

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🇬🇧 Great Britain - entrepreneurship
23/08/2025
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https://www.instagram.com/mimitoyoucakes
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Conflict, Culture, and Compromise | The 3L's Podcast Ep 4

Season 2 · Episode 4

Friday, August 22, 2025 • Duration 31:32

In this episode of The 3L’s Podcast, Eman and Mimi dive deep into one of the most delicate and relatable topics in marriage: arguments. They begin with lighthearted banter and even a prayer for peace before unpacking how their different upbringings shaped the way they handle conflict. Mimi reflects on her Nigerian household, where arguments were rarely seen in front of children, and where her immigration experience taught her to stay quiet and avoid drawing attention. Eman, on the other hand, grew up as a vocal extrovert, shaped by a speech impediment he overcame and by a mother who both protected and sheltered him. His experiences made him passionate about using his voice and sometimes leaning into confrontation. The couple honestly explores how these differences initially clashed in their marriage, from Mimi’s tolerance for silence to Eman’s tendency to shut down when upset. They recall how therapy, both individual and joint, helped them unlearn inherited family dynamics, heal past trauma, and develop their own conflict-resolution style as a couple. They emphasise that respect, communication, and the willingness to pause before things escalate are essential. Arguments, they argue, shouldn’t just be about venting but about reaching a resolution. They share personal stories, from silent treatments to learning each other’s communication styles (even Mimi once wrote letters), to show how they’ve matured in handling conflict. The conversation also touches on dilemmas many couples face, like whether it’s right to share marital problems with family or friends. They stress the importance of choosing confidants wisely, someone who supports the marriage, not someone who keeps tally or fuels division. Closing with humour, the pair discuss petty moves during disagreements, the balance of being “the bigger person,” and even how play-fighting can go wrong. Ultimately, they remind listeners that love and respect should remain at the core of every disagreement, and that arguing with purpose, for resolution, can actually strengthen a marriage.

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Apple Music https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-3ls-podcast/id1613116517

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These Kids Got Me Knacking In Silence | The 3L's Podcast - Ep3

Season 2 · Episode 3

Friday, August 15, 2025 • Duration 35:42

Eman and Mariam tackle one of marriage’s most private and most misunderstood topics: sex. With the ease of a couple 14 years deep, they open up about how their intimacy has evolved through every season, from the electric energy of early marriage to the strategic scheduling required with four children in the house. They swap stories about their very different experiences before marriage. Mariam waited until their wedding night, while Eman came in with past relationships—and how those differences shaped their first years together. The conversation weaves through wedding night realities (spoiler: exhaustion beats romance), mismatched desire levels, pregnancy, postpartum recovery, and the creative adjustments needed when toddlers sleep in your room. Nothing is off the table: mismatched libidos, porn use, silent “knocking” to avoid waking kids, and the challenge of keeping intimacy alive when life gets hectic. They also debate a listener dilemma about a husband tracking their sex life in a spreadsheet, opening a broader discussion on scheduling versus spontaneity. What emerges is a mix of humour, vulnerability, and straight talk about communication as the foundation for a healthy sex life. Eman admits he’s cooled down with age, Mariam shares the importance of checking in regularly, and together they show that intimacy is about much more than physical connection—it’s also late-night drives, playful banter, and mutual understanding. The episode closes with a “This Week in Petty” confession from Eman, proving that even in the bedroom, marriage is equal parts love, laughter, and learning to meet in the middle.

💌 Send us your dilemmas & questions!

✨ Subscribe for more episodes on love, marriage, money & building a lasting legacy!

Apple Music https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-3ls-podcast/id1613116517

Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/2UEP7loqImW1ZtbYbFSAoT?si=7h9C7Gl6QYK_zSYx0U8ivg

The Eman Effect Christmas Special

Episode 16

Friday, December 23, 2022 • Duration 26:09

It’s the season to be jolly! Everyone is busy buying gifts, preparing holiday recipes, and dancing at Christmas parties. We always celebrate Christmas but do we really understand its true meaning?

Christmas is more than just a monetary gift, snowfall, and spending money. In this episode, we will tell you why.

In this episode, Eman and Mimi recap their previous Christmas celebrations and what they are grateful for during the year and talk about the true meaning of Christmas. They also give last-minute Christmas gift ideas, tips, and activities families can do during the holiday season.

Highlights

The memories of Christmas
How to control overbuying of gifts this season
Creating Christmas traditions
Taking time to reflect, rest, and bond with family and loved ones; and
Activities that your family can do this Christmas

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Grab the book “Get Your Money Right” by Emmanuel Asuquo

Follow Eman and Mimi on social media:

Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com

Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

How We Make This Crazy Life Work for Us

Episode 15

Friday, December 16, 2022 • Duration 29:39

What would you do if one day you woke up and found out that you were made redundant at work?

Some will cry, some will complain about their life, and some, particularly the Asuquos' will use it as a motivation to achieve success.

In this episode, Eman and Mimi walk down memory lane to share the untold stories behind their success in marriage, business, and life. They talk about the pain and challenges they face to build a legacy. So, if you want to feel inspired and are ready to create your legacy like the Asuquos', listen to this episode.

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The time when Eman got redundant
How to prepare yourself for success
Creating a goal and game plan to win
Not jealous but grateful; and
Learn to protect the legacy you build

Links

Grab the book “Get Your Money Right” by Emmauel Asuquo

Follow Eman and Mimi on social media:

Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com

Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

The Debate Date Game with Eman & Mimi

Episode 14

Friday, December 9, 2022 • Duration 31:12

We are back with all-new episodes and we are shaking things up. In a relationship, value systems are important but do we need them to be similar?

In this episode, Eman and Mimi play the Bob in UK Debate Date Card Game where they ask each other questions that they’ve never asked before. Join us in this episode and let your friends know we're back!

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Is the relationship over after a failed marriage proposal
Why Eman thinks men should propose to a woman
What does loyalty mean
Behaviors that are an absolute red flag
Does porn ruin our sexuality

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Check out the Bob in UK Card Game

Follow Eman and Mimi on social media:

Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com

Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

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Is Sex the Only Benefit FOR Men in a Relationship?

Episode 13

Friday, July 8, 2022 • Duration 38:04

Men worry that committing to a relationship will limit their freedom. They fear they may envy their friends, miss every Friday night out, and lose the benefits of having sex with different women. But is marriage really the end of enjoying manhood? A constant debate topic that only the person involved can answer.

In this episode, Eman and Mimi talk about commitment and relationships, particularly for men. Based on their experience as a married couple, they explain the nonsexual benefits of a relationship on both sides (men and women), discuss why some men opt not to commit, and highlight the importance of deciding for oneself.

Highlights

The reason why men get more out of a relationship
Understanding the pros and cons of having a partner
The stability and security a relationship offers; and
Why settling down with the right person is important

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Follow Eman and Mimi on social media:

Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com

Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

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Diesel Over £2 The World Has Gone Mad!!!

Episode 12

Friday, July 1, 2022 • Duration 38:36

The only constant thing in the world is change, whether good or bad. As people in the position take on power, more kids are in danger, and as the cost of living continues to rise, life gets harder to bear. But with all this happening, you have the option to choose. Let yourself suffer or create ways to live better.

In today’s episode, Eman and Mimi tackle the hot issues of today that have a massive impact on the world. The couple gives their opinion on the newly signed law to ban abortion in the US, provides useful and clever tips on handling market inflation and increasing cost of living, and sheds light on the risks of committing to any investments.

Highlights

The riffle effect of the new abortion law in the US
A jaw-dropping increase in petrol and diesel prices
Savvy ways to spend and budget for your needs
The importance of understanding the risk of any investments; and
Find out the best and worst investments you can make

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Follow Eman and Mimi on social media:

Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com

Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

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Five Things I Would Not Give Up for Marriage

Episode 11

Sunday, June 26, 2022 • Duration 47:29

When are you sacrificing too much for your marriage?

Marriage is more than just a union of two people. It is a product of love and sacrifice from both sides. Being in a relationship is a wonderful experience, but if you need to sacrifice the things you don’t want for marriage, are you still willing to do it?

In this episode, Eman and Mimi talk about marriage and relationships. They discuss the importance of understanding yourself, your partner, and the sacrifices of marriage. They exchange their list of non-negotiables when it comes to marrying someone and share their views on it.

Highlights

Putting aside wealth, legacy, and ambition
The hygiene presentation and people treatment
Having different faith and beliefs
Setting past relationship boundaries; and
Existing relationships are important, but family is a priority

Links Follow Eman and Mimi on social media:

Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com

Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

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Five Things I Would Tell My Younger Self

Episode 10

Saturday, May 21, 2022 • Duration 43:08

What would you say if you were given a chance to talk to your younger self? Our childhoods are filled with beautiful memories, but we also make mistakes. And learning from every situation makes things better and makes us feel a lot stronger.

In this episode, Eman and Mimi sit down and do a little reflection on things that they wish to tell their younger self. They talk about the highs and lows of everything and share their experiences of self-discovery and things they learn and love along the way.

Highlights

Finding time to have fun and relax
Learning from certain situations in life
Creating habits to get through the challenging moments
The bigger purpose of doing service to others
How to be mindful about saving money
Focus on setting goals and achieving them; and
Experience life first before going into relationships

Links

Follow Eman and Mimi on social media:

Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com

Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

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This Generation Can Do Anything For Money!!!

Episode 9

Friday, May 13, 2022 • Duration 41:01

Money has the power to bring out the worst and best in people. Evey money-making decision we make is important because sometimes it can bring us wealth and abundance and but it can also destroy our reputation and ruin people’s lives.

In this episode, Eman and Mimi talk about the value of money and the sacrifice people make to have it. They discuss the highs and lows when it comes to earning, how money changes people's lives both in good and bad, and the result of every money-making decision.

Highlights

Focus on things that you can change
The limits to what people can do for money
What are the consequences of building a bad reputation for money
Understand the different seasons of life; and
The mindset of people about money

Links

Follow Eman and Mimi on social media:

Emmanuel Asuquo Instagram: @theemaneffectuk Youtube: The Eman Effect Website: www.emmanuelasuquo.com

Mariam Asuquo Instagram: @mimitoyoucakes

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