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Today we explore a traditional Rosh Hashanah reading from 1 Samuel about Jonathan's loyal friendship with King David, and; extracts powerful lessons for those on a grief journey. The biblical story demonstrates how love transcends hatred, and ultimately has the healing power to mend our deepest wounds. Especially grief.
• Examination of the biblical story of Jonathan protecting King David from King Saul • Love is greater than hate, physical harm, and can heal all wounds • Love, especially God's love, can accompany us through our grief journey • True and faithful love for God rewards us both in this life and beyond
If you have questions about spiritual direction while grieving, or grief support or grief groups in your community, my contact information is in the show notes.
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Today we explore how our attachments to physical objects transform during grief. Loss requires us to reconsider what we hold onto and why, as we weave grief into the fabric of our lives rather than trying to overcome it.
• Grief isn't something to "get over" but something we integrate into our lives • Moving to a new home revealed how many things I was willing to let go • St. Ignatius teaches about "disordered attachments" that keep us from being closer to God • Examining our attachments can help us move forward in grief
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Grief presents itself in many forms, including the loss of control during difficult news. Explore how modern dependency on technology for answers differs from seeking spiritual guidance during times of uncertainty and fear.
• What might happen if we took our questions to God instead of Google? • Spiritual answers may be different but more meaningful than information alone • Connection to divine love is universal and available to everyone • Recognition that technology, while useful, cannot provide the living presence we truly seek
You can find us on Spotify, Amazon Music and Apple. You can contact me through my email in the show notes. A new episode drops every Friday.
For spiritual direction, art, and workshops shared through Santa Clara University, https://events.scu.edu/markey-center/event/344943-spiritual-accompaniment
You can reach us at: candeelucas@soulplusgrace.com. SPIRITUAL DIRECTION WHILE GRIEVING IS AVAILABLE
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SPOILER ALERT! If you haven't seen it or finished it--some subplots are revealed and discussed. This week's episode is inspired by the popular series 'Ted Lasso', and shines a light on unaddressed grief and the profound implications it can have on a person's life. We explore how silence can breed more solitude, why sharing our stories is so crucial, and the power of just being there for someone in their grief.
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Have you ever wondered how to navigate the treacherous waters of grief with grace and faith? Today, we acknowledge our anger and seek solace in the protective shield of God's love. As we walk through this valley of shadows, we remind ourselves that divine love heals and reassures us of His presence in our pain. And amidst all this darkness, we echo a gentle reminder - be kind to yourself. In this journey of a thousand steps, remember, you are not alone. So, join us in this episode as we find comfort and begin our healing journey together, enveloped in God's love.
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Today we honor those who've tragically lost their lives to hate and violence, expressing our heartfelt solidarity with a centuries-old Jewish ritual of comfort, Kaddish. This episode is a tribute to the resilience and fortitude of the Jewish community worldwide and a profound reflection on our collective yearning for peace. Join us on this journey of healing, fueled by faith, prayer, and a mutual desire for reconciliation.
"Saying Kaddish: How to Comfort the Dying, Bury the Dead, and Mourn as a Jew "
Beloved New York Times bestselling author and award-winning journalist--Anita Diamant—the definitive guide to Judaism’s end-of-life rituals, revised and updated for Jews of all backgrounds and beliefs. From caring for the dying to honoring the dead, Anita Diamant explains the Jewish practices that make mourning a loved one an opportunity to experience the full range of emotions—grief, anger, fear, guilt, relief—and take comfort in the idea that the memory of the deceased is bound up in our lives and actions.
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Join us as we walk you through a journey of grief, prayer, and self-reflection, guided by the practice of Examen - a powerful method of prayer crafted by San Ignatius of Loyola. This episode is all about finding ways to be present - truly present - in the midst of grief, from creating a sacred space with candles, music, or religious objects, to the simple, grounding practice of focusing on your own breathing.
Discover the healing essence of expressing respect and love, the transformative potential of forgiveness, and the profound bond between spirituality, love, and grief.
BIBLIOGRAPHY and RESOURCES Ganns, George E., S.J. (Ed.), Ignatius of Loyola: The Spiritual Exercises and Selected Works, New York; Mahwah, Paulist Press, 1991
Murphy, Marie, New Images of the Last Things: Karl Rahner on Death and Life after Death, New York; Mahwah, Paulist Press, 1988
Rahner, Karl, On the Theology of Death, New York, Herder and Herder, 1971
Thurman, Robert A. F. (Trans), The Tibetan Book of the Dead (as popularly know in the West), New York; Toronto; London; Sydney; Auckland, Bantam Books, 1994
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As we journey through life, the loss of a loved one often brings our own mortality into sharp focus. It's a difficult concept to grapple with - the idea of our own passing. Yet, it's a topic that's seldom talked about.
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When we lose a loved one, the world can turn upside down. Wander through the labyrinth of grief and a divine convergence - the fusion of human love and God's love. It's a comforting beacon in the bleak landscape, the embodiment of eternal love that defies human mortality.
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Have you ever held onto the seeds of nature, as a memento of your travels, only to forget about them and find them much later? Today, we compare these forgotten seeds to our personal memories, dreams, hopes, and emotions that we often carry around.
In our journey of grief, we might grapple with complex feelings of anger towards our departed loved ones. This week, we invite you to face these hard thoughts and emotions, to sit down with them, and to uncover the hidden meanings behind our pain. Let's walk this path of healing and faith together.
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Today, we delve into beautiful Psalm 63, interpreting our longing for God in times of sorrow. Drawing wisdom from Genesis and teachings from the Prophet Hosea, we explore God’s unending love and sense of forever.
In "ordinary time", while we grapple with our grief, amidst our daily lives, we realize how grief is an ordinary part of our existence. Be it the loss of a spouse, parent, sibling, or friend, the experience is distinctively profound. Join us in a safe space for you to understand and accept your emotions. Remember the comforting truth that our loved ones are now enveloped by a loving presence beyond our understanding.
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We take a closer look at the story of the road to Emmaus and how it parallels our own grief journey, reminding us that the love of those we have lost, and the love of Jesus, is always with us, even when they are physically absent.
Navigating the road of grief is never a solitary journey. Remember, you are not alone. Your loved ones' love and God's love is ever-present, offering you comfort as you traverse this road.
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Today we revisit our parish grief group. Our 3 friends, Dolores, Kathy and Trinie share sacred insights, dissecting the process of grief, and identifying the significance of time in healing. Moreover, listen to our friends as they share their beautiful stories of faith and resilience. They share the beauty of this group, a sanctuary for those dealing with fresh wounds and those nursing old ones. They discuss the dynamics of the group, the importance of comfort for all members, and the resources available for those seeking a different healing path.
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Music creates a powerful pathway through grief, offering comfort and expression when words fall short. Ben Kweller, a singer-songwriter who lost his 16-year-old son Dorian in a tragic car accident, channeled his grief into creating the album "Cover the Mirrors," demonstrating how art can become a healing force.
• The "Impolitic" podcast with John Heileman features a poignant interview with Ben Kweller about his grief journey • Kweller wrote many songs in a grief "fog," a state many grievers may recognize • Music can connect us to memories and validate our feelings of loss • Personal grief experiences can be supported by exposure to meaningful music • Apple Music offers a curated 'Grief' playlist with 111 songs spanning more than six hours • Music serves as a channel through which God can speak to us and call us to open our hearts for healing
Listen every Friday on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and Amazon Music for spiritual direction, art, and workshops shared through Santa Clara University, https://events.scu.edu/markey-center/event/344943-spiritual-accompaniment
You can reach us at: candeelucas@soulplusgrace.com. SPIRITUAL DIRECTION WHILE GRIEVING IS AVAILABLE
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Join us as we traverse through sacred scriptures and evocative poetry, unravelling the transformative potential of mindful breathing.
Remember, you're not alone; reach out to us, share your thoughts, questions - we are here for you. So, take a deep breath, subscribe to our podcast on your preferred platform, and let's embark on this healing journey together.
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Lost in a sea of grief, we embark on a journey to explore one of life's most harrowing experiences - self-death (suicide). The shockwave that follows such an event, the sense of loss, the questions, the 'what ifs' - we explore them all. It's a journey that dives deep into the human psyche, attempting to understand the profound choice someone makes and the aftermath that follows. How do we respect this choice? How do we support those left behind? How do we create a safe space for those affected to share their stories? Come, join us on this emotional voyage. Let's find solace in shared human experiences, and in the knowledge that our loved ones are at peace.
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Finding Solace in Faith: The Story of a Parish Grief Group
How do you navigate the rough seas of grief, and find comfort and understanding through faith? Join us as we sit down with our special guests, Kathy, Trinie, and Dolores, three close friends who are the heart and soul of a parish grief group. These phenomenal women share their journey of conceiving and nurturing this ministry, the challenges they faced, and the instrumental role the Holy Spirit played in their work. They take us through the unique facets of their faith-based grief group, including the creation of a sacred space for their members and the use of spiritual resources like the book "Grieving with the Help of your Catholic Faith."
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Healing Hearts: From Fallow Fields to Sacred Ground
Reflecting on the grief journey, find a soul-soothing metaphor in the concept of 'fallow'. Picture this - you're stepping out of a dense forest into a vast, untouched field, the fallow land. This is your heart, battered by the loss of someone dear, now ready to be nurtured and grown anew with love. Let's walk this path together, steadily and slowly, with Jesus as our companion.
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Have you ever wondered about the intricate link between grief and love? Together, we discover how acknowledging the love that existed can make grieving slightly more bearable, inspired by the words of Kahlil Gibran’s 'The Prophet'. We journey through the stages of grief and self-knowledge .
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In this episode, we bring our listeners a response to the writings of St. Teresa of Ávila and John of the Cross, as we delve into the rooms of loss and grief. Join us, as we navigate through these rooms, discovering God's enduring love and finding comfort in our shared experiences. This is an invitation to you, to honor those you've lost, process your grief, and discover how God is moving in your life during these challenging times.
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Embracing God's Presence with Poet Rainier Maria Rilke
As we journey through our own grieving process, the powerful poetry of Rainer Maria Rilke can provide solace and guidance. Join us as we explore the depths of our emotions and the healing power of God's presence in our lives through Rilke's verses. Delve into his search for God and learn how his words can help us transform our mourning into comfort, opening our hearts to more love, compassion, and a deeper connection with the divine.
Listen in to this transformative discussion and find hope, growth, and spiritual nourishment through the power of Rilke's poetry and the presence of God in your life.
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Losing a loved one is never easy, and the journey through grief can leave us feeling lost and disconnected. I invite you to join me as we explore the healing process through the lens of both Christianity and Buddhism, drawing upon teachings from Thich Nhat Hanh and Psalm 139.
As we delve into Thich Nhat Hanh's writings, we'll discover the common ground between Christianity and Buddhism in their shared goal of alleviating suffering and promoting healing. Through reflections on the impermanence of life and the enduring nature of love, we'll find comfort in knowing that our connections with those we've lost continue to exist in new forms.
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Have you ever discovered new information about a loved one who has passed away, leaving you with a whirlwind of emotions and unanswered questions? Join me as we share experiences and explore the complex feelings that arise in such situations. Together, we'll discuss the importance of forgiveness and various approaches for addressing unresolved emotions, including writing a letter to your loved one, talking with another family member, or taking your emotions directly to God.
Drawing from passages in the Bible, such as Ephesians 4, Matthew 6, Luke 6, and Psalm 32, we'll find solace in the power of forgiveness and the healing potential of love. As a Chaplain and spiritual director, I also want to remind you of the valuable resources available through Catholic Cemeteries, offering spiritual direction and support for those in the midst of grief. So let's come together in our circle of healing, love, and faith, trusting in the love and mercy of God to guide us through these difficult times.
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Have you ever felt the presence of Jesus in your life, especially during times of grief? Join me as we explore the comforting gaze of Jesus through John O'Donohue's beautiful poem, "The Eyes of Jesus," from his book To Bless the Space Between Us. Allow this tender episode to remind you of Jesus' closeness and support during your grief journey, as we also share personal encounters with the Divine that reflect the overwhelming love and sanctuary found in God's presence.
Together, we'll not only find solace in O'Donohue's words but also in a powerful prayer by Deborah Cash, which encourages us to build a heart of wisdom and compassion through our experiences of loss.
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Grief rarely follows the patterns we imagine it will, often surprising us with unexpected moments of both pain and comfort that defy our expectations. Our personal experiences with grief become like unique coloring books that reflect our individual journeys rather than conforming to society's expectations.
• Childhood memories of a beloved sister who colored outside the lines • How grief rarely stays within the boundaries we expect • The unexpected comfort found in sensory memories after loved ones pass • Finding peace in our own personal "grief books" with all their unique patterns • Discovering that what we miss most about our loved ones often surprises us
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In this episode I return to the ongoing grief of the loss of my mom; how it colors my life now. My journey with grief has led me to a deeper understanding of God's love for all beings in the world, and my desire to make a positive impact on the lives of those who are marginalized, victimized, or struggling. Join me as I share reflections on grief, healing, and the beauty of God's love in our lives.
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Have you ever found yourself wading through the murky waters of grief, searching for a safe haven of comfort and healing? In our discussion about finding greener grasses in God's presence, we explore how life's landscape can shift suddenly and unexpectedly. We draw inspiration from how God surrounds us with supportive individuals who become our spiritual community. Join us in reflecting on where God is moving in your life, how to find solace in Psalm 23, and what might be easing your path through this challenging time.
In the second half of our heartfelt conversation, we delve into the transformative power of God's presence during times of change and how we can navigate these moments with grace and gentleness. Discover valuable insight on obtaining spiritual direction from Catholic Cemeteries in San Jose, and how they can be a source of comfort during times of grief. As always, we welcome your comments and suggestions for future episodes, encouraging you to be gentle with yourself and travel with God. So, take a deep breath, and let us guide you through this comforting and uplifting journey.
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Today as we walk with God through our grief; we notice the lack of color. It speaks to our journey sometimes. We also rely on the wisdom of Thich Nhat Hanh to remind us the shape of grief.
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Today we contemplate the “unfinished business” we may have with a loved one.
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In this episode; we revisit the Psalms interpreted by Norman Fischer who wanted to reach a wider audience with Zen called: "Opening to You". I recommend it, but I also recommend walking with God with traditional Psalms.
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This week I talk about another one of my favorite "grief" books, "The Year of Magical Thinking", by Joan Didion. (https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7815.The_Year_of_Magical_Thinking) I recommend it, but I also recommend walking with God in our own magical thinking after a death.
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Today we explore how dryness in prayer can affect our grief and how gratitude can be the antidote. See: Ecclesiastes 3.
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Today we explore how the veil thins when death is near; how God draws near our dying ones.
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The recent death of Bishop O'Connell reminds us of the fragility of life and how it is to grieve a death from violence. We also call upon Kahlil Gibran's "Prophet" for wisdom.
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Today we make one last trip into the desert as Peter fulfills the Lord's final request of him.
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Notes from "Grieving with the Help of Your Catholic Faith" - 2
Today explore the difficult questions that arise during grief and how our Catholic faith offers pathways for healing. We examine how questions of "why" and "what if" can become poignant prayers and how sharing our stories helps us accept the reality of loss.
• Questions beginning with "why" are often not really questions but statements of protest or pain • The sacrament of reconciliation helps those struggling with unresolved "what-if" questions and feelings of guilt • Telling your story repeatedly is healing • Support groups provide safe places to share stories, express concerns, and feel a sense of belonging • One-on-one counseling is available through Catholic Charities, hospital chaplains, and hospice services • There is no "right" timeline for seeking support - this is a personal decision
This material comes from the book "Grieving with the Help of your Catholic Faith" by Lorene Hanley Duquin. (Available on Amazon)
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Today we attend the Last Supper and find the mood is one of celebration with a whiff of grief.
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As we journey through the Lenten season, the profound teachings of Persian poet Rumi remind us that love transcends physical separation. Can we truly experience Christ's boundless love and be guided through the desert of grief? Let this episode be your compass, exploring the transformative power of love, faith, and the belief that we are never separated from the divine.
Join as we draw inspiration from Rumi and the promise of Easter to offer hope, comfort, and strength during our time of grief. Savor a heartfelt prayer from Jan Richardson's 'Circle of Grace' and be reminded of your own beloved nature. Reach out to us for further support and guidance, and remember - you are always Beloved.
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This week we use imaginative prayer to explore Jesus' journey into the desert and into grief. We also call upon Kahlil Gibran's "Prophet" for solace.
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This week we travel with Gate of Heaven's own Jackie Nguyen. She shares the loss of a dear family pet and talks about what it is to grieve that loss.
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This week we continue with the wisdom of Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh; and share his thoughts on how mindfulness can help manage your grief.
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This week we thank Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh; and share some of his body of grief wisdom.
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Notes from "Grieving with the Help of Your Catholic Faith" - 1
Grief is the process by which healing takes place after loss, requiring time and space to work through the emotional wounds. The work of grieving involves accepting the reality of loss, experiencing the pain, recreating the person in memory, adjusting to life without them, and finding new meaning.
• The word "bereavement" means "to be torn apart" • Emotional wounds from loss take longer to heal than physical wounds • Grief helps you grow emotionally and spiritually despite the pain • The full impact of loss typically hits between 3-9 months after death • Grieving is your internal experience while mourning is the outward expression • Jesus wept over Lazarus, giving us permission to express our grief • Avoiding grief only makes the process longer and more difficult • Pouring your heart out to God is one of the most powerful forms of prayer
This material comes from the book "Grieving with the Help of your Catholic Faith" by Lorene Hanley Duquin. (Available on Amazon)
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Today we explore what it means to grieve and why and how grief is not a mental illness.
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In this Episode I remember the death of my own mother in 1996. The holidays always make me miss her more.
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