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These are real human stories. Guests share details of their personal lives and/or work to add emotional context to the confusing experience of attempting to relate to other human beings. The goal? To learn from and more deeply understand one another through exchanges of personal wisdom and experience.
The focus is always connection and intimacy in our modern world: relationships, dating, friendship, cultural “norms” and taboos. Conversations explore vulnerability, shame, desire, pleasure, celebration, creative bucket lists, fantasy play spaces, irresistible invitations and so much more. Listen and share to co-create the story-based, connection-first sex ed we never got—but will all definitely benefit from. Let's co-create the new horizon of personal education, together. Let's learn from each other & spread ripples of love.
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Rebecca is back! Celebrating her newly released book, Sexcapades, she shares Bookstore Boy updates, how writing helped her find closure, and what led to one of the most erotic experiences she’s ever had.
00:00 Book release, taboo territory, and closure.
10:06 Writing is hot and cathartic!
15:20 Toxic attachments, family drama, and a shocking connection.
33:49 Fetlife, taboo shame spirals, and secret sexy Christmas gifts.
45:52 A clandestine hotel meeting.
51:04 Intense impact, cum play, and self-imposed celibacy.
Scott returns! His poly and BDSM experiences have led him to explore deeper levels of self-care and connection in a new chapter of academia.
00:00 Unexpected depth of a kitchen table poly relationship and handling reintegration after deployments.
08:32 Applying BDSM scene negotiation techniques for comfort, cuddling, and receiving care as a Dom.
16:34 The importance of desire, self-advocacy, asking for what you need, and investing time in exploring receptive anal. 26:29 How discovering himself while having multiple long-term partnerships led to a transition—blowing up his relationship *on purpose.*
32:17 Experiencing casual dating for the first time in adulthood: dating apps vs. meeting people irl, plus wanting to curate romantic experiences for prospective partners.
39:43 How self-care and discovering personal needs goes hand-in-hand with nurturing others.
42:02 How kinksters are better at communication, everyone is kinky, and a dating experiment.
50:11 Exploring poly desires, deep casual intimacy, and changing needs.
📈 STATS | 36 bisexual cis dude, he/him pronouns, polyamorous, Gentleman Dom, works in emergency medicine overseas, Pacific Northwest-based
Susanne (47 heteroflexible cis femme) brings us up to speed on new ways of getting her to squirt, her explorations with more sensual sex when compared with the primal sex she usually has, and how she’s settling into sexual relaxation.
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197 | Casual Dating Enthusiast: Calinheart’s Sex Stories
Episode 197
Friday, December 2, 2022 • Duration 01:01:34
Calinheart (38 straight single w cis femme ) LOVES sex, is very horny, and is fine bopping around the casual dating world getting her needs met by different guys, and is definitely open to a non-monogamous relationship. She loves sharing sex stories with (trusted) coworkers, is wildly wet and is a squirter, and has great stories about losing her virginity, kinda twice (once *in* a lake, once with her boyfriend), and drenching her flip-flops with squirt while bending over a park picnic table. She’s always been boy crazy and recalls early “tingly” feelings, didn’t get much sex-ed or privacy-wise growing up, and tells how she didn’t start touching herself until after partners showed her/told her to—and she’s loved benefitting from the mentorship of more experienced lovers, has gone through some happy ho phases, and can cum from a makeout session under the right circumstances. Calinheart wants her clit played with, her g-spot stimulated, neck kissed, nipples rubbed, ass spanked, and hair pulling every time (please), loves finding her edges and pushing them with a trusted partner. There are sex stories of parking lot blowjobs, her being a very down-for-fun wingwoman, playing with a married man and his wife who loved watching, and reconnections with former lovers whose skill, care, and dirty talk aged well with time.
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196 | Seeing My Wife With Someone Else: Mickey’s Sex Stories
Episode 196
Friday, November 25, 2022 • Duration 01:23:46
Mickey (43 Irish-American heterosexual polyamorous cis male, married with four kids) had a good boy phase, a rock star phase, and is now in his 40s living a mostly shame-free existence, ready to explore his more recently recognized poly and kinky parts, while balancing 24-hour shifts as an EMT, and four kids—luckily, he and his wife are awesome communicators. He tells us when his wife’s inner tiger comes out, how hot it’s been to explore other people together, and how he’s learned that it’s okay to want stuff, sexually—and how he’s practicing noticing and making space for his desire, especially in social spheres where it’s “normal” for a couple to enter a platonic relationship along with parenthood (or at least, kinky proclivities are judged to varying degrees if shared). Mickey had a fantastic consent talk from his mom alongside his brothers, complete with condom practice and clear understandings of consent and enthusiastic yeses, and he reflects on how that led to a level of hyper vigilance on his own part, especially when witnessing his female friends getting treated poorly by his friends who didn’t get a thorough talk, paving the way for a long-term relationship with his first partner, and then when he moved to Austin to be a drummer and was opening for bands like Slayer, he had people throwing themselves at him, and became a self-described monster fuckboy. He talks about the car crash that was a wake-up call for him, how he met his wife long-distance and how hot it was to touch someone for the first time where there was already deep connection, what it’s like to look over seeing her blowing another dude, how working with a kink and poly friendly therapist has been super helpful, and all the sexy explorations on their horizon.
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Steph (24 she/her f pansexual switch) talks post-second baby sex, the details of re-learning what her body likes through foursomes with friends, exploring butt stuff, and enjoying watching her husband have sex with other people.
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195 | Makeouts, Fishnets & Lace: Nicole’s Sex Stories
Episode 195
Friday, November 18, 2022 • Duration 01:11:52
Nicole (46 w bisexual midwestern mom of three who has *no* relationship status, braving the dating world) is really horny, really really, and in-between stories of when she really started to feel womanly, what she’s dreaming of in a partner, what she’s done with her new titties and recent explorations as a first-time unicorn, and tells us of the disappointing casual trust breaches she’s finding in the dating world. Self-described as a woman with modern, old-fashioned values, she loves blowjobs, has some gag-related nervousness still, is open to exploring women more, and has a love/hate relationship with squirting, citing incidents of inconvenience. Nicole also tells us why she prefers physical touch to toys—except strap-ons (and by the end of the episode admits that butt plugs could very well be on the horizon), and she tells us of the anal explorations she’s already enjoyed. She reflects on navigating how to figure out talking about sex with her kids (who taught her and now Wyoh the term “throat goat”), explains just how receptive her pussy is, and shares favorites, like fishnets, lace, kissing, making out, being close, in the moment, nipples getting sucked til she comes, then she might drag ‘em across a leg for a blowjob—she’s great at details, and she’s as horny as she says.
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194 | Primal Demi Daddy Dom: Kemosabe’s Sex Stories
Episode 194
Friday, November 11, 2022 • Duration 59:13
“The more stress I can take away from her the sluttier she gets for me.” Kemosabe (33 straight Asian American Daddy Dom in a relationship of 3 years) grew up Catholic and never got a sex talk or lesson in consent, but he does remember late-night scramble porn in his pre-teen years, plus the first porn scene he saw, set at the beach, which kicked off his love of walking around naked outside, eventually with a boner. He remembers when masturbation explorations turned messy, shares about how hard he came with a partner the first time, and how simple handjobs can help him fall asleep. He enjoyed not committing to one lady in high school, but has always been a communicator and has been fueled by enjoyment of nurturing both partners and friends, and in his early adult years he moved to SoCal and started learning about sex beyond penetration, using mouths and hands to please his partners, learning from porn stars (he gives GREAT details at 00:21:25), and tells a great story about how his date’s friend walking in on them in the hotel room turned *awesome.* Kemosabe also shares about getting invited to a sex party at a local fet lounge, learning more about kink and BDSM, finding community in nakedness, sneaky public play—like hot under-the-table dinner fingerings that led to a popped trunk parking lot delight—and being the “practice material” for the teacher at a workshop on oral sex, and then he got invited to participate in a threesome on stage—and answer questions during it. He thinks it’s hot when his fiancée just takes what she wants, and when she gets cum-drunk, he can bite her and she’ll come again. She’s so into pain, so he loves offering her spanks, crops, clamps, plugs, dildos, playing with flashlights, getting tied up, and talks about the amazing community where they met—a kink group for Asian Americans he helped start.
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Hathor (36 cis F androsexual submissive) shares about finding a FetLife kink community, documenting her sexual submissive rope bunny adventures, and asking for orgasms from her dom during public play at parties.
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