This isn’t just another policy shift. This is a spiritual crisis. In today’s episode, I’m unpacking what’s happening with the defunding of USAID—and why it matters for those of us who are deconstructing our faith, reclaiming our values, and learning to see every life as sacred.

Behind the headlines are calculated efforts by billionaires and ideologues to dismantle humanitarian aid, silence compassionate outreach, and replace it with religious control and nationalist agendas. This isn’t efficiency—it’s eugenics in everything but name.

If you’ve ever wondered how Christianity became a weapon for power instead of a force for love and healing, this episode is for you. It’s heavy, yes—but it’s also a call to awaken, to resist, and to live out a spirituality that protects the vulnerable, not abandons them.

This is your reminder that your voice matters. Your compassion matters. And your spiritual path can—and should—be part of the resistance.

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In this episode, I return to the heart of everything I teach: why spirituality matters. For those of us who have untangled from high-control religion, the word spirituality can feel loaded—dismissed, distorted, or used to keep us in fear. But I believe spirituality isn’t about rules or performance—it’s about remembering. Remembering that we are already sacred. Already loved. Already whole.

This conversation is for the ones who no longer pray the way they used to, who wonder if they’re doing it “wrong,” who feel the pull toward something deeper and more honest. If that’s you, I hope this meets you right where you are—and reminds you that your humanity is holy.

Because spirituality matters. Because you matter.

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I’m not an alarmist—I’m a realist. I see the patterns, I pay attention, and I take action when I know something is wrong. And right now, I need you to hear this: If you aren’t terrified, you aren’t paying attention.

Democracy is being dismantled at a speed designed to keep us overwhelmed, exhausted, and unable to fight back. From forced deportations and gutted workers’ rights to billionaires tightening their grip on government power, we are watching an orchestrated plan unfold.

So, what do we do? We prepare. We resist. We take care of each other. Because submission will not save us, and waiting for someone else to act is no longer an option.

If not you, then who? If not now, then when?

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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how hateful Christian love can be. Christians have misinterpreted scripture to justify judging, condemning, and dehumanizing people who don't look like, love like or believe like they do. Jesus wouldn't even recognize what Christianity has become today. You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post. Watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube.

Additional resources for this episode include: Relax Christian, You Don’t Have to Go to Church and Remember, the Bible Never Mentions a Building Called ‘Church’.

In this episode, Rev Karla had the honor of interviewing Alistair Abulafia Turrelle, also known as Nathaniel Pons. Alistair shares their story about growing up in a religious experience that did not embrace who Alistair truly was. A touching story that is certain to inspire others on their road to healing from religious trauma and to live authentically. Alistair now lives to be a positive impact in their community and in the world, to be a light to those in darkness and a voice for those who are silent! Join Rev Karla for this special interview. Watch the uncut version of this interview on Youtube.

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the response to the comment she often sees on her social media, "Well, not all Christians." She talks about why we need to do shadow work to be able to take responsibility for how we respond to the world around us. It's important to recognize why something might offend you and be able to control your response to it. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post.

Additional resources for this episode include: Shadow Work: A Simple Guide to Transcending The Darker Aspects of Yourself

In this episode, Rev Karla answers some of your submitted questions including: Why do I feel so much discomfort inside the church? I don't believe in God, am I welcome here? And, does Rev Karla believe in Jesus? Do you have a question for Rev Karla? Email us at info@numasoul.com and your question may be answered in a future episode. 

In this episode, Rev Karla expands on topics inspired by her interview in last week's podcast with Rev Dr. José Román and why it's important to show up in a way that reflects God within us. What does it mean to have God within us? Rev Karla also discusses the challenges of navigating the spiritual wilderness and how to find a sacred community as so many of us are leaving church. You can read more about this from Rev Karla in her blog post. 

In this episode, Rev Karla sits down with Rev Arda and Rev Dr. José Román for discussion following The Hidden Homosexual workshop. They talk about their thoughts on the importance of these kinds of workshops, what reconstructive theology can look like, and the importance of embracing all parts of ourselves in true authenticity. You can watch the uncut video of this episode on Rev Karla's YouTube channel. Be sure to follow sign up for email alerts for information on when the next workshop will be held. 

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how she handles some of the hateful comments she gets on social media. It can be difficult to not let them hurt you, but in the end, they are just a reminder of why we are on this spiritual journey anyway. Many are just deleted and blocked, but some comments turn into teaching moments as an example of how sacred activism plays a role in spirituality. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in this week's blog post. Watch the uncut video of this episode on YouTube. 

In this episode, Rev Karla and Rev Arda answer your questions from the God is Gay masterclass. Are there scriptures that support feminism? How can we help cis-hetero individuals adopt queerness into their lives? How do we find good resources for correctly translating words? Find out the answer to these questions and more in today's episode. 

When Scripture is Weaponized to Dehumanize

In this episode, Rev Karla begins deconstructing the toxic theology behind the insult of calling others an abomination for not believing in the same things or living the same way they do. Scripture has been mistranslated and taken out of context in an attempt to justify the condemnation of the LGBTQIA+ community. To read more from Rev Karla on this topic, check out her blog post. 

Additional resources for this episode include: LGBT Youth Population in the United States, How Many People are Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender?, Why America’s ‘nones’ Left Religion Behind, U.S. Church Membership Falls Below Majority for First Time

Rev Karla is back with more of your questions to answer. In this episode, Rev Karla shares her thoughts on tithing, how to deal with toxic relationships and why God is gay. What does Rev Karla's signature sign-off mean? Rev Karla closes off the episode by answering the popular question: Can you be spiritual but not religious and still believe in Jesus and God? Visit numasoul.com for book recommendations and more resources. 

Faith should not require fear—but for many of us, that’s exactly how we were taught to believe. Fear of asking questions. Fear of losing community. Fear of what happens if we step outside the lines.

In this episode, I respond to a message from a reader whose concerns reveal just how deeply fear-based theology shapes belief systems. From xenophobia to LGBTQIA+ erasure to patriarchal control, fear is the foundation of a faith that demands obedience over understanding.

But fear-based faith isn’t faith at all—it’s control. And once you see it, you can begin to break free.

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In this episode, Rev Karla breaks down how we can release God from physical attributes and understand the experience of God to be the undefinable, the indescribable, and the unexplainable. We have humanized God through a patriarchal lens, but God is bigger than the image we created. Rev Karla talks about the many names for God in Christianity and religions all around the world. Rev Karla also discusses where we can find examples of the feminine power of the Divine in scripture and closes the episode with how God is revealed within ourselves. So, if God is all of these things, then God is black, gay, and female. You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post. 

Additional resources for this episode include: God is For Everyone, The Bible’s Many Gods, Understanding the Book of Revelation, The Dalai Lama on the Full Ordination of Women, Julian of Norwich, Animals in the Bible, 7 Bible Verses about God Living In Us, The Story of Elijah and the Prophets of Baal on Mount Carmel 

In this episode, Rev Karla interviews Rev Arda Itez, Humanist Minister and now Numa Soul's Director of Programs and Partnerships. Karla and Arda recount how they met at seminary school, how their spiritual paths have continued to grow together, and their plans for the future. Rev Arda discusses her spiritual background and how she began deconstruction from the Christian faith by redefining spirituality and religion altogether. If you have questions or additional comments, please email revarda@numasoul.com. 

Addition resources for this episode include: Suicide Statistics and U.S. Church Membership Falls Below Majority for First Time

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how to have tough conversations with your friends, colleagues, and loved ones about race, religion, and social justice movements. These conversations require a lot of soul work in preparation. Rev Karla talks about what it means to understand your "why," understanding your boundaries, and knowing when to walk away. Each situation is different, of course, but this episode can help you begin your soul work to have these conversations. You can find more on this topic from Rev Karla in this week's blog post.

In this episode, Rev Karla answers some of your questions! Find out answers to: What does it mean to be spiritual but not religious? Should we stay in church and try to reform it? What's Rev Karla's opinion on atheism? What about Hebrews 10:25? And answers to a few more of your questions on today's episode. Resources for this episode include: U.S. Church Membership Falls Below Majority for First Time, and Rev Karla's Book Recommendations. 

Why America is Becoming Less Christian and More Compassionate

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses a few reasons why some people have chosen to step away from organized religion. The latest data shows that a record-low number of Americans identify themselves with any religion at all. People are leaving church in order to separate themselves from the radical Christians. We are not "nondenominational," which is very different from being non-religious. We are the Nones– we don't identify with a religion, but that doesn't mean we aren't spiritually connected to the Divine. To read more on this topic from Rev Karla, be sure to check out her blog post. 

More resources for this episode include: E22 The Radicalization of Christianity, We're at the End of White Christian America, Paula White’s Sermon Comment About ‘Satanic Pregnancies’, Trump's Bible Fail, In U.S., Decline of Christianity Continues at Rapid Pace

In this episode, Rev Karla invites you to explore mysticism and understand that there are many different ways to look at Jesus and Christianity. This episode is for the unchurched, the spiritual but not religious, the seeker, the spiritual nomad, the one who knows that spirituality is larger than what can be held inside of organized religion. We will discuss how we can recognize and unlearn some of the biases we learned through religion and how mysticism can heal our hearts and expand our souls. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post.

Additional resources for this episode include: What is God?, Crusades, Inquisition, Reformation, The mystical Jesus and non-dualism, Reclaiming the mystical interpretation of the Resurrection, Part I: The Fourth Gospel: Tales of a Jewish Mystic, Part II Introducing The Fourth Gospel: Tales of a Jewish Mystic, The Battle For Eucharist, The Mystical Christ, What Buddha Didn't Say About God, The Inside Story of a Controversial New Text About Jesus, Is the Apocrypha canonical? Does it carry the weight of 'Scripture'?, What did Jesus mean when He said, “The kingdom of God is within you” (Luke 17:21, KJV)?

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the spring equinox and the spiritual wisdom we can learn from it. Cultures and communities have been recognizing or celebrating the spring or vernal equinox dating back to ancient civilizations. Religions around the world have added their own religious holidays around the spring equinox, creating many different ways to celebrate. This is a time to welcome new beginnings, and plant seeds for success for the coming year. There is symbolism and wisdom in this season of warmth returning, Rev Karla offers some contemplative questions to spend time answering in your journaling practice, or you could talk a walk to connect with the earth, or create an altar of gratitude for things in your life. For more on this topic from Rev Karla, read her blog post. 

Additional resources for this episode include: What is the Spring Equinox?, Vernal Equinox, Simple Ways to Celebrate the Spring Equinox, Stonehenge, Solstice Tours, Timeless Spring

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the different types of Christians you will meet and how understanding the differences can help you on your spiritual journey. With hundreds of Christian denominations, if you want to be a part of one, it is important that you understand the theology they stand for. Rev Karla discusses the difference between Protestants, Evangelicals, Fundamentalists, Conservatives, and Progressive Christians to help you understand which theology you might agree with most. It's important to not let any of these labels limit your spiritual journey. Your spirituality can ebb and flow through these as you explore what works for you. And for some, the expectations and obligations of the church are not for them at all. To read more on this topic from Rev Karla, check out her blog post.

Additional recourses for this episode include: Religious Composition of Conservatives, The 3 Types of Christians We See Today, Classification of Protestant Denominations, Conservatives Who Are Christian, Defining 'Evangelical', Evangelical Christians Must Take Action to Love Thy Neighbor, Evangelicals Vs. Fundamentalists, White Christian Radicalization is a Violent Threat, Why Faith Voters Should Stick with Trump, Religious Group Voting and the 2020 Election, White Evangelical Christians Stick by Trump Again, The Changing Religious Composition of the U.S., Religious Composition of U.S. Adults, Why Are Christians Such Bad Tippers?, Hello Flat Earth, Flat Earth Vs. Round Earth

In this episode, Rev Karla talks about what it's like to be in the spiritual wilderness after leaving church. People leave church for a number of reasons, but one of them may actually be spiritual maturity. You may have realized, your spirituality is a sacred connection between you and the Divine and can exist outside of organized religion. Rev Karla helps you find your next steps in deconstructing your religious beliefs and exploring what religious practices work for you. You are not alone on this journey, Rev Karla reads from religious leaders throughout history and their interpretation of the spiritual wilderness. 

To read more on this topic from Rev Karla, check out her blog post. You can watch the video version of this episode on Rev Karla's YouTube Channel.

Additional Resources for this episode include: Wilderness Spirituality, The Dark Night of the Soul, John of the Cross, The Christological Controversies, Why Most People Leave Religion, Why America's 'nones' Left Religion Behind, Why Millennials Are Really Leaving Religion, What is Christian Mysticism?, The Mystics, What is a Christian Mystic?, Centering Prayer, Sufi Islam, 5 Lessons We Should Learn from Christ's Time in the Wilderness, Part III Mathew: The Shadow of Moses Continues, What is Mysticism?, Christian Mysticism, and The Stages of Spiritual Growth. 

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses what it really means to be kind by going back to the dictionary definition as well as the Bible's definition. She deconstructs why kindness is sometimes viewed as a weakness based on how you were raised and how you can break those cycles to be kind and brave at the same time. It is important to first be kind to yourself so that you know how to better show kindness to others. Rev Karla also explains the difference between being actively generous and kind versus passive or harmless generosity and which one you can practice in order to grow spiritually. 

To read more from Rev Karla on this topic, check out her blog post.

Additional resources for this episode include: Are Fears Of Self-Compassion Holding Us Back?, Are You Hiding Yourself in Fear of Being Fully Seen?, Deconstructing the Fear of Rejection, Why Is Kindness Sometimes Associated with Weakness?, Why Kindness Is A Strength, Not A Weakness, Being Kind When It’s Seen as a Weakness, Is Your Kindness Viewed as Weakness?

Deconstructing faith comes with a paradox—the longing for a time when belief felt simple, safe, and certain. But that simplicity was never real. It only existed because we weren’t supposed to question.

In this episode, I explore the deep contradictions of deconstruction—the nostalgia for what once was, the pain of seeing the truth, and the sacred transformation that comes when we step beyond the roles we were given.

Keep going. You are not who you once were, and that is sacred.

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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the story of St. Valentine, the different definitions of love mentioned in the Bible, and some emotional triggers around love which can include the phrase, "Love always wins." Prince Harry and Megan Markle received some backlash when they said it in their new podcast, but what they said holds true. Love can win. We are each responsible for how we give love and how love shows up in our life. Rev Karla leaves you with the reminder that love starts within and you must truly love yourself and heal yourself for your spiritual growth. 

To read more on this topic, read Rev Karla's blog post. 

Resources for this episode include: Love Wins by Rob Bell, Does Love Always Win?, When Love Doesn't Win, 4 Types of Love in the Bible, What Does the Bible Really Say About Love?, How the British Press Treats Meghan Markle Differently from Kate Middleton, UK Media’s Coverage of Meghan Markle Really is Racist, What it Really Means to be in Love

In this episode, Rev Karla has some questions for you to consider about your religious beliefs. Because of how radicalized Christianity has become, many people have decided to leave organized religion and enter the spiritual wilderness. This is a sacred space to grow spiritually and heal emotionally and psychologically. The path to healing challenging, but don't give up, Beloved. You are not alone. No one religion owns God and God is big enough to share. There is room for you at this table of spirituality. You can heal from your religious trauma. 

From more on this topic from Rev Karla, read her blog post.

Additional resources for this episode include: The Crusades, Why Christianity Must Change or Die by John Shelby Spong, Love Wins by Rob Bell, Resurrecting Jesus by Adyashanti, Leaving the Fold by Marlene Winell, E19 The Radicalization of American Christianity 

In this episode, Rev Karla continues the conversation started in her viral TikTok, "The Radicalization of American Christianity" as well as a blog post. She encourages Christians to question their church's role in the radicalization of Christianity in America and analyze their own internal biases. There is so much work to still be done. This is just the beginning. 

You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post. 

Resources for this episode include: The full video in Rev Karla's TikTok, Data on People Leaving Church, American Christianity's White Supremacy Problem, The Theological Roots of White Supremacy, Louie Giglio Mentions "White Blessing"

Recommended Books: Religious Intolerance in America, How to Be Anti-Racist, White Fragility

In this episode Rev Karla discusses forgiveness. Forgiveness is hard, it's a journey. We start learning about forgiveness as children on the playground and it's a big topic across most religions, especially Christianity. There are many mistranslations in scripture around forgiveness, many of us may not have a great understanding of what forgiveness is, or even mistake it for repentance. Forgiveness is about you and your journey of healing from the pain they caused. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post. 

More resources for this episode include: What is Forgiveness?, Matthew 5:39, Luke 6:29, Ho'opono Pono Ke Ala

In this episode, Rev Karla is claiming activism to be sacred and Holy. What is sacred activism? How do we find our calling? We look to Andrew Harvey as an example of how to look at sacred activism. Rev Karla looks back at some sacred activists throughout history including Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., the Dalai Lama, Gandhi, Nelson Mandela, Rosa Parks and Desmond Tutu. We all have the power of each of these great change-makers and sacred activists to make a difference, to stand up to injustices, and to be a sacred activist. It starts with some inner work to make sure we are coming from a place of kindness and compassion. You can read from Rev Karla on sacred activism in her blog post.

Other resources for this episode include: How to Set Boundaries with Kindness, What Does it Really Mean to Be Kind?, 24 Quotes About Kindness, 7 Ways to Be Kind When You Really Don't Want To

In this episode, Rev Karla takes us on a trip through the history of how the dangerous intersection of religion and politics has continuously harmed our fair democracy, up to the point of the events on January 6, 2021. We’ve seen these injustices since the AIDS Crisis and the Reagan Administration and Jim Crow Laws and more. What do we do now? How do we hold those in power, those around us, and ourselves accountable? The end of White Christian America is coming and as America continues to become less religious and we continue to elect people that represent our diverse population, what change can we expect, and fight for, in the coming years?

You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post and the 6 part TikTok series on Radical Christianity. Rev Karla also recommends that you listen to the NPR Podcast White Lies, watch the Netflix series The Family, and read Religious Intolerance in America. 

In this episode, Rev Karla invites you to leave the chaos of 2020 behind and make room for reflection and positive energy going into 2021. There is wisdom in the chaos and the challenges that we overcame. Be grateful for your strength and the lessons you learned and use them to be better in the future. You can read more on this from Rev Karla in this week's blog post.

Resources for this episode include: Moral Majority, White Christians are now a minority of the U.S. population, We're at the end of white Christian American. What will that mean?, Party of Reagan? No, Party of Falwell, Writer Says, Religion and Right-Wing Politics: How Evangelicals Reshaped Elections

In this episode, Rev Karla will guide you through a contemplative journal practice with questions to help you reflect on 2020 and move into the new year feeling refreshed and ready for whatever new challenges the future holds. Grab your journal and get comfortable– 2020 is a lot to reflect on. Rev Karla ends by answering the question: Do you believe in the afterlife? You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in this week's blog post.

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the sacredness in the history of the Winter Solstice. You will learn how the yule log tradition originated and the wisdom that sits here in the shortest day and longest night of the year. Rev Karla answers the question: Can I practice witchcraft and still be a Christian? You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post.

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the difference between religious and cultural appropriation and respecting and accepting religions outside of your own. She also explores the sacredness of Hanukkah, and Divine wisdom in Buddhism, and the Holy connection of Zoroastrianism. There is Divine wisdom in all world religions that can help you on your spiritual journey. How do you connect your soul to Divine wisdom? Rev Karla wraps up the episode by answering her own question: Why all of this in December? You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla on her blog post.

More resources for this episode include: Eschatology, Prayer Beads, The Use of Trees as Symbols in World Religions, Pope Says Sorry for Sins of Church, A Brief History of Anti-Semitism, Anti-Semitism in the US, Overview of Christian Anti-Semitism, How Anti-Semitism Rises on the Left and Right, Jews Killed Jesus, Pope Finds Jews Not to Blame for Death of Jesus, Pope John Paul II Ignored Sex Abuse Allegations, Why is Jerusalem so Important to American Evangelical Christians?

While some voters are waking up to the consequences of Trump’s policies—losing jobs, benefits, and essential programs—MAGA Christians aren’t among them. They aren’t disillusioned. They aren’t questioning. They’re celebrating.

In this episode, I break down why MAGA Christianity remains steadfast in its loyalty, how blind faith and Christian nationalism fuel their unwavering support, and why we won’t change their minds—but we must change our approach to protecting democracy.

Because when faith and power merge into unquestionable devotion, history warns us of the consequences.

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In this episode, Rev Karla invites you to explore the many religious holidays happening this time of year, not just your own. And this isn't to say not to celebrate Christmas, or the celebration of your choosing, but to pause and make room for all the spiritual paths. We say Happy Holidays to include all religions, not to exclude a single one. There is room for all of us here, and there is no war on Christmas. Rev Karla finishes the episode by answering the question: Do we need His authority or approval to do anything? This question was in reference to Pope Francis endorsing same-sex marriage. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla on her blog post. 

More resources on religious holidays for the this episode include: Interfaith Calendar 2020, 14 Religious Holidays Believers Celebrate in December, December Religious Holidays, What is Ashura?

In this episode, Rev Karla invites you to reflect on 2020 with a Spiritual Reset. She begins the reflection by explaining the flight, fright, freeze, or fawn response one might have to a threat like a global pandemic. We have to address this to be able to set intentional goals to rebalance our heart mind and soul connection and have spiritual growth in the new year. We wrap up the episode with the question: How can I say I am spiritual if I am associated with a religion? You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post. 

More resources for this episode include: What is Cortisol?, How to Increase Serotonin, The Golden Rule

In this Episode, Rev Karla invites you on a Gratitude Journey. How is gratitude showing up in your life? This Thanksgiving season may look different for many of us than it has in the past. Rev Karla talks you through a 5-day contemplative practice to consider what is arising for you and how it feeds your soul. You can listen day-by-day, or all at once, you can sit, walk or dance while you listen, but you may want to keep a journal nearby to write down your thoughts and answer some questions.

7:37 Day 1: We start with The Gratitude Journal as a way to develop healthy habits and better health for peace of mind. Rev Karla invites you to explore our capacity to express gratitude for the blessings in our lives and how we can do it more frequently. 

11:13 Day 2: We look for Blessings in the Gathering and how we can expand our expressions of gratitude to allow the heart to be fully open and grateful for those who will be celebrating the holidays with you.

17:04 Day 3: We explore the importance of showing up as your authentic self. Are you being seen for who you really are by the people you surround yourself with?

20:47 Day 4: There can be chaos and pain in seeing your family for the holidays, but you can Guard Your Heart While Extending Grace. Set boundaries to help you heal and work forwards forgiveness. 

28:31 Day5: The path to gratitude must run through humility. We can smooth our rough edges to align with our inward journey. Rev Karla references a song by Nicole Nordeman here. 

Visit numasoul.com to read this week's blog post.

In this episode of Spirituality Matters, Rev Karla asks, is heaven on earth possible? What would that look like for you? Would Jesus approach this in a political way? Rev Karla encourages you to ask yourself in what ways you are helping to create heaven on earth. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post.

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the many different ways God has been described throughout history and across religions. Who is God? What is the definition of God for you? Is God male or female? Is God even mentioned in the Bible? Rev Karla discusses how God has been portrayed as an elder white man many times throughout Hollywood, and how great it was to see Octavia Spencer change that in The Shack. Rev Karla argues that replacement theology certainly played a role in the many names for God across religions. She also mentions a few of her favorite mystics and their views on God including John Henson, Julian Norwich and St. Anselm. You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post.

Rev Karla recites part of The Canticle of Creation by St. Francis of Assisi as a reference of many names for God. She also notes several times in the Bible that God is referenced as something other than the masculine figure Hollywood shows us:

Hosea (11:3-4,13:8) God is described as a mother and a mother bear.  

Deuteronomy (32:18) God gives birth. 

Isaiah (49:15) God is a pregnant woman crying out in pain. 

Jeremiah (44:25), Queen of Heaven. 

Matthew (23:37) a Mother Hen. 

Proverbs as Lady Wisdom

Luke (15:8-10) a woman looking for her lost coin. 

Deuteronomy (32:11-12) says, God will care for us just as a mother eagle 

Rev Karla would like you to check out some of her favorites on TikTok for more open discussion on what God can mean for different people. There is no wrong way to welcome God in your life, there is room for you at this table. 

@chosenfamilychurch, @revbrandanrobertson, @almostpastor, @pastordrewingram, @revcharlesgiv, @goodshepherdabq, @wisdoldllamaman, @holytrinitywenonah, @kelleyatgrace

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the hateful language often spewed by Christians in an attempt to condemn others for their spirituality. She explains how this behavior is inherently un-Christian, sinful, and plays a role in people leaving church or organized religion altogether. Rev Karla includes tips on how to respond to this language, and asks you to analyze the language you use towards others. She reminds us that there are many paths to God, just in Christianity alone, and all of them are sacred. Rev Karla wraps up the episode as she answers the question: Why aren't you afraid of other religions? You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post.

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses Halloween, All Saint's Day, All Soul's Day, Samhain, and the intersection of many religions and spiritual practices in this last week of October and into November with these sacred holidays. You are encouraged to grab a journal for this episode as we explore sorrow, grief and loss that arises in these celebrations as we move into the darkness of the season. Rev Karla answers the question: Do you have any tips for dealing with religious trauma? She also covers this topic frequently in TikTok videos if you would like to know more on how to heal from religious trauma. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post.

References for this episode include: The History and Traditions behind All Saint's Day, information on some of her favorite Saints, and how some saints became martyrs after death. Rev Karla talks about her favorite Saints and biblical inspirations including St. Patrick, The Apostles, and Archangels Michael, Gabriel and Raphael. Desmond Tutu and Mother Teresa are also inspirations to Rev Karla.

Rev Karla also references learnreligions.com many times in this episode as well and encourages you to explore there to learn more about world religions. 

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how our souls speak to God. She invites you to look at the way you pray and what you pray for. Prayer can be many things – chanting, painting, a meditative walk. What does your soul need to connect to the Holy? Rev Karla answers the question: How can a relationship work with different religious/spiritual views? You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog post. 

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses some harmful phrases used in religion. "Everything happens for a reason." "God must have needed an angel." "God helps those who help themselves." If you have ever heard these phrases, you may have thought it was scripture – they're not. Rev Karla dissects these phrases and just how unhelpful and even hurtful they can be, especially when directed at someone who is grieving or struggling. Rev Karla answer a big question in this episode: Are you pro-life or pro-choice? You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post.

Resources for this episode include: 11 Things You Think Are in The Bible, but Really Aren't, 5 Christian Phrases That Aren't in the Bible, 7 Phrases Christians Like to Say That Aren't Biblical, 64 of the Worst Things Ever Said to a Griever, Dumb Things People Say from the Hospice Foundation, The political abortion scandal referenced in this episode, and Half Truths by Adam Hamilton.

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the challenges of being spiritual in a religious world. But remember, Beloved, your spiritual path is between you and God, it is sacred and unique, and is not contingent upon anyone else's approval. Rev Karla also answers the question: "Can you elaborate on what religious trauma is?" You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post.

Rev Karla's resources discussed in the episode include: People Leaving Church, How Many Christians Worldwide?, Spiritual but not Religious, Father Richard Rohr and his Newsletter, Mirabai Starr and her writing in Fr. Richard's Newsletter, Wayne Teasdale, Adam Bucko and his writing in Fr. Richard's Newsletter, Religious Trauma, Leaving the Fold by Dr. Winell

Our democracy is crumbling, and Democratic leadership is failing us. Instead of stepping up, too many politicians are more focused on punchlines, social media antics, and optics while real people suffer.

➡️73% of Democratic voters say leadership isn’t doing enough to oppose Trump. ➡️Eric Swalwell is cracking jokes while fascism tightens its grip. ➡️Gavin Newsom is aligning with Charlie Kirk instead of standing for human rights.

This isn’t leadership—it’s distraction. And if we wait for them to wake up, we will lose everything. So, where does that leave us? Who will lead us now?

Let’s talk about it.

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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how spiritual growth can happen in this time of the unknown. "Normal" is likely to not return, but we can change what "normal" is – for the better. Rev Karla also answers the question: Do you support other religions such as witchcraft, Buddhism, or Islam? You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post.

Rev Karla's sources for this episode include:Coronavirus Has Quieted the Earth, The Pandemic is Turning the Natural World Upside Down, Fake Animal News Abounds on Social Media, Why Public Education isn't Working, Is There a Crisis: Public Education in this Country, US Once a Leader for Healthcare and Education – Now Ranks 27th, Measuring Human Capital, Coping with Stress During the Pandemic, Depression Has Skyrocketed During the Pandemic, These Companies Plan to Make Working From Home the New Normal

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the autumn equinox, its history, traditions, and spiritual practices to help ground you during this season of change. Grab your journal and your favorite fall drink and reflect on the year so far – it's been an intense one. The shift has begun, Beloved, and there is sacredness all around. Rev Karla answers a popular question: What does it mean to be spiritual but not religious and how do I start my spiritual journey? You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post. Rev Karla also recommended What is the Bible by Rob Bell and A History of God by Karen Armstrong for you to check out.

In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how sin has been weaponized throughout history, the definition of sin, and how to release yourself from others' judgment of your sins. Sin should never be used as a weapon to condemn others, but rather as an invitation for inner growth. Rev Karla answers the question of how to get your faith back. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla on her blog at numasoul.com.

The "clobber verses" mentioned in this episode are most often used to judge the LGBTQ humans. Remember those have been taken out of historical context and mistranslated -- and the word "homosexual" never even appeared in the Bible until 1946.  

Genesis 19:4–25 (the story of Sodom and Gomorrah)

Leviticus 18:22 (“You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female.”)

Leviticus 20:13 (“If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act.”)

Romans 1:26–27 (“The men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts.”)

1 Corinthians 6:9–11 (“Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.”)

1 Timothy 1:9–10 (“Law is not made for a righteous person, but for those who are lawless and rebellious, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers and immoral men and homosexuals and kidnappers and liars and perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound teaching.”)

Books recommended in this episode include Falling Into Grace and Resurrecting Jesus both by Adyashanti. You can find both at numasoul.com.

Other resources for this episode include:

One problem with Kim Burrell's 'hate the sin, love the sinner' argument, Hate the Sin and Love the Sinner, The Bible: So Misunderstood It's a Sin, Homosexuality: Not a Sin, Not a Sickness Part II, Does the Bible NOT oppose Homosexuality, My quest to find the word 'homosexual' in the Bible