Explore every episode of the podcast Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast
| Title | Pub. Date | Duration | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Japanese fetishes | 22 Apr 2025 | 00:26:26 | |
In this new episode of Spank U, Next, Gregor gives Anna the lowdown on all things fetish in Japan! Gregor recently travelled to Japan and can't wait to share all the kinky knowledge he picked up on the way. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| The human ashtray | 18 Mar 2025 | 00:39:22 | |
Smokers this way! Anna & Gregor are joined by fetish porn submissive Eyemblacksheep, a UK-based performer with many strings to his BDSM bow, including a penchant for Dominatrices using his mouth as their personal ashtray. This episode is a repeat. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Cruising | 12 Mar 2025 | 00:26:39 | |
It's time to talk about a historic sexual scene: cruising! Gregor gives Anna the lowdown on the gay subculture of having sex with strangers, often in public spaces. Listen now... then find your local cruising spot. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| BDSM Basics – Spanking | 04 Mar 2025 | 00:19:58 | |
This episode's topic has had such an impact on our show that we couldn't ignore it any longer: We're gonna talk about spanking and why so many people enjoy having their booty beaten. Join Anna and Gregor as they explore a kink that's found its way into many people's bedrooms, and get inspired to spice up your own sex life. This episode is a repeat. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| BDSM Basics – Anal, anal, and more anal | 25 Feb 2025 | 00:21:29 | |
"The butt is the new pussy", says co-host and anal aficionado Gregor. In this new episode of BDSM Basics, he gives Anna the lowdown on all things anal, prostate stimulation, and the gateway to new forms of pleasure. Expect expert anal-ysis on preparation and practice, how to try butt play for the first time, and why everyone should be using lube. Straight, gay, bi or anything in between, the bum is for everyone. Welcome to anal 101. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Listener confessions: Cumming for Sir | 18 Feb 2025 | 00:18:27 | |
In this episode, get all the juicy details of one woman's first date with her Sir after starting a D/s dynamic online. It kicks off with her going out in public pantyless and plugged and ends with spank marks, anal play, and multiple orgasms. Safe to say, this one is very NSFW—definitely not for family listening. Enjoy responsibly! Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Want better sex? Top sex therapist Kate Moyle explains how | 11 Feb 2025 | 00:46:44 | |
Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where sex goes from hot to hardly ever? It's a tale as old as the orgasm gap, but there's a lot you can do about it. The UK’s leading psychosexual therapist Kate Moyle is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about desire, sex, and the therapist's couch. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Pet play & trauma-informed BDSM | 04 Feb 2025 | 00:53:17 | |
Channel your inner animal with Anna & Gregor as they sit down with trauma-informed BDSM instructor Divine Theratrix. In this episode, you'll learn about the playful side of human sexuality and behaviour and how to free yourself from the shackles of society through pet play. If you want to embrace the puppy in you, listen now… woof! Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Listener confessions: My first spanking | 28 Jan 2025 | 00:11:03 | |
We wanted to hear from you, the listeners, about your first-time kink experiences, and boy, did you deliver. In today’s episode, you'll learn about one man’s first-ever spanking. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Mailbag: We answer your kinky questions | 21 Jan 2025 | 00:25:12 | |
It's over to you, dear listeners! In this new mailbag episode, Anna and Gregor answer your kinky questions and concerns. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| How to talk about kinks & fetishes with your partner(s) | 14 Jan 2025 | 00:27:46 | |
Curious about exploring BDSM or introducing your kinks to a partner? In this revamped episode of "BDSM Basics," Anna and Gregor share practical advice on navigating these conversations with confidence and care. Whether you're single and seeking a new play partner or in a relationship and unsure how to bring up your desires, this episode covers the dos and don’ts of discussing fetishes for the first time. Tune in to learn how to break the ice and build trust in your intimate connections. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| The whore in the sex tower | 07 Jan 2025 | 00:41:19 | |
Once upon a time, there lived a sex worker named Martyra Peng who resided in a castle far, far away in quaint southern England. She lived alone, high up in the tallest tower. Eligible gentlemen visited her opulent quarters to satisfy their wanton desires, in exchange for gold and riches adorned unto her. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Festive confessions: A Christmas orgy | 17 Dec 2024 | 00:13:49 | |
'Tis the season for festive cheer. And multiple orgasms. Carve out some time for yourself over Christmas and settle down by the fire with a special audio porn confession from one of our listeners. It's Christmas Eve. She should be stuffing her turkey, but instead, she's getting stuffed by three hot guys. This episode is NSFW. Please listen with discretion. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Giantess fetish | 10 Dec 2024 | 00:21:25 | |
It's the hot kink of the digital world! As an expression of Macrophilia, a sexual fascination with giants or giant objects, the giantess fetish is kicking off on the internet, with TikTok flooded with videos and porn sites seeing a huge increase in demand for hot dominant giantesses. So what's this kink all about? And how can you get a piece of it? Anna and Gregor find out! Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| When does BDSM become abuse? | 03 Dec 2024 | 00:30:36 | |
Where does BDSM end and abuse begin? This is the question Anna and Gregor delve into with a listener who details their experience of being in an abusive Dom/sub dynamic. Sarah* (whose name has been changed to protect their anonymity) details the insidious ways that a Dominant can blur the lines between life and play, and how nonconsensual power exchange outside of the dungeon can cause psychological and physical harm. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Medical Fetish with Madame Li Ying | 26 Nov 2024 | 00:29:55 | |
Anna & Gregor are in the clinic with medical Dominatrix Madame Li Ying to get a consultation on the men seeking cock and ball torture (CBT), catheterisation and the agony (and ecstasy!) of mock castration. In this episode we examine the eroticism of pain in medical fetish, one of BDSM’s most risky practices. The syringes are sterilised. The stretcher is prepared. The doctor will see you now. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| The female orgasm | 19 Nov 2024 | 00:37:22 | |
We’ve all heard about the female orgasm—but do we really get it? Why has women’s pleasure been sidelined for so long? Is penetration the MVP of climaxing, or is there more to the story? In this episode, Anna and Gregor break down the myths, the mechanics, and the magic of the big O. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| The buzz around e-stim and electro sex | 12 Nov 2024 | 00:33:44 | |
Anna and Gregor have joined forces with electrastim.com to explore the buzz around e-stim and electro sex. Dive into the pleasure some electric tingling can give you and find out how electro sex can give people the erection of a lifetime. Spank U, Next listeners get 10% off any purchases on electrastim.com with code ELECTROSPANK. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Begging for a pegging | 05 Nov 2024 | 00:43:40 | |
Anna and Gregor sit down with no-frills sex educator Lola Jean to talk first-time pegging, anal communication & squirting like a pro. Get the low-down on straight men embracing prostate stimulation as they dive deep into the greatest tool for self-exploration: the bum. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Bloody hot period sex | 29 Oct 2024 | 00:25:35 | |
It's spooky season and that means all things blood, so what better way to see in Halloween than an episode about period sex in all its gory details? Hear how women and people who menstruate indulge their pleasures when "the curse" arrives, and why a bit of hanky-panky can help alleviate all sorts of period complaints. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| #Locktober – Chastity | 22 Oct 2024 | 00:19:40 | |
It's #Locktober! And that means Anna and Gregor are talking all things chastity in this week's episode. What is chastity all about? How can you explore this kink? And why have straight gym bros become very, very confused about what Locktober means? Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| A-Z BDSM with Vicky of Bondatrix | 15 Oct 2024 | 00:34:33 | |
In this episode, meet Vicky of Bondatrix, a kink all-rounder who immersed herself in the BDSM world over 20 years ago. Vicky runs a fetish clothing and equipment store and teaches kink in many different settings. She also works as a female ProDomme with a specialism in mummification and total enclosure bondage if that's your thing! Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Sex-positive parenting by a BDSM brat | 08 Oct 2024 | 00:47:12 | |
Talking to kids about sex can be awkward. That's a fact. Sexologist and BDSM brat Dr. Celina Criss is in the studio with Gregor and Anna to chat about sex-positive parenting, consensual non-monogamy, and outmaneuvering your Dominant as a mischievous sub. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| BDSM Basics – Kinky online dating | 01 Oct 2024 | 00:18:05 | |
Anna and Gregor sit down to discuss their experiences with kinky online dating during their time working for Fetish.com. Get all the insights and tips on how to navigate any fetish or BDSM dating website. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Bondage and shibari | 24 Sep 2024 | 00:37:11 | |
All about ropes in this episode of Spank U, Next! Anna and Gregor talk to Marcos Mangani, a social media shibari star, about bondage and the different – and sometimes surprising – reasons people choose to explore this practice. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Feminine orgasmic power with a BDSM witch | 17 Sep 2024 | 00:54:32 | |
Anna and Gregor sit down with LA-based author and real-life witch Gabriela Herstik to explore the mystical world of BDSM and fetish. Discover modern witchcraft practices and how to harness sexual energy to manifest your goals. Let Gabriela enchant you as she reveals the connection between kinky submission and surrendering to the Divine Goddess. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| BDSM Basics – Munches | 10 Sep 2024 | 00:12:48 | |
Ready to get to know the BDSM community near you? Munches are a great place to start. In this episode of BDSM Basics, hosts Anna and Gregor share everything you need to know about these BDSM meet-ups. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Cuckolding | 03 Sep 2024 | 00:35:12 | |
You asked... we listened. It's cuckolding time, baby! We've wanted to do this episode of a long, long time, but we struggled to find anyone who would talk about this wildly popular but stigmatized kink. We talk to *David (we have changed his name for privacy reasons), a "bull" in the scene, who typically plays the starring role in a couple's cuckolding fantasy. We've altered his voice to protect his anonymity, but his story his real. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Spank U, Next! season 4 trailer | 29 Aug 2024 | 00:02:13 | |
We're back with a brand spanking new season of your favorite fetish and BDSM podcast. In season four, hosts Anna and Gregor team up with Fetish.com and the FET App to dive even deeper into the world of relationships, kink, and that one secret fantasy you're dying to explore. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Financial domination with Mistress Marley | 27 Aug 2024 | 00:47:18 | |
This is an old fan fav that everyone should listen to! The formidable financial dominatrix Mistress Marley is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about quitting the 9-5 rat race to humiliate 'pay pigs' for a six-figure salary. In this episode, you'll hear about the non-stop hustle of a New York FinDomme, draining powerful men's wallets as reparations for the black community. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| BDSM Basics – Anal for women | 08 Aug 2024 | 00:22:30 | |
We all know about pegging. We 've all watched porn and see how men love to put it up women's butts. But how is anal for women? Pain, pleasure, poop... all the above? In this episode, Anna and Gregor dive into this hot and peachy topic. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| BDSM Basics – BDSM gone wrong | 02 Aug 2024 | 00:15:29 | |
Sometimes things just don’t go the way you’d hoped. In BDSM, this can lead to bizarrely funny or even dangerous situations. In this episode of Spank U, Next’s BDSM Basics, Anna and Gregor discuss how to avoid any kinky disasters and how to deal with them if they happen anyway. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Mailbag episode: Punishment vs. Funishment | 05 Jun 2024 | 00:25:06 | |
Spank U, Next listeners... we're back with another mailbag episode where we take listener's questions and answer them in the best way we can. We've been a bit MIA recently due to life events, so we'll update you on the podcast for the next few months and check in with each other on what the hell has being going on in both of our lives. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| On repeat: The male Pro Dominant serving female clients | 18 Apr 2024 | 00:42:58 | |
Listen to one of our most successful episodes ever where we talk to a male ProDom who caters to female clients only. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| BDSM Basics – Spanking | 28 Mar 2024 | 00:19:58 | |
This episode's topic has had such an impact on our show that we couldn't ignore it any longer: We're gonna talk about spanking and why so many people enjoy having their booty beaten. Join Anna and Gregor as they explore a kink that's found its way into many people's bedrooms and get inspired to spice up your own sex life. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Polyamory & power exchange with Dan & Dawn of Erotic Awakening Podcast | 14 Mar 2024 | 00:52:32 | |
Welcome to the podcaster showdown! Anna and Gregor interview veteran podcasters Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast and discuss their 20 years of experience in the BDSM and fetish world. Dan and Dawn share stories of life on the road living in an RV, power exchange, polyamory, and thriving in alternative lifestyles.
Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| On repeat: A daddy Dom & little girl dynamic | 29 Feb 2024 | 00:53:28 | |
Listen to an old fan favourite about DDLG (daddy Dom/little girl), littlespace, age play, and so much more! Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| BDSM Basics – Sadomasochism | 14 Feb 2024 | 00:19:52 | |
In this episode of BDSM Basics, we're taking it back to basics... literally. Sadomasochism: what is it? Where did it come from? How can you explore it? Listen now, you sadistic/masochistic freaks! Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| All about porn with Mickey Mod | 31 Jan 2024 | 00:41:53 | |
Delve into the dynamic and evolving landscape of porn with the multifaceted adult performer and activist, Mickey Mod. Hosts Anna and Gregor chat to the seasoned porn performer – who is not only passionate about his craft, but also deeply invested in advocating for the rights of sex workers – about ethical adult content, race, sex work, and so much more. Mickey Mod is an industry icon – enjoy his wisdom here. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Kinky yoga | 16 Jan 2024 | 00:43:10 | |
Sun salutations, Tantra, the inner goddess... and kink. Sound like a strange mix? Not for Alice and Pau, two yoga coaches and instructors bringing kinky yoga to women and couples looking to do some self-discovery. They tell Anna and Gregor why yoga and BDSM are a heady mix that opens up the sensual and sexual self. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Renowned dominatrix Eva Oh talks kink, money & fame | 21 Dec 2023 | 00:34:55 | |
Dominatrix and kinky influencer Eva Oh is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about her fascinating journey to sex work. She went from working in strategic consulting to becoming a highly successful dominatrix, now earning up to $10,000 a day with an online following in the hundreds of thousands. Eva shares the psychological aspects of her work – particularly her interest in power dynamics and emotional masochism – and misconceptions surrounding sex work and the BDSM community. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Kink on cam – Todd Max Carey’s BDSM documentary | 07 Dec 2023 | 00:35:08 | |
BDSM often gets a bad rap in pop culture, notably exacerbated by the problematic portrayal in 'Fifty Shades of Grey'. Determined to shift the narrative, Anna and Gregor sit down with kinky documentary director Todd Max Carey to talk about his latest project, 'Touch Kink,' a film that explores real-world BDSM and fetishism. Carey tells the story of how he got into BDSM and why it was so important for him to bring the stories of other kinky people to the big screen. Tune in as they navigate through Carey's personal journey, the importance of authentic representation, and the impact of his work in normalizing kink within the community.
Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Leather fetishes with artist Steven Harwick | 20 Nov 2023 | 00:34:33 | |
It's all about leather in this episode of Spank U, Next... and quite frankly, it's long overdue. The leather fetish community is perhaps the most well-known aesthetic of the queer kinky community – but where is at today? Once thriving leather bars in New York, San Francisco and beyond have closed their doors as dating apps fill the supply and demand of queer and kinky sex. Artist Steven Harwick, a Brooklyn-based artist, has been photographing modern leather kink culture and how the subculture has evolved in his zine Bound Leather and on his Instagram page. He is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about his work, as well as his personal experiences as a member of the queer leather community. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| Vampire fetishists thirsty for blood play | 30 Oct 2023 | 00:24:22 | |
It's the spooky season – the demons are among us. So Anna and Gregor dive into the realm of vampire fetishism and blood play in this special Halloween episode. They talk Buffy the Vampire Slayer and gothic influences, how vampire fetishists play with their prey, and their recent trip to New Orleans, a city with a vibrant vampire community. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| On repeat: A 24/7 BDSM marriage | 19 Oct 2023 | 01:06:51 | |
Listen to an old fan favourite about the world of full-time BDSM with fellow podcasters and IRL couple Kayla Lords and John Brownstone (JB). The husband and wife duo met on the internet before sparking up a 24/7 Daddy Dom/sub dynamic in their shared home in Florida. Hosts Anna & Gregor get the lowdown on what it takes to make a kinky partnership work all day – every day. From the domestic to the downright dirty, Kayla (affectionately dubbed the ‘coffee sub’) and JB lift the lid on round-the-clock BDSM. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| BDSM on the therapist's couch with Dr. Stefani Goerlich | 05 Oct 2023 | 00:49:51 | |
Spank U, Next is back after a summer hiatus and you're in for a treat. World-renowned sex therapist and kink specialist Dr. Stefani Goerlich is in the studio to talk about BDSM and psychology. Early into her work, Stefani was struck by the kink-shaming she saw among other sex therapists and decided to do things differently. She takes an empathetic and non-stigmatising approach to help kinky people (and their partners) enjoy good sexual health and happiness. In this episode, Stefani tells Anna and Gregor about how BDSM is pathologised in mainstream therapy, ways to practice good communication with a vanilla partner, and the perks and pitfalls of polyamory. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| We answer ChatGPT's BDSM questions | 09 Aug 2023 | 00:25:25 | |
All anyone is talking about is AI. How it’s coming for our jobs, our minds, and our sex lives. But does ChatGPT know a thing or two about BDSM? It appears so. New AI tools tend to swerve sexual and adult content – including anything about kinks – but Anna & Gregor hacked ChatGPT to become a curious kinkster. They were surprised about its sophistication – as you will be, too. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| BDSM Basics – Foot fetishes | 20 Jul 2023 | 00:21:31 | |
In this episode of BDSM Basics, Anna and Gregor explore the world of foot fetishes and how the allure of feet may be tied to their taboo nature, often associated with dirt and sweat. Listen as they make biblical references to foot worship and discuss the symbolism of submission and adoration tied up with these fetishes. If 1 in 3 people have a fetish, and foot fetishes are the most common, that's a lot of people into feet.
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| UK's top sex therapist Kate Moyle on having better sex | 06 Jul 2023 | 00:46:10 | |
Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where sex goes from hot to hardly ever? It's a tale as old as the orgasm gap, but there's actually a lot you can do about it. The UK’s leading psychosexual therapist Kate Moyle is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about desire, sex and the therapist's couch. They dive into topics like why sex dwindles in long-term relationships, how mums can get their groove back after maternity, prioritising pleasure over penetration, and exploring BDSM with the help of a therapist. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||
| BDSM Basics – Breakups (the bad kind of pain) | 22 Jun 2023 | 00:17:42 | |
Been ghosted by your Dom? Did a kinky relationship end abruptly and you're left pining? Breakups are always tough – in BDSM, they're tougher. Trust and consent are such fundamental components of any dynamic that a rupturing of these things can feel devastating. It's abandonment, but without the play. Don't fret, though, co-hosts Anna and Gregor are here to walk you through the healing process, so you can get back to indulging the kinks you love.
Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! | |||