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Unlocking Effective Storytelling and Communication in the AI Era with Jim Edwards19 janv. 202600:53:07

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Have you ever wondered why taking action beats raw talent every single time, or how you can leverage new technology like AI without losing the heart and soul of your message? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we’re getting to the root of what it means to communicate with clarity, build your confidence as a storyteller, and stand out in our fast-changing world.

I’m Tim Newman, your host, a recovering college professor turned communication coach, and today I’m joined by the incredible Jim Edwards. Jim’s a true legend in the world of online business and communication, with almost three decades of experience helping entrepreneurs, coaches, speakers, and professionals get their messages heard. Not only is he a bestselling author of over three dozen books, but he’s also helped countless people find their voice and capitalize on their knowledge.

Listeners will also hear actionable advice on:

  • Finding and sharing your own stories (even if you think you don’t have any)
  • Developing patience and delayed gratification for long-term success
  • Building confidence as a speaker through preparation and practice
  • Using writing as a tool for clarifying your thoughts and improving your communication
  • Harnessing AI as a creative accelerant, not a replacement for your ideas
  • Understanding the new role of creators and curators in a world awash with content
  • How to recognize and communicate your true value as a coach, speaker, or business owner

Whether you’re trying to write your first book, become a more compelling speaker, or navigate the digital landscape with authenticity, this episode offers real, practical steps and mindset shifts that will help you take your message and your confidence to the next level.

I’m so grateful to Jim Edwards for joining me and sharing his wisdom (and contagious enthusiasm). If you’re looking for even more confidence-building resources, don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and more tools to help you unleash your voice!

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The Communication Mistake That’s Killing Your Career | Tim Newman Speaks15 janv. 202600:10:53

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Have you ever wondered why some leaders inspire trust and action while others leave their audience confused or disengaged? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dig into a hard-earned lesson from early in my own teaching journey: the dangers of overcomplicating communication.

Back when I started out as a teacher, my eagerness to impress led me to present high-level material to high school freshmen and sophomores only to realize that complexity wasn’t a sign of intelligence but a barrier to understanding. That moment of frustration, both for me and my students, revealed something powerful: people can’t appreciate your knowledge if you can’t explain it in a way they can grasp.

In this episode, I walk you through transforming the way you communicate, whether you're presenting to a boardroom, pitching a client, or simply leading a team. I draw on insights from leadership expert John Maxwell to introduce the law of simplicity, clarity, brevity, and focus on three mandates that can take your influence to the next level.

Here’s what you’ll hear in today’s episode:

  • Why complexity pushes people away and can be a career killer
  • How trying to “sound smart” with jargon or convoluted terminology signals insecurity, not expertise
  • What actually builds trust and gets you noticed in leadership roles
  • The 8th grader test: why your message must be clear enough for a middle schooler to understand
  • John Maxwell’s three mandates for powerful communication clarity, brevity, and focus and how to apply them to all your messages
  • Simple steps you can use to audit and improve your own communication before any meeting or presentation
  • The real mindset shift: moving from ego-driven to audience-first
  • How these principles not only change how others perceive you, but directly impact your career progress

By the end of this episode, you’ll be equipped with a practical framework to strip away confusion, communicate with true confidence, and make sure your message always lands. Remember, leadership starts with the ability to make the complex clear. I hope you enjoy the episode and start putting these mandates into practice right away because your voice really does have the power to change you.

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Building Executive Presence: Communication Habits Every Leader Needs to Unlearn and Master with Michael de Lisser12 janv. 202600:47:17

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What separates a good communicator from a truly exceptional one and how can you ensure you’re not holding yourself back from the career you want? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we’re diving into the core of leadership communication, self-awareness, and the ever-changing landscape of workplace communication especially as technology like AI becomes more prominent.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today, I’m joined by leadership consultant, seasoned executive educator, and author, Michael de Lisser. With over 25 years of experience creating customized leadership development programs, coaching 500+ executives, and shaping the next generation of leaders at the University of Utah, Michael de Lisser brings wisdom, practical insights, and real stories to every answer.

Here’s what we cover in this jam-packed episode:

  • The pivotal reasons leaders get fired and how communication is often at the root
  • Michael de Lisser’s go-to method for transforming communication habits, from videofeedback to new behaviors
  • The power of self-awareness and catching your “blind spots” early
  • Recording yourself: why it's uncomfortable, but vital for growth
  • Filler words, over-explaining, and other common bad habits and how to fix them
  • Why trying to be “perfect” or someone else sabotages both your executive presence and credibility
  • The unique challenges (and strengths) of younger generations in communication
  • How AI is reshaping workplace communication, and why delivery still matters most
  • The case for always customizing your message to your audience (with real boardroom examples)
  • Building relationships to increase your influence and message “stickiness”
  • Developing a pre-presentation ritual to manage nerves and “get in the zone”
  • What executive presence really means and why authenticity wins over style every time
  • How to use your strengths and shore up weaknesses to captivate any room
  • Tips for practicing under pressure, bouncing back from mistakes, and celebrating wins on your communication journey

By the end of this episode, you'll have a toolkit of actionable steps to raise your self-awareness, break through old communication patterns, and show up with confidence no matter the audience or setting. If you’re ready to take your communication skills from good to great (and beyond), this one’s packed with insights you’ll want to revisit again and again.

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Claiming Your Speaking Identity for Connection and Credibility | Tim Newman Speaks08 janv. 202600:14:04

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Have you ever left a presentation struggling to remember the speaker’s name, or worse, realized you might be that forgettable speaker yourself? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle the real root of feeling like an imposter on stage and share practical steps to help you transform into the kind of communicator people truly remember.

Today, I’m guiding you through a topic that undermines so many presenters, yet rarely gets the attention it deserves: building your speaker identity. We often chase technique, obsessing over posture, gestures, and slide design, but we forget the foundation that makes those techniques powerful—who we are as communicators and what unique perspective we bring.

So, what exactly makes up your speaker identity? I outline the three pillars:

  1. Your Unique Value Proposition—what only you can say about your topic based on your expertise, experience, and angle.
  2. Your Authentic Communication Style—how you naturally connect, whether it’s humor, data, stories, or questions.
  3. Your Signature Stories—the pivotal experiences that shaped your understanding and give emotional weight to your message.

You’ll walk away from this episode with:

  • A new understanding of why identity—not just technique—makes speakers memorable
  • Real-world examples of transformation through authenticity
  • The three key pillars of speaker identity and how they work together
  • A step-by-step exercise to claim your own speaker identity
  • Immediate actions to align your presentations with your authentic strengths
  • Insights for tackling imposter syndrome at its root

I close by reminding you—progress, not perfection, is our goal. If you want extra support, check out our free eBook or my full Formula for Public Speaking course at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com. Remember, your voice has the power to change; all you need to do is bring your true self to every conversation that matters.

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Building Confidence and Communication Skills in a Multicultural World with Maria Rincon05 janv. 202600:50:03

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Have you ever wondered what it really takes to become a confident communicator across cultures, generations, and languages? In this episode, I talk with Maria Rincon, a multilingual public speaking coach with roots in Colombia and China, a background in TV hosting, and experience as a communications consultant for the United Nations.

We kick things off exploring Maria’s journey—how she transitioned from television to her meaningful work with the UN, and what it’s actually like inside such a global, multicultural organization. Maria shares stories of teamwork across continents, adapting to cultural diversity, and the powerful lessons she learned navigating different communication styles, both professionally and personally.

Maria opens up about her move to public speaking coaching, detailing what she’s learned in her first year as an entrepreneur, including marketing challenges, building confidence, overcoming imposter syndrome, and establishing her unique approach. We discuss working with technical professionals worldwide and dig into foreign language speech anxiety—how it manifests and the practical techniques Maria uses to help clients overcome it, like embracing your accent and slowing down your speech.

We also dive into generational communication differences, debunking stereotypes about Gen Z and Millennials, and discussing the importance of empathy and building bridges across age groups. Maria provides a look at how work-life balance differs globally, especially after experiencing the Nordic approach firsthand.

Finally, we talk about the power of storytelling for leaders and professionals. Maria provides actionable tips on developing a story “bank,” the importance of practicing stories in different formats, and how to make stories resonate authentically in any setting.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

  • What it’s really like in the UN’s multicultural environment
  • Navigating direct and indirect communication across cultures
  • The ups and downs of starting a coaching business—and lessons in marketing and self-confidence
  • Common obstacles like imposter syndrome and foreign language speech anxiety (with tips to overcome them)
  • Generational communication differences and how to bridge the gaps
  • Cultivating work-life balance across cultures
  • The crucial role of storytelling in leadership and communication

You don’t have to be perfect to be an impactful communicator. From personal stories to practical advice, this episode is packed with insights to help you find your unique voice and show up with confidence, no matter the audience.


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How to Motivate and Communicate Effectively with Gen Z at Work | Tim Newman Speaks01 janv. 202600:13:35

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Are you struggling to truly connect with Gen Z team members at work—or maybe you’re a Gen Z professional frustrated by colleagues who don’t seem to get where you’re coming from? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle a challenge that’s becoming more important every day: How can we break down the generational communication barriers at work to build authentic relationships and boost performance for everyone?

I’m Tim Newman, a former college professor turned communication coach, and as your host, I’ve spent years watching the dynamics between Boomers, Gen Xers, Millennials, and Gen Z play out both in classrooms and boardrooms. Today, I unpack what really prevents us from connecting and share practical, powerful strategies you can use to start bridging the gap now—no matter which generation you’re in.

In this episode, I share plenty of real-world stories from my own career and consulting experience, plus research insights from leadership expert Dr. Tim Elmore. We dive into why the old “positional authority” model just doesn’t work with Gen Z, who grew up with access to unlimited information and have learned to question everything—including your title! Instead, we explore how building trust and authentic connection is the key to motivating and retaining Gen Z employees, and how these skills make us stronger communicators with everybody.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

  • How making people truly feel heard (not just tolerated) leads to better motivation and results
  • The single biggest communication mistake managers make with Gen Z—and how to fix it
  • Why authority means nothing if it isn’t backed by trust and demonstrative competence
  • Three essential pillars for rebuilding your communication style: listening like you could be wrong, radical authenticity, and co-creating clarity with your team
  • Step-by-step ways to transform feedback meetings from judgmental monologues into collaborative, solution-focused dialogues
  • Simple, actionable tactics for onboarding new hires so they feel like they belong from day one—starting with relationship building over rules and policies
  • Real case studies showing how these changes boost performance, deepen psychological safety, and drastically improve retention
  • The difference between high accountability and strong connection—and why you don’t have to choose between the two
  • A practical behavior change you can implement this week: brief, consistent, agenda-free check-ins that help you solve problems before they become resignations

Whether you’re a manager trying to motivate your Gen Z talent or a Gen Z professional craving genuine dialogue, this episode will arm you with strategies that work. Join me as we move beyond outdated authority models and start building the trust, clarity, and connection our workplaces—and our world—sorely need.

Thanks for listening and don’t forget to check out the free resources and courses at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com. Let's make your voice—and your conversations—powerful enough to change your world.

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Rewiring Fear: Hypnotherapy Tools for Confident Speaking and Leadership Success29 déc. 202500:52:11

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Have you ever wondered if it’s truly possible to rewire your brain for confidence—and finally break free from fears that hold you back? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive into the powerful world of hypnosis with certified hypnotherapist, speaker, and bestselling author Amy Koford. Together, we unravel what hypnosis really is, how it works, and ways it can transform not only our communication with others, but also the way we talk to ourselves.

We explore what led Amy Koford to hypnosis, including the pivotal moments and the “inner voice” that told her she was meant to help others in this way. Amy discusses how hypnosis goes far beyond the stereotypical portrayals in movies and television. She unpacks the science of trance states, theta brain waves, and how the subconscious mind can be retrained for breakthrough results. Whether it’s breaking a bad habit, boosting performance as an athlete, or conquering the fear of public speaking, Amy’s method emphasizes releasing limiting beliefs and replacing them with empowering ones.

I ask Amy about how hypnosis applies to speakers, communicators, and leaders. She draws a direct line between optimal athletic performance and high-impact communication, illustrating how both require clearing out fear, rewriting mental scripts, and visualizing success. We also touch on the challenges faced by self-proclaimed “control freaks” and how hypnosis can help uncover and heal the root causes of that need for control.

Here’s what we covered in our conversation:

  • Amy’s path from personal struggles with depression to becoming a hypnotherapist
  • What hypnosis actually is (and isn’t), debunking myths from pop culture
  • How theta brainwaves allow for direct subconscious reprogramming
  • The role of hypnosis in changing habits (like quitting sugar or smoking)
  • How Amy helps athletes “clear the garbage” of past mistakes and perform with confidence—and how this same approach empowers public speakers and communicators
  • The release-and-replace method for eliminating internal blocks and installing new, confidence-boosting beliefs
  • Why we care what others think and strategies to overcome insecurity in high-stakes moments
  • The importance of self-talk and the transformative power of the words “I am”
  • A behind-the-scenes look at Amy’s bestselling book, Hardwired to Rise, and why tackling fear is at the core of healing and communication
  • Practical exercises for taking out the “mental trash” and refocusing on what you truly want

Whether you’re looking to overcome stage fright, let go of self-doubt, or simply get out of your own way, this episode is packed with wisdom, real-world examples, and actionable steps you can use to build rock-solid confidence.

If you’re ready to take that next step, check out Amy’s resources at amykofoard.com and don’t miss her book, Hardwired to Rise, for deeper strategies on tackling fear and unlocking your most confident self. And as always, visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and more resources to help your voice make an impact. Your confidence is closer than you think—sometimes, it just takes the right mindset shift.

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How Coaching and Honest Feedback Elevate Your Speaking Game | Tim Newman Speaks25 déc. 202500:15:56

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Have you ever wondered what it actually takes to grow as a speaker—beyond just practicing your presentation in front of the mirror? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive deep into the lessons I've learned on my own personal journey, including some pretty humbling moments and a behind-the-scenes look at how coaching and mentorship can truly elevate your skills.

This week, I’m sharing the story of how I went from a nervous college student—literally the guy who puked in speech class—to a certified, confident speaker and coach. It’s not just about getting over nerves; it’s about shifting your mindset, investing in lifelong learning, and realizing that vulnerability (not perfection) is what really connects us with our audience.

I also introduce Roddy Galbraith, John Maxwell’s own speaking coach, who played a pivotal role in helping me shape my story for the International Maxwell Conference’s three-minute speech contest. Roddy’s feedback pushed me to dig deeper, refine my delivery, and focus the message for real impact. If you’ve ever questioned whether coaching is worth the investment, wait until you hear the difference it made—and the advice Roddy gives.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

  • How joining the Maxwell Leadership Certified Team revolutionized my approach to speaking and coaching others
  • What it’s like to compete in a high-stakes, three-minute speech contest—including the importance of timing and preparation, whether you’re speaking to 3,000 or just five people
  • Why I believe coaching is essential for everyone (even John Maxwell gets coached!)
  • A raw story from my past: the first time I had to speak in public—and why it ended with me throwing up in class
  • The critical shift from perfectionism to authenticity, and the power of making your message about serving others
  • Roddy’s actionable feedback: how to tighten your speech, amp up your delivery, and draw out the message that matters
  • A side-by-side comparison of my first version and my final speech—showing exactly how much a story and performance can evolve with the right support
  • My reminders about progress over perfection and the importance of chasing your potential, not letting self-doubt or others keep you from taking the next step

If you’re looking for inspiration, practical takeaways, and an honest look behind the curtain, this episode is for you. Plus, I’ll tell you how to grab your free ebook and register for upcoming speaking courses. Your voice truly has the power to change the world—but only if you use it. Thanks for listening and for being part of this journey with me!

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Navigating Generational Differences: The Power of Relationship-Based Leadership with Gen Z Teams22 déc. 202500:48:50

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What does it really take to lead and communicate with Generation Z in today’s workplace? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I sit down with Dr. Tim Elmore, founder of Growing Leaders, bestselling author, and expert in multi-generational leadership. Dr. Elmore has spent decades developing emerging leaders—including an impressive 20 years by the side of John C. Maxwell—and he’s written extensively on what makes great leadership tick, especially in our rapidly evolving culture. If you’ve ever struggled to connect with Gen Z professionals or wondered why their anxiety levels seem so high, this is an episode you don’t want to miss.

I’ve long believed that Gen Z is smarter and more entrepreneurial than previous generations, and finally, Dr. Elmore’s new book, The Future Begins with Z, delivers the data to back it up. In our conversation, we explore the shifts in social and technological dynamics that have shaped Gen Z, especially how anxiety (now at levels comparable to psychiatric patients in the 1950s) has become a natural outgrowth of the overwhelming flood of information they face daily. We dig into the critical distinction between post-traumatic stress and post-traumatic growth—how leaders and educators can help foster resilience instead of victimhood.

Here’s what we cover in the episode:

  • The roots of Gen Z’s high anxiety and how social media amplifies it
  • Coaching young professionals through stress and building grit with empathy and compassion
  • Key differences between post-traumatic growth and stress, and how to foster resilience
  • How educators and employers can prepare Gen Z for professional success—through realistic expectations and reframing self-talk
  • The “Stockdale Paradox” and the difference between hope and optimism in leadership
  • The misconception that Gen Z doesn’t want to work, and data from real-world focus groups that prove otherwise
  • The necessity of building trust and relationships before offering feedback or correction (“Connect before you correct”), and the ALEG feedback process
  • Teaching and modeling soft skills that Gen Z may be missing due to pandemic-era screen life
  • Why authentic, frequent, and brief communication trumps lengthy, infrequent updates—and why daily check-ins matter
  • How leaders can admit mistakes openly to build trust and model real communication
  • The velvet-covered brick as a metaphor for leadership: balancing empathy with accountability
  • Recognizing and responding appropriately to practical, social, and emotional conversations—especially when leading younger team members

We wrap up with actionable steps for leading Gen Z better, starting right now—not tomorrow. If you want practical strategies, stories, and a hopeful look at how Gen Z can make us stronger leaders when we rise to the occasion, you’ll find gold in this episode. I’m grateful to Dr. Tim Elmore for joining the conversation and sharing his wisdom. For everyone ready to adapt, lead, and have more confident conversations with the next generation, this episode is for you.

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Closing the Gap Between What You Say and Do for Real Influence | Tim Newman Speaks18 déc. 202500:12:51

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Are your words truly building the influence you want, or is there a hidden gap between what you say and how you act that's silently killing your credibility? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive deep into the powerful truth that your real message isn’t just what comes out of your mouth—it’s what people see in your behavior, especially when no one’s watching.

I open with a personal story about a tough leadership lesson: the painful disconnect between preaching innovation and risk-taking, and then acting in a way that totally undermined those values. Admitting that I was the one who once made this mistake sets the tone for radical authenticity and accountability—qualities I argue are essential if you want genuine influence.

Drawing on insights from John Maxwell's Everyone Communicates, Few Connect, I explain why your PowerPoint slides and pitch-perfect scripts are just window dressing. The heart of true connection and lasting influence is living out what you communicate. I tackle the myth that communication is all about how you craft your message and show why, instead, behavior is your primary message. Your team and clients have real-time “credibility audits” running in their heads, always weighing your actions far more than your words.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

  • The invisible gap between values and behavior that sabotages your influence
  • A personal leadership mistake that taught me hard lessons about credibility
  • Why your behavior communicates more than your words, especially under scrutiny
  • How accountability—not perfection—accelerates trust and strengthens connections
  • The step-by-step formula for owning and fixing mistakes with clients and teams
  • A fresh take on vulnerability: how sharing learned wisdom (not present weakness) wins hearts and minds
  • How to shift from a transactional to a partnership dynamic in any relationship
  • The power of doing a quick “alignment audit” before key meetings to instantly increase impact

Whether you’re a leader, communicator, or entrepreneur, this episode arms you with actionable tools to make your influence grow—by living your message with confidence, accountability, and authentic vulnerability. And remember, we’re always chasing progress, not perfection!

As a quick update, next week’s schedule features a special guest and a holiday replay, so stay tuned. Don’t forget to grab your free eBook and check out my new book for even deeper strategies on turning your connections into true career growth. Thanks for joining me—your voice really can change your world.

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Empowering Dyslexic Learners: Proven Methods for Rapid Reading and Writing Growth with Russel Van Brocklen15 déc. 202500:58:38

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What if there was a proven way to help kids with dyslexia leap multiple grade levels in reading and writing—using strategies most schools never teach? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dig deep into this question and reveal practical answers with the help of a truly inspiring guest.

Today, we’re diving headfirst into the realities of dyslexia—a condition that affects as many as 15 to 20% of learners, yet is still too often met with “let’s wait and see” in schools and by professionals. I have a personal connection to this topic, both as an educator and as someone with ADHD who faced my own hurdles in the traditional education system.

Joining me for this conversation is Russel Van Brocklen, known as the “dyslexia professor.” Russel Van Brocklen didn’t just study dyslexia—he lived it, spending his early years reading and writing at a first-grade level, even into college, before finally learning to read fluently in law school. He’s devoted decades to translating structured literacy research into practical, bite-sized strategies families can use at home. His story, and the successes he’s helped engineer for countless kids, provide a roadmap out of what can feel like an endless educational maze.

We explored Russel’s personal journey—from academic struggle and institutional roadblocks to academic success and expert status. We talk about the specific-to-general approach that flips how most of us were taught, and why it’s the leverage point for learners with dyslexia, ADHD, and other neurodiverse backgrounds. Russel shares real-life case studies, like Casey, a highly motivated fifth-grader who jumped eight grade levels in reading in just six months by leveraging her passion for Theodore Roosevelt.

Here’s what you’ll take away from this conversation:

  • The unique brain-based challenges and strengths of learners with dyslexia and ADHD
  • Why most accommodations don’t go far enough—and what actually works
  • How to use a student’s “speciality” or passion as the engine for dramatic growth in reading and writing
  • The “specific to general” teaching method and why it works where traditional methods fail
  • Simple, research-backed home strategies that parents can use tonight
  • The critical role of writing in organizing thoughts and boosting reading levels
  • Why early intervention is key—and how to advocate for your child in a system that may be resistant to change
  • How the right support can transform not just academic skills, but confidence and mental health
  • Free and affordable resources for families (like dyslexiaclasses.com) and how to access expert help

You’ll also hear about Russel Van Brocklen’s experience working within state governments, pushing for policy change, and training both teachers and parents to make a measurable impact—sometimes in as little as just three hours of training!

By the end of this episode, you’ll have concrete steps for helping the neurodiverse students in your life succeed, and a new understanding of just how much potential every struggling reader really has. If you’ve ever felt like the system is stacked against kids who learn differently, this conversation will give you hope, strategies, and a path forward.

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The Secret to Earning Attention in Your First 30 Seconds | Tim Newman Speaks11 déc. 202500:16:23

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Have you ever wondered why so many presentations lose the audience within the first thirty seconds? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle the critical question: How do you earn an audience’s attention right from the start and keep it?

I’m Tim Newman, your host—a recovering college professor who’s now dedicated to helping others become powerful communicators. This week, we’re diving deep into one of the most fundamental but overlooked aspects of public speaking: the opening. Specifically, I reveal why the majority of speakers fail almost immediately by focusing on themselves, their credentials, or their agenda, instead of the needs and interests of their listeners.

In today’s episode, I’m walking you step-by-step through a transformative approach to strong openings. I break down the psychology behind audience attention, explaining that your listeners aren’t evaluating you at first; they’re evaluating whether what you’re saying is worth their time. Your goal in those first crucial seconds is not to impress, but to serve, to name a problem your audience is facing, and to offer a quick glimpse of a solution. I outline my favorite tool for this: the pattern interrupt hook.

Here’s what you’ll take away from today’s episode:

  • Why focusing on yourself at the start of a talk is a guaranteed way to be ignored.
  • How to use a pattern interrupt hook to break through audience filters and make them want to listen.
  • The specific three-part opening formula: problem statement, immediate consequence, and solution promise.
  • How to structure those opening thirty seconds to create curiosity and relevance.
  • Examples of both weak and strong openings in meetings, networking, and public speaking.
  • Tips on making the formula your own, reading the room, and communicating authentic urgency.
  • The vital mindset shift from seeking validation to serving the audience’s needs.

Remember: credibility in communication comes not from listing your achievements, but from immediately solving the audience’s problem. By the end of this show, you’ll know how to grab attention with purpose, set the right tone, and provide value from the very first words.

If you want to grab your audience and guarantee your message lands, this episode will give you the tools and confidence to start every conversation strong. Don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com to download your free eBook and learn about upcoming courses. As always, your voice has the power to change—let’s make sure people are listening.

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Why Interaction Is the Secret Weapon for Powerful Public Speaking and Teaching with Ivan Wanis-Ruiz08 déc. 202500:53:59

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Have you ever wondered why so many presentations and conversations end up sounding boring, or why teaching communication skills seems stuck in outdated paradigms? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we dive into exactly that—and explore what it takes not only to end boring communication, but to build genuine connection in every interaction.

This week, I'm excited to introduce my guest, Ivan Wanis-Ruiz. Ivan is on a mission to rid the world of boring, whether it's in public speaking, storytelling, or everyday conversations. He's a professional speaker, educator, emcee, and yes—salsa dancer—with a knack for bringing energy and engagement to any room. Ivan brings unique insights from his experience in dance, improv, and hosting live events, showing us how these seemingly unrelated disciplines offer strategies and inspiration for great communication.

We kicked off the episode swapping stories about Ivan’s journey from a bored newcomer taking dance classes to becoming a full-on salsa teacher, and how dance became his live laboratory for educational techniques. We explored the key elements of truly effective communication training—getting people actively involved, letting students speak in every session, and making exercises practical and applicable. Ivan described the importance of aligning teaching approach with the skills being taught, urging educators to break free from the “lecture then speak once at the end” model.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

  • How Ivan’s dance teaching doubled as a testing ground for interactive communication techniques
  • The impact of engaging introductions and ditching the boring bio in speaking and events
  • Why emotion in storytelling doesn’t have to mean trauma—how humor and uncertainty are just as powerful
  • Overcoming awkward networking through strategic self-disclosure and volunteering
  • Strategies for introverts to connect without burnout
  • Why communication skills are now the real competitive advantage in a world of abundant knowledge
  • Sugata Mitra’s revolutionary approach to education and learning through challenges and collaboration
  • How to create engaging workshops with open-ended tasks, timed constraints, and group deliverables
  • Why storytelling works best when it’s focused on problems, uncertainty, and emotional ups and downs
  • How to leverage AI for brainstorming and developing memorable personal pitches using literary devices like tricolon and anaphora

If you’re ready to break old habits, boost your confidence, and make sure you’re truly engaging your audience—whether it’s on stage, at work, or in any conversation—this episode is packed with practical advice, stories, and straight talk you can use right now.

Thanks for listening. Don't forget to check out the free ebook and course at speakwithconfidencepodcast.com, and let us know how these strategies help you show up with confidence wherever you speak.

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The Three Pillars of Authority for Speakers | Tim Newman Speaks04 déc. 202500:11:08

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How do truly powerful speakers command authority without relying on sheer volume or aggressive body language? That’s the question we’re answering on today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence.

In this episode, I dive deep into the art and science of authentic authority in communication. As someone who’s coached hundreds of professionals—and as a recovering college professor myself—I’ve seen firsthand that the most influential communicators aren’t the ones who try to dominate the room; they’re the ones who remain poised and structured, even under pressure.

There’s no guest on this episode; it’s just me, Tim Newman, guiding you through the exact three-step formula I teach my clients to help them show up with quiet confidence rather than performative bravado. We unpack the misconception that authority is about sounding loud or forceful, and replace it with a new paradigm built on control, clarity, and composure.

Here’s what we explored together:

  • Why real authority can’t be faked and why it collapses under tough questions if it’s only an act.
  • The first pillar: Structure. Most speakers fail before they begin because they don’t have a clear framework. You’ll learn how the “scaffolding principle” and the rule of three—simplifying your main points—help you build clarity, respect, and influence.
  • The second pillar: Strategic pause. I share why silence is the most powerful tool for authoritative delivery. You’ll discover how replacing commas and periods in your mental script with intentional pauses instantly commands a room, eliminates filler words, and projects composure.
  • Stories from my coaching experiences, including how a client turned a tense Q&A into a moment of control and how Steve Jobs used silence to demonstrate real thinking.
  • The third pillar: The unavoidable verdict. We go beyond just informing audiences to inspiring action, guiding them to a single, compelling conclusion by engineering every aspect of your communication for clarity and impact.
  • A step-by-step example of structuring a pitch and how to use the three pillars to build a winning case.
  • Common pitfalls—like rambling or flooding people with data—and how to avoid them by focusing on simplification, strategic silence, and clarity of purpose.
  • Practical takeaways for you to start practicing right away: from structuring your next team update, to slowing your speech with pauses, or defining your key verdict before preparing a presentation.

By the end of the episode, you’ll know how to stop chasing authority and start embodying it—naturally and consistently. If you’re ready to transform the way you communicate, visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook, Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, and consider registering for the Foreman for Public Speaking.

Remember, your voice has the power to change. Progress, not perfection—let’s step confidently into every conversation that counts!

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Overcoming Stage Nerves: Practical Confidence Tips for Speakers and Leaders from Alex Sanfilippo01 déc. 202500:46:22

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Ever wondered why so many high-achieving leaders and communicators struggle to recognize their own value? In our 100th episode of Speaking with Confidence, we tackle this powerful question and much more with a very special guest who’s played a major role in my own podcasting journey—Alex Sanfilippo.

I kicked off this milestone episode reflecting on the journey so far and the importance of crafting your communication skills. From day one, Speaking with Confidence has been about helping you show up as your most authentic, impactful self—whether it's in storytelling, leadership, podcasting, or daily conversations. To celebrate our 100th episode, I invited Alex Sanfilippo, founder of PodMatch.com and the host of Podcasting Made Simple, to join me. If you’re not familiar, PodMatch is a brilliant platform that automatically matches podcast hosts and guests, a true game changer for podcasters looking to deliver more value and connect with new audiences.

We dove deep into topics that every communicator and leader will relate to—especially if you’ve ever doubted the impact you make. Alex Sanfilippo shared honestly about his own struggle with imposter syndrome, the challenge of recognizing the ripple effects of our work, and why surrounding yourself with the right people is so critical—not only for accountability but for remembering your successes and celebrating your growth. We reminisced about some of Alex’s earliest lessons as a 10-year-old entrepreneur selling golf balls, and how those negotiations with adults laid the foundation for his confidence and communication today.

Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:

  • Why so many high achievers underestimate their own value and impact
  • How imposter syndrome shows up (even for seasoned leaders and creators)
  • The importance of community—having people who’ll tell you when you’re doing great and when you need to grow
  • How laughter, play, and fun can transform not just your mood, but your effectiveness as a communicator
  • Lessons from childhood entrepreneurship that still apply to adult leadership and negotiations
  • How to reflect on your day and extract lessons that drive growth
  • The difference between representing yourself as a brand and representing a company—and why authenticity matters more than ever
  • A powerful story about vulnerability on stage, and how genuine emotion connects more deeply than perfection ever could
  • Tips for managing nerves before speaking, including “mindset hacks” to recast anxiety as excitement
  • Why storytelling, not just well-organized points, is at the heart of powerful communication
  • How to use your walk-up song or other rituals to channel energy and confidence before you speak

Whether you’re a podcaster, leader, or someone simply looking to speak up with more confidence, this 100th episode is packed with honest insights, practical strategies, a few laughs, and plenty of encouragement about the unique value only you can offer.

Thank you for being part of this incredible journey to 100 episodes. Tune in to hear my conversation with Alex Sanfilippo—I promise you’ll walk away ready to communicate (and live!) with more confidence.

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Practical Strategies to Overcome Digital Distractions and Screen Overload | Tim Newman Speaks27 nov. 202500:21:09

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Have you ever wondered if your phone habits are actually rewiring your brain—and what you can do to reclaim truly meaningful conversations? In today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive deep into the reality of digital overwhelm, exploring how our constant connectivity shapes not only our attention spans, but also our ability to build real, lasting connections.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a “recovering college professor” turned communication coach. If you caught my earlier conversation with Craig Mattson about digital overwhelm (and if not, be sure to listen!), today I’m taking our discussion one step further. This episode is packed with practical tips to help you break out of the screen-time spiral and nurture richer, more present communication—at work, at home, and everywhere it matters.

I unpack just how our devices—and the behaviors they encourage—impact our brains, our relationships, and our emotional well-being. Did you know that our attention span has dropped to less than a goldfish’s, or that checking your phone mid-conversation can physically hurt your relationships? I detail the science behind these findings, walking you through what’s really happening in your brain when you’re glued to your screen.

Here’s a sneak peek of what we cover in this episode:

  • How excessive screen time quite literally changes the physical structure of your brain, especially the areas that keep your empathy and emotional processing sharp
  • The eye-opening comparison between our attention span today and that of a goldfish (spoiler: the fish is winning)
  • Why multitasking is just rapid attention switching, and how every notification derails your focus for as much as 25 minutes
  • How checking your phone—even for a split second—during meetings or conversations triggers feelings of rejection and erodes trust
  • The surprising emotional gap in text-based communication vs. phone calls or in-person chats, including why arguments take longer to resolve over text and why emojis don’t always help
  • The neuroscience behind why social media may be numbing our real-world empathy, and how dopamine-driven interactions make it harder to form deep, lasting bonds
  • Simple, science-backed strategies to repair your attention span—like the 90/20 rule, tech-free meal times, and delaying morning phone use—and the powerful results you can expect to see
  • The truth about “multitasking” in virtual meetings and the dramatic drop in information retention when devices are present
  • Why creating analog space and reducing digital distractions leads not only to better memory and increased empathy, but more rewarding, memorable conversations

Throughout the episode, I share practical experiments, easy habits, and real-world stories—along with the latest research—to help you make progress, not seek perfection. You’ll discover small changes that restore focus and connection, proving you don’t have to renounce technology to build your confidence as a communicator. Start with just one device-free meal a day and see just how much deeper your conversations can go.

Don’t forget to check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and details on my public speaking course. Your voice matters—and with a bit of intentionality, you can ensure it’s heard, felt, and

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How Introverts Can Thrive on Stage and in Networking Events with Michael Pope24 nov. 202500:52:15

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Have you ever wondered how introverts can thrive on stage and conquer self-doubt, even when anxiety and imposter syndrome are in the way? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we dive deep into the journeys, frameworks, and behind-the-scenes realities of overcoming hesitation so you can step up and speak out—no matter how nervous you may feel.

Today, I’m excited to welcome my friend Michael Pope: an international keynote speaker, leadership coach, and author of Doers Win the Day. Known as the Hesitation Breaker, Michael Pope brings over two decades of IT and leadership experience, having transformed software developers into adept people developers. His expertise centers on productivity, overcoming hesitation, and equipping high achievers and introverted professionals with the tools they need to succeed.

We explore the unique challenges introverts face when the spotlight is on. Michael Pope opens up about his process for “recharging on demand” after high-energy engagements and the importance of being present and available to audience members after events—even if it feels uncomfortable at first. We also discuss practical networking strategies, like attending events with a purpose-driven list of connections, and why you must add value to others before asking anything in return.

A major highlight of our conversation is imposter syndrome and the excuses that creep in. We talk candidly about those moments of hesitation—like almost inviting a dream guest on the show but never quite hitting send. 

We unpack Michael Pope’s signature DOER framework (Discipline, Opportunity, Eliminate Excuses, Responsibility) and how it applies not just to speaking, but to every area of personal and professional growth. He gives real-life examples of stretching outside your comfort zone, preparing for high-stakes talks (and recovering when things go wrong), and the importance of coaching and mentorship—no matter how seasoned you become.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

  • Why sharing personal stories (especially about family) builds trust and relatability
  • Strategies for introverts to thrive on stage and in back-to-back networking environments
  • The necessity of approaching events and networking with a clear, value-driven purpose
  • The DOER framework and how to use it to push through hesitation, excuses, and fear
  • Real talk on imposter syndrome and actionable ways to move past it
  • How joining Toastmasters and investing in coaching can fast track your progress
  • Surprising lessons from sharing the stage with legends like Les Brown and learning from mentors like Roddy Galbraith
  • The process of preparing for a major keynote event—from understanding the client’s goals to practicing with intention
  • When technology fails: staying cool, calm, and professional under pressure
  • The power of recording yourself and constructive self-feedback for brand-new speakers
  • Why celebrating small wins every day fuels growth and momentum for the long haul

If you want to find your authentic voice, build rock-solid speaking habits, and finally stop holding yourself back, you’ll want to listen to every minute of this episode. Tune in, take notes, and remember: your voice has the power to change the world—but only if you’re brave enough to use it.

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Escaping the Networking Paradox and Creating Connections that Count | Tim Newman Speaks20 nov. 202500:15:25

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Are you building a network that looks impressive on paper, but feels hollow in practice? Are you craving genuine professional relationships that help you grow, not just fill your contact list? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle the paradox facing modern professionals: staying "connected" but still feeling isolated. If you’ve ever wondered why your networking efforts haven’t translated into real momentum or meaningful relationships, this episode is for you.

I dive deep into the concept of what I call the Connector Climber—a mindset and system that blends authentic relationship-building with purposeful career growth. Drawing from years as a college professor and coach, I share hard-earned insights and a practical framework designed to help you move beyond the two most common personality traps: the Connector (the selfless but stagnant giver) and the Climber (the ambitious but isolated achiever). I reveal how recognizing which type you tend toward is the first step to transforming how you build your network.

In this episode, I unpack the reasons why simply "knowing everyone" isn’t enough, and why climbing the career ladder solo leaves you stranded. You’ll hear personal stories, including my own aha moment in academia and a powerful example from a client who broke out of the connector rut to lead strategic projects.

Here’s what I covered:

  • Why most professionals fall into the Connector or Climber category, and why both approaches are incomplete
  • The essential mindset shift: moving from being useful to being collaborative, and the role vulnerability plays in building lasting relationships
  • How to define your personal “mountain”—the specific goal that catalyzes intentional connections
  • The three non-negotiable rules for becoming a Connector Climber: knowing your mountain, auditing your circle for growth-minded influences, and creating value instead of trading favors
  • Practical, real-world examples of what value creation looks like, and how to frame networking conversations as mutual exchanges rather than asks
  • A step-by-step challenge to help you reconnect with someone in your network with clarity and intention
  • The differences between transactional and transformational relationships, and how to build a team—not just a contact list—that supports your professional climb
  • Resources for further growth, including my book Connections That Count and free guides for public speakers

By the end of the episode, you’ll be equipped with a system that transforms your approach to networking—from checking boxes to sowing the seeds of true collaboration and mutual momentum. If you’re ready to build connections that actually count, this episode is your roadmap to becoming a confident Connector Climber. Thanks for listening and being part of the Speaking with Confidence community!

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How to Win Over Any Audience: Lessons in Stage Confidence and Storytelling from Magician Tom Elliott17 nov. 202500:55:06

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Have you ever wondered how seasoned performers capture and hold the attention of even the most distracted or reluctant audiences? On today’s episode of Speaking With Confidence, we answer that question and dig deep into what it really takes to build confidence, adapt on the fly, and show up authentically in every speaking situation—whether it’s a children’s birthday party, a raucous holiday park, or a high-stakes corporate keynote.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and recovering college professor turned communication coach, and I’m thrilled to share this episode with you because it offers a fresh perspective on stage presence, storytelling, and handling those inevitable moments when things don’t go as planned.

Joining me today is Tom Elliott, corporate event host, comedy magician, and storytelling coach, who brings a remarkable blend of entertainment expertise to the world of professional communication. Tom has performed across the UK for audiences that often weren’t there to see him, which has made him a master at winning over even the toughest crowds. His journey from performing magic and ventriloquism at children’s parties, to holiday parks and eventually the corporate world, is not only fascinating but full of practical lessons for anyone looking to build their influence through communication.

You’ll also hear us dig into:

  • Tom’s origins in magic, ventriloquism, and the lessons learned from children’s parties and holiday park gigs
  • Why corporate and holiday park audiences are worlds apart—and how to adjust your approach for each
  • How to manage failing moments on stage and use them to grow (including both of our worst stories)
  • The power of practicing in public, trying new material, and being willing to fail to get better
  • What it really takes to grab attention in the first 30 seconds of any talk, meeting, or show
  • How to dial up your natural personality traits by 10% for stage presence and audience connection
  • The difference between internalizing your core message versus memorizing a rigid script, and how this helps you adapt with confidence
  • Why personal stories work, even for people who are nervous to use them
  • Building confidence through repeated action and practical strategies for anyone starting out (including organizing your own gigs!)

Tom also shares a free resource for anyone wanting to create a more engaging keynote, along with actionable tips you can put into practice right away.

Whether you’re a business leader, aspiring speaker, or someone who just wants to feel more at ease communicating when it counts, this episode is packed with insights, laughter, and the reassurance that failing is not the end—it's part of the path to becoming a powerful, confident communicator.

Thanks for joining us on Speaking With Confidence. Remember, your voice has the power to change the world!

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Why You Hate Your Voice and How to Fix It | Tim Newman Speaks13 nov. 202500:13:41

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Have you ever listened to a recording of your own voice and thought, “Who is that?” If you’ve ever cringed at the sound of your voice on tape, you’re not alone. In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive into why our own voice sounds so strange to us on a recording—and more importantly, what you can do about it.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today’s episode is all about bridging the gap between the voice you think you have and the one the world actually hears. I’ll show you why you don’t need to “fix” your voice, but understand what’s happening behind the scenes—both physically and psychologically—so you can finally build confidence in how you sound for your presentations, meetings, and important conversations.

There’s no guest this week; it's just me, sharing techniques and insights straight from my own coaching experience. If you’ve ever felt hesitant to speak up because you’re self-conscious about your voice, or you want to project more authority and command in your professional life, this episode is for you.

Here’s what I cover:

  • Why your voice sounds so different—and often “worse”—when you hear it recorded, thanks to the physics of bone conduction versus air conduction.
  • The phenomenon I call “imposter voice syndrome” and why it fuels self-doubt and anxiety.
  • How exposure therapy can help you get comfortable with the sound of your recorded voice and shift from self-judgment to self-acceptance.
  • Practical, immediately actionable techniques to power up your voice, including diaphragmatic breathing for resonance and steadiness, finding your optimal pitch with safe and easy exercises, and the strategic use of pauses to add authority and presence.
  • Tips for using volume and articulation to ensure your message lands—so you never mumble or fade out at a crucial moment.
  • How the way you use your voice transforms your leadership presence and credibility.
  • Tactics for handling high-pressure situations, reading the room, and dynamically adjusting your delivery for maximum impact.
  • Developing a simple, five-minute pre-speaking vocal warmup routine to make confidence a habit instead of a hope.
  • The mindset shift from self-consciousness to audience focus so you stop apologizing for your sound and start using your voice as a strategic communication asset.

By the end of the episode, you’ll realize that your voice is not something to hide or “fix”—it’s your unique communication signature. With some deliberate practice and self-kindness, you’ll be on your way to speaking with authentic confidence, no matter the situation. If you take away only one thing today, let it be this: your voice has the power to change the world, starting with how you think and feel about it.

For more resources, remember to grab your free eBook and check out the Formula for Public Speaking rules at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com. Until next time, embrace your voice and keep building that confidence!

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The Power of Written Communication in Unlocking Career Confidence with Amy Adler10 nov. 202500:56:24

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Have you ever wondered how your written communication—resumes, LinkedIn profiles, career documents—can truly reflect who you are and ensure you're projecting the same confidence and authenticity in person as you do on paper? If you’ve found yourself stuck, unsure how to craft your professional story, or if you want your talents and personality to leap off the page and into your interviews, this episode is for you.

Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence! Today, I dive into the art and science of translating your professional story onto paper, a skill just as essential as public speaking. I’m joined by Amy Adler, a nationally recognized career strategist and founder of Five Strengths Career Transition Experts. Amy is an expert in coaching executives and professionals to tell their stories in amazing, impactful ways—helping them shine in written formats and feel truly confident when meeting hiring teams.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

  • How life experiences and regional culture shape communication, both written and spoken
  • Why adapting your style to meet people where they are (“The Platinum Rule”) builds trust and connection
  • Listening as a superpower for introverts—and transforming introversion into powerful coaching and storytelling
  • Building confidence by reframing your career journey as a forward-thinking, impactful story
  • Techniques for career transition: defining strategy, setting attainable goals, and building momentum
  • The power of authenticity and congruence between your written documents and your real self in interviews
  • Advice for young professionals and higher education: letting students tell their whole story, not just check boxes
  • Breaking through fear and vulnerability in the job search by seeking expert help—and why it’s a sign of strength, not weakness
  • How collaborative coaching and resume writing can transform personal narratives, boost self-belief, and elevate career outcomes

If you’re ready to bridge the gap between your resume and your real, confident self—and learn strategies that make your written communication truly impactful—give this episode a listen. Huge thanks to Amy Adler for sharing her wisdom and experience with such empathy and clarity. And thank you for tuning in to Speaking with Confidence!

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How to Read a Room as a Speaker | Tim Newman Speaks06 nov. 202500:14:16

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Have you ever felt that sinking feeling during a meeting or conversation when you realize you’re losing the room—people are checking their phones, yawning, or just looking right through you? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle exactly that challenge: how to read the room and respond in real time so you stay connected, engaged, and in control whenever you speak.

As someone who transitioned from being a college professor to a communication coach, I’ve seen firsthand how common these scenarios are—and I know how disheartening it can be when you feel your message isn’t landing. But here’s the good news: reading a room and understanding the invisible feedback loop in every group interaction isn’t an innate superpower. It’s a practical set of observation skills that anyone can learn and refine.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

  • Why reading the room is about observation, not mind-reading—and why anyone can learn it
  • The big myth about social intelligence—and how being a better observer is the real secret
  • The four universal behavioral cues that signal audience engagement (phone checking, yawning, fidgeting, blank stares)
  • Real-world examples: what these cues mean in meetings, networking events, and interviews
  • The importance of interpreting cues in context (and the dangers of knee-jerk misinterpretations)
  • Easy, low-pressure ways to scan a room and spot behavioral patterns
  • How to respond when you see signs of disengagement—without making it awkward or calling people out
  • Techniques to shift energy, boost engagement, and reset the group dynamic
  • Transitioning from self-consciousness to others-awareness to become a more intentional and confident communicator
  • A simple exercise to practice observation skills in your next meeting

By the end of this episode, you’ll have a set of repeatable techniques to help you read any room and respond with confidence—no matter the situation. Remember, it’s about progress, not perfection, and every conversation is a chance to build this skill.

If you want to dive deeper, head over to speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com to grab your free eBook on overcoming the top public speaking challenges, and check out the format for the Public Speaking course. Your voice is powerful, and it’s time to use it to change your world.


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Overcoming Fear on Stage: Why Every Speaker Should Try Stand-Up Comedy with John Ball03 nov. 202500:46:41

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Have you ever wondered if charisma is something you’re born with, or if it can be built—and more importantly, how it impacts your confidence and effectiveness as a communicator? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I sit down with John Ball, a keynote and presentation coach who’s spent years helping speakers, coaches, and leaders boost their influence from competent to captivating. Today, we dig into the journey of finding your authentic voice as a speaker, the joys and challenges of adding humor to presentations, and the real value of showing up with warmth and confidence, wherever you are in the world.

John Ball brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the table—not only as the host of The Present Influence Podcast and co-host of the Coaching Clinic podcast, but also as a professional speaker on topics like personal mastery and leadership communication. His global perspective as someone who’s lived in both the UK and Spain and spent years as a flight attendant puts him in a unique position to discuss connecting with different cultures, and how traveling has shaped his approach to communication and coaching.

In this episode, we cover:

  • How traveling and working abroad expands your communication skills and comfort zones
  • Using humor and warmth as universal connectors across cultures
  • Why every speaker should try stand-up comedy at least once
  • The difference between charisma and charm—and how to spot “fake” charisma
  • Techniques to build genuine charisma (even if you’re not naturally extroverted)
  • The process of testing and refining stories for presentations
  • Emotional leadership and the responsibility you hold as a speaker
  • Why presence and vulnerability matter more than perfection
  • How to avoid charisma killers like overthinking and ego
  • The importance of living with intention and making positive choices in how you show up
  • Stage time as the single most effective way to improve your communication
  • Storytelling tips: focusing on transformation, emotional flow, and audience engagement

If you’re ready to take your communication from competent to captivating—and want to put more humor, warmth, and charisma into every conversation that counts—this episode is packed with stories, strategies, and encouragement to get you started. Ready to step up, lighten up, and speak with more confidence than ever before? Listen now, and let’s grow together.

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Why Fake Networking is Killing Your Career | Tim Newman Speaks30 oct. 202500:10:36

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Do you ever feel like you're doing all the “right” things at networking events, but somehow you still walk away with a stack of business cards—yet none of those connections turn into genuine relationships or career opportunities? If so, this episode is for you.

I'm Tim Newman, host of Speaking with Confidence, and in today’s solo episode, I dig deep into the art (and science) of networking—and why most traditional approaches are holding you back. You’ll hear why so many professionals get stuck in a transactional mindset, treating networking as a numbers game rather than a process of real relationship-building. If you’ve ever wondered why your networking feels hollow (or downright fake), we uncover the gap between “collecting contacts” and creating meaningful professional relationships that truly advance your career.

We start with the classic post-event scenario: you’ve met loads of people, exchanged business cards, but later realize you can barely remember anyone and end up tossing those cards into that infamous desk drawer where connections go to die. I call this “fake networking,” and it’s not just ineffective—it’s potentially damaging to your professional reputation.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

  • Why collecting business cards isn’t the same as building real professional relationships
  • The damaging effects of transactional, numbers-based networking mindsets
  • The two most common forms of fake networking: “self-serving connections” and “ghost follow-ups”
  • The long-term reputational risks of fake networking tactics
  • How leadership and influence (not just connections) determine your career potential
  • A two-part strategy to shift to authentic, value-driven networking
  • How to discover and articulate your unique value before every interaction
  • The importance of research and matching your value to others’ real needs
  • Why reliable follow-through is the ultimate networking credibility builder
  • How to become the kind of connection others seek out—so opportunities come to you

If you want to break out of the cycle of shallow networking and start making connections that truly count, this episode will give you both the insight and the practical steps you need. Remember, your next professional interaction is an opportunity to show up differently, lead with value, and nurture a network that lifts you higher.

Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence. Check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook, The Top 20 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, and find details on our Formula for Public Speaking course. Your voice has the power to change it—see you next time!

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Mastering Body Language and Authenticity in Public Speaking: Insights from Rachael Edmondson-Clarke27 oct. 202500:46:58

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Have you ever wondered what it really takes to speak confidently in front of any audience—whether it’s a crowded boardroom, a theatre-stage packed with anticipation, or a busy hair salon at age twelve? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I welcome back the incredible Rachael Edmondson-Clarke for her second appearance—a rare privilege on this show! Rachael’s journey from sweeping floors in her mom’s beauty salon to leading professional speakers across the UK and Ireland is more than inspirational—it’s a masterclass in authentic communication, building trust, and continuous growth.

In this episode, we dive deep into how early experiences shape our ability to read nonverbal cues, remain genuine, and adapt our energy to truly connect with others. Rachael shares the story of working reception in her mom’s salon—juggling two telephones, a crowd of clients, and a team of stylists—all before she was sixteen! She reflects on how tuning into body language transformed not only her customer service skills but also her capacity to lead and build trust, skills that have served her throughout her career.

Rachael takes us on a whirlwind tour of her professional journey: from impactful presenting workshops, to drama stages, to corporate boardrooms, and finally to becoming vice president of the Professional Speaking Association UK & Ireland. She shares candid lessons from competing in the Speaker Factor competition, including her “banana and dark chocolate” ritual, and how even a tough performance can be the launchpad for real growth when you have the right community supporting you.

We talk about the crucial importance of congruence—making sure your words, body language, and tone all align to build trust and credibility. Rachael’s anecdotes highlight that storytelling isn’t just about big, heroic moments; it’s also about the everyday stories (including her infamous toothbrush battery saga!) that make you relatable and memorable to any audience.

Throughout our conversation, we emphasize how practice, resilience, and vulnerability are key to developing as a speaker. Whether it’s learning from an uncomfortable video replay or dusting off your presentation after setbacks, the journey to confident communication is ongoing—and full of opportunities to embrace humor, share truth, and connect authentically.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

  • How reading body language and energy can elevate your communication—starting at the salon reception desk
  • Why being congruent (aligning words and actions) builds trust with any audience
  • Rachael’s transition from corporate marketing roles to leading professional speakers—and what she learned along the way
  • The value of continuous learning and putting your skills into practice (even if it means watching yourself on video!)
  • Behind-the-scenes secrets of the Speaker Factor competition (including performance rituals, nerves, and bouncing back from setbacks)
  • The pivotal role of storytelling—why everyday moments matter as much as big, dramatic stories
  • Using humor (self-deprecating or otherwise) as a powerful connector and communicator
  • Practical advice for anyone looking to build confidence: find your own style, practice, and seek feedback from a supportive community

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The Secrets to Starting a Presentation Strong | Tim Newman Speaks23 oct. 202500:10:32

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Have you ever wondered why those first few seconds of a presentation seem to matter so much—and what you can do to make an unforgettable first impression? That’s exactly what we’re diving into in today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence.

As your host, I’m Tim Newman—a recovering college professor turned communication coach—here to help you transform how you show up in critical professional moments. In this solo episode, I dig deep into the pivotal opening seconds of any conversation or presentation, explaining just how quickly our audiences form judgments about us, often before we’ve even said a word. If you’ve ever stumbled over your opening line, tossed out a nervous “um,” or rushed an apology, you’re not alone. But research shows those tiny signals have an outsized impact on how credible and confident we come across.

We kick off this episode looking at the science behind first impressions and what’s actually happening in your audience’s mind before you’ve begun to speak. I break down how nonverbal cues—like body language, eye contact, and breath—are unconsciously evaluated, leading listeners to decide, in milliseconds, whether you’re someone worth tuning into. Whether you’re entering a boardroom or joining a casual conversation, those early moments count more than we often realize.

Here’s the game changer: I introduce a simple, research-backed technique called the “silent transformation.” At its heart, this approach asks you to pause—intentionally—for a few seconds before you speak. What feels awkward from the speaker’s side actually signals steadiness and control to everyone watching. I walk you through why this pause lowers your anxiety, helps focus your thoughts, and sets the stage for a much stronger connection with your audience.

Of course, how you follow that pause is just as important as the pause itself. I share the elements of crafting a memorable first line, offering examples of surprising statistics, bold questions, and vivid short stories that instantly generate curiosity and relevance. You'll hear practical routines to make silence feel natural, concise strategies to build anticipation, and methods to ensure your opening words have real impact.

By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clear, actionable plan for your next presentation:

  • The psychological evidence behind snap judgments in opening seconds
  • How nervous habits derail your credibility, and what to do instead
  • The silent transformation technique: why a deliberate pause works wonders
  • How to practice silence so it feels empowering, not awkward
  • The three reliable ways to open with impact (statistic, question, or story)
  • Connecting your opener to your audience for immediate relevance
  • Why concise, rehearsed beginnings make you appear more confident and thoughtful
  • A challenge for your next presentation, and a routine for daily practice

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to move beyond shaky introductions and truly command attention from the moment they step into the room. If you’re ready to transform your presence and make every word count, start with these tools—and don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and resources to keep building your skills.

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Self-Advocacy for Women: Speaking Up and Shaping Your Professional Journey20 oct. 202500:48:50

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Have you ever wondered why working hard and being excellent isn't always enough to get noticed at work, especially if you're aiming for a leadership role? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we explore why self-advocacy is the secret ingredient to career advancement—and how not speaking up can leave you overlooked, no matter your achievements.

In today's show, I’m joined by Rosie Zilinskas, a certified high performance coach, Colby consultant, and former Fortune 500 executive vice president. Rosie’s own journey through the corporate ranks brought her face to face with the reality so many mid-career women encounter: results and dedication alone don’t guarantee recognition or promotion. After enduring a difficult divorce and becoming the sole provider for her young children, Rosie doubled down on her work ethic—only to watch others move ahead while she waited to be noticed. The breakthrough came when a senior executive told her, “You never said anything,” and this sparked a powerful realization about the importance of communicating your ambitions.

This episode is packed with insights and stories about:

  • Why excellence alone isn’t enough for career advancement
  • The necessity of vocalizing your ambitions and goals at work
  • Key strategies to self-advocate and communicate your value
  • How generational and gender differences affect workplace perceptions
  • Handling feedback: turning criticism into growth fuel
  • The four main barriers women face when seeking promotion (worthiness, popularity, skills, visibility)
  • Actionable preparation tips for meetings, interviews, and networking events
  • Overcoming emotional inhibitors and reframing limiting beliefs
  • The role of self-awareness in building confidence and driving your career forward

Rosie delivers practical advice for anyone wanting to take ownership of their professional development, push past self-imposed obstacles, and show up confidently—no matter where you are in your journey. If you’re ready to stop waiting to be chosen and start actively building a career you love, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts you need.

Tune in now and discover how speaking up for yourself truly changes your journey.

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Surviving Public Speaking Without Time to Prep | Tim Newman Speaks16 oct. 202500:10:30

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What would you do if you were asked to give a speech on the spot—with zero time to prepare? That’s the question we’re tackling in today’s episode, and if you’ve ever felt your heart drop when called on unexpectedly, this one’s for you.

Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence—I’m Tim Newman, a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today, we’re diving into the “emergency kit” that pros use when they have to speak without warning. If you’ve ever found yourself in a meeting, tasked to cover for a colleague who didn’t show up, or asked for a project update out of the blue, you know the stress of thinking on your feet. While nothing replaces thoughtful preparation, everyone needs a go-to strategy for those moments when life throws curveballs.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

  • How to use the PREP method for instant structure
  • The power and practicality of the Rule of Three
  • The “ten second trick” for gaining time and composure
  • Why stories and examples beat theories every time
  • Real-life scripts for handling pressure in meetings and presentations
  • How to combine these techniques for a clear, confident 5-minute presentation—even when you’re put on the spot

Thanks for tuning in to Speaking with Confidence. Until next time—keep practicing, keep growing, and keep letting your voice be heard.

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Creating Trust and Value: Communication Lessons for Leaders from Melissa Robinson-Winemiller13 oct. 202500:44:23

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Have you ever wondered why empathy is often considered a “soft skill,” and whether it truly has a place in driving real results within leadership, organizations, and communication? On this week’s episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle this question head-on with my guest, Dr. Melissa Robinson-Winemiller, an expert in empathy, emotional intelligence, and visionary leadership.

I’m Tim Newman, your host–a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Every week, I help listeners build the skills and confidence they need to show up powerfully in every conversation. Today, I’m thrilled to welcome Dr. Winemiller, whose mission is to help leaders become future visionaries by making empathy skills-based, data-driven, and results-oriented. Melissa brings a rich background as both a world-traveling musician and a former academic who has dedicated her life to understanding and teaching empathy for profit, productivity, and innovation.

Our conversation kicks off with Melissa’s fascinating backstory: how a lifelong passion for music took her across the globe, on tours and prestigious stages, and even saw her playing French horn alongside legends like Ray Charles and conversing with David Ogden Steers (MAS*H’s Winchester). As Melissa shares, her journey from the world of performance to academia—and ultimately to empathy research—was shaped by witnessing both the highs of artistic connection and the lows of broken, unempathetic systems.

Here's what we covered:

  • Melissa’s journey from international touring musician to empathy expert and academic
  • Life and communication lessons from the world of music performance
  • The vulnerability of public speaking versus musical performance
  • Teaching and connecting with students through listening and individualized communication
  • The real impact of empathy (and lack thereof) in education and business
  • Why empathy is undervalued—and how research supports its ROI
  • Strategies for leaders to foster trust, engagement, and innovation through empathy
  • The Johari Window model for communication and self-awareness
  • The difference between kindness and niceness in leadership and business
  • Practical ways to build empathy in teams and organizations (plus when real change requires a leadership overhaul)
  • The case for embedding empathy in educational systems from an early age
  • Real world examples from Melissa’s book about the financial and human costs of broken organizations
  • Where to find Melissa’s book, connect online, and catch her TEDx talk (soon to be released!)

Melissa’s insights go far beyond theory—they’re deeply rooted in lived experience, rigorous research, and a powerful vision for future-forward leadership. Don’t miss this episode if you want to learn how to use empathy not just to “feel good,” but to drive lasting, meaningful results in your work and life.

Thanks for joining me—Tim Newman—on this journey to speaking with confidence. Be sure to check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook, “Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” and stay tuned for our next episode!

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Storytelling Techniques for Interviews | Tim Newman Speaks09 oct. 202500:10:39

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Have you ever walked out of an interview thinking you nailed it, only to get that dreaded rejection email? If you’ve ever wondered why your answers weren’t as memorable as you hoped, you’re definitely not alone—and this episode of Speaking with Confidence is for you.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and communication coach, and today we’re diving deep into a question that can make all the difference between being passed over and landing the job: How do you turn routine interview answers into momentum-packed stories that recruiters remember?

In this solo episode, we explore the power of storytelling in interviews—specifically, how moving away from bland job description recaps and instead zeroing in on moments when you made a real difference can set you apart from the crowd. We’ll unpack the biggest mistake most candidates make: defaulting to flat, activity-based responses that tell interviewers what you did, but not how you moved the needle.

You’ll hear why showing measurable progress is so powerful, both for impressing human hiring managers and even AI-driven applicant tracking systems. We’ll dig into the neuroscience behind why stories that highlight change and results are 22 times more memorable than plain lists of tasks. Most importantly, I’ll arm you with my Momentum Story Blueprint—a repeatable, actionable formula based on the STAR method that will help you frame your contributions in ways that recruiters will notice (and remember).

In today’s episode, we cover:

  • The real reason so many candidates blend together in interviews—and how you can stand out
  • How to move beyond listing job duties and instead showcase your impact, growth, and results
  • The science behind why outcome-focused stories stick with interviewers
  • How John Maxwell’s Momentum Principle applies to interviews (and why “the law of the big Mo” is your secret weapon)
  • Why skill-based hiring trends and even AI screening tools favor momentum-driven answers
  • A step-by-step breakdown of the Momentum Story Blueprint: how to define the situation, detail actions, and cement your results with metrics
  • Real-life examples that show you how to transform your raw experiences into compelling evidence of future potential
  • Practical tips for sharpening your stories, practicing them for video or audio interviews, and ensuring every answer packs a punch

By the end of this episode, you’ll know how to show—clearly and confidently—not just what you’ve done, but the visible difference you can make. Whether you’re preparing for your next big interview or just want to get better at communicating your value, this episode gives you the tools to prove you’re the candidate who brings momentum wherever you go.

Ready to move your career story forward? Hit play and let’s get started. And don’t forget—after you listen, head over to speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and more resources to help you become a memorable, confident communicator.

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Leadership with Heart: Restoring Balance and Purpose Without Burning Out 06 oct. 202500:49:55

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Have you ever wondered what it really takes to lead with clarity, courage, and impact, without burning out or losing yourself in the process? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we dive deep into that question and explore the real-life challenges and mindset shifts required to build a fulfilling, sustainable leadership journey.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today, I’m joined by an inspiring guest: Rachael Edmondson-Clarke. Rachael brings an extraordinary wealth of experience from her years as a senior corporate leader to her current role running Elevar, her own leadership consultancy. Over the past decade, she's helped countless high-performing leaders and teams show up bravely, with clarity and authenticity, even in challenging environments. Rachael is also a former regional Vice President and President of the Professional Speaking Association in the UK and Ireland, and a sought-after speaker, coach, and consultant. She’s the perfect person to help us unpack the realities of leadership, personal growth, and balance in a fast-paced world.

In our conversation, Rachael opens up about what it was like climbing the corporate ladder before facing a sudden, life-changing wake-up call—a moment that forced her to reevaluate everything she thought she wanted. She describes the intense pressure of trying to “push through,” the toll it took on her health and relationships, and how it ultimately led to her collapsing in her office. Most importantly, she shares how she rebuilt her life and career from that moment of crisis, moving from survival mode to creating a business that aligns with her values, energy, and mission.


Other highlights include:

  • The hidden costs of always being “on” and why biology can’t be outsmarted by mindset alone
  • Practical approaches for restoring your energy and avoiding the traps of toxic productivity culture
  • How organizational culture and unaddressed emotional needs impact team engagement, trust, and retention
  • Tips for effective boundary-setting, especially in meeting-heavy, high-pressure environments
  • The importance of honest, direct feedback from mentors and creating an inner circle that pushes you to grow—and how “fierce empathy” is the balance between tough love and real support
  • A free tool from Rachael (The Pause) to cut through overwhelm and help you lead from truth, not fear
  • Why the real value of personal development isn’t just your own growth, but how you show up as the leader the world needs

If you’re ready to step out of survival mode and into leadership that’s both impactful and sustainable—whether in your organization, your community, or your own household—this episode is packed with insights you’ll want to put into action right away.

As always, you can find resources and Rachael’s free download in the show notes. And don’t forget to grab your free copy of my Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers, or check out our public speaking course at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com.

Remember, your voice has power. Use it well, and you can change the world.

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How to Communicate with Difficult Coworkers | Tim Newman02 oct. 202500:11:10

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Have you ever left a meeting feeling like you spent the whole time talking about yourself—or maybe stuck listening to someone else do it? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I’m diving into a challenge that creeps into nearly every workplace: dealing with the “me monster” and transforming conversations to actually build connection, trust, and meaningful collaboration.

I’m Tim Newman, your host, communication coach, and former college professor. This week, I’m tackling the tricky question: How do you handle difficult coworkers or even notice when you might be the “difficult one” yourself? In this episode, you won’t have to guess—I’ll show you simple ways to spot the habits that undermine teamwork and share a repeatable blueprint for having conversations that truly make a difference.

We start by recognizing an all-too-common office scenario: a team frantically working on a crashed server, while one coworker (let’s call her Sarah) dominates the conversation with off-topic stories about her weekend. While Sarah isn’t a villain—just another busy teammate slipping into autopilot—her “me monster” tendencies chip away at team cohesion and productivity. I’ll walk you through how science explains this instinct and why our brains so easily 

Here’s what you’ll walk away with:

  • An honest look at what drives the “me monster” and how to recognize it in yourself and others
  • Three red flags that signal you’re derailing conversations
  • John Maxwell’s five-step Law of Connection—how to set your agenda aside, ask great questions, lean in, recall meaningful details, and follow-up
  • Practical ways to apply a collaboration mindset, even with the toughest coworkers, and scripts you can start using today
  • Awareness of how small communication changes can build trust, psychological safety, and unlock creative solutions on any team
  • A micro-experiment for your next meeting to shift from “me-first” to shared success

Thanks for joining me on Speaking with Confidence. Remember, your voice has the power to change the dynamic of any team and every conversation. Keep practicing, keep connecting, and I’ll see you next time!

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Transforming Self-Talk and Breaking the Victim Mindset with Clay Moffat29 sept. 202501:04:07

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Welcome back to “Speaking with Confidence.” I’m Tim Newman, your host and recovering college professor turned communication coach. In this episode, I dive into how radical responsibility shapes not only the way we communicate but the core of how we relate to ourselves and others. We look beyond typical “confidence” and get to the heart of conviction—the mindset shift that changes how we show up in our lives.

Joining me is Clay Moffat, a Navy veteran and performance strategist with a truly remarkable journey. Clay has been on top, coaching billionaires and building a seven-figure business—only to lose it all in a high-stakes startup crash. He faced the frightening possibility of permanent blindness while rebuilding his life, and from those experiences, Clay created the concept of the "trust trap"—the focus of his new book. Clay’s work helps people break free from the nervous system patterns and mental habits that keep us stuck in self-doubt, blame, and unproductive cycles, teaching not just confidence, but conviction rooted in personal power.

Our conversation starts with the central idea: what does it mean to take “radical responsibility” for our lives? Clay explains that it’s not about blaming yourself, but about owning even that “1%” of any situation that you can control or influence. As Clay puts it, reclaiming any sort of personal power, freedom, and forward motion in life begins with this kind of self-honesty. We talk about why the question “Why is this happening to me?” traps us in victimhood, and how reframing it to “How did I create this?” can shift us from powerlessness to agency. Through everyday stories—from missed vacations to major financial decisions—Clay shares how this mindset applies whether the stakes are small or life-changing.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

  • What is radical responsibility and how does it differ from blame or self-criticism?
  • The difference between “confidence” and “conviction,” and why conviction matters for real communication and presence.
  • How to spot when you’re stuck in victim thinking, and the questions to ask yourself to regain personal power.
  • Practical strategies for transforming negative self-talk, including a four-step process to create a more supportive inner dialogue.
  • The hidden ways family patterns and early conditioning shape our self-image and choices—often beneath conscious awareness.
  • Why we ignore red flags and how our brains’ desire for shortcuts can create unhelpful mental “brackets” about people and situations.
  • Real-life stories from Clay about high-stakes decision making, resilience, and bouncing back from major setbacks.
  • How to own your story, communicate more authentically, and set a new standard for leadership, parenting, and self-trust.
  • The power of mindset—the small language shifts that can open new pathways for growth, resilience, and effective action.
  • Insights from “Trust Trap” on reclaiming authority over your life—even when circumstances and the world try to pull your power away.

Listen in to learn how taking radical responsibility can revolutionize how you see yourself, how you show up in the world, and the trust you create with others and yourself.

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Turning Misunderstandings Into Magic | Tim Newman Speaks25 sept. 202500:11:44

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Have you ever wondered if miscommunication might actually help you become a more engaging and memorable communicator? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I explore a surprising twist on a familiar idea: sometimes, leaving a little room for confusion or ambiguity can actually boost curiosity, spark discussion, and fuel unforgettable moments—on stage, online, and even in negotiation.

I'm Tim Newman, your host—a recovering college professor turned communication coach—and I’ve spent over 80 episodes talking about the power of clear communication. But today, I flip the script and dive into why miscommunication isn’t always the enemy it’s made out to be. From viral memes and comedy to business leadership and marketing, I share the latest research and real-world examples of how a bit of strategic ambiguity can capture attention, create energy, and invite others to actively engage with your message.

No guest joins me for this episode, but I take you on a journey through some fascinating insights from communication scholars, comedians, media analysts, and strategists. I unpack how, across a variety of settings, purposeful ambiguity can spark engagement, inspire creativity, and keep people talking long after the conversation ends.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

  • Why the gap between what’s said and what’s meant is the secret behind viral memes, comedy punchlines, and successful negotiations.
  • Research showing that a little uncertainty or open-endedness can actually draw people in and hold their attention—sometimes much more than a perfectly explained message.
  • How memes like “Distracted Boyfriend” and “Woman Yelling at Cat” harness ambiguity to invite endless audience participation and creativity.
  • The role of strategic ambiguity in business, leadership, and marketing—for example, how broad or aspirational language attracts more candidates and participants by letting them see themselves in the picture.
  • How comedians turn miscommunication into laughs by intentionally leading audiences down the “wrong path” before delivering the twist.
  • The importance of timing, empathy, and precision when using ambiguity—whether you’re crafting a brand campaign, negotiating, or writing a killer joke.
  • The line between clever ambiguity and harmful confusion—where to draw boundaries to make sure your message is effective and respectful.
  • Practical tips to experiment with curiosity gaps and partial premises in your own speaking and writing, while always putting your audience first.

If you want to make your communication more engaging and memorable—or just want to understand why the most viral moments are often the least perfectly polished—this episode offers a new perspective on why “less clarity” might, at times, be more powerful.

Be sure to grab your free eBook, The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and check out my Formula for Public Speaking groups. And remember: your voice has the power to change the world. Catch you next time!

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Unlock Public Speaking Confidence: Lessons from Military, Survival TV, and TEDx with Terry L. Fossum22 sept. 202500:52:29

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What does it really take to become a powerful speaker, even if you’re terrified of public speaking? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I’m taking you deep into the strategies, stories, and mindset shifts that will help you overcome your fears and truly connect with any audience.

I’m your host, Tim Newman, a former college professor turned communication coach, and today, I’m joined by a truly inspiring guest: Terry L. Fossum. Terry isn’t just a survival reality show winner; he's a Wall Street Journal, Amazon, and Barnes & Noble best-selling author, a keynote speaker, and his TEDx talk has been recognized as one of the top 30 talks in the country. He’s also raised millions for charity and taught at the MBA level. Most importantly for our listeners, Terry knows a thing or two about turning nerves into powerful moments on stage, and he’s passionate about helping others do the same.

In our conversation, we dove into why real, honest, and clear communication is at the heart of succeeding under pressure, both in survival situations and in everyday life. Terry shares how being on a survival reality show, partnered with someone totally opposite from him, forced him to communicate at a whole new level. He also reveals how his experiences as a scoutmaster and military officer taught him the value of finding the good in people from all backgrounds and leading with purpose.

Here’s what we talk about in this episode:

  • How survival skills and communication go hand-in-hand (with plenty of hilarious and moving stories from Terry’s reality show days)
  • What to do when team conflict and stress threaten to derail your message or working relationships
  • The power of owning your mistakes, giving others grace, and building credibility through authenticity
  • Why emotion, not facts, drives action and how to leverage that in any speech or presentation
  • The “position of power” technique to conquer nerves and step on stage with confidence every time
  • The critical first five seconds: hooking your audience and making the talk about them
  • Why being vulnerable and sharing your failures is actually your superpower as a communicator
  • An intro to the SIMPLE framework for public speaking, and how to build talks that get standing ovations (and results!)
  • Tips for landing, crafting, and performing a TEDx talk that really stands out

By the end of this episode, you’ll have actionable inspiration and tools to step into your own power as a speaker, no matter where you’re starting from. And always remember: your voice can change the world.

Don’t forget to check out Terry’s book, his podcast “The Comeback Chronicles”, and all of the resources we mention, including the free IdeaScore AI tool to score your TEDx ideas.

Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence. Subscribe to never miss an episode and visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for additional tips and free resources to support your journey to becoming a confident and impactful speaker.

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Turning Ordinary Moments Into Powerful Communication | Tim Newman Speaks18 sept. 202500:11:33

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Have you ever thought, “I don’t have any stories to tell,” or wondered where people get those everyday stories that connect so powerfully with their audience? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive headfirst into that question and show you exactly how to spot and share the remarkable stories already hiding in your daily life.

I’m Tim Newman, your host, and as a recovering college professor turned communication coach, I know first-hand how easy it is to believe your life doesn’t serve up “epic” stories worth sharing. But the truth I’ve learned through both experience and science is that your best stories are simpler, closer, and more relatable than you ever imagined. Today, we’re flipping the script on storytelling by focusing on the small, ordinary moments that hold hidden magic when you know how to uncover and frame them.

This episode is just me no guest because I wanted to dig deep into my favorite topic: the practical art of everyday storytelling. I share personal experiences (including my own mishaps and embarrassments), research findings, and creative exercises you can use right away.

Here’s what we tackle together:

  • Why chasing after “epic” stories is a waste of energy, and how your camera roll, junk drawer, and overheard conversations are loaded with potential story material.
  • The science behind why small, vulnerable stories are more memorable and create stronger audience connection than polished, fact-based presentations.
  • My three-step rule for quickly turning small disasters (like burning your grilled cheese or missing the bus) into engaging stories anyone can relate to.
  • How to turn random objects (think broken watches or lone hairpins) into compelling story seeds using a practical three-step exercise.
  • Techniques for mining everyday dialogue like coffee shop chatter for real, emotional narrative arcs, and how to practice capturing those authentic moments.
  • Why sharing imperfect, unpolished stories is so powerful (spoiler: it helps your listeners remember and see themselves in your story).
  • A practical challenge for you: pick five ordinary things over the next week and use the three-step micro story method to discover just how many stories your “ordinary” life truly holds.

If you’ve ever felt stuck when someone told you to “just tell a story,” by the end of this episode, you’ll have the tools and most importantly, the mindset to pull stories from even the most unremarkable corners of your day. Remember, your daily life is full of story prompts just waiting to be told, and those stories are your greatest assets as a communicator and connector.

Don’t forget to grab your free ebook, “The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and check out my Formula for Public Speaking course. Thanks for joining me, your voice truly has the power to change the world. See you next time!



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Gen Z Career Secrets: Confidence, Soft Skills, and Navigating First Jobs with Brianne Rush15 sept. 202500:46:49

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Have you ever wondered what it truly takes to stand out, move up quickly in your career, and speak confidently, especially when you’re just starting out? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dig deep into the real skills that make the difference between simply doing the work and truly excelling–skills that aren’t always on the job description, but that employers look for and reward.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a former college professor turned communication coach. My passion is helping people build the soft skills that lead to real results, whether in storytelling, public speaking, or just showing up with more confidence. This week, I’m thrilled to speak with Brianne Rush, the founder of The Independence Lab. Brianne is a powerhouse when it comes to helping Gen Z women make the leap from college to career. She rose through the ranks incredibly quickly from intern to managing editor in a year, and employee to VP in four years by learning to decode workplace dynamics, advocate for herself, and, most importantly, overcome her fear of public speaking.

We kick off the conversation with Brianne’s story—how she knew from the age of eight that she wanted to move to New York to be a journalist, and what it felt like to finally live that dream. Brianne shares what inspired her to choose New York, how her experiences in dance and performance influenced her, and why total immersion in a city full of energy was essential to her identity and early career. She explains the lessons she learned—not just about working hard and climbing the ranks, but about truly living in the moment and building genuine connections, both professional and personal.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

  • Brianne’s journey from dreaming of journalism in New York to landing and advancing in her dream role
  • The importance of immersion, living in the moment, and building meaningful experiences early in your career
  • Lessons about working hard, networking, and creating opportunities for yourself—even when you start at the bottom
  • What employers are really looking for in hiring today: the power of soft skills like passion, curiosity, proactivity, and communication
  • How to stand out authentically in interviews—using storytelling, personalized cover letters, and honest conversation instead of relying only on AI
  • Practical strategies to display confidence, curiosity, and proactivity in every step of your job search
  • Brianne’s advice on career advancement: emotional intelligence skills, self-awareness, handling setbacks, and the value of progress over perfection
  • Navigating boundaries, learning to say no, and prioritizing projects that advance your career (with a special focus on women in the workplace)
  • Gen Z’s growing focus on self-knowledge, life transitions, and ditching outdated hustle culture for a healthier approach
  • The mission behind The Independence Lab and actionable resources for building emotional intelligence

If you’re looking for real advice on how to marry soft skills and confidence with actionable career moves, this episode is for you—whether you’re early in your career, managing the next big transition, or helping others find their way. Be sure to check out Brianne’s free resources and connect with us to keep leveling up your communicat

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From Stage Fright to Spotlight | Tim Newman Speaks11 sept. 202500:15:56

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What does it really take to transform your nerves into confidence when speaking in front of an audience—no matter how big or small? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I take you behind the scenes of my own speaking journey, sharing raw stories, practical takeaways, and the coaching that helped me grow in unexpected ways.

This week, I pull back the curtain on my experience as part of the Maxwell Leadership Certified Team. After years of preaching the importance of lifelong learning, I put myself on the line—joining the team, earning advanced presenter certifications, and even making a run at standing on stage at the International Maxwell Conference. Today, I want to show you what growth looks like up close, and how vital it is to seek feedback, embrace vulnerability, and focus on progress over perfection.

To help me along this journey, I worked closely with Roddy Galbraith, none other than John Maxwell’s own speaking coach. If you’ve ever wondered whether even the best need coaching, this episode is for you. Roddy pushed me to look deeper at my message, delivery, and what I genuinely wanted my audience to walk away with. Together, we honed a simple three-minute story—one I’d performed more than a hundred times—transforming it from a personal anecdote into a powerful teaching tool.

In this episode, you'll hear:

  • My own public speaking horror story—the first time I had to speak in college and what happened when anxiety got the best of me
  • How that one embarrassing moment became the foundation for my growth as a speaker and coach
  • The grueling, but rewarding, process of preparing for the Maxwell International Conference, and what it felt like to just miss the finals by two seconds
  • A step-by-step look at the evolution of my speech—from the initial draft, through Roddy’s constructive feedback, to the final live version
  • The importance of coaching and why even experienced speakers need fresh outside perspectives
  • Strategies to shift your mindset from fearing the worst to aiming for the best every time you get up to speak
  • Why perfection isn’t relatable, but vulnerability, honesty, and even a little messiness are
  • How to take that next step in your own speaking journey—with tools and encouragement for breaking through nerves and building unshakable confidence

If you’re ever wondered how to face your speaking fears, connect more authentically, or grow past setbacks, you'll find tools and inspiration in this episode. Remember, your voice truly does have the power to change your world—but only if you choose to use it.

Thank you, as always, for supporting Speaking with Confidence. If you’re looking to keep leveling up, don’t forget to grab the free eBook, “The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” and sign up for my Formula for Public Speaking course. Progress, not perfection—that’s our north star. Tune in and let’s keep moving forward, together.



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Embracing Cultural Diversity for Powerful Public Speaking with Rebecca Williams08 sept. 202500:58:36

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Have you ever wondered how living and working abroad can radically transform not just your communication style, but also the way you guide and lead others? In today’s episode, we dive deep into the world of cross-cultural communication, public speaking, and storytelling with our guest Rebecca Williams, a true globetrotter and expert public speaking coach who has worked with everyone from Stanford MBAs to teams at Google, Meta, and Netflix.

Hey, I’m Tim Newman, and on this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we’re getting practical about what it really takes to show up with confidence and credibility in any communication setting whether that’s on stage, in a boardroom, or even navigating the cultural nuances of a meeting overseas.

Rebecca and I kick things off by discussing her journey from Wisconsin to living in places like Germany, Japan, Australia, Nepal, Spain, Portugal, and Mexico. She shares how her international experiences have planted humility and empathy at the heart of her coaching approach, reminding us that communication is never one-size-fits-all. In many countries, people speak two, three, or even more languages just to participate professionally, and often it’s those little cultural cues, not just words that make or break your message.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

  • How living abroad shaped Rebecca’s empathetic, multicultural approach to coaching communication
  • What it means to be a “guest star” in the country of your audience
  • How to avoid cross-cultural blunders and build trust across cultures
  • The universal challenge of negative self-talk during public speaking and how to work through it
  • Rebecca’s “First Five Formula” for nailing your presentation opening
  • How specificity makes stories stick and how to find the right stories within your own life
  • The role of humor (and how even non-comedians can use it effectively)
  • The current and future impact of AI on communication, public speaking, and storytelling
  • Insights into Rebecca’s book “Presenting. Presenting.” and why it was designed as an interview
  • Where to connect with Rebecca and access her resources

This episode is jam-packed with real stories, practical frameworks, and a refreshing perspective on developing your own authentic voice whether you’re addressing an international audience or conquering your own internal doubts. I hope you enjoy listening as much as I enjoyed this conversation with Rebecca!

Don’t forget to grab Rebecca’s book, check out more resources at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and connect with us on LinkedIn or Instagram. Your voice really does have the power to change the world. Let's keep showing up and speaking with confidence.


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3 Steps for Public Speaking Under Pressure | Tim Newman Speaks04 sept. 202500:12:36

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Have you ever frozen under pressure when someone in your audience throws a tough, even hostile question your way? You’re not alone, and this episode is all about teaching you how to handle those moments with confidence and composure.

Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence. I’m Tim Newman, a recovering college professor turned communication coach. My passion is helping you build the soft skills that spark real progress in your career and life, especially the ability to stay cool, clear, and credible in the spotlight. Whether you breeze through presentations or find public speaking downright nerve-wracking, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you face even the most challenging moments on stage.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

  • The 3-step credibility playbook for tough questions (Acknowledge, Provide Evidence, Call to Action)
  • Aligning with the ABCD method and why defensive reactions hurt more than they help
  • Using evidence and social proof to handle pushback and skeptical questions
  • Reading audience motives and managing both “genuine” and “maddening” challengers
  • Body language moves that signal control and calm
  • How to use empathy, validation, and audience engagement to redirect heated moments
  • “Sleight of mouth” reframing tactics and building your own objection-response scripts
  • Scripted responses for handling multi-part and high-pressure questions with authority
  • Turning objections into opportunities and building forward momentum

Progress, not perfection, is the goal. Pick just one strategy whether ABCD, a validation line, or the quick reframe and rehearse it for five minutes so you’re ready when the moment comes. Remember, confidence in those pressure-packed moments isn’t about never feeling nerves; it’s about being prepared enough to choose your response with authority.

For even more resources, visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for a free eBook (“The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them”) or to sign up for our Formula for Public Speaking training. Your voice is your power, thanks for joining me on this journey. Until next time, keep practicing and keep speaking with confidence!


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Building Real Confidence and Communication Skills for Gen Z with Nick Batchelder01 sept. 202500:49:50

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How can young adults overcome overwhelm and start communicating with genuine confidence in today’s digital age?

Today, I’m thrilled to be joined by Nick Batchelder—a 21-year-old author, podcaster, and speaker who’s committed to making sure fewer people reach their 30s saying, “I wish I would have done more in my 20s.” Nick brings a rare peer perspective to personal development, focusing on the unique challenges and strengths of people in their 20s and early 30s. He’s already written a book, built a growing podcast, and spoken to countless young adults about their hurdles with confidence, communication, and taking action. Nick’s insights aren’t just theoretical—they’re born from real, relatable experience.

In our conversation, Nick and I explore a topic central to both of our work: what’s really holding back Gen Z and young millennials when it comes to building confidence in communication? Why—despite being the most connected and entrepreneurial generation—are so many young people struggling with the basics of interpersonal interaction? Nick shares what he sees on the frontline with his peers, from the overwhelming abundance of choices in the digital era to the comfort (and isolation) that comes with virtual living. We candidly talk about why it’s now easier than ever to avoid in-person interactions, and how that avoidance is quietly eroding essential soft skills.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

  • The impact of digital life on interpersonal communication skills in young adults
  • Why overwhelm from too many choices leads to avoidance and inaction
  • The difference between being aware of what needs improvement and actually taking steps to improve
  • How to use playfulness and improv to rapidly develop communication confidence
  • Avoiding the trap of memorized scripts, and why thinking on your feet builds more resilience
  • The real reasons young adults don’t act on the changes they know they need fear, laziness, and lack of structure
  • How generational differences in upbringing (free play vs. constant supervision) impact adult communication and confidence
  • Nick’s experiences with peer feedback, criticism, and staying grounded amid public scrutiny
  • The double-edged sword of social media curation and self-image
  • Tangible ways to make networking less intimidating even for introverts
  • The critical importance of being present and genuinely engaged in building relationships
  • How self-awareness makes connecting with others easier (and why it’s okay not to connect with everyone)
  • The role that reading and being a role model for learning plays in personal growth
  • Why it’s normal for growth to be uneven progress over perfection every time

If you want more from Nick, you can find his book, Crush Your 20s, on Amazon, or check out his podcast, Building the Blueprint, on Spotify and YouTube. And of course, don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for more resources including a free eBook and details about our public speaking course.

Thanks for listening and remember, your voice really does have the power to change the world.

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How to Rebuild Confidence After a Public Speaking Disaster | Tim Newman Speaks28 août 202500:12:22

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Have you ever completely blanked out during a presentation or felt your confidence collapse in front of an audience? If so, you’re far from alone and in this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle exactly how to recover from those “crash and burn” public speaking moments and get your confidence back on track.

I’m Tim Newman, and as someone who once threw up before giving my first college presentation, I know firsthand how devastating public speaking anxiety can feel. This week, I’m drawing on both scientific studies and coaching experience to help you move forward from setbacks and rebuild your core presentation skills, one step at a time.

I’m going deep into the mechanics of bouncing back from a public speaking “freeze.” I break down why our brains sometimes fail us under stress, how anxiety is triggered both by internal self-esteem and external factors like the room or audience, and most importantly, what you can do to start the recovery process today.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

  • Understanding why you might suddenly forget your words or lose your flow during a speech and why it’s usually a stress-driven system breakdown rather than a lack of knowledge.
  • The five interconnected parts of effective public speaking: content mastery, physical control, audience awareness, emotional regulation, and delivery mechanics.
  • Real-world examples of how even highly skilled professionals can “crash,” and the neuroscience behind how adrenaline and panic disrupt your memory.
  • How confidence and public speaking ability reinforce one another, plus how environmental factors (like room layout and audience engagement) can shape your anxiety level in real time.
  • Practical steps to identify exactly where you tend to stumble using a technique I recommend to all my clients: recording and reviewing your last few talks to pinpoint specific breakdowns.
  • The value of gradual, targeted practice to rebuild your skills, including insights from virtual reality training studies that show even small, structured exposures lead to measurable improvement.
  • My recommended “exposure ladder” for resetting your confidence: from practicing alone to speaking in front of a small, trusted audience, and then slowly simulating real-life settings.
  • An evidence-based way to turn setbacks into learning opportunities using structured reflection, journaling, and a four-step mental reframe to immediately convert mistakes into specific action steps.
  • How to design your speech outlines to lower your risk of freezing, and why preparing the opening lines for common questions in Q&A makes a big difference.
  • The importance of brief, focused daily practice and getting specific peer feedback to reinforce positive changes and accelerate growth.
  • A quick three-day reset challenge you can try right away to get yourself unstuck and moving forward.

Don’t forget to check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com after the show to grab your free eBook, “Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” and to learn about my full Formula for Public Speaking course.

Remember, your voice matters. With the right approach, you can recover and come back even stronger. Thanks for joining me and I’ll talk to you next time!

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Building Resilience and Communication Skills for Student Athletes with Kenisha Brown-Alexander25 août 202500:42:50

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What does it really take for young professionals—especially student athletes—to build true resilience and open lines of communication in today’s high-pressure world? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we dive deep into this crucial question that’s affecting students, educators, coaches, and leaders nationwide.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today, I’m honored to bring you a candid and impactful conversation with Kenisha Brown-Alexander, a true trailblazer in the sports industry and the founder of the Brainerd Tomorrow Foundation. With a background that spans leading roles for major organizations like the Miami Dolphins, the Super Bowl Committee, and the Orange Bowl Committee, Kenisha also serves as a certified life coach, adjunct professor, and the creator of the Game Changers United program.

Throughout our conversation, Kenisha and I address:

  • The shifting landscape of communication skills among young professionals and why intentional teaching of these skills matters more than ever
  • The logistical and interpersonal challenges of managing thousands of volunteers at a major event like the Super Bowl
  • The critical role of resilience and faith in overcoming personal trauma—and how sports can provide a sense of purpose and belonging
  • How and why Kenisha launched Game Changers United, and the impact it’s having in supporting student athletes’ mental health
  • The realities of suicide and mental health crises among college students, and strategies to strengthen support systems on campuses
  • Why it’s our job as leaders to reach out, show vulnerability, and invite connection
  • The need for early self-discovery and helping young people uncover their “why,” so they can build lasting resilience

If you’re an educator, coach, administrator, parent, or simply someone who cares about the next generation’s well-being, this episode will give you insights, strategies, and real stories to help you foster greater communication, resilience, and support—on and off the field.

For more on Kenisha’s work or to bring Game Changers United to your campus, you can find her on Instagram at @KenishaNichelle, on LinkedIn as Kenisha Brown-Alexander, or visit gamechangersunited.com.

As always, remember—your voice has the power to change the world. Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence.

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Mirroring and Labeling: Essential Interview Tools | Tim Newman Speaks21 août 202500:12:02

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Have you ever wondered why some interviewers can draw out powerful, authentic stories from their guests, while others get nothing but surface-level, forgettable responses? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive into the art and science of interviewing not as the one answering questions, but as the one skillfully guiding the conversation.

As your host, Tim Newman, a former college professor turned communication coach, I take you behind the scenes to reveal how top interviewers turn every exchange into a meaningful dialogue. While I typically invite guests onto the show, today it’s just you and me, focusing on a transformative communication technique that can immediately elevate your interviewing skills, whether you’re creating content, leading teams, or deepening everyday conversations.

By the end of this episode, you’ll be equipped to:

  • Use the mirroring technique to draw out richer, more authentic responses
  • Combine mirroring with careful labeling to acknowledge and explore emotional undercurrents
  • Pause intentionally to give your guest space and show you’re listening
  • Avoid presumptive labeling and instead use safe, observation-based language
  • Adjust your approach for virtual interviews, from camera placement to audio checks and bridging gaps during technical hiccups
  • Practice with concrete phrases and real-life scenarios so you can implement these tools right away

I challenge you to try mirroring and labeling in your next conversation, and notice the difference it makes. Share your observations with us. Progress over perfection is the goal.

And don’t forget, you can grab my free ebook, “Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them”, or sign up for my Formula for Public Speaking course at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com. As always, remember: your voice is power. Keep practicing, keep growing, and I’ll see you next time!


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Building Confident Communication: Mindset, Presence, and Practical Tools with Meaghan Benjamin18 août 202500:45:25

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How do you rebuild confidence and communication skills after life-changing events, or simply grow your presence in a world filled with digital noise? That’s the big question we dig into on this week’s episode of Speaking with Confidence, and I think you’ll walk away with new tools and a lot to think about—whether you’re tackling a major transition or just wanting to level up your everyday communication.

In this episode, I’m joined by Meaghan Benjamin, an executive communication coach who’s spent nearly 20 years helping people—from head and neck cancer survivors to Fortune 500 executives—find their voices and connect with impact. With a background in speech and hearing science and psychology, plus a neuroscience-informed approach to leadership development, Meaghan brings a wealth of experience to the table. Her story is truly unique; she started by supporting patients who, after cancer, had to relearn how to speak and present themselves to the world in totally new ways. Through that work, Meaghan realized that building communication confidence is a universal journey, whether you’re recovering from trauma or trying to command the boardroom.

We're talking about:

  • How to rebuild confidence and presence after major life changes—and why small goals matter
  • Mindset shifts that are as crucial for executives as they are for trauma survivors
  • Why 55% of communication is nonverbal, and how to harness your gestures and tone, especially on Zoom
  • The unique challenges of digital communication and how our “lens” filters written messages
  • The growing pressure of instant digital responses, especially among younger generations, and its impact on real connection
  • How to help kids and young adults practice the soft skills critical to adult success—plus stories from both our families and classrooms
  • The “No Feel Do” framework, and why knowing how you want your audience to feel and act shifts every conversation
  • Why disagreement doesn’t have to mean disrespect, and how to keep 80% of shared ground at the center of your relationships
  • Practical advice for handling meetings, tough questions, and those “pivot” moments that can rattle new professionals
  • The importance of in-person networking, informational interviews, and getting comfortable being uncomfortable, especially early in your career
  • Meaghan’s unique Agile Communication methodology, how it blends science and art, and its application to both presentations and day-to-day leadership
  • Studio Re Invent’s new AI-powered communication coach Sage, and how technology can actually help you develop deeper, more human skills—when used intentionally

Whether you’re a leader, educator, parent, or someone just looking to boost your communication mojo, Meaghan offers insights and tools you can put into action today. Stick around to hear how confidence is built—not magically materialized—and why practicing in real-life, sometimes awkward moments is the best training ground there is.

You can learn more about Meaghan and Studio Re Invent at studioreinvent.com, find additional resources on our Speaking with Confidence Podcast website, and check out our free eBook and upcoming public speaking course.

As always, remember: your voice has the power to change the world. Let’s get out there

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Tim Newman Speaks: From Experience to Wisdom14 août 202500:12:09

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Have you ever wondered why you keep repeating the same mistakes, even when you work hard and accumulate experience? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dig deep into a powerful question: what’s really holding you back from growing as a communicator and professional, and how can you break the cycle and accelerate your progress for real?

Hi, I’m Tim Newman, a recovering college professor turned communication coach, and your host on this journey toward showing up with confidence in every conversation. On today’s episode (inspired by last week’s impactful discussion with Danielle Droitsch about aligning self-confidence with your authentic self), I unpack a concept that hits home for many of us: the difference between simply remembering what happened and truly reflecting on it.

Here’s an overview of what we’ll dive into:

  • Why passive reminiscing (just replaying past events in your head) isn’t enough and actually keeps you on a treadmill of old mistakes.
  • John Maxwell’s Law of Reflection, which shows that evaluated experience, not just experience alone, drives genuine improvement.
  • The four-step “Four I’s” framework for effective reflection: Investigation, Incubation, Illumination, and Illustration. I explain each with practical examples of how to dig deeper, create space to process, capture insights, and document them so they’ll guide your next steps.
  • How to use Maxwell’s personal awareness questions to surface real patterns standing in the way of your growth.
  • Why scheduling time for reflection, documenting what you learn, and acting on those lessons is the fastest way to compounding progress.
  • The difference between growth that is intentional, structured, and measurable, versus “busyness” that leads nowhere, and how the top 1% protect their reflection habit like any high-priority task.
  • Actionable advice on setting up your own reflection rhythm using daily, weekly, quarterly, and annual check-ins (with specific time recommendations and real-life examples).
  • My challenge to you: block ten minutes today for structured reflection and see how quickly you can start gaining new insights.

    If you’re eager to turn your past into a resource for future success rather than just a collection of memories, this episode lays out the step-by-step blueprint to get you there. I invite you to try the system for a week, observe the difference, and remember, we’re seeking progress, not perfection.

    Don’t forget, you can grab your free eBook, “The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, or register for the Formula for Public Speaking course.

    Your voice has power, so let’s use it, and let’s grow together. I’ll talk to you next time.

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Escaping Burnout: Unlocking Confidence and Fulfillment in Your Career with Danielle Droitsch11 août 202500:43:08

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Have you ever found yourself feeling unfulfilled at work and wondered if it’s really possible to find both purpose and confidence in your career? If so, you’re not alone, and today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence may have the answers you’ve been searching for.

On this episode, I welcome Danielle Droitsch, an executive and leadership coach who helps high-achieving professionals rediscover their superpowers, reclaim well-being, and approach their work with confidence and purpose. Danielle’s story is one so many of us can relate to: after building a successful career as a senior leader at a nonprofit, she experienced burnout that changed her perspective on career satisfaction and life itself. Now, she helps others create the fulfilling work experiences they deserve.

Here’s what we covered in today’s episode:

  • Danielle’s personal journey from burnout to a fulfilling second career
  • The emotional signals (like boredom and irritability) that indicate something deeper is off in your work life
  • How to separate your job from your identity and why that matters
  • The importance of asking “Who am I?” and how to start finding your unique superpower
  • Insights from new research on human flourishing and why young people are struggling
  • The role of real, in-person connection for well-being
  • Practical steps for unplugging, reconnecting with yourself, and finding what truly energizes you
  • Why soft skills (communication, problem-solving, impact) drive both advancement and confidence
  • Common pitfalls for young professionals and students and how to avoid them
  • The link between self-awareness, confidence, and showing up authentically in every aspect of life

Whether you’re in the middle of a career transition, supporting young people, or simply looking to feel more confident at work, this episode offers relatable stories, actionable insights, and the encouragement to step back, reassess, and reconnect with yourself and others.

To connect with Danielle, check out time4wellbeing.com (that’s “four” as the number!), and look for her free training on finding fulfilling work. 


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Mastering the 30-Second Introduction | Tim Newman Speaks07 août 202500:13:54

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What’s the real secret to making an introduction that people actually remember—and want to follow up with? If you’ve ever found yourself rattling off your name, job title, and a couple of generic facts only to watch the other person’s eyes glaze over, you’re not alone. In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I break down why most 30-second introductions fall flat, and how to craft one that instantly sets you apart.

Today we’re focusing on one of the most overlooked skills in professional communication: the art (and science) of a memorable introduction. There’s no featured guest this time—it's just me, drawing on my experience as a communication coach and former college professor, to walk you through a research-backed formula that will transform the way you present yourself in every first impression.

Here’s what we covered in today’s episode:

  • Why most standard introductions get ignored (and the science behind first impressions)
  • The role of nonverbal communication—what people notice first and why it matters
  • The primacy effect and how what you say first shapes how you’re remembered
  • Shifting from job titles to value-driven statements
  • The three-part Confident Connection Formula: hook, value statement, and conversation starter
  • Real-world examples of transforming forgettable intros into memorable ones
  • The importance of vocal modulation, body language, and strategic pauses
  • Practical steps for refining your own introduction
  • Why a great introduction isn’t about perfection—it’s about making progress

Whether you’re networking, interviewing, or just meeting someone new, these skills help you show up with clarity and confidence from your very first word. Don’t forget to grab your free ebook at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, check out my upcoming course, and keep practicing—because your voice truly has the power to change your world.


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Building Resilience and Confidence Through Mindfulness with Cesar Cardona04 août 202500:43:15

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What does it really take to turn your personal struggles and lived experience into authentic confidence when you communicate? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I sit down with Cesar Cardona—public speaker, podcast co-host, and mindfulness educator—to uncover how resilience, mindfulness, and embracing your unique story are foundational not only to personal growth, but also to becoming a powerful communicator.

Cesar’s journey is anything but ordinary. Growing up navigating conflict in a home of deep cultural and political divides, he openly shares how early trauma shaped his perspective but also planted the seeds for resilience. We discuss how he learned to move forward despite adversity, drawing on the strengths of both his parents—combining book smarts and street smarts—and how everyone can find something valuable in their experiences, no matter how tough.

A turning point came for Cesar at a Joseph Campbell roundtable event, when—despite never aspiring to speak publicly—he took a risk, shared his thoughts, and was suddenly handed a life-changing speaking opportunity. This honest look at “accidentally” launching a public speaking career is both inspiring and packed with practical lessons for anyone wanting to share their voice but feeling hesitant or nervous.

We also break down what it’s really like to speak in front of others (hint: nerves are normal and even useful), and why storytelling doesn’t require a big dramatic narrative—just a willingness to share honestly and connect on a human level. Listening, asking questions, leaning on friends for support, and being accountable (while offering grace to ourselves and others) are all covered, along with some thoughts on the role of AI and technology in communication today.

In this conversation, you’ll hear us talk about:

  • Using mindfulness and self-awareness to manage nerves and uncertainty
  • The importance of moving forward, even when it’s uncomfortable
  • Building a supportive network and the courage to ask for help
  • Why listening is just as important as speaking
  • Embracing storytelling as a simple, daily part of communication—not just a buzzword

If you’ve ever doubted your ability to communicate confidently or wondered if your history is a liability, Cesar’s story will assure you that your best voice comes from embracing the whole of who you are.

For more on Cesar or to hear his music project, check out CaesarCardona.com, and don’t forget to grab your free resources at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com. Your story—and your voice—matter.

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Tim Newman Speaks: Better Questions, Bigger Breakthroughs: How to Communicate With Confidence (rerun)31 juil. 202500:08:33

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Have you ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “That could’ve gone better…”?

In this solo episode of Speaking With Confidence, host Tim Newman explores how asking better questions can unlock more effective communication, stronger interpersonal skills, and, believe it or not, career-changing opportunities.

Inspired by his conversation with communication coach Michelle Schafer, Tim shares how simple shifts in our approach to networking, interviews, and public presentations can turn small talk into a powerful connection. Spoiler alert: it’s not about having all the right answers, it’s about asking the right questions.

You’ll learn how thoughtful questions like “What energizes you about your work right now?” create deeper and more authentic conversations than the typical “So, what do you do?” You’ll also discover how preparation, just 15-20 minutes of intentional research, can skyrocket your confidence before any public speaking opportunity or job interview.

What You’ll Walk Away With:

  • How to use communication skills and curiosity to create meaningful conversations
  • Why better questions matter more than polished answers
  • Practical ways to prepare with purpose before a public presentation or interview
  • Tips for following up in a way that builds strong professional relationships
  • Why soft skills like listening and intentional follow-up are your secret career superpowers

Whether you're navigating a job search, trying to overcome imposter syndrome, or simply looking to become a more powerful communicator, this episode is packed with practical tools to help you communicate effectively and with confidence.

Listen now and start your journey toward personal development and professional growth—one thoughtful question at a time.

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Download The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them and register for the Formula for Public Speaking course today!

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