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Starter Marriage
Allison Raskin, John Blakeslee, & Studio71
Society & Culture
Comedy
Frequency: 1 episode/7d. Total Eps: 44
New York Times best-selling author and relationship coach, Allison Raskin, has spent the last few years researching what it really means to get married in today’s society. And now she is expanding her investigation with hands on experience as she navigates her first (and hopefully last) marriage with her husband and co-host, John Blakeslee. Pulling from the latest research, other couples and various experts, the duo will examine modern marriage from every angle including how it impacts the world on a societal level (think trad wives) and on the most personal (like losing a parent). Allison, a well-known mental health influencer, is used to sharing her life online, so opening up about the intimate details of her marriage to help others understand their own felt like a no-brainer. John, a former undercover CIA officer, who isn’t used to sharing his life so publicly, needed a little more convincing. But, hey, isn’t marriage all about compromise?
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Introducing Starter Marriage
lundi 19 mai 2025 • Duration 01:11
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A Newlywed Nightmare
Episode 1
lundi 2 juin 2025 • Duration 01:01:18
Rain on your wedding day is supposed to mean good luck, but for Allison and John, it meant they were about to have the worst year of their lives. From John experiencing a life-changing set-back in his career, to Allison losing her beloved mother to a rare neurological disease, their time as newlyweds was anything but peaceful. But in the inaugural episode of the podcast, John and Allison dissect how this rough patch ultimately strengthened their commitment to an institution that many feel is no longer necessary.
If you would like to submit a “Marriage Moment’ or suggest a future episode topic, email us at startermarriagepodcast@gmail.com.
Learn more about the possibilities of modern marriage with a copy of I DO (I THINK): Conversations About Modern Marriage.
Purchase Allison’s new romcom novel Save The Date.
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You’re Difficult To Be Around
Episode 2
lundi 9 juin 2025 • Duration 01:00:53
How do you navigate your partner’s mental health without losing yourself in the process? In this episode, Allison and John interview Sheva Rajaee, founder and director of The Center for Anxiety and OCD in Southern California. Sheva offers expert guidance on how couples can strike a balance between helping their partners and maintaining healthy boundaries. Allison talks candidly about her OCD’s impact on their marriage, and John opens up about finally trying antidepressants after being resistant to the idea. (Spoiler: it was a great decision.)
If you would like to submit a “Marriage Moment’ or suggest a future episode topic, email us at startermarriagepodcast@gmail.com.
Learn more about the possibilities of modern marriage with a copy of I DO (I THINK): Conversations About Modern Marriage.
Purchase Allison’s new romcom novel Save The Date.
Follow Sheva Rajaee on Instagram and buy her book: Relationship OCD: A CBT-Based Guide to Move Beyond Obsessive Doubt, Anxiety, and Fear of Commitment in Romantic Relationships.
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A Reformed Jew And A Lapsed Catholic Get Married
Episode 3
lundi 16 juin 2025 • Duration 01:16:01
Allison is culturally Jewish while John is a lapsed Catholic. What does this mean for the religious future of their child? Couples therapist, Genesis Games joins the show to help the couple navigate having an interfaith marriage. Is it possible to find a middle ground to raise a curious child rather than a religious one? Also, Allison confesses to being weary of Catholicism while John reveals he thinks consciousness is a construct, an idea that infuriates his wife.
If you would like to submit a “Marriage Moment’ or suggest a future episode topic, email us at startermarriagepodcast@gmail.com.
Learn more about the possibilities of modern marriage with a copy of I DO (I THINK): Conversations About Modern Marriage.
Purchase Allison’s new romcom novel Save The Date.
If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be helpful! You can text, email, Tweet, or send this link to a friend: https://bit.ly/StarterMarriage
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Our Imperfect Love Story
Episode 4
lundi 23 juin 2025 • Duration 01:00:23
So many couples focus on the story of how they got together as a testament to whether their marriage was "meant to be." In this episode, Allison and John describe all the ways their early relationship broke the mold of what to look for--from John being worried that Allison was unstable to Allison not wanting to have to get to know someone new after her broken engagement. But despite not having a traditionally romantic journey to the altar, they still found their way there thanks to not having unrealistic expectations of each other, themselves or wedding planning.
If you would like to submit a “Marriage Moment’ or suggest a future episode topic, email us at startermarriagepodcast@gmail.com.
Learn more about the possibilities of modern marriage with a copy of I DO (I THINK): Conversations About Modern Marriage.
Purchase Allison’s new romcom novel Save The Date.
If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be helpful! You can text, email, Tweet, or send this link to a friend: https://bit.ly/StarterMarriage
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
I'm Worried The Baby Will Ruin What We Have
Episode 5
lundi 30 juin 2025 • Duration 01:11:58
John is concerned that having a baby will totally disrupt their marriage. Thank goodness the co-authors of Baby Bomb: A Relationship Survival Guide For New Parents were available to help Allison and John navigate this new chapter. Therapists Kara Hoppe, MFT and Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, discuss how Allison and John can continue to take good care of each other despite the major changes babies bring. Also, were the Ratliffs happily married before Timothy lost all their money on The White Lotus? A debate ensues.
If you would like to submit a “Marriage Moment’ or suggest a future episode topic, email us at startermarriagepodcast@gmail.com.
Learn more about the possibilities of modern marriage with a copy of I DO (I THINK): Conversations About Modern Marriage.
Purchase Allison’s new romcom novel Save The Date.
If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be helpful! You can text, email, Tweet, or send this link to a friend: https://bit.ly/StarterMarriage
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Some People Aren't Meant To Marry
Episode 6
lundi 7 juillet 2025 • Duration 01:07:23
Being single isn't failure. For some, it's freedom. Social psychologist and author of Single At Heart, Bella DePaulo joins the show to dismantle the myth that marriage is life's ultimate goal, making the case that for many, the single life can be the most authentic path. And yes, couples might have something to learn from that. Then, John faces a tough choice: if Allison runs off to Quebec to chase her dream, does he follow her... or file for divorce?
If you would like to submit a “Marriage Moment’ or suggest a future episode topic, email us at startermarriagepodcast@gmail.com.
Learn more about the possibilities of modern marriage with a copy of I DO (I THINK): Conversations About Modern Marriage.
Purchase Allison’s new romcom novel Save The Date.
If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be helpful! You can text, email, Tweet, or send this link to a friend: https://bit.ly/StarterMarriage
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Married & Non-Monogamous
Episode 8
lundi 21 juillet 2025 • Duration 01:18:18
This week’s episode is about sex, jealousy, and whether embellishing a story counts as a lie. Writer and content creator Hayley Folk joins Allison and John to talk about her experience with ethical non-monogamy and what it taught her about herself. Allison imagines what it would be like to have a guilt-free make out, and John wonders what it would be like to go on a sexy date… to the orchestra?
If you would like to submit a “Marriage Moment’ or suggest a future episode topic, email us at startermarriagepodcast@gmail.com.
Learn more about the possibilities of modern marriage with a copy of I DO (I THINK): Conversations About Modern Marriage.
Purchase Allison’s new romcom novel Save The Date.
If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be helpful! You can text, email, Tweet, or send this link to a friend: https://bit.ly/StarterMarriage
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
I’m Worthless And Don’t Contribute To The Household
Episode 7
lundi 14 juillet 2025 • Duration 01:17:57
John and Allison dive into one of the most contentious topics for any couple: money. Joined by Megan Ford from the Love and Money Center, they explore how couples can navigate tough financial conversations without getting stuck in conflict. It's a challenging discussion for John, who wrestles with deeply rooted expectations about being a provider, and unexpectedly emotional for Allison, who comes to realize how her own approach to their finances has impacted John in ways she never anticipated.
If you would like to submit a “Marriage Moment’ or suggest a future episode topic, email us at startermarriagepodcast@gmail.com.
Learn more about the possibilities of modern marriage with a copy of I DO (I THINK): Conversations About Modern Marriage.
Purchase Allison’s new romcom novel Save The Date.
If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be helpful! You can text, email, Tweet, or send this link to a friend: https://bit.ly/StarterMarriage
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
We Had A Fight About Navigating Conflict
Episode 9
lundi 28 juillet 2025 • Duration 01:05:35
Conflict in relationships is inevitable, especially when you're making a podcast about your marriage. Allison and John dive into how they navigate conflicts in their relationship, including the surprising disagreement that arose while prepping for this very episode. John shares the exact moment he realized he wasn't afraid to have a child with Allison, and during "Stay or Leave," Allison presents John with the most triggering scenario imaginable.
If you would like to submit a “Marriage Moment’ or suggest a future episode topic, email us at startermarriagepodcast@gmail.com.
Learn more about the possibilities of modern marriage with a copy of I DO (I THINK): Conversations About Modern Marriage.
Purchase Allison’s new romcom novel Save The Date.
If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be helpful! You can text, email, Tweet, or send this link to a friend: https://bit.ly/StarterMarriage
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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