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| Title | Pub. Date | Duration | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Standing Out, Explained: My Theory & My Why | 19 Aug 2026 | 00:16:55 | |
Welcome to the very first episode of Standing Out. Before diving into guest conversations, host Christopher takes a moment to explain the theory and personal story behind the show â why it exists, why "queer" is the word he's chosen to reclaim, and the psychology that's shaped his own experience of otherness. Drawing on minority stress theory (developed by psychologist Ilan Meyer) and a concept Christopher calls "queer silo safety," this episode unpacks why queer people are statistically more likely to feel lonely, where that loneliness actually comes from, and what it took to move from feeling broken to building something for the community instead. Christopher also shares the story of meeting Richard and Graham â an older gay couple whose relationship reshaped how he thinks about queer visibility across generations â and lays out the four questions that will guide every future guest conversation on this show. Follow along on TikTok and Instagram @christopherallenofficial, and subscribe on YouTube or wherever you get your podcasts â it's free, and it genuinely helps this reach more people who need it. Chapters: | |||