Tell Me Where I'm Going (Wrong) – Details, episodes & analysis

In this latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss their recent day trip to the seaside city of Brighton and Hove. They share memories and insights, as well as reflect on the depressing qualities of British seaside resorts and towns.

The pair chat about the vegan food scene in Brighton, as well as the strange trend of vegan businesses adding non-vegan options to their menus.

This episode also touches on the animal cruelty prevalent in shows such as Crufts. Josh and Sean discuss being baffled by how a person once convicted of animal cruelty was permitted to compete in this dog show.

Enjoy the ride!

#podcast #Crufts #AnimalCruelty #Brighton #popculture #LGBTQ #VeganLondon #CurrentAffairs

About the Hosts

Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts 

Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan 

Theme Music

Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here: 

https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g

Other things mentioned:

Listen to Fortitude Valley:

https://fortitudevalley.co.uk

Guardian article about Crufts:

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2026/mar/12/channel-4-under-fire-after-crufts-winners-animal-cruelty-conviction-emerges

Signup for London Vegan Beer Fest updates:

https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Plant Talk

02:53 Reflections on Brighton: A Melancholic Seaside Town

05:42 The Nature of Youth and Public Behavior

08:53 Exploring Brighton's Atmosphere and History

11:49 Personal Connections to the Coast and Mortality

14:48 The Band Experience: Fortitude Valley and Remember Sports

17:40 Vegan Food Adventures in Brighton

24:19 Creating Safe Spaces for the Queer Community

25:50 The Controversy of Dog Shows

30:29 Animal Welfare and Cultural Traditions

34:21 The Vegan Business Dilemma

45:24 Navigating Veganism in a Non-Vegan World

48:01 Outro

In this latest episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean discuss the aftermath of the BBC and the BAFTAs bungling of the John Davidson situation and how the entertainment industry has reacted to people living with Tourette Syndrome. They drill down on the Saturday Night Live skit which ridiculed the situation and ask why such an unfunny show keeps getting made year after year.

The pair chat about the ongoing conflict in Iran and across the Middle East, sharing their own fears and concerns for global unrest.

This episode also reflects on the news of beer company BrewDog being sold for a rock bottom price and how the brand caused problems throughout its history with problematic and offensive marketing.

Enjoy the ride!

#podcast #Iran #PeteHegseth #BrewDog #popculture #LGBTQ #popculture #Tourette #CurrentAffairs

About the Hosts

Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts 

Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan 

Theme Music

Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here: 

https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g

Other things mentioned:

Signup for London Vegan Beer Fest updates:

https://www.veganbeerfest.co.uk

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Hair Bleaching Rituals

02:54 Online Abuse and Controversial Opinions

05:59 Political Landscape: UK and US Relations

11:54 Tax Havens and Emergency Flights

17:55 Media Representation and Tourette's Syndrome

20:55 The Controversial SNL Skit

25:16 The Complexity of Humour and Offense

29:44 Institutional Responsibility and Inclusion

31:24 The Downfall of BrewDog

41:18 Reflections on the Future

44:47 Outro

Josh and Sean are back with another wide ranging chat as they brave the cold weather, reflect on the past year, and unpack their pop culture highs and lows. From favourite music artists, films, and TV shows of 2025 to thoughts on the political climate and predictions for what lies ahead, this episode covers a lot of ground. The conversation also dives into telepathy and autism, scepticism and belief, sugar addiction, cooking habits, microwave ovens, and how to navigate food and wellness support. 

Enjoy the ride!

#TellMeWhereImGoingWrong #Podcast #PopCulturePodcast

#QueerPodcast #LGBTQPodcast #VeganPodcast

#PopMusicChat #PoliticsAndCulture #Neurodiversity

#AutismDiscussion

About the Hosts

Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts 

Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan 

Theme Music

Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by  Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here: 

https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g

Thing mentioned in this episode...

The Telepathy Tapes Podcast:

https://thetelepathytapes.com

Chapters:

00:00 Cold Weather and Ruddy Complexions

02:51 Reflections on the Past Year

05:50 Top Music Artists of the Year

08:54 Pop Culture Highlights and Lowlights

11:49 Political Climate and Predictions

14:46 Telepathy and Autism Discussion

22:44 Exploring Telepathy and Skepticism

23:55 Predictions for the Year Ahead

24:47 Sugar Addiction and New Year's Resolutions

26:40 Navigating Food and Wellness Support

29:42 Cooking and Eating Habits

32:51 The Microwave Debate

38:46 Living in Uncertainty and Predictions

42:50 Upcoming Events and Future Plans

45:50 Outro

In episode 75 of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean catch up on personal updates before diving into the strange cultural phenomenon of Christmas music and why it often sounds so melancholy. They discuss Kylie Minogue’s latest festive release called XMAS, her enduring legacy, and the ongoing obsession with Christmas number one songs in the UK.

The conversation then shifts to more serious territory, including gun control in Australia following the Bondi attacks, the current political climate around free speech in the UK, and the troubling way victims are often sidelined in high profile cases like the Epstein files. Along the way, Josh and Sean discuss vegan news including new restaurants and Golden Gaytime ice creams. 

As ever, the chat is honest, thoughtful, funny, and unfiltered, moving comfortably between pop culture, politics, and personal experiences.

Enjoy the ride!

#TellMeWhereImGoingWrong

#PodcastUK

#PopCulturePodcast

#KylieMinogue

#ChristmasMusic

#QueerPodcast

#VeganPodcast

#PoliticsAndCulture

#MentalHealthTalk

#LGBTQVoices

About the Hosts

Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts 

Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan 

Theme Music

Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by  Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here: 

https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates

02:41 Christmas Reflections and Music

05:35 Kylie Minogue's Christmas Song and Chart Success

08:39 The Significance of Christmas Number Ones

11:35 Melancholy in Christmas Music

14:45 Kylie Minogue's Longevity in Pop Music

17:34 Gun Control and Recent Events in Australia

20:35 Socio-Political Context of Violence

21:31 Political Climate and Free Speech

24:18 The Epstein Files and Victims' Voices

27:18 Veganism and Childhood Favorites

37:57 New Year's Eve Plans and Community Events

43:18 Outro

Josh and Sean are back with more DIY podcasting and unstructured conversation in episode 74 of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong).

This week they chat about Sean’s recent experience at the Lady Gaga concert in Brisbane, Australia including the security mishaps and thwarted stage invader. The hosts then move on to complaining about the general cost of living in the modern world and ask “Why is everything a subscription?”.

There is also a BIG discussion on season 5 of Stranger Things, the retro-tinged, sci-fi smash hit from Netflix. Josh and Sean reflect on the show’s growth over the years, their likes and dislikes, and how the Lily Allen album West End Girl means they will never be able to look at David Harbour the same again.

Enjoy the ride!

#StrangerThings #podcast #lgbtq #PopCulture #Netflix #LilyAllen #PussyPalace #Brisbane #LadyGaga #SuncorpStadium

About the Hosts

Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts 

Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan 

Theme Music

Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here: 

https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Context

03:58 Concert Experiences and Comparisons

09:57 Lady Gaga's Performance Highlights

14:02 Security Concerns and Fan Interactions

19:56 Life in Brisbane vs. London

22:59 Vegan Food Scene in Brisbane

23:40 The Evolution of Veganism

30:10 Vegan Food Scene in Brisbane

36:01 Cost of Living and Subscriptions

42:39 Stranger Things Season 5 Review

48:28 Nostalgia and the Evolution of Stranger Things

52:33 Cultural Impact and Representation in Media

56:11 Theories and Speculations on Stranger Things

59:58 Life in Australia: Wildlife and Climate

01:09:57 Reflections on Social Gatherings and Aging

01:13:50 Outro

Josh and Sean are back for another episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), this time trying to tackle several big questions facing humanity. Are we past the point of no return when it comes to the natural world? How is capitalism and human exploitation connected to the degradation of the planet? Just a couple of lighthearted topics!

They also chat about the impact of drinking and addiction on mental health, sharing their own personal stories and varying experiences of dependency, and take a detour to discuss the sensational new film Homebound by filmmaker Neeraj Ghaywan.

It’s not a laugh a minute in this episode but you can rely on the hosts to be somewhat irreverent, self-deprecating, and ill-informed in their usual way.

Enjoy the ride!

#podcast #LGBT #tellmewhereimgoingwrong #mentalhealth #capitalism #slavery #homebound #addiction #billmckibben #theendofnature 

About the Hosts

Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts 

Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan 

Theme Music

Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here: 

https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Weather Talk

02:30 Plant Preferences and Memories

05:25 Childhood Memories and Climbing Trees

08:35 Alcoholism and Personal Stories

11:17 The Impact of Alcohol on Mental Health

14:20 Compulsive Behaviours and Coping Mechanisms

17:16 The Role of Vices in Life

20:25 Food Cravings and Moderation

23:27 Procrastination and Mental Health

26:23 Book Recommendations and Environmental Awareness

30:48 The Human-Nature Relationship

33:28 Capitalism and Environmental Destruction

36:12 Modern Slavery and Exploitation

39:23 The Impact of Cinema on Social Awareness

42:31 Privilege and Responsibility

45:12 Systemic Change vs. Individual Choices

49:23 The Complexity of Ethical Consumption

53:15 The Need for Collective Action

01:13:24 Outro

Josh and Sean are back with another episode of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), the podcast where two exes who are still great fiends talk about life, pop, and politics.

This week finds the pair decompressing after their trip to Paris to see Lady Gaga in concert. While Gaga was incredible, the anti-social behaviour of the audience ruined the experience. Is this a growing trend of filming on phones, getting too drunk, and talking loudly?

The vegan food scene of Paris also gets unpacked, while the pair also go on a trip down memory lane to discuss the life and career of pop culture icon Udo Kier following his passing.

Enjoy the ride!

#TellMeWhereImGoingWrong #UKPodcast #ComedyChat #VeganEvents #Paris #PoliticsChat #MentalHealthAwareness #PopCulture #CelebrityNews #LadyGaga #UdoKier

About the Hosts

Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts 

Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan 

Theme Music

Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here: 

https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g

Other things we reference:

Fundraiser for the Jill Sobule movie:

www.kickstarter.com/projects/jillsfilm/jill-sobule-shes-gonna-sing-youre-gonna-listen/

Chapters: 

00:00 Introduction and Weather Talk

05:58 Lady Gaga Concert Experience

12:00 Culinary Adventures and Discoveries

17:53 Dining Experiences and Surprises

23:57 The Rise of Green Farmers: A Vegan Franchise Journey

30:03 Challenges in the Vegan Fast Food Industry

44:51 Remembering Udo Kier: A Legacy in Film and Pop Culture

50:55 Exploring Udo Kier's Background and Influence

57:00 The Legacy of Jill Sobule

01:07:55 Learning Instruments at Any Age

01:13:22 Outro

Josh and Sean return with a packed episode that sweeps through vegan kebabs, dodgy UK train journeys, Leeds shopping tales, and the ghost obsession taking over York.

They riff on the rise of content creators, look back at Josh’s road rage, and contemplate their upcoming trip to Paris. Politics gets a turn as they tackle supermarket automation, government decisions on asylum, and the rise of younger voices like Zohran Mamdani. Then it is straight into the world of pop icons, with Sean reliving the magic of the Five reunion concert and the hosts unpacking the pressures on stars like Lady Gaga, Lily Allen, and the lads from Five. They close with a serious look at the disturbing incident involving Ariana Grande and the wider conversation around safety and mental health in the entertainment industry.

Enjoy the ride!

#TellMeWhereImGoingWrong #UKPodcast #ComedyChat #VeganEvents #Leeds #BoyBands #PoliticsChat #MentalHealthAwareness #PopCulture #CelebrityNews #LadyGaga

About the Hosts

Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts 

Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan 

Theme Music

Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here: 

https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g

Chapters: 

00:00 Introduction and Banter

06:49 Reflections on Past Experiences

12:45 Touring and Music Experiences

17:51 York and Its Significance

23:48 The State of UK Train Services

29:51 The Impact of Automation on Employment

34:52 Youth in Politics: The Case of Zohran Mamdani

39:47 Progressive Politics and the Future of Leadership

45:48 Critique of Current Political Figures and Movements

56:20 Mental Health in the Spotlight

01:01:28 The Burden of Fame

01:08:14 Reflections on Celebrity and Support

01:12:57 Outro

In episode 70 of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean take listeners on a wide-ranging conversation that moves between pop culture, personal survival stories, and social issues.

Josh shares the tale of his ongoing hand injury before the pair dive into the 2025 Rock and Roll Hall of Fame inductees, celebrating Cyndi Lauper, Salt-N-Pepa, and the legends who shaped music history. They unpack the nostalgia of classic music videos, YouTube’s strange power to shape our listening habits, and the curious role of Cleveland in rock mythology.

The conversation broadens into a deep reflection on the meaning of awards such as The Grammys, comparing icons like Juan Gabriel and Dolly Parton, before turning to modern life such as the chaos of British weather, the legality of phones in schools, and how we talk to young people about explicit online content.

Closing on a heartfelt note, Josh and Sean discuss masculinity, shared responsibility, and the importance of empathy in a changing world.

Enjoy the ride!

#TellMeWhereImGoingWrong #Podcast #MusicPodcast #PopCultureChat #CyndiLauper #SaltNPepa #JuanGabriel #DollyParton #AimeeMann #RockAndRollHallOfFame #Masculinity #PodcastUK #MusicDiscussion #YouTubeAlgorithms

About the Hosts

Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts 

Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan 

Theme Music

Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here: 

https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g

Other things we reference:

Now and Men Podcast

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/now-and-men/id1577025199

Article by Steven Roberts at Monash University (CONTENT WARNING - discusses domestic abuse and violence):

https://lens.monash.edu/2021/04/28/1383148/a-very-personal-call-to-action-for-non-violent-men-to-denounce-mens-violence

Chapters: 

00:00 Infected Wounds and Thoughts and Prayers

05:56 YouTube Algorithms and Music Discovery

11:53 Salt-N-Pepa's Induction and Missy Elliott's Tribute

19:52 The Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and Grammy Awards Discussion

29:21 Comparing Juan Gabriel and Dolly Parton

35:07 Aimee Mann's Musical Journey and Recent Works

42:28 Concert Memories and Weather Worries

49:02 The Impact of Explicit Content on Youth

54:03 The Role of Men in Addressing Violence

01:12:54 Outro

In Episode 69 of Tell Me Where I’m Going (Wrong), Josh and Sean start with laughs and end with some serious reflection.

They kick things off by unpacking the genius of Absolutely Fabulous including its place in British comedy, generational humour, and lasting cultural impact. From there, Josh recounts his recent night at a Suzanne Vega concert, sparking a heartfelt chat about live music, the Royal Albert Hall, and their excitement for the upcoming Lady Gaga concert in Paris.

The conversation takes a spontaneous detour to Manchester, where Sean reflects on the city’s creative pulse and community feel especially compared to the complex energy of London. From quirky bars to vegan groceries, the pair explore why this Northern city is so loved.

They also share thoughts on the British royal family’s latest controversies and what they reveal about modern Britain. Why do we put up with this from these people?

Enjoy the ride!

#TellMeWhereImGoingWrong #podcast #lgbtq #royalfamily #abfab #absolutelyfabulous #LadyGaga

About the Hosts

Josh Leuner is a London-based singer and plant-geek. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/joshandthejumpstarts 

Sean O’Callaghan is an award-winning blogger and published author. Find out more about him here:

https://linktr.ee/fatgayvegan 

Theme Music

Our theme music is the song Empty Seat by Josh and The Jumpstarts   -  Stream it here: 

https://open.spotify.com/artist/4KxOAKJFWCoSWBMA99QEax?si=3Q_SjkQKTVuXANcrxmh95g