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Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [ S3] EPISODE 7: A WAKE UP CALL

This month, we intentionally create space for wives' voices, not to replace ours, but to enrich them. Because sometimes the greatest insight a husband can receive is hearing how he is seen, supported, and celebrated from across the table. In this episode, we sit with Tebello Motshwane for a conversation that is thoughtful, layered, and deeply human. She challenges husbands to consider the unseen emotional baggage they carry into marriage, while offering practical insight into the legal realities many couples overlook until it’s too late. Tebello speaks about accountability, preparation, and the courage to ask difficult questions before saying “I do,” reminding us that marriage is not only emotional and spiritual, but deeply practical too. More than a legal discussion, this episode explores identity, legacy, and the spaces where love, trauma, and responsibility intersect, inviting us to reflect on the families that formed us and the grace required to build marriages that are both emotionally and legally secure. Drawing from her own childhood experience of divorce, Tebello reflects on how early disappointment, instability, and unanswered questions quietly shape the adults we become. She unpacks the emotional inheritance of broken homes, the patterns we repeat without realizing, and the healing that begins when we finally name our stories. With honesty and warmth, she also shares her journey into law, navigating motherhood while pursuing her degree, and the quiet strength of a mother who carried both her and her son through survival mode with dignity and sacrifice. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK:   / thathusbandpodcast   INSTAGRAM:   / thathusbandpodcast   #ThatHusbandPodcast #MonthOfLove #HusbandsWhoLead #CelebratingHusbands #marriagematters #MarriageWisdom #LoveAndLegacy #MarriageConversations #FaithAndFamily #IntentionalMarriage #ModernHusbands #CourageousLove #HealingInMarriage #PurposeDrivenLove #RelationshipGrowth #StrongerTogether #MarriageMatters #LegacyBuilding #WiseLove #HeartWork #EmotionallyHealthyMarriage #MarriagePodcast #LoveWithIntention #SacredCommitment #GrowthInLove

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 6: I'M SECURE ENOUGH TO SUBMIT This month, we intentionally create space for wives' voices, not to replace ours, but to enrich them. Because sometimes the greatest insight a husband can receive is hearing how he is seen, supported, and celebrated from across the table. In this episode, we sit with  @MpoomyLedwaba  who leads boldly in the world yet chooses softness, reverence, and intentionality at home. She speaks about submission not as silence, but as strength. About celebration not as grand gestures, but as thoughtfulness, waking up early to make breakfast, guarding sacred moments from public performance, apologizing even when pride resists. She reminds us that when a man creates safety, love flows naturally. When he protects her growth, she instinctively protects his heart. And in that sacred exchange, both rise. It’s not about shrinking brilliance, it’s about stewarding it for something greater than self. This conversation is deeply reflective, honest, and at times uncomfortable, in the best way. It challenges husbands to examine ego, safety, and leadership. It invites wives to share how they see us when we are strong, when we are bruised, when we are trying. And most importantly, it reminds us that celebration is not about flowers or ties, it’s about being seen, respected, and chosen. This month of love, we’re not just asking how men can love better. We’re asking how husbands can be loved well, and how powerful wives can honour their men without losing themselves. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #MonthOfLove #HusbandsWhoLead #CelebratingHusbands #marriagematters #PowerfulWives #biblicalmarriage #loveandrespect #healthymarriages #intentionallove #SoftYetStrong #kingdommarriage #marriageconversations #faithandfamily #servantleadership #modernhusband #HonourYourSpouse #covenantlove #GrowthInMarriage #PurposeDrivenMarriage #marriagepodcast #MenWhoGrow #WivesWhoSupport #sacredunions #LoveDoneRight

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 5: WHAT I LEARNED TOO LATE This Valentine’s season, That Husband Podcast flips the script. Instead of centering romance as something men must perform, we pause to ask a quieter, braver question: how are husbands celebrated, seen, and honoured? In this special episode, Blaque sit across the table not with another husband, but with an ex-wife, opening space for an honest, reflective conversation that many men rarely get access to. Drawing from lived experience, healing, and hard-earned clarity, this episode explores what husbands often carry silently: the invisible pressures, unmet needs, misunderstandings, and the cost of not being celebrated well. It challenges cultural assumptions about provision, respect, honour, and emotional presence, while inviting men to listen without defensiveness and women to consider how affirmation, appreciation, and celebration can be expressed in ways that truly land. This is not a conversation about blame, bitterness, or rehashing the past. It’s about maturity, growth, and learning, for husbands who want to love better, and for marriages that want to last longer. In a month filled with red roses and public gestures, this episode asks a deeper Valentine’s question: what does it actually look like to celebrate a husband well? Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #HusbandsPodcast #thathusbandpodcast #marriageconversations #CelebrateHusbands #valentineswithpurpose #modernmarriage #marriagegrowth #healthymarriages #husbandlife #marriagetalks #faithandmarriage #christianmarriage #marriageworks #intentionalmarriage #MenInMarriage #husbandsupport #marriagepodcast #RealMarriageTalk #strongfamilies #marriagehealing #MarriageReflection #HonouringHusbands #biblicalmanhood #faithbasedpodcast #marriagewisdom #marriageculture #MenAndFaith #HusbandsMatter

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 4: MARRIAGE ON AUTOPILOT This Valentine’s season, That Husband Podcast flips the script. Instead of centering romance around wives alone, this episode creates space to ask a powerful and often overlooked question: how do wives intentionally celebrate and honour their husbands? In this conversation, we’re joined by Buli Makhubo who brings honesty, depth, and practical wisdom as she shares what it looks like to show up for her husband in ways that go beyond clichés. Together, we explore the idea that celebration isn’t about grand gestures, but about attentiveness, thoughtfulness, softness, and presence. From understanding love languages to breaking patterns of familiarity and complacency, this episode challenges the quiet assumption that men don’t need affirmation. It speaks to husbands who feel unseen and to wives who desire healthier, more connected marriages but may not always know where to start. Whether you’re married, engaged, dating, or simply curious about building strong relationships, this episode invites you into a deeper conversation about honour, respect, and intentional love. This Valentine’s, we’re asking: what does it truly mean to celebrate your husband? Press play and join us as we learn how small, consistent acts of honour can transform marriages from the inside out. FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandsMatter #MarriageConversations #HonouringYourHusband #ValentinesWithPurpose #MarriageTalk #healthymarriages #intentionallove #marriagegrowth #christianmarriage #faithandmarriage #modernmarriage #marriagepodcast #MenNeedLoveToo #husbandsupport #CelebratingMen #marriagemindset #RelationshipWisdom #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageGoals #lovewithintention #MarriageCommunity #strongfamilies #marriagehealing #realmarriage

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 3: TRUST GOD OR STAY STUCK Sitting across the table is a husband who understands that love is not about perfection, but about choosing to show up again and again, especially when you fall short. Together, we reflect on what it means to love sacrificially, to race to the back of the line, and to embrace servant leadership in a world that often teaches men to take rather than give.

We go deep into the realities that shape men and marriages in South Africa: fatherlessness, emotional neglect, unspoken wounds, and the quiet struggles many husbands carry alone. From navigating rejection and addiction to learning how to communicate how you want to be loved, this episode reminds us that healing in marriage begins with honesty. A loving father, a present husband, and a gentle man are not born, they are formed through accountability, grace, and intentional growth.

At its core, this conversation is a reminder that husbandhood is a journey of “failing forward.” We are not where we want to be, but we are certainly not where we used to be. This episode is for husbands who are trying, husbands who are tired, and husbands who want to do better tomorrow than they did yesterday. If you believe marriage is worth fighting for, worth learning for, and worth becoming better for, this one is for you. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #husbandhood #ByHusbandsForHusbands #modernhusband #marriageconversations #blackhusbands #faithandmarriage #HealthyMasculinity #marriagegrowth #marriagegrowth #fatherhoodmatters #FatherhoodMatters #breakingcycles #mendoingthework #emotionalintelligence #servantleadership #marriagejourney #HusbandsInCommunity #knowbetterdobetter #marriagepodcast #menandmarriage #HealingHomes #realmentalk #buildingstrongfamilies

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 2: HAVE WE DEMONISED A GOOD THING?

In this episode, we slow the noise down and step into a conversation many husbands carry quietly but rarely articulate. What does connection really mean, not just physically, but spiritually, emotionally, and relationally? Through honest reflection and lived experience, we explore how true intimacy is far deeper than proximity or performance. It’s about being known, recognised, and met at a soul level, long before bodies come into play. This episode invites husbands to reconsider where connection begins, how it’s nurtured, and why it matters more than we often realize. We also confront the stories many of us inherited about sex, marriage, and manhood, especially the ones that taught us to fear, suppress, or misunderstand desire. With humility and clarity, this conversation unpacks how silence, shame, and unspoken expectations can quietly erode intimacy in marriage. We reflect on how unlearning harmful narratives, practicing honest communication, and embracing tenderness are not signs of weakness, but acts of courage and leadership within the home. At its core, this episode is a call to presence. To show up fully, for our wives, for ourselves, and for the covenant we’ve committed to. It reminds husbands that intimacy is not sustained by instinct alone, but by intentionality, kindness, and a willingness to grow. This is not a conversation about perfection, but about pursuit: choosing, again and again, to build bonds that are rooted in trust, truth, and love that lasts. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #HusbandsPodcast #ByHusbandsForHusbands #MarriageConversations #biblicalmarriage #intimacyinmarriage #healthymasculinity #christianhusbands #faithandmarriage #realmentalk #marriagegrowth #emotionalintimacy #SexAndMarriage #marriagematters #leadingathome #CovenantOverCulture #IntentionalHusbands #marriageworks #menandmarriage #spiritualleadership #deepconnection #husbandlife #kingdommarriage #ModernHusbands #marriagepodcast #menwholead

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 1: BEING THE HEAD IS COSTLY This episode is a conversation between husbands who are still learning what it truly means to be married. We reflect on how many of us entered marriage well-intentioned but underprepared, carrying single-life rhythms, unchecked assumptions, and a shallow understanding of leadership, submission, and accountability. What we once labelled as “control,” we now begin to recognize as covenant responsibility. This episode names the quiet shock many men experience when marriage asks more of us than we expected — emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. Together, we wrestle with the deeper work of husbandhood: building healthy systems, and intentionally shaping the culture of our homes. We explore what leadership really looks like beyond clichés, presence, protection, emotional provision, spiritual direction, and courage in moments of tension. We speak candidly about resistance, shame, past failures, dry seasons, and the temptation to seek fulfilment outside the home when marriage feels costly. This is not theory, it’s lived experience, marked by mistakes, resilience, repentance, and growth. At its core, this episode is a call back to brotherhood and responsibility. A reminder that no man is meant to carry marriage alone, and that healing and strength often come through honest community with other men who call out greatness, not weakness. This conversation is for husbands who are wounded but willing, unsure but committed, and hungry to lead their families with humility, courage, and faithfulness. If you’ve ever felt the weight of marriage and wondered, “Am I doing this right?” — this episode is for you. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast?_r=1&_t=ZS-933eAjVurPV INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #Husbandhood #MarriageLeadership #MenLeadingWell #FaithAndMarriage #ChristianHusbands #BiblicalManhood #MarriageWork #LeadingAtHome #HealthyMasculinity #MarriageConversations #MenAndMarriage #HusbandsCommunity #CovenantOverConvenience #IntentionalMarriage #FamilyLeadership #MenDoingTheWork #MarriageGrowth #BrotherhoodMatters #SpiritualLeadership #ModernHusband #MarriageCulture #MenInProcess #FaithfulHusbands #MarriageTruths #LeadershipAtHome

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 47: THE GROOTMAN'S TABLE In this episode, we sit down for a real and honest conversation about masculinity, what it means today, how society defines it, and how men actually experience it. Instead of reacting to loud cultural narratives, we slow things down and look at masculinity through the lens of everyday life: responsibility, identity, pressure, leadership, and the quiet questions men rarely get space to ask. We break the conversation into three parts, starting with the mind, how men think, process expectations, deal with internal pressure, and navigate modern culture. From mental resilience to emotional awareness to the silent weight many men carry, we explore what a healthy thought-life looks like for men who want to grow. Then we move to the soul and the body, unpacking purpose, character, spiritual grounding, physical well-being, and how these three areas shape one another. This is not a lecture, just men talking to men, trying to understand what it means to show up fully, faithfully, and intentionally in a world that often misunderstands men. Tune in, reflect, and take what you need for your own journey. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #masculinity #modernmanhood #husbandpodcast #MenTalkingToMen #mensmentalhealth #healthymasculinity #mindbodysoul #husbandlife #marriagegrowth #mensupportingmen #ManhoodJourney #purposedrivenmen #StrongMenSmartMen #IntentionalLiving #menswellbeing #HusbandsCommunity #FaithfulHusbands #characterbuilding #meninconversation #realmenrealtalk #menofhonor #MasculineIdentity #MalePerspective #CulturalMasculinity #maleperspective

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 46: YOU CAN LEVEL UP This episode is about the real journey of becoming men who refuse to settle for comfort when growth is calling. We dive into the moments that break us open, the decisions that reshape our identity, and the brave, often painful process of letting go of the boy so that the man can emerge. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unsure, or overwhelmed by the weight of who you’re trying to become, this conversation will find you exactly where you are. This episode is a portrait of husbandhood in motion, of men wrestling with expectations, confronting old versions of themselves, and learning to lead not from ego but from purpose. Musa takes us into the heart of his story: the crisis that cracked him, the therapy that rebuilt him, the marriage that matured him, and the faith that steadied him when the ground beneath him shifted. Together, we reflect on how husbands can transform passive frustration into intentional influence, how identity gets reshaped in the presence of a strong partner, and how clarity often arrives not in the noise of hustle but in the quiet courage of decisive action. And through it all, we return to the truth that guides this podcast: we are husbands who aren’t where we want to be, but certainly are not where we used to be. Men imperfect, failing forward, committed to knowing better so we can do better, for ourselves, our wives, and the families entrusted to us. Whether you're in a season of growth, a season of confusion, or standing at the crossroads of who you were and who you need to become, this episode will remind you that you are not alone, and that transformation, though costly, is always worth it. #thathusbandpodcast #husbandhood #marriagematters #SouthAfricanMen #BlackHusbands #MasculinityJourney #MenGrowing #failingforward #purposedrivenmen #husbandtalks #realconversations #marriagegrowth #mensupportingmen #husbandlife #fatherhoodjourney #buildingfamilies #emotionalintelligence #visionclarity #purposedrivenliving #leadershipformen #HusbandWisdom #familyfirst #menoffaith #growingtogether #legacybuilding

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 45: HEARING A MAN In this episode, we journey into the inner world of husbands who are trying to grow, heal, and show up better than the men who raised them. Danny joins Blaque for a deeply transparent conversation about the complexities of manhood, the weight of provision, and the quiet battles men fight long before anyone sees the cracks. From confronting generational cycles to redefining what it means to be healthy as a husband, this episode invites men to finally hear themselves in someone else’s story. Together they peel back the layers of marriage, identity, faith and pressure, exploring moments where being a husband feels like carrying contradictions. They speak openly about anger that has no name, silence that was taught too early, and the exhausting expectation to be strong everywhere except at home. Their dialogue reaches into father wounds, money wounds, the tension between public respect and private struggle, and the deep need for safe friendships that hold men accountable to the husbands they want to become. This is an episode for every man who has ever felt unseen while trying to lead, every husband who is trying to love from a place he is still learning to understand, and every couple navigating the uncomfortable but necessary work of growing together. Through stories of faith, failure, provision, boundaries and redemption, this conversation reminds us that perfect love does not come from perfect people, but from people willing to heal, willing to learn and willing to stay. This is a space for husbands who are not where they want to be, but are refusing to stay where they used to be. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandsForHusbands #marriagetalk #realmenrealtalk #menhealing #modernmarriage #husbandhood #faithandfamily #blackfathersmatter #mensmentalhealth #marriagewisdom #HealthyHusbands #breakingcycles #generationalhealing #christianmarriage #ManhoodJourney #husbandlife #marriagegrowth #MarriedMenTalk #EmotionalHealthForMen #marriageconversations #husbandsupport #RealMarriageRealTalk #menwholead #MenWhoLove

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 44: REDEFINING PRESENCE

In this episode, we sit down for one of our most honest and soul-stirring conversations yet. TK opens up about his journey as a husband and father in a way that feels both familiar and deeply challenging as he reflects on what it means to grow into the kind of man who protects his home not only with provision but also with presence, tenderness, and intention. His story reminds us that marriage matures us, shapes us, and reveals us, and that the small choices we make every day slowly build the foundation our families stand on. As TK recounts the beauty and weight of discovering that he and his wife were expecting twins, we hear a man wrestling with fear, excitement, and a fierce resolve to show up fully for his family. He shares how vulnerability, trust, and honest communication became the pillars that carried him and his wife through loss, new beginnings, and the unpredictable terrain of parenthood. His reflections invite every husband to rethink leadership as something deeper than authority, something rooted in service, emotional steadiness, and spiritual anchoring. This conversation is for every husband who is trying his best to be better than yesterday, every man navigating the tension between who he was raised to be and who his family needs him to become. It is a reminder that growth is possible, that healing is ongoing, and that love becomes real when it is practiced in the everyday rhythms of presence, patience, and partnership. If you are a husband on your own journey of failing forward, learning forward, and loving forward, this episode will meet you right where you are. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #marriagematters #faithandmarriage #HusbandTalks #realmenrealtalk #christianmarriage #MenOfFaith #MarriageJourney #menoffaith #marriagepodcast #BlackLove #husbandlife #marriagegoals #FaithfulHusband #christcenteredmarriage #marriagewisdom #MenInMarriage #godlyhusband #loveandleadership #marriageconversations #marriageandfaith #PurposefulMarriage #ModernHusbands #marriagereflections #DoingBetterTogether

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[S2] EPISODE 43: THE SHUT DOWN There are moments when a nation’s wounds demand more than words, they demand repentance and resolve. In this episode, I step into one of South Africa’s most urgent conversations, gender-based violence and the purple wave spreading across our country. What may look like a trend on social media is, in truth, a cry for justice, a cry that echoes through every home, every marriage, and every man’s heart. This isn’t about pointing fingers, it’s about asking the harder question, what am I doing to stop it? This isn’t a conversation about marriage, communication, or compatibility, it’s about silence. The kind of silence that shelters abusers and isolates survivors. I share honestly about how good men often turn away, how faith calls us not to retreat but to confront, and how the gospel offers us a way back, not through guilt but through responsibility. Strength, I’ve learned, isn’t about domination, it’s about restraint, gentleness, and the courage to protect. Through this reflection, I’m calling us as men to stand, not as spectators but as mirrors, mentors, and safe spaces. To listen to the cries that heaven hears, to start the healing where it must begin, in the heart of a man. Because when we rise with integrity, women can finally rest, not in peace beneath the ground, but in peace within this nation we’re trying to rebuild together. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #ShutdownEpisode #MenAgainstGBV #genderbasedviolence #southafrica #PurpleForChange #WomenForChange #MenWhoProtect #faithandjustice #HealingTheNation #HusbandsForChange #RealMenStandUp #endgbv #silenceisviolence #biblicalmanhood #GospelAndCulture #justiceandmercy #menofintegrity #protecther #RighteousMasculinity #RepentanceAndRenewal #MenInConversation #faithinaction #RebuildTheNation #ForTheDaughters

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 43: THE WEIGHT OF ROLE MODELS In this deeply reflective conversation, Blaque Nubon sits down with Tumelo, a husband molded by faith, shaped by his father, and stretched by love, to talk about what it really means to become the man your family can lean on. From the illusion of potential to the reality of presence, Tumelo shares the inner wrestle of a husband who grew up with a godly example and now faces the sacred pressure of raising the bar without losing his soul in the process. They talk about the quiet war between provision and presence, about how the drive to build can sometimes rob you of the very home you’re building for. Tumelo opens up about lessons from his father, a man whose apologies were as strong as his convictions, and how that legacy both steadies and challenges him in marriage. This is a story about unlearning what even the “good things” taught us, and realizing that the work of being a husband is not about perfection but repentance. For every man who’s trying to become the kind of husband his son can learn from and his daughter can trust, this episode is a mirror, tender, raw, and real. It’s about learning that potential means nothing until it’s lived out in love, that success means nothing without surrender, and that maybe, just maybe, knowing better is finally starting to look like doing better. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

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Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 42: WHEN FAITH IS TESTED Marriage will test every part of a man, not to break him, but to reveal what’s real. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with Gregory Cassim for a raw, redemptive, and deeply personal conversation about fatherhood, faith, and the long road from brokenness to covenant.

From infertility and loss to the miracle of fatherhood, from growing up in the hood to leading a family and a church, Greg opens up about the unseen battles that shape a man’s character. They talk about what it means to be a covenant leader - a husband who protects, nourishes, and provides even when life feels like it’s falling apart. This is not a conversation about perfection; it’s about presence. It’s about husbands who are learning to unlearn, fathers who are choosing to show up, and men who are breaking the cycles they were born into. It’s about grace, redemption, and the kind of love that doesn’t quit when it hurts. So if you’ve ever wrestled with waiting, if you’ve ever wondered where God is in the silence, or if you’ve simply longed to be a better man, this one’s for you. Pull up a chair, lean in, and listen as Blaque and Gregory talk man to man about covenant, character, and what it truly means to be That Husband. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #MarriageAndFaith #CovenantLove #FatherhoodJourney #FaithfulMen #MarriageIsCovenant #BreakingCycles #MenWhoPray #RedemptionStory #LoveThatStays #ChristianMarriage #Husbandhood #FaithAndFamily #MenOfFaith #RealConversations #MarriagePodcast #FaithInTheWaiting #FatherhoodUnfiltered #FromBrokennessToCovenant #MarriageThatHeals

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[S2] EPISODE 41: INTENTIONAL BUILDING BLOCKS

Marriage isn’t for the fainthearted, it’s for men who are willing to die to self so that love can live. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with Luxolo Kentane for a brutally honest and beautifully redemptive conversation about what it truly means to lead, love, and live faithfully in marriage. From the quiet sacrifices to the loud laughter, from words that heal to wounds that teach, this one goes deep into the heart of husbandhood. They talk about presence over performance, choosing love over ego, and the sacred weight of being seen and affirmed by the one person who knows your flaws best. These aren’t men who have it all figured out, they’re husbands learning, failing, repenting, and rebuilding daily. What you’ll hear here isn’t theory, it’s testimony, it’s the language of men being transformed by love, one small death at a time. So whether you’re newly married, wrestling through the tension, or just longing to be a better man, this episode will remind you why marriage is both the hardest and holiest journey you’ll ever take. Pull up a chair, lean in, and listen as Blaque and Luxolo Kentane talk, man to man, about what it means to be That Husband.

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Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 40: COMMITMENT In this week's episode, we sit down with Tebogo Maribe, a husband, father, and man who has walked through seasons of loss, rebuilding, and redemption. From the sting of unemployment to the tension of wanting to provide but being unable to, Tebza opens up about the realities many husbands face but rarely voice. His story isn’t just about surviving hard times, it’s about choosing faith, humility, and responsibility even when life humbles you. As we dive into his journey, we explore what commitment really means when it’s no longer poetic but practical, when it’s waking up each day to try again for the sake of your wife and child. Tebogo's reflections on fatherhood, accountability, and love reveal a man learning to live out what he believes, one small decision at a time. It’s raw, real, and redemptive, the kind of honesty that calls men back to their purpose and their people. For every husband who’s ever asked, “What do I do when I’ve tried everything?”, this conversation is both a mirror and a map. A mirror to show where you are, in between failure and faith, and a map pointing toward the kind of man you still can become. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandsForHusbands #marriagematters #realmenrealtalk #faithandfamily #modernmarriage #menoffaith #marriagepodcast #husbandlife #fatherhoodjourney #BlackLove #christianmarriage #MarriageInRealLife #FaithfulMen #godlyhusband #MenTalkingMarriage #ManhoodAndFaith #loveandcommitment #marriagereflections #MenBeingMen #marriagestories #marriagegrowth #purposedrivenman #marriageandfaith #ThatHusbandCommunity

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 39: MARRIAGE REALITIES In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with husband, father, and community builder Papi Luu, a man whose story is as real as it is inspiring. From humble beginnings on a sleeper couch to leading an organization that’s transforming lives, Papi’s journey is a reminder that manhood is not about perfection but about progress, purpose, and perseverance. He opens up about love, leadership, and legacy, and what it really means to carry the weight of being a husband in today’s world. Together, they explore the quiet strength that sustains a marriage through hardship, from financial struggle to personal loss, from the discipline of staying when it’s easier to run, to the courage of healing when pride says “stay silent.” Papi’s honesty about his own battles, and his growth through therapy, mentorship, and faith, challenges every husband listening to do better, not just for their wives, but for themselves. This is not just a conversation about marriage, it’s about becoming the kind of man your wife, your children, and your community can depend on. So grab your coffee, lean in, and join the brotherhood of men learning to love with intention, lead with humility, and build with vision.

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Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S2] EPISODE 38: VULNERABILITY vs TRANSPARENCY In this episode, we tackle one of the most misunderstood concepts in today’s culture: vulnerability. Men are constantly told that “real strength is being vulnerable,” but what happens when that vulnerability is offered in unsafe places? Instead of healing, it often leaves men more wounded, more guarded, and more hesitant to trust. Together, we wrestle with the reality that vulnerability without safety isn’t courage, it’s exposure, and we unpack why vulnerability is far too sacred to be cheapened in the wrong hands.

As husbands, we carry the responsibility of leading with courage, and that includes the courage to open up in the one place where it truly belongs: within the covenant of marriage. Vulnerability with your wife creates intimacy, trust, and unity, while withholding it builds invisible walls that eventually turn spouses into strangers. We share how Christ’s example of exposing His wounds for the sake of healing becomes a model for us as husbands, and why going first in this area sets the tone for love and connection in marriage. This conversation isn’t just about theory, it’s about reclaiming a healthier, God-designed way of being men. For single men, it’s a call to practice transparency with brothers and mentors while wisely guarding their hearts. For married men, it’s an invitation to stop hiding and start building deeper intimacy with their wives through vulnerability. This episode is raw, real, and personal, a reminder that vulnerability isn’t weakness, but the most courageous gift a husband can give. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #HusbandPodcast #marriagematters #godlymarriage #menoffaith #marriagecovenant #husbandsandwives #christianmen #marriagetalk #faithfulhusbands #marriagewisdom #VulnerabilityInMarriage #marriagegodsway #CourageousHusbands #marriageandfaith #HeadshipAndLove #marriagereflections #HusbandLeadership #ChristAndTheChurch #marriagejourney #biblicalmarriage #marriagegrowth #strongertogether #HusbandsForHusbands #FaithFilledMarriage #MarriageIntimacy

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In this special Heritage Day edition, the conversation turns inward. For the first time in a while, we are joined by my wife, Lilly not just as a guest, but as a partner who lives the very realities this podcast speaks about. Together, we open up about the weight and beauty of marriage: the fights that once felt familiar, the lessons learned through patience, and the slow but powerful healing that comes when both husband and wife choose not to give up. This episode isn’t polished perfection, it’s raw, honest, and sometimes even a little awkward. We reflect on how faith, vulnerability, and even disagreements have shaped our marriage. There’s laughter, confession, and a lot of learning, but at the heart of it all is a desire to do better, not just talk better. As we remind each other, small improvements, even 2% shifts, can make a world of difference in how a husband shows up for his wife, and how a wife nurtures her husband with her words. Whether you’re a husband striving to grow, a wife longing to better understand your man, or a couple navigating the everyday weight of love, this conversation will resonate. It’s a reminder that marriage is not about arriving at perfection but about failing forward together, with grace, curiosity, and patience. Pull up a chair, you’re not just listening to a podcast, you’re sitting with family. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 35: HUSBAND PREPARATION Marriage has a way of waking us up to realities we never imagined. Many of us stepped into it unprepared, thinking love and good intentions would be enough, only to collide with the weightiness of responsibility, our hidden wounds, and the expectations we never knew we carried. In this episode, four husbands sit down to have the kind of raw, unfiltered conversation every man needs: about the struggles we didn’t anticipate, the fears we never admitted, and the slow realisation that being a husband requires more than just showing up. We talk about the baggage we brought into marriage, fatherlessness, trauma, detachment, and the unspoken pressure to “just figure it out.” We open up about the moments that humbled us: when conflict revealed our lack of capacity, when our wives’ strength challenged our fragile egos, and when our unresolved past showed up in our homes. These are not polished stories; they are scars carried into manhood that still ache. But in the telling, there is healing. This is a podcast by husbands, for husbands. Not to give you a five-step formula, but to remind you that you are not alone in your confusion, your failures, or your longing to grow. We are men in process, imperfect, often overwhelmed, but committed to failing forward together. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re the only one struggling, this conversation is for you. Pull up a chair, listen in, and let’s walk this journey of husbandhood side by side. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #HusbandPodcast #marriagematters #husbandlife #realmenrealtalk #marriagepodcast #christianmarriage #marriagejourney #MenInMarriage #marriagestruggles #marriagehealing #faithfulhusbands #marriagegrowth #marriagereality #mensupportingmen #MarriageReflections #marriageconversations #menoffaith #MarriageAndFaith #MarriageCommunity #marriagechallenges #marriagehelp #Husbandhood #marriagesupport #marriagewisdom #failingforward

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[S2] EPISODE 34: THE MAN IN THE MIRRIOR

In this episode, we dive deep into one of the greatest battles men face: lust. But not in the way you might think. We go beyond the surface to uncover the hidden longings, unmet desires, and unresolved wounds that quietly shape how we live, love, and lead in our marriages. These aren’t just struggles with the flesh, they are echoes of deeper cravings for acceptance, power, validation, and freedom. And left unchecked, they can quietly sabotage the very relationships we long to protect.

We get raw and real about the masks men wear, the silent wars we fight in our private thoughts, and the ways we often create illusions to escape unmet needs. Whether it’s the lust for validation that drives us to please people, the lust for power that makes us reckless with money, or the lust for freedom that tempts us to rebel against commitment, these inner battles demand courage, self-awareness, and honesty. This is not just about naming the problem but about learning to recognise where it comes from and how it shows up in our everyday choices as husbands.

This conversation is not for perfect men, it’s for men like us who are wrestling, stumbling, and still choosing to fight for healthier marriages. If you’ve ever felt the weight of secret battles you couldn’t put into words, this episode will give you language, perspective, and hope. It’s a call to curiosity instead of judgment, to courage instead of denial, and to building marriages that are conscious, patient, and rooted in love.

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[S2] EPISODE 33: COMMITMENT IS A DAILY CHOICE Marriage is more than a title, it’s a daily decision to show up, to love, and to choose each other through the highs and lows. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, we sit down with Una Rams, not just as the artist you know, but as a husband and father who opens up about the weight and wonder of love, responsibility, and choosing family. His story is not about perfection, but about the courage it takes to embrace vulnerability, to redefine strength, and to pursue love that is intentional and enduring. Together, we talk about the conscious decision to step into fatherhood, the raw reality of what safety looks like for men in marriage, and the power of walking alongside, not ahead or behind, your partner. From the magic and chaos of childbirth to the sacred responsibility of raising children, Una shares moments that shaped his journey and challenged him to love without the baggage of the past. This isn’t theory, it’s the real, unpolished beauty of marriage lived out in daily choices. What emerges is a picture of love that isn’t built on fairy tales, but on respect, faith, and resilience. This episode will challenge husbands to reimagine what it means to protect, to partner, and to grow together. It’s a conversation for every man who knows marriage isn’t about arriving perfect, but about failing forward, learning daily, and holding on to the hope that when we choose love, fully and freely, we choose life. #RealMenLove #HusbandPodcast #marriagetalks #marriagematters #husbandgoals #lovewithoutfear #marriagewisdom #LoveLikeAMan #LoveHerRight #marriagegodsway #marriagejourney #intentionallove #faithfullove #husbandswholead #husbandlife #MarriageCourage #strongmarriage #LoveBoldly #marriagestrength #HusbandWisdom

Marriage is never just about two people, it’s also about the families and histories that stand behind them. But what happens when those families refuse to stand with you? In this episode we dive into the raw and often painful reality of marrying without your family’s blessing. From the quiet heartbreak of parents who withhold support, to the courage it takes to lead your own household when the crowd is against you, this conversation is both transparent and necessary. As husbands, we know the weight of stepping into marriage: the decision to expose our defects, the challenge of accountability, and the risk of walking a road that isn’t always cheered on. Kutlwano Ditsele opens up about how he faced the lonely, frightening possibility of starting a marriage without his father’s approval, and the deep conviction that carried him forward anyway. It’s a story of faith, resilience, and the costly beauty of choosing your wife, even when it means losing other affirmations. This isn’t just theory, it’s the lived reality for many men. And in telling this story, we’re reminded that marriage is a sacred covenant, not a popularity contest. Family blessing is valuable, but it is not the foundation, God’s call and your commitment are. So if you’ve ever wrestled with the tension between honouring your parents and leading your new family, this episode will help you reflect, find courage, and know you’re not alone. #thathusbandpodcast #christianmarriage #marriagematters #husbandlife #MarriageWithoutBlessing #FamilyApproval #godlymarriage #marriagejourney #faithandmarriage #husbandtalks #marriagestruggles #marriagepodcast #LoveAndFaith #marriagewisdom #BuildingMarriage #marriagegodsway #MarriageDecisions #marriagecounsellor #marriageandfamily #marriagesupport #marriagestories #MarriageCommunity #MarriageAccountability #MarriageWithPurpose #marriageinchrist

Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 31: GOD'S WORK vs GOD'S DAUGHTER Marriage isn’t just about love stories and Instagram moments, it’s about the daily choice to show up, sacrifice, and sometimes die to self for the sake of the one you vowed to cherish. In this episode, we sit down with Allan.P to talk about what husbandhood really looks like when the butterflies fade, the fights get real, and life throws both joy and hardship our way. His story reminds us that being a husband isn’t about perfection, it’s about persistence, humility, and faithfulness when it’s easier to walk away. From the early years of marriage to raising kids and navigating the pressures of work, dreams, and ministry, Allan.P opens up about the hidden battles husbands face, the pride, the fatigue, the temptation to drift, and the weight of responsibility. Yet woven through his story is a testimony of grace: a wife who fuels his ambition, a faith that reshapes his perspective, and a vision of marriage that sees “death to self” not as loss but as the soil where love and legacy grow. This conversation isn’t just for men who think they’ve figured it out, it’s for husbands still stumbling forward, husbands carrying unseen frustrations, and husbands who need to be reminded that they’re not alone. If you’ve ever wrestled with ego, with balance, with choosing your wife over your comfort, then this episode will speak to you. Because at the end of the day, being a husband is less about having it all together, and more about being willing to learn, to sacrifice, and to keep choosing love, day after day. #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandTalks #marriagematters #husbandlife #FaithfulHusbands #marriagegodsway #marriagejourney #HusbandAndWife #christianhusbands #realmarriage #marriagegrowth #marriagepodcast #HusbandsUnite #Husbandhood #marriagestruggles #marriagewisdom #HusbandsSupportHusbands #loveandmarriagehuntsville #HusbandEncouragement #MarriageSacrifice #healthymarriage #marriageinchrist #MarriageLegacy #dietoself #MarriageFaith

 Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 30: MAKING THINGS RIGHT "Nine years ago, a single phone call during Bible Study changed everything. My then-girlfriend’s trembling voice told me she was pregnant. In that moment, the future we had imagined shifted completely. What followed wasn’t just a test of faith, it was a test of love, responsibility, and resilience. Her family cut ties. My reputation in the church felt shattered. And yet, in the middle of the shock and shame, I knew one thing: I couldn’t run. I had to stay." This episode isn’t about a perfect love story. It’s about two people who stumbled hard and then chose to stand together anyway. We talk about navigating estrangement, the weight of cultural expectations, the sting of disappointing those who believed in us, and the slow, grace-filled process of rebuilding trust, with our families, our faith community, and ourselves. Along the way, we unpack how fatherhood began not in the maternity ward, but in a decision to take responsibility, even when it was costly. For husbands, future husbands, and any man who’s ever faced the gap between who he wanted to be and what actually happened, this conversation is for you. It’s about how God’s grace can take a mess and turn it into a marriage, a family, and a testimony. It’s about what we’ve learned over nine years of parenting, persevering, and leaning on each other when winter came. And it’s a reminder that even the most unexpected beginnings can lead to stories worth telling. #thathusbandpodcast #christianmarriage #HusbandsForHusbands #fatherhoodjourney #youngparents #marriageandfaith #RealMarriageStories #biblicalmanhood #christianhusbands #marriagepodcast #husbandlife #christianfatherhood #marriagetestimony #faithinmarriage #godlyhusband #marriagestruggles #christianpodcast #marriagerestoration #loveandresponsibility #GraceInMarriage #marriagegodsway #faithandfamily #HusbandAndWife #christianrelationships #FromMessToMarriage

 Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 29: ALTAR OF AMBITION In this episode, we sit down with Ezekiel Nkotsoe, seven months into marriage and already confronted with the question most men never dare to ask: "Am I idolizing success at the expense of my wife?" Ezekiel shares how his obsession with performance, numbers, and being “the best” collided head-on with the quiet but holy demands of marriage. What began as a journey to build wealth and legacy was slowly revealed as a quest for validation, rooted in childhood trauma and masked as ambition. As husbands, we often say we’re grinding “for the family,” but how many Christmases can you miss before you’ve actually started grinding away from them? Ezekiel opens up about the difficult conversations with his wife, his coach, and God, uncovering the subtle lies we believe about ambition, provision, and masculinity. He reminds us that spiritual, emotional, and physical presence matters more than the car you pull into the driveway. And sometimes, the most godly ambition is learning to be content, to be present, and to serve the family God has placed in front of you. This episode is not just for the high performers or sales guys in Jozi, it’s for every husband trying to reconcile his grind with his calling. Whether you’re newly married, seasoned, or still considering what kind of man you want to be, this conversation is a sacred space for honest reflection. Because at the end of the day, no amount of ambition can hold your hand when you're old, only the woman you chose to love well can do that. #thathusbandpodcast #ChristianHusbands #MarriageMatters #godlymarriage #husbandswholead #FaithAndAmbition #MarriageOverMoney #contentmentinchrist #menofgod #christianmanhood #MarriageIsWork #BlackLoveMatters #generationalwealth #AmbitionWithPurpose #FaithfulNotFamous #HusbandsSupportingHusbands #ModernMarriageTalks #HustleAndHoliness #EmotionalProvision #GodlyMasculinity #KingdomMen #christcenteredmarriage #marriagepodcast #RealTalkForHusbands #marriageandfaith

 Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 28: DON'T LEAVE A MESS BEHIND What happens when the baton is passed to us and we’re not ready to carry it? In this conversation with the incredibly grounded and eloquent Caskey Ndaba, we talk about what it means to become the uncles, the fathers, the leaders we once looked up to. From drafting a will to defining a family vision, we wrestle with the reality of death, not in fear, but in wisdom. Caskey reminds us that masculinity is less about the muscle and more about the mind, and that real manhood means planning, preparing, and protecting. Mr. Ndaba opens up about walking from Diepsloot to Centurion to restart his life after losing everything, including his home and career. He shares how his divorce and later, the tragic loss of his children’s mother, shaped his journey as a father and a husband. These are not just stories, they are scars with purpose. His vulnerability, wrapped in clarity and determination, reminds us that being a husband is not about perfection but about showing up, again and again, even when it hurts. We don’t just talk policies and funeral plans, we go deeper into the fears, insecurities, and silence that often keep men from leading well. Whether you're a newlywed, a father of three, or a man trying to fix the brokenness you inherited, this episode offers both a mirror and a map. Because in the end, being a husband isn’t just about loving your family, it’s about leaving them ready when you’re no longer here. Let’s talk legacy, leadership, and love—because silence is no longer an option. #thathusbandpodcast #failingforward #legacybuilding #husbandswholead #fatherhoodmatters #BlackMenLead #purposedrivenmen #masculinityredefined #ManhoodJourney #menoffaith #VisionForFamily #DeathPreparedness #WillAndTestament #lifeinsurancematters #financialfitness #ModernHusband #healingfromloss #breakinggenerationalcycles #BePresentDad #ManUpMovement #authenticmanhood #griefandgrace #RealMenPlan #LeadershipInMarriage #intentionalliving

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[S2] EPISODE 27: CALLED TO BE PRESENT, NOT PERFECT! This week we sit down with Sbu Dube, for a heartfelt conversation where he opens up about the sacred moment he chose to love not just his wife, but her child too. He shares the weighty but beautiful decision of stepping into marriage with intention, not as a rescue plan, but as a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church. With honesty and humility, he reminds us that becoming a husband isn’t about perfection, but instead, it’s about presence, sacrifice, and a willingness to grow. Together, we explore the quiet fears that fathers often carry, the pressure to get marriage “right,” and how grace makes space for dreams to flourish in the home. Sbu's story takes us through his upbringing in a family that modeled long-term commitment, the lessons he gleaned from watching his father provide with silent strength, and how he carries those values into raising his own children. From changing nappies with trembling hands to the sacred joy of baptising his daughter, Sbu reveals that fatherhood isn’t just a title, it’s a calling, and sometimes, it starts the moment you say "I do." Whether you’re in the thick of raising young children, navigating a busy work-life balance, or wrestling with the tension between dreams and duty, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone. It's a call to stay home, not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually. Because being a husband and father is less about doing everything right, and more about being right there when it matters most. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #HusbandsWhoLead #christianmarriage #blacklovestories #IntentionalFatherhood #modernmarriage #StepdadLove #marriagegodsway #PresentFathers #fathersmatter #faithandfamily #biblicalmanhood #marriagewisdom #lovelikechrist #parentingwithpurpose #husbandgoals #menoffaith #StayAtHomeDadVibes #marriageconversations #legacybuilding #fatherhoodjourney #godlymarriages #dadlifeunfiltered #christcenteredmarriage #marriagematters

 Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 26: BE THE HUSBAND YOU ENVISIONED What does it mean to be a husband in a world that’s constantly shifting its standards? In this episode, we sit with Tshepo Hlongwane, not just to talk about marriage, but to reflect on the weight and wonder of this sacred calling. From the lessons of mentorship, the quiet strength found in friendship with your spouse, to the spiritual responsibility of protecting your family, not just from physical harm but from the subtle spiritual battles, we leave no stone unturned. This is a conversation about choosing to show up even when it's hard, about repentance before repair, and about seeing your wife as a friend before a role. We dive into the real stuff. What happens when you're called to lead but feel underqualified? When your personal wiring clashes with your spouse's? When your dreams won’t let you rest? This episode unpacks how men can steward their marriages, their emotions, and their faith without letting shame or culture dictate the pace. Through laughter, conviction, and layered storytelling, this isn’t just theory, it’s lived experience. Blaque & Tshepo, wrestle with the everyday decisions that shape the men they become at home. If you're a husband who’s ever asked, "Am I doing enough? Am I becoming who God called me to be?", this episode is for you. Whether you’re newlywed, ten years deep, or just dreaming of what kind of husband you want to be, this conversation will meet you where you are. And it will push you, gently, intentionally, toward growth, friendship, and spiritual clarity. This is not just a podcast, it’s a mirror, it's a map, and it's a call to step up. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #ChristianHusband #FaithfulMen #KingdomMarriage #MarriageMatters #GodlyManhood #HusbandLife #LeadWithLove #MenOfFaith #HusbandGoals #MarriageGodsWay #SpiritualLeadership #BiblicalManhood #ProtectAndProvide #MenWhoPray #HusbandsWhoLead #RealMenRealTalk #MarriageConversations #MentorshipMatters #FriendshipInMarriage #ChristCenteredMarriage #HusbandGrowth #PurposeDrivenMarriage #ModernManOfGod #StepUpHusbands

 Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 25: FROM PAIN TO PROMISE In this episode, we sit with Alvin Fredericks of  @thetruedadventurer  a husband, father, and faithful follower of Christ, who walks us through a raw, heartbreaking, and ultimately redemptive journey through 5 miscarriages depression, spiritual wrestling, and healing. This isn’t just a story about grief, it’s a story about carrying unbearable weight silently, about standing at the edge of faith and finding God even when you feel abandoned. It’s a rare glimpse into what miscarriage and loss feel like for a husband, one who is expected to be strong, while silently fracturing on the inside. What do you do when you’ve done all the “right” things, but life still knocks the breath out of you? What does it mean to reflect Christ to your wife when you yourself are crumbling? Alvin opens up about being forgotten in the grief, misunderstood by the church, and pushed to the brink of ending it all. But he also shares the power of faithful friends, fatherly love, and how God used an unexpected encounter to plant the seed of hope again. This episode is not about easy answers, it’s about honest questions, deep pain, and a real Saviour. If you're a husband walking through loss, or standing beside someone who is, this episode will move you. It’s for the men who feel unseen in their suffering. It's for the ones who keep showing up despite the weight. And it’s for anyone who needs a reminder that even in deep suffering, God is not absent, He is forming something eternal. This is not just an episode; it's a lifeline. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #thathusbandpodcast #christianmarriage #faithinsuffering #husbandswholead #MarriageAfterLoss #miscarriageawareness #MenAndGrief #christianhusbands #fatherhoodjourney #infantlosssupport #biblicalmanhood #HopeInHeartbreak #GodInTheStorm #marriageministry #faithoverfeelings #healingtogether #christiantestimony #MenWithFeelings #HusbandPerspective #JesusInThePain #RealMarriageTalk #failingforward #christianpodcast #griefandgrace #christcenteredmarriage

 Visit www.thathusband.com for merch, event tickets and other resources [S2] EPISODE 24: YOUNG, MARRIED & FIGURING IT OUT What happens when your faith, finances, and fatherhood all collide? In this honest and soul-stirring episode, we sit down with Shaun Mahlangu, a husband, father of three, and creative content creator, who opens up about the raw reality of becoming a husband at 22 and navigating life, love, and fatherhood with nothing but a dream, a prayer, and a patient wife. From counting coins, trying to buy a "kota" to losing jobs, feeling like a failure, and watching the light fade from his wife's eyes, Shaun doesn’t hold back. This isn’t just a story; it’s a mirror for every man who's ever wondered, “Am I enough?” Shaun shares how being a broke husband nearly broke him, and what it took to climb out of depression, insecurity, and envy. We discuss retrenchment and redefining masculinity through the lens of failure and faith. You’ll hear what it’s like to cry in the car before work, battle anxiety silently, and still choose to show up every day for your wife, your kids, and your calling. More than that, you’ll hear how God shows up with grace for every child born, every prayer whispered, and every husband willing to keep failing forward. If you’ve ever felt crushed under the weight of expectations or afraid to dream with empty pockets, this episode is for you. It’s a love letter to resilient wives, a tribute to cycle-breaking fathers, and a reminder to all men: your brokenness doesn’t disqualify you, it may just be the very place where God rebuilds you. Don’t miss this deeply reflective, personal, and hope-filled conversation. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandTalks #failingforward #youngmarriage #BlackLoveStories #christianmarriage #HusbandsInTheMaking #fathersmatter #MenCryToo #MarriageInRealLife #realmenrealtalk #FaithfulFathers #GraceInTheMess #menandmentalhealth #VulnerableMen #cyclebreakers #BlackHusbandsMatter #marriagetestimony #godstiming #loveandstruggle #marriagepodcast #menwholead #DadLifeUnfiltered #FromBrokenToBuilt #GodsEconomy

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[S2] EPISODE 23: MARRIAGE IDOLATRY What happens when a man decides to rewrite his story of marriage? In this raw and heartfelt episode, Justin Henry sits across the table to unpack the emotional weight of growing up in a father-absent home, idolising marriage, and healing through it. He shares how he once tried to outrun the pain with career ambition and dating cycles, but ultimately discovered that God's grace and the hard work of real love are what make a husband. This is not just another love story, it's a story of redemption, restoration, and choosing to be present. Together, we talk about the pressures men face, from churches that rush young people into marriage, to mothers who ask, “So when are you getting married?”, to societal metrics that equate manhood with money. Justin reflects on what it's like to try, fail, and try again with wisdom. If you’ve ever made marriage an idol, rushed into love, or felt unprepared for the weight of being a husband, this one’s for you. We don't hold back in this one! Whether you’re married, divorced, dating, or single by design, this conversation will challenge you. Because at the core, this isn’t just about marriage, it’s about what kind of human you’re becoming. Hit play, and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #ThatHusbandPodcast #HusbandsWhoLead #MarriageRedefined #FaithAndMarriage #ModernHusbands #RealTalkMen #GodlyMarriage #BlackMenHealing #FatherWound #MenAndMentalHealth #MarriageJourney #RedefiningManhood #PurposefulMarriage #LoveAfterLoss #HealingThroughMarriage #PremaritalCounseling #MarriageMatters #ChristCenteredMarriage #MarriageIsMinistry #MenWithVision #ChristianHusbands #DoMarriageWell #ManhoodRestored #MarriageAndFaith #BetterHusbandsBetterHomes

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[S2] EPISODE 22: FRIEND-ZONE IN MARRIAGE "Marriage isn’t hard—what’s hard is pretending to love someone you don’t even like." In this episode, we unpack what it truly means for a husband to be friends with his wife. Our guest, Tebogo Mphohle opens up about how friendship in marriage isn't just a bonus, it’s a lifeline. He reflects on the moments where being friends with his wife quite literally saved their relationship. Without that foundation of mutual admiration, laughter, and understanding, many couples, especially men, drift emotionally while still sharing a home. The cost is intimacy being lost, and eventually, so is the marriage. What makes this episode special is how unashamedly it weaves faith, family legacy, and vulnerability. Tebogo speaks about growing up in a home where love was modeled not just privately but publicly, and how that shaped his vision of marriage. Yet even with a beautiful template, he found himself in a toxic relationship before meeting his wife. The contrast was jarring but redemptive. It was only when he was truly seen, truly safe, and truly befriended that his heart began to heal. What followed wasn’t just romance, it was renewal. If you’re a husband wondering why things feel dry, distant, or just… dull, maybe what’s missing isn’t a new date night strategy or more counselling sessions. Maybe what’s missing is friendship. Real, intentional, "you're my day-one" type of friendship. And as you’ll hear in this episode: you don’t have to fake it till you make it, you can choose to like her, again and again. Tune in, be challenged, and rediscover the power of being her friend. Get in touch with us - thathusband@companyxfilms.com FOLLOW THAT HUSBAND PODCAST ON... TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thathusbandpodcast INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thathusbandpodcast/ #marriagetalk #husbandlife #thathusbandpodcast #faithfulhusbands #marriageadvice #RealMarriageConvos #christianmarriage #HusbandWisdom #leadwithlove #marriagematters #FriendshipInMarriage #godlymarriages #StrongMarriageStrongFamily #modernmarriage #MarriedMenTalk #BeHerFriend #MarriageIsMinistry #BlackLoveMatters #SouthAfricanHusbands #MarriageGoalsDaily #husbandswholead #marriageunfiltered #christcenteredmarriage #MarriageRealTalk #HusbandsOfInstagram

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In this soul-stirring episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with Pastor and friend Sihle Xulu for a conversation that feels less like an interview and more like a mirror—reflecting the quiet weight many husbands carry but rarely speak of. From moving provinces with nothing but conviction, to rebuilding a marriage that once felt beyond repair, Sihle opens up about the unseen cost of calling, and the holy tension of wanting to lead well without losing the people who matter most.

This isn’t just about ministry or marriage, it's about the sacred in-between. The moments when your wife says, “I don’t like you right now,” but you still have to show up. The quiet wrestle of asking your family to follow you again—another city, another job, another dream, and wondering if this time, it's really God or just ambition. It’s about learning to hold your calling and your family with both hands and choosing to stay when it would be easier to escape.

For every man who’s ever felt torn between purpose and presence, this conversation is an anchor. It’s a tender reminder that you don’t have to perform your way through pain. That true strength is often hidden in confession, and healing begins the moment we say, “This is hard… but we’re still here.” Press play, this one might change how you see your story.

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[S2] EPISODE 20: BREAKING THE IN-LAW STIGMA

What happens when culture, marriage, and modern masculinity collide? In this deeply personal episode, we sit down with Ayanda Buthelezi to unpack the often misunderstood practice of "Ukukotiza." In this traditional Nguni custom, a new bride spends time with her in-laws to learn the rhythms, responsibilities, and expectations of married life. But this is not just about tradition—it's about identity, manhood, and the sacred in-between space where a wife is not just joining a family but shaping one.

As husbands, we often stand silently at the edge of this process. But what if our silence is costing us something? Ayanda opens up about how Ukukotiza has evolved—how some families still treat it as a rite of passage with dignity, while others risk turning it into exploitation. We reflect honestly on what it means for a man to guide, protect, and honour this season, not as a controller, but as a covering. It’s about more than chores—it’s about culture, character, and covenant.

Whether you grew up watching "Ukukotiza" from the side lines or are navigating it with your new wife today, this episode invites you to rethink your role as a husband in a culturally rich but emotionally complex tradition. This isn’t just a conversation about our wives—it’s about us, too. About how we honour her, honour our elders, and honour God in how we merge culture and covenant.

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[S2] EPISODE 19: DIVINE PLOT TWIST

Sitting across from Blaque Nubon is Kevin Makhubo—a husband, father, and man of God, who opens up about his journey from rejecting the idea of marriage to becoming a husband defined by love and sacrifice. His reflections are not polished soundbites but raw truths, soaked in years of wrestling with God, unlearning broken definitions of masculinity, and submitting to a higher calling. Kevin’s story is not just inspiring; it is deeply confronting for any man who has wondered if he has what it takes to be a present, intentional, and loving husband.

What makes this conversation especially rich is Kevin’s transparency about his relationship with his absent father. At 23, he chose to forgive a man who had wounded him not with violence, but with silence and absence. That act of forgiveness, rooted in obedience to God, unlocked a freedom that shaped the kind of husband and father Kevin would become. It's a testimony that manhood is not inherited, it’s forged. Kevin chose to become the man he never had, breaking generational pain with courageous vulnerability and relentless faith. His reconciliation with his father wasn’t about receiving closure, it was about releasing the burden so he could walk into marriage whole.

The episode also dives into the sacred messiness of marriage, how passion, playfulness, purpose, and pain coexist in a lifelong covenant. Kevin’s reflections on sex, spontaneity, spiritual alignment, and shared purpose with his wife are refreshingly honest and disarmingly insightful. This isn’t a highlight reel of a perfect marriage, it’s a living, breathing example of two people choosing each other every day, even when it costs them. His encouragement about the power of brotherhood, the importance of accountability, and the freedom that comes from open conversations, especially about sex and finances, makes this episode a gift for any man who wants to grow, not just as a husband, but as a whole person.

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In this deeply personal episode, we sit down with Drs. Jerry and Gugu Gule, a couple whose love story spans more than 43 years of marriage. From a chance encounter in a university book queue to decades of shared life, the Gules offer a rare glimpse into a covenant marked by friendship, faith, and fierce commitment. Their story is not just about longevity—it’s about intentional love, expressed through the small, ordinary moments that become extraordinary in hindsight. They show us that behind every lasting marriage are difficult conversations, the willingness to say “I’m sorry,” and the sacred act of wiping away each other’s tears—even when you’ve been the cause of them.

What makes this episode especially profound is the vulnerability and humility with which the Gules reflect on their journey. Dr. Jerry shares the painful memory of missing a key moment in their second child’s birth due to work, a regret that still weighs heavily on him. Dr. Gugu opens up about the ways in which her early life shaped a guarded, assertive posture and how Christ slowly transformed her heart toward gentleness and forgiveness. They describe how prayer, humour, and a shared commitment to reconciliation helped them navigate heartbreak, misunderstandings, and evolving needs across different seasons of marriage. Together, they model a kind of love that is deeply sacrificial, wholly authentic, and refreshingly unpretentious.

This episode is more than just a conversation—it’s a testament. A reminder that marriage, at its best, is not built on grand romantic gestures, but on the slow, steady accumulation of mutual service, grace, and laughter. For every husband and wife wondering if it’s still possible to love and be loved for a lifetime, the Gules offer hope and a blueprint. And in a world that often tells us to walk away when things get hard, this story gently insists: stay, listen, forgive, and grow together.

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[S2] EPISODE 17: SHE GAVE ME FREEDOM TO FIND MY VOICE

In this episode, we sit down with the incredibly thoughtful and grounded Bonko Khoza — not just as an actor, but as a husband, father, and man who continues to wrestle honestly with what it means to show up for the people he loves. This is a conversation between husbands for husbands, where we strip back the performances and talk real about legacy, failure, oneness, sacrifice, and the quiet strength it takes to stay committed — not just to our wives, but to the kind of men we aspire to be.

We talk about the gift and weight of fatherhood, the long road of partnership, and how black men are redefining marriage not as an institution of performance, but of purpose. Bonko shares deeply about how his wife has been both his safety and mirror, and how navigating change within marriage requires humility, introspection, and a kind of teamwork that often goes unseen. This episode isn’t about perfection — it’s about persistence, vulnerability, and learning to love from a place of truth, not tradition.

If you're a husband, or hope to be one, this episode is a love letter to the sacred and messy middle of marriage. It's for those who grew up without examples and those who carry the legacy of good men. It's for the ones trying to break cycles, build homes, and do the work of becoming. As always, this space is for us — to know better so we can do better. Welcome back to That Husband Podcast.

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[S2] EPISODE 16: HOW FAR ARE YOU WILLING TO GO?

In this episode, we sit down with Pastor Jacob Msipha, a man whose 20-year journey through marriage and ministry defies the odds and dismantles the myths. From building a church in a leaking shack to nurturing a vibrant home, Pastor Jacob opens up about the grace, grit, and vision that have carried him through seasons of triumph and turbulence. His story is not one of perfection, but of relentless faith and deeply intentional love. If you've ever questioned whether favour follows marriage, this conversation will challenge and uplift you.

We unpack what it means to be a husband—not just in title, but in spirit, vision, and responsibility. With humility and wisdom, Pastor Jacob reflects on the importance of vision-casting in marriage, the power of vulnerability, and how trust in God becomes the anchor when clarity fades. He doesn't shy away from the hard moments—those when depression, doubt, or silence from heaven fill the room—but he reminds us that the strength of a marriage often lies not in answers, but in who we become while waiting for them.

More than a podcast episode, this is a masterclass in building: building marriages, building families, and building legacy. Whether you're newly married, a decade in, or still wrestling with what partnership looks like, Pastor Jacob’s reflections will meet you where you are. Tune in, take notes, and be reminded—this isn't about becoming superheroes; it's about showing up, every day, and choosing to build anyway.

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[S2] EPISODE 15: REALITY CHECK!

In this raw and soul-baring episode, we sit down with Lebo—a young man, a youth leader, a soon-to-be husband—who opens up about the most sobering season of his life. From preaching on the streets, to falling in love with a woman he dreamed of marrying, Lebo takes us through a journey marked by conviction, love, and an unexpected pregnancy. What unfolds is not just a story of “crossing the line” but one of wrestling with leadership, identity, and faith under the weight of public failure.

This isn't your typical testimony. It’s the emotional unpacking of what it means to own your mistakes, not just privately but publicly—before your church, your family, your peers, and the very youth you were leading. Lebo doesn’t run from his role as a man; instead, he leans into it, bearing the full weight of accountability and finding unexpected strength in the process. In a world where ghosting responsibility is the norm, this is a call back to staying—when it’s hardest, most humiliating, and when the stakes couldn’t be higher.

Whether you’re a man struggling with hidden shame, a couple navigating blurry lines, or someone needing a reminder that grace isn’t just an idea but a lived reality, this episode will meet you in the thick of it. It’s unfiltered, reflective, and redemptive—and ultimately, it’s about a man who slipped on the job but didn’t stay down. This is what it looks like to lead even when you’re broken.

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[S2] EPISODE 14: MARRIAGE GATEKEEPERS

I sat across the table from a man who's about to get married in four months—and what followed was one of the most honest conversations I've ever had on this podcast. He didn’t come with clichés or curated answers. He came with questions. Real ones. The kind that strip the fantasy from marriage and ask what’s actually underneath. Why marriage? Why her? What’s it supposed to shape in us as men? And how do we know we’re not walking into this thing with more ambition than understanding?

In this episode, I don’t come as an expert, but as a husband still learning—still being chiseled. Together, we talk about what marriage reveals about God, about ourselves, and about the kind of love that refuses to quit. We wrestle with the weight of commitment, the humility that comes when your spouse sees the real you, and the joy that can only be found when two sinners choose to stay. We talk interracial love, long-distance strain, friendship before romance, and the terrifying beauty of becoming like Jesus through covenant love.

If you're a man trying to make sense of marriage—whether you're single, dating, engaged, or already in it—this conversation is for you. It’s not polished. It’s not perfect. But it’s real. And if you’re anything like us, you’ll walk away from this episode a little more honest, a little more hopeful, and a little more willing to become the man marriage is calling you to be. Hit play. Let’s talk.

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[S2] EPISODE 13: MARRIED BROKE, BUILD RICH

What does it mean to be a “present man” in a world pulling you in every direction? In this heart-stirring episode of That Husband Podcast, we sit down with Lindo ( ⁨@TheZindelas⁩  ) husband, father, and creative force—whose story is as sobering as it is inspiring. From a bachelor pad with no diapers to a home overflowing with love and purpose, Lindo walks us through the gritty journey of finding himself while choosing his wife, his kids, and his calling every single day.

This episode is for the husbands who are tired of pretending, the men who feel the weight of legacy, and the brothers who are navigating the blurry line between becoming their fathers or forging something new. Lindo speaks candidly about growing up with a present but traditional father, the life-changing year he spent with a nurturing uncle, and how learning to embrace both lion and lamb taught him to lead with softness and strength. Together, we explore the power of knowing who you are, why your marriage might not be the problem—it might be your own identity crisis—and how a wife’s quiet support can be the loudest miracle in a man’s life.

This isn’t just a podcast—it’s a mirror. One that reminds us we’re not lazy for starting and stopping; we’re just on a different kind of journey. If you’ve ever wondered whether you're enough, whether your family sees your effort, or whether love really can change the narrative—we invite you to pull up a chair. Welcome to That Husband Podcast: where we give marriage the PR it actually deserves.

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[S2] EPISODE 12: RECOVERY HAS BROUGHT STRUCTURE TO MY LEADERSHIP

In this heartfelt and hilarious episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with newlywed Codi van der Merwe—just two months into marriage but already deep in the thick of it. From garlic debates in the kitchen to learning how to simply sit and watch your wife's favourite show, Codi opens up about the joy and humility marriage brings. Together, they explore the raw question: What is a husband? Codi’s answer is honest, refreshing, and packed with lessons from his journey of recovery, routine, and learning to lead with love.

The episode doesn’t just stay lighthearted—it dives deep. Codi shares openly about his past struggles with addiction, what nine years of sobriety has taught him, and how his structured lifestyle has shaped the early rhythms of his marriage. Blaque and Codi unpack how spiritual dryness, emotional distance, and selfish habits often start with missing the “small signs.” This conversation is an invitation for husbands to be more present, more self-aware, and more in tune with their wives—before the garlic turns into something greater.

If you’re married, newlywed, or wondering what it really means to show up as a husband, this episode will leave you encouraged, challenged, and laughing. Whether you’re fighting over Forensic Files vs. Bongile or navigating real pain like addiction and healing—this one’s for you. Don’t forget to hit subscribe, leave a comment, and share this with a husband who needs to hear it.

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[S2] EPISODE 10: WOMEN'S SUCCESS!

In a world where the numbers tell a sobering story, how can men step up to change the stats? Only 7% of women in South Africa believe that men actively enable their success, while financial constraints (45%) and a lack of mentorship and networking opportunities (32%) remain some of the biggest barriers to women’s growth. In this episode, we dive into a conversation that is not just about acknowledging the problem but about redefining the role men play in creating real change. Through storytelling, humour, and raw honesty, we explore how men can move beyond good intentions to tangible action.

Jabu Zwane—helps us unpack what’s really at stake and why this issue isn’t just a "women’s problem" but a collective responsibility. Without making this a lecture, we weave personal stories with hard-hitting truths, showing how everyday men can shift the narrative. What does it look like to be intentional about opening doors, offering mentorship, or creating financial opportunities? More importantly, what happens when men begin to see themselves as partners in progress rather than bystanders?

This episode is more than just talk—it’s a call to action. We want to encourage you to walk away with practical insights on how you can be part of the solution. If we truly believe in a future where success isn’t defined by gender but by opportunity, then the real question is: what are we willing to do about it?

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 [S2] EPISODE 9: A HUSBAND'S DILEMMA

In this heartfelt episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with comedian and husband, Linde Sibanda  ⁨@BallDropPodcast⁩  for a raw and insightful conversation about marriage, fatherhood, and the ever-evolving role of a man. From defining what it means to be a good husband to navigating the weight of responsibility, Linde shares how his faith has shaped his journey, providing an unshakable standard amidst life’s uncertainties. With humor and wisdom, the two dive into why so many men struggle without a blueprint, and how redefining masculinity through biblical principles can change the game.

But this conversation isn’t just about marriage—it’s about fatherhood and the gut-wrenching realities that come with it. Linde opens up about a terrifying moment when his son suffered a seizure, shaking him to his core and forcing him to reevaluate everything. How do you balance pursuing your dreams while ensuring your family is secure? How does a man stay sensitive to the season he's in without letting fear or pride dictate his steps? This episode is an unfiltered look at the tension between responsibility and ambition, and how true leadership sometimes means making the hardest choices

If you’ve ever questioned your role as a husband or father, or wrestled with the pressure to provide while holding onto your dreams, this one’s for you. Join us as we unpack what it means to be present, to lead with sensitivity, and to trust God through every season of life. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe—because real conversations like this are the ones that matter.

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[S2] EPISODE 8: BATTLE TESTED

In this deeply personal and reflective episode, Sifiso Pule opens up about his 15-year journey in marriage, offering invaluable insights on love, commitment, and the lessons learned through adversity. From infertility struggles to adoption, and navigating tough times with humility and grace, he highlights the importance of perseverance, sacrifice, and intentionality in building a lasting relationship.

He shares how faith, community, and selflessness have shaped his marriage, emphasising that love isn’t about perfection, but about choosing to stay and grow together, brick by brick. With wisdom gained through years of navigating challenges—financial struggles, doctrinal disagreements, and personal failures—Sifiso reminds us that marriage is a covenant built on trust, sacrifice, and mutual growth.

This episode reflects on the vital role of community and transparency, both in marriage and parenting, and how they have supported his journey. He offers powerful advice to couples facing infertility and adoption, and underscores the transformative power of a love that calls out wrong but still loves unconditionally.

This episode is a must-watch for anyone seeking to understand the real, raw beauty of marriage and community. Whether you’re facing challenges in your relationship or simply looking for a deeper connection with your spouse, Sifiso’s honest reflections will inspire and encourage you to build something lasting, with love, faith, and commitment.

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[S2] EPISODE 7: MISGUIDED MASCULINITY & HOW TO FIX IT

Growing up without a father leaves wounds that shape a man's view of himself, marriage, and fatherhood. Many men carry self-limiting beliefs rooted in abandonment, painful pasts, and distorted ideas of masculinity. In this episode, DJ Mgabe Magabaza dives deep into the journey of revisiting the "crime scene"—the place where fatherlessness killed the husband and father you could have been. We’ll explore how society steps in to raise boys in the absence of their fathers, often leading them down destructive paths, and why healing from these wounds is crucial for becoming the man God designed you to be.

Marriage isn’t just about love—it’s a responsibility, a calling to be a true image-bearer of God. Yet, too many men enter marriage emotionally unavailable, unprepared, and without accountability. We unpack why many men, raised by single mothers, unconsciously seek to marry their mothers and how this affects their ability to lead a household. The reality is, men who don’t show up as husbands and fathers do so by intention, but there’s hope. Through mentorship, accountability, and faith, men can rewrite their narratives and step into their God-given role as loving, present husbands and fathers.

A new breed of men is rising—men who refuse to be absent, who prioritize their wives' joy, who understand the weight of their financial and emotional presence. We’ll discuss the favor that comes with marriage, the cost of infidelity, and the importance of a money mindset in marriage. If men don’t heal, they’ll force their spouses and children to re-parent them. But for those willing to confront their past, a thriving marriage and a legacy of love await. Don’t miss this powerful conversation—your marriage, your children, and your future self will thank you.

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[S2] EPISODE 6: A PARTNER, NOT AN OWNER

What does it truly mean to be a husband? In this episode we sit down with Themba Tom Ntuli for an eye-opening conversation about the weight of marriage, the responsibility of leadership, and the art of drifting—how men often don't realize they’re slipping until they’ve fallen. We talk about how men leave relationships when they’re hurting, but women leave when they’ve healed. By the time she stops fighting, stops asking, stops including you in her future, she’s already gone. But what if you could recognize the signs before it’s too late?

We also dive into the role of accountability—who is leading you as you lead your family? From the pressures of success to the temptations that come when a man starts drifting, we break down why every husband needs a brotherhood, mentors, and a spiritual covering. Real men don’t walk alone. When life gets heavy, when temptation knocks, who do you call? In this episode, we explore practical ways to stay anchored, fight for your marriage, and be the husband your family needs.

Finally, we talk about serving our wives—not just in words, but in action. Too many women pour into their husbands’ dreams only to be forgotten when it’s their turn. A husband isn’t just a provider; he’s a supporter, a protector, a safe space. If marriage isn’t a graveyard for a man’s dreams, why should it be one for a woman’s? Let’s talk about what it really means to build, honor, and uplift our wives the way they do for us.

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[S2] EPISODE 5: THE "PERFECT HUSBAND" TRAP

In this episode, Blaque and Eleanor, take a moment to reflect on the often unseen pressures that husbands carry in their role as providers. Whether employed, underemployed, or unemployed, the weight of wanting to provide for their families can be suffocating. We discuss how wives can support their husbands during these difficult times—by acknowledging their emotional toll and offering encouragement, even when things feel uncertain. It's easy to overlook the quiet resilience husbands show when they are struggling to find work or battling pressures at their jobs. A simple acknowledgment can make all the difference in a husband’s journey to stay hopeful and strong.

This conversation also celebrates the dedication of husbands who show up. It’s about honouring the husbands who, even when they may not have it all together, show up for their families with hands that are willing to serve and hearts that remain determined. The episode also highlights those husbands who, even during seasons of illness or hardship, step up to care for their wives—taking on household chores, offering emotional support, and holding the fort down when their wives need rest. Their commitment is not just admirable, it’s worth celebrating.

As Blaque and Eleanor explore the intricacies of marriage, they dive deep into the importance of communication and prayer during seasons of disconnect. Wives, who may feel overwhelmed or distant, are encouraged to share their needs and feelings with their husbands. Change starts with vulnerability, and in these moments, prayer becomes a powerful tool for both spouses to navigate through tough times.

We close the episode with a reminder to join us at Beans and Bonds, a special monthly gathering for the community, where you can share your own reflections over coffee and connect with others who understand the challenges and joys of marriage. Don’t miss out—seats are limited, so be sure to book yours soon.

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Register for our first-ever live event - BEANS & BONDS Click the link for more info: https://bit.ly/4gxKTbb Join our That Husband Corner, mailing list, and community. Click the link for more info https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 5: THE "PERFECT HUSBAND" TRAP In this episode, Blaque and Eleanor, take a moment to reflect on the often unseen pressures that husbands carry in their role as providers. Whether employed, underemployed, or unemployed, the weight of wanting to provide for their families can be suffocating. We discuss how wives can support their husbands during these difficult times—by acknowledging their emotional toll and offering encouragement, even when things feel uncertain. It's easy to overlook the quiet resilience husbands show when they are struggling to find work or battling pressures at their jobs. A simple acknowledgment can make all the difference in a husband’s journey to stay hopeful and strong. This conversation also celebrates the dedication of husbands who show up. It’s about honouring the husbands who, even when they may not have it all together, show up for their families with hands that are willing to serve and hearts that remain determined. The episode also highlights those husbands who, even during seasons of illness or hardship, step up to care for their wives—taking on household chores, offering emotional support, and holding the fort down when their wives need rest. Their commitment is not just admirable, it’s worth celebrating. As Blaque and Eleanor explore the intricacies of marriage, they dive deep into the importance of communication and prayer during seasons of disconnect. Wives, who may feel overwhelmed or distant, are encouraged to share their needs and feelings with their husbands. Change starts with vulnerability, and in these moments, prayer becomes a powerful tool for both spouses to navigate through tough times. We close the episode with a reminder to join us at Beans and Bonds, a special monthly gathering for the community, where you can share your own reflections over coffee and connect with others who understand the challenges and joys of marriage. Don’t miss out—seats are limited, so be sure to book yours soon.

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[S2] EPISODE 4: A SERIOUS WAKE-UP CALL

In this episode, Blaque sits with Jabulile of Men Speak With Jabulile who grew up believing that men were unreliable, untrustworthy, and ultimately dispensable in marriage. Raised by a feminist mother who lowered her expectations of men and was discipled by a divorced female pastor who unknowingly passed down unhealthy marital habits, she entered marriage with a mindset that slowly unravelled her relationship. But when divorce forced her to confront her own shortcomings, she realized a sobering truth—her expectations, beliefs, and behaviours had contributed just as much to the breakdown of her marriage as her ex-husband’s actions.

Now, after deep personal work and accountability, Jabu is on a mission to change the conversation. Instead of silencing men, she wants to empower them to speak up, lead with confidence, and take their rightful place in shaping stronger marriages and families. Through her journey, she’s discovered that men aren’t the problem—silencing them is. In this episode, she shares what she’s learned, the painful realisations she faced, and why she now believes that men hold the key to changing the future of marriages in our country.

If you’ve ever felt unheard in your marriage or struggled with the weight of unrealistic expectations, if you're a husband struggling to be heard, or a wife who wants to understand marriage from a new perspective, this episode is for you. Join us as we unpack the lessons Jabulile learned the hard way and explore how husbands can reclaim their voice, their role, and their impact in building thriving marriages.

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