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| Why Most Men Fail Their New Year's Resolutions | 06 Jan 2026 | 00:13:21 | |
Get healthier. Get wealthier. Have better relationships. These are the most common New Year’s resolutions. Most people think they just need the right plan to reach these goals. The right diet. The right budget. The right communication tools. But here’s the thing. Right plans fail when you can’t tend to your emotions. When you can’t resist the treat. When you can’t stick to your budget. When you lose your temper again. The root cause of failure is failure to tend to emotions. Learn how to do this well in today’s episode. Hear more about our new direction on today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Strong Men In God - Live Longer, Stronger and Happier | 30 Dec 2025 | 00:13:21 | |
2026 is right around the corner and there are BIG updates to my business! For 2026, we’ll be changing our name to Strong Men In God. Tag line: Live Longer, Stronger and Happier. We’ll be talking about: -Body - How to increase energy, vitality, and wealth -Mind - Continued talk about managing our thoughts and growing our minds -Heart - Continued discussions about relationships with God, ourselves, our wives, our kids and others, including how to lead effectively -Spirit - Continued talk about how to connect with God and our purpose In 2026 I’ll also be creating a supplement line, Strong Men Supplements, with the first product being Strong Men Daily, a daily capsule that includes everything a man over 40 needs to support testosterone, longevity and healing. Ingredients will be clinically proven through randomized controlled trials and have at least 1 year of safety data. Hear more about our new direction on today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Have To Vs Want To | 21 Oct 2025 | 00:13:02 | |
Do you have to do things? Work? Be a good dad? Be a good husband? Do your kids have to do things? Get their jobs done? Go to school? Does your wife have to do things? Give you attention, appreciation, affection and sex? Here’s the thing. When we think we and others HAVE TO do things… It creates BURDEN. And, most people don’t want to be in a relationship that feels like a burden. Instead, what do you WANT to create in your relationships? And how can you align what you want with what the important people in your life want? This question unlocks creativity, freedom and happy relationships. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/ Watch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0DMR62z2mgA Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Focus When Your Wife Speaks [Thursday Challenge] | 25 Jul 2024 | 00:02:05 | |
It’s easy to be distracted these days. But, if we’re easily distracted from our wife… We’re missing the chance to show her she’s important to us… And losing out on the chance to build trust and mental and emotional intimacy. When she talks to you today…
And let me know how it goes by replying to this email! Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| The Top 3 Marriage Communication Mistakes… And How To Fix Them | 23 Jul 2024 | 00:17:13 | |
High achieving Christian men are used to being right and being listened to. And, this works well in work and church settings. But, it doesn’t work that well at home. Learn the communication mistakes that leave your wife feeling unheard, misunderstood… And therefore NOT attracted to you… In today’s episode. And… Learn how to fix them so you can become MORE attractive to her. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.
P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Find And Apologize For 1 One-Up Behavior [Thursday Challenge] | 18 Jul 2024 | 00:02:27 | |
Find And Apologize For 1 One-Up Behavior [Thursday Challenge] As a high achieving Christian man, I’m sure there’s at least ONE way that you’ve behaved in a one up, superior way towards your wife. Some of the most common are: money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework and time. Find one of those and apologize to your wife for it. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.
P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| The Top 5 Reasons High Achieving Christian Men Struggle In Marriage | 16 Jul 2024 | 00:15:50 | |
The Top 5 Reasons High Achieving Christian Men Struggle In Marriage You’ve succeeded in big areas in your life. Financially, in your career, in your church and in your community. But, your marriage isn’t where you want it to be. You lack intimacy. You’re recovering from infidelity (hers or yours). You’re facing separation or divorce. Why can you succeed everywhere but in the most important relationship? Learn the 5 most common reasons… and what to do about them… in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Will You Invest 90 Hours To Get 90 Years Of Happy Relationships? [Thursday Challenge] | 11 Jul 2024 | 00:02:18 | |
Strong Men Strong Marriages is 90 hours of focused work. You could spend YEARS trying to learn the skills to have great relationships with God, yourself, your wife and your kids. And you might never even find the skills that you need! Plus, in all your searching, you won’t be practicing the few skills you need to create great relationships. If you’re ready to put 90 hours of work into creating great relationships… Not just for your life, but for your children, your grandchildren, and future generations… Apply here and let’s see if Strong Men Strong Marriages is the right program for you. Dr. Mike Watch on YouTube here. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Is Marriage Coaching Worth Your Time? | 09 Jul 2024 | 00:14:47 | |
If you’re reading this email, you’re ALREADY spending time trying to improve your marriage. And that’s great. AND, if you want to improve your marriage in the most efficient and effective way for high achieving Christian men… You may want to consider marriage coaching, and Strong Men Strong Marriages in particular. You’re a smart, successful guy and a hard worker. We’ll just help you put that hard work and brain power in the most efficient direction to create the strong, intimate, fun marriage that you’re looking for. The type of marriage you would be HAPPY for your kids to have. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.
P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Decide If You’ll Invest In Marriage Coaching [Thursday Challenge] | 04 Jul 2024 | 00:03:47 | |
On Tuesday we talked about how to decide if marriage coaching was a good investment for you. Today, decide if you’re going to invest time and money into learning how to have a better marriage and better relationships for the rest of your life. It’s a skill, and you’ll learn it a lot faster with coaching. And, if you’re ready to invest… Apply here and let’s see if Strong Men Strong Marriages is the right program for you. Dr. Mike Watch on YouTube here. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Is Marriage Coaching A Good Investment? | 02 Jul 2024 | 00:17:48 | |
As a high achieving man, you like to invest. What’s the point of investing? To get a good return. Certainly return of money is important. But what are you going to use that money for? At the end of the day, what matters most to you? If you can get a return of a more intimate marriage and a better example for generations to follow… And learn how to love God and others well… Does it make sense to invest time and money into creating great relationships? Learn about how to decide whether marriage coaching is a good investment for you… In today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Do Something Fun Today [Thursday Challenge] | 27 Jun 2024 | 00:02:43 | |
Want more fun in your marriage? Do something fun today! The easiest thing is to send your wife a funny video or meme. If you’re struggling, search “funniest memes,” find one that you would both laugh at, and send it to your wife. See? You’re having more fun already! Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this email with the results of your challenge! P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to invest time and money to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow, all while living true to Christian principles… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.
P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Bring The Fun Back To Your Marriage | 25 Jun 2024 | 00:14:27 | |
Many of the men I talk to say that they want to bring the fun back to their marriage. But, they spend most of their time trying to talk about “the hard things” and solve problems in their marriage. The truth is, you don’t have to wait to bring the fun back. You can take the lead and start having more fun TODAY. Learn how in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to invest time and money to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow, all while living true to Christian principles… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.
P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Get Attention, Appreciation, Affection And Sex From Your Wife | 14 Oct 2025 | 00:18:57 | |
I know. We talk about how you shouldn’t really need these things from your wife. But, we all want them. And, there’re nothing wrong with wanting them. After a tough therapy session this week, God helped me understand how taking care of a wife actually works. So that she freely gives attention, affection, appreciation and sex to her husband. Learn what it is in today’s episode. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. https://strongmenstrongmarriages.buzzsprout.com/ Watch on YouTube here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hkvJVRQj50E Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Acknowledge One Way You Have Hurt Your Wife (Thursday Challenge) | 20 Jun 2024 | 00:03:08 | |
Tuesday we talked about how to help your wife feel safe. Acknowledge that you’ve hurt her… And make the appropriate changes. Today you’ll acknowledge 1 way you’ve hurt your wife, which will help start the healing process. (If you want help on knowing what to do after that to make your changes last, book a call to see if our program is the right fit for you). Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this post with the results of your challenge! P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to invest time and money to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow, all while living true to Christian principles… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Help Your Wife Feel Safe In Your Christian Marriage | 18 Jun 2024 | 00:22:47 | |
How To Help Your Wife Feel Safe In Your Christian Marriage If your wife is saying she doesn’t feel safe… Either with her words… Or by distancing herself from you emotionally or physically… It’s time to increase the safety in your marriage. How do you do that? Not by telling her you are safe… But by SHOWING her. By getting into her pain and making the changes you need to make. Learn how in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to invest time and money to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow, all while living true to Christian principles… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.
P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Connect With Your Child Today [Thursday Challenge] | 13 Jun 2024 | 00:02:37 | |
Today’s challenge is to find a way to connect with your child. If you have more than one child, choose the child that it’s most difficult to connect with. And, find a way to “meet them where they are.” A great way is to join them in something that they already enjoy. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this post with the results of your challenge! P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to invest time and money to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow, all while living true to Christian principles… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.
P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| What To Do When Your Child Rejects You (Especially In A Divorce) | 11 Jun 2024 | 00:42:18 | |
Today I have a special interview with Cathy Himlin, LMFT from Himlin Consulting. Cathy specializes in helping parents, primarily fathers, navigate their relationships with their children during and after a divorce. Whether you are concerned about losing your children in a divorce and want to make the transition as smooth as possible… Or just want to learn how to connect, or re-connect with your children (especially your teens)... You’ll find a lot of value in this episode. You’ll hear me ask a lot of questions on how to connect with my son, and I got some great and useful advice that is already helping. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving Christian man who is ready to invest time and money to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow, all while living true to Christian principles… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Choose A Healthy Emotional Release [Thursday Challenge] | 06 Jun 2024 | 00:02:23 | |
Tuesday we talked about releasing emotions in a healthy way. Today, choose 1 emotion… And choose 1 healthy way to release it. Then, let me know what you choose. And, if you try the release, let me know how it went. Watch on YouTube here. (Lorena new link here for YouTube) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eY13pnVVwwo (Lorena new links here for YouTube) Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this post with the results of your challenge! P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Control Your Emotions In Your Christian Marriage Relationship | 04 Jun 2024 | 00:21:55 | |
Do you find yourself… Avoiding your emotions… Pretending like you’re OK when you’re not… Or wanting to avoid seeming anxious, sad or angry in front of your wife? A lot of us as men think that emotional strength is about not “letting emotions get to us.” But, emotions are like farts. They need to be RELEASED. And ideally, in healthy ways that don’t stink up the place. Learn how to release emotions in ways that are healthy, strong and attractive… In today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Thursday Challenge - 3 Reasons | 30 May 2024 | 00:02:21 | |
Think of 3 reasons why your wife is RIGHT to create distance from you. How have you been a poor choice for her? Then, work on those 3 reasons. Make yourself a better choice. And, for a complete system to make yourself a great choice, join Strong Men Strong Marriages.
P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How to Save Your Christian Marriage Alone | 28 May 2024 | 00:21:26 | |
When you’re trying to save your Christian marriage… But your wife doesn’t seem to be trying… It can be very frustrating and defeating. You can feel lost and unsure of what to do. And, men often make significant mistakes when they try to save their marriage alone. Learn what those mistakes are… And what to do instead… In today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here.
P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…
P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Prayer to Save My Marriage | 21 May 2024 | 00:17:40 | |
If you’re trying to save your marriage, you are probably praying for help. And that is a good and proper thing to do. AND, it’s also necessary to do MORE than pray to save it. It’s like praying to become a doctor. You can pray for it… But unless you go to medical school… It won’t happen. The same is true here. Definitely pray for your marriage. AND do the things that make you a man who can CREATE a happy, thriving marriage. Learn what those are… And prayers I think will be the most useful for you… In today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. I’d love to connect with you! If you have a question or just want to reach out, find me on LinkedIn. P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Pray To Feel God’s Love For You | 20 May 2024 | 00:02:54 | |
Probably the most effective prayer to save your marriage is this. Pray to feel God’s love for you at a DEEP level every day. As you FEEL that love from Him… It will FILL you… Make you less needy, more compassionate, and more loving… And therefore more attractive. As a bonus, pray to see and love your wife as God does too. This video and this book have been helpful for me to feel God’s love for me. Watch on YouTube here. (Lorena new link here for YouTube) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eY13pnVVwwo (Lorena new links here for YouTube) Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this email with the results of your challenge! P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| What Are You Optimizing For? | 07 Oct 2025 | 00:20:02 | |
What is your main goal as a husband? What is your main goal as a father? Not what are your many goals, but what is your MAIN goal? If you haven’t really defined this, you’re probably optimizing for something unconscious. And, that’s probably based on your own upbringing. So, if you’re not quite getting the results you want as a husband and father… It’s time to be more conscious of what you are optimizing for… Defining it… And working daily towards it. Learn how in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Thursday Challenge - Apply To Join | 16 May 2024 | 00:01:28 | |
If you’ve been on the fence about joining Strong Men Strong Marriages… It’s time to get off the fence and apply. I’ll hear from you soon. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Save Your Christian Marriage In 3 Simple Steps | 14 May 2024 | 00:23:12 | |
If your wife is talking about separation or divorce… Or you need to save your marriage from being roommates for the next 30 years… There are 3 simple steps that will take you from feeling disconnected and stuck in your marriage… To having the fun, passion and intimacy again. Learn what they are in today’s episode. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. I’d love to connect with you! If you have a question or just want to reach out, find me on LinkedIn. P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Thursday Challenge - What Are Your Plans For Mother’s Day? | 09 May 2024 | 00:01:42 | |
OK. You have 3 days until Mother’s Day. What are your plans? Reply on LinkedIn and let me know! Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this post with the results of your challenge! P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How to Make Mother’s Day Special for Your Wife | 07 May 2024 | 00:12:31 | |
Mother’s Day is this Sunday… And it’s a great chance to show your love and appreciation for your wife. Most moms feel like they’re not doing a great job, or at least could be doing better. This is your chance to show your wife just how much you and your kids appreciate her. Show love and take leadership. That’s what’s ATTRACTIVE to your wife. Get some ideas on today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. I’d love to connect with you! If you have a question or just want to reach out, find me on LinkedIn. P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Thursday Challenge - Make And Keep A Promise | 02 May 2024 | 00:02:34 | |
From now on, each Thursday you’ll get a challenge to apply the material from Tuesday’s podcast. For this week the challenge is: Make and keep a promise. It can be big or small (though I recommend small), and it can be to yourself or someone else. Follow through on that promise… And reply to this email to let me know how it went. What was the promise? Did you feel a boost in your self-confidence? Watch on YouTube here. I’ll hear from the more confident you soon! Dr. Mike P.S. Reply to this email with the results of your challenge! P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Increase Your Self-Confidence | 30 Apr 2024 | 00:22:08 | |
Self-worth is your inherent value. You have it just because you exist. God loves you and is pleased with you just because you exit. Self-esteem is the overall thoughts and feelings you have about yourself. Both of these are more about THINKING and FEELING. Self-confidence, on the other hand, is about DOING. You build self-confidence by… *Making and keeping promises *Building skills Learn more on today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. I’d love to connect with you! If you have a question or just want to reach out, reply to this email or reach out on LinkedIn. P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How to Boost Your Self-Esteem | 23 Apr 2024 | 00:32:48 | |
Last week we talked about increasing your self-worth. Your self-worth is your inherent value, which doesn’t ever change and is great and infinite as a son of God. Your self-esteem is your relationship with yourself. In other words, your thoughts and feelings about yourself. Most high achieving guys have the mindset of “I can do better.” This is a mask for “I’m not doing or being enough.” This leads to a feeling of inadequacy… Which they sometimes project onto their wife and others (whatever I do it’s not good enough for you!)... And a desire to keep getting to the “next level.” Learn how to have a great, loving relationship with yourself… Feeling like you are valuable, loved, competent and enough… WITHOUT losing the desire to improve… In today’s episode. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. I’d love to connect with you! If you have a question or just want to reach out, find me on LinkedIn. P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with you wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Increase Your Self-Worth In 3 Simple Steps | 16 Apr 2024 | 00:31:05 | |
I used to believe that I had to work to be worthy. That my self-worth was determined by what I accomplished. And, I still fall into that trap sometimes. But it is a trap. Because no matter how much you accomplish… You can always accomplish more. Instead of this trap, try the 3 simple steps in today’s episode. *See yourself as a beloved son of God *Get around people who love you *See yourself as a baby Learn more in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Also, the book mentioned in the episode is Follow The Cloud by John Stickl, which you can get here. Dr. Mike P.S. I’d love to connect with you! If you have a question or just want to reach out, find me on LinkedIn. P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Find Internal Peace And Acceptance | 09 Apr 2024 | 00:19:37 | |
For most of my life, I’ve felt like I need to achieve to be valuable. I haven’t really felt like I could ever rest. I was either “growing or dying.” The last few weeks have shown me that this isn’t really what God intends or wants for me… or for you. Instead, we can find rest in knowing we are Sons Of The King. That we are loved, accepted and forgiven through Christ. We can stop trying to fight the battles that have already been won. And, in that peace, we can follow Christ one step at a time as He works in us to become what He has in store for us. Watch on YouTube here. Also, the book mentioned in the episode is Follow The Cloud by John Stickl, which you can get here.
P.S. I’d love to connect with you! If you have a question or just want to reach out, find me on LinkedIn. P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Use Teamwork To Stop Viewing Porn - Interview With Emmanuel and Bekah Guarino From Team Vulnerable | 02 Apr 2024 | 00:49:52 | |
Today we get to meet Emmanual and Bekah Guarino, founders of Team Vulnerable. You’ll hear their story of how Emmanuel: -Struggled with pornography for YEARS -Eventually shared his struggle with Bekah -Found a way to work as a team to help Emmanuel overcome pornography… to the point that he doesn’t really feel tempted at all to view it Watch on YouTube here. There are a lot of different ways that people can overcome pornography. So, for this week only (expires Friday April 5th at Midnight Pacific), if you purchase The Team Vulnerable program using this link and use the code DRMIKE You’ll not only get the Team Vulnerable program… But I’ll also GIVE you my program, The Porn Free Process, as a thank you for taking the powerful step to stop pornography in your life. CLICK HERE to join and use promo code DRMIKE. Dr. Mike P.S. CLICK HERE to get 2 programs to break free from pornography for the price of 1 with promo code DRMIKE. EXPIRES Friday, April 5th at Midnight pacific. P.P.S. I’d love to connect with you! If you have a question or just want to reach out find me on LinkedIn. P.P.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Who Is In Charge Of Your Happiness? | 30 Sep 2025 | 00:10:13 | |
I had a tougher day today. Wishing that my wife would give me more attention, appreciation, affection and sex. Feeling like I couldn’t be happy until she did. Then, God reminded me: Who is in charge of your happiness? If I can only be happy if the people around me are acting certain ways… I’m giving my power over to them. Does that mean I just wait patiently forever and not get anything I want? No. It means I ask for what I want, work with my wife and others to find win-wins, and set boundaries of what I will and will not do if my requests are not met. That’s where wisdom, prayer, and coaching come in. To help you learn to do that. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Earn Secure Attachment In Marriage | 26 Mar 2024 | 00:18:59 | |
Last week we learned about the problematic attachment styles in marriage. Today we’ll learn what we need to do to earn the secure attachment that we want in marriage. Secure attachment looks like: -A good balance between “me” and “we” -Feeling confident that your needs will be met -Expressing your thoughts and feelings and listening to your wife’s -Asking for what you need and responding to your wife’s Sounds great, right? And you CAN get there… even if you didn’t grow up with a good example of this. Learn how on today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. I’d love to connect with you! If you have a question or just want to reach out, repy on LinkedIn.
CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Problematic Attachment Styles In Marriage | 19 Mar 2024 | 00:16:09 | |
You may have heard of the different attachment styles. Avoidant. Anxious/Ambivalent. Disorganized. And secure. Many high achieving men were brought up in avoidant, anxious/ambivalent or even disorganized homes. They learned the lesson that they need to figure things out on their own… and they did. That helped them be very successful in business and work. But, it causes significant issues in marriage. Learn how these attachment styles show up and cause problems in marriage… In today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. I’d love to connect with you! If you have a question or just want to reach out, reply out on LinkedIn.
CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Stop Unproductive Conflict In Your Marriage | 12 Mar 2024 | 00:21:12 | |
Every marriage has conflict. In some marriages it’s very emotional and volatile, with screaming matches. In others, it’s buried under the surface with one or both spouses silently resenting the other. In others, one spouse wants to talk things out, while the other wants to avoid the conversation. Whatever your pattern is, there’s a reason for it. And it has to do with how your brain is wired. Learn how to step OUT of unproductive conflict… And INTO clear ways to turn conflict into MORE connection… In today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. I’d love to connect with you! If you have a question or just want to reach out, send me a message on LinkedIn.
CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Boost Testosterone Naturally - With Jason Sani From The Manhood Experiment Podcast | 07 Mar 2024 | 00:48:59 | |
Recently I got my testosterone checked. I found that my total testosterone was normal, but my free testosterone was low. This got me started on a path to try to figure out how to increase both free and total testosterone NATURALLY. Because testosterone replacement therapy SHUTS DOWN your body’s natural production. Jason has a long history of helping men increase their testosterone and energy levels through natural means, and I interview him today to help us understand what we can do. YouWatch on YouTube here. You can see Jason and the rest of The Manhood Experiment team on their podcast here.
P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| My Wife Stopped Wearing Her Wedding Ring - What Should I Do? | 05 Mar 2024 | 00:20:48 | |
When your wife takes off her wedding ring… It can signal a BIG alarm. Most men will either try to ignore this (while silently fearing what it might mean)… Become passive aggressive to “pay her back” for not wearing her ring… Or confront her in an angry way. Fortunately, there’s a better response that can lead to MORE intimacy and connection. Learn what it is… In today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| 4 Steps To Healthier Emotions | 29 Feb 2024 | 00:03:13 | |
There are scientifically proven ways to let our emotions flow in healthy ways. Those are: -Breathe -Name -Feel -Deal Learn more about these… with a specific example… in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Feel Emotions Without Causing Problems | 27 Feb 2024 | 00:18:33 | |
I used to be afraid of emotions. And really, I still am a little. From what I saw, when people got overly angry, they broke things or hurt people. If they got overly sad, they got depressed or even suicidal. If they got anxious, they froze and didn’t accomplish anything. I certainly didn’t want to do this, and so I took the approach of trying to “turn down the volume” on my emotions. Unfortunately, this has kept me from really experiencing emotion myself, connecting with others, and has resulted in my having a short fuse at times and not much empathy for others. While I still worry about emotions getting “too big,” what I learned and will share with you makes me a lot less scared of that. Luckily, I recently learned that you can FEEL an intense emotion… Without doing something that causes problems for you or others. Learn how in today’s episode. This one is a little more personal. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| 3 Questions To Ask To Create More Intimacy Untitled Episode | 22 Feb 2024 | 00:03:11 | |
Here are 3 questions to ask if your wife is talking about a subject you’re not that interested in: -How did you feel about that? -What did you think about that? -Why do you like that/why is that important to you? Try to understand her thoughts and feelings, as that’s what real mental and emotional intimacy is. Try them out today! Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Listen To Your Wife When You’re Not Interested In The Topic | 20 Feb 2024 | 00:14:59 | |
When your wife starts talking about… -TV shows -Social media -A problem with her friend It can be easy to check out. You think “I don’t really care about this.” And so, you either PRETEND that you’re interested… Let your mind wander… Or don’t listen at all. But, you can actually use this as an opportunity to create MORE connection and intimacy. Learn how on today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Choose To Love Well Today | 15 Feb 2024 | 00:02:57 | |
The day after Valentine’s can be pretty disappointing. But, at the end of the day, we get to choose how we live. And, according to Jesus, the best way to live is to love God, love our neighbors, and love ourselves. So, choose to love well today. Love God by thanking Him. Feel God’s love by remembering what He’s done for you. Love your wife by doing something kind for her. Love your kids by encouraging them. Love yourself by doing something fun today. Love is the secret to life. Learn how to do it well. And start today. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Ask For What You Want In Marriage | 23 Sep 2025 | 00:07:17 | |
When it comes to asking for what you want in marriage, men make some common mistakes: -Not asking at all -Asking in a passive aggressive way -Pouting -Asking in a demanding way All of these are unattractive and unlikely to get what you want. There is, however, a “goldilocks zone” that will give you the BEST chance of getting what you want in marriage. Whether it’s attention, appreciation, affection, food, or sex… There’s a formula that can help you get it. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Make Valentine’s Day Great Again | 13 Feb 2024 | 00:21:31 | |
I don’t often laugh at my own titles, but I have to say, this one was pretty good. Valentine’s Day is tomorrow. It’s a day that we celebrate romantic love. Depending on where your marriage is… That idea may be quite depressing. BUT, you can STILL make Valentine’s Day great. By taking the EMPOWERING stance of choosing to love well. Learn how to do that in today’s episode. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| Don’t Use Fear And Guilt As Weapons | 08 Feb 2024 | 00:02:57 | |
When your wife is saying she might want to leave… It’s easy to try to scare her or guilt her into staying. Unfortunately, people don’t really like to be around people who scare or guilt trip them. So, stop doing that! Learn more about how to do that in today’s episode. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. (Lorena New Links Here After Upload) https://youtube.com/shorts/gvDWKHRslF8 Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||
| How To Make It Hard For Your Wife To Divorce You | 06 Feb 2024 | 00:16:18 | |
If your wife is talking about separation or divorce… You want to make it hard on her to divorce you. Some guys think that means telling your wife all the negative things that will happen if she divorces you. Telling her it will hurt the kids, hurt you, hurt her financially. Telling her God doesn’t want her to do this. Unfortunately, this only makes it more likely she will leave. Instead, you want to make it hard on her to divorce you by becoming a guy that she will actually WANT to be with. Learn more about how to do that in today’s episode. Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. Watch on YouTube here. Dr. Mike P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY… CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program. You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles. P.P.S. Have a question for me? Reach out on LinkedIn. P.S. If you’d like to continue the journey with us, visit StrongMen.io and join our email list. | |||