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Life After Loss: Embracing Grief and Creating Space for Healing04 Oct 202300:19:45

In this episode, Alexa shares her journey seven weeks postpartum, navigating the grief and loss of her baby boy. She discusses how she and her husband are dealing with the intertwining emotions of pain, love, and longing in the wake of this tragic loss. Alexa also outlines the changes in her life and business to prioritize her healing after this traumatic event, along with the announcement that the podcast will temporarily pause, allowing Alexa the space she needs for healing and renewed hope.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Postpartum journey updates
  • How Alexa and Jordan are dealing with grief and loss
  • Life and business adjustments to create space for healing
  • Taking a temporary pause on the podcast



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This show is produced by Soulfire Productions


Gabriel's Arrival: Our Birth Story27 Sep 202300:57:25

In this heart-wrenching conclusion of the 3-part series, Alexa and Jordan share their emotional journey through preterm labor and losing their son, Gabriel Vincent. They take us inside the hospital, where they faced difficult decisions and grappled with overwhelming emotions. The episode captures the bittersweet moment they held their baby and the array of emotions they had to endure in the postpartum period. Join them in this raw and heartfelt episode as they navigate life, love, and loss.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Alexa's preterm labor experience and challenges in the hospital
  • An emotional and heartbreaking birth story of Gabriel Vincent
  • Finding comfort and strength in their supportive community
  • The emergence of faith amidst grief


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This show is produced by Soulfire Productions


Love, Life, and Parenting after Porn with Candice Horbacz26 Jul 202301:07:15

Join Alexa in a multifaceted and authentic conversation with Candice Horbacz. Candice shares insights on working with consent and redefining value for adult content creators while also providing valuable tips on preventing content bans and diversifying online platforms. They also discuss the importance of having open and responsible sexual conversations with your kids, partner dynamics in business and family, and striving for an anti-fragile marriage.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Embracing and modeling authenticity for your children
  • Challenges and judgment faced in the adult content creation industry
  • Approaching new technologies with curiosity and healthy skepticism
  • Tips to keep your content from being banned
  • Balancing business, family, and support in an anti-fragile marriage


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Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Happy 1 Year Anniversary! (Mashup)01 Dec 202100:34:39
The Importance of Adventure & Play in a LTR with Taylor Lou Dixon and Jared Nations24 Nov 202101:01:13

If you’re in an LTR (long-term relationship), listen up! Taylor Lou Dixon and Jared Nations are on the show to talk about how they approach their relationship—with intention, play, adventure, communication, and a ‘yes’ mindset. From the start, they built their relationship on these foundational pieces, and continue to incorporate these values into their everyday lives. You can’t help but hear their story and feel inspired by their conscious, growth-minded approach!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Play, adventure, & communication as foundational pieces of Taylor and Jared’s relationship
  • How they grew into personal development & spirituality together
  • How they say ‘yes’ to most opportunities like travel and BDSM workshops
  • The start of their sex life: a month of foreplay leading into role playing 
  • Intentional practices to ensure a thriving relationship


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Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Our Big Festival Wedding PT217 Nov 202100:53:17

Tune in for part 2 of Alexa and Jordan’s festival wedding debrief! May you gain inspiration for your wedding to exude unique parts of yourself, combining tradition with nonconventional aspects. The couple walks you through their beautiful reception, toasts, roasts, and infamous after-party! Let’s go!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Highlights from the reception & infamous after-party
  • How Alexa’s family dynamic changed from the wedding weekend
  • Conscious whippets ceremonies & cuddle puddles
  • How Alexa and Jordan are integrating their wedding weekend
  • What’s next for the newlyweds!



This show is sponsored by:


Connect with Alexa:


Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Our Big Festival Wedding PT115 Nov 202100:58:39

Join the newlyweds, Alexa and Jordan Bowditch, as they recap their festival wedding! They delve into the beautiful ways their family and friends supported them in making their wedding special, and share ways their wedding was tastefully traditional refreshingly unconventional. Stay tuned for part 2!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Highlights from Alexa & Jordan’s wedding week
  • Infusing New Orleans culture into their wedding week
  • Bringing intention and ritual into all aspects of their day
  • How Alexa & Jordan’s friends and family supported them 
  • Symbolism behind Alexa’s wedding dress
  • Alexa and Jordan’s vows & two beautiful pieces of advice they received 



This show is sponsored by:

  • Everyday Dose | Go to everydaydose.com and use the code THATSEXCHICK for 20% off their already discounted starter kit (65% off your first order!) 


Connect with Alexa:


Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Our Sex Lives Revealed with Bryn Daylor & Serena Rose10 Nov 202100:47:55

Get ready for a juicy conversation between Bryn and Serena as they give a sneak peek into their sex lives and what their sexual development has looked like as sex coaches. 


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Role-playing, quickies, & intimacy check-ins with your partner
  • Ways to communicate how you want to be touched
  • Current challenges Bryn & Serena are working on as sex coaches
  • What they are proud of in their sex lives
  • Ways to practice receiving greater love & pleasure
  • Exploring polyamory & desensitizing your cervix


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Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Trauma: Navigating Sex & The Nervous System with Aurianna Joy03 Nov 202101:04:02

Aurianna Joy is an embodiment mentor, herbalist, doula, and trauma resolution educator. Today, Aurianna and Bryn unpack how trauma can affect sex, intimacy, and our ability to be present with others. Aurianna provides tools for practicing nervous system regulation with your partner so you may cultivate feelings of safety, leading to more presence and deeper intimacy.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • How trauma stores in the body & manifests in relationships
  • Somatic healing for nervous system regulation
  • Steps to begin cultivating presence for deeper intimacy 
  • How to practice curiosity & communication with your partner for trauma healing
  • Navigating pleasure & sex with chronic illness



This show is sponsored by:

  • Everyday Dose | Go to everydaydose.com and use the code THATSEXCHICK for 20% off their already discounted starter kit (65% off your first order!)


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Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Sexual Personal Development | Mini Episode01 Nov 202100:15:13

In today’s mini episode, Alexa breaks down how to take responsibility for your sexual growth and development. She shares resources for you to discover your kinks, erotic blueprint, and desires, along with ideas for where to invest in your sexual education. Lex also talks about playing with your edges in partnership and dating, giving fun ways to ease into and explore your fantasies.


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This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

It's Wedding Week! with Jordan Bowditch & Bryn Daylor27 Oct 202101:04:05

In today’s episode, Bryn is interviewing Alexa and Jordan as a lead-up to their wedding! The couple shares how they infused intention and ritual into traditions like their bachelor and bachelorette weekends, and give a peek into their “festival formal” wedding vibe. Alexa vulnerably explores the anxiety and depression she’s been experiencing, and how Jordan shows up for her in these moments. Tune in to get a delicious look into how Jordan and Alexa have been tastefully traditional and refreshingly unconventional, putting a conscious spin on it all!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • How Alexa & Jordan put a conscious, spiritual spin on traditions
  • The festival formal vibe & unique elements of their wedding
  • How anxiety & depression have been present for Alexa
  • Managing the cycle of chaos and flow
  • Committing to ‘out’ not being an option
  • What Alexa & Jordan love most about each other



Save 50% on Sex & Love Academy with code WEDDING50: https://alexa-martinez.mykajabi.com/sex-love-academy-1 


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Connect with Alexa:


Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Becoming & Attracting the Queen with Christine Hassler20 Oct 202101:07:08

Master Life Coach and one of Alexa’s dear friends, Christine Hassler, is on the show to unpack how to call in a healthy and fulfilling relationship! She shares her own journey of singlehood after divorce, and the steps she took to call in her partner. Christine and Alexa also talk about healthy conflict in relationships, becoming clear on what you desire, and how inner child healing is at the core of all of this.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • How to clarify what you want for your life & partnership
  • Why people-pleasing is a selfish behavior
  • Conflict & repair as a part of healthy relationships
  • Tips and tools for calling in your partner
  • How masculine energy will pursue you; there are no games
  • Why inner child healing is crucial for finding your person
  • What to look forward to when you become a wife


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Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Try This Before Sex | Mini Episode18 Oct 202100:09:18

How would you like to be touched? In today’s minisode, Alexa breaks down how to play The 3-Minute Game with your partner to connect. By putting this game into practice, you’ll change your intimacy forever. It’s a fun and beautiful way for you and your partner to be fully surrendered, in the moment, together!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Examples of how to play & communicate 
  • How to surrender into each role
  • Upholding boundaries & being honest about what you want
  • Learning to feel sensitive to your partner’s energy
  • Playing for the sake of connection


Work with the Sex & Love Co Team: thatsexchick.com/meet-the-team 


Connect with Alexa:


Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Meet My Holistic Fertility Doctor with Dr. Jacque Moser19 Jul 202301:07:09

In this episode, Alexa dives into her transformative fertility journey alongside the remarkable Dr. Jacque Moser, a functional medicine doctor with a holistic approach. Together, they explore the intricate dynamics of the fertility triad, delving into the impact of mold on our health and the various tests Alexa underwent in her quest to conceive. Tune in as they uncover the underlying factors contributing to stress and discover empowering strategies for managing inflammation, all while embracing the transformative power of holistic fertility care.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • The holistic perspective of Alexa's fertility and pregnancy journey
  • The interconnected factors of fertility
  • Importance of adrenal health and hormonal function
  • Managing stress and inflammation


This show is sponsored by:


Connect with Dr. Jacque Moser:


Connect with Alexa:


Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions


The Truth about STIs with Emily Rymland13 Oct 202100:53:42

Emily Rymland is a nurse practitioner specializing in the care of women with HIV. Today’s empowering and educational conversation takes the fear and shame out of STIs! You’ll learn about accessible at-home testing, how to navigate the realities of STIs, and ways to approach conversations around them. Alexa also shares her own personal stories about sexual health. Be empowered and know your status!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • At-home testing for STIs
  • Alexa’s personal stories with sexual health
  • Approaching conversations around STIs
  • Reducing fear and shame around herpes & HIV
  • Our failed medical system around sexual health
  • How to advocate for your STI testing
  • Getting tested regardless of age


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Connect with Alexa:


Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Sex for Busy Parents with James & Angela Mitchell06 Oct 202101:01:30

Sex & Love Co relationship coaches, James and Angela Mitchell, are on the show to talk about navigating intimacy and sex when you have children! They share what to expect in the beginning of raising kids, and how they prioritized their relationship to keep the intimacy alive. The couple unpacks how they’ve nurtured their relationship to make their sex life even hotter since having children! Angela and James also provide insight into how they’re raising their children in a sex-positive home, and how to create a foundation of open communication and trust with your kids.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • How Angela & James have hotter sex after kids
  • Scheduling sex & being intentional with intimacy 
  • How prioritizing your relationship will benefit your kids
  • Raising your children in a sex-positive household 
  • Setting the foundation for open communication with your kids
  • How your sexual development affects every other area of life


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Connect with Alexa:


Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

What's Keeping You From Your Best Orgasm | Mini Episode04 Oct 202100:14:02

Alexa is coming at you with a minisode to unpack five things that may be in the way of you achieving your *best* orgasm!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • How feeling your emotions increases your pleasure
  • Be present to your full body experience during sex
  • Breath, sound, & repatterning your body’s experience of pleasure
  • Focusing on the sensations in your body vs. completely on your partner
  • What to know about lubrication, technique, & time


Connect with Alexa:


Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Sex Chat with Jordan's Mom01 Oct 202100:59:46

We’re continuing on the family train with Jordan’s mom, Tina Funk! Today you’ll hear about Tina’s childhood, her four marriages, and stories from Jordan’s childhood. From religious men to bad boy bikers, moving as a single mom from CA to OH, and having her father figure be only 7 years older than her—Mama Funk has stories to tell! 


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • How Tina’s upbringing and family dynamic shaped her
  • Jordan as a miracle baby & how sex education was lacking
  • Religious men, bad boy bikers, and moving from CA to OH
  • What Tina’s learned about herself & life from her 4 marriages 
  • Stories about Jordan’s childhood


This show is sponsored by:


Connect with Alexa:


Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Making a Long-Term Marriage Work with Lisa & Gary Cram29 Sep 202101:20:02

Please welcome to the show Jordan’s Auntie Lisa and Uncle Gary! Lisa and Gary played a big role in the man Jordan’s become, and in today’s episode, you’ll see this reflected in the way Lisa and Gary talk about their personal growth and how they’ve cultivated a lasting, fulfilling marriage. Get ready as they take you on their beautiful journey, sharing nuggets of wisdom on effective communication, creating intimacy, and committing to self-exploration.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Lisa & Gary’s origin story and their initial commitment to friendship
  • How physical touch can be a key part of communication
  • Learning how to share traumas for deeper intimacy & trust
  • Being on the same team no matter what comes your way
  • Asking questions to help identify issues & the root of fear
  • Cultivating non-judgment with your partner and yourself


This show is sponsored by:


Connect with Alexa:


Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

The Power of Your Orgasm with Bryn Daylor22 Sep 202100:45:51

Bryn is riding solo in today’s episode, exploring one of her favorite topics—ORGASMS! She’s unpacking what it means to be connected to your body and orgasm, and how it goes deeper than just surface-level pleasure. You’ll learn the different types of orgasms, how to reach them, and what’s possible when you explore de-armoring your cervix. May this episode open you up to delicious ways to explore your own body and pleasure! 


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • What it means to be connected to your body and orgasm
  • Different types + benefits of orgasms & de-armoring your cervix 
  • Connecting to your body to heal old patterns
  • The life force & creation energy in sexual satisfaction
  • What Bryn’s unlocked from taking ownership of her pussy & pleasure


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Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Meet My Relationship Coach | Annie Lalla15 Sep 202101:15:09

Today’s episode is an especially raw and vulnerable one as Alexa and Jordan take you behind the curtain of a live coaching session with their relationship coach, Annie Lalla. You’ll get a glimpse into what ‘doing the work’ as a couple can look like for navigating conflict and strengthening connection. It’s a very personal look into their lives as you hear Alexa and Jordan talk through their upcoming meeting with Alexa’s biological father. Grab some tissues ‘cause you may get teary!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Live coaching between Jordan, Alexa, and their relationship coach, Annie
  • What ‘doing the work’ as a couple can look like
  • Navigating conflict & giving feedback when you’re not triggered 
  • How Jordan shows up for Alexa when emotions are running high
  • Healing Alexa’s relationship with her biological father


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This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Healing through Kinky Spiritual Sex with Serena Rose08 Sep 202100:50:54

Welcome to the show the newest member of the Sex & Love Co Team, Serena Rose! She’s a sex, love, relationship coach who helps people embrace their kinky side and heal their relationships with authenticity and deeper sexual awareness. Today, Serena and Alexa talk about how Serena has healed childhood trauma through sex, grown her self-love through kink, and uses conscious communication for deep connection.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Serena’s origin story; growing self-love & sexual freedom
  • Heal trauma and shame through sex
  • Discovering Serena’s kinky side - playing with plastic wrap & power dynamics
  • Serena’s OnlyFans experience with her husband
  • Conscious communication


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This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Embodiment Rituals to F*ck Like a Goddess with Alexandra Roxo01 Sep 202101:14:56

Alexandra Roxo is the best-selling author of F*ck Like a Goddess, host of Holy F*ck, a transformational coach, and multi-disciplinary artist. Alexandra has been featured on ViceTV’s Slutever, Epix’s Sex/Life show, and most recently on the Netflix series Too Hot To Handle! Today, Alexa and Alexandra talk about feminine embodiment and having a connected lust for life by softening into the deepest parts of our emotional selves. By expressing how we feel in real-time, allowing others to hold us in our pain, and by coming back to our bodies, we experience life and sex on the richest of levels. This is a juicy conversation, so let’s dive in!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Resurrecting the feminine experience & connecting to the rhythms of nature
  • How we’ve trained ourselves to be disembodied
  • Practices and rituals for feeling & becoming more embodied
  • How being emotionally open & slowing down affects our sex lives
  • Being witnessed in your pleasure & fullest expression
  • Being open, vulnerable, and letting others hold you in your pain


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This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Reclaiming Sexuality & Self-Love After Infidelity with Jaime Wilkinson25 Aug 202101:25:42

Jaime Wilkinson is part of the Sex & Love Co team, specializing in helping women reclaim their sexuality, find confidence in their bodies, and play with their edges. Today, Jaime shares the story of her 8 year marriage, why she was unfaithful, and the healing she’s done to get to a place of self-forgiveness and self-love. Jaime and Bryn also talk about abandonment wounds, Jaime’s dirty kinky side, self-intimacy, and eroticizing your shadow side.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Jaime’s “American dream” marriage, the infidelity that ensued, & her sex/dating life now
  • Tapping into Jaime’s kinky side & sensual embodiment exercises
  • How Jaime came back to her body & moved from self-hatred to self-love
  • Physical symptoms that manifested from emotional pain
  • Leaning into your emotions & processing during sex



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Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

An Inside Look at How We Fight12 Jul 202301:01:31

Today, Alexa and Jordan explore the dynamics of conflict and common challenges that couples face in relationships. Drawing from personal experiences, they emphasize the importance of genuine listening, creating safe spaces for expression, and prioritizing connection and harmony over winning individual arguments. Get the inside scoop on how Alexa and Jordan argue and handle disagreements to foster a healthy, thriving relationship.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Navigating conflict and creating a safe space for emotions
  • Rupture and repair in relationships
  • Challenging the victim mentality around narcissism
  • Rebuilding trust after infidelity
  • The path to harmonious relationships



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This show is produced by Soulfire Productions


Divorce Deep Dive: Codependency, Psychedelics, and Uncoupling with Love with Bryn Daylor & Chris Marhefka18 Aug 202101:34:50

Today, Bryn and her ex-husband Chris Marhefka take us behind the scenes of what their 10-year relationship looked like where sex wasn’t working and how they each stepped into their best sexual selves on the other side of it. They talk about the spicy energy and wild sex of new relationships, and how the lack of intention and communication led to avoidance, playing a role in their divorce. Bryn and Chris share how individually hiring sex coaches after separating helped them heal limiting beliefs, take personal responsibility, strengthen communication, and now have deeply fulfilling sex lives.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • The start of Bryn & Chris’ relationship & what caused the breakdown
  • Chris’ sexual beginning: lack of sex talks, porn, and being under the influence
  • New relationship energy & wild sex leading to avoidance and resentment
  • How creating space leads to desire
  • How they evolved by hiring sex coaches after separating
  • Tips for approaching tough conversations with your partner



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Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Women Who F*ck Women... and Date Men with Kelli Tennant11 Aug 202101:18:16

Host of The Kelli Show and CEO of Soulfire Productions, Kelli Tennant, is back on the show! Today, Alexa and Kelli talk about creating their own rules in relationships outside of societal norms, and how this has led to healing, stronger communication, and novel experiences in the bedroom. Kelli shares her journey leading up to having sex with women and threesomes with her fiancé, Conner, and she shares their dating process for finding others to play with.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Having sex with women & Kelli’s journey leading up to this intimacy
  • Spankings, kink, and the nuances of sexuality
  • How being monogamish has deepened Kelli and her fiancé’s relationship
  • Communicating your fear-based stories to your partner
  • How intimacy with women can heal sisterhood wounds
  • How Kelli and Conner approach finding a third



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Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Birthday Q&A: Hot Sex, Body Love, and Healing Father Wounds04 Aug 202100:52:53

In today’s episode, Jordan interviews Alexa for her 33rd birthday! As she moves into this new year, Lex vulnerably shares what’s on her heart around familial relationships, releasing resentment, and closing loops. Jordan also asks some juicy questions on dating, Lex’s favorite advice on relationships, and her best sex experience at age 32. They wrap up the episode with Jordan sharing his birthday wish for Lex, and Lex sharing what she wants to leave behind and bring with her into this new year.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Healing Alexa’s relationship with her father
  • Alexa’s relationship with her body
  • Reducing shame around STIs and multiple partners
  • Favorite advice Alexa’s been given around love & being a team with Jordan
  • Alexa’s best sex experience at age 32! 
  • What Alexa wants to leave behind and take forward with her this year
  • Jordan’s birthday wish for Alexa


Connect with Alexa:


Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 



This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Our Monogamish Relationship: How We Plan to Bring in a Third with Jordan Bowditch28 Jul 202101:16:07

Today, Alexa and Jordan are delving into how they are navigating bringing a third into their relationship to play! You’ll hear the journey that brought them to this place, including what they’ve understood relationships to be in the past and how this allows them to build a stronger foundation with more connection and love. They talk about their concerns, hesitations, what they’re most excited about, along with the process of finding an incredible woman to treat like a queen!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Why Alexa & Jordan are looking to play with others
  • Concerns and hesitations around bringing others into their relationship
  • What they are most excited about & how it’ll positively challenge them
  • Dynamics to navigate with having a third
  • Their past experience with a threesome & their most recent date night
  • How to approach finding a third and what they each are looking for when using Feeld
  • How they want their third to feel after the experience


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Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

‘Sex/Life’ on Netflix: The Hot, Heavy, and Shadow Sides with Bryn Daylor21 Jul 202101:49:05

Today, Alexa and Bryn are unpacking the new erotic Netflix series, ‘Sex/Life’. The ladies reveal their thoughts on the show, exploring various scenes and the positive and shadow aspects of the series. This episode is for anyone who has watched ‘Sex/Life’ from start to finish because there are SPOILERS!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Alexa & Bryn’s perspectives on the series “Sex/Life”
  • The waning passion in Billie’s marriage & the lack of communication between partners
  • Personal responsibility, knowing your desires, & communicating your needs
  • What to do if you’re challenged by dick size
  • Friendships and how they play a role in your sex life
  • How play and fantasy evolve throughout the show
  • The sexual revolution we are moving into


Resources:


Connect with Alexa:


Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 



This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

The ABC’s of Kink with Bryn Daylor14 Jul 202100:57:21

Today, Alexa and Bryn are giving you a peek into the language of kink! Exhibitionist, switch, brat, rope bunny… learn through their delicious stories what these terms mean, how you may connect with them, and the imagination and play behind all of it.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Juicy stories explaining the language of kink
  • How Alexa & Jordan use erotic discipline
  • Experience transformation through consensual pain and pleasure
  • How kink is a way for adults to use curiosity, imagination, & play 
  • Watching others & being seen in your pleasure
  • Dom and sub space as altered state of consciousness


Resources:


Connect with Alexa:


Click here to submit your review for That Sex Chick, and you’ll get access to “Uncover Your Inner Kink,” a guided meditation and more, created by Alexa! 


This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Play Parties, Erotic Blueprints, + Fantasy Exploration with Kimi Inch and The Sex & Love Co Team07 Jul 202101:32:21

Get ready to hear about The Sex & Love Co weekend of play! Alexa is joined by her team, Bryn Daylor and Jordan Bowditch, and professional dominatrix and somatic therapist, Kimi Inch. The foursome dives deep into their sexy weekend full of personal growth, sharing the various ways this play party workshop was educational, entertaining, empowering, and erotic!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • The physical and emotional prep for the play party
  • What went into choosing the workshops for the play party
  • Deepen your sexual experience by understanding your erotic blueprint
  • The intentional setup of the play party space
  • Fantasy exercise using erotic language 
  • Pain as an access point to pleasure and laughter 


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Coming Out, Sex with Women, and Embracing Your Sexuality with Arielle D'Angelo30 Jun 202101:15:25

Arielle D'Angelo is an LGBTQ+ Self-Love Coach and founder of WeTheRainbow. Today, Elle shares her personal story of discovering her own sexuality and what her coming out process was like. Elle and Alexa also talk about navigating coming out, sex toys, and approaching same-sex sexual experiences! This is a beautiful conversation about self-love, acceptance, and embracing your sexuality.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Elle’s coming out process & discovering her own sexuality
  • Using labels and identities when it feels empowering
  • Navigating coming out and loving yourself first
  • Sex toys, scissoring, and same-sex sexual experiences
  • LGBTQ+: What more straight people should know


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Figuring Out You're Kinky: Getting Collared, Red Flags, and D/s Dating with Hannah Deindorfer23 Jun 202101:08:15

Get ready for a juicy AF episode with the fairy godmother of female online fitness coaches, Hannah Deindorfer! Hannah starts by sharing the challenging relationship she’s had with her body and sexuality, and how exploring BDSM helped heal her trauma. You’ll hear about her relationship in a Dom/sub dynamic, what it means to be collared, and red flags to be aware of when you’re a sub looking for a Dom.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Deriving worth and value from your body & sexuality
  • Hannah’s experience as a collared submissive in her Dom/sub relationship
  • Trauma and body image healing through Dom/sub power play
  • Red flags to be aware of when you’re a sub looking for a Dom
  • What Hannah learned about Dom/sub dynamics as a top to a female bottom


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Living a 24/7 Dominant-Submissive Dynamic with Andrew & Dawn16 Jun 202100:54:56

Dominance and submission aren’t only for the bedroom, and today you’re going to hear how this dynamic can lead to a deeply loving, trusting, fulfilling, and growth-oriented relationship. Andrew and Dawn share how their relationship evolved into a 24/7 Dom/Sub dynamic, and how having these roles have enriched their relationship and sex life.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • How Andrew & Dawn’s relationship evolved into a 24/7 Dom/Sub dynamic
  • How self-awareness, confidence, and personal growth played a role in developing a D/S relationship
  • What a 24/7, D/S dynamic looks like inside & outside the bedroom
  • Why conflict is almost nonexistent in Andrew & Dawn’s marriage
  • Roles of the Dom & how the Dom leads the Sub to feel more free and happy


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From Shame to Lasting Sexual Self-Esteem with Dr. Tara05 Jul 202301:02:15

In this indulging episode, Alexa is joined by sex and relationship expert Dr. Tara. They dive deep into the multifaceted aspects of sexuality and self-discovery, uncovering the keys to experiencing lasting pleasure and satisfaction. Dr. Tara emphasizes the vital role of understanding one's body and fostering effective sexual communication within relationships. Get ready to liberate yourself from shame and cultivate a profound sense of sexual self-esteem.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Dr. Tara's sexual profile
  • Dealing with sexual shame
  • Sexual relationships and communication
  • Exploring sexual self-esteem and sexual self-knowledge
  • Understanding and overcoming your relationship trauma
  • The aspects of sexual communication


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Threesomes, Dating Apps, & Knowing Your Desires with Bryn Daylor09 Jun 202101:05:38

Today, Alexa and Bryn dive into the conversation on dating and sex. Bryn shares her first hand, real experience of her dating life—like how she knew she was ready to date post-divorce, being intentional on dating apps, and how she leads with the conversation of sex to avoid disappointment. The ladies unpack why it’s important to reflect on what did and didn’t work in past relationships, and how to get clear on what you desire in your next partner or hookup. At the end, Bryn shares her juicy threesome experience with a married couple!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Post-divorce: how Bryn knew she was ready to date
  • Dating, profiles, and the culture of Hinge and Feeld
  • Navigating a conscious threesome on Feeld
  • Limiting beliefs around intimacy Bryn’s had to unpack
  • How to lead with the conversation of sex when dating
  • What sexual development has looked like for Bryn
  • Radiating your authenticity for attracting a partner(s)


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What It's Like to Work with a Sex Coach02 Jun 202100:36:20

Today, Alexa is unpacking all the ins and out of what it’s like to work with a sex coach. She answers questions around finding the right coach, when to work with one, the cost, and what a typical session looks like. If you’re curious about working with a sex and relationship coach, lean into it. Start as small or as big as your nervous system or bank account allows, because all of this work counts in becoming the best version of yourself, whether you are single or in a relationship.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • What you gain from working with a sex coach
  • How you know it’s time to work with a sex coach
  • What to consider when finding the right coach for you
  • A typical sex coaching session & various topics Alexa covers
  • Hiring a coach when you’re single or in a relationship
  • The cost of working with a sex coach
  • When to work with a therapist and/or a coach


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Relationship Rituals, Death Cycles & Sabbaticals with Libby Lia & Andrew Drish26 May 202101:19:12

Libby Lia and Andrew Drish approach their relationship from an unconventional lens—from taking relationship sabbaticals and having relationship “board meetings,” to BDSM and training with a dominatrix. You’ll hear how they navigate the various seasons of their relationship and what it takes to be “all in” for a lifetime. Get ready for another juicy and dynamic episode!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Creating a vision for your relationship with your partner
  • What it takes to be “all in” for a lifetime & creating safety to play with edges 
  • Going through seasons & death cycles within your relationship
  • Relationship sabbaticals for growth & maintaining sovereignty
  • Creating devotion through surrender and trust in your partner
  • Relationship board meetings & the sacred and functional sides of relationships
  • How sex and power exchange translates to every area of your life
  • Andrew’s experience training with a dominatrix


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Conscious Relationships: Adventure, Role Play & Community with Taylor Lou Dixon and Jared Nations24 May 202100:58:22

Taylor Lou Dixon and Jared Nations are on the show to talk about how they approach their relationship—with intention, play, adventure, communication, and a ‘yes’ mindset. From the start, they built their relationship on these foundational pieces, and continue to incorporate these values into their everyday lives. You can’t help but hear their story and feel inspired by their conscious, growth-minded approach!


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Play, adventure, & communication as foundational pieces of Taylor and Jared’s relationship
  • How they grew into personal development & spirituality together
  • How they say ‘yes’ to most opportunities like travel and BDSM workshops
  • The start of their sex life: a month of foreplay leading into role playing 
  • Intentional practices to ensure a thriving relationship


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Polyamory, Attachment Styles, and Trauma Healing with Jessica Fern19 May 202100:58:16

Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern is on the show to talk about consensual nonmonogamy and doing relationships in a nontraditional way. This conversation invites you to reflect on the intentionality in your relationships, and if you’re wanting to dabble in being open, understanding the ‘why’ behind it. Jessica also talks about attachment theory, exploring how our emotional experiences and wounding shows up in sex and relationships.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • The different types of consensual nonmonogamy 
  • Getting clear on the ‘why’ behind your desire for nonmonogamy
  • Challenges that can arise in sexual vs. emotional nonexclusivity
  • How your attachment style affects sex and relationships
  • Why healing trauma benefits relationships and society


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Cock Pain and Men’s Sexual Health with Dr. Susie Gronski14 May 202101:04:40

Dr. Susie Gronski is a physical therapist and sex counselor specializing in men’s sexual and pelvic pain. Today she unpacks how she challenges traditional views around men and sex, and the ways she helps men with their sexual pain and dysfunction. Dr. Susie and Alexa also talk about navigating sexual pain with your partner, what to expect when you see a pelvic health specialist, and taking ownership over your pleasure.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Navigating sexual pain with your partner
  • Reframing traditional views around sex
  • Taking ownership over your pleasure
  • How to be open & communicate about the pain you’re experiencing
  • Warning signs to look out for with pelvic and sexual health
  • What to expect when you see a pelvic health specialist


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Sex Dungeons + BDSM Edgeplay with Jane Boon10 May 202100:50:33

Today’s conversations shines the light of normalcy on kink and BDSM, giving you a nudge to connect with your inner freak! Jane Boon takes us through scenes in her novel Edge Play, exploring sex dungeons, dominatrixes, and BDSM experiences. 


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Erotic exploration: using your imagination for sexual playtime
  • Sex dungeon experiences
  • Dominatrixes, submissive men, and rope tying
  • Allowing space to get curious about your kinks
  • How to find BDSM and kink social events


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Sex Parties Done Right with Lila Donnolo05 May 202102:03:12

Curious about sex play parties? Lila Donnolo is on the show to unpack everything you need to know before attending or hosting one! She breaks down what to expect at a play party, how to physically and emotionally prepare, play party etiquette and safer sex talk, and all the best practices along with red flags to look out for. This is a juicy, illuminating, and dynamic conversation that will expand your mind to what’s possible in a sex-positive culture.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • What to expect at a sex play party
  • Lila’s “FBID” exercise to prepare for a play party
  • How to physically prepare your body and your tool kit
  • How to give consent and gracefully receive a rejection
  • Play party etiquette, safer sex talk, and hygiene 
  • How to reframe your jealousy into arousal
  • Play party best practices  


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OnlyFans: The Trojan Horse of Personal Development for Men with Mercedes Terrell & Jade Bryce28 Apr 202101:16:20

Mercedes Terrell and Jade Bryce are on the show to talk about how they are merging sexuality and spirituality in OnlyFans, removing shame around sexuality, and helping men step into their kingdom.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • The sexy & spiritual sides of Jade’s & Mercedes’ OnlyFans accounts
  • OnlyFans as a modality for healing and men’s work
  • Using OnlyFans to absolve shame around sexuality
  • Men using OnlyFans for relationship & sex advice
  • Deepening self-love & confidence through play and pleasure
  • Leveraging OnlyFans to create positive change


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Embodiment & Intimacy: Let Your Darkness F*ck with Madelyn Moon26 Apr 202101:03:44

Madelyn Moon is a feminine and masculine coach and host of Mind Body Musings. Today, she beautifully shines light on how embodiment and presence allow you to feel into the subtleties of each moment, and how the deepest intimacy is found by noticing the subtle changes in your partner’s body. She dives deep into the polarities of masculine and feminine energy, and how to embody each. Alexa and Maddy talk about pain and pleasure in the bedroom, and the self-awareness that unfolds when you lean into your shadow sides.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • How to practice polarity of the masculine & feminine with your partner
  • Deep intimacy & better sex by feeling into the subtlety of each moment
  • Embodiment teaches our partners how to love us better
  • Embracing your shadow side in the bedroom


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What is Tantra, Really? with Shawn Roop28 Jun 202301:02:51

Master Tantric Counselor, Shawn Roop, joins Alexa in an enlightening episode to explore the transformative power of tantra. With deep expertise in Eastern approaches, Shawn guides listeners into the vast world of tantra with grace and ease. Unraveling the essence of tantra as a holistic lifestyle, they highlight its profound impact on sexuality and the path to enlightenment. The discussion emphasizes the balance between innocence and wisdom in attaining mastery and how tantra can improve all aspects of life.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • The transformative power of Tantra for enhanced intimacy
  • Highlights of Shawn's journey to devoting his life to tantra
  • Tantra as a lifestyle: broadening the concept
  • The role of Tantra in people's sexuality and path to enlightenment
  • Different exercises for activating your pleasure center
  • Cultivating a deeper connection with oneself through tantra



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Rope Bondage: Surrender, Self-Awareness & Vulnerability with Rina Trevi21 Apr 202100:59:33

Professional Dominatrix, sexological bodyworker, and vulnerability coach Rina Trevi is on the show to talk about Shibari (Japanese rope bondage) and power exchange for deeper self-awareness and healing of your shadow side. The art of rope tying, tantra, and BDSM are all tools Rina uses to guide individuals into ultimate surrender and vulnerability, a place where the outer world dissipates and you connect fully to your inner self.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • The spiritual side of being a professional Dominatrix
  • Exploring your erotic mind for deep self-awareness
  • Yoni massage for unlocking your full orgasmic potential
  • Shibari journey: meet yourself fully through total presence
  • Vulnerability and freedom through BDSM & kink


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Prostate Play + Becoming a Multi-Orgasmic Man with Cam Fraser14 Apr 202101:14:32

Cam Fraser is Australia’s leading men’s sex coach who combines spirituality and esoteric traditions with science-backed approaches for greater self-love, awareness, and expansion. Today’s juicy conversation dives into the myths of men’s sexuality, practices to extend orgasms and non-ejaculatory orgasms, and how exploring prostate play can make you a better lover.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Myths of masculinity and men’s sexuality
  • What to know about orgasms and ejaculation
  • Rewriting narratives around libido
  • The practice of edging for non-ejaculatory orgasm
  • Prostate massage for multiple orgasms
  • How men can last longer in bed
  • Become a better lover by exploring prostate play


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Conscious C*ck: Take Your Partner to the Cosmos with Kristopher Lovestone12 Apr 202100:58:21

Kristopher Lovestone is a sex educator, relationship skills teacher, and author of “Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual for Men.” Kristopher is passionate about changing the rules of the game when it comes to relationships, exploring how couples succeed in relationships and have long-term, satisfying sex lives. Today’s conversation unpacks what healthy masculinity entails, strategies for creating a conscious relationship, and how to stoke the fire in your partnership.


Today on That Sex Chick:

  • Characteristics of healthy masculinity
  • Female sexual anatomy: a roadmap for hot sex
  • Conscious relationship design strategies
  • Communication tools for relationship success
  • How to have better sex (esp. in long term relationships)
  • Building intimacy through authenticity & space
  • Embracing your ever-evolving sexual bucket list


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