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How to Read a Room as a Speaker | Tim Newman Speaks06 Nov 202500:14:16

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Have you ever felt that sinking feeling during a meeting or conversation when you realize you’re losing the room—people are checking their phones, yawning, or just looking right through you? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle exactly that challenge: how to read the room and respond in real time so you stay connected, engaged, and in control whenever you speak.

As someone who transitioned from being a college professor to a communication coach, I’ve seen firsthand how common these scenarios are—and I know how disheartening it can be when you feel your message isn’t landing. But here’s the good news: reading a room and understanding the invisible feedback loop in every group interaction isn’t an innate superpower. It’s a practical set of observation skills that anyone can learn and refine.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

  • Why reading the room is about observation, not mind-reading—and why anyone can learn it
  • The big myth about social intelligence—and how being a better observer is the real secret
  • The four universal behavioral cues that signal audience engagement (phone checking, yawning, fidgeting, blank stares)
  • Real-world examples: what these cues mean in meetings, networking events, and interviews
  • The importance of interpreting cues in context (and the dangers of knee-jerk misinterpretations)
  • Easy, low-pressure ways to scan a room and spot behavioral patterns
  • How to respond when you see signs of disengagement—without making it awkward or calling people out
  • Techniques to shift energy, boost engagement, and reset the group dynamic
  • Transitioning from self-consciousness to others-awareness to become a more intentional and confident communicator
  • A simple exercise to practice observation skills in your next meeting

By the end of this episode, you’ll have a set of repeatable techniques to help you read any room and respond with confidence—no matter the situation. Remember, it’s about progress, not perfection, and every conversation is a chance to build this skill.

If you want to dive deeper, head over to speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com to grab your free eBook on overcoming the top public speaking challenges, and check out the format for the Public Speaking course. Your voice is powerful, and it’s time to use it to change your world.


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Overcoming Fear on Stage: Why Every Speaker Should Try Stand-Up Comedy with John Ball03 Nov 202500:46:41

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Have you ever wondered if charisma is something you’re born with, or if it can be built—and more importantly, how it impacts your confidence and effectiveness as a communicator? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I sit down with John Ball, a keynote and presentation coach who’s spent years helping speakers, coaches, and leaders boost their influence from competent to captivating. Today, we dig into the journey of finding your authentic voice as a speaker, the joys and challenges of adding humor to presentations, and the real value of showing up with warmth and confidence, wherever you are in the world.

John Ball brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the table—not only as the host of The Present Influence Podcast and co-host of the Coaching Clinic podcast, but also as a professional speaker on topics like personal mastery and leadership communication. His global perspective as someone who’s lived in both the UK and Spain and spent years as a flight attendant puts him in a unique position to discuss connecting with different cultures, and how traveling has shaped his approach to communication and coaching.

In this episode, we cover:

  • How traveling and working abroad expands your communication skills and comfort zones
  • Using humor and warmth as universal connectors across cultures
  • Why every speaker should try stand-up comedy at least once
  • The difference between charisma and charm—and how to spot “fake” charisma
  • Techniques to build genuine charisma (even if you’re not naturally extroverted)
  • The process of testing and refining stories for presentations
  • Emotional leadership and the responsibility you hold as a speaker
  • Why presence and vulnerability matter more than perfection
  • How to avoid charisma killers like overthinking and ego
  • The importance of living with intention and making positive choices in how you show up
  • Stage time as the single most effective way to improve your communication
  • Storytelling tips: focusing on transformation, emotional flow, and audience engagement

If you’re ready to take your communication from competent to captivating—and want to put more humor, warmth, and charisma into every conversation that counts—this episode is packed with stories, strategies, and encouragement to get you started. Ready to step up, lighten up, and speak with more confidence than ever before? Listen now, and let’s grow together.

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How to Communicate with Difficult Coworkers | Tim Newman02 Oct 202500:11:10

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Have you ever left a meeting feeling like you spent the whole time talking about yourself—or maybe stuck listening to someone else do it? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I’m diving into a challenge that creeps into nearly every workplace: dealing with the “me monster” and transforming conversations to actually build connection, trust, and meaningful collaboration.

I’m Tim Newman, your host, communication coach, and former college professor. This week, I’m tackling the tricky question: How do you handle difficult coworkers or even notice when you might be the “difficult one” yourself? In this episode, you won’t have to guess—I’ll show you simple ways to spot the habits that undermine teamwork and share a repeatable blueprint for having conversations that truly make a difference.

We start by recognizing an all-too-common office scenario: a team frantically working on a crashed server, while one coworker (let’s call her Sarah) dominates the conversation with off-topic stories about her weekend. While Sarah isn’t a villain—just another busy teammate slipping into autopilot—her “me monster” tendencies chip away at team cohesion and productivity. I’ll walk you through how science explains this instinct and why our brains so easily 

Here’s what you’ll walk away with:

  • An honest look at what drives the “me monster” and how to recognize it in yourself and others
  • Three red flags that signal you’re derailing conversations
  • John Maxwell’s five-step Law of Connection—how to set your agenda aside, ask great questions, lean in, recall meaningful details, and follow-up
  • Practical ways to apply a collaboration mindset, even with the toughest coworkers, and scripts you can start using today
  • Awareness of how small communication changes can build trust, psychological safety, and unlock creative solutions on any team
  • A micro-experiment for your next meeting to shift from “me-first” to shared success

Thanks for joining me on Speaking with Confidence. Remember, your voice has the power to change the dynamic of any team and every conversation. Keep practicing, keep connecting, and I’ll see you next time!

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Transforming Self-Talk and Breaking the Victim Mindset with Clay Moffat29 Sep 202501:04:07

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Welcome back to “Speaking with Confidence.” I’m Tim Newman, your host and recovering college professor turned communication coach. In this episode, I dive into how radical responsibility shapes not only the way we communicate but the core of how we relate to ourselves and others. We look beyond typical “confidence” and get to the heart of conviction—the mindset shift that changes how we show up in our lives.

Joining me is Clay Moffat, a Navy veteran and performance strategist with a truly remarkable journey. Clay has been on top, coaching billionaires and building a seven-figure business—only to lose it all in a high-stakes startup crash. He faced the frightening possibility of permanent blindness while rebuilding his life, and from those experiences, Clay created the concept of the "trust trap"—the focus of his new book. Clay’s work helps people break free from the nervous system patterns and mental habits that keep us stuck in self-doubt, blame, and unproductive cycles, teaching not just confidence, but conviction rooted in personal power.

Our conversation starts with the central idea: what does it mean to take “radical responsibility” for our lives? Clay explains that it’s not about blaming yourself, but about owning even that “1%” of any situation that you can control or influence. As Clay puts it, reclaiming any sort of personal power, freedom, and forward motion in life begins with this kind of self-honesty. We talk about why the question “Why is this happening to me?” traps us in victimhood, and how reframing it to “How did I create this?” can shift us from powerlessness to agency. Through everyday stories—from missed vacations to major financial decisions—Clay shares how this mindset applies whether the stakes are small or life-changing.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

  • What is radical responsibility and how does it differ from blame or self-criticism?
  • The difference between “confidence” and “conviction,” and why conviction matters for real communication and presence.
  • How to spot when you’re stuck in victim thinking, and the questions to ask yourself to regain personal power.
  • Practical strategies for transforming negative self-talk, including a four-step process to create a more supportive inner dialogue.
  • The hidden ways family patterns and early conditioning shape our self-image and choices—often beneath conscious awareness.
  • Why we ignore red flags and how our brains’ desire for shortcuts can create unhelpful mental “brackets” about people and situations.
  • Real-life stories from Clay about high-stakes decision making, resilience, and bouncing back from major setbacks.
  • How to own your story, communicate more authentically, and set a new standard for leadership, parenting, and self-trust.
  • The power of mindset—the small language shifts that can open new pathways for growth, resilience, and effective action.
  • Insights from “Trust Trap” on reclaiming authority over your life—even when circumstances and the world try to pull your power away.

Listen in to learn how taking radical responsibility can revolutionize how you see yourself, how you show up in the world, and the trust you create with others and yourself.

Don’t forget, you can connect with Clay Moffat on X (formerly Twitter) @MoffatClay o

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Turning Misunderstandings Into Magic | Tim Newman Speaks25 Sep 202500:11:44

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Have you ever wondered if miscommunication might actually help you become a more engaging and memorable communicator? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I explore a surprising twist on a familiar idea: sometimes, leaving a little room for confusion or ambiguity can actually boost curiosity, spark discussion, and fuel unforgettable moments—on stage, online, and even in negotiation.

I'm Tim Newman, your host—a recovering college professor turned communication coach—and I’ve spent over 80 episodes talking about the power of clear communication. But today, I flip the script and dive into why miscommunication isn’t always the enemy it’s made out to be. From viral memes and comedy to business leadership and marketing, I share the latest research and real-world examples of how a bit of strategic ambiguity can capture attention, create energy, and invite others to actively engage with your message.

No guest joins me for this episode, but I take you on a journey through some fascinating insights from communication scholars, comedians, media analysts, and strategists. I unpack how, across a variety of settings, purposeful ambiguity can spark engagement, inspire creativity, and keep people talking long after the conversation ends.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

  • Why the gap between what’s said and what’s meant is the secret behind viral memes, comedy punchlines, and successful negotiations.
  • Research showing that a little uncertainty or open-endedness can actually draw people in and hold their attention—sometimes much more than a perfectly explained message.
  • How memes like “Distracted Boyfriend” and “Woman Yelling at Cat” harness ambiguity to invite endless audience participation and creativity.
  • The role of strategic ambiguity in business, leadership, and marketing—for example, how broad or aspirational language attracts more candidates and participants by letting them see themselves in the picture.
  • How comedians turn miscommunication into laughs by intentionally leading audiences down the “wrong path” before delivering the twist.
  • The importance of timing, empathy, and precision when using ambiguity—whether you’re crafting a brand campaign, negotiating, or writing a killer joke.
  • The line between clever ambiguity and harmful confusion—where to draw boundaries to make sure your message is effective and respectful.
  • Practical tips to experiment with curiosity gaps and partial premises in your own speaking and writing, while always putting your audience first.

If you want to make your communication more engaging and memorable—or just want to understand why the most viral moments are often the least perfectly polished—this episode offers a new perspective on why “less clarity” might, at times, be more powerful.

Be sure to grab your free eBook, The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and check out my Formula for Public Speaking groups. And remember: your voice has the power to change the world. Catch you next time!

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Unlock Public Speaking Confidence: Lessons from Military, Survival TV, and TEDx with Terry L. Fossum22 Sep 202500:52:29

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What does it really take to become a powerful speaker, even if you’re terrified of public speaking? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I’m taking you deep into the strategies, stories, and mindset shifts that will help you overcome your fears and truly connect with any audience.

I’m your host, Tim Newman, a former college professor turned communication coach, and today, I’m joined by a truly inspiring guest: Terry L. Fossum. Terry isn’t just a survival reality show winner; he's a Wall Street Journal, Amazon, and Barnes & Noble best-selling author, a keynote speaker, and his TEDx talk has been recognized as one of the top 30 talks in the country. He’s also raised millions for charity and taught at the MBA level. Most importantly for our listeners, Terry knows a thing or two about turning nerves into powerful moments on stage, and he’s passionate about helping others do the same.

In our conversation, we dove into why real, honest, and clear communication is at the heart of succeeding under pressure, both in survival situations and in everyday life. Terry shares how being on a survival reality show, partnered with someone totally opposite from him, forced him to communicate at a whole new level. He also reveals how his experiences as a scoutmaster and military officer taught him the value of finding the good in people from all backgrounds and leading with purpose.

Here’s what we talk about in this episode:

  • How survival skills and communication go hand-in-hand (with plenty of hilarious and moving stories from Terry’s reality show days)
  • What to do when team conflict and stress threaten to derail your message or working relationships
  • The power of owning your mistakes, giving others grace, and building credibility through authenticity
  • Why emotion, not facts, drives action and how to leverage that in any speech or presentation
  • The “position of power” technique to conquer nerves and step on stage with confidence every time
  • The critical first five seconds: hooking your audience and making the talk about them
  • Why being vulnerable and sharing your failures is actually your superpower as a communicator
  • An intro to the SIMPLE framework for public speaking, and how to build talks that get standing ovations (and results!)
  • Tips for landing, crafting, and performing a TEDx talk that really stands out

By the end of this episode, you’ll have actionable inspiration and tools to step into your own power as a speaker, no matter where you’re starting from. And always remember: your voice can change the world.

Don’t forget to check out Terry’s book, his podcast “The Comeback Chronicles”, and all of the resources we mention, including the free IdeaScore AI tool to score your TEDx ideas.

Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence. Subscribe to never miss an episode and visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for additional tips and free resources to support your journey to becoming a confident and impactful speaker.

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Turning Ordinary Moments Into Powerful Communication | Tim Newman Speaks18 Sep 202500:11:33

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Have you ever thought, “I don’t have any stories to tell,” or wondered where people get those everyday stories that connect so powerfully with their audience? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive headfirst into that question and show you exactly how to spot and share the remarkable stories already hiding in your daily life.

I’m Tim Newman, your host, and as a recovering college professor turned communication coach, I know first-hand how easy it is to believe your life doesn’t serve up “epic” stories worth sharing. But the truth I’ve learned through both experience and science is that your best stories are simpler, closer, and more relatable than you ever imagined. Today, we’re flipping the script on storytelling by focusing on the small, ordinary moments that hold hidden magic when you know how to uncover and frame them.

This episode is just me no guest because I wanted to dig deep into my favorite topic: the practical art of everyday storytelling. I share personal experiences (including my own mishaps and embarrassments), research findings, and creative exercises you can use right away.

Here’s what we tackle together:

  • Why chasing after “epic” stories is a waste of energy, and how your camera roll, junk drawer, and overheard conversations are loaded with potential story material.
  • The science behind why small, vulnerable stories are more memorable and create stronger audience connection than polished, fact-based presentations.
  • My three-step rule for quickly turning small disasters (like burning your grilled cheese or missing the bus) into engaging stories anyone can relate to.
  • How to turn random objects (think broken watches or lone hairpins) into compelling story seeds using a practical three-step exercise.
  • Techniques for mining everyday dialogue like coffee shop chatter for real, emotional narrative arcs, and how to practice capturing those authentic moments.
  • Why sharing imperfect, unpolished stories is so powerful (spoiler: it helps your listeners remember and see themselves in your story).
  • A practical challenge for you: pick five ordinary things over the next week and use the three-step micro story method to discover just how many stories your “ordinary” life truly holds.

If you’ve ever felt stuck when someone told you to “just tell a story,” by the end of this episode, you’ll have the tools and most importantly, the mindset to pull stories from even the most unremarkable corners of your day. Remember, your daily life is full of story prompts just waiting to be told, and those stories are your greatest assets as a communicator and connector.

Don’t forget to grab your free ebook, “The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and check out my Formula for Public Speaking course. Thanks for joining me, your voice truly has the power to change the world. See you next time!



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Gen Z Career Secrets: Confidence, Soft Skills, and Navigating First Jobs with Brianne Rush15 Sep 202500:46:49

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Have you ever wondered what it truly takes to stand out, move up quickly in your career, and speak confidently, especially when you’re just starting out? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dig deep into the real skills that make the difference between simply doing the work and truly excelling–skills that aren’t always on the job description, but that employers look for and reward.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a former college professor turned communication coach. My passion is helping people build the soft skills that lead to real results, whether in storytelling, public speaking, or just showing up with more confidence. This week, I’m thrilled to speak with Brianne Rush, the founder of The Independence Lab. Brianne is a powerhouse when it comes to helping Gen Z women make the leap from college to career. She rose through the ranks incredibly quickly from intern to managing editor in a year, and employee to VP in four years by learning to decode workplace dynamics, advocate for herself, and, most importantly, overcome her fear of public speaking.

We kick off the conversation with Brianne’s story—how she knew from the age of eight that she wanted to move to New York to be a journalist, and what it felt like to finally live that dream. Brianne shares what inspired her to choose New York, how her experiences in dance and performance influenced her, and why total immersion in a city full of energy was essential to her identity and early career. She explains the lessons she learned—not just about working hard and climbing the ranks, but about truly living in the moment and building genuine connections, both professional and personal.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

  • Brianne’s journey from dreaming of journalism in New York to landing and advancing in her dream role
  • The importance of immersion, living in the moment, and building meaningful experiences early in your career
  • Lessons about working hard, networking, and creating opportunities for yourself—even when you start at the bottom
  • What employers are really looking for in hiring today: the power of soft skills like passion, curiosity, proactivity, and communication
  • How to stand out authentically in interviews—using storytelling, personalized cover letters, and honest conversation instead of relying only on AI
  • Practical strategies to display confidence, curiosity, and proactivity in every step of your job search
  • Brianne’s advice on career advancement: emotional intelligence skills, self-awareness, handling setbacks, and the value of progress over perfection
  • Navigating boundaries, learning to say no, and prioritizing projects that advance your career (with a special focus on women in the workplace)
  • Gen Z’s growing focus on self-knowledge, life transitions, and ditching outdated hustle culture for a healthier approach
  • The mission behind The Independence Lab and actionable resources for building emotional intelligence

If you’re looking for real advice on how to marry soft skills and confidence with actionable career moves, this episode is for you—whether you’re early in your career, managing the next big transition, or helping others find their way. Be sure to check out Brianne’s free resources and connect with us to keep leveling up your communicat

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From Stage Fright to Spotlight | Tim Newman Speaks11 Sep 202500:15:56

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What does it really take to transform your nerves into confidence when speaking in front of an audience—no matter how big or small? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I take you behind the scenes of my own speaking journey, sharing raw stories, practical takeaways, and the coaching that helped me grow in unexpected ways.

This week, I pull back the curtain on my experience as part of the Maxwell Leadership Certified Team. After years of preaching the importance of lifelong learning, I put myself on the line—joining the team, earning advanced presenter certifications, and even making a run at standing on stage at the International Maxwell Conference. Today, I want to show you what growth looks like up close, and how vital it is to seek feedback, embrace vulnerability, and focus on progress over perfection.

To help me along this journey, I worked closely with Roddy Galbraith, none other than John Maxwell’s own speaking coach. If you’ve ever wondered whether even the best need coaching, this episode is for you. Roddy pushed me to look deeper at my message, delivery, and what I genuinely wanted my audience to walk away with. Together, we honed a simple three-minute story—one I’d performed more than a hundred times—transforming it from a personal anecdote into a powerful teaching tool.

In this episode, you'll hear:

  • My own public speaking horror story—the first time I had to speak in college and what happened when anxiety got the best of me
  • How that one embarrassing moment became the foundation for my growth as a speaker and coach
  • The grueling, but rewarding, process of preparing for the Maxwell International Conference, and what it felt like to just miss the finals by two seconds
  • A step-by-step look at the evolution of my speech—from the initial draft, through Roddy’s constructive feedback, to the final live version
  • The importance of coaching and why even experienced speakers need fresh outside perspectives
  • Strategies to shift your mindset from fearing the worst to aiming for the best every time you get up to speak
  • Why perfection isn’t relatable, but vulnerability, honesty, and even a little messiness are
  • How to take that next step in your own speaking journey—with tools and encouragement for breaking through nerves and building unshakable confidence

If you’re ever wondered how to face your speaking fears, connect more authentically, or grow past setbacks, you'll find tools and inspiration in this episode. Remember, your voice truly does have the power to change your world—but only if you choose to use it.

Thank you, as always, for supporting Speaking with Confidence. If you’re looking to keep leveling up, don’t forget to grab the free eBook, “The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” and sign up for my Formula for Public Speaking course. Progress, not perfection—that’s our north star. Tune in and let’s keep moving forward, together.



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Embracing Cultural Diversity for Powerful Public Speaking with Rebecca Williams08 Sep 202500:58:36

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Have you ever wondered how living and working abroad can radically transform not just your communication style, but also the way you guide and lead others? In today’s episode, we dive deep into the world of cross-cultural communication, public speaking, and storytelling with our guest Rebecca Williams, a true globetrotter and expert public speaking coach who has worked with everyone from Stanford MBAs to teams at Google, Meta, and Netflix.

Hey, I’m Tim Newman, and on this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we’re getting practical about what it really takes to show up with confidence and credibility in any communication setting whether that’s on stage, in a boardroom, or even navigating the cultural nuances of a meeting overseas.

Rebecca and I kick things off by discussing her journey from Wisconsin to living in places like Germany, Japan, Australia, Nepal, Spain, Portugal, and Mexico. She shares how her international experiences have planted humility and empathy at the heart of her coaching approach, reminding us that communication is never one-size-fits-all. In many countries, people speak two, three, or even more languages just to participate professionally, and often it’s those little cultural cues, not just words that make or break your message.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

  • How living abroad shaped Rebecca’s empathetic, multicultural approach to coaching communication
  • What it means to be a “guest star” in the country of your audience
  • How to avoid cross-cultural blunders and build trust across cultures
  • The universal challenge of negative self-talk during public speaking and how to work through it
  • Rebecca’s “First Five Formula” for nailing your presentation opening
  • How specificity makes stories stick and how to find the right stories within your own life
  • The role of humor (and how even non-comedians can use it effectively)
  • The current and future impact of AI on communication, public speaking, and storytelling
  • Insights into Rebecca’s book “Presenting. Presenting.” and why it was designed as an interview
  • Where to connect with Rebecca and access her resources

This episode is jam-packed with real stories, practical frameworks, and a refreshing perspective on developing your own authentic voice whether you’re addressing an international audience or conquering your own internal doubts. I hope you enjoy listening as much as I enjoyed this conversation with Rebecca!

Don’t forget to grab Rebecca’s book, check out more resources at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, and connect with us on LinkedIn or Instagram. Your voice really does have the power to change the world. Let's keep showing up and speaking with confidence.


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3 Steps for Public Speaking Under Pressure | Tim Newman Speaks04 Sep 202500:12:36

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Have you ever frozen under pressure when someone in your audience throws a tough, even hostile question your way? You’re not alone, and this episode is all about teaching you how to handle those moments with confidence and composure.

Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence. I’m Tim Newman, a recovering college professor turned communication coach. My passion is helping you build the soft skills that spark real progress in your career and life, especially the ability to stay cool, clear, and credible in the spotlight. Whether you breeze through presentations or find public speaking downright nerve-wracking, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you face even the most challenging moments on stage.

Here’s what we covered in this episode:

  • The 3-step credibility playbook for tough questions (Acknowledge, Provide Evidence, Call to Action)
  • Aligning with the ABCD method and why defensive reactions hurt more than they help
  • Using evidence and social proof to handle pushback and skeptical questions
  • Reading audience motives and managing both “genuine” and “maddening” challengers
  • Body language moves that signal control and calm
  • How to use empathy, validation, and audience engagement to redirect heated moments
  • “Sleight of mouth” reframing tactics and building your own objection-response scripts
  • Scripted responses for handling multi-part and high-pressure questions with authority
  • Turning objections into opportunities and building forward momentum

Progress, not perfection, is the goal. Pick just one strategy whether ABCD, a validation line, or the quick reframe and rehearse it for five minutes so you’re ready when the moment comes. Remember, confidence in those pressure-packed moments isn’t about never feeling nerves; it’s about being prepared enough to choose your response with authority.

For even more resources, visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for a free eBook (“The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them”) or to sign up for our Formula for Public Speaking training. Your voice is your power, thanks for joining me on this journey. Until next time, keep practicing and keep speaking with confidence!


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Building Real Confidence and Communication Skills for Gen Z with Nick Batchelder01 Sep 202500:49:50

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How can young adults overcome overwhelm and start communicating with genuine confidence in today’s digital age?

Today, I’m thrilled to be joined by Nick Batchelder—a 21-year-old author, podcaster, and speaker who’s committed to making sure fewer people reach their 30s saying, “I wish I would have done more in my 20s.” Nick brings a rare peer perspective to personal development, focusing on the unique challenges and strengths of people in their 20s and early 30s. He’s already written a book, built a growing podcast, and spoken to countless young adults about their hurdles with confidence, communication, and taking action. Nick’s insights aren’t just theoretical—they’re born from real, relatable experience.

In our conversation, Nick and I explore a topic central to both of our work: what’s really holding back Gen Z and young millennials when it comes to building confidence in communication? Why—despite being the most connected and entrepreneurial generation—are so many young people struggling with the basics of interpersonal interaction? Nick shares what he sees on the frontline with his peers, from the overwhelming abundance of choices in the digital era to the comfort (and isolation) that comes with virtual living. We candidly talk about why it’s now easier than ever to avoid in-person interactions, and how that avoidance is quietly eroding essential soft skills.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

  • The impact of digital life on interpersonal communication skills in young adults
  • Why overwhelm from too many choices leads to avoidance and inaction
  • The difference between being aware of what needs improvement and actually taking steps to improve
  • How to use playfulness and improv to rapidly develop communication confidence
  • Avoiding the trap of memorized scripts, and why thinking on your feet builds more resilience
  • The real reasons young adults don’t act on the changes they know they need fear, laziness, and lack of structure
  • How generational differences in upbringing (free play vs. constant supervision) impact adult communication and confidence
  • Nick’s experiences with peer feedback, criticism, and staying grounded amid public scrutiny
  • The double-edged sword of social media curation and self-image
  • Tangible ways to make networking less intimidating even for introverts
  • The critical importance of being present and genuinely engaged in building relationships
  • How self-awareness makes connecting with others easier (and why it’s okay not to connect with everyone)
  • The role that reading and being a role model for learning plays in personal growth
  • Why it’s normal for growth to be uneven progress over perfection every time

If you want more from Nick, you can find his book, Crush Your 20s, on Amazon, or check out his podcast, Building the Blueprint, on Spotify and YouTube. And of course, don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for more resources including a free eBook and details about our public speaking course.

Thanks for listening and remember, your voice really does have the power to change the world.

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Why Fake Networking is Killing Your Career | Tim Newman Speaks30 Oct 202500:10:36

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Do you ever feel like you're doing all the “right” things at networking events, but somehow you still walk away with a stack of business cards—yet none of those connections turn into genuine relationships or career opportunities? If so, this episode is for you.

I'm Tim Newman, host of Speaking with Confidence, and in today’s solo episode, I dig deep into the art (and science) of networking—and why most traditional approaches are holding you back. You’ll hear why so many professionals get stuck in a transactional mindset, treating networking as a numbers game rather than a process of real relationship-building. If you’ve ever wondered why your networking feels hollow (or downright fake), we uncover the gap between “collecting contacts” and creating meaningful professional relationships that truly advance your career.

We start with the classic post-event scenario: you’ve met loads of people, exchanged business cards, but later realize you can barely remember anyone and end up tossing those cards into that infamous desk drawer where connections go to die. I call this “fake networking,” and it’s not just ineffective—it’s potentially damaging to your professional reputation.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

  • Why collecting business cards isn’t the same as building real professional relationships
  • The damaging effects of transactional, numbers-based networking mindsets
  • The two most common forms of fake networking: “self-serving connections” and “ghost follow-ups”
  • The long-term reputational risks of fake networking tactics
  • How leadership and influence (not just connections) determine your career potential
  • A two-part strategy to shift to authentic, value-driven networking
  • How to discover and articulate your unique value before every interaction
  • The importance of research and matching your value to others’ real needs
  • Why reliable follow-through is the ultimate networking credibility builder
  • How to become the kind of connection others seek out—so opportunities come to you

If you want to break out of the cycle of shallow networking and start making connections that truly count, this episode will give you both the insight and the practical steps you need. Remember, your next professional interaction is an opportunity to show up differently, lead with value, and nurture a network that lifts you higher.

Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence. Check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook, The Top 20 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, and find details on our Formula for Public Speaking course. Your voice has the power to change it—see you next time!

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How to Rebuild Confidence After a Public Speaking Disaster | Tim Newman Speaks28 Aug 202500:12:22

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Have you ever completely blanked out during a presentation or felt your confidence collapse in front of an audience? If so, you’re far from alone and in this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I tackle exactly how to recover from those “crash and burn” public speaking moments and get your confidence back on track.

I’m Tim Newman, and as someone who once threw up before giving my first college presentation, I know firsthand how devastating public speaking anxiety can feel. This week, I’m drawing on both scientific studies and coaching experience to help you move forward from setbacks and rebuild your core presentation skills, one step at a time.

I’m going deep into the mechanics of bouncing back from a public speaking “freeze.” I break down why our brains sometimes fail us under stress, how anxiety is triggered both by internal self-esteem and external factors like the room or audience, and most importantly, what you can do to start the recovery process today.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

  • Understanding why you might suddenly forget your words or lose your flow during a speech and why it’s usually a stress-driven system breakdown rather than a lack of knowledge.
  • The five interconnected parts of effective public speaking: content mastery, physical control, audience awareness, emotional regulation, and delivery mechanics.
  • Real-world examples of how even highly skilled professionals can “crash,” and the neuroscience behind how adrenaline and panic disrupt your memory.
  • How confidence and public speaking ability reinforce one another, plus how environmental factors (like room layout and audience engagement) can shape your anxiety level in real time.
  • Practical steps to identify exactly where you tend to stumble using a technique I recommend to all my clients: recording and reviewing your last few talks to pinpoint specific breakdowns.
  • The value of gradual, targeted practice to rebuild your skills, including insights from virtual reality training studies that show even small, structured exposures lead to measurable improvement.
  • My recommended “exposure ladder” for resetting your confidence: from practicing alone to speaking in front of a small, trusted audience, and then slowly simulating real-life settings.
  • An evidence-based way to turn setbacks into learning opportunities using structured reflection, journaling, and a four-step mental reframe to immediately convert mistakes into specific action steps.
  • How to design your speech outlines to lower your risk of freezing, and why preparing the opening lines for common questions in Q&A makes a big difference.
  • The importance of brief, focused daily practice and getting specific peer feedback to reinforce positive changes and accelerate growth.
  • A quick three-day reset challenge you can try right away to get yourself unstuck and moving forward.

Don’t forget to check out speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com after the show to grab your free eBook, “Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” and to learn about my full Formula for Public Speaking course.

Remember, your voice matters. With the right approach, you can recover and come back even stronger. Thanks for joining me and I’ll talk to you next time!

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Building Resilience and Communication Skills for Student Athletes with Kenisha Brown-Alexander25 Aug 202500:42:50

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What does it really take for young professionals—especially student athletes—to build true resilience and open lines of communication in today’s high-pressure world? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we dive deep into this crucial question that’s affecting students, educators, coaches, and leaders nationwide.

I’m Tim Newman, your host and a recovering college professor turned communication coach. Today, I’m honored to bring you a candid and impactful conversation with Kenisha Brown-Alexander, a true trailblazer in the sports industry and the founder of the Brainerd Tomorrow Foundation. With a background that spans leading roles for major organizations like the Miami Dolphins, the Super Bowl Committee, and the Orange Bowl Committee, Kenisha also serves as a certified life coach, adjunct professor, and the creator of the Game Changers United program.

Throughout our conversation, Kenisha and I address:

  • The shifting landscape of communication skills among young professionals and why intentional teaching of these skills matters more than ever
  • The logistical and interpersonal challenges of managing thousands of volunteers at a major event like the Super Bowl
  • The critical role of resilience and faith in overcoming personal trauma—and how sports can provide a sense of purpose and belonging
  • How and why Kenisha launched Game Changers United, and the impact it’s having in supporting student athletes’ mental health
  • The realities of suicide and mental health crises among college students, and strategies to strengthen support systems on campuses
  • Why it’s our job as leaders to reach out, show vulnerability, and invite connection
  • The need for early self-discovery and helping young people uncover their “why,” so they can build lasting resilience

If you’re an educator, coach, administrator, parent, or simply someone who cares about the next generation’s well-being, this episode will give you insights, strategies, and real stories to help you foster greater communication, resilience, and support—on and off the field.

For more on Kenisha’s work or to bring Game Changers United to your campus, you can find her on Instagram at @KenishaNichelle, on LinkedIn as Kenisha Brown-Alexander, or visit gamechangersunited.com.

As always, remember—your voice has the power to change the world. Thanks for listening to Speaking with Confidence.

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Mirroring and Labeling: Essential Interview Tools | Tim Newman Speaks21 Aug 202500:12:02

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Have you ever wondered why some interviewers can draw out powerful, authentic stories from their guests, while others get nothing but surface-level, forgettable responses? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dive into the art and science of interviewing not as the one answering questions, but as the one skillfully guiding the conversation.

As your host, Tim Newman, a former college professor turned communication coach, I take you behind the scenes to reveal how top interviewers turn every exchange into a meaningful dialogue. While I typically invite guests onto the show, today it’s just you and me, focusing on a transformative communication technique that can immediately elevate your interviewing skills, whether you’re creating content, leading teams, or deepening everyday conversations.

By the end of this episode, you’ll be equipped to:

  • Use the mirroring technique to draw out richer, more authentic responses
  • Combine mirroring with careful labeling to acknowledge and explore emotional undercurrents
  • Pause intentionally to give your guest space and show you’re listening
  • Avoid presumptive labeling and instead use safe, observation-based language
  • Adjust your approach for virtual interviews, from camera placement to audio checks and bridging gaps during technical hiccups
  • Practice with concrete phrases and real-life scenarios so you can implement these tools right away

I challenge you to try mirroring and labeling in your next conversation, and notice the difference it makes. Share your observations with us. Progress over perfection is the goal.

And don’t forget, you can grab my free ebook, “Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them”, or sign up for my Formula for Public Speaking course at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com. As always, remember: your voice is power. Keep practicing, keep growing, and I’ll see you next time!


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Building Confident Communication: Mindset, Presence, and Practical Tools with Meaghan Benjamin18 Aug 202500:45:25

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How do you rebuild confidence and communication skills after life-changing events, or simply grow your presence in a world filled with digital noise? That’s the big question we dig into on this week’s episode of Speaking with Confidence, and I think you’ll walk away with new tools and a lot to think about—whether you’re tackling a major transition or just wanting to level up your everyday communication.

In this episode, I’m joined by Meaghan Benjamin, an executive communication coach who’s spent nearly 20 years helping people—from head and neck cancer survivors to Fortune 500 executives—find their voices and connect with impact. With a background in speech and hearing science and psychology, plus a neuroscience-informed approach to leadership development, Meaghan brings a wealth of experience to the table. Her story is truly unique; she started by supporting patients who, after cancer, had to relearn how to speak and present themselves to the world in totally new ways. Through that work, Meaghan realized that building communication confidence is a universal journey, whether you’re recovering from trauma or trying to command the boardroom.

We're talking about:

  • How to rebuild confidence and presence after major life changes—and why small goals matter
  • Mindset shifts that are as crucial for executives as they are for trauma survivors
  • Why 55% of communication is nonverbal, and how to harness your gestures and tone, especially on Zoom
  • The unique challenges of digital communication and how our “lens” filters written messages
  • The growing pressure of instant digital responses, especially among younger generations, and its impact on real connection
  • How to help kids and young adults practice the soft skills critical to adult success—plus stories from both our families and classrooms
  • The “No Feel Do” framework, and why knowing how you want your audience to feel and act shifts every conversation
  • Why disagreement doesn’t have to mean disrespect, and how to keep 80% of shared ground at the center of your relationships
  • Practical advice for handling meetings, tough questions, and those “pivot” moments that can rattle new professionals
  • The importance of in-person networking, informational interviews, and getting comfortable being uncomfortable, especially early in your career
  • Meaghan’s unique Agile Communication methodology, how it blends science and art, and its application to both presentations and day-to-day leadership
  • Studio Re Invent’s new AI-powered communication coach Sage, and how technology can actually help you develop deeper, more human skills—when used intentionally

Whether you’re a leader, educator, parent, or someone just looking to boost your communication mojo, Meaghan offers insights and tools you can put into action today. Stick around to hear how confidence is built—not magically materialized—and why practicing in real-life, sometimes awkward moments is the best training ground there is.

You can learn more about Meaghan and Studio Re Invent at studioreinvent.com, find additional resources on our Speaking with Confidence Podcast website, and check out our free eBook and upcoming public speaking course.

As always, remember: your voice has the power to change the world. Let’s get out there

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Tim Newman Speaks: From Experience to Wisdom14 Aug 202500:12:09

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Have you ever wondered why you keep repeating the same mistakes, even when you work hard and accumulate experience? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I dig deep into a powerful question: what’s really holding you back from growing as a communicator and professional, and how can you break the cycle and accelerate your progress for real?

Hi, I’m Tim Newman, a recovering college professor turned communication coach, and your host on this journey toward showing up with confidence in every conversation. On today’s episode (inspired by last week’s impactful discussion with Danielle Droitsch about aligning self-confidence with your authentic self), I unpack a concept that hits home for many of us: the difference between simply remembering what happened and truly reflecting on it.

Here’s an overview of what we’ll dive into:

  • Why passive reminiscing (just replaying past events in your head) isn’t enough and actually keeps you on a treadmill of old mistakes.
  • John Maxwell’s Law of Reflection, which shows that evaluated experience, not just experience alone, drives genuine improvement.
  • The four-step “Four I’s” framework for effective reflection: Investigation, Incubation, Illumination, and Illustration. I explain each with practical examples of how to dig deeper, create space to process, capture insights, and document them so they’ll guide your next steps.
  • How to use Maxwell’s personal awareness questions to surface real patterns standing in the way of your growth.
  • Why scheduling time for reflection, documenting what you learn, and acting on those lessons is the fastest way to compounding progress.
  • The difference between growth that is intentional, structured, and measurable, versus “busyness” that leads nowhere, and how the top 1% protect their reflection habit like any high-priority task.
  • Actionable advice on setting up your own reflection rhythm using daily, weekly, quarterly, and annual check-ins (with specific time recommendations and real-life examples).
  • My challenge to you: block ten minutes today for structured reflection and see how quickly you can start gaining new insights.

    If you’re eager to turn your past into a resource for future success rather than just a collection of memories, this episode lays out the step-by-step blueprint to get you there. I invite you to try the system for a week, observe the difference, and remember, we’re seeking progress, not perfection.

    Don’t forget, you can grab your free eBook, “The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them,” at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, or register for the Formula for Public Speaking course.

    Your voice has power, so let’s use it, and let’s grow together. I’ll talk to you next time.

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Escaping Burnout: Unlocking Confidence and Fulfillment in Your Career with Danielle Droitsch11 Aug 202500:43:08

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Have you ever found yourself feeling unfulfilled at work and wondered if it’s really possible to find both purpose and confidence in your career? If so, you’re not alone, and today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence may have the answers you’ve been searching for.

On this episode, I welcome Danielle Droitsch, an executive and leadership coach who helps high-achieving professionals rediscover their superpowers, reclaim well-being, and approach their work with confidence and purpose. Danielle’s story is one so many of us can relate to: after building a successful career as a senior leader at a nonprofit, she experienced burnout that changed her perspective on career satisfaction and life itself. Now, she helps others create the fulfilling work experiences they deserve.

Here’s what we covered in today’s episode:

  • Danielle’s personal journey from burnout to a fulfilling second career
  • The emotional signals (like boredom and irritability) that indicate something deeper is off in your work life
  • How to separate your job from your identity and why that matters
  • The importance of asking “Who am I?” and how to start finding your unique superpower
  • Insights from new research on human flourishing and why young people are struggling
  • The role of real, in-person connection for well-being
  • Practical steps for unplugging, reconnecting with yourself, and finding what truly energizes you
  • Why soft skills (communication, problem-solving, impact) drive both advancement and confidence
  • Common pitfalls for young professionals and students and how to avoid them
  • The link between self-awareness, confidence, and showing up authentically in every aspect of life

Whether you’re in the middle of a career transition, supporting young people, or simply looking to feel more confident at work, this episode offers relatable stories, actionable insights, and the encouragement to step back, reassess, and reconnect with yourself and others.

To connect with Danielle, check out time4wellbeing.com (that’s “four” as the number!), and look for her free training on finding fulfilling work. 


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Mastering the 30-Second Introduction | Tim Newman Speaks07 Aug 202500:13:54

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What’s the real secret to making an introduction that people actually remember—and want to follow up with? If you’ve ever found yourself rattling off your name, job title, and a couple of generic facts only to watch the other person’s eyes glaze over, you’re not alone. In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I break down why most 30-second introductions fall flat, and how to craft one that instantly sets you apart.

Today we’re focusing on one of the most overlooked skills in professional communication: the art (and science) of a memorable introduction. There’s no featured guest this time—it's just me, drawing on my experience as a communication coach and former college professor, to walk you through a research-backed formula that will transform the way you present yourself in every first impression.

Here’s what we covered in today’s episode:

  • Why most standard introductions get ignored (and the science behind first impressions)
  • The role of nonverbal communication—what people notice first and why it matters
  • The primacy effect and how what you say first shapes how you’re remembered
  • Shifting from job titles to value-driven statements
  • The three-part Confident Connection Formula: hook, value statement, and conversation starter
  • Real-world examples of transforming forgettable intros into memorable ones
  • The importance of vocal modulation, body language, and strategic pauses
  • Practical steps for refining your own introduction
  • Why a great introduction isn’t about perfection—it’s about making progress

Whether you’re networking, interviewing, or just meeting someone new, these skills help you show up with clarity and confidence from your very first word. Don’t forget to grab your free ebook at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com, check out my upcoming course, and keep practicing—because your voice truly has the power to change your world.


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Building Resilience and Confidence Through Mindfulness with Cesar Cardona04 Aug 202500:43:15

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What does it really take to turn your personal struggles and lived experience into authentic confidence when you communicate? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I sit down with Cesar Cardona—public speaker, podcast co-host, and mindfulness educator—to uncover how resilience, mindfulness, and embracing your unique story are foundational not only to personal growth, but also to becoming a powerful communicator.

Cesar’s journey is anything but ordinary. Growing up navigating conflict in a home of deep cultural and political divides, he openly shares how early trauma shaped his perspective but also planted the seeds for resilience. We discuss how he learned to move forward despite adversity, drawing on the strengths of both his parents—combining book smarts and street smarts—and how everyone can find something valuable in their experiences, no matter how tough.

A turning point came for Cesar at a Joseph Campbell roundtable event, when—despite never aspiring to speak publicly—he took a risk, shared his thoughts, and was suddenly handed a life-changing speaking opportunity. This honest look at “accidentally” launching a public speaking career is both inspiring and packed with practical lessons for anyone wanting to share their voice but feeling hesitant or nervous.

We also break down what it’s really like to speak in front of others (hint: nerves are normal and even useful), and why storytelling doesn’t require a big dramatic narrative—just a willingness to share honestly and connect on a human level. Listening, asking questions, leaning on friends for support, and being accountable (while offering grace to ourselves and others) are all covered, along with some thoughts on the role of AI and technology in communication today.

In this conversation, you’ll hear us talk about:

  • Using mindfulness and self-awareness to manage nerves and uncertainty
  • The importance of moving forward, even when it’s uncomfortable
  • Building a supportive network and the courage to ask for help
  • Why listening is just as important as speaking
  • Embracing storytelling as a simple, daily part of communication—not just a buzzword

If you’ve ever doubted your ability to communicate confidently or wondered if your history is a liability, Cesar’s story will assure you that your best voice comes from embracing the whole of who you are.

For more on Cesar or to hear his music project, check out CaesarCardona.com, and don’t forget to grab your free resources at speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com. Your story—and your voice—matter.

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Tim Newman Speaks: Better Questions, Bigger Breakthroughs: How to Communicate With Confidence (rerun)31 Jul 202500:08:33

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Have you ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “That could’ve gone better…”?

In this solo episode of Speaking With Confidence, host Tim Newman explores how asking better questions can unlock more effective communication, stronger interpersonal skills, and, believe it or not, career-changing opportunities.

Inspired by his conversation with communication coach Michelle Schafer, Tim shares how simple shifts in our approach to networking, interviews, and public presentations can turn small talk into a powerful connection. Spoiler alert: it’s not about having all the right answers, it’s about asking the right questions.

You’ll learn how thoughtful questions like “What energizes you about your work right now?” create deeper and more authentic conversations than the typical “So, what do you do?” You’ll also discover how preparation, just 15-20 minutes of intentional research, can skyrocket your confidence before any public speaking opportunity or job interview.

What You’ll Walk Away With:

  • How to use communication skills and curiosity to create meaningful conversations
  • Why better questions matter more than polished answers
  • Practical ways to prepare with purpose before a public presentation or interview
  • Tips for following up in a way that builds strong professional relationships
  • Why soft skills like listening and intentional follow-up are your secret career superpowers

Whether you're navigating a job search, trying to overcome imposter syndrome, or simply looking to become a more powerful communicator, this episode is packed with practical tools to help you communicate effectively and with confidence.

Listen now and start your journey toward personal development and professional growth—one thoughtful question at a time.

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Unlocking Charisma and Leading with Presence with Richard Reid28 Jul 202500:49:48

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What if charisma isn’t about being magnetic... but about being real?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I sit down with therapist, coach, and leadership expert Richard Reid to explore what truly makes someone a powerful communicator. Spoiler alert: it’s not about being the most dynamic speaker or the loudest voice in the room.

Richard unpacks the difference between charm and charisma and why one builds trust while the other often erodes it. We talk about how presence, authenticity, and curiosity form the foundation of effective communication skills, especially in today’s tech-saturated world.

We also dig into leadership communication, the power of storytelling techniques, and how younger professionals can build public speaking confidence without pretending to be someone they’re not. If you’ve ever wrestled with imposter syndrome, felt drained by Zoom meetings, or thought “I just don’t have that ‘it’ factor,” this one’s for you.

Here’s what we cover:

  • Why authentic charisma beats performative charm every time
  • The impact of technology on our presence and emotional regulation
  • The leadership advantage of storytelling and vulnerability
  • How to build connection by listening for emotions, not just facts
  • Why confidence in public speaking starts with owning your story
  • And Richard’s refreshingly practical advice for anyone looking to grow

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Ready to unlock your own charisma and become the communicator people remember? Visit timnewmanspeaks.com to grab your free e-book Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them and start transforming your communication today.

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Mastering Body Language and Authenticity in Public Speaking: Insights from Rachael Edmondson-Clarke27 Oct 202500:46:58

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Have you ever wondered what it really takes to speak confidently in front of any audience—whether it’s a crowded boardroom, a theatre-stage packed with anticipation, or a busy hair salon at age twelve? In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I welcome back the incredible Rachael Edmondson-Clarke for her second appearance—a rare privilege on this show! Rachael’s journey from sweeping floors in her mom’s beauty salon to leading professional speakers across the UK and Ireland is more than inspirational—it’s a masterclass in authentic communication, building trust, and continuous growth.

In this episode, we dive deep into how early experiences shape our ability to read nonverbal cues, remain genuine, and adapt our energy to truly connect with others. Rachael shares the story of working reception in her mom’s salon—juggling two telephones, a crowd of clients, and a team of stylists—all before she was sixteen! She reflects on how tuning into body language transformed not only her customer service skills but also her capacity to lead and build trust, skills that have served her throughout her career.

Rachael takes us on a whirlwind tour of her professional journey: from impactful presenting workshops, to drama stages, to corporate boardrooms, and finally to becoming vice president of the Professional Speaking Association UK & Ireland. She shares candid lessons from competing in the Speaker Factor competition, including her “banana and dark chocolate” ritual, and how even a tough performance can be the launchpad for real growth when you have the right community supporting you.

We talk about the crucial importance of congruence—making sure your words, body language, and tone all align to build trust and credibility. Rachael’s anecdotes highlight that storytelling isn’t just about big, heroic moments; it’s also about the everyday stories (including her infamous toothbrush battery saga!) that make you relatable and memorable to any audience.

Throughout our conversation, we emphasize how practice, resilience, and vulnerability are key to developing as a speaker. Whether it’s learning from an uncomfortable video replay or dusting off your presentation after setbacks, the journey to confident communication is ongoing—and full of opportunities to embrace humor, share truth, and connect authentically.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

  • How reading body language and energy can elevate your communication—starting at the salon reception desk
  • Why being congruent (aligning words and actions) builds trust with any audience
  • Rachael’s transition from corporate marketing roles to leading professional speakers—and what she learned along the way
  • The value of continuous learning and putting your skills into practice (even if it means watching yourself on video!)
  • Behind-the-scenes secrets of the Speaker Factor competition (including performance rituals, nerves, and bouncing back from setbacks)
  • The pivotal role of storytelling—why everyday moments matter as much as big, dramatic stories
  • Using humor (self-deprecating or otherwise) as a powerful connector and communicator
  • Practical advice for anyone looking to build confidence: find your own style, practice, and seek feedback from a supportive community

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Tim Newman Speaks: Stop Wrecking Relationships with Bad Feedback24 Jul 202500:12:54

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Ever walked out of a feedback session more confused, frustrated, or defensive than when you walked in? You’re not alone, and it’s probably not what was said, but how it was said.

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I break down the real reason most feedback sabotages relationships: it ignores personality. Using the DISC model, I walk through how different communication styles process feedback, and why a “feedback sandwich” just isn’t cutting it anymore.

From understanding the neurological triggers of defensiveness to using the SBI model (Situation, Behavior, Impact) to shape clearer conversations, I’ll show you how to turn your feedback from friction into fuel for real growth. We’ll also talk about why future-focused feedback works better, how to use active listening skills in tough conversations, and what it takes to become a powerful communicator who builds trust, even during hard talks.

This episode is for you if:

  • You’re tired of feedback turning into a standoff
  • You want to lead with empathy and clarity
  • You’re working on your confidence in public speaking, or just in everyday conversations

We don’t get better by sugarcoating. We get better by communicating clearly, confidently, and with intention.

Want more? Download my free eBook The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them and explore more powerful communication resources at TimNewmanSpeaks.com.

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Why Great Leaders Listen First with Joanne Merrick21 Jul 202500:55:43

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What separates managers who merely delegate from those who transform teams? It's not just strategy, it's communication. In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I sit down with global leadership expert Joanne Merrick to talk about what it really takes to become a powerful communicator in today’s chaotic work world.

With over 25 years of experience across five continents and leadership roles at Amazon, Deloitte, and Juniper Networks, Joanne brings the receipts. She unpacks the neuroscience behind why autonomy fuels creativity, how emotional intelligence can replace micromanagement, and why being understood starts with taking responsibility for how you show up.

We dive into:

  • Why communication is a leadership skill, not just a speaking skill
  • How to evaluate whether management is the right next step for your career
  • The role self-awareness plays in storytelling, feedback, and influence
  • How to overcome imposter syndrome and build confidence through connection
  • The surprising power of someone believing in you

Whether you're leading engineers, managing meetings, or just trying to make your voice heard without second-guessing yourself, this conversation will give you the mindset, tools, and practical language to communicate with clarity and impact.

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Tim Newman Speaks: Mastering the Quiet Power of Charisma17 Jul 202500:11:46

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Have you ever watched someone walk into a room and instantly capture attention, without even saying a word? That’s charisma. But here’s the truth: it’s not some mystical, born-with-it energy. It’s a set of communication skills that you can master.

In this solo episode of Speaking with Confidence, I unpack what charisma really is and how it ties directly into being a powerful communicator. Whether you're leading a team, giving a presentation, or just trying not to disappear in a meeting, the balance of warmth and competence is your secret weapon.

We’ll explore how your body language can speak volumes before your voice does, how simple adjustments can shift how people perceive you, and how your mindset may be the biggest block to developing your presence.

Here’s what we’ll cover:

  • The science-backed truth: charisma is a learnable behavior
  • Why presence, power, and warmth matter more than your title
  • Body language habits that increase your impact
  • How to project confidence and still be approachable
  • Tools to boost public speaking confidence and fight imposter syndrome

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Reinventing Yourself Through Communication with Jenny Alday Townsend14 Jul 202500:57:15

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What if your biggest personal crisis turned out to be your greatest professional breakthrough?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I sit down with Jenny Alday Townsend, an award-winning entrepreneur, keynote speaker, and Amazon bestselling author, for an unforgettable conversation about resilience, reinvention, and the communication tools that helped her rebuild her life from the ground up.

Jenny opens up about the moment her marriage was rocked by infidelity and how it forced her to rediscover who she was outside of her business. She shares how stepping back from micromanagement actually helped her team thrive, and how mastering powerful communication, through storytelling, active listening, and emotional honesty, became her secret to success both at work and at home.

We also dig into her “Stroke It” framework: a practical, heartfelt guide for making others feel seen, heard, and appreciated. Whether you're navigating tough conversations at work, trying to reconnect with your partner, or simply looking to boost your public speaking confidence, Jenny brings the kind of real talk and actionable insights you’ll want to revisit again and again.

In this episode, we cover:

  • How ego and fear of vulnerability stifle effective leadership
  • Why storytelling isn’t just a skill—it’s a lifeline
  • Overcoming imposter syndrome and speaking anxiety after public failure
  • What Jenny learned about communication by working herself out of a job
  • Setting boundaries, building trust, and showing appreciation through language

Ready to level up your relationships and communication skills on stage, in your marriage, or in your own head? This episode is your permission slip to show up, speak honestly, and lead with intention.

Connect with Jenny:

Website: Jennyaldaytownsend.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@JennyTownsend
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennyaldaytownsend/
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Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennyaldaytownsend
Podcast: Jennyaldaytownsend.com/podcast

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Tim Newman Speaks: How to Tell Stories That Actually Stick10 Jul 202500:10:28

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Forget everything you thought you knew about effective communication. It’s not the stats, not the slides, and definitely not the script that makes people lean in, it’s the story.

In this solo episode, I break down the neuroscience behind why storytelling is one of the most powerful communication tools we have. When you tell a real story, especially the messy, imperfect ones, you create a shared experience with your audience that facts alone can’t touch.

I walk through the 3-part storytelling framework I use with every keynote: Struggle, Strategy, and Transformation. Skip the struggle and you skip the connection. But when you open up about the nights you almost quit, the awkward stumbles, the trial-and-error moments, your audience doesn’t just hear you, they feel you.

I also share a personal moment where a story completely shifted the room, and how I discovered that vulnerability isn’t weakness; it’s credibility.

If you’ve ever wondered how to connect faster, lead stronger, or speak with more confidence, the answer might be hiding in the story you haven’t told yet.

Want to practice? Try this: Spend 30 seconds describing a challenge you faced, and 30 seconds on how you got through it. That unfiltered version might just be your next standing ovation.

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Rewrite Your Story, Own the Room: Lessons from Cam F. Awesome07 Jul 202501:07:50

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What do boxing, public speaking, and personal transformation have in common? For Cam F. Awesome, everything.

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I sit down with Cam, a 12-time national boxing champion, motivational speaker, and self-described “motivational vegan,” to talk about the mindset behind powerful communication and unstoppable resilience.

Cam doesn’t just tell a comeback story, he lives one. Bullied as a kid and cut from every team he tried out for, Cam found boxing not as a passion, but as the only option left. He turned that into a decorated amateur career and a life dedicated to helping others reframe their inner narratives.

From the ring to the stage, Cam reveals the mental techniques that helped him dominate in the ring and how they can help you dominate your self-doubt. Whether you're battling imposter syndrome, speaking anxiety, or just trying to show up more authentically, this conversation offers a no-fluff roadmap to lasting confidence.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why confidence starts with your internal dialogue, not applause or approval
  • Cam’s daily “gratitude reps” that help him stay mentally strong and emotionally grounded
  • How to win conversations (and audiences) using storytelling techniques from the boxing ring
  • Why imposter syndrome is often just your brain trying to protect you—and how to punch back
  • The simple formula: belief + action = inevitable results

If you’ve ever felt like your fear of failing is louder than your voice, Cam’s philosophy will rewire the way you think. Because, as he says, “If you can fail without being discouraged, success becomes inevitable.”

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http://www.youtube.com/@CamFAwesome

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Tim Newman Speaks: Unlocking Confidence Through Improv03 Jul 202500:10:44

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Ever freeze up mid-conversation or overthink every word before a big presentation? I’ve been there too, and I’ve learned that you don’t need to be perfect to be powerful.

In this solo episode of Speaking With Confidence, I’m sharing three of my favorite improv-inspired techniques that have helped me (and many of my clients) show up with more presence, connection, and confidence, no matter the setting.

You’ll hear how the “Yes, And” mindset can instantly shift you from anxious overthinking to engaged collaboration, how embracing failure (yes, on purpose) builds real trust and authenticity, and why a quick 10-second grounding technique might be your new go-to tool for calming nerves.

These tools aren’t about performing, they’re about transforming how you show up. Because confidence doesn’t come from being flawless. It comes from learning to trust yourself in the moment.

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The Framework for Powerful Communication with Chris Duprey30 Jun 202500:54:57

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What if the best leaders aren't the ones with the answers, but the ones who know how to ask the right questions?

In this episode, I sit down with former Army officer turned leadership coach Chris Duprey to explore the mindset shift that turns managers into powerful communicators. Through his Pathfinder’s Compass framework, Chris breaks down the difference between leading by instruction and leading by inquiry. Spoiler: It’s less “boss mode,” more “Ted Lasso with a mission.”

They get deep into the four pillars of breakthrough communication, Yes-And energy, vanguarding concerns, a question-first mentality, and the Law of Three, and explain how they help leaders develop other leaders. Whether you’re navigating team dynamics, family conversations, or your next big presentation, this episode reveals how curiosity, self-awareness, and intentional listening are the tools that change everything.

Chris shares how the military taught him the importance of active listening and how that lesson stuck with him far beyond the battlefield. His approach isn’t about surface-level leadership tips, it’s about building trust, growing initiative, and empowering others to find their own answers.

Connect with Chris:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/cduprey/

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Tim Newman Speaks: Why Silence is Your Most Underrated Speaking Tool26 Jun 202500:11:25

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Ever been told to “just stop saying um” like that’s helpful advice? In this episode, I share the honest moment a student called me out for giving that exact unhelpful tip, and how it changed my entire approach to teaching effective communication.

You’ll learn why our brains default to filler words when we’re speaking too fast, what neuroscience says about the role of pauses, and why the solution isn’t perfection, its presence.

Discover the "two-second solution" that helps reduce filler words by up to 40%, and how a well-timed pause can increase your authority, boost audience retention, and even calm speaking anxiety. Whether you’re leading meetings, pitching ideas, or just trying to get through a conversation without saying “uh” every 5 seconds, this episode is packed with tools to help you show up more powerfully and speak with confidence.

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Unlocking Your Unfair Advantage with John Little23 Jun 202500:51:31

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Leadership isn’t about having all the answers; it’s about knowing the right questions to ask. In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, host I am joined by nationally recognized executive performance coach John Little to explore the real work behind powerful communication and authentic leadership.

With over 25 years of coaching and consulting experience, John shares how his EMBRACE framework helps professionals overcome imposter syndrome, build real confidence, and communicate with clarity. Together, we unpack the subtle difference between ego and confidence, the impact of generational communication styles, and why trust is the foundation of leadership, not charisma.

If you’ve ever felt like you weren’t “enough” in a room full of leaders, or you’re tired of faking it just to keep up, this conversation is your permission slip to lead with what makes you unique.

In this episode, we cover:

  • Why imposter syndrome might be a sign of potential
  • How technology is reshaping (and sometimes ruining) our communication instincts
  • The “unfair advantage” hiding in your personal story
  • Ego vs. confidence: How they really show up in the workplace
  • Practical strategies for building trust and influence as a leader
  • Why humility, storytelling, and listening are the new power tools of leadership

Whether you’re new to leadership or a seasoned executive, John’s insights will help you show up with more presence, purpose, and confidence.

Connect with John:

http://www.linkedin.com/in/bigjohnlittle

https://thewinnersedgecoaching.com


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The Secrets to Starting a Presentation Strong | Tim Newman Speaks23 Oct 202500:10:32

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Have you ever wondered why those first few seconds of a presentation seem to matter so much—and what you can do to make an unforgettable first impression? That’s exactly what we’re diving into in today’s episode of Speaking with Confidence.

As your host, I’m Tim Newman—a recovering college professor turned communication coach—here to help you transform how you show up in critical professional moments. In this solo episode, I dig deep into the pivotal opening seconds of any conversation or presentation, explaining just how quickly our audiences form judgments about us, often before we’ve even said a word. If you’ve ever stumbled over your opening line, tossed out a nervous “um,” or rushed an apology, you’re not alone. But research shows those tiny signals have an outsized impact on how credible and confident we come across.

We kick off this episode looking at the science behind first impressions and what’s actually happening in your audience’s mind before you’ve begun to speak. I break down how nonverbal cues—like body language, eye contact, and breath—are unconsciously evaluated, leading listeners to decide, in milliseconds, whether you’re someone worth tuning into. Whether you’re entering a boardroom or joining a casual conversation, those early moments count more than we often realize.

Here’s the game changer: I introduce a simple, research-backed technique called the “silent transformation.” At its heart, this approach asks you to pause—intentionally—for a few seconds before you speak. What feels awkward from the speaker’s side actually signals steadiness and control to everyone watching. I walk you through why this pause lowers your anxiety, helps focus your thoughts, and sets the stage for a much stronger connection with your audience.

Of course, how you follow that pause is just as important as the pause itself. I share the elements of crafting a memorable first line, offering examples of surprising statistics, bold questions, and vivid short stories that instantly generate curiosity and relevance. You'll hear practical routines to make silence feel natural, concise strategies to build anticipation, and methods to ensure your opening words have real impact.

By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clear, actionable plan for your next presentation:

  • The psychological evidence behind snap judgments in opening seconds
  • How nervous habits derail your credibility, and what to do instead
  • The silent transformation technique: why a deliberate pause works wonders
  • How to practice silence so it feels empowering, not awkward
  • The three reliable ways to open with impact (statistic, question, or story)
  • Connecting your opener to your audience for immediate relevance
  • Why concise, rehearsed beginnings make you appear more confident and thoughtful
  • A challenge for your next presentation, and a routine for daily practice

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to move beyond shaky introductions and truly command attention from the moment they step into the room. If you’re ready to transform your presence and make every word count, start with these tools—and don’t forget to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for your free eBook and resources to keep building your skills.

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Tim Newman Speaks: Why Great Communicators Never Stop Learning19 Jun 202500:11:13

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If you've ever wondered what separates the average speaker from someone who commands attention and inspires action, the answer is simpler than you think, and far more powerful. It’s not talent. It’s not charisma. It’s commitment.

In this solo episode, I talk about the unglamorous but transformational truth: powerful communicators never stop improving. From the books they read to the feedback they embrace (even when it stings), great communicators know that input drives output. And that growth? It’s never accidental.

Whether you're navigating team meetings, delivering keynotes, or just trying not to blank during a presentation, this episode will challenge you to look at communication as a muscle, not a medal. You’ll learn why even 10 minutes of daily reading can sharpen your storytelling techniques, how feedback fuels progress, and why recording yourself (cringe and all) is one of the smartest things you can do to grow.

In This Episode:

  • Why reading is a communication superpower
  • The truth about lifelong learning and leadership communication
  • How to get honest feedback without getting defensive
  • Four practical ways to elevate your communication every week
  • Why being a better communicator has nothing to do with being perfect

If you're ready to step into your full potential as a communicator, this episode is your roadmap.

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The Leadership Habit That Builds Powerful Communicators with Ron Reich16 Jun 202500:45:46

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What makes someone a powerful communicator? According to Ron Reich, it's not the title, the slides, or the flashy speeches; it’s relationships, self-awareness, and the willingness to grow.

With 30 years of experience in leadership development, corporate training, and coaching across industries like banking, tech, and pharma, Ron brings a grounded, human-first perspective to communication. In this episode, we dive into what truly builds confidence, not just in public speaking, but in everyday leadership.

Ron’s secret weapon? A relentless commitment to learning. He’s read over 400 leadership books (yes, really) and shares how the simple habit of reading just ten pages a day transformed his communication, leadership, and credibility.

You’ll hear Ron’s take on the “Platinum Rule,” why emotional intelligence trumps technical skill, and how the best communicators aren’t always the loudest, they’re the ones who listen with their eyes, ears, and heart.

What You’ll Learn:

  • How self-awareness helps you lead and speak with confidence
  • Why asking for help makes you a stronger communicator
  • How to overcome imposter syndrome through preparation and practice
  • The difference between communication and connection, and how to bridge it
  • Why leadership development never ends (and shouldn’t)

Whether you're stepping into leadership for the first time or just trying to sound less awkward in meetings, this conversation will give you the tools and perspective to speak up with confidence and actually be heard.

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Instagram: instagram.com/leadership_rlb/

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Tim Newman Speaks: Introvert to Influencer, Communication Skills That Work12 Jun 202500:13:29

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Are you an introvert who dreads networking events or fast-paced meetings? Good news: you don’t have to become an extrovert to be a powerful communicator.

In this episode, I share real-world strategies tailored for introverts who want to boost their communication skills without changing who they are. You’ll learn how to own your voice, embrace your natural strengths, and create authentic connections, one meaningful conversation at a time.

I talk about:

  • The 30-Second Rule for getting your voice heard in meetings
  • The Two-Deep Strategy to make networking less draining (and more effective)
  • How to use written communication to express yourself with clarity and impact
  • Why active listening might be your most underrated leadership tool
  • How to overcome imposter syndrome without pretending to be someone you're not

Whether you’ve been told to “speak up more” or you’re just tired of feeling overlooked, this episode offers a refreshing, practical toolkit to help introverts lead with confidence and connection.

Download your free eBook, Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers & How to Overcome Them, and explore the Formula for Public Speaking course at timnewmanspeaks.com.

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Small Ball, Big Voice: How Joel Goldberg Builds Trust Through Communication09 Jun 202501:12:29

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What does interviewing World Series champions and leading corporate keynotes have in common? According to longtime sports broadcaster Joel Goldberg, it all comes down to trust, authenticity, and powerful communication.

In this episode, Joel joins Tim Newman to talk about how 30 years in sports media, including 17 with the Kansas City Royals, shaped his communication skills beyond the mic. From cold calling his way into broadcasting to navigating grief in the clubhouse, Joel shares what it really means to build trust, read the room, and speak with purpose.

He opens up about battling imposter syndrome, mastering active listening skills, and why sometimes the best thing you can say… is nothing at all. Whether you're giving a big presentation or just trying to be heard at work, this conversation will help you connect more deeply and speak with confidence.

What You’ll Learn:

  • Why public speaking confidence starts with repetition, not perfection
  • How to overcome imposter syndrome, even after 1,000 interviews
  • The role of emotional intelligence in leadership communication
  • What “small ball” means for career growth and powerful communication
  • How reading the room and respecting silence builds deeper trust
  • Why storytelling techniques outperform stats, even in sports

Connect with Joel:

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https://www.linkedin.com/in/joelgoldbergkc

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IG: @joelgoldbergkc

Joel’s books: Small Ball Big Results and Small Ball Big Dreams

 

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Tim Newman Speaks: Why Humor Is the Secret Weapon of Powerful Communicators05 Jun 202500:14:15

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Ever been told you’re “too serious” or “intimidating” before you even open your mouth? What if that exact energy could make you one of the most magnetic communicators in the room?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I break down the science and strategy behind using humor, not to be the funniest person in the room, but to be the most impactful. From defusing tension in high-stakes meetings to building trust through shared imperfections, you’ll learn how humor unlocks deeper connection, boosts your credibility, and strengthens your leadership communication.

I share storytelling techniques, insights on the “Pratfall Effect,” and real-world tips for using situational and self-deprecating humor effectively. Whether you’re trying to overcome speaking anxiety, improve your presentation skills, or just not dread your next team meeting, this episode offers practical, powerful tools to help you connect with confidence.

In this episode:

  • Why reserved or intense personalities actually amplify the power of humor
  • How humor creates instant rapport and lowers communication barriers
  • The psychology of shared laughter and how it signals connection
  • When self-deprecating humor works, and when it backfires
  • How to use humor to handle awkward silences and reset tense moments
  • Why icebreakers usually fail (and what actually works)

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How to Build a Network That Builds Your Career with Michael Morgan02 Jun 202500:57:00

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Some people walk into a room and instantly connect. Others spend the night hovering near the veggie tray, wondering how anyone makes networking look effortless.

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I talk with Michael Morgan, author of The Power of Networking and a seasoned leader with experience at Amazon, JPMorgan Chase, Walmart, and Chevron, to explore how meaningful relationships can fuel career growth and unlock opportunities you never saw coming.

From fraternity events at Penn State to Fortune 100 boardrooms, Michael shares how one connection changed everything. But this episode goes beyond traditional networking tips. We dive deep into leadership communication, active listening skills, and the presentation skills development needed to stand out, especially when you feel like an imposter in the room.

Key highlights include:

  • How to build authentic connections (even if small talk drains you)
  • The power of “disagree and commit” and speaking up without stepping on toes
  • Using storytelling techniques to build trust and open doors
  • Overcoming fear of public speaking and speaking anxiety in high-stakes moments
  • Strategic preparation tips to tailor your communication and personal brand

If you want to become a powerful communicator, the kind people remember and want to refer, this episode will give you a roadmap to do just that.

Connect with Michael:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelvmorgan/

https://www.instagram.com/michael.v.morgan/

https://www.tiktok.com/@michael.v.morgan

https://michaelvmorgan.com

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Tim Newman Speaks: The 3-Step Fix for Imposter Syndrome Nobody Taught You29 May 202500:14:00

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Ever felt like you're one awkward pause away from being “found out”? You’re not alone. Up to 82% of professionals struggle with impostor syndrome, even when the evidence proves they’re more than capable.

In this episode, I unpack the three-part system that turns imposter syndrome into authentic, grounded confidence. This isn’t just a pep talk, it’s a roadmap to becoming a powerful communicator through structure, voice, and momentum.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

  • Why the three-act structure gives your message clarity and your brain relief
  • How to uncover your authentic voice (hint: stop trying to “sound professional”)
  • Why small wins, like a well-placed pause or active listening, create lasting confidence
  • How to build a “confidence flywheel” using neuroscience-backed techniques
  • Why public speaking confidence is about habits, not hype

This episode is for anyone who’s tired of waiting for confidence to magically appear (spoiler alert: it is NOT going to happen) and is ready to build it instead. Whether you’re leading meetings, pitching ideas, or just trying to be heard, these tools help you show up powerfully.

Because your voice doesn’t need to be perfect, it just needs to be yours.

Visit TimNewmanSpeaks.com to grab your free resource, The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, and start building the confidence you deserve.

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From Seinfeld to TikTok: Annie Korzen’s Secrets to Effective Communication Skills26 May 202500:54:20

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What if your so-called flaws were actually your superpowers as a communicator?

At 86 years old, Annie Korzen, a character actress best known as Doris Klumpus on Seinfeld, has found viral fame on TikTok by being unapologetically herself. In this episode, Annie joins us to talk about how embracing her bold, outspoken nature led her to become a powerful communicator for a whole new generation.

From navigating social media at an age when most people are avoiding it, to crafting stories that connect across generational divides, Annie brings humor, heart, and a refreshing dose of real talk. She shares her thoughts on storytelling techniques, why being “too much” is often just enough, and how to handle speaking anxiety when your audience is the internet.

This is more than a story about going viral, it’s a blueprint for owning your voice, even when others have tried to silence it.

In this episode:

  • How authenticity became Annie’s superpower
  • What makes a story more than just a collection of events
  • Why Gen Z craves imperfection
  • Overcoming imposter syndrome, online critics, and speaking anxiety
  • Leadership communication and the art of saying “actually, no”
  • Humor, heartbreak, and wisdom from a storyteller who’s still going strong

Grab Annie’s book The Book of Annie: Humor, Heart and Chutzpah from an Accidental Influencer

Connect with Annie:

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https://www.instagram.com/anniekorzen/
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Tim Newman Speaks: 5 Common Listening Mistakes—and How to Fix Them22 May 202500:15:42

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Your brain might be sabotaging your listening skills, and you don’t even realize it.

In this solo episode, Tim Newman dives into the five most common listening mistakes that quietly destroy relationships, teamwork, and trust. From the sneaky dopamine hit that pulls the conversation back to you to the science behind why your brain zones out mid-sentence, this episode unpacks the hidden habits that keep us from being powerful communicators.

Backed by neuroscience and loaded with actionable fixes, you'll learn:

  • How to use the “two-second pause” to instantly improve leadership communication
  • Why even a face-down phone can drop conversation quality by 32%
  • How asking verification questions increases team innovation by 22%
  • Why removing distractions can help you reclaim public speaking confidence in everyday conversations

Whether you're leading a team, speaking to a crowd, or connecting with a friend, these small changes in listening habits can radically improve how people respond to you.

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Kirk McCarley: The ESPN Statistician Who Teaches Communication Through Listening19 May 202500:49:10

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What do a sports statistician, a leadership coach, and a master storyteller have in common? A powerful understanding of what truly makes communication effective.

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I welcome Kirk McCarley, executive career coach, ESPN talent statistician, and self-proclaimed "wealthy man" (thanks to his relationships, not his bank account). Kirk shares how his behind-the-scenes role in live broadcasting taught him lessons that apply far beyond the sports world, especially about presence, preparation, and the power of listening.

From stories of maraschino cherry theft to lessons from a beloved neighbor, this episode dives deep into what it really means to be a powerful communicator. It’s not about saying more—it’s about listening better, slowing down, and connecting with intention.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why active listening skills are your #1 communication tool
  • How technology is killing connection, and how to fight back
  • What leadership communication looks like in daily life
  • Why “being present” is more powerful than being polished
  • How overcoming imposter syndrome starts with preparation, not perfection

Kirk’s take on communication is both grounding and inspiring, reminding us that our greatest influence doesn’t come from speaking louder, but from listening more deeply.

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https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirk-mccarley-1bbba950/
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https://www.facebook.com/KirkMcCarleyTheSeedSowerCoach/

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Self-Advocacy for Women: Speaking Up and Shaping Your Professional Journey20 Oct 202500:48:50

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Have you ever wondered why working hard and being excellent isn't always enough to get noticed at work, especially if you're aiming for a leadership role? On this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we explore why self-advocacy is the secret ingredient to career advancement—and how not speaking up can leave you overlooked, no matter your achievements.

In today's show, I’m joined by Rosie Zilinskas, a certified high performance coach, Colby consultant, and former Fortune 500 executive vice president. Rosie’s own journey through the corporate ranks brought her face to face with the reality so many mid-career women encounter: results and dedication alone don’t guarantee recognition or promotion. After enduring a difficult divorce and becoming the sole provider for her young children, Rosie doubled down on her work ethic—only to watch others move ahead while she waited to be noticed. The breakthrough came when a senior executive told her, “You never said anything,” and this sparked a powerful realization about the importance of communicating your ambitions.

This episode is packed with insights and stories about:

  • Why excellence alone isn’t enough for career advancement
  • The necessity of vocalizing your ambitions and goals at work
  • Key strategies to self-advocate and communicate your value
  • How generational and gender differences affect workplace perceptions
  • Handling feedback: turning criticism into growth fuel
  • The four main barriers women face when seeking promotion (worthiness, popularity, skills, visibility)
  • Actionable preparation tips for meetings, interviews, and networking events
  • Overcoming emotional inhibitors and reframing limiting beliefs
  • The role of self-awareness in building confidence and driving your career forward

Rosie delivers practical advice for anyone wanting to take ownership of their professional development, push past self-imposed obstacles, and show up confidently—no matter where you are in your journey. If you’re ready to stop waiting to be chosen and start actively building a career you love, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts you need.

Tune in now and discover how speaking up for yourself truly changes your journey.

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Tim Newman Speaks: 3 ADHD Communication Hacks That Actually Work15 May 202500:12:38

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Ever been told to “just focus harder” in a conversation?

That advice doesn’t just miss the mark, it overlooks the superpowers hidden in how the ADHD brain works.

In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, Tim Newman flips the script on conventional communication strategies and shares science-backed techniques that align with how ADHD brains naturally function. From rapid-fire thinking to memory gaps and impulsive interjections, Tim reframes these common traits not as barriers, but as opportunities for transformation.

You’ll learn:

  • Why ADHD brains process language up to 20x faster, and how to adjust for it
  • The 2-second pause that boosts perceived competence by 37%
  • How nonverbal signals can reduce interruptions by 62%
  • A 3-word memory trick that can increase recall by up to 80%
  • How to turn impulsivity into authenticity in every conversation

This isn’t about “fixing” communication, it’s about rewiring your approach so it works with your brain, not against it. Whether you live with ADHD or lead someone who does, these insights offer practical tools to create more meaningful, effective conversations.

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From Firewalking to Fearless: Harriet Bratt on Leading with Love and Owning the Stage12 May 202500:52:47

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Ever feel like the fear of public speaking is holding you back from being the leader, teammate, or communicator you know you can be?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, Tim Newman welcomes Harriet Bratt—international speaker, firewalk facilitator, and fierce advocate for authenticity—to unpack what it really takes to become a powerful communicator.

From walking across fire to navigating ADHD, Harriet shares how confidence isn’t about being fearless, it’s about feeling the fear and showing up anyway. Together, Tim and Harriet dive into active listening skills, leadership communication, and storytelling techniques that help speakers, and humans show up more fully in every room they enter.

This isn’t just about presentation skills development. It’s about transforming how you connect with others, lead with love, and own your voice on stage and off.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

  • How firewalking becomes a metaphor for overcoming fear of public speaking
  • Why ADHD can be a superpower in powerful communication
  • Tools for emotional management and building self-awareness
  • The truth about overcoming speaking anxiety (spoiler: it’s messy and real)
  • What “leading with love” actually looks like in personal and professional communication
  • Why honest feedback and knowing when to shut up are underrated superpowers
  • How to embrace authenticity without losing your edge

Whether you’re prepping for your first keynote or simply trying to speak up with more clarity and confidence at work, this conversation will help you tap into the mindset, strategy, and soul of effective communication skills.

Connect with Harriet:

Grab Harriet’s free masterclass on the 5 Pillars of Public Speaking at harrietbratt.com

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/harrietbrattspeaker/
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Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/harriet-bratt-429b1b1a6/

 

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Tim Newman Speaks: Five Hacks to Show Up Confidently on Camera Every Single Time08 May 202500:11:59

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That awkward tension you feel when the camera turns on? It’s not a sign you’re bad at speaking, it’s your body trying to help. In this solo episode, Tim Newman breaks down one of the most common confidence killers in modern communication: camera anxiety. Whether you’re recording a 60-second update or giving a virtual keynote, your nervous system is along for the ride. But with a few mindset shifts and setup tweaks, you can turn those nerves into powerful communication tools.

This isn’t about being perfect. It’s about showing up consistently with presence, purpose, and a message worth listening to.

What You'll Learn:

  • Why your brain mixes up fear and excitement, and how to use that to boost your public speaking confidence
  • How poor lighting and audio sabotage your message (and how to fix it without buying a studio)
  • Box breathing and the “power pause” in calming nerves and commanding attention
  • How body language and strategic gestures silently build trust and credibility
  • Why consistent, imperfect action beats waiting for the “perfect” take every single time
  • The 21-Day Video Challenge that will take your presentation skills to the next level

Tim’s Take:
Being a powerful communicator isn’t about flawless delivery. It’s about authentic presence, consistent practice, and learning to lead even when your hands are shaking. Stop waiting to feel ready, just press record.

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Speak With Confidence: Practical Strategies for Video Communication With Shirlee Engel05 May 202500:53:26

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What does it truly take to become a powerful communicator in today’s world? On this episode of Speaking With Confidence, host Tim Newman sits down with Shirlee Engel, seasoned TV reporter turned on-camera coach, to unpack the tools, mindsets, and effective communication skills that bring authentic connection to every conversation, far beyond just public speaking.

Whether you’re building a business, leading a team, or growing your influence online, Shirlee shares how to master leadership communication, develop active listening skills, and overcome those confidence hurdles (yes, even the dreaded imposter syndrome and speaking anxiety). Spoiler: The secret has less to do with memorizing scripts and more with showing up as yourself.

You’ll learn how storytelling, authenticity, and embracing imperfection can transform presentations, video content, and daily conversations into powerful moments of connection and impact. Tune in for practical advice to:

  • Build public speaking confidence, even if you’re not on a stage
  • Use storytelling techniques as your “currency” in a noisy, AI-driven world
  • Master the art of showing up authentically (camera “resting face” and all!)
  • Repurpose content and leverage technology for presentation skills development
  • Turn your presence into profit through strategic visibility and messaging

 

Key Takeaways

  • It’s Not Just About Public Speaking: Powerful communication is about how you connect, listen, and share your story across every channel, from Zoom calls to videos and live events.
  • Authenticity Is Your Superpower: Shirlee explains why embracing imperfections and showing your human side create true connection—and why storytelling is more critical now than ever.
  • Overcoming Imposter Syndrome & Anxiety: Both Tim and Shirlee get candid about their own struggles with confidence, sharing tips for breaking through self-doubt and putting yourself out there.
  • Actionable Techniques for Any Communicator: Discover practical ways to build confidence on and off-camera, structure your message, and ensure every interaction—whether leading a meeting or posting online—leaves a lasting impact.

 

Connect with Shirlee Engel

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