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Ep22 - "Owning Your Kink: Living with Authenticity in a Vanilla World" with Hardy Haberman

Should you keep your kink in the closet? Should you come out? To who, when, and what are the benefits? More importantly, what are the hazards? Exploring these questions leads to living authentically. Authenticity does not mean parading your kink down Main Street, but it does mean thoughtful self-examination and coming to terms with it. This discussion will help kinky folk decide how to negotiate their path in a vanilla world.

Hardy Haberman is a long-time LGBT activist and member of the leather community since the mid-70’s. The author of several books including The Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment.

He has received numerous awards, including the “Leather Leadership Award” from the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, the “Jack Stice Memorial Award” at South Planes LeatherFest, and the Marcus Hernandez Lifetime Achievement Award at Pantheon of Leather. 

Hardy is a columnist for the Dallas Voice, Digital Experience Manager for Cathedral of Hope, and former Chairperson of the Woodhull Freedom Foundation. He lives in Dallas, where he and his boy celebrated 29 years together as partners in play and life.

• Fetlife.com/HardyH
• Facebook.com/hardy.Haberman

Welcome to the SINagogue. they call me the Rabbi. I put the SIN in SINagoguge.and am a cisgender, ambimorous, gynesexual, sadistic bratty daddy-dom. Sex therapist by day and a kink educator by night, I help people make their kink a religious experience. I am a mental health professional, this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a replacement for therapy. Seek out the assistance of a trained professional for help with your situation.  

Reminder, we try to make our content as inclusive as possible regardless of gender, orientation, role in the lifestyle, etc., but we do inherently speak from our own point of view. We want to learn from our mistakes. If you feel like we said something offensive, let us know. Reach out via our website or call us at 469-269-0403.

Today’s show was brought to you in part by the letters S and M, and the Number 69. 

*San Dimas High School Football Rules*

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Shalom and Welcome to the SINagogue. This is a podcast for consenting adults for information, education, and entertainment on BDSM, sexuality, and all things related. If you’re not a legal, enthusiastically consenting adult, then *pick up the needle, press pause, or turn the radio off*.

Subscribe to this podcast on our website, SINagogueBDSM.com
Also, on the website, links to past episodes, upcoming classes, book us as educators, shop our store, and more.

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Ep21 - "Sadistickle" With Nyxie Noc
Learn how to make tickling sensual, sadistic, humiliating, and most of all FUN. Dive into the fascinating world of tickling as a form of edge play. We’ll explore the origins of tickling and how it can be wielded as torture, punishment, and humiliation - or transformed into a sensual, sexual, and erotic experience. If you’re curious about incorporating tickling into your play or simply intrigued by its psychological and physical effects, this offers a playful yet in-depth introduction to the tickle fetish.

Nyxie Noc (They/Them) is a seasoned kink educator, Domme, and consent advocate with over two decades of experience in BDSM, sex work, and fetish content creation. Based in the SF Bay Area, Nyxie teaches a variety of classes, including Agency in Consensual Kink, and Ethical Dominance. Their workshops emphasize consent, agency, and ethical power exchange, helping participants explore kink with intention and safety. Known for their compassionate, shame-free approach, Nyxie is committed to fostering  empowering spaces for all kinksters to learn and grow. 

• viridiluxconsulting.com/nyxienoc
• Instagram.com/Viridi_lux_consulting
• TikTok.com/@Viridiluxconsult

Welcome to the SINagogue. they call me the Rabbi. I put the SIN in SINagoguge.and am a cisgender, ambimorous, gynesexual, sadistic bratty daddy-dom. Sex therapist by day and a kink educator by night, I help people make their kink a religious experience. I am a mental health professional, this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a replacement for therapy. Seek out the assistance of a trained professional for help with your situation.  

Reminder, we try to make our content as inclusive as possible regardless of gender, orientation, role in the lifestyle, etc., but we do inherently speak from our own point of view. We want to learn from our mistakes. If you feel like we said something offensive, let us know. Reach out via our website or call us at 469-269-0403.

Today’s show was brought to you in part by the letters S and M, and the Number 69. 

*San Dimas High School Football Rules*

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Shalom and Welcome to the SINagogue. This is a podcast for consenting adults for information, education, and entertainment on BDSM, sexuality, and all things related. If you’re not a legal, enthusiastically consenting adult, then *pick up the needle, press pause, or turn the radio off*.

Subscribe to this podcast on our website, SINagogueBDSM.com
Also, on the website, links to past episodes, upcoming classes, book us as educators, shop our store, and more.

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Ep12 - "Pawsome Pup Play and Indiana Leather and Kink Weekend" with Pup Spaz

Puppy (pet) Play educator, Spaz Puppy answers a lot of questions about why it's so pawsome for our community! As the head instigator of Indy PAH (Pets & Handlers), have been working with the local community to create gatherings and spaces that are complimentary to pet play, adapting to the newer people entering the community and shifting from locally closing gay bars to alternative spaces and activities. As contest owner and producer (and titleholder!) Spaz has prepared education on the history of our (leather) title contests, and taken a closer look at why it's meaningful and still has a place in our community.

Pup Spaz is from Indianapolis and has identified as a leather pup since 2009. Spaz can frequently be seen and heard around the community shooting pool and chasing squirrels, however, Spaz now spends his free time traveling, educating, and encouraging other pets and pet groups. Pup Spaz founded and is the head instigator of Indy PAH since 2014, a pup group representing IN and the greater area, providing a social group with events for local pups to learn, play & share experiences.  

• Fetlife.com/PupSpaz
• IKLW.org
• Facebook.com/Puppy.Spaz

Welcome to the SINagogue. they call me the Rabbi. I put the SIN in SINagoguge.and am a cisgender, ambimorous, gynesexual, sadistic bratty daddy-dom. Sex therapist by day and a kink educator by night, I help people make their kink a religious experience. I am a mental health professional, this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a replacement for therapy. Seek out the assistance of a trained professional for help with your situation.  

Reminder, we try to make our content as inclusive as possible regardless of gender, orientation, role in the lifestyle, etc., but we do inherently speak from our own point of view. We want to learn from our mistakes. If you feel like we said something offensive, let us know. Reach out via our website or call us at 469-269-0403.

Today’s show was brought to you in part by the letters S and M, and the Number 69. 

*San Dimas High School Football Rules*

Support the show

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Shalom and Welcome to the SINagogue. This is a podcast for consenting adults for information, education, and entertainment on BDSM, sexuality, and all things related. If you’re not a legal, enthusiastically consenting adult, then *pick up the needle, press pause, or turn the radio off*.

Subscribe to this podcast on our website, SINagogueBDSM.com
Also, on the website, links to past episodes, upcoming classes, book us as educators, shop our store, and more.

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Ep11 - "Kindness and Other Kinks" with Jon aka HiThereCatSuit

This topic has been called life-changing discussing how to use kindness within scenes and how to be kind to your kinky self. Jon has been an ambassador in his communities by bringing people together to share connections and experiences. He bases success on one thing, kindness. Jon will discuss the difference between kind and nice and how that can make all the difference in the world in getting you the kind of partners and relationships you desire. Jon’s deep dive into being kind discusses power dynamics and how turning those around can make all the difference in how people see you. We talk about bringing kindness into scenes, which can be a lovely change of pace to heighten intense scenes. 

Jon aka HiThereCatsuit has been the host of the Authentically Kinky podcast since October 2020 with over 220 episodes. An avid writer on Fetlife, Jon wrote a column about men and unsolicited dick pics. The response led him to brainstorm with NookieNotes of Dating Kinky to create the podcast. 

• Fetlife.com/HiThereCatsuit
• AuthenticallyKinky.com
• X.com/HiThereCatsuit
• Instagram.com/HiThereCatsuit

Welcome to the SINagogue. they call me the Rabbi. I put the SIN in SINagoguge.and am a cisgender, ambimorous, gynesexual, sadistic bratty daddy-dom. Sex therapist by day and a kink educator by night, I help people make their kink a religious experience. I am a mental health professional, this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a replacement for therapy. Seek out the assistance of a trained professional for help with your situation.  

Reminder, we try to make our content as inclusive as possible regardless of gender, orientation, role in the lifestyle, etc., but we do inherently speak from our own point of view. We want to learn from our mistakes. If you feel like we said something offensive, let us know. Reach out via our website or call us at 469-269-0403.

Today’s show was brought to you in part by the letters S and M, and the Number 69. 

*San Dimas High School Football Rules*

Support the show

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Shalom and Welcome to the SINagogue. This is a podcast for consenting adults for information, education, and entertainment on BDSM, sexuality, and all things related. If you’re not a legal, enthusiastically consenting adult, then *pick up the needle, press pause, or turn the radio off*.

Subscribe to this podcast on our website, SINagogueBDSM.com
Also, on the website, links to past episodes, upcoming classes, book us as educators, shop our store, and more.

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Ep10 - "AGE PLAY: From Diapers to Diplomas" with Paul Ruloff & CherryWatermelon

Paul talks about his past work with Ageplay, delves into Ageplay-related questions as well as talks about the Ageplay events that he runs in St. Louis.  

Paul Rulof aka RuleOfThree, has been part of the alternative sexuality community for over 10 years, largely focused on promoting and educating about age play.  During that time, he has engaged in many activities that have helped hundreds of people learn about, explore, problem-solve, and think about their interests in ageplay.  He has started and contributed to many different ageplay projects He also has the non-fiction book “Ageplay: From Diapers to Diplomas” and is working on a book solely for Caregivers. 

cherrywatermelon (she/her/hers) is a passionate kinkster, who loves to talk about all things kink, and sex. She spent many years as an adult store manager in Canada which has led her to be able to combine her knowledge of sex toys and kink. Creating and fostering an inclusive environment for all people is her goal. 

• Fetlife.com/RuleOfThree
• Fetlife.com/CherryWatermelon
• Book: Age Play: From Diapers to Diplomas

Welcome to the SINagogue. they call me the Rabbi. I put the SIN in SINagoguge.and am a cisgender, ambimorous, gynesexual, sadistic bratty daddy-dom. Sex therapist by day and a kink educator by night, I help people make their kink a religious experience. I am a mental health professional, this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a replacement for therapy. Seek out the assistance of a trained professional for help with your situation.  

Reminder, we try to make our content as inclusive as possible regardless of gender, orientation, role in the lifestyle, etc., but we do inherently speak from our own point of view. We want to learn from our mistakes. If you feel like we said something offensive, let us know. Reach out via our website or call us at 469-269-0403.

Today’s show was brought to you in part by the letters S and M, and the Number 69. 

*San Dimas High School Football Rules*

Support the show

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Shalom and Welcome to the SINagogue. This is a podcast for consenting adults for information, education, and entertainment on BDSM, sexuality, and all things related. If you’re not a legal, enthusiastically consenting adult, then *pick up the needle, press pause, or turn the radio off*.

Subscribe to this podcast on our website, SINagogueBDSM.com
Also, on the website, links to past episodes, upcoming classes, book us as educators, shop our store, and more.

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Ep9 - "Kinky Con: Guild of Deviated Standards" with Liz_SirsBabyGirl

Guild of Deviated Standards, or "G.o.D.S.”, is an event offering a new, private, members-only event format with a membership cap of 600. With this, we hope to offer a venue for more traditional styles of play.

Our mission is to provide quality education with a safe space to play and experience hardcore topics and bring like-minded people together to express themselves. G.o.D.S. offers kinksters tools to explore in positive spaces with open discussions relating to sexual health, identification, expression, and safety.

Liz_SirsBabyGirl is a strong-minded person who loves to meet new people and socialize.  She loves this community and hopes to see us grow stronger and become more inclusive. She was brought into the leather community via the gay bars in Denver, where she learned service, community, respect, and passion for traditions and history.  

• Fetlife.com/GuildOfDS
• Facebook.com/GuildofDeviatedStandards
• Instagram.com/GoDSDenver
• X.com/Denver_DS
• Fetlife.com/Liz_SirsBabyGirl  

Welcome to the SINagogue. they call me the Rabbi. I put the SIN in SINagoguge.and am a cisgender, ambimorous, gynesexual, sadistic bratty daddy-dom. Sex therapist by day and a kink educator by night, I help people make their kink a religious experience. I am a mental health professional, this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a replacement for therapy. Seek out the assistance of a trained professional for help with your situation.  

Reminder, we try to make our content as inclusive as possible regardless of gender, orientation, role in the lifestyle, etc., but we do inherently speak from our own point of view. We want to learn from our mistakes. If you feel like we said something offensive, let us know. Reach out via our website or call us at 469-269-0403.

Today’s show was brought to you in part by the letters S and M, and the Number 69. 

*San Dimas High School Football Rules*

Support the show

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Shalom and Welcome to the SINagogue. This is a podcast for consenting adults for information, education, and entertainment on BDSM, sexuality, and all things related. If you’re not a legal, enthusiastically consenting adult, then *pick up the needle, press pause, or turn the radio off*.

Subscribe to this podcast on our website, SINagogueBDSM.com
Also, on the website, links to past episodes, upcoming classes, book us as educators, shop our store, and more.

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Ep8 - "Whip It Good" with WhipFather

Learn the basic practices of whip play and a short history lesson. Learn the parts of the whip, different types of whips and recommendations for setting the scene and risk-aware safety.

Whipfather’s journey began w/ his 1st whip. He didn’t know what that would turn into. When he tied up his boyfriend at twenty, he began to suspect. Despite hints of SM throughout his life, he didn’t act on them, staying on the leather fringe. At 21 he moved from small town PA to San Diego. In '88, he became clean/sober, joining Knights on Iron, a clean/sober gay motorcycle club. Getting involved with other groups, he created Hot Ash, San Diego. He learned of LeatherFest3, and after attending wanted to get involved. A friend chaired the event, suggested he help w/ LeatherFest4, and would eventually encourage him to take his place. Whipfather co-chaired LeatherFest5.

Clean/sober for 5 years but needing more support, he helped start a Leather/SM AA meeting, Sobriety and Miracles. In '97, he attended the 1st Leather Leadership Conference, began working with MCC, Leather Ministries, and Hemperial Court de San Diego, and set up events for heMsL. 

• Fetlife.com/WhipFather 
• Facebook.com/SmokersWanted.Whips

Welcome to the SINagogue. they call me the Rabbi. I put the SIN in SINagoguge.and am a cisgender, ambimorous, gynesexual, sadistic bratty daddy-dom. Sex therapist by day and a kink educator by night, I help people make their kink a religious experience. I am a mental health professional, this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a replacement for therapy. Seek out the assistance of a trained professional for help with your situation.  

Reminder, we try to make our content as inclusive as possible regardless of gender, orientation, role in the lifestyle, etc., but we do inherently speak from our own point of view. We want to learn from our mistakes. If you feel like we said something offensive, let us know. Reach out via our website or call us at 469-269-0403.

Today’s show was brought to you in part by the letters S and M, and the Number 69. 

*San Dimas High School Football Rules*

Support the show

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Shalom and Welcome to the SINagogue. This is a podcast for consenting adults for information, education, and entertainment on BDSM, sexuality, and all things related. If you’re not a legal, enthusiastically consenting adult, then *pick up the needle, press pause, or turn the radio off*.

Subscribe to this podcast on our website, SINagogueBDSM.com
Also, on the website, links to past episodes, upcoming classes, book us as educators, shop our store, and more.

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Ep7 - "How to quit stalling and EMBRACE PONY PLAY with unbridled enthusiasm" with LilPonyBites

Hay you! Put on your horseshoes, leave the barn, and enter the show ring. Pet play, specifically pony play, can be intimidating. We will demystify some of the *mane* concepts of pony play, including equipment, handling/training, safety/consent, and different pony play scenes. Do you want to know if you are a dressage pony, cart pony, hunter/jumper, or breeding stock? Are you an Arabian, Clydesdale, or Shetland pony? We will discuss how those labels within your pony identity can be reflected in your play. Once you learn about pony play, your neigh will become a yay!   

 LilPonyBites joined the Leather, Fetish, and Kink community in 2012 in a submissive role through a D/s relationship which taught her about power exchange and opened her pony identity. She's been exploring her switch tendencies and little/brat side. She is Ms. Ohio Valley Leather 2016, Ms. Tri-State Leather 2018; a board member of Miami Valley Pets and Handlers; a member of Ohio Leather Alliance, Tri-State Leather, and Women of Drummer. Lil' Bit enjoys learning/teaching ASL and is an interpreter at kink events. She serves the leather/kink communities, by presenting with her partner, The Rabbi.

• Fetlife.com/LilPonyBites

Welcome to the SINagogue. they call me the Rabbi. I put the SIN in SINagoguge.and am a cisgender, ambimorous, gynesexual, sadistic bratty daddy-dom. Sex therapist by day and a kink educator by night, I help people make their kink a religious experience. I am a mental health professional, this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a replacement for therapy. Seek out the assistance of a trained professional for help with your situation.  

Reminder, we try to make our content as inclusive as possible regardless of gender, orientation, role in the lifestyle, etc., but we do inherently speak from our own point of view. We want to learn from our mistakes. If you feel like we said something offensive, let us know. Reach out via our website or call us at 469-269-0403.

Today’s show was brought to you in part by the letters S and M, and the Number 69. 

*San Dimas High School Football Rules*

Support the show

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Shalom and Welcome to the SINagogue. This is a podcast for consenting adults for information, education, and entertainment on BDSM, sexuality, and all things related. If you’re not a legal, enthusiastically consenting adult, then *pick up the needle, press pause, or turn the radio off*.

Subscribe to this podcast on our website, SINagogueBDSM.com
Also, on the website, links to past episodes, upcoming classes, book us as educators, shop our store, and more.

Follow us on Facebook, FetLife, Twitter, Tumblr, YouTube, Instagram, and TikTok.

If you enjoyed or learned something from this podcast, consider making a donation via PayPal, CashApp, Venmo, Patreon, or Ko-Fi.

Ep6 - "BDSM and the Law" with Lady Steele

People participate in BDSM all the time not knowing the potential legal pitfalls. It is time to get down to brass tacks. What legal dangers are inherent to what it is we do? The simple truth is, that legal issues abound when it comes to participating in BDSM and always have. It can affect several areas in our lives, including family, criminal, civil, estate planning, healthcare, and even business law. How can you prepare yourself for the worst-case scenario? 

Lady Steele is a femme lesbian Alpha leather slave with multiple neurodiversities. She is an international presenter residing in ATL, where she is the only open, out, and practicing attorney in the US who specializes in issues in the BDSM and ethical non-monogamy communities. Education is her passion, and she has taught 100's of classes over 15 years. She is the founder of the Center of Learning and School of Success), Worthless Bastards (Cigar) Club, and The Leather Coterie.

• Fetlife.com/AttorneyLadySteele
• X.com/SarahSteeleEsq
• Instagram.com/SarahSteeleEsq
• NCSFreedom.org
• KAPprofessionals.org

Welcome to the SINagogue. they call me the Rabbi. I put the SIN in SINagoguge.and am a cisgender, ambimorous, gynesexual, sadistic bratty daddy-dom. Sex therapist by day and a kink educator by night, I help people make their kink a religious experience. I am a mental health professional, this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a replacement for therapy. Seek out the assistance of a trained professional for help with your situation.  

Reminder, we try to make our content as inclusive as possible regardless of gender, orientation, role in the lifestyle, etc., but we do inherently speak from our own point of view. We want to learn from our mistakes. If you feel like we said something offensive, let us know. Reach out via our website or call us at 469-269-0403.

Today’s show was brought to you in part by the letters S and M, and the Number 69. 

*San Dimas High School Football Rules*

Support the show

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Shalom and Welcome to the SINagogue. This is a podcast for consenting adults for information, education, and entertainment on BDSM, sexuality, and all things related. If you’re not a legal, enthusiastically consenting adult, then *pick up the needle, press pause, or turn the radio off*.

Subscribe to this podcast on our website, SINagogueBDSM.com
Also, on the website, links to past episodes, upcoming classes, book us as educators, shop our store, and more.

Follow us on Facebook, FetLife, Twitter, Tumblr, YouTube, Instagram, and TikTok.

If you enjoyed or learned something from this podcast, consider making a donation via PayPal, CashApp, Venmo, Patreon, or Ko-Fi.

Ep5 - "Pro-Dom Primer" with Mistress Jennifer

In this episode, we discuss the what, why, and hows of being a pro-dom.

Mistress Jennifer is a professional Dominatrix with over 15 years, based in Houston, TX, BDSM Educator, Demo Artist, and Performer, available and travels to be part of different BDSM events.

• Linktr.ee/MistressJennifer
• Fetlife.com/MistressJenn41
• GothChic40.wixsite.com/GothChic
• Facebook.com/1Jenniferho
• Instagram.com/GothcChic40/
• X.com/GothChic16
• YouTube.com/@JenniferH8427
• TikTok.com/@MistressJennifer5

Welcome to the SINagogue. they call me the Rabbi. I put the SIN in SINagoguge.and am a cisgender, ambimorous, gynesexual, sadistic bratty daddy-dom. Sex therapist by day and a kink educator by night, I help people make their kink a religious experience. I am a mental health professional, this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a replacement for therapy. Seek out the assistance of a trained professional for help with your situation.  

Reminder, we try to make our content as inclusive as possible regardless of gender, orientation, role in the lifestyle, etc., but we do inherently speak from our own point of view. We want to learn from our mistakes. If you feel like we said something offensive, let us know. Reach out via our website or call us at 469-269-0403.

Today’s show was brought to you in part by the letters S and M, and the Number 69. 

*San Dimas High School Football Rules*

Support the show

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Shalom and Welcome to the SINagogue. This is a podcast for consenting adults for information, education, and entertainment on BDSM, sexuality, and all things related. If you’re not a legal, enthusiastically consenting adult, then *pick up the needle, press pause, or turn the radio off*.

Subscribe to this podcast on our website, SINagogueBDSM.com
Also, on the website, links to past episodes, upcoming classes, book us as educators, shop our store, and more.

Follow us on Facebook, FetLife, Twitter, Tumblr, YouTube, Instagram, and TikTok.

If you enjoyed or learned something from this podcast, consider making a donation via PayPal, CashApp, Venmo, Patreon, or Ko-Fi.