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| Rewind: People In Our Lives Who Aren't "Doing The Work" | 02 Sep 2024 | 00:47:10 | |
This week's episode is a re-release of one of Emmalee and Jen's favorite episodes. They want to model what they often share, which is the importance of resting and taking breaks in order to continue to show up as the best versions of themselves. The topic is one that constantly receives questions: what to do when the people in your life aren't "doing the work?" Whether that's your family member, friend, co-worker, or partner, Emmalee and Jen are answering your questions about the frustrations that can occur when it feels like you're the only one working on yourself. They discuss tangible tips, firm boundaries, their thoughts on being called "too sensitive," passive aggression, resentment and the emotions underneath it, changing relational dynamics, and so much more. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action! PS: Fast forward to around 6 minutes to skip the intro and get straight to today’s content.
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| The Line Between Empathy and Enabling | 26 Aug 2024 | 00:45:23 | |
This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are explaining the difference between having empathy for someone vs. enabling someone, as they can feel very similar. They start off the episode by sharing ways to recognize the line between the two and speak on why it can be challenging to shift the dynamic in a relationship where we're enabling. Emmalee and Jen discuss how to apply this same logic to ourselves (i.e. holding self accountable in a gentle way), ways they have enabled one another as well as their partners, what maternal gatekeeping means and how it can lead to resentment, what to do when a family member enables another family member, plus boundaries, boundaries, and more boundaries! Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action! PS: Fast forward to around 6:30 to skip the intro and get straight to today’s content.
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| Our 10 Year Anniversary Episode! | 24 Jun 2024 | 00:49:52 | |
This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are celebrating 10 years in business together by dedicating the episode to all that they've learned so far! They discuss their journey, the ways their lives have been enriched by one another, things they would change, hard decisions they had to make, and the transition away from pleasing people. Emmalee and Jen answer your questions about what they've learned from one another, what they're most proud of the other person for, how they've changed as therapists, and their top 3 moments of vindication for any haters. They end the episode with their advice to new therapists and a Dear Em and Jen about the things that seemed like a good idea and turned out not to be. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action! PS: There is no intro for today's episode - join us right away for the content!
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| Why Are Friendship Break-Ups So Painful? | 12 Sep 2022 | 00:44:29 | |
This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen cover one of their most requested topics: friendship break-ups. They discuss why friendship break-ups hurt so much and the validity of that pain, ghosting in friendships and the lack of closure, friendship break-ups not being as normalized as romantic break-ups in our society, the fear around being truthful with our friends, the challenges of making friends as an adult, and so much more! Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action.
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| Advice to Our Younger Selves | 05 Sep 2022 | 00:51:24 | |
Today's episode of ShrinkChicks is dedicated to advice for our younger selves. Emmalee and Jen share the advice they would give to their younger selves and also the advice written in by their audience. They start the episode by reminiscing on the early days of The Therapy Group and the amount of anxiety they had while building the business. They talk through how they've grown since then and the advice they had trouble hearing at the time. Emmalee and Jen discuss why they think we can also give this advice to our present selves, their experiences being “the chill girl” in relationships, shifting away from the need for external validation, the regrets they have surrounding dieting, a potential new tagline for ShrinkChicks, and so much more!
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| If Couples Therapy Isn't Working with Amelia Innis, LMFT | 29 Aug 2022 | 00:46:13 | |
This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are joined by Amelia Innis, LMFT, one of their amazing clinicians at The Therapy Group. Amelia specializes in working with couples and shares her approach to couples therapy, which is rooted in honesty and direction. She discusses the importance of honesty in romantic relationships as well as the therapeutic relationship and why we can't expect our partners to "just know" what we need. Amelia is now offering Couples Intensives at The Therapy Group and she shares what an intensive looks like (hint: it's intense), why a couple might benefit from it, and how it differs from traditional couples therapy. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
To book a Couples Intensive with Amelia, you can fill out this contact form and request her as your preferred therapist! You can also get in touch with Amelia via email: amelia@wctherapygroup.com
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| When Strangers Become Family | 22 Aug 2022 | 00:50:23 | |
On today's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are joined by Amy Crichton, LMFT, one of their wonderful therapists from The Therapy Group, and her brother, Josh Weaver! Josh and Amy share the incredible story of how they discovered they were siblings just about three years ago. Spoiler alert: our parents' generation did not anticipate DNA test kits being so accessible! Josh explains how he found out that the father who raised him was not his biological father via Ancestry.com, and Amy shares her perspective on how that news impacted her and her family of origin. Tune in to hear their incredible story, the way everything unfolded, what their relationship with one another looks like now, and so much more.
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| Is There Anything That's TMI in Therapy? | 15 Aug 2022 | 00:50:56 | |
This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen discuss a question they asked their Instagram followers: what do you hesitate to share with your therapist in therapy? The responses received were overwhelming, so they made an episode of it! Em and Jen anonymously share responses including: sex, masturbation, suicidal ideation, shame, drug and alcohol usage, not taking the therapist's advice, trauma, financial stress, and so much more! Tune in to find out why they believe nothing is "TMI" in therapy and their advice on how to bring up certain topics with your therapist.
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| Can I Tell My Therapist I Use Cannabis? | 08 Aug 2022 | 00:46:46 | |
Today on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are joined by one of their amazing clinicians, Colton Hott, PC! Colton shares his journey to becoming a therapist plus his experience working in the cannabis industry. He answers some of your questions like: can I tell my therapist I use cannabis, why can cannabis ease anxiety one time and heighten anxiety another time, what if you and your partner have different feelings on usage, cannabis, memory, and the research behind it, signs to look out for when it comes to dependency, and so much more!
If you're interested in working with Colton, fill out a contact form for The Therapy Group and request him as your preferred therapist! *Residents of PA only*
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| You Don't Have to Like Your In-Laws | 01 Aug 2022 | 00:45:42 | |
On this week's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen bring you the third and final part of the in-laws series! They start the episode off by discussing some DMs received from mothers-in-law about their daughters-in-law and shed some light on the roles we all play in this complicated dynamic. Emmalee and Jen answer your questions about in-laws using guilt as a form of manipulation, what to do if you simply dislike your in-laws, expectations for vacations, being married to the "non-favorite" child and the resentment it can cause, comparing your childhood and upbringing with your partner's, where to start when trying to split the holidays, and so much more! Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Psychedelic Assisted Therapy with Jenny Weinar, LCSW | 25 Jul 2022 | 00:48:49 | |
*Trigger Warning:* We discuss suicidal ideation in today's episode. If you are dealing with suicidal thoughts, please know that you're not alone. There are so many options and resources out there for you. Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Dial or Text 988
Today on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen have the pleasure of sitting down with Jenny Weinar, LCSW! Jenny is trained in Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) and works with Emmalee, individually, doing KAP treatments! Emmalee and Jenny discuss what KAP entails from start to finish from both of their perspectives, Emmalee's firsthand experience with the treatment and the changes she has seen in her life since starting KAP, the fear that many of us may have surrounding psychedelics/what we may see, who is a candidate for psychedelic-assisted therapy and if there is anyone who is not a candidate, how Jenny got into this work originally, and so much more. Tune in to gain a TON of insight - you don't want to miss this one!
Jenny's Website: https://www.homebodytherapy.com
Jenny's Instagram: @jennyweinar
Jenny's Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/integrating-psychedelics/id1593055670?l=es
Book Resources Referenced:
Your Psilocybin Mushroom Companion
Drug Use For Grown-Ups
How To Change Your Mind
The Psychedelic Handbook
Beyond The Narrow Life
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| Let’s Talk Relationship Stages & Transitions | 18 Jul 2022 | 00:47:29 | |
On this week's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are taking us through the different stages of romantic relationships: from the beginning stages of dating, to the end of the honeymoon phase, to moving in together, getting married, having kids, to becoming empty nesters. They discuss the insecurity that comes with the early stages of dating, the worry about being seen as “needy” at the start of a relationship, when the honeymoon phase ends and the feelings that accompany that shift, expectations we have before moving in together, relationships going in and out of connection and disconnection, working on enjoying the phase that you are in right now, making the decision to have (or not) have kids, and so much more!
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| Boundaries & Expectations with In-Laws | 11 Jul 2022 | 00:46:34 | |
Today on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen dive into part two of their in-laws series! The focus this week is all about setting boundaries with in-laws and where to begin when doing so. Emmalee and Jen answer your questions about HOW to set healthy boundaries, what to do when your partner still consults their parents about big life decisions, how to discuss in-law issues with your significant other, protecting your energy around your in-laws, what to do when your partner's family does not respect your boundaries, setting boundaries re: financial support of a family member, boundaries to set before having a child, and so much more! Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Coping with Information Overload | 17 Jun 2024 | 00:42:10 | |
On today's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are discussing the information overload we all experience on a daily basis and how to move toward more conscious consumption of media, the news, etc. They answer your questions about social media's role in the overwhelm, the "shoulds" and comparison culture, how to create boundaries with consumption, parenting social media accounts that make us feel like we're failing, social media therapists vs. social media "therapists," why seeing content on TikTok/Reels doesn't lead to lasting change, why it's so easy to believe what we read on the Internet, and so much more! The episode ends with a Dear Em and Jen about social media comparison as a new mom. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action! PS: Fast forward to around 5 minutes into their convo to skip the intro and get straight to today’s content.
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| Why Are In-Laws So Triggering? | 04 Jul 2022 | 00:47:32 | |
This week on ShrinkChicks, we present part one of our multi-part in-laws series! Emmalee and Jen kick off the series by answering your questions about conflict & confrontation with your in-laws. They answer questions like: why are mothers-in-laws so triggering? They also speak on how to prepare for in-laws, what to do when your partner won't speak up to their parents, how to handle a deceitful and aggressive sister-in-law, how to tell overbearing in-laws that you're eloping, and so much more! Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Breaking People Pleasing Patterns with Natalia Addona, LPCC | 27 Jun 2022 | 00:45:47 | |
On today's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are joined by one of their amazing clinicians, Natalia Addona, LPCC! Natalia is a therapist at The Therapy Group and works with clients residing in California and Florida. The three of them dive into the term "people pleasing," their own experiences in "recovery" from being people pleasers, and answer your questions about it! They touch on topics like: finding your own path as a people pleaser, where people pleasing stems from and why we might keep doing it, the resentment that can build as a result, how to know what YOU really want as a people pleaser, questions to ask yourself to help you start to break the pattern, how FOMO can play a role, getting past the uncomfortable feeling of letting others down, and so much more. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
To set up a free consultation with Natalia, please fill out a contact form here and request Natalia Addona as your preferred therapist! *residents of CA & FL only
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| Carrying The Mental Load | 20 Jun 2022 | 00:44:29 | |
Today on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen break down the buzz term "the mental load" AKA cognitive labor! They discuss gender roles and how the mental load has historically fallen on women, the overfunctioning/underfunctioning dynamic in relationships and what these terms mean and look like, the mental load falling onto the person who cares more, being the default parent and how to divide the mental load when parenting, what to do when you feel like you’re the only one who knows how to do it "right," the mental loads Emmalee and Jen carry in their relationships with their partners and with one another, and so much more! Dear Em & Jen answers a listener question about constantly having to remind her partner to help around the house and how to stop getting so annoyed at this dynamic. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Questions to Ask Before Getting Married with Dr. Alexandra Solomon | 13 Jun 2022 | 00:55:08 | |
On today's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen have the honor of sitting down with the brilliant Dr. Alexandra Solomon! Dr. Solomon is a therapist, author, teacher, fellow podcast host and relationship expert! They start the episode off by talking about the challenges and nuances of Instagram and TikTok therapy. They then ask Dr. Solomon about the class she teaches at Northwestern University called Marriage 101. This leads them into the episode topic: hard conversations to have with a partner before marriage or that next big step in your relationship and where to begin when approaching them. Emmalee, Jen and Dr. Solomon explore conversations like: acknowledgement that each partner will change throughout the relationship, political differences in marriages and how to handle them - especially in this polarizing political climate, the decision to have children, attachment styles, cultivating compassion for new versions of ourselves and our partners, and SO much more! Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Terry Real Wows "Us" Again | 06 Jun 2022 | 00:50:14 | |
This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are thrilled to have a listener favorite guest, and one of their mentors, Terry Real, back on the podcast to tell us all about his new book: Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship. Terry shares some stories and concepts from the book, how Bruce Springsteen writing the forward of "Us" came to be, the difference between “us” vs. “you and me”, two parts of our brains: the wise adult and the adaptive child and what they mean, fight, flight, freeze, and fix responses to our partners - and which one Emmalee, Jen and Terry identify with, why Terry believes couples therapists should lovingly take sides, and so much more!
Link to Terry’s new book Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship:
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| How To Make Up After a Fight | 30 May 2022 | 00:41:21 | |
On today’s episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen share their expertise on how to repair after a rupture in our relationships a.k.a. how to make up after a fight, disagreement, or argument. They discuss why rupture is inevitable in all of our relationships, why being "right" doesn't matter, why tit for tat can be harmful, how to hold onto ourselves when the other person is dysregulated, whether make-up sex is a real thing, how to argue in a healthy way, stubbornness when in a disagreement and so much more. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
The book mentioned in today's episode: Why Won't You Apologize by Harriet Lerner, Ph.D.
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| Setting Emotional Boundaries | 23 May 2022 | 00:40:08 | |
This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are talking all about emotional boundaries, starting off by defining emotional boundaries and where to begin when setting them. They discuss separating our emotions from others' emotions, how to recognize when you need to do so, and the importance of tone and context. Emmalee and Jen answer your questions like: how to set emotional boundaries when working in a helping field, the concern about coming off as rude or demanding, how to set boundaries when you're scared of hurting others, the fine line between feeling your feelings and setting boundaries around them, plus a Dear Em & Jen about sexuality changing later in life. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
The book mentioned in today's episode: The Whole-Brain Child https://www.amazon.com/Whole-Brain-Child-Revolutionary-Strategies-Developing/dp/0553386697
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| How to Ask For What You Need | 16 May 2022 | 00:42:07 | |
On today’s episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen answer one of our most popular listener questions: how to ask for what you need! They discuss why it can be so hard to ask for what you need, how to begin learning what you need, and give us tangible steps to do so. Emmalee and Jen share how they learned what it was they needed through trial and error, why our childhood experiences can play a big role in asking for what we need, the difference between wants and needs, and so much more! Dear Em & Jen answers a question about needing space from in-laws and how to ask your partner for that. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| What is Energy Healing with JoAnne Hanson, LMFT | 09 May 2022 | 00:41:41 | |
On today’s episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are joined by one of The Therapy Group's wonderful therapists, JoAnne Hanson, LMFT! JoAnne is not only a therapist but also an energy healer. Emmalee and Jen talk to JoAnne about WTF energy healing is, her journey to becoming an energy healer, integrating energy healing into traditional talk therapy, what it was like for JoAnne growing up as a highly sensitive person, the "woo continuum," what JoAnne is calling BS on, and so much more! Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action.
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| How to Handle Rejection | 02 May 2022 | 00:43:19 | |
On today’s episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen cover the topic of rejection. They start the episode off by addressing a listener question that asks “how to get over rejection?” The hard truth is that rejection is inevitable - and so they give us all tangible ways to learn to deal with rejection and the feelings that accompany it. Emmalee and Jen discuss rejection’s connection to shame and embarrassment, the fear of rejection and how to overcome it, how to work on not taking rejection personally, the grieving process that can come after being rejected, their personal experiences with rejection (specifically re: dating), why it’s so hard to get over rejection from an ex, and so much more! Dear Em & Jen answers a question about boundaries as they relate to rejection. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
The Ted Talk mentioned in the episode: https://www.ted.com/talks/jia_jiang_what_i_learned_from_100_days_of_rejection?language=en
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| Unlearning Societal Expectations | 10 Jun 2024 | 00:39:42 | |
This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are joined by Kara Loewentheil, host of the internationally top-ranked podcast Unf*ck Your Brain and author of the new book Take Back Your Brain: How A Sexist Society Gets in Your Head and How to Get It Out. Kara shares tangible steps to change our thought patterns and address the "brain gap" so many of us experience when considering our conscious thoughts vs. societal expectations/conditioning. Kara answers questions about managing other people's opinions about us, connecting our worth to external factors, why positive thinking doesn't work, what society teaches us as women and how to start unlearning those lessons, and so much more! Tune in to hear what Kara is calling BS on and to gain insight, awareness, and action! PS: There is no intro for today's episode - tune in right away for the content!
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| What to Expect in Couples Therapy | 25 Apr 2022 | 00:43:59 | |
This week, Emmalee and Jen talk about their bread and butter: couples therapy! As Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists, couples therapy is one of their favorite topics to demystify. They start by discussing the stigma behind couples therapy and why they wholeheartedly believe in it - from both sides of the couch - because relationships are hard!! They talk about when a couple should seek out therapy, what to expect from couples therapy, the fears going into it, and why it is helpful when their couple clients argue in front of them. Emmalee and Jen answer your questions like what they wish couples would talk about in premarital therapy, how to shift your mindset from thinking that seeking couples therapy = doomed relationship, tips for effective communication and each of their favorites, important questions to ask each other before getting married, and a Dear Em & Jen about moving in with a significant other! Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Navigating Relationships Through Astrology with Natalie Levin | 18 Apr 2022 | 00:55:26 | |
On today's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are joined by their wonderful Astrologer, Natalie Levin! Natalie shares her expertise with us and starts off with some Astrology 101. She explains what a birth chart is (i.e. sun, moon, and rising signs) and why some people don't feel aligned with their astrological sign. She then does a deep dive into Emmalee and Jen's charts, individually, and also how they intertwine and complement each other. We learn what parts of their personalities their signs confirm, why they're meant to be business partners, and the roles they fulfill for one another. Natalie gives us all advice for 2022, shares what she is calling BS on, and so much more! Tune in for a fun and insightful episode!
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| Grieving Unmet Expectations | 11 Apr 2022 | 00:43:24 | |
This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen cover one of your most requested topics: expectations. They discuss expectations in our romantic relationships, friendships, and with our family members as well as grieving unmet expectations and change and how to categorize this type of grief. They talk about how magical thinking and toxic positivity can play a role in our expectations, realistic vs. unrealistic expectations, and how we develop our own, internal expectations. Emmalee and Jen answer your questions like: how to tell if my expectations are too high, how to grieve former versions of myself, and how to grieve the expectation that my partner would be excited to have kids when they are not. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Is There Truth to Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? with Mac Stanley Cazeau, LMHC | 04 Apr 2022 | 00:58:42 | |
On today’s episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen have the pleasure of sitting down with Mac Stanley Cazeau, LMHC (@talk2mac_therapist) to talk all about relationships, communication, infidelity, and affair recovery. Mac owns a private practice called Therapy is for Everyone and primarily works with couples recovering from an affair. He shares his insight with us on how to communicate our needs to our partner, the human desire to feel loved, and the number one cause of infidelity. Mac answers your questions like: how do I not punish my current partner for my ex’s infidelity, how do I move forward successfully with my partner after infidelity, and the most popular listener question: is there truth to the saying: once a cheater, always a cheater? You do not want to miss this one! Tune in for insight, awareness, and action!
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| Know Yourself Grow Yourself Part Two | 28 Mar 2022 | 00:44:47 | |
At the end of every episode, Emmalee and Jen always say: "to grow yourself, you gotta know yourself" but what does that really mean? This week on ShrinkChicks, Em and Jen break down their tagline and explain where to start when getting to know yourself. They discuss specific questions to guide us on this journey, how indecisiveness plays a role in knowing ourselves, internal self vs. external self, and the stories they've told themselves about themselves that are no longer true. Emmalee and Jen answer listener questions like: what age did they feel like they knew themselves, how to know yourself when you're a people pleaser, and can you know yourself too well? Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Baby Mamas Talk Drama with Kail Lowry & Vee Rivera | 21 Mar 2022 | 00:44:10 | |
This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are joined by Kail Lowry and Vee Rivera, hosts of the Baby Mamas No Drama Podcast! If you watched Teen Mom 2, you know that Kail and Vee’s relationship started off rocky, but today, Emmalee and Jen learn about their journey from hating each other, to co-parenting, to hosting a podcast together. They discuss the effect that being on reality TV has had on their mental health, their personal relationships, and their relationship with themselves. Kail and Vee discuss how they stay grounded amidst social media trolls, talking to their kids about their TV past, the advice they would give to their younger selves and so much more!
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| Jealousy is a Complex Emotion | 14 Mar 2022 | 00:46:40 | |
On today's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen dive into one of their most requested topics: Jealousy! They start off by discussing jealousy as a controversial emotion, the difference between jealousy and envy, why jealousy is a very normal emotion, and the reaction to jealousy vs. the emotion of jealousy. Emmalee and Jen each share the last time they felt jealous or envious and why. They recall times in their business partnership where jealousy crept in, the role radical acceptance can play within jealousy and envy, comparison and what it means, and lastly, a Dear Em & Jen that you do not want to miss! Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| WTF is Radical Acceptance? | 28 Feb 2022 | 00:42:38 | |
Today on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen explain the term "Radical Acceptance," which comes from a therapeutic modality called DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy). They discuss the difference between radical acceptance and invalidating our feelings, how to work towards this kind of acceptance, building up our distress tolerances, how many of us were taught to resist our emotions, toxic positivity, when radical acceptance is not appropriate, why it takes time, and so much more! Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
The article we reference in the episode: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-radical-acceptance-5120614
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| Our 100th MF Episode: Ask Us Anything | 21 Feb 2022 | 00:44:14 | |
This is ShrinkChicks 100th episode!! Thank you to all of the listeners - both old and new - for helping the show get to this point! Today, Emmalee and Jen reflect on this exciting milestone and laugh about the things that have changed over the past two years. They then answer your questions in a fan favorite, Q&A style episode. These questions include: how to mentally prepare before having kids, what to do when your partner doesn't stand up for you with their family, making friends as an adult, how to communicate with someone who thinks they're never wrong, the fear of not being lovable romantically, and how to stop comparing. Dear Em & Jen answers a listener's question about their concern that they might be a narcissist. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Emmalee's Fertility Journey | 03 Jun 2024 | 00:41:51 | |
On today's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee is taking you on her fertility journey. The episode begins with Em's story and all the highs and lows that have come with it thus far. She talks about her recurrent miscarriage diagnosis, her misdiagnosis of PCOS, and her two recent egg retrieval experiences. Then, Jen asks Em all of your questions, such as advice for those freezing their eggs alone, what has been most helpful when Em's feeling overwhelmed by the process, how best to support a friend going through infertility, how to respond to advice like "just relax and it will happen" when experiencing infertility, handling the jealousy and envy that creeps in when others around you are getting pregnant, and so much more! Tune in for an honest, vulnerable, and important conversation! PS: Fast forward to around 4:15 into their convo to skip the intro and get straight to today’s content.
Emmalee's Book Recs:
1. The Trying Game by Amy Klein
2. Infreakinfertility by Melanie Dale
3. It Starts with the Egg by Rebecca Fett
4. Fat and Fertile by Nicola Salmon
5. Spirit Babies by Walter Makichen
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| Dysfunctional Family Roles ft. Encanto | 14 Feb 2022 | 00:42:47 | |
This week's episode combines Emmalee and Jen's love for therapy and the Disney movie, Encanto, by discussing how Encanto so perfectly depicts family systems. Emmalee and Jen tell us about common, family roles we take on like the “caretaker” or the “scapegoat," how these roles can serve us and be reinforced externally, the story your family tells about you vs. what your story actually is, how trauma can inform these family roles, vulnerability, being the helpful one, and of course, Emmalee’s rendition of We Don’t Talk About Bruno. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Does Birth Order Actually Matter? | 07 Feb 2022 | 00:45:23 | |
Today's episode of ShrinkChicks is a follow up to the episode from a few weeks ago: Does Sibling Rivalry Ever End. There were so many sibling/birth order specific listener questions, so Emmalee and Jen wanted to answer them for you, today! Some questions and topics they discuss include: can sibling birth order affect you outside of the family dynamic? Why siblings can be so competitive with one another, how birth order affects twins, siblings drifting apart, how trauma affects siblings differently, why we don’t believe in "middle child syndrome," a big shout out to only children, boundaries within family systems, and so much more! Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Body Image, Diet Culture, & a Ton of Bullsh*t | 31 Jan 2022 | 00:45:35 | |
This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are joined by one of their amazing clinicians, Katie Bongiorno, LMFT, to talk about her new e-course: Achieving Authentic Balance in Your Body. They start off by telling the story of how Katie was hired at The Therapy Group (hint: it involves her dog) and then they dive into her e-course (launching TOMORROW) all about body image and learning to reject diet culture. Katie shares her personal journey that inspired her to create this course. She defines diet culture for us, tells us which social media trends she can't stand, and calls a bunch of BS. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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The medical group Emmalee referenced in the episode: https://www.radiancemedicalgroup.org
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| Does Sibling Rivalry Ever End? | 24 Jan 2022 | 00:45:54 | |
On today's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen talk all about sibling relationships. They discuss birth order, sibling conflict, only children, reconnecting with your siblings as adults, favoritism and so much more. Emmalee and Jen are both the youngest siblings in their family's of origin and they share some insight into what it was like growing up with older brothers. Dear Em & Jen answers a listener question about a parent favoriting a sibling and how to cope. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Why Do We Lie? | 17 Jan 2022 | 00:47:27 | |
Why do we lie? On this week's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen dive into the topic of lying and why people - including us - lie! They discuss different kinds of lies, lies the two of them have recently told in their personal lives, prosocial vs. antisocial lies, when lying becomes self-betrayal, the shame that can come with lying, how to evaluate our intentions behind a lie, and so much more. Dear Em & Jen answers a question about confronting a friend about disliking their new significant other. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| How to Get More Comfortable Being Alone | 10 Jan 2022 | 00:44:39 | |
Today on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen talk all about being alone, their love for it, and ways to become more comfortable with it. They discuss the various benefits of being alone, finding a hobby as an adult, codependency vs. interdependency, the choice to be alone vs. it being circumstantial, what happens if you get too comfortable being alone, avoidance, and so much more! This week's Dear Em & Jen question touches on being the peacekeeper and how to start putting yourself first. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| An Inside Look at Becoming a Therapist | 03 Jan 2022 | 00:48:32 | |
Fellow therapists, therapists in training, those wanting to become therapists: this one's for you! On today's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen discuss their post-graduate journey to licensure, imposter syndrome, and therapist's "firsts." They answer your questions re: worrying about clients when you're off the clock, feeling guilty for charging a client due to a late cancellation, taking care of yourself while learning to be a therapist, therapists in therapy, specializations, joining with clients, and so much more! Tune in if you've ever been curious about the field or want to know what being a therapist is like from the perspective of two therapists!
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| How to Set Boundaries with Your Mother-in-Law & More | 20 Dec 2021 | 00:43:49 | |
This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen dive into the topic of family dynamics and boundaries and how to navigate them during the Holiday season. Specifically, they discuss the difference of dynamics in our family of origin vs. our in-laws/partner's family, the transition out of our family of origin, expectation setting, and family traditions and rules that may be different from what we’re used to. Emmalee and Jen finish the episode with some tangible examples of boundary setting by doing a role play. Hint: Jen is the mother-in-law. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Your Sex Life Questions Answered with Vanessa & Xander Marin | 13 Dec 2021 | 00:48:25 | |
Today on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen sit down with the hosts of the Pillow Talks Podcast, Vanessa & Xander Marin, to talk all about sex. Vanessa is a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field and Xander’s a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade. They start by normalizing the idea of scheduling sex and explain why it can be really wonderful for our sex lives. They then go on to answer your sex life questions like: how to approach a conversation with your partner about having more sex, how to work to heal from a past sexual trauma with your partner, the difference between couples therapy and sex therapy, how to increase libido, and working through self consciousness during sex. We learn why Vanessa does not like the word “rejection” when it comes to sex, a story about Xander’s 90 year old Nana listening to their podcast, and why sex doesn't have to be spontaneous to be good. You do not want to miss this one!
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| Escaping My Hetero Hell with Jason Abel | 06 Dec 2021 | 00:54:16 | |
On this week's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen sit down with one of Jen’s best friends, Jason Abel. Jason starts by telling embarrassing stories about Jen from growing up, which you don't want to miss. Then, Jason shares his story of coming out as a gay man at age 24 to Jen - the first person that he told. He explains his thought process in telling Jen, how he told his parents, their reactions, and the expectations he - and many others - had/have before doing so. We hear about Jason's dating and relationship experiences, discuss the differences in talking about sex and sexual compatibility as a gay man vs. a straight woman, society's expectations, and the things we can work to unlearn. At the end of the episode, Jason shares the advice he would give to his younger self, followed by a rapid fire interview of Em & Jen with some thought provoking questions for them!
0:25 - Intro
0:33 - How Jen & Jason know each other
6:20 - The story of Jen being the first person Jason came out to
17:40 - Telling his family
31:20 - Starting to date men & his first relationships
39:17 - Calling BS
43:04 - Advice Jason would give to his younger self
46:14 - Rapid fire questions Jason has for Em & Jen
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| Rewind: Change is F*cking Scary | 27 May 2024 | 00:41:01 | |
In light of the holiday weekend, today's episode is a re-release of one of Emmalee and Jen's favorites. They want to model what they often share, which is the importance of resting and taking breaks in order to continue to show up as the best versions of themselves. In the episode, Emmalee and Jen talk all about change and why it can be so challenging and scary! They share how they each process change and why it works for them. Then, they discuss how to move through the fear of change, the loss of control that comes with change, why we need time to adjust to change, and why even positive change can be difficult. Emmalee and Jen dig into topics like why it's natural for us to miss the old versions of ourselves, the "grass is always greener" mentality, why there isn't always a "right" decision, and so much more! Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Forgiveness, Anger & Resentment | 29 Nov 2021 | 00:41:17 | |
Today on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen dive into the topic of forgiveness by explaining the definition of forgiveness and the stages that come along with it. They discuss why forgiveness is for us and not for the other person, the parts of forgiveness that they struggle with, the difference between anger and resentment, and how that resentment can build up (and sometimes explode) if not addressed. Dear Em & Jen is back with a question about how to handle a friend who always has it worse. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action.
0:00 - Intro
0:40 - Jen's favorite quote
1:29 - The definition of forgiveness
3:28 - Permission vs. forgiveness
6:30 - Forgiveness and abuse disclaimer
8:50 - Ruptures that happen in relationships that can lead to resentment
13:55 - The four stages of forgiveness
26:15 - The difference between anger and resentment
31:59 - Dear Em & Jen
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| NOvember with Dr. Lindsay Haston | 22 Nov 2021 | 00:47:54 | |
On this week's episode of ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen are joined by one of their amazing clinicians from The Therapy Group, Dr. Lindsay Haston. Lindsay is a licensed psychologist dedicated to helping others feel more comfortable being themselves. She strives to assist clients in leading a more full and meaningful life while also managing the pain that inevitably comes with it. Aside from being a wonderful therapist, she is also quite skilled at saying no, hence the title NOvember! Lindsay takes us through her journey to realizing the importance of the word "no" and shares tangible tips on how to do so in our own lives. Tune in to gain insight, awareness, and action!
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| Em & Jen Explain Enmeshment | 15 Nov 2021 | 00:40:41 | |
Today on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen explain what enmeshment is. You might have heard similar terms used like codependency or fusion, as they can look incredibly similar. They go into what enmeshed relationships look like in families, in romantic partnerships, and even at work. Enmeshment and boundaries go hand in hand, and Emmalee and Jen walk us through how to start setting specific boundaries within enmeshed relationships and how to create consciousness around it.
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| Your Burning Boundary Questions Answered | 08 Nov 2021 | 00:50:56 | |
Q & A part two! This week on ShrinkChicks, Emmalee and Jen continue to answer your questions, this time about setting boundaries in relationships and at work. Em and Jen give their insight about guilt trips and the functions behind them, highly critical parents, how to continue to set boundaries when receiving pushback, what to do when a loved one is in a bad relationship, anxiety regarding leaving a job, tying worth to our career path, and so much more!
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