Explore every episode of the podcast Taboo Talk Not Safe For Brunch
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| Episode: 101 - From Fifty Shades to Wicker: Why Do These Sex Fantasies Turn Us On? | 20 Oct 2026 | 00:30:20 | |
From "Fifty Shades of Grey" to the upcoming movie "Wicker", Hollywood has been making us question our fantasies for decades! Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 100 - 100 Things Everyone Should Know About Sex (But Probably Doesn't) | 13 Oct 2026 | 00:20:06 | |
🎉 WE MADE IT TO 100 EPISODES! To celebrate our 100th episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we're sharing 100 things we think everyone should know about sex! From orgasms, libido, and the male and female body to sexual health, aging, relationships, and pleasure, we're covering the things nobody taught us, the myths that need to die, and a few facts that might surprise you. No judgment, no awkward questions, just honest conversations, a few laughs, and 100 things worth knowing! Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 99 - NSFB Quickie: The Sex Graveyard: Let’s Bury These Bedroom Rules | 08 Oct 2026 | 00:05:05 | |
Welcome to the Sex Graveyard. 💀 In this spooky Quickie, Coralie is burying eight outdated sex rules that have hung around WAY too long, including fake orgasms, sexual obligation, “good girl” rules, keeping score, lube shame, mind reading and the idea that menopause means your sex life is over. Some things belong six feet under. These are definitely on the list. 😂 Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 98 - Your Penis After 40: What Every Man Should Know | 06 Oct 2026 | 00:26:40 | |
Your penis is aging too, gentlemen. 😏 But turning 40 doesn’t mean your sex life suddenly falls apart. In this episode, we’re talking about what can actually change with erections, testosterone, sensitivity, ejaculation, refractory periods, prostate health and yes... whether your penis really gets smaller. More importantly, we’re talking about why some changes shouldn’t simply be blamed on getting older, and why sex after 40 may require a little less pressure and a little more communication. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 97 - Hairy, Horny & Hysterical: Myths About Women We Need to Kill | 29 Sep 2026 | 00:33:19 | |
Apparently women have been doing womanhood wrong this whole time. We're too hairy, too emotional, bad drivers, not horny enough... and somehow false eyelashes got dragged into a story about sex work. In this episode, we're busting some of the weirdest and most persistent myths about women, from shaving and high heels to sex drive, blue balls, virginity and what supposedly happens to women's sexuality as we age. Some are marketing. Some are stereotypes. Some are misunderstandings of women's bodies. And some are just complete bullshit that got repeated so many times people stopped questioning them. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 96 - Are Love Languages Actually Bullshit? | 22 Sep 2026 | 00:30:56 | |
Are the 5 Love Languages actually legit… or have we all just been treating them like relationship gospel? In this episode, we dig into physical touch vs sex, acts of service vs mental load, how our needs change over time, and what the research actually says about the Love Languages theory. Maybe your “love language” isn’t who you are forever. Maybe it’s just what you’re missing right now. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 95 - Sex, Power & Scandal: The Stories That Changed Society | 15 Sep 2026 | 00:33:03 | |
Sex scandals grab headlines, but are we actually scandalized by the sex? From Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky to Charles, Diana and Camilla, we're looking back at famous scandals that changed public opinion, celebrity culture and the way we talk about power. And somehow, the woman still seems to get dragged harder. 👀 We also play a little game: would some of history's biggest scandals even be considered scandalous today? Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 94 - What’s on Your F*ck It List? Fantasies, Curiosity & Better Sex | 08 Sep 2026 | 00:29:07 | |
In this episode, we’re building the ultimate F*ck It List and talking about the fantasies we think about, the things we’d actually try, and the ones that are probably better left in our imagination. We get into sharing fantasies with a partner, threesomes, kink events, sex toys, erotic fiction, trying something new after years together, and why your list doesn’t have to be wild to matter. Sometimes the biggest fantasy is simply feeling confident enough to ask for what you want. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 93 - NSFB Quickie: 5 Clit Tips for Better Orgasms | 03 Sep 2026 | 00:06:26 | |
The clitoris is a whole lot more than one tiny button, and Vicki thinks she’s been seriously underutilized. In this Not Safe for Brunch Quickie, Vicki shares 5 clit tips everyone should know, including why direct stimulation isn’t always better, why you need to STOP changing the rhythm when something is working, and why lube deserves way more respect. Whether you have a clitoris or you’re lucky enough to play with one, consider this your quick reminder that better pleasure isn’t about memorizing one magic technique. It’s about paying attention, communicating and figuring out what actually feels good. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 92 - Your Sex Life Has a Check Engine Light. Are You Ignoring It? | 01 Sep 2026 | 00:28:21 | |
Your sex life has a check engine light too. The problem? A lot of us ignore it. Pain during sex, sudden changes in libido, trouble orgasming, vaginal dryness, erectile difficulties, avoiding intimacy, putting off STI testing... we convince ourselves it’s probably nothing, part of getting older, or something we just have to live with. In honour of World Sexual Health Day on September 4th, we’re talking about the sexual health warning signs people tend to brush off, why “common” doesn’t necessarily mean “normal,” how stress and mental health can show up in the bedroom, and why preventative sexual healthcare deserves just as much attention as the rest of your health. And yes, we also discuss doctor Googling, STI testing, pelvic floors, menopause, communication and why some of us need several people to tell us to call the damn doctor before we actually do it. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 91 - Is This Cheating? 10 Relationship Scenarios That Blur the Line | 25 Aug 2026 | 00:30:43 | |
What actually counts as cheating anymore? Deleting messages? Paying for OnlyFans? Keeping a dating app? Having coffee with an ex? Liking someone's sexy selfies? Or fantasizing about somebody else during sex? In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we're throwing out real-life relationship scenarios and deciding whether they're cheating, disrespectful, completely harmless... or a giant red flag waiting to happen. Because the biggest problem might not be cheating itself. It might be assuming your partner is playing by the same rules you are. Tell us in the comments: What's something YOU consider cheating that your partner might not? Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 90 - Topless Is Legal in Canada… So Why Aren’t Women Doing It? | 18 Aug 2026 | 00:22:21 | |
If a man walks down the street without a shirt, nobody bats an eye. If a woman does it? Suddenly everyone has an opinion. In this episode, we’re talking about women going topless, the legal battle that helped change things in Canada, Go Topless Day, breastfeeding, body image, safety, cameras, nude beaches and the massive double standard around women’s breasts. Because having the right to take your top off and actually feeling comfortable enough to do it are two VERY different things. And we have questions: Would you go topless if nobody judged you? Would men still support topless equality if it meant all boobs, not just the ones they wanted to see? 😏 Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 89 - HIV Isn’t a Thing of the Past: Why Testing and Awareness Still Matter | 11 Aug 2026 | 00:25:14 | |
HIV isn’t just a health issue from the past. In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, Vicki, Amber and Coralie discuss rising HIV diagnoses in Manitoba, common misconceptions about who is at risk, STI testing, condom use, dating, stigma and why open sexual-health conversations still matter. They also look at how HIV treatment has changed, including U=U — Undetectable = Untransmittable — and why getting tested is about information, not judgment. For Canadian HIV information and resources, visit CATIE.ca or the Public Health Agency of Canada. This episode is for general education and awareness and is not a substitute for medical advice. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 88 - NSFB Quickie: 7 Ways to Increase Desire (Without Blaming Each Other) | 06 Aug 2026 | 00:08:44 | |
Low libido isn't just one person's problem. It affects both partners, and the conversation often turns into blame instead of understanding. In this NSFB Quicky, Amber shares seven practical ways couples can reconnect, reduce pressure, and better understand what's really behind a changing sex drive. From stress and sleep to responsive desire, flirting, and communication, these are simple changes that can make a big difference. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 87 - 6 Simple Ways to Bring Back the Romance (and the Sex) | 04 Aug 2026 | 00:25:02 | |
Think better sex starts in the bedroom? Think again. This week we're talking about six simple habits that help couples reconnect, rebuild intimacy, and bring the spark back into long-term relationships. From flirting during the day to reducing stress, date nights, affectionate touch, and actually talking about sex, these small changes can make a big difference. Whether you've been together for two years or twenty, this episode is packed with practical ideas you can start using today. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 86 - Can an Orgasm Manifest Your Dream Life? The Truth About the O Method | 28 Jul 2026 | 00:23:14 | |
Can an orgasm help you attract success, confidence, money, or even love? The O Method has exploded on TikTok, claiming that combining orgasm with manifestation can help turn your goals into reality. But is there any science behind it, or is this just another viral wellness trend? In this episode, we break down what the O Method actually is, why so many people swear by it, what psychology says about visualization and goal setting, and whether the real power comes from the orgasm... or from changing how you think and act. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 85 - National Hand Job Day: Why Men Won't Tell You What They Like | 21 Jul 2026 | 00:15:24 | |
Ever wondered why your partner says "whatever you want" instead of telling you what actually feels good? For National Hand Job Day, we're skipping the step-by-step advice and talking about something much more important: communication. Why don't more men speak up? Is it to protect feelings? Avoid awkwardness? Or do they simply not care as much as we think? We dive into why feedback in the bedroom feels so uncomfortable, why every partner is different, and why asking questions beats assuming every single time. 💬 We'd love to hear from you. Do you think people avoid giving feedback in the bedroom because they're trying to protect feelings... or because talking about sex still feels awkward? Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 84 - Female Masturbation: What Nobody Ever Taught You | 14 Jul 2026 | 00:20:19 | |
Most women were never actually taught how their bodies work. In this episode, we're talking about female masturbation, why so many women struggle with solo pleasure, and practical techniques that can help you enjoy your body without shame, pressure, or unrealistic expectations. Whether you're completely new to exploring your body or you've been relying on the same routine for years, this conversation might change the way you think about pleasure. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 83 - Emotional Cheating: Is It Worse Than Sex? | 07 Jul 2026 | 00:23:07 | |
Is emotional cheating actually cheating... or is it just friendship? This week we're diving into one of the biggest relationship debates: emotional vs. physical cheating. Where's the line? Why do emotional affairs hurt so much? And are we quietly replacing our partners with someone else without even realizing it? We talk about secrecy, texting, emotional intimacy, social media, trust, and why the answer isn't nearly as black and white as most people think. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 82 - NSFB Quickie - The One Muscle Every Man Should Be Training | 02 Jul 2026 | 00:07:03 | |
Most men never think about their pelvic floor... until something starts going wrong. In this NSFB Quicky, Coralie explains why these overlooked muscles affect bladder control, core strength, pelvic pain, and even erectile function. Plus, she shares one surprisingly simple exercise you can start doing today. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 81 - Are Women's Dating Standards Really Too High? ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ | 30 Jun 2026 | 00:30:56 | |
Are women asking for too much... or are we finally asking for the right things? In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we're talking about dating standards, emotional maturity, the infamous "bare minimum," younger men, mental load, and why more women are choosing peace over settling. Plus, we play a game of Bare Minimum or True Partnership? You might start scoring your own relationship. 👇 Let us know... what's one dating standard you'll never lower? Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 80 - Bigger Isn't Always Better: What Really Matters in Bed | 23 Jun 2026 | 00:12:19 | |
Does size really matter? It's one of the most common questions people ask, but the answer is a lot more complicated than a simple yes or no. In this episode, we're talking about penis size, girth versus length, the impact of arousal, how porn has shaped expectations, and what actually creates great sex. Spoiler alert: connection, communication, confidence, and paying attention to your partner matter a lot more than most people think. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 79 - Less Sex, More Loneliness? The Truth About the Sex Recession | 16 Jun 2026 | 00:33:21 | |
One in three young men reported having no sex in the past year, and overall sexual activity has been declining for decades. But is this really about sex... or is it about stress, loneliness, dating fatigue, and a lack of connection? In this episode, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki dive into the growing "sex recession," why people are having less sex, and what it says about modern relationships. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 78 - Pegging, Shame, and Why We're Still Afraid to Talk About It | 09 Jun 2026 | 00:21:58 | |
Pegging is one of the most misunderstood topics in sexual wellness. In this episode, we're breaking down the myths, the stigma, how to bring it up with a partner, beginner tips, and why pegging has absolutely nothing to do with sexual orientation. Whether you're curious, skeptical, or just here for the conversation, we're diving into it all without the shame. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 77 - NSFB Quickie - Creating Space for Pleasure | 04 Jun 2026 | 00:03:40 | |
Welcome to the very first NSFB Quickie! A few months ago we sent a chellenge out to our listens of having 200 orgasms this year. Now that the first quarter is over, Vicki is checking in and sharing an important reminder: pleasure isn't about keeping score. It's about making space for joy, connection, and feeling good in your own body. How's your year going so far? Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 76 - Sex Toys, Relationships, and the Fear Nobody Talks About | 02 Jun 2026 | 00:21:59 | |
Are sex toys replacing partners, or are they helping couples build stronger, more satisfying relationships? In this episode of Not Safe For Brunch, we tackle one of the biggest myths about sex toys and intimacy. We discuss why some people feel threatened by toys, how they can actually improve communication and connection, and when they might be masking deeper relationship issues. Whether you're curious about bringing toys into the bedroom, worried about how your partner might react, or simply wondering if toys help or hurt relationships, this conversation is for you. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 75 - How the Internet Is Teaching Boys to Hate Women | 26 May 2026 | 00:26:47 | |
This week we’re diving headfirst into the world of the manosphere after watching Netflix’s Inside the Manosphere documentary with Louis Theroux and honestly… we have thoughts. From Andrew Tate and red pill culture to incels, pickup artists, and algorithm-driven radicalization, we unpack how online spaces are targeting young boys with messaging disguised as “self-improvement.” We talk about why this content is so effective, how social media algorithms fuel it, and why so many women instantly recognize the rhetoric when they see it. We also get real about what parents, partners, and even friends can do when someone they care about starts slipping into these toxic online spaces. This conversation isn’t about attacking men. It’s about recognizing manipulation, protecting young people, and creating healthier conversations around masculinity, relationships, and identity. Because this isn’t just internet drama anymore. It’s shaping real relationships, real beliefs, and an entire generation in real time. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 74 - We’ve Been Masturbating Wrong for Decades | 19 May 2026 | 00:25:55 | |
Shop Canada Shop USA Most of us figured out masturbation before we even understood our own bodies… and then never talked about it again. In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe For Brunch, we’re getting honest about masturbation, shame, midlife pleasure, body changes, stress relief, partner communication, and why so many women were never actually taught how to explore what feels good. We talk about: Plus… yes, we talk about the Womanizer 😆 👇 Tell us in the comments: Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 73 - The Pink Pill vs. The Blue Pill: Why Women Had to Fight for Desire | 12 May 2026 | 00:28:27 | |
Take the HSDD quiz: https://addyi.com/quiz/ This week on Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki dive into the story behind Addyi, often called “the pink pill,” and why its journey looked nothing like Viagra’s. We break down what HSDD actually is, how Addyi works differently from Viagra, the shocking approval process, and the double standards surrounding women’s sexual health. We also get real about antidepressants, libido loss, hormone therapy fear-mongering, and why women’s desire is still treated differently in medicine. This episode is funny, frustrating, eye-opening, and honestly? A little rage-inducing in the best way. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 72 - Why Sex Isn’t Just “Male or Female” | 05 May 2026 | 00:14:46 | |
We’re tackling a topic that gets people heated online—but we’re leaving the comment section energy out of it. In this episode, we break down what intersex actually means, why sex isn’t as simple as “male or female,” and how biology is way more complex than what most of us were taught growing up. We’re keeping it real, science-based, and easy to understand—because this conversation doesn’t need more confusion… it needs clarity. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 71 - Are Blue Balls Real? Sex Myths We Need to Unlearn | 28 Apr 2026 | 00:25:23 | |
What if most of what you learned about sex growing up was wrong? In this episode of Taboo Talks: Not Safe For Brunch, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki unpack the biggest sex myths many of us were taught through school, movies, magazines, religion, locker room talk, and pure misinformation. From the truth about “blue balls” to why painful sex is not something you should just accept, we’re breaking down outdated beliefs and replacing them with honest, empowering conversation. We also talk about poor sex education, pleasure gaps, men’s libido myths, women’s orgasms, masturbation shame, and why learning about sex often starts way later in life than it should. Because no... good sex is not supposed to be confusing, painful, or based on myths. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 70 - Can You Recycle Sex Toys? The Frustrating Truth | 21 Apr 2026 | 00:22:04 | |
What happens when your vibrator dies? Toss it in the garbage? Hide it in a drawer forever? Try to recycle it and hope nobody makes eye contact? For this Earth Day episode, we tackle a surprisingly frustrating question: how do you responsibly recycle sex toys? We dug into lithium batteries, e-waste programs, provincial differences across Canada, stigma, safety concerns, and why consumers are being asked to solve a problem manufacturers and systems haven’t caught up with yet. This episode is funny, honest, and way more important than it sounds. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 69 - Does the Green Stuff Help Sex… or Hurt It? | 14 Apr 2026 | 00:17:12 | |
Can a little relaxation help your love life… or ruin the mood completely? In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we’re diving into the plant everyone whispers about and asking the real questions. Can it help arousal, lower stress, improve connection, and make intimacy better? Or can it leave you distracted, dry, anxious, or asleep before anything starts? We’re talking dosage, strains, midlife libido, perimenopause, communication, and why no product or substance can fix relationship problems. If you’ve ever been curious, cautious, or wondering why so many women are experimenting with it now, this episode is for you. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 68 - Moving In Without an Agreement? Big Mistake | 07 Apr 2026 | 00:19:59 | |
FREE Digital Download: Prenup/Cohab Agreement Checklist Nothing kills the vibe faster than “we should talk about a prenup”… or does it? In this episode, we’re breaking down prenups and cohabitation agreements without the drama. Because let’s be real—love is great, but clarity is better. We’re talking about:
Because being grownups in love sometimes means choosing paperwork over pretending vibes are legally binding. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 67 - The Pressure to Perform is Killing Your Sex Life | 31 Mar 2026 | 00:21:40 | |
Have you ever been in the middle of sex and suddenly started overthinking everything? Am I taking too long? Just like that… you’re out of the moment and stuck in your head. In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we’re talking about the pressure to perform in the bedroom, where it comes from, how it affects your body, and how to actually enjoy intimacy again. Because sex isn’t supposed to feel like an audition… it’s supposed to feel like connection. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 66 - Why 69 Sounds Sexy… But Rarely Delivers | 24 Mar 2026 | 00:16:24 | |
Let’s talk about 69… and why it might not be all it’s hyped up to be. It’s one of the most talked about positions out there, but when you actually break it down, the reality doesn’t always match the fantasy. In this episode, we’re getting real about why 69 looks great in theory but can fall apart in practice, from awkward angles to multitasking struggles and everything in between. If you’ve ever tried it and thought “what is happening right now”… this episode is for you. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 65 - Spring Mating Season… But Humans Are Opting Out | 17 Mar 2026 | 00:23:04 | |
Spring is known as mating season in the animal world… but humans seem to be doing the opposite. In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we zoom out and talk about the big picture of sex, relationships, and reproduction. For most of human history, sex wasn’t optional. It was survival. Now? Birth control, financial independence, and social change have rewritten the rules. So why are birth rates dropping? Why are more people opting out of relationships or kids? And why does that make some parts of society panic? We dig into the biology, history, economics, and power dynamics behind what might be the biggest shift in human mating behavior in 250,000 years. This conversation goes deeper than dating apps. It’s about survival, equality, and choice. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 64 - From Petting Parties to Netflix and Chill: How Sex Slang Changed Through the Decades | 10 Mar 2026 | 00:25:06 | |
Sex hasn’t changed much over the decades… but the words we use to talk about it definitely have. In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we take a hilarious and honest look at the evolving language of intimacy. From old school phrases like “making whoopee” and “going steady” to modern terms like “Netflix and Chill,” “situationship,” and “sneaky link,” every generation seems to invent new slang to say the same thing. Why do we keep changing the language? Amber, Coralie, and Vicki unpack the history, the humor, and the confusion behind the words people use to talk about sex. And trust us… some of these terms might make you feel old. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 63 - Pleasure Should Be Chosen, Not Expected | 03 Mar 2026 | 00:17:04 | |
15% OFF all Lubricants & Enhancements March 2 - 9 2026 There are a lot of unofficial holidays out there. Some are harmless. Some are funny. And then there’s Steak and BJ Day. Is it playful? Is it sexist? Is it just a joke? Or does it quietly reinforce one-sided expectations about sex and pleasure? In this episode, we unpack where this “holiday” came from, why it makes some people uncomfortable, and what it reveals about communication, consent, fantasy vs reality, and performative intimacy. Because desire doesn’t magically switch on when the calendar says so. And pleasure works best when it’s chosen, not expected. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 62 - From Head to Butt to Bed: Sexual Hygiene 101 | 24 Feb 2026 | 00:26:04 | |
Sex is supposed to be fun, not stressful, awkward, or uncomfortable because no one taught you the basics. In this episode of Not Safe For Brunch, we’re breaking down sexual hygiene from head to butt to bed. No shame. No fear-mongering. Just real, practical conversations about cleanliness, comfort, confidence, toys, lube, oral, anal, kink, and everything in between. Whether you’re new to sex, deep into midlife changes, exploring new play, or just want better sex with fewer infections, this episode is for you. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 61 - Best Sex Positions for Real Bodies (no icepacks required) | 17 Feb 2026 | 00:28:03 | |
Shop USA Position Aids: In this episode, we break down supportive, realistic sex positions designed for real bodies. No acrobatics. No performance pressure. Just angles, stability, connection, and actual pleasure. We cover comfort-based positions, angle-focused positions, and intimacy-centered positions that make orgasms easier and strain less likely. Because stable beats flashy. Every time. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 60 - Valentine’s Day Is Just Marketing (And We’re Over It) | 10 Feb 2026 | 00:19:03 | |
Valentine’s Day is sold as the ultimate test of love, but let’s be honest, it’s mostly a marketing calendar wrapped in roses and guilt. In this episode, we break down where Valentine’s Day actually came from, how it became a billion-dollar industry, and why so many people feel pressured, disappointed, or straight-up uncomfortable when February 14th rolls around. We talk performative romance, overpriced expectations, social media pressure, and why consistent love beats one grand gesture every time. Whether you’re partnered, single, or happily ignoring the whole thing, this one’s for you. No Hallmark fluff. No guilt spending. Just real talk. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 59 - Being Seen Is Foreplay: Rethinking Valentine’s Day | 03 Feb 2026 | 00:22:59 | |
Valentine’s Day isn’t the problem, the pressure is. In this episode, we break down why Valentine’s Day feels so loaded, what people actually want from it (hint: it’s not expensive gifts), and how small gestures create real connection in long-term relationships. We talk about acknowledgment, emotional intimacy, micro-gestures, expectations, and why being seen might be the most underrated form of foreplay. Whether you’re partnered, single, or somewhere in between, this is a no-pressure, no-performance take on making Valentine’s Day actually feel good. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 58 - What Heated Rivalry Gets Right About Gay Men in Professional Sports | 27 Jan 2026 | 00:34:07 | |
What happens when honesty becomes a career risk? This conversation dives into why so many gay men in professional sports remain closeted—and why the issue has nothing to do with masculinity, toughness, or talent. Using the cultural impact of Heated Rivalry as a lens, we unpack visibility, power, locker-room culture, emotional safety, and what actually happens when athletes come out while still playing. From real statistics to real-world examples, this episode explores why being “the first” still carries so much weight—and why stories like this matter far beyond fiction. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 57 - Double Standards in the Bedroom: Who Made These Rules, Anyway? | 20 Jan 2026 | 00:24:59 | |
Ever been told you’re asking for too much in the bedroom?
We’re breaking down: If you’ve ever felt judged for how you show up sexually, this episode is for you. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 56 - Stop Treating Anal Like a Stunt and Start Treating It Like a Skill | 13 Jan 2026 | 00:23:36 | |
Most people treat anal like a bucket-list stunt. That’s the problem. In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we break down why anal play isn’t about bravery or pressure, it’s about skill, anatomy, communication, and going slow enough for your body to actually enjoy it. We cover: No fear tactics. No shame. No nonsense. 🎧 Let’s make anal make sense. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 55 - 200 Orgasms a Year: Turning Pleasure Into a Legit Wellness Practice | 06 Jan 2026 | 00:26:04 | |
Shop Woman Lust USA: https://notsafeforbrunch.myshopify.com/products/pjur-woman-lust-orgasm-gel-15-ml-pj-14022-01 Shop Lelo Pleasure Serum Canada: https://notsafeforbrunch.myshopify.com/products/pleasure-enhancing-serum What if orgasms were one of the most powerful wellness tools you’re not using enough? In this episode of Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch, we break down the science behind orgasms, stress relief, nervous system regulation, and why pleasure is not extra, it’s essential. We’re talking hormone cocktails, pelvic floor health, immune support, myth-busting, and introducing our boldest idea yet: the 200 Orgasm Challenge for 2026. Solo or partnered. Fun and factual. Zero shame. Welcome to pleasure on purpose. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 54 - Hallmark Lies and Five-Minute Orgasms | 30 Dec 2025 | 00:20:36 | |
The holidays are loud, exhausting, and wildly unsexy… or are they? In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we dive into real listener questions about holiday quickies, exhaustion, zero privacy, and why social media makes everyone feel broken. Spoiler: you’re not broken. You’re just tired. We talk delegation, scheduling sex, five-minute escapes, realistic expectations, and how connection doesn’t disappear just because the house is full. If you’re surviving December and wondering where intimacy went, this episode is for you. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 53 - If Your Sex Life Had a Performance Review, Would It Pass? | 23 Dec 2025 | 00:20:36 | |
Grab our FREE Sex Audit Digital Download https://notsafeforbrunch.myshopify.com/products/relationship-intimacy-audit-free-download Forget vision boards. In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we’re doing a year-end sex audit. What turned us on, what shut things down, what surprised us, and what we are absolutely leaving behind. We talk about saying no without guilt, libido changes, obligation sex, menopause realities, unexpected turn-ons, and why communication matters more than frequency. Whether you’re partnered or single, this is a real-talk reset for your intimacy heading into the new year. Grab your cocoa, your vibrator, or both. Let’s debrief. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||
| Episode: 52 - The Holidays Are Killing Your Sex Life | 16 Dec 2025 | 00:15:58 | |
In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we’re talking holiday stress, family dynamics, money tension, mental load, and how all of it impacts intimacy. From hosting and traveling to childhood bedrooms to mismatched libidos and unrealistic expectations, we’re keeping it honest, funny, and very real. If you’re hiding from your family in the bathroom right now, we see you. Connect with us! Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com | |||