So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? – Details, episodes & analysis

Welcome to the first episode of So When Do I Take My Clothes Off?, a place for women to feel connected as we navigate new stages of life. Today, we're reflecting on moments where we felt inspired to start something new, whether it’s a creative hobby, sport, or entrepreneurial endeavor—just like creating this podcast. 

Together, we'll recount stories through laughs, a couple tears, and shared insights about the importance of pushing yourself to try new things, especially as we age. From learning to golf to taking a painting class, it’s never too late to continue rewiring your brain and finding a novel pursuit that makes you more excited to live life. 

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Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus

Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland

Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison

Music - Ben Berger

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Welcome to So When Do I Take My Clothes Off, a podcast where we talk about love, confidence, reinventing yourself at any age and all the questions that start with “So when do I…?” When do I take hormones? When do I stop obsessing about my weight? When do I finally kick my grown adult kids off the cellphone plan? And, yes, I just started dating again… When do I take my clothes off?

We all need the camaraderie of good friends, so join us, Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger, as we talk about what’s going on in our own lives and encourage others to do the same. We’ll bring on expert guests to help us answer these “when do I…” questions, and we’ll have some fun while we’re figuring it all out.

Our body parts may start to sag, but our enthusiasm for sharing information and supporting one another never will. 

Women need community because life doesn’t come with instructions.

Don’t forget to follow for more:

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> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1

> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1

Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus

Co-Producer - Caroline McClelland

Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison

Music - Ben Berger

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Everyone says laughter is the best medicine… But is it really better than botox for us aging women? Today, we’re talking all about using humor to deal with tough times with Ali Wentworth. 

You might know Ali from her appearances on In Living Color or The Tonight Show with Jay Leno, or you may have read one of her five New York Times bestselling books. Maybe you know her as “Shmoopie” from Seinfeld, or as Meryl Streep’s best friend in the Nancy Meyer film, It’s Complicated. Regardless of where, Ali has surely made you laugh at some point. 

Today, we’ll be chatting with her about everything from parenting strategies to supporting friends through medical emergencies, knowing when and how to turn to laughter when all else fails. 

This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.

Don’t forget to follow for more:

> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/

> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1

> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1

Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus

Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland

Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison

Music - Ben Berger

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In this mini episode, we're being honest about how we are feeling about aging. Of course, aging is a privilege, but as the number grows, our perspective of time starts to shift a little bit. So if you're suddenly feeling the same way, you're not alone. Tune in for a small tidbit on how we can we stay optimistic and embrace everything that has yet to come.

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> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1

> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1

Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus

Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland

Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison

Music - Ben Berger

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This week, we're joined by supermodel, author, and actress Paulina Porizkova and her fiancé, Emmy-nominated television writer and producer Jeff Greenstein, for a heartfelt conversation about finding love later in life. Paulina opens up about the grief, uncertainty, and reinvention that followed some of the most difficult chapters of her life, while Jeff shares his own journey back to love. We'll talk about dating apps, vulnerability, aging, second chances, and why the butterflies we chase aren't always what we need. Most of all, we'll explore what happens when two people meet at a stage in life where they know who they are, what they want, and aren't afraid to choose each other.

Whether you're looking for love, healing from loss, or simply wondering what's still possible in your next chapter, we hope this conversation leaves you feeling inspired, encouraged, and open to the unexpected.

Don’t forget to follow for more:

> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/

> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1

> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1

Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus

Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland

Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison

Music - Ben Berger

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This week, we sit down with iconic interior designer and author, Nate Berkus, for an honest conversation about what makes a home meaningful, why good design is so much more than trends, and how our spaces evolve as we do. From letting go of the things we no longer need to creating rooms that reflect who we truly are, Nate shares thoughtful insights on nostalgia, style, family, and the beauty of living well.

Nate's latest book, Foundations: Timeless Design That Feels Personal, is available for purchase on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Foundations-Timeless-Design-Feels-Personal/dp/1668026139/ref=sr_1_1?crid=23MWO6M6P171H&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.sH-0_5AQFOFThoR06VjhC9UlZztrdZB9ud62JJDSJD_GjHj071QN20LucGBJIEps.vxHpVqfJyyV9mfLQWLV0RlOKTaKmvmfgw6czeEGUa9w&dib_tag=se&keywords=foundation+nate+berkus&qid=1779727418&sprefix=foundation+nate+berku%2Caps%2C277&sr=8-1&tag=getinthegroov-1-bg-20

Don’t forget to follow for more:

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> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1

Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus

Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland

Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison

Music - Ben Berger

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When your schedule suddenly clears and it feels a little off, it can breed a quiet kind of loneliness we often don't talk about.

In this mini episode, we reflect on how a simple, unplanned weekend became a reminder of how powerful small moments of connection can be. From quick errands to brief conversations, even the tiniest interactions can shift your mood and bring you back to yourself. If you’re ever feeling a little disconnected, this is your reminder to get out of the house and engage with the world because it can make all the difference.

This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.

Don’t forget to follow for more:

> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/

> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1

> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1

Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus

Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland

Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison

Music - Ben Berger

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What happens when one of life’s hardest questions becomes real?

In this deeply personal and courageous episode, we sit down with our dear friend, Barbara Corday, and her husband Roger to talk about something so many of us fear but rarely know how to face: an Alzheimer’s diagnosis. Together, we explore what it actually feels like to live with memory loss in real time—the small moments, the quiet frustrations, the unexpected grace—and what it means to love and care for someone through it. This episode is a reminder that behind every diagnosis is a person still living, still feeling, still navigating their world, and that the people beside them are learning, too.

If you or someone you love is going through something similar, we hope this conversation makes you feel a little less alone. Because as always… we’re still figuring it out, together.

This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.

Don’t forget to follow for more:

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> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1

> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1

Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus

Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland

Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison

Music - Ben Berger

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Is basic etiquette...gone?

In today's mini, we’re unpacking the lost art of saying thank you, from handwritten notes to quick texts, and why even the smallest acknowledgement can mean everything. Somewhere along the way, appreciation has started to feel optional in our society... and we’re not so sure that’s a good thing. We hope this serves as a reminder that in a world that moves quickly, a small gesture of gratitude can still leave a lasting impression.

This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.

Don’t forget to follow for more:

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> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1

> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1

Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus

Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland

Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison

Music - Ben Berger

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What happens when your closet is full, but you still feel like you have nothing to wear? Maybe some of the clothes in your closet no longer feel aligned with who you are, and that's okay. As we age, our bodies change, our lives change, and our style has to change with us.

In this episode, we sit down with Stacy London—stylist, author, cultural fashion voice, and someone many of us know from What Not to Wear—for an honest conversation about style, aging, and identity. Stacy, whose bestselling book The Truth About Style helped redefine the conversation around fashion and self-image, has spent decades helping women understand that getting dressed is about much more than trends. Her work today continues to focus on confidence, self-expression, and what it means to stay visible and fully yourself at any age.

This conversation is about more than clothes. It’s about curiosity, confidence, reinvention, and giving ourselves permission to evolve.

This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26.

Don’t forget to follow for more:

> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/

> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1

> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1

Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus

Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland

Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison

Music - Ben Berger

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.