This episode delves into the challenges and benefits of effective delegation, particularly for those who struggle with letting go of control and the fear of entrusting tasks to others. Somer and Michelle share their personal experiences and discuss what changed their perspectives on "sharing the load." They also have a big announcement for our podcast community and an invitation to the Summer Challenge—something they never had on their radar for SWHW... but God. This is an episode that will leave you encouraged and excited.

00:00 Welcome and BIG Announcement
03:15 Last Episode Before the Break: Join Us on Patreon!
06:22 Delegation: The Key to Leadership and Capacity
18:06 The Power of Delegation and Trust in God
19:37 The Importance of Responsibility and Growth
21:03 Personal Delegation: A Strategy for Success
22:15 Personal Insights from Learning WHY To Delegate
25:18 Investing in Others Through Delegation
26:55 The Challenge of Delegation and Personal Growth

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In this episode Somer welcomes SWHW teammate and friend, Callie Holland, as they talk about what it feels like to wonder if you're "too much." They both share personal experiences and lessons learned, eventually getting to the root of the issue with scripture.

02:28 Navigating the Complexities of Ambition and Identity
05:43 The Challenge of Leadership
07:58 Embracing Our True Identity in Christ
11:05 Exploring the Power and Presence of the Holy Spirit
19:11 The Role of the Holy Spirit in Overcoming Insecurity
22:08 Battling Spiritual Warfare and Embracing Your 'Too Muchness'
22:42 The Power of Prayer and Vulnerability in Leadership
27:43 Peter's Journey: From Insecurity to the Rock of the Church
31:11 Inviting the Holy Spirit into Every Aspect of Life
32:10 Closing Thoughts and Invitation to the Community

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This is a FUN one. Michelle and Somer do their best to encourage you to find and build in hobbies... and they do a pretty convincing job. Need your affections stirred for the Lord? This conversation might be just the one you need!

02:40 A Case For Hobbies
02:52 Our Favorites 
06:13 The Intersection of Hobbies and Work
07:35 The Spiritual Significance of Hobbies
09:33 Hobbies as a Means of Connection
13:37 The Role of Hobbies in Evangelism
17:41 Building Hobbies into Daily Life
23:24 Letting the Gospel Shape Your Imagination
25:06 The Intersection of Hobbies and Spirituality
29:57 Defining Fun for Yourself
35:54 Your Kids' Hobbies
38:29 Praying for Hobbies

This week Somer and Michelle talk through a conversation they were able to have when they spoke together at a conference a few weeks back. They were addressing a group of female ministry leaders and reminding them that they are needed, they need others, and all of us need boundaries. Find out which one is harder for you, needing others or being needed, and listen in as we remind you what the gospel definition of boundaries is!

02:55 The Importance of Community
03:41 I Need You You Need Me We Need Boundaries Introduced
04:42 Exploring the Concept of Boundaries
15:53 The Danger of Self-Deprecation and Pride
21:03 The Role of Faith in Relationships
22:45 The Danger of Misplaced Dependence
23:50 The Importance of Processing with God First
25:09 The Role of Prayer in Processing
26:53 Understanding Mutual Submission vs Codependency
32:23 The Importance of Unity in the Body of Believers
34:05 The New John 17 Challenge
38:52 The Power of Prayer in Setting Boundaries


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Somer and Michelle have a little book club meet-up to chat through a book that they both, YES WE SAID BOTH, really enjoyed. Tyler Staton's book, 'Praying Like Monks, Living Like Fools' is one of the most powerful books on prayer that they have ever read! And good news for you... on this episode they're going to give you a synopsis + a few of their big takeaways with the hopes that you will go pick it up and let it change your prayer life too.

00:51 Overview of the Book
03:07 The Impact of the Book and Their Personal Reflections
05:48 The Power of Prayer
06:06 The Importance of Practice in Prayer
08:36 Sharing Top Takeaways from the Book
17:36 Finding Comfort in Prayer
18:23 The Power of Silence and Solitude
19:39 Conversations with God
20:19 Overcoming Distractions for a Richer Prayer Life
22:47 Dealing with Internal Noise and Clutter
26:01 Breaking Attachments to the World for True Love
33:21 The Vital Role of Prayer in Our Lives

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In this episode, Somer has an honest conversation directed towards the 20 and 30 somethings but really, for all of us, with one of her good friends, Callie Holland. They cover the pressure you feel to have life figured out, the issue of loneliness, the need for connection, what the real hold up is on pursuing discipleship, and how those of us no longer in our 20's and 30's can step up and begin investing in these younger women. They also recap the Super Bowl Half Time show and why Usher > Rihanna sooo yeah, it's a pretty good one. 

01:04 Welcome + If You Had A Doctorate What Would It Be In 
07:40 The Impact of the Younger Generation
09:56 The Power of Failure and Learning
11:57 The Importance of Pursuing God's Will
21:29 The Role of Mentorship and Discipleship
23:22 The Power of God's Word
24:54 The Importance of Community
25:11 The Dangers of Fake Connection
25:38 The Loneliness Epidemic
26:37 The Role of the Local Church
30:24 The Importance of Serving
33:07 The Power of Prayer
35:16 The Super Bowl Recap

Michelle and Somer follow up last week's conversation with Dara LaPorta by talking through their own experiences creating sweet atmospheres at home. If you've ever wanted a little extra motivation to make your home a hub of laughter and peace, today's episode is for you!

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In this episode, Somer chats with one of our favorites, Dara LaPorta, a She Works His Way OG from way back. Dive into Dara's world as she joyfully navigates the chaos as a mom of four with one foot in the health and fitness world and another leading in women's ministry. Dara gives us her take on creating a cozy family vibe, and why she swears by intentional peace and chill family rhythms. Tune in for these nuggets of wisdom on slowing down, being intentional, and finding a relaxed rhythm in our crazy fast world.

00:33 Getting to Know Dara
01:04 Dara's Family and Career
05:06 The Importance of A Sweet Home Atmosphere
06:00 The Role of Mothers in Setting Home Atmosphere
13:34 Juggling Attention With Multiple Children
17:49 Answering the Call
23:03 Cultivating a Rhythm of Rest
27:26 The Power of Apology
33:10 Conclusion: The Journey of Motherhood

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Michelle and Somer talk about what it feels like for things not to go the way you hoped they would, and how to see the beauty in God's plan even when it's hard.

03:00 The Struggle with Unfulfilled Dreams and Hopes
05:00 The Book of Ecclesiastes and its Lessons
07:21 The Inspiring Story of Ruth
10:22 Our Experiences with Unfulfilled Hopes and Dreams
14:54 It's Okay To Ask God Why
15:50 Dealing with Disappointment and Finding Purpose
17:20 Finding Joy in the Presence of God
18:54 Drawing Closer to God through Trials
21:31 Finding Fullness in Christ
22:01 Embracing Unfulfilled Hopes and Dreams
23:00 Developing Patience in Waiting for God's Promises
25:47 Living a Fulfilled Life through the Holy Spirit
32:27 Finding Goodness in God's Surprises

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In this episode, Michelle chats with one of her favorite authors, Jordan Raynor, and together they discuss the upcoming release of his newest book, 'The Sacredness of Secular Work'.

01:24 Joy and Excitement in Faith and Work
03:00 The Intersection of Ministry and Marketplace
04:03 The Sacredness of Secular Work
05:17 The Concept of Anti-Bucket List
05:46 The Eternal Perspective of Work
18:21 Scratching Off Glimpses of the Kingdom
23:01 Practical Ways to Make Disciples

With millions of Americans struggling with their mental health, it's safe to say that JOY could be a game changer for a lot of us. In this conversation Somer and Michelle, mostly Michelle because SHE WROTE A NEW COMMENTARY, discuss the value in practicing and pursuing joy using the book of Philippians and the example of Paul as their anchoring truth on the matter. Whether you are struggling with joy or you are close to someone who is, this is a convo you'll want in on!

04:50 The Importance of Joy and Endurance
05:09 Unveiling the New Commentary on Philippians
05:39 The Joy Factor: A Deep Dive
12:51 The Struggle for Joy and the Power of Practice
15:37 Joy in Salvation and Sharing the Gospel
17:27 The Challenge of Being Joyful and Critical
23:39 The Role of Faith in Cultivating Joy
26:40 The Power of Decision in Cultivating Joy
27:47 The Joy in Sacrifice and Hard Work
31:45 The Importance of Community in Achieving Joy
34:13 The Role of Joy in Christian Witness

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In this episode Somer's husband, Kent, joins her for a talk we usually leave the men out of. Today we're kicking off Season 2 of The SWHW Podcast talking about the same thing EVERYBODY is talking about... our bodies. With insights from a Pastor and 'girl dad', they explore how cultural pressures can distort our perceptions of our bodies and undermine our self-esteem, hindering us from being able to live fully on mission for God. 

00:01 Introduction and Welcome to Season Two
01:13 Introducing the Topic
01:44 Trigger Warning for those with Eating Disorders
02:29 The New Year and Fitness Resolutions
04:14 The Impact of Kent and Somer's Sabbatical on their Physical Health
17:31 The Connection Between Physical and Spiritual Health
18:58 Dealing with Body Image Issues in a Family Setting
21:18 The Role of Scripture in Shaping Perspective
22:07 Navigating Body Image and Insecurity
25:19 The Role of Spiritual Health in Addressing Body Image Issues
32:55 The Importance of Taking Care of the Body as a Form of Worship
36:20 The Importance of Prioritizing Spiritual Health Over Physical Appearance
42:03 The Importance of Glorifying God with How We Treat and See Our Body

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• the risks of defaulting to parent out of motivations other than hope
• laying the foundation for the teen years in childhood years
• biggest challenges + opportunities in raising teens today
• the reminder that it's never too late to parent (or grandparent!) out of hope

Holiday Movie Showdown: Celebrating Christmas Classics & Hidden Gems

In one of your favorite episodes each year, Somer and Michelle countdown their all time favorite Christmas movies (and a few of their not so favorites). Let them put together your Christmas movie playlist for this holiday season while you focus on the other 11 billion Christmas tasks on your list! Grab your peppermint mocha and let's goooo.

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00:52 Christmas Movie Time: The Excitement Begins
01:10 The Christmas Movie Showdown: The Preparation
03:48 Is Die Hard a Christmas movie?
07:03 The Christmas Movie Dishonorable Mentions
13:05 The Christmas Movie Countdown Begins
26:39 Discussing Favorite Movie Soundtracks
27:41 The Grinch vs. The Grinch
27:52 Feel-Good Christmas Movies
28:35 Introducing Lesser-Known Christmas Movies
31:11 Nostalgic Christmas Movies
34:58 Unconventional Christmas Movies
41:14 Classic Christmas Movies
47:53 Wrapping Up the Discussion and Wishing Merry Christmas

•  best practices to plan for rest
•  how to prioritize rest when you and your spouse rest differently and/or you have young kids
• defining rest for yourself (because rest is personal!)

01:11 The Importance of Taking Time Off
02:22 Theological Foundation of Rest
04:31 The Practice of Sabbath
06:16 The Significance of Rest in Creation
07:22 The Struggle of Taking Time Off
09:16 Planning for Time Off
17:15 The Importance of Rest for Productivity
20:51 Patience and Slowing Down
21:43 Preparing for a Sabbatical
22:33 Communicating Rest to Your Kids
24:19 Rest is Personal
27:12 The Delight in Rest
27:18 Resting Differently in Marriage
29:25 The Rhythm of Rest
30:08 Communicating Your Rest
33:08 Planning for Rest
37:48 Gratitude and Closing Remarks

• the difference between genuine generosity and pressure-driven obligation
• guilt-free missing out 
• practical tips for protecting your joy 

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Ready to laugh and cringe? In honor of kicking off the holiday season, Somer + Michelle are re-living their best + worst Thanksgiving memories, plus doing a little this or that Thanksgiving style. Whether you love Thanksgiving or you're a bit a turkey Scrooge (like a certain co-host to be revealed in the episode), we've got something for you.

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• releasing yourself from the pressure of trying to build confidence the world's way 
• helpful ways (and not-so helpful ways!) to talk about confidence to the next generation 
• where your confidence belongs 

• what elicits your confidence + what exposes your insecurity 
• the root of your confidence 
• how other people's perceptions affect your confidence 

• TWO very special birthdays we're celebrating
• what our perspective on human limits ultimately reveals about our trust in God
• how an abundance mindset without Christ is still scarcity 
• the throw back MTV show Rich Kids Of Beverly Hills
• lack, comparison + fear vs. peace, joy + contentment (and a whole lot more!)

• why parents should ultimately be the biggest encouragers for our kids to "leave and cleave" to their spouse + how to do it
• the beauty of God's faithfulness to grow your marriage while watching your kids fall in love 
• how she felt when she met their husbands, THE DRESS, a wedding day haircut, Rockefeller Center proposals, and other moments that make her internal highlight reel...

In this live recording from a conference Somer spoke at earlier this year on the topic of Soul Care, she uses the example of Jesus withdrawing from the crowds to help us understand how we need to sometimes eliminate the external noise so that we can give attention to our souls. If you feel tired, burnt out, or on the verge of either of those, you might want to listen in!

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This episode, inspired by one of our Patreon Besties, delves into the often times confusing emotions we encounter when we want to know if it's time to walk away from something. In part 2 of How To Know If It's Time To Quit, Somer and Michelle talk through the signs and symptoms that they've often felt when it was the Lord leading them to quit, rather than their own wants or desires. This episode puts the 'explanation point' on the entire conversation and we hope leaves you with clear indicators that help you to identify or at least intentionally listen for the voice of God.

00:00 Recognizing the Signs
03:50 A Sign of Divine Stirring
11:54 The Power of Prayer + Community
15:06 Emotional Signals
19:09 The Fruit of the Spirit
21:36 The Gift of Restlessness
28:06 Seeking Clarity and Direction

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• responding to the gospel in your circumstances instead of simply responding to your circumstances
• why "you deserve this" language is so spiritually unhealthy 
• how to know if you're fighting the right battles   
• Scriptures referenced:
  • 2 Timothy 2:1-7
  • Dig more into 2 Timothy with us in our newest commentary.

This week's episode continues the conversation Michelle + Somer started last week, this time focusing on:

- redefining big things
- how obedience produces endurance and disobedience results in exhaustion
- why burden is a better motivator than ambition

The SWHW podcast is fueled by the generosity of amazing women like you! Thank you for allowing us to extend this crucial dialogue on how to prioritize what truly matters in today's fast-paced world to women who are desperate for hope only found in Jesus. We're deeply grateful for your role in making this transformative mission possible. If you're ready to join hands with us on this incredible journey, you can make a donation here. Thank you for helping make this ministry possible!

In this week's episode, join Somer + Michelle for a conversation about:

- redefining small things
- how to know if you're comfortable or content
- real life examples of "small things" that in hind sight were big things

Our podcast thrives on the unwavering support of amazing women like you. Your generous contributions fuel this vital conversation about navigating the complexities of doing what matters in a world that values simply getting things done. Thank you for making this ministry a reality for the women already gathered here + providing hope for those yet to come. If you're moved to unite with us in this mission, you can make a donation here. Thank you for supporting what God is doing here!

• distinguishing between guilt and conviction (this is key!)
• truths to combat persistent doubts + guilt that creeps in 
• practical tips to confront mom guilt when it hits 

Remember, the SWHW podcast thrives thanks to your support. Your contributions play a vital role in fostering this essential dialogue about prioritizing doing what matters most in a world that emphasizes getting things done. By donating, you help us provide resources to local churches, extend support to individual women in need, and help sustain this impactful ministry. If you're moved to link arms with us and drive this mission forward, you can make a donation here. (No amount is too small!)

• how Jesus turned curiosity of others into gospel opportunities (and how to do the same!)
• loving people without desiring their approval
• how to have the tough gospel-conversations with co-workers
• staying focused on what people believe more than how people behave

We also brought back one of your favorite segments: Keep It/Toss It!

• Michelle's Keep It: ReShoeVn8er
• Somer's Keep It: Lip Mask 

Michelle's book recommendation: A Meal with Jesus

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• 1) It's our first ever LIVE podcast recording with our amazing network present! (To be there for next month's LIVE podcast recording, join the network here!)
•  2) Michelle + Somer start a conversation that's super close to the heart of this ministry, on co-vocational work, including:
  • what to do when you feel the tension between what God's calling you to do and what the world expects from you
  • being called to multiple places with one mission simplifies more than it complicates
  • how we often compartmentalize the spiritual from the secular but God does not 
• As a reminder, the SWHW podcast is completely you-funded. Your generous donations help other women join this important conversation about how to do what matters in a get-things-done world. From helping us supply resources and support to local churches to ministering to individual women with needs we can meet, thank you for making this ministry possible. You can donate to link arms with us in this mission here. (Every amount helps!)

• using God's past faithfulness to increase your confidence
• relying on the Holy Spirit to make the same tasks (or people!) less draining
• avoiding jumping straight into "fixer" mode
• how exhausted you'll be if you keep shifting your hope

• how to read the Bible as a conversation God starts with us that we continue with one another 
• discerning the tone we should use in tough topics
• the importance of basing our relationship with one another on God's authority in our lives
• remembering the lost and fulfulling your ministry 

• it all boils down to practice 
• the way Jesus modeled making disciples 
• simple ways we can teach our kids to depend on God
• flying by the seat of your pants vs flying by the seat of the Holy Spirit    

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• the difference between peacekeeping and peacemaking 
• how to pursue peace when you desire justice
• practical ways to bring peace into our broken world

• Romans 5:1
• Matthew 5
• Colossians 1:19-20
• James 3:17

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124. This episode, inspired by one of our Patreon Besties, delves into the often times confusing emotions we encounter when we want to know if we need to quit something. Somer and Michelle give you part 1 this week which talks through the signs and symptoms that they've often felt when it was their flesh that was pushing them towards quitting. This conversation serves as a bit of a guide in helping you recognize when your impulse to quit is a selfish reflex versus a God-led command.

01:25 Exploring Personal Responses to Quitting
04:24 The Signs of When to Quit: Boredom and Discontentment
12:47 Quitting When It's Hard
16:33 Confronting Rebellion and Avoidance
23:38 Evaluating the Urge to Quit
24:12 When Quitting is the Right Choice

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• a spot on definition for gossip you may have never heard
• gossip in the church and what it really does to the Bride of Christ 
• gossip masked as "seeking counsel" 
• raising kids who won't gossip 
• gossip in marriage 

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• links between performing, pretending and people pleasing 
• how to avoid reinforcing performing to our kids 
• why loving Jesus most and knowing God more is the only way to end performance tendencies
• Accountability is key when it comes to checking your motives, and that's one of the main reasons why we love bringing new women into our 5-month High Level Mastermind we mentioned in this episode. If you're interested in one of the remaining spots for the fall semester, view the details and sign up here. We can't wait to meet you!

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• why you shouldn't feel guilty for resting 
• busting the myth that not resting is noble
• differences between rest to engage and numbing to escape
• the unexpected interruption of identity issues for rest

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• Somer's fashion picks for her mother of the bride era + Michelle's comfort picks -- including athletic shorts that are actually the right length without awkward pockets
• permission to eat carbs...with your protein 
• a brief tangent to relive the summer Olympics of 1994, Limited Too + sparkly blue eyeshadow from Claire's

• We're also SUPER excited to announce the launch of our Amazon storefront! We used to be able to receive donations through Amazon Smile, but with that platform dissolving, we have a new way you can shop and support SWHW! Every time you shop one of the links from our storefront, you also make a small donation to SWHW. So grab a few of their favorites (that will also become your favorites!) and support the SWHW mission too.

• SHOP SWHW AMAZON STOREFRONT HERE.

• Refusing to be sad when what God calls us to is small + refusing to be scared when what God calls us to is big
• Public ministry vs. ministry to be seen 
• The critical role of accountability 

• 1 Corinthians 3:10-15
• Matthew 6

• Camp Ridgecrest for Boys
• Camp Crestridge for Girls
• Biltmore Church Adventure Week (Asheville, NC)
• South Shore Church VBS (Annapolis, MD)

• How we can't let weariness lead to neglect 
• The tragic impact our cell phone can have on our relationship 
• Proper self checkout etiquette (So Kent kind of goes off at the end in a special "I Disagree With" segment)

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle have an honest dialogue about materialism, including:
- how materialism reveals more about your heart than your possessions
- when the desire for more competes with your desire for God
- the link between materialism and anxiety

Scriptures referenced:
- Matthew 6:25-34
- Matthew 19:16-22

• water Fridays + city Saturdays
• a new learning rhythm that focuses on retention 
• exercising for FUN

• The Lion, the Witch + the Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis 
• The Last Thing He Told Me by Laura Dave
• The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah 

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• how conflict is one of God's tools to make you more like Jesus
• the reality that avoiding conflict only delays conflict
• considering both facts + feelings matters for conflict resolution

In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle pick up where they left off last week, discussing the lasts we encounter in motherhood. Some highlights of the convo include:
loving being a mom without idolizing motherhood/your kids
prioritizing the Lord + others as we walk through lasts
how lasts are another reminder that earth is just our temporary home

Scripture to study:
- Psalm 16
- James 4:13-15

In this episode, Somer and Michelle share some of their most valuable lessons learned from experiences working in corporate America and the marketplace before transitioning to ministry work. Coming from a variety of industries, including banking, retail, scientific research, fitness, network marketing, and pharmaceutical sales, they are sharing how each of their assignments have shaped them and prepared them for their current roles and reminding you how your current assignment is probably doing the same thing.

00:48 Diving Into Our Diverse Career Histories
05:05 Embracing Being Set Apart in the Workplace
10:58 Mentorship Doesn't Require a Formal Invitation
14:42 The Power of Little Things in Making a Big Impact
18:53 Embracing the Small Things in Life
19:07 Learning from the Fashion Industry: Counting the Cost
22:49 The Leap to Gym Ownership
26:04 The Power of Contentment: Beyond Financial Success
31:05 Leadership Insights: The Value of Collective Wisdom
35:37 Reflecting on Lessons Learned and the Impact of Leadership

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In this week's episode, Michelle and Somer get an early start on celebrating Mother's Day as they talk through navigating the firsts we encounter as moms, such as:
    •    the semi hot-take that over-preparation steals more joy from the moment than it actually prepares you 
    •    how the unknown gives us the opportunity for deeper dependence on the Lord
    •    the connection between firsts and God's faithfulness
    •    Bonus: Introducing a new segment - I Disagree With...

- If you're not a mom and debating listening or not, here's our heart that we shared in our book: 

"If you're a woman and a believer, changes are that whether you have biological children or not, you will someday take on (if you haven't already) a maternal role in someone else's life. Maybe a teenager from your church you're discipling, a niece or nephew, or a young woman at work who has a strained relationship with her own family. So when we talk about motherhood here, it is not to exclude women without children, but to acknowledge, first of all, one of the grearest areas of contention in a working woman's life -- being a mom who works -- and second, to speak to our womanhood in a way much of culture is afraid to, as if it is offensive or degrading that a woman is seen as a nurturing or mothering individual. We will not participate in that narrative here because much of what the world sees as a weakness, we see as a God-given strength, as do the people in your life who depend on you for love and nurturing. But the bottom line is: when you read our stories of parenting, I pray that whether you are a mother in the traditional sense or in the spiritual sense, these stories will encourage and connect with you."

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• how to prevent going simply through the motions of worship
• the practice of making God bigger than brokenness
• the benefits of both corporate and personal worship 

• why distraction can be dangerous (both practically + spiritually)
• how to identify what is distracting you
• when good things become distractions 
• what Matthew 6:33, Hebrews 12:1-2, Colossians 3:2 and Revelation 2:4-5 remind us about living distracted 

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• why it's hard to ask for help (and why that's no excuse)
• practical tips on asking for help from your husband + kids 
• when to ask for help (hint: before you need it)
• the only time it's NOT okay to ask for help

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