Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective – Details, episodes & analysis

SWM 146 - Legalistic vs Loving Approach to Marriage - Shifting from Rules to Relationship. Check out the blog post here for more details and links.

In my work as a marriage coach, I often see couples transition from one type of marriage to another. There’s no clear line between these states, no set of rules that definitively places someone in one category or the other. Yet, by observing how they handle conflict, express themselves, and interact in small ways, you can often tell which state their marriage is in.

A big part of my job as a coach is helping people shift from one type of marriage to another as most issues in marriage are resolved by doing so.

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Oct, Nov, Dec 2024 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.

In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:

• Talking about a lack of sex
• Not drive due to cancer treatments
• Wife doesn't want to use lube
• Our sex life is routine
• Strap-on to help with premature ejaculation
• Do husbands like handjobs?
• Can a married couple film themselves during sex?
• Is sex better on a full stomach?
• How do you start anal sex?

Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:

• SWM 002 - Getting rid of veto power in the bedroom (podcast)
• Sexual Frequency - Why I don't worry anymore (post)
• SWM 125 - Rethinking duty sex (podcast)
• Coaching (service)
• My wife wants me to tie her up?! (post)
• BDSM Survey Results (post)
• Some rough sex statistics (post)
• The art of edging (ebook)
• MarriedDance.com - Hollow strap-on (toy)
• Where did my sex drive go? (ebook)
• Do Christians make sex tapes?
• The way to her heart? Response to romantic cues is dependent on hunger state and dieting history: An fMRI pilot study (study)
• Ghrelin is related to lower brain reward activation during touch (study)
• Becoming More Sexually Engaged - for Christian Wives (webinar)

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June 2024 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.

In this episode, we are tackling the subjects:

• Wife thinks she has to be mean to our children
• Golden showers (again)
• Wife can’t decide if she loves me or not
• Just because you’re experienced, doesn’t mean you’re qualified

Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:

• SWM 029 - Fantasy affairs, anal sex, golden showers, work during sex and low drives
• BDSM Survey

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If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.

Thank you to all our faithful champions!

If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info.  Even $5/month makes a difference!

Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review.  They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage.  You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

July and August 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.

In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:

• How often do people's sex drives switch from low to high?
• How to squirt
• Wife is into whipping
• Anal sex tips
• Single and curious about erections
• Low drive wife is secretly masturbating every night
• Husband has a secret Facebook profile
• Porn addiction ruining relationships
• Wife said she could go months without sex
• Low drive husband with Asperger's Syndrome
• Sex is just another thing on my wife's checklist
• Oral sex not being reciprocated
• Husband engaging with women online

Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:

• Responsive vs Spontaneous Desire
• Women's Health Magazine - Make yourself squirt
• Boundaries In Marriage - Henry Cloud
• Covenant Eyes Web Filtering
• The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome
• 22 Thing a Woman Must Know if She Loves a Man with Asperger's Syndrome

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We lost a few supporters over the slow summer and due to fincial setbacks from a couple of our supporters, but we're gaining traction again.  We're 81% of the way to our next goal - weekly podcast episodes!

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July and August 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page.  Check out the show notes here for more details and links.

In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:

• How often do people's sex drives switch from low to high?
• How to squirt
• Wife is into whipping
• Anal sex tips
• Single and curious about erections
• Low drive wife is secretly masturbating every night
• Husband has a secret Facebook profile
• Porn addiction ruining relationships
• Wife said she could go months without sex
• Low drive husband with Asperger's Syndrome
• Sex is just another thing on my wife's checklist
• Oral sex not being reciprocated
• Husband engaging with women online

Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:

• Responsive vs Spontaneous Desire
• Women's Health Magazine - Make yourself squirt
• Boundaries In Marriage - Henry Cloud

This is a sermon I wrote and preached in my home church on Matthew 19:1-11 - Jesus responding to the Pharisees asking about divorce.

Check out the video here: https://youtu.be/XZCdnDSKO4U

Get the show notes / text of the sermon here: https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm042-god-will-never-leave-you/