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What Gets in the Way of Helping Toddlers Talk: Simple Shifts, Big Change Ep 128
04 Nov 2025
00:41:48
You already know the #1 habit that helps toddlers learn to talk — pulling them into your world and engaging them, out loud, through the rhythm of your day.
But staying present isn’t always easy.
In this episode, Erin Hyer, speech-language pathologist and toddler specialist, gets personal about what gets in the way — the five barriers that quietly pull parents off course — and how to find your way back with small, meaningful shifts that bring more calm, confidence, and connection.
If you’re ready for real-life encouragement (not perfection), this episode will remind you that it’s never too late to reconnect.
Because the little years are the big years — and every small, simple moment counts.
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This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique — please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.
What Really Teaches Toddlers to Talk (It’s Not What You Think) Ep 127
28 Oct 2025
00:41:17
What if the best way to help your toddler talk isn’t about doing more — but noticing more?
If you’ve ever wondered how to build your child’s language without feeling like you’re teaching a class, this episode will give you the clarity and calm you’ve been craving.
You’ll discover: • Why connection—not correction—drives true communication • How everyday routines (yes, even laundry and grocery runs) become language lessons • A simple daily rhythm that builds confidence, calm, and conversation
Forget flashcards and “talk time.”
Real language growth happens in the small, shared moments of real life — the ones you’re already living.
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Because the little years are the big years — and every small, simple moment counts.
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Disclaimer:
This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique — please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.
The Truth About Childhood — And Why Moms Are Leaving the Workforce Ep 118
26 Aug 2025
00:21:25
Why are so many mothers leaving the workforce — and what does it mean for our children?
The Washington Post calls it “erasing pandemic gains.”
But after 35+ years as a speech-language pathologist working with hundreds of families, I see something deeper: maybe these mothers are choosing to reclaim what matters most.
In this episode, I share two powerful family stories that illustrate the difference presence makes — one stretched thin and overwhelmed, the other grounded and intentional — plus the science that backs it up:
Erica Komisar’s research on the first three years as a critical window for brain and emotional development.
Head Start’s long-term studies showing short-term academic gains faded by third grade, while the strongest benefits were relational.
Hart & Risley’s “30 million word gap” study — not just about word counts, but the quality of interaction, proving that presence and tone matter more than quantity.
We’ll talk about identity, vocation, and why women can have it all — just NOT all at the same time. And why childhood is too precious to rush.
Podcast Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique—please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.
What Do Toddlers Need Most? (And How to Avoid Feeling Overwhelmed)
06 Dec 2022
00:59:29
In this episode, I finish diving into the list of 12 Easy Tips to Increase Talking & Listening ... by focusing on what they need the most.
It doesn't have to feel overwhelming if we keep it simple and focus on target areas:
Language Skills
Motor Skills
Social Skills
Early Learning Skills
Imagination Skills
Self-Regulating Skills
While using everyday experiences to build the above list - YOU are what they need most.
As you listen to these tips - imagine how you can practice incorporating them into your routines - how can you expand your parenting?
You're probably doing some / many of these suggestions, but now you know just how important they are to your toddler's development - across the board.
While some kids may appear to learn through osmosis - MOST need direct, hand-over-hand support ... and that's where parenting rests.
Listening and speaking take A LOT of practice! Have fun and enjoy the journey!
As you listen - think of how you can implement or are you already doing many of these ideas ... congratulations, keep it up. Expand, Repeat. Enjoy.
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This episode we continue the conversation from last episode on 12 Easy Tips to Teach Your Toddler to Talk at Home Without the Stress through specific everyday routines and how to entice them to talk with you.
Remember, your baby and toddler came to you "under construction" so you need to provide natural opportunities to wire his brain, develop language and build relationships in fun, everyday routines.
Don't be fooled by the hype of expensive toys or elaborate "themes" ... that is NOT what he or she needs or wants.
Keep it simple. Keep them active WITH you.
We can complicate things, so in this episode I give you permission to bring it back to basics, tap into ways to include them with all your daily activities. Have fun!
It's important to understand we are all learning and parenting is an on-the-job-learning journey. We are designed to grow and change ... and parenting very young child in this modern world can be overwhelming and complicated.
I'm here to help you find clarity, easy strategies, and basic human understanding.
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12 Easy Tips to Teach Your Toddler to Talk at Home Without the Stress
16 Nov 2022
00:46:05
The most common question I get from new parents is, "How do I help my baby or toddler learn to talk at home?"
The key to increasing your child's language skills is simple (not always easy), but it's not complicated: model language, limit technology, and get messy!
Children learn best with you ... through play-based interactions that can be embedded in every day activities.
You might say to yourself, "yeah, I know that already." BUT do you live by these examples? Do you really think about how you engage with your baby or toddler? Are you really, REALLY present?
Whether your little one is at home with you full-time or part-time; whether you use childcare / daycare or extended family ... new moms and new dads who are truly present, who understand building engagement and communication skills take everyday opportunities and commitment parenting.
This modern day world makes it more overwhelming, more distracting and more uncertain. But in today's episode I start to break it all down - we review 12 Easy Tips that EVERY parent needs in their back pocket (and on their fridge), to refresh their role, and boost their confidence.
Imagine your toddler thriving, confident with communicating, comfortable with engaging and eager to learn.
It's important to understand we are all learning and parenting is an on-the-job-learning journey. We are designed to grow and change ... and parenting very young child in this modern world is complicated.
I'm here to help you find clarity, easy strategies, and basic human understanding.
Share with your friends and family and help me reach more new parents just like yourself.
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Why Don't Kids Listen? 5 Steps to Get Your Child to Listen Better!
27 Oct 2022
00:22:23
Why do you have to repeat something over and over until you find yourself yelling?
Why are they tuning us out?
Although we need to be mindful of early signs of true developmental issues - MOST kids have LEARNED to not listen ... and the truth is, we kind-of trained them to tune us out.
Yep - that's right. You read that correctly.
In today's episode I share 5 simple steps to get your child to listen better ... it's on us, though.
Parenting can be a complicated journey, and that's why Talking Toddlers focuses on new moms, new parents & grandparents - gain perspective, step back, find clarity, and be open to trying a new twist here and there.
By adjusting our style of communication, we can shape their listening.
Consider the WHY ... and then you can better understand most of these challenging behaviors / habits are typical, normal, healthy growing events - and if we, the parents in charge, stay open to learning-on-the-job; if we open our hearts & minds to what it's like to be 18 months, 24 months, 36 months... even 5 years old???
We have to stop ourselves from thinking & feeling like an adult ... and think like a child who is working hard every. single. day.
It's important to understand life we are all learning ... we are designed to grow and change ... and parenting very young child in this modern world is complicated. I'm here to help you find clarity, easy strategies, and basic human understanding.
Share with your friends and family and help me reach more new parents just like yourself.
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5 Strategies to Help Your Toddler Talk With Confidence & Ease ... Make it FUN
20 Oct 2022
00:38:01
Communication is a two-way street. So why are so many toddlers struggling at finding their words?
Are you uncertain if your toddler is on track developmentally, or are you looking for confirmation? Do you compare to other kids his age ... or hear that voice in your heading, "all kids eventually talk, right?"
You are not alone; most new parents are 'guessing' and 'doing the best they can.' But I don't want you to go it alone ...
In today's episode, I break down five strategies that might be holding your toddler back from finding his voice, expressing herself freely, and engaging with you with glee.
Trust me when I say - most therapists forget these strategies ... even I catch myself from time to time.
You'll walk away from this episode inspired to "be more present" and have more fun WITH your toddler. You'll understand how to adjust everyday activities to give him time to speak and keep the dialogue going ... even with one- and two-word utterances.
You'll begin to tweak the way YOU TALK to encourage him to use his words mores and practice in a playful, joyful manner - with more ease and confidence.
Most importantly, you'll know how to listen, wait ... and truly be present (even in this fast-paced world we live in.)
Enjoy and let go of perfection ... raising kids is messy! You've got this.
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Part 3: Does it feel like guilty pleasure? Or is it truly hardwired into our brain?
27 Sep 2022
00:40:06
Did you know that the lack of play can make us more vulnerable to depression, anxiety, impulsivity and sedentarism?
Do you feel pressure to orchestrate your time with your toddler, or perhaps you were told "they figure it out on their own" - let them be kids.
As we continue our discussion into the Science of PLAY I share the need for both ... some structure AND free style play... but the key is that YOU need to tap into your play skills, too.
Parents are great models, guides and play partners.
You don't want to misunderstand the reasons your kids are intrinsically driven to be playful, to tinker with objects, to get messy, to tell tales, to daydream, to make up songs, to wrestle and ride their bikes fast.
As I wrap up discussing the "7 Types of PLAY" by Dr. Stuart Brown, it's important for you mom and dad to become real with your play skills - we often lose touch as adults - too busy, too many responsibilities? We may feel guilty or even embarrassed when we are "caught" messing around with no real purpose.
The science is pretty revealing - PLAY is central to sparking excitement, achieving wholeness, and building resilience - it is NOT short-lived. We can rekindle it and I assure you, it will make you happier - and so will your kids.
Play might be the most important work we ever do!
So as you listen to this episode, think about how the new school routine can take over your schedule - more duty-like and less natural flow?
Find some authentic family play time. Be creative and mix it up.
Next week's episode I will share specific examples for different ages - but it's always important to have the background, the science that supports our theory, and some real-life experience.
That's what TALKING TODDLERS is about - helping our youngest be engaged, curious, creative, playful, interested and happy - with YOU.
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Part 2: The Science of PLAY - It's as critical as sleep & nutrition to your child's healthy development.
20 Sep 2022
00:56:35
PLAY is as critical as sleep & nutrition to your child’s healthy development.
In this episode, I continue to share the 7 Types of Play identified through Dr. Stuart Brown’s work at the National Institute For Play by exploring #4 SOCIAL PLAY.
Social Play - one of the most complex forms of play, helps your child establish social norms, develop interpersonal skills, and helps him create successful friendships and relationships as adults.
Research provides three subtypes of social play: belonging, celebratory and rough & tumble play - which I explain in great detail in today’s episode - it’s that important.
As our modern world continues to change we need to stay vigilant, building a better understanding on how best to support our children through these early, critical years.
It’s not always easy, but it can be FUN!
PLAY is anything but trivial … yet, it is what brings us pure joy, satisfaction and rich connection with others.
Don't let it end with childhood. Let’s bring it back into our lives, through our children and our families, through neighborhood communities and play groups. Everyone benefits.
“Play is as important to our mental health, as food is to our physical health.”
If you haven't listened to Part 1 on PLAY, Episode 19 - go back and listen. I cover #1-3.
Attunement - parents begin to establish an emotional connection with your infant through activities like peek-a-boo and parentese (sing-song baby talk).
Body Play & Movement - your child develops a spatial understanding of themselves and world around them, for example: leaping in the air teaches him the effects of gravity.
Object Play - playing with toys and objects develops problem-solving skills through exploration and manipulation.
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THE SCIENCE OF PLAY: Why PLAY is vital to learning & social development. Ep 19
06 Sep 2022
00:53:09
In this episode Erin introduces the strong connection between the PRACTICE of PLAY and the emotional and cognitive development of the brain.
PLAY is anything but trivial.
It's a biological drive as integral to our health as sleep or nutrition.
PLAY SCIENCE is a real thing - and we all need to take note - no matter what age, with or without children, at work and at home.
This is the first episode in a series for the month of September - as we begin the Back-To-School schedule (whether that's inside home or at a school site) - we all need to re-evaluate our feelings toward play.
I believe parents are getting bad advice - and play is getting a bad rap!
He states, “Of all animal species, humans are the biggest players of all. We are built to play and built through play. When we play, we are engaged in the purest expression of our humanity, the truest expression of our individuality. Is it any wonder that often the times we feel most alive, those that make up our best memories, are moments of play? That is something that struck me.”
The National Institute for Play (NIFP) describes seven different patterns of play - and I cover the first three in this episode. We will continue this discussion throughout September - as PLAY is that vital to your children!
Consider these benefits:
strong correlation between success & play activity
builds self-confidence
boosts creativity
development of social skills
helps memory, language and symbolic recognition
teaches stress management
promotes healthy physical development
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Podcast Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique—please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.
Mom, put on your oxygen mask first, please!
24 Aug 2022
00:38:53
In this episode I remind moms to put on your oxygen mask first ...
As the summer comes to an end and we start to transition back to school schedules, whatever that may look like for you and your family, change is hard.
Give yourself time to adjust.
Be patient with yourself. Be patient with your family. Be patient with your little ones.
Be realistic.
This episode is a reminder that parenting is a journey and you are learning-on-the-job. There is no perfect path ... stay open to growth and exploring new ideas.
I set the stage for future episodes and programs to be announced centered around LEARNING THROUGH PLAY, Why Kids Tantrum, and what the heck is BOREDOM?
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Why Do Some Kids Persevere? Are they just born that way?
16 Aug 2022
00:47:11
Why do some kids persevere, figure it out, or seem to be unflappable?
Are some kids just born that way? Can we become more resilient?
Can we humans change our perception, develop grit and tenacity - or is it fixed at birth?
In this episode, I dive deep into some of the original research behind the FIXED vs GROWTH MINDSET by Dr. Carol Dweck; how we can use her large body of work to benefit our parenting style while raising our children and even challenge ourselves to continue to grow and learn.
Of course, I cover some honest controversies that appear 20 years into exploring her body of work and impressions - yet, I find much of the FIXED vs GROWTH MINDSET theory to be worthwhile and encourage all parents to consider how we approach effort vs. praise while raising toddlers and beyond.
Remember, this podcast is about asking questions. The more I have studied the process of learning or how the brain learns to learn, the better I understand how growth and change are more in our control (even though we don't like to admit it) - maybe because then we are more accountable for the outcomes.
We know that our words have meaning, and humans have a tendency to lock into those meanings with strict boundaries:
I'm not very good at math.
I don't like public speaking.
I am a slow reader.
I get frustrated easily.
I'm not very creative.
Now don't get me wrong, I do believe we all have different strengths and weaknesses - different gifts and interests, and we tend to gravitate toward the things we are good at and make us feel better about ourselves.
But where did some of the initial "perceptions" come from?
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5 Brain Myths That Won't Go Away - Don't Fall For Them!
09 Aug 2022
00:58:18
Can you separate brain facts from brain fiction?
In this episode I cover how several brain myths, or neuromyths, won't go away and have led us to ineffective or even counterproductive strategies as parents, teachers, and students.
Don't fall for them! Challenge yourself to think logically as I walk you through 5 Neuromyths that persist - even when debunked years ago!
So why do misconceptions about the brain continue? Most people simply want to believe - it's an easy, quick answer to personal challenges or when faced with a child who "beats to a different drum."
Yet, research indicates that most of what teachers are 'sure they know about the brain' is simply wrong - even when faced with limited evidence.
In this episode, I share some possible reasons behind this persistence and how parents can weed through the noise.
Legitimate science results get oversimplified by the media to generate sensationalized headlines
Complex science results are misinterpreted and Word-Of-Mouth carries them through schools, teaching methods, parent coaching, and personal growth programs.
Results are over-generalized and seem to take hold into everyday interactions - AND policies, programs and trainings are created around weak, general assumptions.
I admit, it can be confusing - especially since researchers themselves can't even agree on how best to study the brain ... BUT that doesn't mean we don't question such broad sweeping statements, such as "we only use 10% of our brain's capacity."
I promise after listening to this episode you will feel more empowered to ask questions, listen to your intuition and begin to let go of misconceptions that don't serve your children.
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What Would I Do As A New Mom? Top 10 Parenting Essentials
26 Jul 2022
00:39:58
I am often asked, "What would you do if you were in my shoes?" If I could take my 35 years of clinical practice, continued education and training, plus my personal parenting experience - without a doubt, these would be my TOP 10 PARENTING ESSENTIALS.
They aren't in any specific order, but they do relate to one another. Parenting through these first three years is often exhausting, but if you have a framework it's much more fun!
Unfortunately, too many parents (especially moms) feel so alone, overwhelmed or embarrassed to ask for help. Navigating this modern day life doesn't come with a "manual" - yes, there is a lot of noise on the internet and too many books to filter through, but that just seems to add to feelings of inadequacies.
Today's episode gives you the top 10 areas to focus on:
Breastfeed/breast milk
Tummy Time
Baby Led Weaning
Read, read, read
Music
Crawling
Limited Screen Time
Build Routines
Narrate
Play with Purpose
KEEP IT SIMPLE: Focus on the basics: nutrition, movement, talking, sharing, singing, building routines, play together - then question if screen time is necessary?
Your little one needs YOU over anything else - your time, your attention, your love and your understanding.
Keep them close to home for as long as possible... growth & development are a process. It happens over time, everyday, through everyday activities and meaningful engagement.
But moms, dads, grandparents and primary caretakers across the board need to stay vigilant - becoming empowered with knowledge helps build courage to stand up for your beliefs.
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Do Developmental Milestones Matter?
20 Jul 2022
00:46:29
This episode covers why parents need to step up and be their child's strongest (and best informed) advocate. We can't rely on "systems" such as your pediatricians, early intervention, preschools, or educators. Too many of them take the "wait & see" approach, are spread too thin, or simply don't have the knowledge to inquire further.
Parents who have a better understanding of how to use / interpret developmental milestones are in a much better position to guide their child to success, health and happiness. Yes, there are ranges, but that does NOT mean we don't have expectations.
In this episode Erin encourages all parents:
To be your own detective
Recognize sweeping generalizations are misleading
Don't take the "wait & see" approach
Erin touches upon how the recent CDC changes in their developmental milestones caused serious concerns across various disciplines, and how the controversy is far from over.
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What Parenting Style Are You?
12 Jul 2022
00:38:53
In this episode we cover the four (4) main parenting styles and how they influence your toddler's learning.
I always use "labels" with a word of caution, but they can be helpful when we are learning something new or searching for a better understanding. The quadrants are on a continuum, a kind of slider ruler. We can change according to the situation, developmental stage, number of children, outside pressure, family history and internal voice of "should's" or "could's."
Permissive: No rules; absolute indulgence; "How can I say NO to you?"
Authoritarian: High demand & High expectation; Rules, Rules, Rules; I am the Boss
Neglectful: Uninvolved; careless; aloof; lack of compassion or warmth; distracted
Authoritative: clear boundaries; High expectation with equal reciprocal; "Can we discuss?" Assertive yet compassionate
I encourage you to be OPEN to learning and evaluating where you are today - knowing we can always make different choices tomorrow. Let our children watch how we are willing to own our mistakes, come back to the relationship, and start again.
This modern life brings many mixed outcomes - which means we all need to be vigilant with how we show up, design and shape our days; and how we create daily habits that either support growth and expansion, or restrict it.
Do you come to the table with an OPEN - or FIXED - mindset?
How do you see your toddler in the future?
Help build his "learning muscles" by providing boundaries, clear expectations, and room to mess up without fear, guilt, or shame.
Parenting is a learning process. Give yourself room to develop how to nurture, discipline through guidance and practice open communication.
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Unpredictable Behaviors Before Two: Eating, Speaking and Learning Everyday Ep 11
05 Jul 2022
00:44:00
In this episode we continue to make a strong connection with eating / chewing and speech development from 18 - 24 months of age. Understanding that kids' preferences may wax and wane doesn't change your style of parenting. Parenting with consistency requires us to set the boundaries around healthy choices while allowing exploration.
Parents who understand how structure, function and development fit together can feel confident their toddler stays on track, and feels at peace even when it gets messy!
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#010 Experiencing & Managing Hunger - Why It's Important With Your Toddler
28 Jun 2022
00:39:12
In this episode we continue the series on the connection between eating and speech development. There is a massive developmental explosion - again - between 9 and 15 months and parents feel better prepared and act with confidence when they know what to expect.
Toddlers can be unpredictable at times, yet when families have a plan and are able to develop routines, you find peace more often than not. Parenting with intention makes the whole family more relaxed. You look forward to meal times, you understand it's a learning process, you are open to being messy, and truly embrace your toddler's growth!
We don't want to rush these beautiful days; we want to slow them down and savor each developmental milestone. Watching your toddler build a healthy relationship with food, being able to recognize when he's just fussy or tired and not truly hungry - will alleviate many struggles.
SOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Gill Rapley, book: "Baby Led Weaning, Helping Your Baby Love Good Food" http://www.rapleyweaning.com/
Melanie Potock, Speech Language Pathologist Pediatric Feeding Expert and Author https://mymunchbug.com/
Happy listening!
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Toddlers Talk Better by Chewing Real Food
21 Jun 2022
00:45:40
In this episode I share the truth about Fruit & Vegetable Pouches. I cannot speak how eating/chewing and speech development are connected without sharing the truth on pouches… we’ve been duped!
Babies and toddlers MUST experience a variety of food tastes, textures and consistencies in order to build a healthy relationship with real food - as well as exercise their oral-motor skills, LITERALLY.
Chewing and speech go hand-in-hand.
I cover the TOP 3 reasons these abundant food pouches are NOT IN YOUR FAVOR and actually WORKING AGAINST your little guy's development.
Listen with an open mindset.
NO EXPERIENCE with real food - it's all pureed together! How do you learn the differences between: broccoli, carrots, chicken, ham, berries, or apples?
- no touching, smelling, tasting, or looking at different foods
- no chewing which starts the digestion process and helps sense when you're satiated or full
- no opportunity to learn how to feed themselves (fists, fingers, spoon) - just suck???
- no texture means NO actual chewing (which stimulates teeth eruption and strengthens jaws - which helps with tongue placement ... leading to better speech sounds!)
Yikes, it's all connected.
2. MISLEADINGLY SWEET - everything is blended with cheaper and sweeter foods (apples/pears), so the “spinach” or “quinoa” are masked with sugar!
How do they develop a taste between foods such as broccoli and beef?
3. NO REAL FIBER - do we really wonder why kids have gut/digestion/poop issues?
For example (on average):
1 pouch has 12-15 grams of sugar and 1 gram of fiber
1 cup of sliced apples has 11 grams of sugar and 3 grams of fiber
1 pouch has 1 tablespoon of sugar!!!!
Chewing an actual apple gives your child fiber, chewing experience (lips/jaw/tongue workout) and satisfaction!
Even when parents / consumers pushed-backed against the amount of sugar … the companies diluted the “recipe” with water to decrease the percentage of sugar per pouch… interesting strategy, right?
Bottom line: real food = real development & real learning!
Happy listening!
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How Eating & Speech Development Are Connected and How to Enhance It Naturally (Part 2) Ep 8
14 Jun 2022
00:58:49
The human being is an intricate system of systems - and navigating this modern world keeps parents on their toes - or at least it should. Whether you're thinking about having a baby, just became a new parent , or a parent of a first grader - this episode will help shed light on how the developmental parts fit together.
We often need to step back and get different perspectives to see the whole picture (whole child.)
Here we continue to review the remarkable connection between eating and speech development - and even if your little guy is getting ready for 1st grade, reflect back to how you managed those first several years. Is there a connection? How is his attention, listening, speaking, organization, and engagement?
Knowledge is empowering and can bring clarity when there's uncertainty. We can meet our kids where they are and support growth and independence when we ourselves feel supported and understood.
If you haven't listened to last week's episode - it would be helpful to go back now to #007.
Today's episode covers the 4 - 9 month period and here are some the the highlights:
when does your baby first start to use jaw, lip, tongue muscles separately?
when do teeth begin to come in for chewing & biting... how does that relate to speech?
what kind of "workouts" help to make more room in your baby's mouth for safe eating?
doesn't a baby just start talking when he/she is ready?
how do tummy time, high chair sitting, and speech relate?
are puree foods necessary?
why do baby's make such a mess eating?
is chewing with your mouth closed automatic?
what's grading at this age?
is Baby-Led Weaning a real thing?
what about choking?
Happy listening!
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The #1 Sleep Mistake Parents Don’t Know They’re Making - And How To Easily Fix It Ep 116
12 Aug 2025
00:34:57
Parents of babies and toddlers—you’re exhausted.
But here’s the good news: one small evening habit can change that, starting tonight.
Learn the science of how light affects melatonin, why it matters for your toddler’s brain development, and how to create a bedtime environment that works for the whole family.
Discover how one simple change—dimming your lights an hour before bedtime—can help your baby, toddler, and you fall asleep faster and sleep deeper.
In this episode, Erin Hyer, speech-language pathologist with 35+ years of early intervention experience, shares:
Why warm, dim light triggers melatonin for natural sleep
How blue light disrupts your child’s rest (and yours)
Simple, affordable ways to set the right nighttime mood
Try tonight’s challenge: Dim your lights 1 hour before bed and watch the difference tomorrow.
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The #1 Sleep Mistake Parents Don’t Know They’re Making
Here are three citations mentioned in this episode:
Warm Light and Sleep Efficiency in Children Smith, A. L., Johnson, M. K., & Ramirez, Y. (2023). Effects of Evening Warm-Tone Lighting on Sleep Onset and Efficiency in Preschool-Aged Children: A Randomized Controlled Trial. Journal of Pediatric Sleep Health, 12(4), 245–256.
Screen Use, Reward Circuits, and Sleep Procrastination Chen, H., Patel, R., & Gupta, S. (2024). Evening Screen Use, Dopaminergic Activation, and Sleep Procrastination: Behavioral and Neurobiological Correlates in Adults. Behavioral Neuroscience Reviews, 29(1), 1–18.
Parental Sleep Disruption and Toddler Emotional Regulation Martinez, E. J., Li, P., & Anders, T. F. (2023). Maternal Sleep Quality Predicts Toddler Emotional Reactivity and Regulatory Behaviors: A Longitudinal Analysis. Journal of Child Development & Parenting, 18(2), 112–130.
Podcast Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique—please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.
Are Eating & Speech Development Connected? Does it matter? (Part 1) Ep 7
07 Jun 2022
01:00:23
This episode topic is SO CRITICAL that I ended up creating a series which will be covered over the next several weeks. You won't want to miss any of them!
This episode is Part 1, and we dive deep into your baby's or toddler's relationship between early eating (sucking and chewing) and speech development. Why? Because we are "hard-wired" to do both AND one feeds the other (pun intended.)
Unfortunately, parents often feel lost or overwhelmed with the amount of information out there, and pediatrician office visits lack the time and honestly, the knowledge to help with specific questions.
Yet, feeding, eating and speech challenges continue to rise. Again, we must ask, Why? Parents are looking for clear information on how best to navigate this modern world, raise healthy eaters, strong communicators, and happily engaged young kids!
I begin by describing critical primitive reflexes which are necessary for survival, then we move into what oral motor structures and functions to observe and monitor in the first three months. I also touch upon two (2) additional areas of development that are KEY to building strength, stability, coordination, and a healthy immune system! These areas cannot be overlooked or under-estimated. You may want to listen to it twice! It's that important.
Even if your little guy or gal is a bit older (1-5 years old), this will be very helpful as you may unravel any current issues or questions. This will empower you to seek appropriate support through a feeding specialist, speech pathologist or other highly specialized professional.
Maybe you're working with a therapist already, and they are focusing on individual sounds your child is struggling with - BUT they aren't addressing the oral-motor (physical) aspects of speech. Hmmm. Unfortunately, that happens more often than I'd like to admit.
This series will help you generate questions to bring to your speech therapist, teacher or pediatrician. Don't settle with "it takes time" or "he'll speak better when he's ready." Nope. Kids would be clear and understood, IF THEY COULD!
Remember, this is just the beginning. We will continue this discussion over the next several weeks. Stay tuned and share with family, friends, other therapists, your doctor and/or school.
Happy listening!
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#006 How are speech and language skills different?
31 May 2022
00:52:05
In this episode I share the importance of understanding how speech skills and language development differ. Parents are pivotal in laying this foundation, especially in the first few years, so you don't ever want to leave it to chance.
When you know why babbling is an important precursor to his first words - you'll want to sing, read, and giggle all day long with your little one. When you realize YOU are the most important influencer in your young child's life ... you may want to rethink preschool, or perhaps adjust the hours. Either way, this episode will bring clarity and purpose to your everyday activities as you nurture both speech and language development with certainty.
In later episodes we'll dive deep into oral motor (speech & eating) skills, so today it's about recognizing how to nurture your whole child.
We know our modern world provides a lot of wonderful conveniences - BUT if we keep these early years close to home, bring back basics, make it natural and engaging - your beautiful child will stay on track and thrive!
Being an informed parent helps you understand subtle differences, identify issues early, seek professional help with intention, and prevent life-long challenges. It's all about prevention.
Mindful parenting lets you guide your child's development with confidence, grace, excitement and ease - you'll still be exhausted, but it'll be because of a full day of playing with purpose!
Happy listening!
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Reading To Babies And Beyond: The Top 4 Purposes Ep 005
24 May 2022
00:51:43
Reading To Babies And Beyond - The Top 4 Purposes
In this episode, I share specific purposes behind reading to your baby and beyond. No matter what age you start, reading aloud gives you the best bang for the buck - regarding time, money and effort. It cannot be understated.
Remember what your END GOAL is … build a love for literacy, rich vocabulary, positive attention, imagination and healthy connections, to just name a few.
Reading and writing skills are two sides of the same coin - and are NOT NATURAL. They are built upon a strong oral language system, i.e., listening and talking. Reading aloud provides so much opportunity - at any age!
Parents can sometimes overlook this rich-language experience, thinking, “babies don’t understand yet, reading to them is more important later.” NOPE … not true. Listen to gain insight into just how remarkable newborns, babies and toddlers are - and how much they rely on you to guide them through this modern world.
Even if you don’t like reading out loud … he’s just a baby, he needs you and your voice!
Purpose #1: Connection & Bonding - your voice is their life-line
Purpose #2: Books as a Script (facilitating tool) - use everywhere, everyday
Purpose #3: Create Routines to build self-regulation and independence
Purpose #4: Language Acquisition takes practice and needs 21,000 words a day (minimum)
Books are your friend - and together build endless opportunities.
HAPPY LISTENING!!
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Brains Are Built NOT Born Ep 4
17 May 2022
00:35:04
Brains Are Built NOT Born Ep 4
16 May 2022
00:35:04
In this episode, I share that although newborns / babies are designed to acquire speech and language naturally, it takes effort ... by all parties - the caretakers and the baby / toddler.
Human babies are born highly unfinished ... they are still under construction.
We understand better how everyday experiences wire our brains (neuroplasticity) and create neuro-connections and networks (learning), but most kids need to be encouraged and convinced to put in the effort.
We can't forget how much our kids rely on us to guide them, model and practice.
Early development is "natural" BUT it's just the beginning - parents are pivotal in guiding their children and helping the succeed - keep moving forward. Even if it's common in this modern day to "let kids be kids" or to think "they'll figure it all out on their own."
My mission is to remind parents of the remarkable gift they have, and how to enhance every day activities to benefit growth, build relationships and acquire language processing skills.
Learning is cumulative - and life long, but we humans must override our desire to "just survive another day." Your baby / toddler needs you to show them the way!
Take inventory - how are your interactions; how much do you truly engage with your little guy or gal beyond taking care of personal needs? This modern day world is busy, stressful and overwhelming - especially as a parent. Being mindful is easier said than done, but I want to share what a difference it makes.
Happy listening!
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Must Haves to Get to First Words (Part 2) Ep 3
09 May 2022
00:39:42
This episode continues from last week, discussing the 10 Must-Haves to Get to First Words. Children don't just wake up on their first birthday and start talking ... there is A LOT of serious work, growth, and development that can sometimes get lost in the shuffle between feedings, diapers, sleeping and just keeping your little one safe!
Last episode we covered the first 5, so if you haven't listened to last week, go back for #1 - 5. It's important you get the whole early developmental process - just like when building a house, we NEED A STRONG FOUNDATION.
Tune in to learn:
#6. PLAYS APPROPRIATELY WITH A VARIETY OF TOYS - pretend play is closely related to speech & language development. It demonstrates your child is beginning to understand how the world works and how s/he can engage.
#7. RECEPTIVE LANGUAGE - understanding simple, concrete statements is critical to staying on-track. This is often THE MOST OVERLOOKED red flag.
#8. USE HIS / HER VOICE - intentional & purposeful vocalization. Babies need to be noisy! These are the important prelinguistic "workouts" - grunts, squeals, whines, and babbling.
#9. GESTURES - your child is truly using gestures on his own, with intent and purpose: waving, pointing, blows kiss, shakes head no, pats or gives you objects.
CLICK HERE for the article I mentioned in the episode, by FIRST WORDS* Project.
* This article does highlight "Earlier is Better" - but please recognize that if a child continues to struggle beyond his 3rd birthday - do NOT limit your expectations. Those first three years are using 'mother nature' to the fullest - kids are typically little sponges, but growth & development is LIFE LONG. Keep asking questions and seeking guidance.
#10. IMITATION of ACTIONS - Your child does this routinely! This would include gestures, sounds, simple words and actions. And s/he is beginning to initiate interactions much more easily with others to get needs met AND to play with you!
Happy listening!
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Must Haves to Get to First Words - (Part 1) Ep 2
03 May 2022
00:35:35
In this episode, I introduce the first 5 precursors a baby must have to be Developmentally Ready to Talk for you to consider. This modern world can be confusing, and I don't want you to leave it to chance or to feel uncertain. Some parents may not be aware how much they can do with their babies to build a strong language foundation and help establish a true connection. Growth and development are not passive. They need YOU to be their guide.
If you're feeling a bit lost, I provide specifics on how to prioritize and what to look for - even during every day activities, such as bathing or eating. Parents can entice, connect, and strengthen early speech skills, naturally. You've got this!
Next week's episode will cover #6-10
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Introduction / Why Now? Ep #1
25 Apr 2022
00:40:26
Talking Toddler’s host, Erin Hyer, shares why she is starting her podcast now… April 2022.
If you're a new mom of a young toddler or preschooler and feeling a bit overwhelmed, uncertain, or perhaps looking for confirmation on how well your beautiful toddler is really doing - maybe questioning the “wait and see” recommendation by your pediatrician, or feeling a bit guilty for sheltering him during these unprecedented times, Erin wants you to STOP.
There is no time to look back and no time to “wait and see.” Erin knows you're looking for ways to be proactive and parent with courage - all you need is an experience guide.
Because of her 35 years of clinical practice - on the floor, working with a variety of families, consulting with preschools, training teachers and new graduate students, diving deep into the science, asking questions - she refuses to get sucked into the overwhelming acceptance of “new normals” - skyrocketing numbers of late talkers, non-verbal preschoolers, ADHD, Autism, Anxiety, poor sleep, picky eating, lack of self-regulation, and the list goes on.
Erin’s experience has given her opportunities to be part of those who continually question this “fixed” mindset - those who’s very nature is to “think outside the box,” to peel back the layers, ask WHY, and find solutions.
If you’re a new mom who's eager to truly shape your toddler’s growth, to be proactive, refuse to leave it “to chance,” or unwilling to “wait & see” - you’ll love following Talking Toddlers - as Erin’s mission is to reduce the clutter, communicate clearly, and build a community of like-minded courageous mothers. Let’s get started.
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Disclaimer:
This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique — please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.
www.HyerLearning.com @erin.hyer
Why Gentle Parenting Isn’t Working for Toddlers Ep 115
05 Aug 2025
00:21:46
Has gentle parenting gone too far?
Many well-meaning moms are finding themselves burned out, confused, and constantly negotiating with toddlers who seem to need more structure—not less.
In this episode, Erin Hyer, speech-language pathologist and toddler development specialist, breaks down what toddlers actually need—and why a firmer, more faithful approach is gaining traction among modern parents. (Yippeeee)
Drawing from the viral Wall Street Journal article “Goodbye Gentle Parenting, Hello F-Around and Find Out,” Erin offers a grounded, faith-anchored response to today’s parenting confusion.
You’ll learn:
✅ Why toddlers don’t really understand “no” the way we think
✅ The difference between gentle guidance and permissiveness
✅ Why natural consequences build character better than explanations
✅ How to raise confident, connected kids—with loving limits
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🎙️ Listen to Erin’s 2-part February series on Gentle Parenting for more insight!
Podcast Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique—please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.
What Your Toddler Needs to Express Themselves Clearly (Part 2) Ep 114
29 Jul 2025
01:01:20
Explore how speech develops after the first words — and what to do if your toddler can’t express themselves clearly.
Erin explains how to recognize delays in expression and speech sounds and gives practical, empowering strategies to support your child at home.
🎙 Part 2 of 2 in the “Building Blocks” Mini-Series
In Part 1, we covered the first two foundational 'pillars' of speech development: 1️⃣ Social Interaction – how connection fuels communication
2️⃣ Understanding Language – why comprehension must come before expression
Today in Part 2, we’re diving into: 3️⃣ Expressive Language Skills – why pointing, babbling, and even grunting matter
4️⃣ Speech Sound Development – what to expect, when to worry, and how to help
You’ll learn:
What real expressive progress looks like (and the red flags to know)
Why gestures are often the secret sauce to early talking
How to build clarity and confidence in your toddler’s speech — at home
When “he has his own language” is more than just a cute phase
This episode will equip you with practical tips, developmental insight, and encouragement to support your toddler right where they are — even if words aren’t flowing yet.
If you're a mom, dad, or caregiver wondering “Should my child be talking more?” — this is the conversation you need.
👉 Tune in now — and don’t forget to share with a friend who’s walking the same parenting path.
❤️ Ready for personal, purposeful progress? Join Erin’s Tiny Challenge — 1:1 support. 1 challenge. 1 week. Momentum begins the moment you say YES.
Podcast Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique—please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.
Is My Baby’s Development Normal? Understanding Milestones & Red Flags: Part 1 Ep 113
22 Jul 2025
00:45:40
The 4 Building Blocks of Speech Development – Part 1
Long before your toddler says their first real word, two powerful foundations (milestones) must already be in place: interaction and understanding.
These aren’t “nice to have” skills — they are non-negotiable building blocks for speech, language, connection, and future learning.
Yet so many parents are told to wait and see, when in fact, there’s so much YOU can do now.
In this episode, Erin shares:
The first two building blocks of speech development
Why interaction (shared attention) is the starting line
How understanding language comes before using it
How development is dynamic (not linear!)
The red flags parents often miss
What to change at home right now if you’re noticing signs of delay (or just want to keep him on track)
And how to recognize real progress — even before words appear
You’ll leave feeling more empowered, more aware, and ready to take action — not out of fear, but from a place of clarity and confidence.
❤️ Ready for personal, purposeful progress? Join Erin’s Tiny Challenge — 1:1 support. 1 challenge. 1 week. Momentum begins the moment you say yes.
Podcast Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique—please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.
Why Toddlers Ignore "No" -- and What to Do Instead Ep 112
15 Jul 2025
00:45:30
Why does your toddler seem to completely ignore you when you say “no”?
Are they just testing limits—or is something deeper going on?
In this episode of Talking Toddlers, Erin breaks down what “no” actually means to children under three—and why their response is less about defiance and more about development.
You’ll learn how to guide your toddler through this critical stage with firm but loving strategies that really work.
Inside this episode:
What toddlers truly understand about “no”
The developmental stages of autonomy and initiative (and why they matter)
Why overprotection can backfire—even when it’s well-meaning
How to reduce power struggles without giving in
10 practical tools to help toddlers listen, cooperate, and grow with confidence
You’ll walk away with a new perspective and feel more equipped to handle those “I said no!” moments with calm, clarity, and consistency.
🍼 Ready to go deeper with 1:1 support? Sign up for the Tiny Challenge and solve one parenting challenge in just one week.
Join Erin’s Tiny Challenge — a personal, fast-track solution for tackling your biggest toddler struggle.
Podcast Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique—please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.
How to Get Your Toddler to Listen Without Yelling: 7 Everyday Strategies Ep 111
08 Jul 2025
00:41:10
Is your toddler always pushing back, melting down, or refusing to help?
From messy playtime to getting out the door, you’ll learn how to:
– Encourage turn-taking, even with babies
– Turn cleanup into connection
– Use routines and rules to reduce drama
– Make transitions smoother
– And raise a child who wants to help — without bribes, yelling, or power struggles
In this episode of Talking Toddlers, Erin Hyer — speech-language pathologist with over 35 years of real-life experience — shares 7 simple, science-backed ways to TEACH cooperation in everyday moments.
These are prevention-first tools every parent needs.
👶 Ready for smoother days and more confident parenting?
Hit play — then share with a friend.
🎯 Want more 1:1 support?
Join Erin’s Tiny Challenge — a personal, fast-track solution for tackling your biggest toddler struggle.
Podcast Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting.
What Every Toddler Needs: The Secret to Calmer Days Ep 110
01 Jul 2025
00:56:16
What do toddlers really need?
It’s not more toys, more stimulation, or more screen time.
It’s something simple, powerful, and often overlooked: a predictable daily routine.
In this episode of Talking Toddlers, Erin—SLP, early intervention expert, and prevention-first parent coach—explains why consistent routines are the foundation for calm, cooperation, and healthy brain development.
You’ll learn:
Why routines reduce tantrums and improve sleep
The brain science behind rhythm and regulation
How predictability helps toddlers feel safe, confident, and ready to learn
A sample daily routine that you can adapt to your family
What to do when life throws off your routine (because it will!)
Whether you’re struggling with chaos or just looking to smooth your day, this episode will give you clarity—and a calm starting point.
🎧 Bonus: Learn how to take the Tiny Challenge—Erin’s 1:1 coaching experience designed to help you tackle ONE key area (sleep, eating, behavior, etc.) with intention and confidence.
Why ‘I’m Bored’ Is a Gift: The Power of Open-Ended Play Ep 109
24 Jun 2025
00:41:46
Is your toddler bouncing between toys with little focus?
Wondering what kind of play actually matters in these early years?
In this episode, Erin Hyer, a seasoned speech-language pathologist and early intervention expert, breaks down the importance of open-ended play—and WHY it’s a game-changer for your child's brain, body, and emotional development.
You'll learn what types of toys to prioritize, why less is more, and how play sets the foundation for true success.
Instead of handing over a screen or buying more toys, try open-ended play setups that teach your toddler how to think, imagine, and stay engaged—on their own.
✨ Don't miss the simple, science-backed magic of open-ended play—and why it’s the natural antidote to toddler screen time overload, boredom, and neediness.
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They Got It WRONG: The Hidden Link Between Eating and Speech Development Ep 126
21 Oct 2025
00:45:38
Everyone talks about “speech milestones,” but few realize that clear talking starts long before the first word. It begins with sucking, swallowing, mouthing, and chewing real food.
In this episode, Erin Hyer — pediatric speech-language pathologist and host of Talking Toddlers — unpacks how modern feeding habits are quietly undermining children’s oral-motor development and what parents can do to course-correct with confidence.
You’ll discover:
Why mouthing and chewing are essential brain-building workouts
How pouches, purees, and processed foods keep kids stuck in baby patterns
The simple, God-designed rhythm that connects eating, breathing, and talking
Practical ways to strengthen your child’s jaw, tongue, and attention every day
Because when we understand how kids learn to eat and talk, we can help them thrive — one bite, one word, one day at a time.
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Disclaimer:
This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique — please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.
Screen Time Struggles: Why Boundaries Are a Gift, Not a Punishment - Ep 107
10 Jun 2025
00:57:53
The screen time struggle is real—but boundaries aren’t punishment - they’re protection.
And they’re a gift your child will grow into.
What if one of the hardest choices you make today becomes the one your child thanks you for a decade from now?
In Part 2 of our screen time mini-series, we’re talking boundaries—the kind that feel tough in the moment but protect your child’s development for years to come.
If you’ve ever wondered, "Am I being too strict?" or "Is this really such a big deal?"—this episode is for you.
We’ll unpack what healthy screen limits actually look like in toddlerhood, why “just a little bit” often leads to more than you planned, and how to stay grounded when everyone around you seems to say “yes.”
Erin shares her personal story, clinical wisdom, and a bold (but doable) recommendation for families who are ready to do what’s best—even when it’s not what’s easiest.
This isn’t about guilt—it’s about courage. And it starts now.
💡 Learn how to build your child’s attention, language, and emotional regulation—without relying on screens.
💪 Discover the power of intentional parenting in a distracted world.
🧠 Remember: the toddler years are your window. Boundaries today shape the brain—and the child—you’ll live with tomorrow.
When Screens Take Over: Why It Feels So Hard to Say No (and Why It Matters) Ep 106
28 May 2025
00:35:12
Why is it so hard to set screen time boundaries with toddlers?
Is it just modern parenting—or is there something bigger going on?
In this powerful first episode of our screen time mini-series, Erin walks you through the cultural shifts, industry influence, and developmental concerns that make screens a bigger issue than most parents realize.
Drawing on insights from The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt, Erin challenges moms to be bold, clear, and proactive—starting now.
🎧 In this episode:
The real reason screens feel “unavoidable”
What’s happening to our kids—and why it starts earlier than you think
How to stay strong in a culture that profits from distraction
Practical encouragement to build better habits now—for fewer battles later
This isn’t about shame. It’s about clarity and courage.
The toddler years are your moment to lead—and this episode will help you do just that.
Babbling & Beyond: What No One Told You About Noisy Babies Ep 105
06 May 2025
01:08:29
Is babbling just a cute stage—or a sign of something deeper?
In this episode of Talking Toddlers, Erin dives into the often-overlooked world of prelinguistic development during your baby’s first year.
Drawing on 35+ years of clinical experience, Erin explains how babbling builds the foundation for speech, how movement (yes, even tummy time!) connects to oral motor skills, and why quiet babies need your attention—not just patience.
You’ll learn why consonants and vowels matter, how feeding and communication go hand-in-hand, and what those sweet squeals, grunts, and coos are really trying to tell you.
Plus, get a sneak peek at what happens when screens disrupt this critical learning window—and why your baby needs you more than any device.
If you’ve ever wondered “Is my baby on track?” or felt unsure about what babbling should really sound like, this episode is for you.
Let’s connect the dots between sound, movement, bonding, and building a confident communicator.
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Crawling Got Cut—But It’s Still Critical - Here’s Why Ep 104
22 Apr 2025
01:00:16
Part 2 of the “Is My Baby’s Development Normal?” Mini-Series
What happens when a milestone disappears from the checklist?
In this episode, we’re digging into a surprising decision: the CDC no longer considers crawling a core developmental milestone.
But does that mean it’s no longer important?
Absolutely not.
With 35+ years of clinical experience in early childhood development, I’ll walk you through why crawling still plays a crucial role in brain development, sensory integration, coordination, and even future learning.
We’ll explore the sequence of gross motor milestones—tummy time, rolling, crawling, standing, and walking—and how each one builds the foundation for what comes next.
You’ll also learn:
Why some babies skip crawling (and what to watch for)
How early movement impacts speech, attention, and emotional regulation
What you can do today to support your baby’s development—no fancy toys required
If you’ve ever wondered whether your baby is on track—or why movement matters at all—this is the episode for you.
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What's Normal Anyway? Understanding Developmental Milestones Ep 103
09 Apr 2025
00:39:38
When should my baby be talking?
Crawling?
Walking?”
If you’ve ever typed those words into Google at 2 a.m., you’re not alone.
In this episode of Talking Toddlers, Erin tackles one of the most common fears new parents have: Is my baby falling behind?
With 35+ years in early intervention, she breaks down what developmental milestones really mean, why PROGRESS matters more than perfection.
Research demonstrates that proactive parenting can truly shape your child’s future.
You’ll learn:
What milestones are—and what they’re NOT
Why “normal” is a range, not a deadline
What it means to be a proactive parent (hint: it’s not about perfection)
The “3 P’s” approach: Present, Purposeful, Playful
Why small daily habits are more powerful than weekly ‘sessions’
What to do when progress stalls—and what to avoid
Whether you’re a first-time mom or just looking for clarity and confidence, this episode will help you understand your child’s development without the overwhelm.
I know it can feel overwhelming—especially in a world full of charts, apps, and social media noise.
But you don’t need to know everything.
You just need to know what matters most.
You’re learning on the job. That’s okay. You’re asking questions. That’s powerful. You’re showing up. And that’s what your child needs more than anything.
You are not behind—you’re right on time.
You’ve got this. And I’m here to help you every step of the way.
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Is My Child on Track? The 10 Essential Skills For Talking Ep 102
01 Apr 2025
00:51:49
Did you know that talking doesn’t start with words?
Before a child ever says “mama” or “dada,” they go through critical developmental stages that pave the way for speech.
In this episode of Talking Toddlers, we’re diving into the Top 10 Essential Skills For Talking —the must-know skills that indicate a child is on the right track for language development.
We’ll cover everything from sensory awareness and social connection to gestures, turn-taking, and play—all fundamental to helping your baby or toddler communicate.
Whether you’re wondering “Is my child on track?” or looking for ways to encourage early language skills, this episode will give you practical insights to support your little one’s journey to talking.
🎧 Tune in now and learn how to set the stage for your child’s first words!
Want Your Toddler to Talk More? Start at the Table (Part 3 of 3) Ep 101
26 Mar 2025
00:42:04
If you’re wondering how to help your toddler talk more, you might be overlooking one of the most powerful (and simplest) tools you already have—mealtime!
In this episode of Talking Toddlers, we’re diving into why shared meals aren’t just about food—they’re about connection, conversation, and building the foundation for strong communication skills.
I’ll break down:
Why mealtime is a natural opportunity for boosting language development.
How eating together fosters attention, listening, and social engagement.
The hidden ways distractions (like screens) can interfere with speech and connection.
Simple, realistic ways to create a mealtime routine that encourages talking—without stress.
Whether your little one is just starting to babble or already putting words together, how you share meals can make a lasting impact.
Tune in and discover how this one simple habit can help your toddler thrive!
Food Companies Lied to Parents—Here’s How to Take Back Control (Part 2 of 3) Ep 100
19 Mar 2025
01:13:29
Feeding your family should be simple—but today, food companies have made it confusing on purpose.
Nearly 70% of toddlers’ food and 73% of grocery store products are ultra-processed.
And it’s not by accident—it’s by design, for profit.
In this episode, we’ll pull back the curtain on how we got here, revealing the six ways the baby food industry manipulate parents into thinking convenience equals better nutrition.
We’ll review the real impact of ultra-processed foods on your child’s brain, gut health, and long-term eating habits.
But here’s the good news: You can take back control!
I’ll share simple strategies for batch cooking, making one meal the whole family can enjoy (yes, even for babies!), and small steps to break free from the trap of processed convenience foods.
You don’t have to be perfect—just start making small changes today!
🎧 Tune in now and take the FIRST step toward a healthier, stress-free approach to feeding your family.