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154 Is it normal to never orgasm? Do women like get dick pics? Why does it hurt to have sex? How to talk about non-monogamy? Answering your questions part 228 Aug 202400:36:23

In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions. 

 

  • Where does the line get drawn between respecting someone’s personal boundaries and expanding their sexual horizons?
  • Do women like dick pics?
  • Connection games for lovers
  • What do I do if sex starts to feel dull?
  • Why does it hurt when I have sex?
  • Is it normal to have never orgasmed?
  • How to bring up non-monogamy with a partner

 

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153 How much sex should you have? Vibrator recommendations. Anal tips. Is porn bad? Your questions answered - part 107 Aug 202400:28:23

In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions. 

  • My vibrator recommendations
  • I want to try anal, but it always hurts, what can I do?
  • How much sex do people have?
  • Can you desensitise your nerves (clitoris) from using vibrators?
  • Is porn bad?

 

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144 Why you don't need a bigger penis05 Jun 202400:22:10

In this solo episode, Emily discusses why you don't need a bigger penis.

Emily also shares tips for exploring pleasure and tips for overcoming body image concerns.

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054 Situationships with Lily20 Jul 202200:46:16

This episode is on situationships.

Emily and Lily discuss their experiences in situationships:

  • The pros and cons of a situationship
  • Tips and tricks for navigating a situationship

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053 Finding safety and sovereignty in your body after sexual assault with Vanessa Hook - Part 207 Jul 202200:44:35

Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual assault

This is part 2 of a 2 part episode featuring Vanessa Hook

Emily and Vanessa discuss:

  • How to feel safe in your body again after sexual assault
  • Vanessa's experience with sex after sexual assault
  • Dissociating during sex
  • Tips for grounding yourself
  • Holding shame in your body
  • What needs to change in society 

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Vanessa's Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/56nccHdAPxLam4AsA0KHEt?si=aCl2JsZnRLuPz0IA0tHr2w 

If you need support 1800RESPECT is the national domestic, family and sexual violence counselling, information and support service. 

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052 Finding safety and sovereignty in your body after sexual assault with Vanessa Hook - Part 107 Jul 202200:36:47

Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual assault

This is part 1 of a 2 part episode featuring Vanessa Hook.

Emily and Vanessa discuss:

  • Vanessa’s experiences of sexual assault
  • How a person's response to your experience can affect your processing
  • How did sexual assault affect Vanessa's mental health and sexuality
  • Accessing support after sexual assault
  • How to support somebody after sexual assault 

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Vanessa's Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/56nccHdAPxLam4AsA0KHEt?si=aCl2JsZnRLuPz0IA0tHr2w 

If you need support 1800RESPECT is the national domestic, family and sexual violence counselling, information and support service. 

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051 Explaining Roe VS Wade25 Jun 202200:12:59

Emily discusses the Roe VS. Wade ruling being overturned. It is a quick overview of what this means for people who have a uterus. 

If you would like to help please donate to abortion organisations in America. Here is a link to one that will donate to 50 different abortion agencies: 

https://secure.actblue.com/donate/genzforchoice

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050 Honouring bisexuality with Mim Kempson01 Jun 202200:51:27

This episode explores different ways that bisexual women in monogamous relationships can connect to their sexuality while respecting and honouring their partnership. Featuring Mim Kempson a dating and relationship coach.

Emily and Mim discuss:

  • What is a dating and relationship coach?
  • When should you see a relationship coach?
  • Biphobia 
  • Common bisexual myths
  • How can a bisexual woman honour her sexuality with a cis-gendered heterosexual man when polyamory and opening the relationship isn't on the table
  • If a man feels threatened by their partner's sexuality in this relationship, what can they do to break down that fear and instead support their partner?

Mim's website: https://www.mimkempson.com/

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049 Using sex for validation18 May 202200:23:05

This episode is all about using sex for validation. 

Emily discusses her own experience using sex for validation and how it has impacted her and her relationships. Emily also discusses tips on how to address this issue (although she is only just starting this journey herself). 

Tips include:

Check in with yourself: 

  1. Why do you have sex?
  2. How does sex validate you? How does it make you feel?
  3. Is it the sex or other things that are attached to sex that make you feel validated?
  4. What keeps you in this position?
  5. What do you actually want from your relationships?
  6. How can you find validation from within yourself?

Understand your boundaries and how you can implement them.

What situations threaten your boundaries?

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048 Children, sexuality and shame with Steph from the Sexual Wellness Club04 May 202200:43:28

This episode features Steph from The Sexual Wellness Club.

Emily and Steph discuss experiencing pleasure and exploring your sexuality before puberty. 

Key points:

  • Children exploring their bodies
  • Finding porn as children
  • Exploring our bodies and pleasure with friends
  • Emily’s experience sexting at a young age
  • Navigating sexuality with children

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047 Fake it till you make it with Chiara French20 Apr 202200:37:41

This episode features Chiara French discussing confidence. 

Key points:

  • What does confidence mean to Chiara
  • What helped both Chiara and Emily become confident 
  • Confidence in different environments such as the workplace
  • Drug and alcohol use
  • Dating and body confidence
  • How to practice affirmations in the mirror

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046 How to have the best sex of your life with Laura Ellen - Part 213 Apr 202200:26:23

This episode features Laura Ellen who is a sex, love & relationship coach on a mission to empower & equip women to have the best sex of their lives through feminine well-being, sensual leadership and a (very) sexy dose of sexy self-care. 

Emily and Laura discuss: 

  • How to start working through sexual shame
  • How to have the best casual sex of your life
  • What to do if the sex in your relationship isn't what you want anymore

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045 How to have the best sex of your life with Laura Ellen - Part 106 Apr 202200:28:07

This episode features Laura Ellen who is a sex, love & relationship coach on a mission to empower & equip women to have the best sex of their lives through feminine well-being, sensual leadership and a (very) sexy dose of sexy self-care. 

Emily and Laura discuss: 

  • How women can have the best sex of their lives
  • Pleasure based living and how we can implement it
  • Sexy self-care

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143 Living in hell within your own mind with Dana Da Silva29 May 202400:55:38

This episode featured Dana Da Silva who is a single mum of two based in Sydney, Australia. She's a part-time media adviser and an indie author with big dreams. She considers putting pen to paper to be an exquisite art, free therapy, and a form of meditation. The Shift is her debut book.

Emily and Dana discuss:

  • Dana’s experience with OCD
  • Paedophilic OCD
  • How to support somebody with OCD
  • BDSM
  • Is BDSM spiritually good for you?
  • Our experiences with orgasm becoming easier to obtain
  • Dana’s experience with UTIs

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Dana’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/writerdanadasilva/

Buy Dan’a’s book The Shift’: https://www.amazon.com.au/Shift-memoir-Dana-Silva/dp/0648630005

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044 Third times a charm30 Mar 202200:25:25

The third season is finally here!!!

Emily delves into the hot and not so hot sex she has been having since the last season in December. Emily also discusses the STI Chlamydia, internalised shame surrounding a Chlamydia diagnosis and the issue with trying to blame somebody when contracting the STI.

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043 Heres to another year of shagging22 Dec 202100:20:40

We are finishing off the year reflecting on how the past year has been. Emily discusses the Sex Resolutions she set in the first episode of 2021 and how they went. Emily also discusses her mental health and partying. 

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042 How to care for your vulva with Dr. Nicole Williams15 Dec 202100:26:50

This episode features Dr. Nicole Williams a Gynaecologist from Chicago. Emily and Dr. Williams talk all about how to care for your Vulva. 

Emily and Dr. Williams discuss:

  • Common myths and misconceptions attached to caring for your vulva
  • Feminine Hygiene washes
  • Douching
  • Pubic Hair
  • The 3 things you need to care for your Vulva
  • What to look out for in case something isn’t quite right

Dr. Williams Website: https://www.gynecologyinstitute.com/about-us

Dr. Williams book: https://www.amazon.com/This-How-You-Vagina-Vajayjay/dp/1626348782

Dr. Willams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drnicolelife/

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041 A Transgender journey with Kai - Part 308 Dec 202100:38:47

Kai shares his journey of transitioning as a Transgender man. He has been on Hormone Replacement Therapy for 1 year.

Emily and Kai discuss:

  • Physical changes since they last spoke
  • Top Surgery 
  • Violence as a man
  • How he is now treated as a man compared to when presenting as a woman
  • Bathrooms

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040 Fertility Awareness with Madeleine01 Dec 202100:30:15

This episode features Madeleine from KnowHQ discussing Fertility Awareness. 

Emily and Madeleine discuss:

  • What is Fertility Awareness?
  • How can we practice it? (Cervical Mucus & Temperature)
  • Madeleine's journey with hormonal contraception to Fertility Awareness
  • Can I have penetrative heterosexual sex in my fertile window?
  • Are tracking apps effective?

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Madeleine's Website: https://www.knowhq.com.au/

 

 

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039 What the fuck am I doing24 Nov 202100:16:22

This episode is all about experiencing shame as a sex positive person. Emily discusses her recent holiday and how she realised how much shame she has attached to the podcast, her sexuality and her future career. 

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038 Bisexuality, breakups and dating sex positive people with Lily17 Nov 202100:41:37

This episode features Lily who has a Sex Positive instagram Cherry Bomb (https://www.instagram.com/69cherry.bomb69/

Emily and Lily discuss:

  • Bisexuality and their own journey's with understanding their sexuality
  • Having sex with women for the first time
  • Sex and casual dating after a long-term relationship
  • Normalising missing your ex
  • Body count
  • Feeling guilt when trying new things (especially when your family might not approve)
  • Dating sex positive people (fairies)
  • Sex parties
  • Phone sex

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037 How to manage Endometriosis through your diet with Christie Lee10 Nov 202100:41:17

This episode features Christie Lee Austin-Hore who is an Accredited Practising
Dietitian with dual specialisation in women’s health and IBS nutrition. This episode is all about managing Endometriosis and IBS with a Dietitian. 

Emily and Christie discuss:

  • What is Endometriosis?
  • How does our diet affect Endometriosis?
  • How can a Dietitian help?
  • Are there certain foods that commonly poorly interact with Endometriosis?
  • Diet tips for uncomfortable symptoms during your period. 
  • Should we change our diet during our periods?

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Christie Lee Nutrition Website: https://www.christieleenutrition.com/

Christie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/endometriosis.dietitian/ 

Free Live Private Training with Christie on the 18th and 19th of November 2021: https://courses.christieleenutrition.com/webinar-registration 

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036 Religion, masturbation and radical honesty with Jocelyn Silva03 Nov 202100:50:26

This episode features Jocelyn Silva a Sexual Empowerment Coach. Jocelyn and Emily discuss:

  • Religion and sex (with a focus on Catholicism)
  • How religion impacted Jocelyn’s sexuality and sexual experiences
  • How to reduce sexual shame
  • Common issues that interfere with pleasure
  • How to get comfortable with masturbation
  • Spontaneous VS responsive arousal
  • Radical Honesty: What is it? How do we practice this? How do we help the people around us understand this?
  • How to discover what you enjoy sexually

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamjocelynsilva/

TikTok: @iamjocelynsilva

Trigger Warning: sexual abuse is discussed in this episode

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035 Dating with anxiety and depression with Jess and Sav from Learnt My Lesson27 Oct 202100:49:31

This episode features Jess and Savanna from Learnt My Lesson Podcast. We talk all about the ins and outs of dating and relationships when you experience Anxiety and Depression. Jess and Emily discuss their experiences with Anxiety and Sav discusses her experiences with Anxiety and Depression. 

Topics include:

  • Why Jess and Sav started Learnt My Lesson Podcast
  • How has their journey been with their mental health
  • How has their mental health impacted their relationships and dating
  • How Emily's mental health has impacted her dating (especially the goodbyes)
  • Tips for overcoming Anxiety when dating
  • How do the people they are dating respond to their mental health
  • How to support somebody struggling with their mental health
  • Tips on how to reach out for support

If you need support please reach out to any of the below organisations:
Lifeline: https://www.lifeline.org.au/
Beyond Blue: https://www.beyondblue.org.au/ 
For anyone outside of Australia: https://checkpointorg.com/global/  

Learnt My Lesson Podcast link: https://open.spotify.com/show/5UepTCdtCrRl6DVWlsKetm?si=1ffqF0tVTLqoF6LJcp2e7w 

Learnt My Lesson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/learntmylesson_/

 

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142 Borderline Personality Disorder, sex and relationships with Dr. Sarah Ashton22 May 202400:48:02

This episode features Dr. Sarah Ashton who is a registered psychologist (AHPRA), Board Approved Supervisor (AHPRA), training author, and the Director and Founder of SHIPS. Sarah created SHIPS because she saw a deep need for safe and inclusive spaces to talk about sex and connection. She sees liberating expression of sexuality from fear, isolation, and shame as her personal and professional purpose.

In this episode Emily and Dr. Sarah Ashton discuss:

  • What is Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)?
  • The prevalence of BPD
  • Common BPD misconceptions
  • How BPD can impact romantic relationships
  • How people with BPD can maintain healthy relationships
  • How BPD can impact sex
  • How a partner of somebody with BPD can support them

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SHIPS Psychology Website: https://www.shipspsychology.com.au/

SHIPS Psychology Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shipspsychology/

SHIPS Training Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shipstraining/

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034 It's time to talk13 Oct 202100:34:29

Trigger Warning: This episode discusses mental health, disordered eating and perceptions of our bodies.

In this episode Emily opens up about her experiences with her mental health. The first half is recorded back in June of 2021 when Emily was really struggling and had just asked for help. Emily then checks back in and discusses how she now feels and the process of beginning Therapy. Emily discusses:

  • Her negative perceptions of mental health and her internalised shame
  • Her mental health in June and now October
  • The process of selecting a psychologist
  • A break down of the psychology appointments
  • The good and bad experiences in therapy so far
  • Revisiting past negative experiences
  • Boundaries
  • Most importantly, why it is important to speak up and ask for help.

If you need support please reach out to any of the below organisations:

Lifeline: https://www.lifeline.org.au/

Beyond Blue: https://www.beyondblue.org.au/ 

For anyone outside of Australia: https://checkpointorg.com/global/  

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033 Contraception with Karen Freilich06 Oct 202100:46:22

This episode is all about contraception. Emily is joined by GP Registrar Karen Freilich to answer all of your contraception questions.  

Topics discussed include:

  • Is there such thing as 'natural' contraception?
  • What are Fertility Awareness Methods?
  • What is the Billings method?
  • The contraceptive pill, Implanon, IUD (Hormonal and Copper), The Depo Provera Shot, Vasectomy and condoms 
  • Can I skip my period on the pill?
  • Do I even need my period?
  • Are there long-term side effects from taking hormonal contraception?
  • How do we know if our hormone balance is right?
  • How effective is contraception?
  • Is there a contraceptive method that is best?

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032 Let's talk cocks with Kristopher Lovestone29 Sep 202100:40:57

Todays episode is all about men, specifically men who engage in heterosexual relationships. Emily is joined by Kristopher Lovestone a Sex Educator and Intimacy Coach. They discuss:

  • The biggest issue Kris sees in relationships
  • Low sexual desire
  • Celibacy 
  • Penis size insecurity
  • How men can discuss their sexual desires with their partner
  • What is a conscious cock?
  • How to use a vibrator on your cock

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Kristopher's Website: https://www.consciouscock.com/

Kristopher's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconsciouscock/

 

 

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031 Polyamory with Manu22 Sep 202100:46:06

This episode delves into all things Polyamory. What is Polyamory? Are there different types? How do I practice Polyamory? What if I am in a Monogamous relationship and want to explore Polyamory? Aren't Polyamorous people just cheaters? Do Polyamorous people hate Monogamy? All of these questions are discussed by Emily with the help of Manu who identifies as a Solo Polyamorist. Manu shares her own experiences and how she discovered Polyamory. Manu has an instagram page @polyamory_awareness dedicated to posting Polyamorous memes and educational posts.

Manu's Redbuddle shop: https://www.redbubble.com/people/manutz-itzanami/shop

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030 The big O with Dr. Laurie Mintz15 Sep 202100:34:33

ORGASMS are the focus in todays episode, especially vulva owners orgasms. Dr. Laurie Mintz joins the host Emily to discuss:

  • What is an orgasm?
  • Are there different types of orgasms?
  • How do we reach an orgasm?
  • What is the orgasm gap? How can we close it?
  • When should I seek help if I am concerned that I cannot orgasm?

Dr. Laurie Mintz's website: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/

Dr. Laurie Mintz's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauriemintz/

 

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029 Periods, body confidence & slut shaming with Chiara French08 Sep 202100:48:12

This episode features Chiara French. Chiara French promotes sex education and positivity on her Instagram @sexwithchi 

Chi and Emily discuss all things periods, body positivity and social media, body hair, slut shaming and sex education in School. Chi loves to talk about periods and debunk the shame that is attached to periods. Unfortunately for too many uterus owners there is shame and unpleasant experiences that come with their periods. This conversation hopes to help more people feel comfortable within their bodies. 

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028 Pash rash and pocket pussies01 Sep 202100:24:22

The first episode of Season 2 delves into why the podcast has rebranded, as well as, an update on Emily's sex life. Emily discusses two stories, one in which she reached multiple new lows and was used as a pocket pussy and the second where she had one nasty case of pash rash (yes it's a real thing). 

 

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027 Men, from performance to pleasure with Cam Fraser02 Jun 202100:57:00

This episode features Cam Fraser. 

Cam is a Certified Professional Sex Coach, Certified Sexologist, Registered Counselor, and Registered Tantric Yoga Teacher. His work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions. As a coach, he helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame.

Emily and Cam discuss:
- Cam's background and the work that he does
- What can shape a mans sexuality and how does this impacts their sexual relationships with women
- How anxiety can affect a penis owner's sexual function (erections and ejaculation)
- Tips for overcoming these issues
- Post-nut clarity
- Are orgasms and ejaculation the same?
- How women can better discuss what they want in bed with men

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026 How to become the school slut in 1 second19 May 202100:32:50

This episode talks all about nudes. What not to do and how to take a sexy pic. Emily delves into her own experiences taking nudes and how taking one in her early teens left her with a whole lot of trauma. Emily discusses why it is important for those under 18 to not take naked pics and the consequences it can have. Emily then talks about how to take a sexy nude and provides some hot tips. We love nudes, however, we don't love unsolicited dick pics, or any unsolicited nudes for that matter. Please make sure consent is present before you send your nudes. Also don't share them around for everyone to see, no one appreciates it. 

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025 Dating life of a dirty sex podcaster05 May 202100:33:54

Emily goes solo on this episode and celebrates 6 months of The Sealed SEXtion. Emily discusses how amazing this journey has been so far as well as the challenges she has faced. Emily discusses how having a sex podcast results in being instantly sexualised. They instantly ask and assume things about her sex life, assuming she has a whole lot of sex with a whole heap of different people (she wishes lol).  Emily also discusses dating and how terrible she is at goodbyes. She delves into her recent first dates and how she has managed to fuck up each goodbye. If you want to cringe at Emily's experiences this is the episode to listen to. 


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141 Cam girls, sugar daddies and everything in between with Nova Hawthorne15 May 202400:34:02

In this episode, Emily is joined by Nova who is a live streamer, content creator and industry advocate. She owns a studio in Melbourne where she streams from, and also hosts other streamers. In 2023, she was voted Australia’s best porn newcomer. In 2024 she is nominated for a number of awards, including XBIZ Female Streamer of the Year and AAIA Industry Ambassador.

Emily and Nova discuss:

  • What is a cam girl
  • Unique requests Nova has had
  • What is sugaring
  • Nova's experience falling in love with her sugar daddy
  • Misconceptions of sugaring
  • Misconceptions about being a sex worker

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024 The Lady Physio with Chloe Burger21 Apr 202101:31:05

Chloe Burger features in this episode. 
Chloe is the founder of 'The Lady Physio & Pilates' in Port Fairy and is a Women's Health Physiotherapist. 
Topics Emily and Chloe discuss:

  • What women's health physiotherapy is 
  • Pelvic floors
  • Pelvic floor exercises
  • Vulvodynia
  • Vaginismus
  • Endometriosis
  • PCOS
  • Bladder pain/chronic UTIs
  • Pelvic floor dysfunction and hypertonicity
  • Incontinence
  • Conditions that can affect those who have given birth
    • Prolapse
    • Birth trauma/injury 
    • Post childbirth changes such as hormones and lifestyle
  • Menopause and how it can affect our lives and sexual function
  • How a Women's Health Physiotherapist can help treat and potentially prevent these conditions 

Chloe's Instagram: 
https://www.instagram.com/the.lady.physio/

Chloe's website:
https://www.theladyphysioandpilates.com/

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023 Life with Herpes featuring Laura Chakir07 Apr 202100:43:54

Laura Chakir features on this episode. 

Genital Herpes is the topic discussed within this episode. Laura Chakir has HSV1 on her genitals and discusses with Emily the impact that this has had on her life. 
Topics discussed:
- What is Herpes?
- The experience of being diagnosed
- The signs and symptoms of Genital Herpes
- The stigma of Herpes
- Dating with Herpes
- Treating Herpes
- Testing for Herpes
-Overcoming the stigma of Herpes

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022 Living with sexual trauma, toxic relationships and embracing your sexuality with Amber-Shenae Daley - Part 224 Mar 202101:10:24

Amber-Shenae Daley features on this episode.
*Trigger Warning* Domestic violence, sexual assault, sexual harassment and rape are discussed in this episode. 
Amber shares her own personal story of past domestic violent and toxic relationships. Amber also opens up about her own sexual traumas and the effect that the trauma has had on her life.
In part 2 Emily and Amber discuss:
- Ghosting
- Sexual triggers
- The concept of 'Daddy Issues'
- Identifying red flags in other people
- How to support someone with sexual triggers
- AA Groups
- Coping mechanisms when dealing with trauma
- How to communicate about kinks, boundaries, triggers etc. 
- Resources available for those who have experienced domestic violence/sexual assault and trauma

Amber's instagram: 
https://www.instagram.com/basilpirate/

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Support services:
1800 Respect
https://1800respect.org.au/

Lifeline
https://www.lifeline.org.au/

Victims of Crime
http://victimsofcrime.com.au/

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021 Living with sexual trauma, toxic relationships and embracing your sexuality with Amber-Shenae Daley - Part 117 Mar 202101:03:38

Amber-Shenae Daley features on this episode.
*Trigger Warning* Domestic violence, sexual assault, sexual harassment and rape are discussed in this episode. 
Amber shares her own personal story of past domestic violent and toxic relationships. Amber also opens up about her own sexual traumas and the effect that the trauma has had on her life.
In part 1 Emily and Amber discuss:
- Domestic violence and Amber's experiences with DV relationships
- How Amber used Sex Work as a tool to help heal herself after sexual trauma
- Downsides to Sex Work when having trauma
- Signs of a toxic/abusive relationship
- Consent and guilt, how do we separate it?
- Amber's sexual trauma
- The process of reporting rape to the authorities 
- Polyamory


Amber's instagram: 
https://www.instagram.com/basilpirate/

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Support services:
1800 Respect
https://1800respect.org.au/

Lifeline
https://www.lifeline.org.au/

Victims of Crime
http://victimsofcrime.com.au/



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020 A transgender journey with Kai - Part 210 Mar 202100:33:35

Kai, a transgender man, features on this episode. Kai shares his journey of transitioning. He has been on Hormone Replacement Therapy for four and a half months. 
Topics discussed:
- How is his mental health and how has HRT affected it
- What physical and mental changes has he experienced
- What is Passing and how has he experienced it?
- How is now perceived compared to when he identified as a woman?

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019 Swinging and Hotwifing with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers (Swinging Down Under) Podcast04 Mar 202100:43:32

Cate from Wanderlust Swingers (Formerly known as Swinging Down Under) Podcast features on this episode. 

Emily and Cate discuss all things Swinging, Hotwifing and Ethical Non-Monogamy.
Topics discussed include:
- What is Swinging and Hotwifing
- How Cate and Darrell came across this lifestyle
- What does Cate love about this alternative relationship
- What does Cate not love about alternative relationships
- Swinging Clubs
- Boundaries
- How their relationship has been perceived 
- How ethical non-monogamy is generally perceived in Australia compared to other countries

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018 Consent, discrimination and decriminalisation of the Adult Industry with Charlie24 Feb 202100:51:09

Charlie features on this episode.
Emily and Charlie discuss various topics including:
- Why Charlie entered the Adult Industry
- What qualities help when entering the industry
- The experience of coming out and showing her face publicly within the industry
- Discrimination from corporate businesses 
- Safe sex
- Consent
- The Porn Industry 
- Rights of Sex Workers
- Decriminalisation of Sex Work

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017 The ins and outs of arsing around with Miss Honey Analverkehr03 Feb 202100:58:35

Miss Honey Analverkehr features on this episode. 
Emily and Miss Honey Analverkehr discuss all things butt stuff. 
Topics Discussed:
- How Miss Honey Analverkehr got into the adult industry
- How to approach arse play
- Tips for prep
- Different ways to approach butt stuff
- What not to do
- What to do if something doesn't go to plan
- Clean up
- Tips for arse play while giving a blowjob
- How to approach anal training

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016 Tinder Tuesdays - The boss01 Feb 202100:12:33

This Tinder Tuesday episode discusses car sex. 
Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion, bringing you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups. 
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015 From Stripping to Porn to Full Service Sex Work with Lea Nights - Part 227 Jan 202100:50:47

This is part 2 of 2 parts.
Lea Nights features on this episode. 
Emily and Lea discuss the Sex Industry and what it means to be a Sex Worker. 
Topics discussed:
- Female clients
- Outcalls and why Lea does not like outcalls
- Boundaries as a Sex Worker
- Weird requests while working in a Brothel
- Dating as a Sex Worker
- Decriminalisation 

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Lea Nights social media:
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/theleanights/

Twitter:
https://twitter.com/zxleanx?s=20

Youtube:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAXEGuST4b6fzejzE5qCqiQ/featured

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140 Why you aren't getting matches on dating apps 08 May 202400:22:41

In this episode Emily goes solo and discusses why people may not be getting matches on dating apps and what you can do about it. 

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DOAC episode with Paul Brunson mentioned: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2QWA2icgSDpvuANneF0EKF?si=342ed0e2607744a9

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014 From Stripping to Porn to Full Service Sex Work with Lea Nights - Part 120 Jan 202100:46:23

This is part 1 of 2 parts.
Lea Nights features on this episode. 
Emily and Lea discuss the Sex Industry and what it means to be a Sex Worker. 
Topics discussed:
- How Lea got into sex work
- Lea's experiences Stripping and how it impact her schooling
- Lea's experiences in Porn
- Lea's experiences in Full Service Sex Work
- How working Brothels compares to going on tour
- Dealing with shitty potential (actually totally not potential) clients
- Groups of young males in Brothels

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Lea Nights social media:
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/theleanights/

Twitter:
https://twitter.com/zxleanx?s=20

Youtube:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAXEGuST4b6fzejzE5qCqiQ/featured

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013 Tinder Tuesdays - 2021, can it get any worse?18 Jan 202100:32:53

This episode delves all into the risks of Tinder. Emily recently experienced a Tinder hookup that resulted in her finding out something that horrified her. Emily talks about how we can implement safety measures to try and avoid a situation like hers. Emily also discusses a Tinder story sent in from a listener that portrays a different side to one of the issues raised. 

Tinder Tuesdays on The Sealed SEXtion, bringing you the funniest, juiciest and most scandalous Tinder hookups. 
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012 Sex toys, measuring cocks and labelling gender with Elliana Pantazis13 Jan 202101:03:37

Elliana Pantazis features on this episode. Emily and Elliana talk about everything Adult Stores and sex toys. Elliana has been working in an Adult Store for 5 years and creates content on Tik Tok that provides a humorous insight into working in a sex shop.

Emily and Elliana discuss:
- How Elliana began working at an Adult Store
- What Elliana knew about sex before getting the job
- How her friends and family responded  to her new career choice
- Strange requests in store such as Cock Ring measurements
- Tips on buying your first sex toy
- How penis owners can use vibrators
- Gender identity and people labelling your gender
- Sexuality and being gay
- Misconceptions and stigmas associated with Adult Stores
- Do's and don't for customers

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Elliana's LinkTree:
https://linktr.ee/ellianapantazis

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