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Do you want your marriage to change RIGHT NOW?

Do you want your kids to act better RIGHT NOW?

Most of us do.

But, when we try to force people to be something they’re not…

It usually backfires.

Like trying to force open a flower.

You end up just destroying the flower.

Or cutting open the goose to get more golden eggs.

You just end up with a dead goose.

Learn how to develop the patience to let people develop (including yourself)…

While also encouraging that development in yourself and others…

In today’s episode.

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

Watch on YouTube here.

And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a passionate, intimate marriage with his wife, a loving, mentoring relationship with his kids, and sets the example for generations to follow in Strong Men Strong Marriages.

Dr. Mike

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Do you feel like your wife doesn’t appreciate you?

That she cares about the kids more than you?

That she can be nice to everyone except you, but is still willing to use the money you bring in?

I’ve certainly felt this way.

And this energy is not the powerful masculine energy that feels good and attracts your wife to you.

It’s a young, immature energy that needs to be tended… by you.

Learn how to take care of the younger you…

So you can access the powerful, God-given masculine energy available to you…

In today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a passionate, intimate marriage with his wife, a loving, mentoring relationship with his kids, and sets the example for generations to follow in Strong Men Strong Marriages.

Dr. Mike

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There are going to be days when you feel down in your marriage.

Sad. Overwhelmed. Tired.

And, that’s OK.

That’s normal and human.

Instead of trying to “buck up,” take care of yourself first.

Acknowledge you are feeling down, see what you need, and meet that need.

Then, think about other ways you can think in the future.

Heal first, fix later.

Learn more in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a passionate, intimate marriage with his wife, a loving, mentoring relationship with his kids, and sets the example for generations to follow in Strong Men Strong Marriages.

Dr. Mike

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There are two main forces of power available to you as a husband and father.

One is a destructive force.

This force is a “my way or the highway” energy.

It intimidates to get its way.

And, it is more powerful than doing nothing.

And, it ends in people wanting to create distance from you, making you feel lonely in your marriage.

The other force available to you is the TRANSFORMATIONAL force.

This power allows you to stop what needs to be stopped…

But in order to build what you want to build…

A loving relationship with your wife and children.

It is MORE POWERFUL than the destructive force, because it INCLUDES, DEFEATS and TRANSFORMS the destructive force.

Learn how to access this TRUE power of transformation in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

And to join us in becoming a truly powerful husband and father who creates a passionate, intimate marriage with his wife, a loving, mentoring relationship with his kids, and sets the example for generations to follow in Strong Men Strong Marriages.

Dr. Mike

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In our marriage and parenting, we’re often too hard or too soft.

When we’re too hard, we are angry, frustrated, or overly controlling of what people do.

This comes from our own discomfort of letting others do things differently.

And, it leads to people distancing from us.

When we feel that distance, we often go too soft. Too permissive. Too weak.

And, our wives and kids kind of like that…

But they don’t respect us or feel safe with us.

And we don’t feel safe or respect ourselves.

Thankfully, there is a “just right” place to be a parent and a husband.

One where we have the love AND respect of others…

And we love and respect ourselves.

Learn about this in today’s episode.

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cmxd3VzEvgo

And to join us in growing our gardens and husbands and fathers with God, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.

Dr. Mike

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You want to be the best husband.

You want to be the best father.

You want to be the best at your job.

That pressure can help you perform…

But it also leads to a feeling of pressure, stress…

And even rejection and not feeling good enough.

Unfortunately, those aren’t the best feelings to build a family foundation on.

Instead, you can view your family as a garden.

A garden that God is in charge of, and that you have a part in.

A garden that if you make a mistake, God can heal it.

Now you can rest, play, grow and create. And work. But you don’t have to work to earn rest or earn your place in the garden.

You belong.

Watch on YouTube here.

And to join us in growing our gardens and husbands and fathers with God, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.

Dr. Mike

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 I used to think that the way to heal was three simple steps.

Step 1 –Identify your old, negative, unattractive patterns.

Step 2 – Create new positive attractive patterns.

Step 3 - Practice the new patterns until you can’t get them wrong

And, that sequence does work.

However, it misses some important things.

Mainly, it misses acknowledging why the old patterns were there in the first place.

It doesn’t give compassion to the younger you’s and the current you that are acting the way you are because you’re scared or sad.

And, because of that, you don’t really heal and keep acting out the same old patterns.

Learn what to do instead in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

And to join us in becoming better husbands and fathers, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.

Dr. Mike

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If you’re like me, your wife and kids make you mad.

Maybe it happens a lot.

If your anger seems extreme for the situation…

(like when I got upset this week when my oldest son said goodbye to other people in the family or not me)...

There’s probably a younger you that needs caring for.

And the adult you also needs to recognize the hurt…

And then choose from an adult mindset what to do about it.

Learn how to do this in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

And to join us in becoming better husbands and fathers, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.

Dr. Mike

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

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I’ve had a pattern in my marriage.

I feel hurt by something.

The kids or Elizabeth ignoring me. The kids being rude. Elizabeth turning away from a hug or kiss.

Then, I get mad.

I pull away. I think to myself “Fine, if they don’t want me then they can pay for everything themselves!”

I picture leaving them alone to fend for themselves.

I can say mean things and get angry when I feel this way.

Then later, I calm down and regret this…

But there’s been damage done. I’ve scared my family and created lack of safety.

I’ve been trying to get rid of this pattern for a LONG time.

But I feel like I’ve found the answer.

It’s working on my inner child.

You see, my inner child is looking for my family to provide unconditional love. To take care of me.

And, my younger me’s do need that.

But, it’s not my kids’ job to take care of me. It’s my job to take care of them.

And, it’s not my wife’s job to be my unconditionally loving “mother.” It’s our job to work in partnership in life together. She needs a husband, not another kid.

And so, it falls on me to parent those younger me’s and give them unconditional love.

I’m just starting the journey, and I think it’s the key to breaking some very difficult patterns.

Learn more on today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

And to become a man who makes this generation better than the last, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.

Dr. Mike

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This past week I had the chance to stand up for someone else.

A large man was being threatening and eventually physically aggressive to his wife or girlfriend (not sure which it was)..

Thanks to the MMA training I’ve been receiving from Ethyn Ewing (here’s a recent knockout of his)...

I felt confident to confront the guy and stop him from continuing to abuse this woman.

It felt great to join the ranks of men who will stand up physically for what’s right.

It made me realize that confrontation is one of the main masculine traits.

The willingness to confront and fight others is a lot of what makes a man.

Whether that confrontation is physical, mental, emotional or spiritual.

And it takes physical, mental, emotional and spiritual strength to step into that confrontation.

Hear more about what happened on today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

And to become a man who fights for what is right, join us in Strong Men Strong Marriages.

Dr. Mike

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When you wife says she wants space…

It’s SCARY!

Our brains usually go to thinking she wants to leave, whether that’s true or not.

Usually we either go to pleading for her not to leave…

Or we go to anger.

Both of these are unattractive and push our wives away.

Instead, we can share what we’re actually feeling…

Ask for her help…

And take care of ourselves.

Learn more about this in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v5FvaokDOcY

And join the program to learn how to do this together.

Dr. Mike

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

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It can be scary and frustrating if your wife doesn’t want to pray with you.

Or maybe it’s that she doesn’t want to go to church or read scriptures with you.

You can worry that your marriage won’t make it.

That your kids won’t grow up with God.

That your wife and kids are on the fast track to eternal damnation.

Unfortunately, this fear usually makes you anxious and controlling…

Which drives your wife and kids away more.

Learn what to to instead…

In today’s episode.

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEubK6OeKkI

And join the program to learn how to do this together.

Dr. Mike

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

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What’s your goal for your marriage?

A wife who is excited to see you?

A wife who hugs, kisses and has sex with you?

A wife who appreciates you?

And that should happen all the time, right?

And if not, something is wrong. Right?

Well, this mindset of having an “endpoint” to marriage usually leads to frustration.

God helped me see that it’s much better to see your wife and marriage as a plant.

Something that has seasons. That needs consistent nourishment. Something living that doesn’t have an “end point.”

Something that needs a good husband to care for it.

Learn how to do this well in today’s episode.

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8o_L3TnIoEI

And join the program to learn how to do this together.

Dr. Mike

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

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It can be easy to get into a downward spiral about our wife and marriage.

The sex isn’t there.

The connection isn’t there.

We’re dealing with infidelity, separation or divorce.

It can all seem pretty hopeless.

And, when we feel hopeless, we don’t feel good, we’re not attractive, and we don’t solve our problems.

Fortunately, there’s a way out of this.

It’s gratitude.

Not necessarily for our wife, but for the fact that God has our back.

When we can see and feel that, we feel empowered, which is attractive.

And, we can start solving problems effectively.

Learn more in today’s episode.

This is a tool from the book The Tools 

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

Watch on YouTube here.

And join the program to learn how to do this together.

Dr. Mike

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

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Does your wife feel distant?

Does she seem to not really care about you?

Does she seem to care more about the kids than you?

Do you tell her that she should be paying more attention to you, hoping to get more from her?

Well, maybe it’s not actually about you at all!

And maybe asking her to do more will create MORE distance instead of connection.

Learn how to approach your wife in a strong, supportive, secure way when she feels distant…

So you can feel the closeness you desire.

Learn how in today’s episode.

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

Watch on YouTube here.

And join the program to learn how to do this together.

Dr. Mike

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

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Do you wish you had more in your marriage?

More sex?

More conversation?

More connection?

More fun?

It’s not a problem to want more.

However, your emotional state when you desire and ask for more can be a BIG problem.

Most of us ask for more from a place of whininess and “not enough.”

This usually just makes our wives feel like they’re not doing enough and less motivated to do anything more.

Learn a new and better way to get more in your marriage…

In today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

And join the program to learn how to do this together.

(This is from a book The Gap and The Gain by Benjamin Hardy)

Dr. Mike

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Are you hiding in your marriage?

Do you avoid speaking your mind?

About money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or free time?

Do you get defensive with your wife?

All of these symptoms are due to a fear…

A fear of part of you being exposed or rejected.

Learn how to overcome that fear…

Through acceptance of your “Shadow…”

Watch on YouTube here.

And join the program to learn how to do this together.

(This series is from the book The Tools https://amzn.to/42410JT )

Dr. Mike

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Does your wife make you mad?

When she criticizes you?

When she seems to care about the kids more than you?

Do you feel like just a paycheck?

When we get into this negative spiral…

It doesn’t do us or anyone else much good.

Thankfully, there IS a way out of it…

A way we can feel FREE instead of TRAPPED.

We can feel powerful no matter what our wife or others might be doing.

Learn how in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y5fciTKrrSI

And join the program to learn how to do this together.

Dr. Mike

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

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Are you feeling “stuck” in your marriage?

Do you avoid having difficult conversations?

Do you avoid asking for what you want?

Are you stuck in “roommate mode?”

There’s one big reason for the “stuck” feeling in your marriage.

It’s avoiding pain.

It’s normal to avoid the pain of a hard conversation and risking rejection.

It just keeps you stuck.

Learn a tool from the book The Tools how to REVERSE your desire to avoid pain…

And learn to LOVE the pain that helps you grow.

Watch on YouTube here.

And join the program to learn how to do this together.

Dr. Mike

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I’ve recently started to take MMA lessons and I am LOVING it.

Here are some of my big takeaways:

-Having a strong base keeps you prepared and stable

-Having a strong base in God does the same

-You won’t die if you take a punch

-You won’t die if you take an emotional punch from your wife or kids

-You can be confident in caring for yourself

Hear more about this and what I’ve been learning in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v1n_NXQm5R4

Dr. Mike

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I read a few books in the last few weeks that have really impacted the way I view life and life after death.

After by Bruce Greyson, MD  and

Proof of Heaven by Eben Alexander, MD 

The main takeaways I got are:

-Life DOES continue after this life

-We are LOVED by our creator, God

-He has a great plan for us

-We can tune into his love and plan any time, and the more we do the better we feel and the better we operate as men, husbands, fathers and in all areas

Learn more in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

And join the program to learn how to do this together.

Dr. Mike

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

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Does your wife feel safe with you?

Do your kids feel safe with you?

What if they did something wrong? Would they come to you for help?

What if your wife is struggling emotionally? Would she come to you for comfort?

If not, you haven’t been a secure attachment figure to your wife and kids.

And that’s not fun to realize. I’ve had to realize it myself.

But, the good news is, you CAN be one.

By being someone who is there for your wife and kids… no matter what.

Who loves them (wants the good for them)... no matter what.

Who is also there for yourself… no matter what.

Learn more about how to do this in today’s episode…

Watch on YouTube here.

And join the program to learn how to do this together.

Dr. Mike

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

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We’re all following someone, consciously or unconsciously.

When it comes to being a husband and father… who are you following?

When it comes to being a man… who are you following?

If you’re not consciously following someone, you’ll unconsciously follow your parents in your marriage and parenting relationships.

Either by doing what they did… or doing the exact opposite of what they did.

Both of those can cause problems.

Learn how to intentionally choose your role models…

So you can be the husband, father and man you want to be…

In today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JcnkkkOS4U4

Dr. Mike

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

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Do you feel worthy of love?

What about when you’re not doing the “right things?”

Are other people willing, able and available to love you when you need it?

The answers to these 2 questions shape your relationship style.

If the answer to either question is “no,” or a conditional yes…

Your relationship style will cause problems in your marriage and parenting…

And your relationship with God.

Learn how to feel worthy of love (no matter what you’re doing or not doing)...

And how to find people who are willing, able and available to give you love…

In today’s episode.

Here's the book, God Attachment, I mention in the episode.

And keep in mind…

It’s not that God doesn’t want us to do good, or that we don’t want our kids to do good…

It’s just that we want them to do good because we love them and it’s good for them…

Vs we want them to do good so that we can love them.

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

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Are you feeling burnt out in your marriage?

Feel like you’re putting in SO MUCH work, but not getting much back?

Not sure if you want to keep going in the marriage anymore?

Don’t worry. These are NORMAL feelings to have.

It doesn’t mean your marriage is over.

It just means it’s time to take some steps to:

-Take care of yourself and your emotions

-Ask for what you want

-See both the good and bad

When you do this, you can release the feeling of “burnt out” and start feeling joy, energy and put your marriage on course for the joyful, fun, intimate relationship it was meant to be.

Learn how in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

P.S. Join our email list and get the training, How To Be More Attractive To Your Wife In The Next 7 Days, at StrongMen.io http://strongmen.io

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Was your Valentine’s Day… not what you were hoping for?

Maybe you’re dealing with separation or divorce.

Maybe your wife is interested in someone else.

Maybe you were hoping for intimacy that didn’t happen.

It’s normal and natural to be disappointed.

And, there are ways to deal with that disappointment that will make things WORSE…

And ways to deal with it that will help you create more intimacy.

Learn what NOT to do.. And what TO do…

In today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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Has your wife told you “You make everything about you!”

What was your response?

Did you give her examples of how you don’t make everything about you?

Did you get mad and walk away?

If you did either of these…

You made it about you!

I’ve done this plenty of times, and so have the guys in my program.

But, we don’t have to do this.

We can break out of this pattern and “find our lives as we lose them.”

Learn how…

In today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

And in the Strong Men Strong Marriages program.

Dr. Mike

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How healthy is your marriage?

Spiritually, do you feel a sense of mission and purpose, individually and as a couple?

Mentally do you feel that you are both open to learning from each other, able to challenge your own beliefs, and take an appropriate stand?

Emotionally can you name, feel and release emotions in health ways?

Physically, are you in good shape with good energy?

Financially, do you spend less than you earn, have a safety net of savings, and a clear savings and investment plan?

Sexually do you enjoy sex and have a safe and satisfying sex life?

If you find yourself, your wife or both lacking in these areas…

It’s time to create a healthier marriage!

Learn how in today’s episode…

Watch on YouTube here.

And in the Strong Men Strong Marriages program.

Dr. Mike

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This week we are launching the first group of the Strong Men Strong Marriages Membership!

This will be The Alpha Group.

The group that helps grow us to 500 men.

The group that helps shape the membership into something that helps men become the Christ-like, strong and loving leaders of their homes that they were meant to be.

The group that leads the charge to making generational changes and is the man that is led by God, the husband his wife loves and can count on, and the father that shows genuine love and strength to his children.

At Strong Men Strong Marriages we are:

-Strong and loving leaders of our homes as disciples of Jesus
-Examples of real, Christ-like manhood to ourselves, our families and the world
-Building a stronger world through stronger families
-And for my Christian brothers, helping prepare the world for the Second Coming of Jesus Christ

If this mission resonates with you...

Come join us!

Join our email list at http://strongmen.io for your invitation to join.

Dr. Mike

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Preside, provide, protect.

You may have heard of these are the main roles of the man of the house.

And, they are very important.

However, we usually just think if providing and protecting physically.

While having enough money and protecting the home from invaders is important…

There’s something even MORE important to provide to your wife and kids.

Learn what it is…

In today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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Who gets more hugs from your wife?

You or your kids?

Who gets more snuggling or even kisses?

If it’s your kids, it can be VERY frustrating.

Maybe you’ve even brought this up with your wife, only to hear things like “it’s different with the kids” or “I’m just not that into physical touch.”

Today you’ll learn the root cause of why your wife is more physically affectionate with the kids than with you…

And what to do about it.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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Do you feel like your wife is against you?

Does she seem to always be on the kids’ side of things and not yours?

Do you sometimes feel alone in your marriage?

If so, this episode is for you.

Learn why wondering “whose side is your wife on…”

Is a waste of time.

And what to do instead.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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Today I have a special guest and friend, Bobby Hulme-Lippert.

Bobby was a successful pastor, then felt a call to help others find what “helps them come alive.”

Check out today’s episode if you’re questioning whether your current career path is exactly what you’re meant to be doing in the world.

And learn more about Bobby and his coaching work here

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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If you haven't yet, it's time to join the email list!

You'll only hear about our updated group program opening at the end of January through our email list.

Dr. Mike

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Do you want a better marriage in 2025?

One full of connection, laughter, fun and intimacy?

You CAN do it.

It starts with a strong connection with God.

Then a great relationship with yourself.

Then learning the trust, communication and intimacy skills to take your marriage to a connection that’s even beyond what it was when you were first married.

Learn how in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bCrDomF_oig

Dr. Mike

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Feel overwhelmed?

Feel like you can’t act the way you want to act?

Pray for a spiritual spotter to come help you!

And let me know how it goes.

Dr. Mike

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Responding in new, Christ-like ways to your wife and kids is hard work.

In fact, sometimes it’s harder than we can currently handle.

If your wife is critical, your son gets attitude with you, or you’re just feeling tired…

Acting in a strong and loving way may be out of reach.

That’s when you can use Spiritual Spotters to help you do more than you can do on your own.

Learn more about how this works in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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And then get it done!

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

And then let me know how it goes!

Dr. Mike

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Do you have a long “to do” list?

Do you feel like you have too much to do with too little time?

Does it feel like you’ll never get everything done that you need to?

Today you’ll learn how to get rid of your “to do” list…

And get more done in less time with less stress.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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Follow the 4 steps to deal with a strong negative emotion, and let me know how it goes!

Step 1 - Recognize it was from Satan

Step 2 - Pray for help through it

Step 3 - Identify the lie and correct it

Step 4 - Release the anger physically

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

Let me know how it goes!

Dr. Mike

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This week I had an attack of extreme anger.

Thankfully, I was able to get through it without exploding by following a few simple steps.

Step 1 - Recognize it was from Satan

Step 2 - Pray for help through it

Step 3 - Identify the lie and correct it

Step 4 - Release the anger physically

Learn  more about how this works in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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What's 1 rule you could write and live that would change your marriage patterns for the better?

Write it out today!

Dr. Mike

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You have negative patterns that are hurting your marriage.

Not listening. Invalidating. Pushing conversations when they don’t need to be pushed. Letting your wife walk all over you.

The good news is, you can break those patterns.

And setting a few simple rules can help you do that.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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On Thanksgiving, let’s be grateful for our wives.

No matter how bad things are right now, there’s SOMETHING you can be grateful for.

Find that gratitude (ask God for help)...

And share it with your wife.


Dr. Mike

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If you find yourself unhappy in your marriage…

Resentful..

Frustrated…

Wondering if you married the right person…

This episode is for you.

You’ll learn how to start feeling better right away…

And by doing that…

Become more attractive to your wife.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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Ask yourself today:

How can I partner with God to use the time and money He’s given me to bless others?

Then go do it!

Let me know how it goes.

Dr. Mike

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If you’re like me, you’re very concerned about things being fair.

You work hard for the money and respect you get…

And you expect others to do the same.

When they don’t work as hard as you…

But still get money or respect…

You can get upset. Jealous. Angry. Frustrated.

Are those fruits of the Spirit? Are they part of the Abundant Life God wants for you?

Learn how to stop worrying about what’s fair and join with God in His generosity…

In today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jvqlewvkPhM

Dr. Mike

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Ask yourself a few quick questions:

-Do I spend more time thinking about money… or about God?

-Do I feel more security from my money and investments… or from trusting God to provide for me?

-If my assets were stolen, what would my reaction be?

If you find that you are trusting money for your sense of safety and security more than God…

There’s a quick fix.

Shift your thinking to trust in Him more! Pray for that help, remind yourself of the scriptures that remind you of his care for you.

And let me know how it goes!

Dr. Mike

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I’ve had a personal shift that I wanted to share with you today.

I realized that I was trusting money for my security vs trusting God.

Since I’ve made the shift, I feel:

-Much more peace

-Much lighter

-Much more grateful

And, God is blessing me financially as well.

Learn how to check if you’re trusting money too much…

And what to do about it…

In today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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Joel has become a good friend of mine over the past few months.

Today you’ll learn about his story…

And his program, 31 Days To Become A Better Man…

That has helped men apply business, financial, physical and relationship principles…

To create BIG transformations in just 31 days.

Hear some of the inspiring stories in today’s episode…

Watch on YouTube here. 

Dr. Mike

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https://31dailychallenges.com/

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