Explore every episode of the podcast Sex Talk with Erika Miley
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| Do we know what women want? | Interview ft. Dr. Meredith Chivers | 15 Dec 2022 | 00:20:25 | |
Does research in sex tell us what women want when it comes to pleasure? Dr. Meredith Chivers shares her 20 years of research. Join me on Patreon: https://patreon.com/sextalkwitherikamiley Purchases made through some store links may provide some compensation to me. ► Video Gear: https://kit.co/erikamiley/video-kit ► Podcast Gear: https://kit.co/erikamiley/podcast-setup FOLLOW ME ______________________ Twitter: https://twitter.com/mrserikamiley | |||
| Getting deeper with money and relationships ft. Kate Dorman | 08 Dec 2022 | 00:31:04 | |
| Creating a Feminist Toy Shop ft Searah Deysach | 28 Apr 2022 | 00:39:15 | |
In this episode, we talk to Searah Deysach, a sex educator and the owner of the Early To Bed sex toys shop. With a mission to create a space where people could freely walk into the store, confidently get information, and purchase sex toys, Searah decided to launch her shop, which now celebrates it's 20-year anniversary. Click here for full show notes.
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| Romance, Sex, Betrayal, and Your Relationships with Sarah Shavitz | 03 Jul 2019 | 00:26:50 | |
Dr. Sarah Shavitz psychologist specialist in online couples and individual therapy in the area of love and relationships. If you want to know more about how the different types of love play out during the course of a relationship this episode is for you! Erika and Dr. Shavitz talk about how betrayal and sex sometimes impact relationships in unexpected ways, tune in for more!! Full show notes here. Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| How To Talk To Your Doctor About Medications And Sex ft. Dr. Stacy Greeter | 26 Jun 2019 | 00:16:01 | |
Stacy Greeter, MD gives some wonderful information about how to ask questions about the medications your doctor is suggesting. Erika and Dr. Greeter also talk about how to advocate for yourself and the power you have in creating health. If you are in the SW Florida area you can become a patient of Dr. Greeter. Full show notes here. Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| The Myth of Sex Addiction ft. Dr. David Ley | 20 Jun 2019 | 00:29:22 | |
Erika talks with David Ley, PhD author of The Myth of Sex Addiction and Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them. David goes into depth about how our beliefs and shame around sex have dictated our views about sex and addiction. Erika and David also explore how gaining insight around our sexual values can impact shame around sex generally. Full show notes here. Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Vasectomy | 12 Jun 2019 | 00:16:09 | |
Is permanent birth control for you? Do you know what a vasectomy is? In this episode Erika talks all about what a vasectomy is and the benefits of this type of birth control. Many men also talk about their concerns about sexual performance after a vasectomy, Erika addresses those concerns as well! Full show notes here. Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Women Must Have the Right to Choose | 06 Jun 2019 | 00:25:45 | |
First thing’s first this episode I am going to go into detail about women’s right to choose, that means abortion. This episode is not political, this episode is personal to me and the clients I serve. Just a heads up some folks are not wanting more information about abortion. That’s okay I’ll see ya next week. Full show notes here. Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| How to Clean Your Sex Toys | 31 May 2019 | 00:18:22 | |
Have you ever wondered how often to clean your sex toys? What about how to clean them, and with what?? It is an expansive landscape to figure out how to clean the items we use during sex. In this episode Erika tells you how to clean different types of toys. She also references a couple of articles that can be helpful determine what type of cleaners to consider. Full show notes here. Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Porn and Relationships | 23 May 2019 | 00:23:43 | |
Porn is often a reason couples of various configurations come to see a sex therapist. There is quick judgement as to why the person is using porn with many intense feelings that go with the judgement. This episode is an instruction manual to start the conversation about pornography and how our values around sex can be so varied. Full show notes here. Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Being a Mom and Having Great Sex | 16 May 2019 | 00:13:20 | |
Mother’s Day episode! As a mom Erika understands the level of stress and pressure mother’s endure on the regular. These are her tips on how to reduce stress and increase sexual desire. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/58 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Sexy News | 09 May 2019 | 00:11:32 | |
New segment alert! Erika will be doing a sexy news segment on the show regularly. This week the sexy news is the end to Aids is in sight with the ability to stop the transmission of HIV. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/57 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Cannabis and Sex exploration with the CannaSexual Ashley Manta | 02 May 2019 | 00:24:25 | |
There are many reports by many people, more specifically women experiencing greater arousal when smoking marijuana. In this episode Erika chats with Ashley Manta, sex educator and creator of CannaSexual. If you ever wanted to know how cannabis can impact your sex life this episode is for you. Erika also talks about the impact of cannabis for some people who have dealt with anxiety or PTSD. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/56 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Women and Kink ft Jennifer Rehor and Julia Schiffman | 21 Apr 2022 | 00:30:42 | |
In this episode, co-authors of Women and Kink, Jennifer Rehor and Julia Schiffman join us to talk about their book. | |||
| Gender 101 with Heather Eslien | 25 Apr 2019 | 00:28:39 | |
Ever wondered how to be an ally to a person trying to understand their gender identity? In this episode Erika talks with Heather Eslien who is a licensed mental health counselor and gender specialist. She has a private practice in Sarasota, Florida and she primarily works with the LGBTQ+ community. This episode will help you understand the nuances of gender identity! Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/55 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| All Things Babies and Sex | 18 Apr 2019 | 00:25:54 | |
Felt like you have struggles with getting intimate again after baby? Have fertility issues messed with your sex life? This episode is for you, Erika talks with return guest Ariel Shumaker about how becoming parents impacts your sex life from making them to post-partum. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/54 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Boundaries and Sex with Shane Birkel | 11 Apr 2019 | 00:22:55 | |
Have you ever struggled to create boundaries within your relationship? What about with sex? Erika and her guest Shane Birkel couples therapist, host of the podcast the Couples Therapist Couch talk about how to create boundaries. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/53 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Sex & Hygiene | 04 Apr 2019 | 00:15:07 | |
Learning to take care of your body before and after sex is a must do. Most of us did not get comprehensive sex education. Part of growing up and developing is learning how to take care of this body we are in. Erika talks about how to clean but also when to clean. She offers up tips you may not have considered but are a must add to your sexual routine by yourself or with partners. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/52 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Our Sexual Fantasies with Dr. Justin Lehmiller | 28 Mar 2019 | 00:26:16 | |
Ever wondered if your fantasies were like other people? Have you ever thought you were the only one with a specific sexual interest? Dr. Justin Lehmiller, research fellow at the Kinsey Institute and author of the blog Sex and Psychology as well as the book Tell Me What You Want, tells us all about his research on sexual fantasy. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/51 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Is There a Right Time to Start Having Sex? | 21 Mar 2019 | 00:20:43 | |
Episode 50 WHAT??!! Shout outs to the audience in this episode for the first year of Sex Talk with Erika Miley! First date? Second date? Third date? Wait till marriage? When is the right time to have sex with someone when you are building a relationship? Erika talks about what some of the statistics are saying about when we have that first sexual encounter. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/50 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Performance Anxiety in Women | 14 Mar 2019 | 00:17:32 | |
Have you ever got really anxious about trying to reach orgasm? Or every really focused on a specific body part rather than being focused on the experience? In this episode Erika addresses the issues that are unique to women and sexual performance and ways to combat it. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/49 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Oral Sex With Lorals | 06 Mar 2019 | 00:18:40 | |
Hate dental dams? Erika talks with Melanie Cristol Founder and CEO about their super cool product Lorals. It is disposable underwear that is super thin that supports the wearer to gain pleasure and reduce stress. This was a super fun conversation about closing the orgasm gap! Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/48 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Infertility and Sex | 28 Feb 2019 | 00:25:49 | |
The process of creating life is not always an easy one. Erika talks with Ariel Shumaker-Hammond Clinical Therapist and Photographer about the infertility journey and how it impacts couples and their intimate lives. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/47 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Avoiding Your Emotional Sh*t and how it Impacts Your Sex Life | 21 Feb 2019 | 00:16:44 | |
Just you and me for this episode. I want to talk about how avoiding your emotional shit, your baggage, the problems from your past, whatever you would like to call it impacts your sexual life. Your whole self is important, and we try and silo ourselves into compartments. Every piece of us is impacted when we are not identifying how we feel about ourselves. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/46 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Desire Archetypes ft Janel Vital | 14 Apr 2022 | 00:21:42 | |
Janel Vitale joins Erika to share about the different desire archetypes, how to know your category, and how it can help you fulfil your desires by finding the compatible match. Click here for full show notes. | |||
| Finding Your Feminine Fire with Amanda Testa | 14 Feb 2019 | 00:22:14 | |
Erika talks with Amanda Testa, a Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach who specializes in helping folks get in touch with their sexuality and femininity. They get down to business about how getting in touch with your sexuality can change your perspective and can offer you healing. Check out her podcast Find Your Feminine Fire and her Facebook group. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/45 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Butt Stuff 2.0 | 07 Feb 2019 | 00:13:18 | |
All things about the butt again! Erika’s first episode about butt stuff has been the most popular so far across the world. So it’s time again to visit the back door. Need information about where to begin about your own butt start with this episode. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/44 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Sex and Divorce | 31 Jan 2019 | 00:20:31 | |
Facing divorce? Erika talks with Leanne Townsend attorney and divorce coach about preparing for the divorce process and ways to reduce the pain of the divorce. Leanne offers a coaching program that can help you get through one of the toughest transitions of life. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/43 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Sex and Miscarriage | 24 Jan 2019 | 00:14:14 | |
When can you have sex after experiencing a miscarriage? Erika answers some of your questions about taking care of yourself after experiencing this major change emotionally and physically. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/42 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Living With An STI/STD With Katie Warren | 17 Jan 2019 | 00:33:42 | |
Culture is bad at handling anything that has to do with sex and shame. Erika talks with Katie Warren who has an STI. Katie talks about her experience with having an STI and how she processed the events after. This episode is full of information about STIs/STDs listen to learn more! Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/41 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Pornhub’s 2018 Year In Review | 10 Jan 2019 | 00:20:21 | |
Every year, Pornhub reviews the data it collects on every user that views porn on their site. Erika talks about the interesting trends their data collection reveals about our porn use and our sexual fantasies. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/40 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Gender, Sexual Orientation 101 With Adam Maurer | 03 Jan 2019 | 00:24:19 | |
Erika and Adam get right down to how to explore your gender and what arouses you in this episode. Adam talks about his own exploration and how he has helped his clients figure out who they are and how to express their needs sexually. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/39 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Sex & Medications revisited w/ Nick Goodwin, ARNP | 27 Dec 2018 | 00:25:38 | |
Have you had side effects from your anti-depressants in your sex life? This is the episode for you. Nick Goodwin and Erika talk about how medications can impact your sex life and options for you to try. Erika and Nick also dive into other non-medication options for treating mental health issues. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/38 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Relationships, Sex, & Money Workshops | 20 Dec 2018 | 00:11:40 | |
We will be offering relationship coaching groups!! Woohoo! To kick the coaching groups off we will be offering a FREE workshop both in person and online. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/37 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Relationship Killers Part 2- Criticism | 13 Dec 2018 | 00:12:10 | |
Part two of my series on relationship killers! Criticism is tough whether it is coming from a partner, a friend, or even a co-worker. Criticism typically focuses on a specific behavior and often has some polarizing language. Find out how to tackle criticism in your relationship in this episode. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/36 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| The Context of Pain ft Mistress Natalie King | 31 Mar 2022 | 00:27:20 | |
Mistress Natalie King reveals to Erika how BDSM is one of the greatest life hacks to help with mental, physical, and emotional well-being. Click here for full show notes. | |||
| Break-Ups With Lindsey Brock | 06 Dec 2018 | 00:23:42 | |
Break-up sex? Or have you ever had a break up that rocked your world? This is the episode for you! Erika and Lindsey talk about how to deal with a break-up, what we think about break up sex and more! Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/35 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| ADHD and Sex | 29 Nov 2018 | 00:27:37 | |
ADHD is tough! Erika talks with Brendan Mahan who is an ADHD consultant and coach about ways to deal with having ADHD and being intimate with your partner. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/34 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Sex Dolls or Intimate Partner Alternatives with Don Delano | 22 Nov 2018 | 00:29:57 | |
In this episode Erika talks with Don Delano who is the owner of Mon Amour Toujours which gives customers the ability to create their own personalized Intimate Partner Alternatives (IPA). Erika and Don talk about the pitfalls of his business and also how these IPA’s have helped his customers. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/33 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Relationship Killers | 15 Nov 2018 | 00:12:50 | |
In this episode Erika talks about what things we do to kill our relationships. Specifically, how contempt is the number one predictor of the end of a relationship. Erika gives you skills to tackle these relationship issues! Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/32 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Highly Sensitive People and Sex with Laura Zane | 08 Nov 2018 | 00:20:18 | |
In this episode Erika talks with fellow therapist Laura Zane about what being a highly sensitive person means and what it might mean for their intimate lives. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/31 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Creating Healthy Relationships From The Beginning With Dr. Maha | 01 Nov 2018 | 00:20:41 | |
In this episode Erika talks with Maha Nasrella-Babenko, PhD about creating relationships and ways to start with a good foundation. They also talked about how relationships do not have a bluebook or road map but there are things a new relationship can do to influence how it turns out. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/30 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Body image, perceptions of weight, and sex | 25 Oct 2018 | 00:19:36 | |
In this episode Erika talks about how negative thoughts about our bodies take us out of moments of pleasure and connection. Erika gives a concrete way to challenge those thoughts by using techniques to distance the thoughts from your identity. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/29 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Relationships, sex, & Men with Robert Kandell | 18 Oct 2018 | 00:20:12 | |
In this episode Erika talks with Robert Kandell, about relationships and how communication effects intimacy. More specifically how men can experience frustration in cultural messages about feelings and how they “should” express them. His book Unhidden comes out December 6, 2018! Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/28 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Virginity with Dr. Jaime Kennedy | 11 Oct 2018 | 00:37:20 | |
In this episode Erika talks with a longtime friend Jaime Kennedy, Ph.D about her research on virginity and how historically virginity has been used as a tool. Dr. Jaime brings wonderful information about how virginity or purity has historically been used as a propaganda tool. Listen to this week’s episode to find out how! Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/27 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Sexual Assault Part 1 | 04 Oct 2018 | 00:22:42 | |
In this episode Erika talks about sexual assault and where the angry posts on social media are coming from. Erika also references research on rates of false accusations of sexual assault. The information may surprise you. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/26 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| Season 5 Wrap Up Y’all! | 30 Dec 2021 | 00:13:38 | |
Erika wraps up this season and this year, 2021. | |||
| Billy Procida, Desire, and putting yourself out there | 27 Sep 2018 | 00:17:28 | |
Erika interviewed comedian Billy Procida about his podcast the Manwhore Podcast. Billy shared information about his most recent episode that featured his trip to Desire Resorts. See why Erika said listening to his episode was like ESPN after dark. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/25 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| STIs & DTSs and how to talk about them | 20 Sep 2018 | 00:14:51 | |
In this episode Erika talks about STIs and how to talk to our future and past partners about them. We often battle fear and shame around sex generally and especially around STIs. Erika teaches you to be able to talk about an STI in a real non-scary way. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/24 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||
| When Your Kids Find Your Sex Toys | 13 Sep 2018 | 00:15:08 | |
In this episode of Sex Talk with Erika Miley, Erika talks about confronts shame around your kids finding out you are a sexual person. Erika offers some tips on how to have these conversations and options to hide those sexual items. Full show notes: www.sextalkwitherika.com/23 Join my Patreon: www.sextalkwitherika.com/patreon My Therapy Practice: www.mentalandsexualhealth.com | |||