Explore every episode of the podcast So What Now? with Carla and Dex
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| EP 16: Ex-posed: When Outing Your Ex Goes Too Far & Unpacking Love Themes in Classic Black Cinema | 10 Feb 2025 | 00:59:34 | |
In this week’s episode of So What Now, Carla and Dex dive into the tricky topic of whether it’s ever okay to air intimate details of past relationships, discussing the drama surrounding Royce Reed and Dwight Howard’s public feud. The love theme continues with a deep dive into iconic black love stories from classic films. Carla and Dex go head-to-head over Love and Basketball. While Carla believes it’s one of the greatest love stories, Dex argues that Monica might’ve “settled” for her man. The conversation also touches on other beloved films like Poetic Justice and Boomerang, exploring the highs and lows of love and the lessons we take from them. To wrap things up, they bring some much-needed levity with a feel-good of the week: Reality TV. In a world full of stress, there’s nothing like escaping into the absurd drama of the rich and famous. From ridiculous fights to jaw-dropping moments, we are reminded to laugh at the unseriousness of it all. Tune in for laughs, heated debates, and of course, a little dose of reality! CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ | |||
| EP 15: Roses Are Red, Kirk’s Lies Never End, Cleo Had Drama, Here’s A Playlist We Recommend | 03 Feb 2025 | 00:55:46 | |
It’s officially the month of LOVE, and in this episode Carla and Dex dive into some most infamous love stories—from the drama-filled relationship of Kirk and Rasheda to Cleopatra and Marc Anthony’s empire-shattering romance. They explore what happens when love becomes larger than life and, in some cases, leads to downfall. But it’s not all about toxic love flames! With Valentine’s Day approaching, the duo discusses how to romanticize your own life, especially when it feels like everyone else is celebrating a relationship. Carla and Dex share why it’s important to cultivate your own sense of joy, adventure, and self-love, and not wait for a partner to check off those life experiences. Plus, to set the mood for the season, they’ve curated a special Valentine’s Day playlist. Each of them shares 5 songs that best capture the essence of love and relationships. Whether you're single or taken, these tracks will have you feeling all the love! Tune in for a mix of history, self-love advice, and some seriously good tunes.
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| EP14: Hookah, Hookups, and Hopes for Something More | 27 Jan 2025 | 00:59:01 | |
In this episode Carla and Dex dive deep into the evolving landscape of modern relationships and what it really means to partner up in today’s world. They unpack the idea of non-traditional relationships, questioning whether the paths they once thought they wanted are actually the ones that align with their true desires. Is Sheryl Lee Ralph’s unconventional situation with her husband a model of modern love, or is it just plain weird? Dex reveals her unique perspective on love and relationships. Meanwhile, Carla shares an update on her 2025 commitment to get back into the dating scene, from China to the Bahamas, is it all the same? Is modern dating as exciting or are we all just going through the motions? Tune in for a candid, funny, and thought-provoking discussion about what we really want out of our relationships, and whether what’s traditional is still the best option.
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| EP13: Beyoncé Cancels, Carla Confesses, and LA’s Crisis | 20 Jan 2025 | 00:51:00 | |
In this week’s episode Carla and Dex to catch you up on all the current events. We kick things off with Beyoncé’s surprising move to cancel her highly anticipated announcement, leaving fans buzzing. Plus, we reflect on recent actions from political leaders and the messages they’re sending. The conversation heats up as we discuss the devastating LA fires and how natural disasters continue to disproportionately impact marginalized communities. Carla makes a surprising confession about her recycling habits (or lack thereof), sparking a meaningful discussion on environmental responsibility. And finally, the ultimate question: is it ever appropriate to call your ex-wife "the baby momma"? Tune in for laughter, honest takes, and a little self-reflection as we tackle life’s messy and meaningful moments. CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ | |||
| EP12: What is Closure?? | 13 Jan 2025 | 00:45:01 | |
While Carla takes some time to recover from the flu, we’re rewinding to one of your favorite episodes from the Sh*t I’m 30 archive! This week, Carla and Dexty dive into the drama-filled world of relationships, tackling breakups, makeups, baby mamas, and the ever-controversial topic of break babies. It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s packed with the laughs. Don’t miss this trip down memory lane!
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| EP11: Libido Low, Vibrator on High: Moms Need Lovin Too! | 06 Jan 2025 | 01:05:33 | |
This week we’re diving headfirst into the spicy (and hilariously awkward) world of sex in your 30s and 40s! From scheduling "sexy time" to uncovering why your libido might be MIA (spoiler: social media could be to blame), we’re spilling all the tea. And if that’s not enough, Carla and Dex are bringing wild, laugh-out-loud stories that’ll leave you cringing, cackling, and maybe feeling a touch of secondhand embarrassment! 🚨 Disclaimer: This episode is NOT kid-friendly. Unless you want to explain what a sex dungeon is or why vibrators shouldn’t double as microphones, listen solo! CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ | |||
| EP10: Goodbye 2024: We Came, We Saw, We Hit Record | 30 Dec 2024 | 01:27:53 | |
Disclaimer- Beyonce Bowl discussion ends at 20:57 In this episode of So What Now, Carla and Dex reflect on everything 2024 threw their way—spoiler alert: it wasn’t all vacations and TikTok dances. Dex admits that fear of losing stability had her out here playing it way too safe. Carla drops gems about showing up as your real self (even when your real self is tired) and the financial discipline it takes to buy a house without letting your Pinterest boards dictate your budget. But it wasn’t all wins—Dex opens up about how 2024 almost broke her, revealing she discovered she was "depreshee" (yes, that’s a thing), and finally got herself into therapy. Meanwhile, Carla's reflecting on how hard it can be to balance the hustle with mental health and personal growth. The hosts also take a look back at their 2024 vision boards—and let’s just say, some dreams didn’t make it off the board, but some did. They also dish on the biggest pop culture moments—Drake vs. Kendrick, TikTok influencers like Ressa Tessa and Morgan Bailey blowing up, the chaos of the U.S. election, and, of course, Beyoncé! Tune in for laughs, lessons, and plenty of hot takes as Carla and Dex close out the year with a dose of reality and a sneak peek at what’s coming next. SO WHAT NOW? TAKEAWAYS A difficult year can still be a good year. Our biggest blessings come from our toughest lessons. Don't let fake stability hold you back. Act out of wisdom not out of fear. You deserve to show up as your authentic self in all spaces. Live boldly CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ 📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en
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| EP9: Parenting Without Help: Defiant Teens, Deadbeat Dads, and the Fight for Control | 23 Dec 2024 | 01:13:43 | |
This week Carla, Dex are joined by Ariel B. The group dives into the complex world of parenting teens. As kids grow older, parenting styles and relationships need to shift, and the group explores how they are navigating these changes. Carla talks about her struggle with managing expectations, while Ariel reflects on the challenge of losing control as her children begin making their own decisions. The conversation touches on what happens when older kids break the rules, with Dex sharing her own experience of poor decision-making due to a lack of open communication with her parents. Carla and Ariel also reveal how their teens are turning to platforms like TikTok to express themselves when direct conversation feels too difficult. The trio also revisits the story of Amora Lex, the 27-year-old single mother who recently gave up her five children to CPS. The group reflects on the harsh social media backlash she's received, particularly the blaming comments about her choices in men. This leads to a broader discussion on absentee parents, red flags when dating men who aren't involved in their children's lives, and the importance of building strong, supportive communities for women. Tune in for an insightful episode filled with real talk on motherhood, judgment, and how we can support one another. SO WHAT NOW? TAKEAWAYS Parenting Teens Requires Letting Go of Control: As children grow older, parents must adjust their approach. It's important to allow teens to make their own decisions—even when it’s hard. Disobedience Isn’t Personal: Conflicts with teens often stem from a desire for control. Parents may take disobedience personally, but it's important to remember that teens are not thinking about how their actions affect their parents—they’re navigating their own path to independence. The Stigma of Single Motherhood: The story of Amora Lex, who gave up her children to CPS, sparked harsh judgment online. The group discusses the need for compassion, understanding, and support for mothers, particularly those raising children without strong family or community support. CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ 📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en
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| EP 8: The Real Cost of Influencing: Plastic Surgery & Keeping up with the Joneses | 16 Dec 2024 | 01:02:23 | |
On this week’s episode Carla and Dex are diving into everything from aerial yoga (spoiler: they're not as flexible as they thought) to the real costs of being an influencer. First up, the ladies share their thoughts on Halle Berry’s latest venture—an intimacy gel for menopausal women—and celebrate her mix of business smarts and vulnerability. Then, things get juicy in the Motherhood segment with a discussion on influencer culture, including the bizarre case of Influencer Marlena Velez, who got arrested for stealing from Target. The duo debates what crime they’d commit (just for fun, promise) and why it’s important to step away from the digital world to reconnect with reality. Plus, a deep dive into body image issues—why Raven-Symoné’s decision to undergo surgery at just 15 raises some serious questions, and how we should approach celebrities’ physical transformations. Carla shares her own story of buying fake hips, while Dex gets real about butt implants. To wrap up, Dex offers a fun self-awareness assessment that might just change your perspective. Tune in for laughs, honest conversations, and a few lessons along the way!
SO WHAT NOW? TAKEAWAYS Social Media Isn't Real: The pressure to "keep up with the Joneses" on social media often leads to unsustainable behaviors. It's important to remember that what you see online doesn't always reflect reality, and prioritizing authenticity over perfection is healthier for your mental well-being. The Influence of Social Media on Risky Behavior: The rise of influencer culture can pressure people into unrealistic lifestyles. From body image issues to misrepresenting your life online, these behaviors are often driven by insecurity and the desire to match a curated online persona. Take a Digital Detox for Mental Clarity: Constantly consuming social media can cloud your self-perception. Taking breaks from your phone and stepping back into real life can help you reconnect with your true values, reflect on your goals, and prioritize your mental health. CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ 📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en
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| EP 7: Holiday Drama, Traditions, and Boundaries: Surviving Toxicity During the Holidays | 09 Dec 2024 | 00:42:53 | |
This week Carla and Dex dive into the chaos and comedy of navigating toxic family traditions during the holidays. From Carla’s journey of estrangement and her search for new holiday magic with friends to Dex’s big family and the pressure to make everything “perfect,” they share hilarious and heartfelt insights on surviving family dysfunction. Carla reflects on the bittersweet loss of old traditions while creating new ones, and Dex opens up about her childhood trauma (cue the villain origin story—spoiler: it’s all about that Barbie Dream House). The duo also tackles how to deal with negative family members and offers tips on carving out your own healthy, joyful holiday traditions. Tune in for humor, honesty, and some solid advice that might just help you survive this holiday season with your sanity—and maybe a little magic—intact.
SO WHAT NOW? TAKEAWAYS Create Your Own Traditions: Whether you're estranged from family or just tired of the same old drama, it's okay to let go of toxic traditions and create new ones that bring you joy—whether that’s with friends, chosen family, or just on your own. You deserve a holiday that feels good to you. Set Boundaries with Toxic Family Members: The holidays don't have to mean enduring negativity from relatives. Learn how to politely (but firmly) set boundaries with family members who bring drama, and how to protect your mental health without feeling guilty. Make Holiday Magic for You: It's easy to get caught up in the pressure to create the "perfect" holiday for others, especially when you have a big family. Take a page from Dex’s playbook and find small, healthy traditions that keep the holiday spirit alive for you—and leave the stress behind.
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| EP 6: Burnout Diaries: Navigating Motherhood and Rediscovering Joy | 02 Dec 2024 | 00:51:46 | |
In this lively episode of The So What Now Podcast, Carla and Dex tackle everything from neighborhood drama to the emotional rollercoaster of motherhood. Carla shares her escalating battle with the local "cat lady," sparking a hilarious yet relatable discussion about boundaries and suburban chaos.
Meanwhile, the duo dives into mom guilt—whether it’s Carla juggling life with a toddler and a grown daughter or Dex navigating communication in a long distance relationship with her daughter. With raw honesty and a touch of humor, the hosts reflect on burnout, personal growth, and finding unexpected joys (like crafting and ginger beer).
It’s a heartwarming reminder that life’s challenges may leave us wondering, “So what now?”—but with the right mindset, a good laugh, and maybe a glue gun, we’ll get through it together.
4 Key Takeaways from This Episode: 💡 Mom Guilt is Real (and Never Ends): Carla and Dex open up about their personal experiences with mom guilt, whether it’s raising a toddler or navigating life as an empty nester, and how they’re learning to let go of unrealistic expectations. 🔥 Burnout Isn’t Just Work-Related: Dex shares her journey of uncovering the deeper layers of life burnout while Carla offers insights on creating boundaries and finding joy amidst chaos. 🌱 Parenting Evolves, So Should We: From toddler meltdowns to adult children’s independence, the duo reflects on how their parenting styles have changed and how they’re redefining what it means to be a “good mom.” 🎉 Finding Joy in the Small Things: Whether it’s crafting, cooking, or just sipping ginger beer, Carla and Dex discuss how leaning into simple joys helps them recharge and stay grounded.
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| EP 5: It’s Giving Thanks: Gratitude, Ambition & the "Miracle Baby" | 25 Nov 2024 | 00:59:12 | |
This Thanksgiving episode is all about reflecting on what we're thankful for, finding balance with gratitude and ambition and also Miracle babies. Carla and Dex kick things off by honoring Jenna as Woman of the Week. In the Motherhood segment,we’re diving into the controversial tale of a miracle baby conceived by two Miami Dade inmates who passed semen through a vent. Should they face additional charges? Listen in for the full discussion! In the Womanhood segment, we talk about being thankful for the small moments, the lessons, and the people in our lives—even if we don’t always follow traditional holiday norms. We explore how gratitude plays into both parenting and personal growth— Do our kids owe us gratitude? Dex also opens up about her struggle to balance gratitude with ambition. Can you be grateful for what you have and desire to strive for more? And how do we navigate the negative self-talk that holds us back from our own potential. Plus, Carla shares a feel-good moment of the week: her skydiving adventure! Tune in for laughs, reflections, and some much-needed reminders that we’re all on a journey, and it’s okay to hold space for both gratitude and ambition. SO WHAT NOW? TAKEAWAYS Remember: You don't have to partake in holiday activities you don’t want to—and that's okay! Our children learn gratitude by seeing us model this behavior. Be thankful for the journey and enjoy it along the way. From an early age, we’re often taught to be grateful. While these lessons were well-meaning,the lessons can sometimes make us feel like it’s wrong to experience negative emotions when we have so much to be thankful for. If this resonates with you, you're not alone. Over time, we can internalize beliefs that limit our emotional range. Reframing our understanding of gratitude to focus on our skills or attributes rather than the external objects can allow space for complex feelings. You’ve earned and/or deserve all the good things in your life. Don’t let people with limiting beliefs or negative self talk stop you from going after what you truly desire. CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ 📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US: https://www.sowhatnowpod.com/
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| EP 4: Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids & The Power of Saying No | 18 Nov 2024 | 00:58:44 | |
In this episode Carla and Dex discuss raising emotionally intelligent children—what it really takes to help kids develop self-awareness, empathy, and strong communication skills. We dive into the tools and practices for fostering emotional intelligence. How do we know if we’re doing it right? We’ll explore how EQ impacts behavior and relationships, and why it’s essential for kids’ long-term success. Next, we switch gears to talk about the power of saying no. We discuss the importance of setting boundaries—whether in relationships, work, or personal life. Carla shares her journey from employee to boss and how setting boundaries has changed her life, while Dex talks about her struggle to set boundaries with herself, especially when it comes to work. We’ll explore how learning to say no confidently can protect our time and well-being. It’s an honest conversation about parenting, personal growth, and taking control of your life. Tune in! SO WHAT NOW? TAKEAWAYS
The Power of Boundaries: Setting boundaries is essential in friendships, work,and family relationships to maintain mental well-being and respect.
Emotional Intelligence in Parenting: Carla and Dex discuss the value of teachingchildren emotional intelligence by modeling self-awareness, empathy, and self-regulation.
Self-Care as a Boundary: Dex shares her struggle with setting work boundariesfor herself, reminding listeners that self-care is a crucial form of respect.
Learning and Growth through Therapy: The hosts explore the importance oftherapy, especially tools like the “feelings wheel,” to identify and process emotions moreeffectively.
Navigating Friendships with Honesty**: They reflect on a challenging time in theirfriendship, showing that sometimes setting tough boundaries can ultimately strengthenrelationships
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| EP 3: Still Processing Rejection | 13 Nov 2024 | 00:45:06 | |
In this episode, Carla and Dex share their raw reactions to the 2024 Presidential election. With no outline or segments, it’s a heartfelt, off-the-cuff conversation as they process the results and how they’re personally navigating the aftermath. From coping with the outcome to confronting the challenges of moving forward in a divided world, this episode is a rollercoaster of feelings and reflections. Tune in for a real and honest discussion, as Carla and Dex work through it all—together. SO WHAT NOW? TAKEAWAYS Election Shock and Disappointment: The hosts express disappointmentover Trump’s re-election, with surprise that his controversial policiesand divisive rhetoric did not prevent his victory. They voice concernabout the country’s future and the social divides it highlights.
Representation Matters: One host discusses the emotional impact ofseeing Kamala Harris, a woman of color, in a leadership position, whichgave her a sense of visibility and pride. However, there is alsofrustration that gender and racial biases may have hindered Harris’ssupport.
Frustration with Social Media and Misinformation: The hosts criticizehow misinformation spread on social media influenced people'sopinions, especially around topics like abortion, LGBTQ rights, andhealthcare.
Importance of Local Politics: Beyond the presidential election, the hostsemphasize the significance of local issues, such as marijuanalegalization and education funding, urging listeners to remainpolitically active and informed at all levels of government.
Self-Care and Emotional Processing: In coping with the electionoutcome, the hosts discuss the importance of processing feelings in asupportive environment rather than engaging in social media debates,aiming to foster resilience and stay involved in the political processdespite setbacks.
Role of Women and Bias: There is a shared feeling of rejection amongthe hosts, particularly regarding gender bias in leadership. They notethe resistance against women, especially women of color, holdingpowerful roles, which feels like a societal setback. CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ 📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US: https://www.sowhatnowpod.com/
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| EP 2: Motherhood in the Digital Age & Evolving Friendships | 11 Nov 2024 | 01:00:13 | |
In this episode, we’re diving deep into the impact of social media on motherhood and how it’s shaping our children’s lives. We’ll share our personal beliefs about kids and social media, exploring how it influences their upbringing and our parenting choices. From parents who make a business out of sharing their kids' lives to the balance of protecting privacy and staying connected in a digital world, we’re talking all about it. Next, we dive into how friendships change after motherhood. Dex reflects on her evolving friendships as her child grows into adulthood, while Carla talks about juggling her younger child and the need for a babysitter again. We also touch on the importance of maintaining strong connections with other women, despite the challenges of friendship fatigue. Lastly, we talk about navigating identity shifts in our 30s and 40s—how we redefine ourselves beyond our roles as mothers and professionals. It’s an honest, real conversation you don’t want to miss! SO WHAT NOW? TAKEAWAYS Parenting with Awareness in the Social Media Era: Carla and Dex discuss how toset boundaries on social media for kids and navigate privacy challenges to create a safeenvironment online.
Importance of Balance: Balancing work, personal passions, and family time iscrucial, especially when transitioning between careers or creative pursuits.
Honest Communication: Maintaining open communication with friends and familyis essential to prevent misunderstandings and strengthen relationships.
Gentle Parenting Insights: The hosts offer lighthearted advice on modernparenting methods, showing the value of intentional language and mutual respect.
Social Media Humor and Reality: They humorously address the ups and downs ofsocial media’s influence on family life, from silly trends to the challenges of maintainingauthenticity CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ 📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US: https://www.sowhatnowpod.com/
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| EP 1: GUESS WHO'S BACK! The Official Reunion | 11 Nov 2024 | 00:49:53 | |
Guess who’s back?! Yep, it’s us—Carla and Dex—and we’re kicking off a new chapter with a fresh start. In this episode, we’re opening up about what the podcast means to us as we navigate some big life transitions and, let’s be honest, try to figure out what the heck is next. First, we’re diving into motherhood, picking up right where we left off in 2018. Carla’s juggling two kids at very different stages of life, while Dex is adjusting to parenting from a distance (aka, “My kid is gone, and I’m not sure how to feel about it!”). We’ll share our current parenting struggles, wins, and everything in between. And of course, we can’t ignore the inevitable: womanhood. We’re getting older, and with that comes a whole new approach to our bodies, health, and the joy of aging. Spoiler alert: "aging gracefully" is a lot harder than it looks when you’re bombarded with perfect celebs on Instagram. Body image issues? Oh yeah, we’re talking about it. Tune in for an honest, funny, and totally relatable conversation about where we are now and what’s next in this wild ride called life.
SO WHAT NOW? TAKEAWAYS Reconnecting Through Life's Journeys: The hosts openly share the trials ofadulthood, the complexity of parenting adult children, and navigating unexpected lifestages.
Rediscovering Identity: They explore the importance of self-reflection and self-care when life shifts, especially after milestones like children leaving home.
Embracing New Phases: The podcast reflects on finding strength and newpassions in different life phases, offering inspiration to those adapting to big changes.
The Power of Friendship and Collaboration: Carla and Dex emphasize theimportance of friendship, boundaries, and communication, even as they work togetheron a creative project.
Balancing Fun and Responsibility**: Amid humor and lightheartedness, the podcasttackles serious themes, showing that it's possible to have fun while staying grounded inone’s responsibilities and values.
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| So What Now? Coming 11:11 | 08 Nov 2024 | 00:01:53 | |
Get ready for laughs, life lessons, and all the vibes! Hosted by best friends Carla and Dex, So What Now? dives into the messy, magical, and maddening moments of motherhood, womanhood, and everything in between. With Carla juggling entrepreneurship and new motherhood, and Dex stepping into life as a new empty nester with her quick wit and real talk, this podcast is your go-to for fresh takes on life’s biggest (and smallest) moments. Tune in for raw conversations, endless laughs, and a reminder that none of us really have it all figured out—but that’s half the fun! CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ 📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US: https://www.sowhatnowpod.com/ | |||
| EP 239: Spooky Stories: High Speed Chase, Professor Exposing Himself, Dating and Held Hostage | 30 Oct 2024 | 01:01:44 | |
This week on Pivot with Purpose, we’re getting into the Halloween spirit! I’m joined by two of my favorite people, Dexty and Ariel B, to relive the thrills of my recent Halloween bash. From spooky stories to a few terrifyingly hilarious fashion throwbacks, this episode promises all the laughs and chills you need. Tune in for a hilariously spooky time you won’t forget!
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| EP 238: Life After Freedom ft Melodia Shekia | 15 Oct 2024 | 01:19:57 | |
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| EP 237: Hidden Gems: Lessons from Women Evolve | 08 Oct 2024 | 00:47:00 | |
As we prepare for the hurricane here in Florida, I’m taking a moment to reflect on my powerful experience at this year’s Women Evolve conference. The event was filled with unforgettable moments, inspiring connections, and wisdom shared by incredible speakers.
Two speakers, in particular, deeply impacted me—Nona Jones and Dr. Anita Phillips.Their messages on 'The Gift of Rejection' and 'Healing from Mother Wounds' resonated with me in profound ways, pushing me into a new season of service and personal growth.
In this episode, I share the beauty that can be found in pain and how embracing positivity and faith can transform your life.Tune in to discover how speaking life over yourself and leaning into your faith can lead you through even the most challenging seasons.
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| EP 236: Breaking the Mold (Ft Ariana Gonzalez aka Ari ADHD) | 02 Oct 2024 | 01:32:13 | |
What if your quirks were your superpower? Join us as we journey through ADHD and autism spectrum traits with the vibrant Ariana, known as Ari ADHD on Instagram. We embrace the humor in impulsivity, from spontaneous adventures to a quirky Florida man story involving urns. Our conversation touches on parenting with neurodivergence, balancing authenticity with structure, and the challenges of ADHD medication. We also address the systemic hurdles black and brown boys face in education and healthcare, highlighting the need for proper support.
As we explore personal growth and the complexities of relationships, we discuss overcoming financial manipulation and the power of genuine connections. From sexual dynamics to setting healthy boundaries, our journey highlights the significance of self-awareness and the joy of finding a supportive partner. Wrapping up with a promise of more exciting content to come, this episode celebrates the beauty of embracing neurodivergence and the adventures that come with it.
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| EP 235: Breaking Rules and Breaking Barriers | 26 Sep 2024 | 00:54:02 | |
Join me, Carla, for an engaging solo episode of Pivot with Purpose! We kick off with a laugh-worthy yet cautionary tale of a Florida corrections officer caught altering a handicap sticker for better parking. This story sparks a deeper conversation on the legal and moral consequences of cutting corners, while I share my own relatable struggles with ADHD and the overlooked challenges it brings. I then dive into the emotional journey of juggling my career and motherhood, focusing on my son Psalm's recent autism diagnosis. From navigating insurance hurdles to preparing for an IEP meeting, I reflect on the importance of advocacy and perseverance. Next, I recount an exciting yet declined opportunity to join an international reality TV show, touching on the personal and financial considerations involved. Wrapping up, I share my rollercoaster journey in real estate investment and celebrate the success of Alex Cooper's *Call Her Daddy* podcast, highlighting persistence and innovation in media. This episode weaves humor, personal reflection, and inspiring stories, offering motivation and connection on your own journey.
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| EP 234: Law, Politics, and the Power of Informed Voting Pt 2. (Ft Attorney James Smith) | 18 Sep 2024 | 01:08:29 | |
Attorney James Smith is back for another insightful episode! This time, we dive into the complex world of political criticism, starting with Kamala Harris’s time as a prosecutor. We break down the misinformation campaigns—many fueled by foreign actors like Russia—aimed at distorting her record and influencing U.S. opinions. We also discuss the ongoing federal case in Tampa involving the Uhuru Movement, debunking exaggerated claims about Kamala's role, including the myth that she jailed 1,200 men for nonviolent marijuana offenses. By examining probation violations and judicial decisions, we reveal the truth behind these allegations.
Next, we tackle gender bias in political criticism, highlighting the double standards faced by women in politics. Our conversation touches on Donald Trump's handling of the transition process and his lack of preparedness for crises like the global pandemic. We contrast this with the need for experienced leadership. Finally, we explore economic policies like the childcare tax credit and the importance of universal healthcare, drawing comparisons to systems like Germany.
Join us for a packed episode full of clarity and real talk!
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| EP 233: Law, Politics, and the Power of Informed Voting Pt 1. (Ft Attorney James Smith) | 10 Sep 2024 | 00:55:05 | |
Join us on this eye-opening episode of "Pivot With Purpose Y'all" as we reunite with our favorite legal expert and dear friend, Attorney James Smith. Together, we peel back the layers of our early podcast memories while James demystifies the often convoluted legal language. You’ll gain fascinating insights into the future of law, where AI might handle consultations, yet some human aspects of legal practice could remain irreplaceable.
Ever wondered how elections shape the Supreme Court? We tackle the weighty influence of upcoming elections on the Court’s conservative majority, revisiting the contentious 2000 presidential election and the butterfly ballot debacle in Florida. Our discussion takes a dramatic turn as we investigate the shadowy financial ties between Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas and billionaire Harlan Crow. The ethical implications of such relationships come to light, illustrating how they might sway judicial decisions and erode public trust.
We wrap up with a hard-hitting analysis of media biases and political corruption, scrutinizing how billionaire-owned news outlets prioritize clicks over substance. From Amazon’s labor practices to the pharmaceutical industry's deregulation, we expose how these corporate actions affect everyday Americans. Our conversation drives home the urgency of reclaiming political power from the donor class and stresses the importance of active participation in democratic processes. Don't miss this compelling discussion that underscores the power of informed voting and the need for a renewed democratic impulse.
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| EP 232: Humor in the Hustle: Entrepreneurial Wins (Ft. Didi Ramos) | 03 Sep 2024 | 01:03:44 | |
Welcome back to another exciting episode of Pivot With Purpose! This week, we bring you a mix of humor and practical advice, starting with a hilarious yet concerning Florida man story. Our special guest, Didi, steps into the spotlight! Through personal anecdotes, we illustrate how hard work behind the scenes often leads to visible achievements. We share stories about meeting and collaborating with dedicated individuals like Felix and Jenna, highlighting the importance of initiative and patience. This chapter is packed with practical takeaways on how proactive engagement and commitment can help you stand out and seize opportunities.
Finally, we explore the journey from corporate roles to entrepreneurship, balancing personal and professional growth, and overcoming obstacles through personal development. We share our own experiences transitioning from traditional employment to starting our own ventures, emphasizing the emotional toll and the ultimate fulfillment of pursuing passion. We also touch on setting family boundaries, finding supportive relationships, and the significance of faith and belief in personal growth. This episode is a blend of entertainment, heartfelt advice, and inspiring stories that will leave you motivated and empowered.
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| EP 231: Running On Crazy | 27 Aug 2024 | 01:02:23 | |
This week Carla and Dexty are joined by Christina from Running on Crazy. Christina shares her personal journey with bulimia and depression. Christina’s story is a powerful one about body image, self-love, and her road to recovery.
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| EP 230: Dealing with Conflict | 20 Aug 2024 | 00:52:17 | |
Join Carla & Dexty this week as they discuss conflict in the workplace, relationships, as well as friends and family. Find out about their first and only major fight as friends and how they got through it. The ladies also discuss how they have dealt with conflict in the past and how they are changing to do better and improve themselves.
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| EP 229: Overcoming Challenges with Hope and Humor | 14 Aug 2024 | 00:41:13 | |
Welcome back, my loves! As summer winds down, join me for an engaging check-in where we cover a lot of ground. From recent experiences with Florida's hurricane season to the peculiar incident of a million dollars' worth of cocaine washing up on a Miami shore during Hurricane Debbie, Switching gears, I open up about my mental health journey and the challenges of virtual therapy. My trips to Miami and Mexico with Dex provided a much-needed break, but the struggle continues as I search for a more accessible therapist. Additionally, you'll hear about my son Psalm's daycare experiences, from potty training issues to a recent suspension, and how these incidents have underscored the need for better support and understanding in his current environment.
Finally, we tackle the emotional journey of securing an autism diagnosis for Psalm, navigating the healthcare system, and the invaluable support from the autism community. I reflect on the balance of entrepreneurship, self-doubt, and motherhood, highlighting the significant contributions of my team and the importance of mental health. Tune in for insights on faith, hope, and manifestation, and don't forget to leave your comments and reviews—your feedback keeps me inspired!
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| EP 228: Miami Madness and Real Talk (Feat Dexty) | 07 Aug 2024 | 01:12:12 | |
Guess who’s BACK! My girl Dex is here on the Pivot with Purpose couch, and Oh sh*t, she’s 40! It's a celebration! Join us as we recap our amazing trip to Miami for Dexty’s birthday. Apparently, there's a thing about not going on a girls' trip to Miami, but we quickly found out why.
We'll also touch on a few key things happening with the presidential election, encouraging listeners to find reputable sources to stay informed and vote thoughtfully, rather than relying on social media clips.
In Florida news, you won't believe the story of a man who decided to shoot up his job over an amount of money he was owed. We'll share all the shocking details.
Lastly, we discuss the importance of community and remind you that you are never alone during personal storms. Even when it feels like, “Why is this happening to me?” there’s a lesson and a blessing at the end of every test.
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| EP 227: Intersection of Mental Health and Security (Feat. Ariel B) | 30 Jul 2024 | 00:59:48 | |
Welcome back to another exciting episode of "Pivot With Purpose"! After a three-month hiatus, I'm thrilled to return to the Hi Hello Labs studio with my dear friend Ariel. Together, we reflect on the chaos and joy of our hectic lives, filled with family drama and demanding schedules. We share the importance of having relatable conversations, supporting one another, and the need for mentors and business coaches to help navigate uncharted career territories. Plus, there's a hint of an exciting, secret project that might take me offline for six weeks, so stay tuned!
Lastly, we explore emotional and psychological journeys, balancing personal growth with faith, and the importance of setting and maintaining healthy boundaries. From dealing with family members to the struggles of single parenting, we share personal experiences of overcoming hardships and finding passion amid challenges. Ariel and I also discuss her upcoming initiative to empower single parents in locating absent co-parents. This episode is packed with heartfelt conversations and practical insights, so don't miss it!
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| EP 226: Laughter, Loss, and Spiritual Growth | 22 Jul 2024 | 01:07:10 | |
Join us on Pivot with Purpose as we welcome back our resident guest, Paola, for an engaging and insightful discussion on various topics, starting with a unique Florida news story. We kick things off with Governor Ron DeSantis's new law banning the intentional release of balloons, highlighting the surprising details and exemptions for scientific purposes and children under six. Paola and I explore the humorous and serious aspects of this legislation, including potential community service punishments and the environmental implications of balloon releases.
In the latter part of our episode, we explore deeply personal and emotional stories, from a family's struggle with schizophrenia to the challenges of dealing with aging parents and loss. We reflect on Carl and Laura Lentz's candid new podcast, discussing their journey through personal turmoil and their path to healing. The conversation also touches on building strong relationships with God, the significance of baptism, and finding peace through faith and healing
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| EP 225: Heartbreak to Healing: Love's Turbulence | 17 Jul 2024 | 01:05:05 | |
Ever wondered why fast-moving relationships often end in heartbreak? In this episode of Pivot With Purpose, we uncover the whirlwind saga of Jeannie Mai and rapper Jeezy. From the highs of their passionate romance to the lows of an unexpected divorce and custody battle, we break down the emotional rollercoaster of rapid life decisions. Jeannie's journey from a firm stance against motherhood to embracing it wholeheartedly for her love, only to face unforeseen turmoil, illuminates the perilous nature of making swift, life-altering choices.
We tackle the heavier side of relationships and parenting with heartfelt discussions on single motherhood, infidelity, and the financial expectations of being a bridesmaid. We offer valuable insights into managing emotional risks, fostering supportive communities, and maintaining direct communication in relationships. Wrapping up with a hopeful message about resilience and faith, we remind our listeners that even in the darkest times, perseverance and optimism can light the way forward. Join us for a rollercoaster of emotions, lessons, and laughs that promise to leave you both enlightened and entertained.
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| EP 224: Navigating Life and Success Behind the Scenes (Feat. Andrew Nguyen) | 09 Jul 2024 | 01:17:53 | |
Unlock the secrets of entrepreneurial success and personal growth with Drew, the "invisible CEO," on this week's Pivot With Purpose. Discover how Drew's early life challenges and his unique journey from DJing in PG County, Maryland, to leading marketing initiatives for companies like Pepsi shaped his entrepreneurial strategies. Throughout our conversation, Drew opens up about his roots in a traditional Vietnamese household, his tumultuous relationship with his father, and how these experiences propelled him towards success behind the scenes.
Drew offers unparalleled insights into building brands authentically while navigating the ever-evolving digital landscape. His practical advice on finding genuine mentors, the power of self-belief, and the importance of scalable business models is a treasure trove for aspiring entrepreneurs. Listen as Drew discusses the significance of hands-on experience in managing larger contracts and teams, and how his shift from public visibility to working behind the scenes has impacted his professional trajectory.
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| EP 223: Family Hustle (Ft. Carlos & Carolina Flores) | 03 Jul 2024 | 00:59:36 | |
What does it take to balance personal responsibilities with entrepreneurial ambitions? Join us as we introduce you to Carlos and Carolina, the visionary founders of Hi Hello Labs. Learn how Carolina effortlessly manages the dual demands of motherhood and business, and hear Carlos share the risks and insights of establishing a thriving creative space. Their story is a testament to the importance of finding the right environment and respecting professional boundaries, helping to revive our beloved podcast after a brief hiatus.
we explore the dynamics of cultural differences in marriage, focusing on relationships within the Hispanic community. From maintaining fitness routines amidst busy schedules to navigating family values and norms, we share personal anecdotes that highlight the humorous and sometimes stressful moments in love and marriage. The episode takes an emotional turn as we discuss the challenges of raising a child with autism, the emotional journey of acceptance, and the impact on relationships. Through it all, we emphasize the importance of support, understanding, and a strong community, ending with a reminder of faith and perseverance. Don't miss this heartfelt and insightful episode!
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| EP 222: Fitness, Fun, and Family Feels ft Dexty | 11 Jun 2024 | 00:49:18 | |
Ever tried to juggle health, career, and a vibrant social life all at once? We’ve been there too. Join us as we catch up with Dex, who shares her workout routine and recent weight loss journey. We also get into the holiday spirit, planning our girls' trip to St. Lucia and debating the merits of learning Creole and French versus just sticking with English. Plus, hear all about Dex's TikTok adventures and our creative plans for some hilarious content.
We also chat about the importance of authenticity, the value of true friendships, and personal growth. Whether it's navigating family dynamics, celebrating spiritual transformations, or sharing personal anecdotes about unexpected career successes, this episode is packed with heart, humor, and real talk.
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| EP 221: Learning How To Receive (Ft Antoinette) | 04 Jun 2024 | 01:37:59 | |
Ever wondered how to live authentically and explore personal growth, even when it shakes up your world? Antoinette from Around the Way Curls joins us to discuss the profound journey of self-discovery and the importance of being true to oneself. We also share our transition to virtual recording, reflecting on how it has surprisingly fostered deeper connections. And, for a bit of fun and enlightenment, we recount a memorable experience at a sex club event, celebrating body acceptance and the essential practice of consent. Lastly, we delve into the intricacies of aging, cultural identity, and the nurturing roles we play in our communities. From navigating bicultural backgrounds to finding healthy relationships after being single, we explore how these experiences shape our lives and values. We emphasize the importance of mutual support, shared values, and living with integrity (01:58 - 03:18) Virtual Connections and Forgetful Meetings (16:38 - 17:38) Redefining Mental Health in Corporate America (23:11 - 24:59) Embracing Auntie Vibes in Mid-30s (26:09 - 27:38) Caring Motherly Vibes in Relationships (40:12 - 41:30) Learning to Accept Help and Relax (44:08 - 45:21) Online Connection Turned Real Relationship (48:07 - 48:56) Respectful Supportive Partner Relationship (01:22:56 - 01:23:59) Family Bias and Racial Blindness (01:30:10 - 01:31:37) Unpacking Gender Expectations in Relationships (01:33:43 - 01:34:58) Faith and Overcoming Negativity
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| EP 220: Behind Closed Doors: The Ashley Madison Controversy | 28 May 2024 | 01:00:17 | |
This week discover the secrets behind Ashley Madison, the notorious website designed for married people seeking discreet affairs. Joined by our guest, Jenna, we peel back the layers of this controversial platform, starting with its provocative slogan, "Life is short, have an affair," and the infamous 2015 hack that exposed millions of users. Jenna shares her perspective on how men she knew used the site, and we debate whether it catered more to sugar babies or mutual infidelity. Plus, we unravel the marketing genius that propelled Ashley Madison into the limelight and why the Netflix documentary is a must-watch to understand its full impact.
We then shift gears to explore the devastating fallout from the Ashley Madison hack. Hear the tragic tale of a priest whose exposure led to his suicide, and a couple who continue to live authentically despite the controversy. The conversation also highlights the CEO's surprising lack of personal repercussions amid an $11.2 million settlement and the dark web's role in leaking personal information. Jenna and I delve into the rise of Ashley Madison's scandalous practices, including the use of AI-generated photos and fake profiles, and the emotional toll on employees and victims alike.
(01:22 - 02:48) The Ashley Madison Website Scandal (03:56 - 05:39) Ashley Madison and Seek Arrangement Perceptions (11:03 - 12:29) Unexpected Twist in the Priest's Marriage (14:24 - 15:31) White Collar Crime and Privacy Concerns (17:48 - 19:07) Suspected Inside Job (41:03 - 42:29) Friendship Through Dark Times (54:35 - 55:31) Dreaming of a Luxurious Lifestyle
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| EP 219: I’m Not a Victim..But Sure Felt Like It All Over Again | 22 May 2024 | 00:38:52 | |
Step into the shadows of resilience as we navigate the treacherous waters of trauma and abuse recovery. The authenticity of my personal struggles is laid bare, alongside the haunting echo of financial manipulation by an ex-partner, which resonates with the disturbing tales of high-profile abuse cases. We peel back the layers of public figures like Diddy, revealing the stark contrast between their dazzling persona and the unseen scars of abuse
This episode doesn't gloss over the discomfort; it plants a flag firmly in the heart of the matter, challenging you to recognize the true character revealed only through time.
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| EP 218: Finding Balance and Authenticity with Sofia Aguilar | 14 May 2024 | 01:08:10 | |
Embrace the hustle without losing yourself—that's the promise of our latest heartfelt conversation. Unwind with me, Carla Ramirez, and the insightful Sofia Aguilar from Canada, as we delve into the world of content creation and the quest for personal growth. As my 37th birthday looms, I'm taking stock of self-care's crucial role amidst our non-stop work lives. With Sofia's podcasting journey as our backdrop, we chart a course through the ebbs and flows of social media's impact, the disparities in healthcare across borders, and the generational dance of wisdom and innovation in content creation.
we often find ourselves at a crossroads of identity and belonging. In the company of multicultural women like us, we unravel the threads of not feeling "enough" for any one group and the journey to reclaim our heritage with pride. Our discourse spans from the complexities of Colombian stereotypes to the universal challenge of forging a path that honors our diverse backgrounds. And as we wade through these waters, we also navigate the delicate balance of intertwining friendships with professional roles, and the significance of setting firm boundaries.
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| EP 217:Breaking Barriers in Business with Denise Woodard | 02 Apr 2024 | 00:56:52 | |
Discover the entrepreneurial spirit that is reshaping the world of allergy-friendly treats with Denise Woodard of Partake Foods. Join us as we venture into the reality of starting and scaling a business, particularly as a woman of color, where every day is a lesson in grit, innovation, and the sweet taste of success. You’re invited to a candid conversation where we not only savor Partake's delectable cookies but delve into the strategies that transformed a mom's concern into a thriving brand.
This episode is a close look at real-world wisdom for anyone navigating their career path. From the value of asking for help to embracing mentorship and participating in programs like Walmart's Black Unlimited, we share our first-hand experiences of the transformative power these resources hold. And for those considering a pivot, you'll find encouragement and practical advice on finding purpose in your work, ensuring your next move is not just a step but a leap towards fulfillment.
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| EP 216: Loud Budgeting and Financial Freedom with Giovanna González | 26 Mar 2024 | 01:12:01 | |
Unlock the secrets to financial freedom and take control of your money narrative with the wisdom of TikTok financial guru Giovanna, aka Gigi thefirstgenmentor. Our conversation illuminates the intriguing concept of "loud budgeting," a proactive, vocal approach to managing money that's shaking up the status quo. Delve into the heart of financial literacy with us as we discuss the profound influence of family on our money mindsets and the journey from paycheck-to-paycheck living to building lasting wealth. Gigi's insights into the financial realities of immigrant families and her tips for financial empowerment through social media offer a fresh perspective on shaping your own fiscal future.
Navigating the complex dance of money, relationships, and personal values is no easy feat, but it's a challenge we tackle head-on in this episode. We reflect on aligning your finance with your core beliefs and how certain life choices, such as opting to live child-free, can redefine financial planning. As we examine the nuances of financial expectations in dating and entrepreneurial pressures, this conversation offers a rich tapestry of experiences and strategies to help you balance the scales of love and money.
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| EP 215: Life Update: Personal Struggles and Professional Triumphs | 15 Mar 2024 | 00:25:23 | |
Navigating through a storm of personal challenges and triumphant professional wins, I, peel back the curtain on the silent battles that often go unnoticed. Struggling with ADHD and facing a shortage of my essential medication. I find myself grappling with the highs of creative breakthroughs and the lows of emotional blocks. The episode is a raw exploration of this dichotomy, providing an intimate glimpse into the resilience needed to stand firm amidst family betrayal and legal trials, all while celebrating those moments of professional acclaim that remind us of our potential.
Whether you're a parent, a professional, or someone who's ever fought to maintain your values in a challenging world, this episode resonates with the universal quest for emotional maturity and the strength found within.
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| EP 214: Should I Get a Doula? | 04 Mar 2024 | 01:20:26 | |
This week I am joined by the founder of Black Mom Blog and pioneer of black motherhood and self-care Shanica Boswell. You’ll hear about the shaming of single mothers sending their child to stay with their fathers, the benefits of a doula, and trying to have a natural birth after having a C-section. This episode isn’t only for women with babies or who are currently pregnant, but it’s an episode for everyone to get an inside look at the journey and obstacles or pregnancy and parenting.
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| EP 213: Dinero, a Prenup, and How to be FNF! feat Jannese Torres | 26 Feb 2024 | 01:13:00 | |
Today’s guest is Jannese Torres , host of “Yo Quiero Dinero Podcast". Jannese discusses entrepreneurship and how she found success as a food blogger. Then, she tells a bizarre story about her husband’s mistress confronting her mom about their affair and why she decided to get a divorce. Jannese also drops some major gems on how to start a business and the ladies connect over their love for Puerto Rico. This week’s listener letter is a question about lending money to family and the scripture of the week is Ecclesiastics 5:10. Connect with Jannesse: Instagram: @yoquierodineropodcast https://yoquierodineropodcast.com/
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| EP 212: He Married/Divorced a Narcissist TWICE! | 19 Feb 2024 | 01:11:56 | |
This week Carla is joined by Baron Young from Reach One Recovery which dedicated to providing the “spark” of enlightenment for survivors of narcissistic abuse. We are shinning a light into men that have experienced abuse. As a society we dont allow men to share or express their pain, yet this kind of abuse will cause PTSD so many while the numbers of narcissistic abuse keep rising. Some of the things you will hear:
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| EP 211: Juggling the Highs and Lows of Love, Finances, and Self-Discovery | 16 Feb 2024 | 01:06:55 | |
Ever found yourself laughing through a challenge over dinner? This week on Pivot with Purpose, I'm joined by Paola, as we discuss life’s curveballs with a side of laughter. Get ready to explore personal evolution, relationship rollercoasters, and the blend of family dynamics we all navigate.
Money and love—two things that should work in harmony but often end up clashing like titans. Throughout this episode we tackle the issue of financial manipulation in relationships. From the audacious requests for money to shaming over financial incapabilities, we've seen it all and lived to tell the tale. Childhood tales, narcissistic exes, and the minefield of co-parenting all come into play as we share personal stories and strategies to keep your financial dignity intact. Take a listen!
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| EP 210: Embracing Identity, Building Boundaries, and Paternity Tests feat Dexty | 08 Feb 2024 | 01:09:16 | |
I've always believed that if opportunity doesn't knock, build a door. This episode with Dex swings that door wide open as we revel in the tales of our entrepreneurial spirit, which took root in childhood candy sales and blossomed into career advancements achieved through sheer tenacity. We share a laugh over our methods of carving out our own spaces and touch on the not-so-secret ingredients to success: emotional intelligence and networking. A simple reminder that playing the cards we're dealt with strategic thinking and assertive action can lead to creating the opportunities we seek. we also dive into the emotional complexities of family dynamics, from the discovery of surprising ancestry to the intricacies of navigating relationships with estranged family members. Watch Full Episode and Subscribe on YouTube
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| EP 209: How ADHD Became Our Superpower | 30 Jan 2024 | 01:31:19 | |
Imagine untangling the complexities of love and digital entrepreneurship while also juggling the nuances of ADHD. That's exactly what we're doing as I sit down with Isis Brianna, the digital sales guru and business coach, to explore the magnetic digital marketplace and its impact on our personal lives. We pull back the curtain on the dance of relationships, the resilience needed in the face of health challenges like endometriosis, and the profound emotional journey toward motherhood—a path fraught with societal expectations and our own shifting identities. Our conversation doesn't shy away from the spiritual and emotional pillars that support us through life's ebbs and flows. Reflect with me on the role of faith in personal growth,Join us for this journey of discovery and introspection, where we embrace change, cherish support systems, and strive for authenticity in every step. Watch Full Episode and Subscribe on YouTube Thank you to our Sponsors:
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| EP 208: High Maintenance Friendship as Adults ft Dani aka Splenda | 10 Jan 2024 | 01:08:31 | |
On this episode with Carla Wilmaris and Dani: Ever found yourself wondering why some friendships feel like a never-ending carousel of emotions? Join me, and my guest Dani as we unravel the complexities of friendship. From the comical trials of aging to the heartfelt moments of reconciliation after a friendship breakup.
This episode is your personal handbook to what exactly a high maintenance relationship is, and understanding the emotional investment necessary for nurturing friendships while keeping your boundaries intact.
Prepare to be inspired, laugh out loud, and maybe even shed a tear as we dissect the role of therapy in managing friendship woes and the profound impact these relationships have on our personal growth.
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| EP 207: New Year, New Pivot - I GOT FIRED? AGAIN? | 02 Jan 2024 | 01:02:41 | |
Ever feel like life's thrown you a curveball you just didn't see coming? Join us as we confess our own stories of transformation and tackle the balancing act between work and personal joy. We're peeling back the layers on the corporate world's sometimes harsh truths and revealing the silver linings that come with owning your content and career path.
So, whether you're looking for a heart-to-heart on life's pivotal moments or just a good laugh about the stress of parenting and dating ,Tune in and join the conversation—you're bound to walk away with a fresh perspective, and you might just find yourself ready to pivot
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