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Attention all spanking party goers:  It's time for Lone Star 2026!!! Hosted by  Sarah Gregory and team. 

Get ready for this year's theme: A Red-Bottomed Renaissance.

As if having a red-bottom ever went out of style? No, of course not! This is a weekend of Renaissance fair vibes with all the spanking fun you can handle!

Join Sarah Gregory and John Osborne as they share lots of details and plans for Lone Star 2026: from classes, to events, meal plans, costume ideas, and so much more! 

There will be events for everyone. From immersive school role plays to littles rooms, M/m and F/f events, Judicial, British Discipline, a Spa for the Tops, and lots more. What's not to love? 

Don't forget about all of the social and learning opportunities there are for both experienced and new spankos alike. One can always learn something new, even after many years in the scene. 

Check the link to confirm your spot at this annual event! The hotel is filling up fast and registration closes soon! But even if you're not coming to Lone Star this year, this episode has a lot of fun just talking about the community and fun and creative spanko ideas!

Looking forward to seeing you all at Lone Star 2026 is November!

DJ Lizzy is back with more spanko tunes to make your drive-time interesting! Our first episode was such a hit (pun intended) we decided it's time for round two! The variety continues with country, pop, r&b, rock, and lots more. Millennial Miley vibes, anyone? Yeah we got those too!

Songs about naughty boys, pervertables, waiting for the spanking, and of course the enjoyment of butts! We've got a little something for almost everyone in this mix. Hope you enjoy it!

What spanking experience do you feel like there should be a song about?

Do you have a favorite track you'd like to hear again? Let us know what should be in our next DJ set.

*Full disclosure: we played around with AI to create these tracks. It started as an experiment and just got too fun not to share. We know that can be controversial, and we're all in favor of hiring real artists where possible.

Yes, I'd like fries with that!

It's not just a delicious, salty treat, but also an easy acronym for ensuring consent.
F.R.I.E.S. is an easy way remember that consent is: 

• F: Freely Given

• R: Reversible

• I: Informed

• E: Enthusiastic

• S: Specific

If your consent doesn't have F.R.I.E.S. then you might not fully enjoy your "meal" or play experience.

After a lovely class at GASP 2026, in which they used candy to discuss consent, and went through some fantastic role-playing, we had to have these lovely and hard-working ladies on the podcast to share their techniques for self-advocacy! 

It's not easy to speak up for yourself, especially when many of us love to please our partners. But that's exactly what being your own advocate is about. And for a fun scene, it's important not just to please your partner, but to get your needs met and protect your own boundaries as well. 

Whether it's salty or sweet, F.R.I.E.S. or candy, this discussion has something for every taste. 

There was just too much here for one episode, so do stay tuned for part 2.

Sshhhhhhh! It's a secret!
Or is it?

We stole this idea from a coffee house, more maybe it was a boba tea place:
share your thoughts, your feelings, your fantasies, your questions, your advice, your troubles, your secrets, and your stories. Share anything you like… but share it completely anonymously. 

The goal is to help each other see that we are not alone on this journey of life. That we all have secrets, fantasies, questions, and concerns. That we are all… human!

We loved the idea so much, we wanted to share it with the adult spanking community to show that even spankos are not alone! 

We've been working on this project for a few years now. If you've seen us at an event, we've probably had our little journal with us for you to share your thoughts. Many have shared their own Spanko Secrets! And because it's all anonymous, now we bring some of these secrets to you, our listeners. 

If you have something you'd like to share, drop us a line, an email, a FetLife message, or see us at an event and add to our Spanko Secrets journal! We'll keep it anonymous for you, even if your method of communication doesn't. 

Change Happens. Sometimes unexpectedly. 

Completely without warning, YouTube deleted our channel! 

This goes for YouTube Music (formerly Google Podcasts) as well. 

We are suddenly gone from all Google-related media. 

They've not given us a clear reason. They've not given us an opportunity to correct or change anything. And they shut down our appeal without further explanation.

It is said that "crisis doesn't build character, it reveals it."

Well, this isn't a crisis, but it's a big change for our podcast and our listeners. 

Unfortunately this Google decision is outside our control. And we're aware how it may affect some of our listeners and our community. 

But never fear, we're working on some things that we can control, and we have some things coming that will hopefully help keep our community thriving and continue to give our listeners access to our content.

The show will go on!

We continue our discussion with Shaylah and Avery regarding a very specific online roleplay that includes accountability in real life. 

Forgelink Academy is a unique role play that is based on real life accountability in an online school academy roleplay. Students select a goal to work on every other week check-ins. Students are provided with encouragement, praise and consequences based on how they perform on their goals. 

They discuss the process of applying to Forgelink, how the terms run, and some of the expectations. If this sounds like something you may enjoy or find beneficial, check out the Forgelink Academy page at the link below.

Do you enjoy online role play? 

Is it one of your current spanko outlets? 

Have you built friendships online? 

The Spanko Podcast members talk about their past experiences with online spanking roleplay and how it shaped some of our early online experiences and fantasies. 

We are joined by returning guests Shaylah and Avery who both shared early experiences in chat as well as some current experiences in an online roleplay academy. 

Are these just fantasies, all just pretend with internet randos, or do these friendships become something more… real? Share your experiences and recommendations related to online spanking roleplay in the comments.

Let's discuss wrapping. Wrapping paper, rapping, chicken wraps…. Oh wait, no … We are talking about that uncomfortable feeling when the implement wraps too far around your hip. Some people hate wrapping, some love it, and some tolerate it reluctantly. 

How do you feel about wrapping? We discuss some of our feelings about wrapping. As well as tips on how to communicate with your top if they are wrapping and how to learn to avoid wrapping if you are topping.

[Insert Star Wars-like theme here]

Miss D Spanks is back, veteran of the scene but newer party-goer, joins us again at GASP 2026. Hear how she has evolved from purely a Top to becoming comfortable as a Switch. And how our collective nerdiness helped her come out of her shell.  

Yes, being a nerd in the spanko community can even be a perk! We're all socially awkward (ok… MOST of us!), so if you're a spanko AND a little on the nerdy side (or a lot on the nerdy side), don't worry, you'll fit right in! 

Whether you come from Dagobah, Hoth, or even Earth in the current day, we all have our differences and our limits. We discuss people of color and safety in the scene, and how understanding cultural and generational differences can help us all have better scenes. 

When it comes to parties - national parties or private ones - be sure to follow the "house rules." Consent is important everywhere, especially in a public setting. Your Droids ARE welcome here… as long as they follow the rules.

Come get your nerd on and have some spanking fun with Miss D Spanks!

Social currency  vs social capital - what's the difference and why does it matter? Have you ever considered your social capital? What builds your social capital and currency?  Do you know how to be a respected community member? Are you helpful?  Do you understand boundaries and take time to build friendships? Do you know how to make friends?  Did you know there are different levels of friendship? 

As a party attendee - do you feel like you have gotten a chance to enjoy spanking parties to the max? Or do you leave feeling like you didn't fit in? Does it take you time to become comfortable in a setting? Are you only focused on your needs or do you listen to your play partners needs? Are you the type of party attendee that people can't wait to have back or are you draining the resources without putting back into the community?

Your reputation can precede you. Wouldn't you like it to be the best one possible?

"At the end of the day we're all here to have fun and if someone is not having fun, that's kind of a problem."

Purveyor (or pervert?) of smut, author of BDSM and spanking erotica, and creator of some kinky games, Letti Lustcraft and her partner, SirChefDaddy, joined us at GASP 2025 to talk about their Domestic Discipline relationship and all their creative endeavors. 

Find out how this adorable couple learned to practice Domestic Discipline safely and consensually when one of them originally wasn't even kinky!

How does one come out to their partner about wanting a Domestic Discipline (DD) relationship?

How do you balance a DD relationship with life and work?

How is kink like a video game? (yeah, Chef went there.)

And so much more!

And not only do we discuss their Domestic Discipline dynamic, we get into some of their creative projects: books, stickers, coloring books, poetry, educational smut, and much more… 

… Kinky Cards Against Humanity, anyone? Oh yeah, it's a thing! (and, like this conversation, it's so much fun!)

… years of our lives! Join us as we celebrate 6 years of doing Spanko! Podcast!

Reminisce with us on how we've grown and changed. Hear about some of our favorite memories. And some of what we hope to do in the future. 

And, of course, there has to be some bratting and spanking live on the air to celebrate!

Since many of our listeners tune in while on the road, we thought we'd give you some driving tunes! Join us for a very special episode of Spanko Podcast where DJ Lizzy slings some fun spanking related tracks of a variety of genres. There's hopefully a little something for everyone, and every music taste, in this variety mix!

Have you ever felt the need to pull over on the side of the road to take care of some bratting? Do you collect implements or panties?  Is spanking your love language? Does seeing your fellow spankos feel like home?  You might be a spanko. You might enjoy this playlist.

What spanking experience do you feel like there should be a song about?

Do you have a favorite track you'd like to hear again? Let us know what should be in our next DJ set.

*Full disclosure: we played around with AI to create these tracks. It started as an experiment and just got too fun not to share. We know that can be controversial, and we're all in favor of hiring real artists where possible.

Continuing our hardcore fan-girling from part 1, the immortal Erica Scott shares some of her favorites in the scene, and some juicy behind-the-scenes tidbits from her experiences as a video model.

Both positive and negative, Erica shares her thoughts and opinions seemingly unfettered:

• Uber-Doms, mind your place. 

• Social Media commenters… beware, the Snark Queen has you in her sights. 

• And her positive stories of sharp and witty Tops make us swoon from across the internet! ❤️

• And some of her favorite trigger words will prick up your ears as much as they did ours.

(meanwhile Eric's over here kicking himself for missing an obvious toppy setup lol)

From safety and consent (one of our favorite topics for obvious reasons), to skin care and party etiquette, and tips for video models, tips to winning at Spanking Court, becoming an illustration, and just advice for real life, this episode covers even more ground than our first episode - if that's even possible!

You thought we were sassy, imagine having the level of sass Erica possesses!!! 
We can only dream! 

What an honor to hang out with such a legend! We hope you'll enjoy this grand finale of our first recording with Erica Scott as much as we did!

But wait… it seems we weren't the only ones who didn't want this interview to end 😉

Fan-girling hardcore over having had the opportunity to interview the one and only Erica Scott. You may know her for her role in many spanking videos including The Reckoning and The Schoolmaster's Revenge. But we were excited to have her for her wit and her Correspondence Hall Of Shame blog. 

You thought we were sassy, imagine having the level of sass Erica possesses!!! 
We can only dream. 

While some women decide to Switch as they grow older, some of us choose to hold on to our Spankee/Bottom identities as we age. That may make us feel shunned at times, but never fear – there's always someone respectful and skilled out there who'd still be excited to play with us… and if you doubt that, just ask BigGirlSpanker. 😉 Erica shares some wisdom of coming of age in the scene with all the grace and wit you'd imagine.

Besides all the fan-girling, we had so much to discuss with this living legend! This is only part one of our discussion. Stay tuned for more from Erica Scott!

We were asked if we could talk about the physics of spanking. Well, who better to consult than an actual physicist who is ALSO an actual spanko?

Our friend, Al Doyle, sat down with us at GASP 2025 to give us a lesson in the physics of spanking. We even sat down to work out the math to see if we could finally get an answer to the age-old question: does a paddle with holes hurt more than a paddle without holes?

From Newton's apple, to Einstein's theories, to the earth falling upwards, "Professor" Doyle blows our minds with science while answering some pre-arranged questions, all while on the journey to the ultimate answer about the pain of the paddles. We even discuss a few topics that may require further experimentation. But all the while, we laugh and have fun like always. 

We discuss basic physics concepts, a couple of formulas, and even how much you weigh jumping off a building to get us to the mathematical conclusion of… well, you'll just have to listen to find out! 

This might be our most technical episode yet! You may want to take notes. There may be a test!

The Executive Committee from Burning River SSC, our local spanking group, is back! This time we're talking about what goes into building a successful spanking community.

Having been around for multiple years, Burning River has some good tips on starting from the ground up. We talk about munches, gathering your community, building rapport and education, planning simple house parties, and even renting spaces for a larger regional party. We also discuss the importance of vetting at parties, education about spanking, inclusivity, and much more. 

You may feel you have nothing in your local area, but by reaching out, you just may be surprised how many spankos you can find!

If you are near the Cleveland, Ohio area and want to check out a smaller party and dip your toes into the spanking scene this is a great group to check out.

Frenzy: a state or period of uncontrolled excitement or wild behavior.

Some of us have had an insatiable need to be spanked or spank all the spankees we meet. It can feel like a lot of fun! All that new energy and excitement, wanting to try all the things! It's fairly common when things are new: new experiences, new parties, new partners, etc. 

And we're not just talking about discipline spankings here, even though in our experience, that's the kind of spankings some of us fantasize the most about. We are talking about all the spankings! 

This spanking frenzy can be fun, but it can also have a dark side. We've done some less-than-smart things to satisfy our cravings. Feeling like we need to have it, and we need to have it now! But from the outside, this frenzy can look a little different. And sometimes can even harm existing relationships.

Have you ever experienced frenzy?

What have you done for spanking? 

Were you keeping yourself safe? 

We have some tips on how to navigate frenzy, how to keep yourself safe, and how to watch out for some of the traps you may find along your journey. It's all about finding balance, after all. 

Remember, you're a whole human being and not just a spanker or a spankee.

At long last, get to know Burning River SSC, our local spanking group! We've been talking about them for years, and we finally got to sit down with them and our microphones and chat.

Join us as we talk with our friends from the board of Burning River SSC (including our very own Karina Isabel).  We talk about the importance of vetting at parties, education about spanking, inclusivity, munches, and much more. 

If you are near the Cleveland, Ohio area and want to check out a smaller party and dip your toes into the spanking scene this is a great group to check out.

What is vetting?

If you've been to a spanking party before, you've probably heard this term, and have probably even been vetted: it's the background check done to keep everyone at the party as safe as possible.

But it's not just for parties, this is good for one-on-one play as well. 

How is vetting done? What should you expect? Well, there's many ways to vet someone. But we discuss a few tips that we've used, have seen used, and have been involved with in the past, for both Tops and Bottoms alike.

So, if you're interested in attending a spanking event, or even hosting a spanking event, or even want to keep yourself safe in one-on-one play (and who doesn't?), and want to learn more about the vetting process, we hope this episode will give you some good tips to get started.

At a private school, contraband is discovered. The usual suspects are gathered and interrogated. Will they confess? Will they throw each other under the bus? And what consequences will they face?

Join us for another radio play, adapted by Lizzy, based on The Mysteries of Verbena House, a Victorian spanking novel in two parts by Etonensis. This book has some interesting history itself, including a connection to another famous holiday season author. 

If you enjoy this type of programming, let us know, and perhaps we can include more in the future.

Happy Holidays!!

Trigger Warnings: Trauma, War, PTSD, Childhood Abuse. 

PTSD - Post Traumatic Stress Disorder - a condition brought about by trauma and diagnosed by a professional. Please reach out to a professional to be treated and diagnosed. 

We have the brave Mark, the Very Bad Boy, and a military veteran, joining us to share his experiences as a spanking male bottom with PTSD. Mark shares how he worked with professionals to be diagnosed and begin his well-being process. 

Triggered by loud noises, Mark still enjoys his spanking, but it has been a challenge to work through. Mark shares his journey, how he handles his triggers and how he worked with a professional spanking domme to gently overcome his fears from childhood.

Fortunately for veterans in the U.S., the V.A. offers quality resources, you just have to be able to get through all the paperwork, and fortunately, they'll also have someone to assist you with that  as well! 

Please be kind to those around you, we never know what someone is going through.
Please be responsible and seek help. We all have our own timelines, but we are still responsible for how we allow triggers to affect us. We can't control who or what is going to trigger us, but we can choose how to respond. There are professionals who will work with you, either with your mental health or, potentially, even a professional spanker. 

Thank you to all of our service members!!

How do you get to experience Consensual Non-Consent?
After years of communication <3
After reading the room.
After working with your partner. 

What is it? How is it done? What does this complicated term even mean? This is definitely a level 201 episode. We encourage you to listen to our listed episodes below if we're just starting in the scene. 

Definitely listen to this episode as well. However, be aware that this kind of dynamic and relationship comes with time - we do not encourage you to practice consensual non-consent for your first scene no matter how much of a fantasy it may be.  Fantasies are very different from your very first scene. Maybe one in a million Spankos have had their fantasy fulfilled in their first scene.

You may get the opportunity to practice CNC during organized role play at a party or perhaps even while in character with your partner. Please remember you can always advocate for yourself and use your safe word. Have some self respect and remember to enforce your boundaries. It's your body - your choice. It is a Privilege for those to those who gained access to your body. A privilege you can revoke at any time.  Go and have fun and enjoy all the spankings. 

• Consent, pt. 1

• Consent, pt. 2

• Limits

• Blanket Consent

The GASP team has opened Pandora's box of spanking! 

Join us to hear about the Herculean task the GASP team and volunteers are pulling off this time. All your favorites are back, plus some new and exciting additions you'll hear about here first!

Are you ready for: merriment, games, a dionysian feast, activities, classes, Littles tents, vending, a summer camp experience, and lots more??

There's even room for the Tops to join in the activities this year!
Do you have the Midas touch? Even if you don't, the spanking Bottoms sure hope you have the spanking skill set to deliver a sound and welcomed spanking. 

And of course, there will be plenty of bratting, mischief, antics and all the revelry GASP is known for. Who knows what the faces that launched a thousand ships may have up their sleeves. Rubber duckies? Sass? Insolence? Or something else? 

Join us at the spanking Elysian Fields for GASP 2026.

What's scary on Halloween? Scarier than ghosts or monsters, even? It's the fear of missing out!! 

We've all experienced it. Sometimes just in our spanking lives, sometimes in our vanilla lives, but the fear of missing out is real. No one likes to feel excluded. We are social creatures, after all. Though there are some of us who also thrive on the joy of missing out. 

Join us as returning guest, JoJo Shenanigans, our kink-affirming therapist, gives some pointers on managing the horrors that come from missing out, managing your feelings, navigating jealousy, and finding ways to maybe be included more in the future.

Travel down the yellow brick road to Texas where you can experience All Things Wicked and Magical this year at The Lone Star Spanking Party happening November 6-10, 2025.

As you move on down, move on down the road, you'll also find a dark and mysterious trail leading to a Gothic Masquerade… as well as experiencing all the spanking your bottom (or hand) could desire! (As if that was possible.) 

Get whisked away on an imaginative journey as your fabulous hostess, Sarah Gregory, tells us about all of the magical excitement in store at Lone Star 2025. From classes and educational opportunities, to individual sign-up events, to dining and dancing, there's something at Lone Star for every spanko! It truly sounds like a weekend you won't want to miss!

But you'd better hurry, the gates to Oz won't stay open forever!
Tickets are going fast and rooms are filling up!

CLICK HERE TO BUY YOUR TICKET

How big is your blanket and how many people have access to that blanket? Do you share different blankets with different types of people? join us on this episode and find out what we mean by blanket consent. 

generally people don't automatically obtain blanket consent, please be responsible when you play with others; practice self advocacy and learn to establish your boundaries, though this episode is not about that. We just want to remind you that it is your body and it is your choice. 

There are fantasies and then there's reality. Sometimes it takes a lot of communication to be able to fulfill our fantasies; other times it may be instant chemistry, but please be advised:  You don't have blanket consent with everyone.

Miss Chris is back to explain how she helps bring your spanking fantasies to life. But what if your fantasy involves more than one spanker?

You're in luck! Miss Chris is not alone! 

Miss Chris & Uncle Eric are traveling around the country making your co-topping fantasies into reality. We were lucky enough to catch up with them in the DC area for an evening on their journey.

We get to know a bit about Uncle Eric, life-long spanko, BDSM practitioner, and video star. We learn about his connection with Miss Chris, some of their shared interests, their role play energy together, their thoughts on the state of the adult spanking industry, and even get to do a little role play with returning guest (and OnlyFans LIVE regular), Avery, who also joined us for this episode. 

And we even get their thoughts on global warming… no, not like the environmental kind. But a playful, historical, and (as we later found out) very fun spanking activity! 

After seeing the photo they provided for this episode, their recreation of the famous painting, American Gothic, the spanko version, who wouldn't want their "globes" warmed up by these two pros?

So if you'd like to make your fantasies a reality, head over to MisssChris.com (the extra 's' is for 'spanking') and take advantage of this unique opportunity while it lasts!

She dreamed about spanking parties all her life, but it wasn't until a chance encounter with a certain podcast (who, us?)  that veteran and award-winning little (oops, spoilers!), Hilly, realized her dream could come true!

Now this veteran of the leather community, pack member, and littles educator joins us to discuss the littles scene, how welcoming spankos are to littles, and even how to know if you may be a little yourself. 

Wait, Leather AND Littles? Yes, it can be a thing. And Hilly exemplifies the combination and explains how it can work. And for those who may not be familiar with Leather OR Littles, Hilly explains both!

If you don't understand littles, if you are curious about them, if you have a little in your life, or if you identify as one yourself, this is an episode you won't want to miss.

You may have heard Switches make the best Tops. So join us as Ella and NightOwll share their journey on why they chose to start Topping. Have you, as a Top, done your homework? Because these two new Tops know exactly what they want when they are on the receiving end, and therefore did their research to become the very best Top they could ever be. 

Whether they were born to Top or whether they grew into their roles, matters little, because what really matters is the amazing Tops they are becoming. 

Anything a guy does, a girl can do- while wearing heels AND even bleeding. 

Now, do we have any male Bottoms out there who've grown to be a Top as well? 

Perhaps you're like Karina and you've been happy remaining a Bottom. Do what works for you. 

Don't forget - Tops need aftercare too. Check in with your Tops  and remind them how amazing they are!

Tops, please be open to feedback - it's how we grow. 

So, if you've ever wondered how some Tops get to spank everyone and people barely reluctantly agree to play with you, listen in and learn a thing or two, you might get to play more.

Do you have a favorite kinky song? We have so many, this is our 2nd episode featuring them!

Take a listen to some more of our favorite kink-adjacent tunes, and some recommended by you, our listeners, and we'll share our thoughts of how they tie in to this special interest of ours. Some of them are super obvious, and some are classics you may not have considered. And some of them inspired some new items on Sky's spanking bucket list!

Are there songs we haven't covered? Let us know. Maybe we'll check them out in another future episode.

What's on your kinky playlist? We've still barely scratched the surface.

• Music Videos from this Episode:

• John Mellencamp - Hurts So Good

• Ella Fitzgerald (covering Cole Porter) - Why Can't You Behave

• The Righteous Gemstones - Misbehavin'

• Akon (ft. Eminem) - Smack That

• Devo - Whip It

• Paul Thorn - It's a Great Day to Whup Somebody's Ass

• Liz Anderson - Mama Spank

• Lords of Acid - Spank My Booty

• Melanie Martinez - Soap

• Beyonce - Naughty Girl

• Kink in Music 1

Have you ever wanted to do a school role play?
Or have you done a school role play and loved it?  

Join us as we talk with Miss Marissa, Jason, and Nicole as we discuss a detention role play at Lonestar. 

What makes a school role play headspacey? Lines? Tone? Scolding? Do you prefer a serious role play or a more playful role play? 

We discuss all of the things related to what we love about role play. What are some of the things you worry about or think about ahead of a new event? Listen as Nicole discusses advocating for herself based on concerns she had ahead of time and discusses 

Besides for the fun of role play, we discuss what it takes to run a role play event well. We discuss safety, lessons learned, timing, and functionality of the event. 

As an added bonus we get to talk about negotiating spanking in a vanilla relationship. At what point do we no longer consider a supporting partner no longer a vanilla? 

Learn some aspects of advocating for yourself when it comes to headspace events such as a school role play, detention, principal's office, or even British discipline.

At GASP 2025 this year, we were given the opportunity to host, and record, a Tops Roundtable. Featuring our own BigGirlSpanker, returning Guest Mr. Ben, returning guest Miss Bernadette, and newcomer to the podcast but veteran to the community, CallMeMissMeg.

We had some initial questions and allowed questions from the audience and the Tops to respond spontaneously. We had a great discussion on all things related to Topping, discussion on setting scenes, communication in scenes, handling disappointment, learning and expanding skills, and more. What you will hear has been minimally edited, to bring you as close as possible to the live recording at GASP. We hope you will enjoy the discussion.

If you have additional questions you would like us to address in the future, please send us a message at https://www.spankopodcast.com/contact/ and will will try our best to answer you in a future episode.

Join us for a very special episode of Spanko! Podcast:

For pride month this year, we wanted to gather with some friends and have a very important discussion about what it's like to be Trans in the Spanking Community. 

Returning guest, Avery, hosts this episode, as we gather at GASP this year with a group of extraordinary and wonderful spankos to discuss their journeys of self-discovery, acceptance, and how their individual eggs cracked (the evolution of the self-exploration journey and rebirth as your true self). 

We cover a wide range of topics such as gender identity affecting your chosen role as Top, Bottom, or Switch, and finding acceptance both with yourself and in the community. We also dive into some deep and personal territory and bring a lot of emotions and vulnerability forward. The journey is not always an easy one, but what we all experienced in creating this episode was love, support, and acceptance in ways that moved some of us to tears. 

Whether you have trans friends, feel awkward about discussing trans issues, have questions about playing with a trans person, are on your own journey of self-discovery or acceptance, or if you have ever felt awkward about yourself in any capacity, please give this episode a listen. 

We hope we've captured and shared with you the beauty and love in the room that we all felt while recording this very special episode.

Coming to you from TASSP 2024, AssaultedPeanut and Nemo join us to discuss Co-Topping and Co-Bottoming in a spanking scene. Whether you have been in a Co-Topping or Co-Bottoming scene, or you hope to someday, this episode is one you won't want to miss.

What does it mean to play with multiple Tops or multiple Bottoms in a scene? What challenges come up? What makes it so fun? Our guests, and our hosts, who have had this kind of experience share what their experiences have been like and why it's fun to explore playing with more than one friend at the same time.  

Our exceptional guests regale us with poetic, and almost play-by-play, reminiscences of this type of "dance" and what makes it so "yummy." 

If you're anything like BigGirlSpanker and you enjoy the art of quality spanking implements, you may have wondered where you should store your items. 

Should I use a backpack (Eric has)?
Or a baseball bag (Eric does)?
Or a trash bag (hey, we all need to improvise at times)?
Or is there something better out there?

Wonder no more! 

Our friend, Matt and his company LuxxGear, have come to the rescue! He has invested and devoted himself to creating quality implement bags known as KinkBags. Join us for a tour of their product, and see if it will work for an implement hoarder… I mean "collector"... like Eric.  We bet it may work for you, too.

Five years!? The Spanko! Podcast has been releasing episodes every other week for the past five years! Join us as we share memorable moments and memorable episodes. *emotional tear* Feel free to share some of yours in the comments below.

Our friends, fans, and patrons join us as we record this episode LIVE (kinda) and share some of their own experiences of joining the scene AND how our little podcast has helped them along their journeys. 

Did you ever write in the Spanko Secrets notebook??? This completely anonymous notebook has been traveling with us since 2022. Join us as we open it for the first time and read some excerpts! *scandalous* 

As always, we advocate for safety and clearly spoken communication. Please be safe and consensual in your spanking play. 

Here is to another 5 years!

Have you experienced the thrill of a multi-day national… erm, international spanking party? Cause if you haven't, TASSP is for you! 

Join our Spankoholics and our lovely TASSP Hostess, Princess Kelley May, and hear about some of our adventures at TASSP last year, and what we have to look forward to coming up June 12-15th, 2025.

Live out your school fantasy at the TASSP immersive school role play, where you'll have to go to class and even do school work.

Perhaps you can beg your strict teacher for some stickers for being "good."

Or perhaps you want something a bit more serious:  Shit, I have Saturday detention head space! 

But there's more than "just" school events! TASSP has something for everyone!
And this year, you may even find yourself living out some roleplays from days gone by… or maybe from the distant future!

There's also judicial events, littles events, playful events, classes, the vendors fair, the Spanking Booth for charity, and so much more!

However you like to play, consensually of course, come to TASSP and join in the adventures!

So, your partner is a spanko.

We've talked to couples in the past who are in a relationship with a vanilla (or non-spanko) partner. Of course this can have its challenges for a spanko. But this time we hear from the non-spankos themselves! 

Join us as we get to know some of the struggles, pitfalls, and even the perks you can experience when being in a relationship with a spanko, even if you aren't one yourself. TASSP 2024 provided an opportunity for non-spanko partners to gather together in support of one another, and they invited us to join in some of their discussions. 

If you have a vanilla partner in your life, or a spanko partner whose interest you may not fully grasp, this is an episode you won't want to miss.

Are you ready for a week-long SPANKING Summer Camp adventure? 

In this episode we visit with Ryan from the Fox Haven Campground, an open and affirming place where all your explorations can become reality. 

Learn about CanSpanks Spanko Camp where you can have your spanking fantasies come true at a sauna, in or around the lake, in a school house, a glitter palace… basically wherever your heart desires! AND all the consensual pranks are allowed… even CONFETTI! 

This camp has vanilla activities, too, such as kayaking, swimming, and camping AND you get to enjoy nature in the wild, and perhaps even see a moose! But of course we come for the outdoor spanking fun on hundreds of acres of privacy! Consider coming to CanSpanks for a camping experience you'll never forget!

Ella and Listener return for Take 2 of our most listened to episode ever!  Join us as we interview them at TASSP for their take and experiences with Spanking & Crying. 

Learn about the five types of emotional crying: 

1. loss/separation

   1. Grief  

2. Helplessness/powerlessness 

3. Physical pain/discomfort 

4. Empathetic crying 

5. Positive experience/moving situation 

Dacryphilia - What does it mean and are you one? 

Let's ponder about what are your responsibilities as a spankee when getting spanked for a transgression?

Did you know Ariel Anderson is THEEE Amelia Jane Rutherford? Find out why she chose this specific last name. Oh, such a naughty reason! 

Like many of us Ariel was raised to feel ashamed, and also thought she needed to repress her spanking desires. However, she was fortunate to discover the wonderful world of bondage modeling and the adventures of spanking videos! How did she resolve this inner conflict?

She is a published author as well! But you'll have to join us and listen to find out her book title as well as the book's unique subject matter. 

Such a fun interview of a brilliant individual!  We were uber excited that Ariel Anderssen agreed to spend an evening with the Spanko! Podcast on her visit over from the U.K. We hope you enjoy it as much as we did!

Teachers, Principals, Fraternity & Sorority Hazing: What is it about school role plays that spankos find so fascinating? 

We sat down (some of us more comfortably than others) after doing many different school-themed role plays at GASP 2024 and talked with some of the participants (on both sides of the paddle) to find out! 

We discuss all aspects of the school events, from organization and planning, to playing the principal and the naughty sorority pledge. While, of course, we each have our own personal reasons for enjoying school-themed play, you'll be amazed at how much we have in common. 

If you haven't tried a school role-play yourself, perhaps this episode may pique your interest, or kindle some new ideas! 

Is that the school bell I hear? You'd best behave!

Join us as we talk with JoJo Shenanigans, a brat, spanko, kink-affirming therapist, and life coach.  She describes her spanko spark, and how she came into the spanko scene to explore her interests. 

She shares tips on handling how *YOUR* story (culture, religion, upbringing) impacts your spanking interests. JoJo shares how you can navigate and understand your kink, and process  your thoughts with a therapist in order to thrive. 

She encourages us to be kind to ourselves, give ourselves space to learn and deal with topics such as shame, overcoming views from upbring and religion. Let's face it, growing and learning to love yourself without shame IS A PROCESS… a process worth experiencing for your own well being. 

Listen as we explore questions to ask yourself in order to understand yourself and your needs in the scene and dynamics. Knowing that there are lots of different kink and spanko flavors. 

It's your spanko story, make it the best one you can. 

What do you need to do to take care of your butt as the spankee? Our returning "science correspondent," Ella, tells us all about her skin care tool kit. 

Some of us thought lotion was enough. Perhaps you are one of those who thought lotion was only needed post spanking? HA! Tune in to find out if you need lotion BEFORE a spanking! 

In this episode with Ella you'll learn about hydrating AND exfoliating acids, as well as when to use which.  

As always, this is our personal experience. When it comes to spanking skin care it's particularly important to find out exactly what works for you. Please double-check everything we've said and find out for yourself. 

If you've ever experienced "leather butt" or if you haven't figured out what to do about the hyperpigmentation on your butt cheeks, this episode is for you!

Hi, I'm Lizzy and… am I a spankoholic? 

Eric and Lizzy  discuss labels and how they sometimes don't fit… and that's ok!

Lizzy shares her origin story, what it's like being married to a vanilla, and some fun stories of her adventures in the spanko world.

Some of you have asked for each of our individual stories. Lizzy was brave enough to be the first to jump in! Perhaps we'll continue and tell you how each of the other hosts have grown as well.

Everyone spankos differently. As Eric always quotes, "what's important is finding out what works for you."

"The Hills Are Alive
With the Sound of Spanking… "

Wait, is that how the song goes?

This holiday classic film inspired Lizzy to come up with a spanking parody from a classic scene from this film… and it's not what you may expect!

Holiday classic? Really? What about The Sound of Music is holiday-related? Some of us feel it is, and it may surprise you as to why. 

As a holiday treat this year, we have another classic, old-fashioned radio play! So gather around by the fire, crank up your imagination, and join the Spanko! Podcast Players in this episode entitled: The Sound of Spanking!  

If you like this format, or if you don't, let us know!
Your feedback helps us make the kind of episodes you want to hear!

All right, Spankos! GASP 2025 registration is here! It's been here! So listen up to hear NotSoKnotty and Listener's invite to join in Atlanta, GA on March 20-24th 2025. 

We've seen posts asking about the theme. I would say drumroll... However you're just going to have to listen and find out. 

Are you ready to be included at GASP 2025? (Because did you know that you're welcome, whether you're trans, straight, and or even cisgendered? *GASP*)

They have:

• blanket forts for Littles 

• A principal's office for naughty students 

• Immersive school events 

• Spanking Court

• A dungeon - run by a local BDSM group

• classes which you can attend to learn and grow

• And of course all the spanking friends you could possibly hope to meet.

All of this put forth by chaos gremlin spankos as well as type-A organizer tops.

Impact Play!? **Gasp!?** Some Spankos will cringe upon hearing spanking being referred to as "impact play."

However, do you remember looking up "Spanking" in the dictionary? 

to strike especially on the buttocks with the open hand. 

We are literally having buttocks struck - causing impact - with either the hand or some sort of implement. 

"But it's spanking! Stop ruining the sanctity of *my* fantasy."

Join us as Mr. Ben shares with us his knowledge on what we as the Spanko- purist can learn from the BDSM community as far as communication and  consent. 

We can still learn and do better as a community as a whole. We owe ourselves this. A top is allowing themselves to strike another individual - pretty much assault - unless the receiver has consented. 

We hope this episode will leave an impact!

Join our friend Emma Leigh as sits down with us at GASP and shares her spanking origin story:
Playing house, hiding her interest, converting vanilla partners, and ultimately her exploration in domestic discipline. Sound familiar? Don't worry, this episode is anything but ordinary! 

Emma's journey leads us down an adventurous rabbit hole of the early days of the internet, common pitfalls or entering the scene, some cringe moments, the importance of therapy, long-distance relationships, and many twists and advice learned along the way.

Have you ever fantasized about your perfect spanking relationship? Did it ever not go exactly as you imagined? See if you have similar reactions as we do to some of the stories Emma Leigh shares on her journey to find her ideal disciplinary relationship. 

However you like your spankings, don't forget - you are the perfect spanko, just the way you are! Whether you prefer funishment, discipline, spankings just for the sake of being spanked, therapeutic, or sexy spankings, as long as it's consensual and safe, go be your full self and find your ideal spanking!