Social Moths – Details, episodes & analysis

Welcome to the very first episode of Social Moths 🦋

Hosts Lindsey, Harriet, and Amy introduce themselves through a series of candid confessions, chaotic anecdotes, and the kind of oversharing that sets the tone for the podcast. Lindsey kicks things off by sharing her New Year’s resolutions. taking more risks and being kinder, while Amy recounts an unforgettable (and slightly alarming) attempt at burning bad memories in a wood burner.

The trio reminisce about how they first met, bonding through shared experiences including a fiercely competitive game show and a dinosaur-themed comedy show. Along the way, Harriet opens up about a recent and life-changing discovery: she’s hard of hearing.

Things get even more personal when they discuss what comes up when you Google them, revealing details such as Lindsey’s ADHD and Harriet’s deafness. With honesty, humour, and plenty of laughs, the hosts set out what Social Moths is all about. navigating social situations, awkward moments, and the stories that connect us all.

They also share details about the podcast, their upcoming tour, and invite listeners to get involved by sharing their own social experiences.

Follow, listen, and join the conversation, because we’re all just social moths trying to find the light.

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Harriet Dyer

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Amy Mason

Website - https://amy-mason.com (Currently on tour - see website for dates)

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/amymasoncomedy?igsh=YzE3d3phY2xuM2E0

Lindsey Santoro

Website - https://www.lindseysantoro.co.uk

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/linzsantoro?igsh=MXN5aTJ5dHlnbjByag==

Producer - Richard Lannen 

@richlannen

Produced by Nozzle Media

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Episode two of Social Moths finds Harriet Dyer, Amy Mason, and Lindsey Santoro diving into the messy, funny reality of trying to socialise in the modern world. Harriet opens up about her recent move from Manchester to Bristol and the awkwardness of starting over, while Amy shares how co-parenting can really work. Lindsey transports back to Victorian times and fizzes her child up before bed. 

The trio also revisit the chaos and comedy of Lindsey’s unforgettable 40th birthday party. From ginger haired decorations to Harriet’s drunken antics before swapping stories about parties from the past, personal hurdles, and the strange ways we all try to stay connected. Honest, hilarious, and surprisingly heartfelt.

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Harriet Dyer

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Amy Mason

Website - https://amy-mason.com (Currently on tour - see website for dates)

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/amymasoncomedy?igsh=YzE3d3phY2xuM2E0

Lindsey Santoro

Website - https://www.lindseysantoro.co.uk

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/linzsantoro?igsh=MXN5aTJ5dHlnbjByag==

Producer - Richard Lannen 

@richlannen

Produced by Nozzle Media

Website - https://nozzle.media

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nozzlemedia?igsh=MWVzbm5wano4czNwNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

In this chaotic and very funny episode of Social Moths, hosts Lindsey Santoro, Amy Mason and Harriet Dyer ask themselves a simple question: have we actually been social this week?

From four gigs in one day in Manchester (fuelled by a questionable “American pie” with a bone sticking out of it) to a 24-hour whistle-stop trip to Brussels, there’s plenty of movement but not necessarily meaningful interaction. There’s kitchen renovations, National Trust outings, and an unexpected deep dive into RPG gaming as medieval knights and fashion fairies.

Things take a turn into the bizarre with tales of roadside wees during motorway standstills, being trapped in the back of a car with a bucket of wee, a rat in the kitchen saga that escalates to a dramatic countryside release, and possibly the worst faux pas of all: accidentally using a display toilet in an antique shop.

Add in ghost stories, awkward green room encounters, big-head genetics, and plans for interactive darts and shuffleboard, and you’ve got another gloriously unhinged episode about trying and sometimes failing to flutter toward human connection.

Expect oversharing, existential musings, and absolutely no dignity.

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Harriet Dyer

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Amy Mason

Website - https://amy-mason.com (Currently on tour - see website for dates)

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/amymasoncomedy?igsh=YzE3d3phY2xuM2E0

Lindsey Santoro

Website - https://www.lindseysantoro.co.uk

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/linzsantoro?igsh=MXN5aTJ5dHlnbjByag==

Producer - Richard Lannen 

@richlannen

Produced by Nozzle Media

Website - https://nozzle.media

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nozzlemedia?igsh=MWVzbm5wano4czNwNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

This week on Social Moths, Amy Mason, Lindsey Santoro and Harriet Dyer flutter their way through another gloriously chaotic catch-up. From children’s birthday parties and terrifying Peppa Pig costumes to IKEA trips, wrestling obsessions, and disastrous flat-pack furniture builds, it’s a full social debrief.

They also open the Drawer of Shame to answer a listener’s question about changing careers later in life and how they each found their way into comedy—via temp jobs, drama teachers, open mics, and a lot of trial and error. Along the way, they discuss stage fright, finding your voice, and why being terrible at first is all part of the process.

Plus: herbal tea emergencies, chatroom confessions, childhood ambitions, and the ongoing quest to impose a structure on the podcast (unsuccessfully).

Got a social faux pas or a question for the show? Send it in… and join the fellow moths gathering around the warm glow of human connection.

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Harriet Dyer

Website - https://harrietdyer.com/media/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/harrietdyercomedy?igsh=dWI0dWtndWFsN2ph

Amy Mason

Website - https://amy-mason.com (Currently on tour - see website for dates)

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/amymasoncomedy?igsh=YzE3d3phY2xuM2E0

Lindsey Santoro

Website - https://www.lindseysantoro.co.uk

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/linzsantoro?igsh=MXN5aTJ5dHlnbjByag==

Producer - Richard Lannen 

@richlannen

Produced by Nozzle Media

Website - https://nozzle.media

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nozzlemedia?igsh=MWVzbm5wano4czNwNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

This week on Social Moths, the gang flutter through a chaotic mix of holiday horror stories, social mishaps, and questionable life experiences. From disastrous party holidays and awkward encounters abroad to mysterious medical appointments and disappearing ovaries, nothing is off limits. There’s talk of carveries, SodaStreams, strange holiday entertainment, and a listener story about accidentally running a flower stall.

It’s messy, silly, and full of the kind of social faux pas that make you want to laugh and hide at the same time. If you’ve ever had a nightmare trip, an awkward public moment, or a story that spiralled out of control, you’ll feel right at home.

Got your own social faux pas or dilemma? Send it in at socialmoths.co.uk and you might hear it on the show.

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Harriet Dyer

Website - https://harrietdyer.com/media/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/harrietdyercomedy?igsh=dWI0dWtndWFsN2ph

Amy Mason

Website - https://amy-mason.com (Currently on tour - see website for dates)

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/amymasoncomedy?igsh=YzE3d3phY2xuM2E0

Lindsey Santoro

Website - https://www.lindseysantoro.co.uk

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/linzsantoro?igsh=MXN5aTJ5dHlnbjByag==

Producer - Richard Lannen 

@richlannen

Produced by Nozzle Media

Website - https://nozzle.media

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nozzlemedia?igsh=MWVzbm5wano4czNwNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

This week on Social Moths, Harriet, Lindsay and Amy gather around the glow once again to share their latest social mishaps, awkward moments, and questionable life experiences.

Amy returns from holiday with a cucumber-related restaurant incident that somehow ends with a waiter announcing her love of cucumbers to the entire room. Lindsey recounts the most disturbing way she’s ever seen someone eat a mozzarella stick (and questions whether her relationship can survive it), while Amy confesses to being publicly called out in a café for attempting the three-second rule with dropped food.

Elsewhere in the episode, there’s a late-night ghost hunt in an old manor house, strange hostel mix-ups, suspicious parcel tampering in Lindsay’s building, and an unfortunate parenting comment overheard at the Anne Frank exhibition.

From falling back in love in long-term relationships to near-death experiences with Amsterdam “wacky backy”, the moths flutter between the hilarious and the awkward as they share another week of chaotic social encounters.

If you’ve witnessed a social faux pas or have a story send it in at www.socialmoths.co.uk

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Harriet Dyer

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Amy Mason

Website - https://amy-mason.com (Currently on tour - see website for dates)

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/amymasoncomedy?igsh=YzE3d3phY2xuM2E0

Lindsey Santoro

Website - https://www.lindseysantoro.co.uk

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/linzsantoro?igsh=MXN5aTJ5dHlnbjByag==

Producer - Richard Lannen 

@richlannen

Produced by Nozzle Media

Website - https://nozzle.media

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nozzlemedia?igsh=MWVzbm5wano4czNwNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

This week on Social Mobs, things quickly descend into chaos after a perfectly normal cup of tea. The gang attempt to discuss ancestry tests, hearing problems, and everyday life, but somehow end up debating animal heritage, suspicious pubes, and the strange realities of public toilets.

Harriet shares the relief of finally proving to the audiologist that she really is deaf (and celebrates the prospect of fancy new hearing aids), while the others swap stories about performing stand-up comedy with microphones turned off, disastrous gigs, and the awkwardness of explaining comedy as a job to “normal” people at school mum meet-ups.

Elsewhere, there’s carpet-cleaning triumphs, questionable hotel hygiene, Bronze Age burial sites under Travelodges, dragon-romance novels, and a heated debate about whether you can identify a human poo on sight.

Plus, a listener dilemma: Ben thinks he’s reached the point of not caring at work and worries that one drink at the office social might lead to him accidentally burning the company down. Should he skip the event—or lean into the chaos?

Expect tangents, oversharing, and the usual wonderfully unhinged nonsense.

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Harriet Dyer

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Amy Mason

Website - https://amy-mason.com (Currently on tour - see website for dates)

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/amymasoncomedy?igsh=YzE3d3phY2xuM2E0

Lindsey Santoro

Website - https://www.lindseysantoro.co.uk

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/linzsantoro?igsh=MXN5aTJ5dHlnbjByag==

Producer - Richard Lannen 

@richlannen

Produced by Nozzle Media

Website - https://nozzle.media

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nozzlemedia?igsh=MWVzbm5wano4czNwNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

The episode kicks off with multiple failed attempts at an intro before descending into a very important discussion about what you’d be called if you were the size of a toenail. Naturally, this leads to orangutans, giant stage props, and Amy revealing a genuine fear of taxidermy and oversized animal models.

We get into everything from bizarre phobias (including animals in human clothing), unsettling childhood memories, and some truly cursed thoughts about eyelids that nobody asked for. There’s also a chaotic detour into fur coats, vintage dilemmas, and why transporting them across the country might not be worth the emotional damage.

Elsewhere, there’s chat about gigs in unexpected places, surprising audience revelations (including swingers and psychedelics), and the reality of touring — from confusing car parks to the inevitable flood of parking fines. Harriet pops round Lindsay’s for shepherd’s pie (sparking an intense breakdown of how to properly cook mince), while Amy reflects on the emotional toll of cooking for ungrateful children.

We also cover Mother’s Day chaos, wholesome family moments, and a folding club that might be the most unexpectedly adorable idea ever. Plus, a listener voice note about a rogue mouse leads to a surprisingly passionate discussion about what to do when your belongings are being slowly destroyed.

As always, it’s chaotic, honest and completely unapologetic — with plenty of oversharing, bizarre tangents, and the kind of conversations that spiral far beyond where they started.

If you’re here for laughs, relatable chaos, and a podcast that feels like being in the group chat, this one’s for you.

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Harriet Dyer

Website - https://harrietdyer.com/media/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/harrietdyercomedy?igsh=dWI0dWtndWFsN2ph

Amy Mason

Website - https://amy-mason.com (Currently on tour - see website for dates)

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/amymasoncomedy?igsh=YzE3d3phY2xuM2E0

Lindsey Santoro

Website - https://www.lindseysantoro.co.uk

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/linzsantoro?igsh=MXN5aTJ5dHlnbjByag==

Producer - Richard Lannen 

@richlannen

Produced by Nozzle Media

Website - https://nozzle.media

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nozzlemedia?igsh=MWVzbm5wano4czNwNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

In this episode, we’re back with the chaos that is Social Moths, hosted by Amy Mason, Harriet Dyer and Lindsay Santoro for another completely unfiltered catch-up on life, comedy and everything in between.

The conversation quickly spirals into festival memories, dream gigs, and why seeing bands when you’re slightly too drunk and freezing cold somehow makes it better. There’s also a deep dive into show ideas, poster concepts, and the pressure of naming a comedy show without immediately regretting it.

We get into everything from disastrous DIY attempts (including a truly traumatic glue incident), chaotic road trip energy, and the return of the infamous Donkey Lady (yes, it’s exactly as strange as it sounds). There’s also chat about learning sign language, competitive shuffleboarding, and the very real struggle of staying awake during your own social plans.

Elsewhere, things take a turn into Sims gameplay, D&D characters, and the questionable ways Lindsay entertains herself when she’s avoiding real life. Plus, a story about a mysteriously “delicious” smell that turns out to be anything but.

There’s also a listener dilemma about a workplace mug thief that sparks a very passionate (and wildly unhelpful) discussion on passive-aggressive revenge.

As always, it’s chaotic, honest and completely unapologetic, with plenty of oversharing, bizarre tangents, and the kind of conversations that probably shouldn’t be recorded… but thankfully are.

If you’re here for laughs, relatable chaos, and a podcast that feels like being in the group chat, this one’s for you.

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Harriet Dyer

Website - https://harrietdyer.com/media/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/harrietdyercomedy?igsh=dWI0dWtndWFsN2ph

Amy Mason

Website - https://amy-mason.com (Currently on tour - see website for dates)

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/amymasoncomedy?igsh=YzE3d3phY2xuM2E0

Lindsey Santoro

Website - https://www.lindseysantoro.co.uk

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/linzsantoro?igsh=MXN5aTJ5dHlnbjByag==

Producer - Richard Lannen 

@richlannen

Produced by Nozzle Media

Website - https://nozzle.media

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nozzlemedia?igsh=MWVzbm5wano4czNwNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

In this episode, we’re back with the chaos that is Social Moths, hosted by Amy Mason, Harriet Dyer and Lindsay Santoro for a very unfiltered catch-up on life, comedy and everything in between.

The conversation quickly derails into dating red flags, the importance of farting in front of your partner, and what really makes an “ick”.

We dive into everything from questionable sock choices and awkward social encounters to bizarre gig stories, museum mishaps, and the realities of life on the comedy circuit. There’s also a listener story about a painfully awkward hug that sparks a very relatable discussion about overthinking embarrassing moments.

As always, it’s chaotic, honest and completely unapologetic — with plenty of oversharing, unexpected tangents, and the kind of conversations that probably shouldn’t be recorded… but thankfully are.

If you’re here for laughs, relatable chaos, and a podcast that feels like being in the group chat, this one’s for you.

Send us Fan Mail

Harriet Dyer

Website - https://harrietdyer.com/media/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/harrietdyercomedy?igsh=dWI0dWtndWFsN2ph

Amy Mason

Website - https://amy-mason.com (Currently on tour - see website for dates)

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/amymasoncomedy?igsh=YzE3d3phY2xuM2E0

Lindsey Santoro

Website - https://www.lindseysantoro.co.uk

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/linzsantoro?igsh=MXN5aTJ5dHlnbjByag==

Producer - Richard Lannen 

@richlannen

Produced by Nozzle Media

Website - https://nozzle.media

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nozzlemedia?igsh=MWVzbm5wano4czNwNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr