Welcome to Sex, Bodies and Cinema—the podcast that boldly navigates the intersection of film, sexuality, and the human experience. Jason Goode and Ashley Rose do a dive deep into films that challenge the taboo surrounding bodies and desire. With backgrounds in film directing and acting, they channel their knowledge as practicing somatic sex educators to illuminate the narratives and themes behind each film they explore. Join them as they dissect a different movie each episode, unpacking its context, creators, and (eventually) its plot twists—all while sparking conversation about what it means to truly embody ourselves.
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Poor Things (2023): Embodiment, Pleasure, and the Dynamics of Power with Garland Jarmon
Season 1 · Episode 3
Saturday, November 30, 2024 • Duration 01:27:16
In this episode of Sex, Bodies, and Cinema, Jason and Ashley are joined by special guest Garland Jarmon, a sex and intimacy coach from Seattle, Washington, to dive into the surreal and provocative world of Yorgos Lanthimos’ Poor Things (2023). Starring Emma Stone, Mark Ruffalo, and Willem Dafoe, this bold film follows Bella Baxter’s extraordinary journey of self-discovery, autonomy, and embodiment after her unconventional resurrection by a brilliant yet unorthodox scientist.
Trigger Warning: This episode discusses themes of sexuality, autonomy, and body experimentation, which may be sensitive for some listeners.
Hosts
Jason Goode is Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings at somarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & intimacy coach who specializes in internal pelvic care. Visit her website at ashleyelisabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
Our guest is Garland Jarmon, a Sex and Intimacy Coach, based in Seattle. Visit his website at spiritualeros.com. Garland helps individuals explore their bodies and sexuality through somatic education, free from shame, guilt, and judgment.
Jason also offers The Authentic Intimacy Course as a follow up to the quiz, designed to help you bring clarity, confidence, and authenticity to your relationships. It’s only $59 and you can use promo code CINEMA25 to get 25% off. www.somarelating.ca
Topics Discussed
[00:17] Welcome and introductions. Exploring the intersection of sex, embodiment, and film. [01:05] Film overview: Poor Things as a tale of evolution, freedom, and self-discovery. [10:00] The use of lenses and cinematography to reflect Bella’s inner world. [24:45] Bella’s sexual awakening and the significance of “happiness.” [35:00] Experiments in Lisbon: Pleasure, freedom, and sensory discovery. [45:00] Bella’s loss of innocence in Alexandria: Seeing suffering and evil for the first time. [50:00] Paris and the brothel: Bella’s exploration of boundaries and consent. [56:45] Wisdom through experience: The impact of Madam Swinney’s teachings. [1:05:00] The return to London: Bella’s confrontation with Godwin, Felicity, and her past. [1:13:44] The confrontation with Alfie: Power, consent, and self-possession. [1:20:00] The ending: Bella as a triumphant, embodied figure stepping into her power.
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About the Podcast
Sex, Bodies, and Cinema explores films that tackle taboo subjects of sex, embodiment, and intimacy. Co-hosts Jason Goode and Ashley Rose bring their expertise in somatic sex education and filmmaking to spark thought-provoking conversations.
Produced by Jason Goode Editing and Mixing by Taqi Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/infraction/ultraviolet License code: D1XMKMHAULTCPFSC
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Bliss (1997): Sexual Trauma and the Path to Intimacy
Season 1 · Episode 2
Saturday, November 30, 2024 • Duration 01:04:43
In this episode of Sex, Bodies and Cinema, we explore Lance Young’s 1997 film, Bliss, starring Craig Sheffer, Sheryl Lee, and Terence Stamp. The story follows a married couple seeking therapy to address intimacy challenges, ultimately diving into themes of trauma, healing, and embodiment. With Terence Stamp’s enigmatic Balthazar as their guide, the couple confronts hidden parts of themselves and their relationship.
Trigger Warning: This film contains themes of sexual trauma. Please take care when listening to this episode and consider whether these topics may be difficult for you.
Hosts
Jason Goode is Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings at somarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & intimacy coach who specializes in internal pelvic care. Visit her website at ashleyelisabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
Jason also offers The Authentic Intimacy Course as a follow up to the quiz, designed to help you bring clarity, confidence, and authenticity to your relationships. It’s only $59 and you can use promo code CINEMA25 to get 25% off. More info at somarelating.ca
Sex, Bodies, and Cinema Introduction
Season 1 · Episode 1
Friday, November 29, 2024 • Duration 01:35
Welcome to Sex, Bodies and Cinema—the podcast that boldly navigates the intersection of film, sexuality, and the human experience. Jason Goode and Ashley Rose do a dive deep into films that challenge the taboo surrounding bodies and desire. With backgrounds in film directing and acting, they channel their knowledge as practicing somatic sex educators to illuminate the narratives and themes behind each film they explore. Join them as they dissect a different movie each episode, unpacking its context, creators, and (eventually) its plot twists—all while sparking conversation about what it means to truly embody ourselves.
Hosts
Jason Goode is Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings atsomarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & intimacy coach who specializes in internal pelvic care. Visit her website atashleylizabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
The Starling Girl (2023): Reclaiming Agency in the Shadow of Purity Culture
Season 1 · Episode 4
Saturday, December 7, 2024 • Duration 01:11:32
In this episode of Sex, Bodies, and Cinema, Jason and Ashley dive into Laurel Parmet’s The Starling Girl (2023), a coming-of-age drama about Jem Starling (played by Eliza Scanlen), a 17-year-old navigating her place in a repressive Christian fundamentalist community. The film takes a bold look at sexuality, autonomy, and the clash between religious doctrine and personal desires, especially when Jem becomes entangled in a secret relationship with her youth pastor, Owen (Louis Pullman).
Trigger Warning: This episode discusses themes of consent, sexual awakening, and spiritual repression that may be triggering or sensitive for some listeners.
Hosts:
Jason Goode is a Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings at somarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & intimacy coach who specializes in internal pelvic care. Visit her website at ashleyelisabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
Jason also offers The Authentic Intimacy Course as a follow up to the quiz, designed to help you bring clarity, confidence, and authenticity to your relationships.
It’s only $59 and you can use promo code to get 25% off. Go to:
An Education (2009): Desire, Deception, and the Hunger for Life with Jamie Lee Finch
Season 1 · Episode 10
Friday, January 31, 2025 • Duration 01:38:08
In this episode of Sex, Bodies, and Cinema, Jason and Ashley are joined by author and educator Jamie Lee Finch to explore An Education (2009), a coming-of-age drama directed by Lone Scherfig and written by Nick Hornby. The film, based on journalist Lynn Barber’s memoir, follows Jenny (Carey Mulligan), a bright schoolgirl in 1960s London, who becomes entangled with an older, charming con man, David (Peter Sarsgaard). As Jenny is swept into a sophisticated adult world, the film unpacks themes of power, agency, and the longing for freedom.
Trigger Warning: Discussions of grooming, age-gap relationships, societal expectations, and power imbalances.
Hosts
Jason Goode is a Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more at somarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & Intimacy Coach who specializes in internal pelvic care. Visit ashleyelisabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
Our guest for this episode is Jamie Lee Finch. Jamie is an author, educator, and bodyworker. She co-hosts the Experiential Anatomy podcast with Dr. Joan Chan and wrote You Are Your Own: A Reckoning with the Religious Trauma of Evangelical Christianity. Find her work at jamieleefinch.com and on Instagram @jamieleefinch.
Eyes Wide Shut (1999): Unmasking Desire in Relationships
Season 1 · Episode 9
Saturday, January 11, 2025 • Duration 01:24:23
In this episode of Sex, Bodies, and Cinema, Jason and Ashley dive deep into Stanley Kubrick’s provocative 1999 film Eyes Wide Shut, starring Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman. The film follows Dr. Bill Harford on a bizarre, night-long journey through the hidden worlds of desire and secrecy after his wife, Alice, shares her secret fantasy of another man. As Bill navigates his own sexual awakening, the couple’s relationship faces a crisis of trust, power, and unspoken truths.
Trigger Warning: Discussions of infidelity, power dynamics, sexual fantasies, and intense emotional distress.
Hosts
Jason Goode is Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings atsomarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & intimacy coach who specializes in internal pelvic care. Visit her website at ashleyelisabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
Jason also offers The Authentic Intimacy Course as a follow up to the quiz, designed to help you bring clarity, confidence, and authenticity to your relationships.
Y tu mamá también (2001): Sexuality Running Amok and the Road to Self-Discovery
Season 1 · Episode 8
Saturday, January 4, 2025 • Duration 01:23
In this episode of Sex, Bodies, and Cinema, Jason and Ashley dive into Alfonso Cuarón’s Y tu mamá también (2001), a provocative coming-of-age road trip film that follows two teenage boys, Julio (Gael García Bernal) and Tenoch (Diego Luna), who embark on a journey to the coast with a much older woman, Luisa (Maribel Verdú). Set against the backdrop of political upheaval in Mexico, the film explores themes of sexual exploration, power dynamics, and the complexities of youth, identity, and human connection.
Trigger Warning: This episode discusses themes of sexuality, power, immaturity, and the complexities of relationships that may be triggering or sensitive for some listeners.
Hosts:
Jason Goode is a Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings at somarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & intimacy coach who specializes in internal pelvic care. Visit her website atashleyelisabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
Jason also offers The Authentic Intimacy Course as a follow up to the quiz, designed to help you bring clarity, confidence, and authenticity to your relationships.
It’s only $59 and you can use promo code to get 25% off. Go to:
Take This Waltz (2011): The Dance of Desire and the Boundaries of Fidelity
Season 1 · Episode 7
Saturday, December 28, 2024 • Duration 01:16:29
In this episode of Sex, Bodies, and Cinema, Jason and Ashley dive into Sarah Polley’s Take This Waltz (2011), a poignant and emotional drama that explores the complexities of desire, fidelity, and the search for meaning in relationships. Starring Michelle Williams, Seth Rogen, Luke Kirby, and Sarah Silverman, the film follows Margot (Williams), a married woman who finds herself torn between her stable, familiar life with her husband Lou (Rogen) and the magnetic allure of Daniel (Kirby), an artist living across the street.
Trigger Warning: This episode discusses themes of emotional conflict, infidelity, and personal identity within relationships. Please take care when listening.
Hosts:
Jason Goode is a Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings at somarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & intimacy coach who specializes in internal pelvic care. Visit her website at ashleyelisabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
Jason also offers The Authentic Intimacy Course as a follow up to the quiz, designed to help you bring clarity, confidence, and authenticity to your relationships. It’s only $59 and you can use promo code to get 25% off. Go to:
Basic Instinct (1992): Exposing the Hidden Eroticism of the Classic Film Noir
Season 1 · Episode 6
Saturday, December 21, 2024 • Duration 01:27:52
In this episode, we dive deep into the 1992 erotic thriller Basic Instinct, directed by Paul Verhoeven and written by Joe Eszterhas. The film follows a troubled police detective, Nick Curran, as he investigates the brutal murder of a rock star that leads him into a complex, manipulative relationship with the seductive suspect, Catherine Tramell, played by Sharon Stone. With its provocative exploration of power, desire, and the blurred lines between control and submission, Basic Instinct challenges the boundaries of the erotic thriller genre. Through its iconic performances, Hitchcockian influences, and controversial moments, the film raises questions about manipulation, sexuality, and the cost of obsession.
Trigger Warning: This episode discusses themes of sexual manipulation, violence, consent, and power dynamics that may be triggering for some listeners.
Hosts:
Jason Goode is a Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings at somarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & Intimacy Coach specializing in internal pelvic care. Visit her website at ashleyelisabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
Jason also offers The Authentic Intimacy Course as a follow up to the quiz, designed to help you bring clarity, confidence, and authenticity to your relationships. It’s only $59 and you can use promo code to get 25% off. Go to:
Moonlight (2016): Vulnerability, Masculinity, and the Journey to Belong with Jeremy Crittenden
Season 1 · Episode 5
Saturday, December 14, 2024 • Duration 01:27:52
We dive into the 2016 masterpiece Moonlight, written and directed by Barry Jenkins, based on the play In Moonlight Black Boys Look Blue by Tarell Alvin McCraney. Moonlight explores the journey of a young African-American man, Chiron, as he navigates his identity, sexuality, and the complexities of growing up, with each chapter of his life portrayed by a different actor. The film is split into three parts: childhood, adolescence, and adulthood, each deeply exploring themes of self-acceptance, vulnerability, and the societal pressures surrounding masculinity.
Trigger Warning: This episode discusses themes of trauma, violence, homophobia, and identity struggles that may be triggering for some listeners.
Hosts:
Jason Goode is a Somatic Sex Educator and Somatic Performance Coach. Learn more about his work and offerings at somarelating.ca.
Ashley Rose is a Sexological Bodyworker & Intimacy Coach specializing in internal pelvic care. Visit her website at ashleyelisabethrose.ca for resources, workshops, and private coaching.
[0:00] Opening Thoughts: Reflecting on the film’s 90s marketing and its actual depth, tackling themes of love, vulnerability, and healing.
[15:30] The Role of Somatic Healing: How somatic approaches, like those portrayed in the film, can address sexual trauma and enhance relationships.
[28:45] Therapeutic Boundaries: Discussing ethical dilemmas in sexual healing, privacy, and client-therapist dynamics.
[35:10] Cultural Stigma Around Sexuality: Exploring the differences between society’s tolerance for violence versus sexuality in media, and the challenges this creates for films like Bliss.
[42:00] The Journey of Ecstasy and Embodiment: Unpacking quotes like, “Ecstasy heals the unconscious” and the portrayal of orgasm as a gateway to healing.
[51:00] Gender Dynamics and Power: Analyzing the film’s pivotal scene where Maria reclaims her power, and the complexities of consent and agency in relationships.
[1:02:00] Trauma in Relationships: How suppressed memories can surface during intimate connections, and the courage it takes to address these dynamics within partnerships.
[1:10:00] Narrative Power of Cinema: Discussing the unique ability of narrative films like Bliss to portray complex healing journeys, contrasting with educational content or documentaries.
Ending Violence Canada: A comprehensive directory of sexual assault centers, crisis lines, and support services. Visit Ending Violence Canada
Kids Help Phone: 24/7 confidential support for youth and adults. Call 1-800-668-6868 or text CONNECT to 686868. Visit Kids Help Phone
The Canadian Centre for Abuse Awareness: https://www.abusehurts.ca. This Canadian organization offers programs and services to prevent and heal abuse.
Ending Violence Association of British Columbia (EVA BC): https://endingviolence.org. EVA BC provides resources and support for survivors of sexual assault in British Columbia.
VictimLink BC: 1-800-563-0808. This is a toll-free, confidential, multilingual telephone service available across British Columbia and the Yukon 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It provides information and referral services to all victims of crime and immediate crisis support to victims of family and sexual violence.
United States
RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): Offers a 24/7 National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) and a live chat feature. Visit RAINN
National Domestic Violence Hotline: Provides support for abuse survivors. Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text START to 88788. Visit the Hotline
United Kingdom
SurvivorsUK: Support for male survivors of sexual abuse. Chat online or call 020 3598 3898. Visit SurvivorsUK
NSPCC (National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children): Support for children and families. Call 0808 800 5000. Visit NSPCC
Australia
1800RESPECT: 24/7 counseling for people impacted by sexual assault and domestic violence. Call 1800 737 732. Visit 1800RESPECT
International
1in6: Support for men and their loved ones who have experienced sexual abuse. Visit 1in6
Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma by Staci Haines
Online Communities and Support Groups:
Pandora’s Project: Online resources and forums for survivors of sexual violence. Visit Pandora's Project
After Silence: A forum for survivors to share their experiences in a supportive environment. Visit After Silence
About the Podcast
Sex, Bodies, and Cinema explores films that tackle taboo subjects of sex, embodiment, and intimacy. Co-hosts Jason Goode and Ashley Rose bring their expertise in somatic sex education and filmmaking to spark thought-provoking conversations.
Produced by Jason Goode Editing and Mixing by Taqi Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/infraction/ultraviolet License code: UJYTD91BKNNODTSA
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Shameless by Rev. Nadia Bolz-Weber Jason recommends this book as an insightful exploration of sexuality and spirituality. Learn more: Shameless by Rev. Nadia Bolz-Weber
The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: a foundational framework for understanding giving, receiving, and consent. Watch her videos on YouTube: Betty Martin's YouTube Channel
The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin: an excellent resource for those exploring their sexuality in more depth. It offers insight into how shame and repression, often rooted in religious or societal frameworks, affect our sexual development and self-awareness. Find it HERE: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/174777.The_Erotic_Mind
About the Podcast:
Sex, Bodies, and Cinema explores films that tackle taboo subjects related to sex, embodiment, and intimacy. Co-hosts Jason Goode and Ashley Rose bring their expertise in somatic sex education and filmmaking to spark thought-provoking discussions.
Produced by: Jason Goode Editing and Mixing by: Taqi Music from: #Uppbeat – "Ultraviolet" License code: D1XMKMHAULTCPFSC
Support the Podcast:
Please rate, review, and follow the show on your favorite podcast platform. Share with anyone who loves movies and meaningful discussions about sexuality and embodiment!
Jason also offers The Authentic Intimacy Course as a follow up to the quiz, designed to help you bring clarity, confidence, and authenticity to your relationships.
It’s only $59 and you can use promo code CINEMA25 to get 25% off.
[01:00] Introduction to An Education and its major themes [05:00] Jamie’s personal connection to the film and how it resonated with her coming-of-age journey [12:00] Carey Mulligan’s performance and Jenny’s balancing act between youth and maturity [20:00] The father-daughter dynamic and its post-WWII cultural backdrop [32:00] The seductive pull of sophistication and the illusion of agency in grooming dynamics [45:00] The role of music and cinematography in shaping the film’s emotional tone [52:00] How An Education challenges traditional coming-of-age narratives [01:05:00] The film’s conclusion and the deeper lessons about self-trust and autonomy
Sex, Bodies, and Cinema explores films that tackle themes of sex, embodiment, and intimacy. Co-hosts Jason Goode and Ashley Rose bring their expertise in somatic sex education and filmmaking to spark thought-provoking conversations.
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Topics Discussed
[01:00] Introduction to Eyes Wide Shut and the film's main premise
[02:00] Jason and Ashley’s personal history with the film and Stanley Kubrick’s filmmaking style
[06:00] The power dynamics in the opening scene between Bill and Alice
[15:00] Exploring the theme of masking and unmasking in the film’s cinematography
[25:00] The role of Christmas symbolism and its connection to alienation and the commercialization of life
[32:00] The pivotal moment where Alice shares her secret fantasy and how this triggers a crisis in Bill’s character
[45:00] The clinical yet erotic atmosphere of the secret society orgy and the power dynamics within
[56:00] Domino’s role as one of the few characters showing integrity and humanity
[01:03:00] The significance of the morgue scene and the emotional reckoning it triggers for Bill
[01:12:00] The final scene and Alice’s statement about being “awake,” unpacking its emotional and spiritual implications for Bill and Alice’s relationship
[01:20:00] Conclusion on the complex layers of desire, power, and relationships explored in Eyes Wide Shut
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About the Podcast
Sex, Bodies, and Cinema explores films that tackle taboo subjects of sex, embodiment, and intimacy. Co-hosts Jason Goode and Ashley Rose bring their expertise in somatic sex education and filmmaking to spark thought-provoking conversations.
Please rate, review, and follow the show on your favorite podcast platform. Share with anyone who loves movies and meaningful discussions about sexuality and embodiment!
[05:00] Jason and Ashley’s initial reactions to the film's blend of raw sexuality and political commentary. [12:00] The immaturity of Julio and Tenoch: how their sexual desires conflict with their moral compass and expectations. [18:30] The character of Luisa and her role as both a mentor and lover. [27:00] The road trip as a metaphor for self-discovery and the turbulence of adolescence. [35:00] The tension between freedom and consequence: How the boys’ reckless behavior ultimately shapes their paths. [45:00] Power dynamics in Y Tu Mamá También: how both characters and society struggle with power, control, and independence. [52:00] The film’s portrayal of Mexico—politically, socially, and culturally—and how it influences the characters’ journeys. [1:00:00] A deep dive into the final moments of the film, where the boys’ youth and inexperience clash with the realities of life and loss. [1:10:00] The wisdom and grace of Luisa: how her life choices and final moments provide clarity for the boys and viewers alike.
Sex, Bodies, and Cinema explores films that tackle taboo subjects related to sex, embodiment, and intimacy. Co-hosts Jason Goode and Ashley Rose bring their expertise in somatic sex education and filmmaking to spark thought-provoking discussions.
Produced by: Jason Goode Editing and Mixing by: Taqi Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/infraction/ultraviolet License code: JPNITEAE7YIQPBW8
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Please rate, review, and follow the show on your favorite podcast platform. Share it with anyone who loves movies and meaningful discussions about sexuality and embodiment!
[03:00] Ashley and Jason’s initial thoughts on the film’s portrayal of longing, dissatisfaction, and the emotional struggles of Margot and Lou.
[10:00] The role of Margot’s emotional needs and how she navigates her connection with Daniel in contrast to her relationship with Lou.
[17:30] Exploring the dynamics of love, routine, and passion within Margot and Lou’s marriage and the underlying themes of emotional suffocation and longing.
[25:00] The role of Daniel (Luke Kirby) in challenging Margot’s self-perception and her understanding of desire and intimacy.
[35:00] The importance of communication and emotional vulnerability in relationships—how misaligned desires and emotional needs can create tension and confusion.
[45:00] A deep dive into the film’s portrayal of the inner conflict that Margot experiences, and how her relationship with Daniel invites her to confront her personal desires.
[55:00] The film’s ending: Margot’s journey toward self-realization, emotional acceptance, and the inevitable gap between what we desire and what we can achieve in our relationships.
[1:05:00] A reflection on how Take This Waltz challenges romantic conventions and offers a deeper look at the complexities of modern love and desire.
Mating in Captivity- Esther Perel’s exploration of the tension between love and desire, this book helps couples address how to keep desire alive in long-term relationships and navigate the complexities of fidelity, intimacy, and attraction.
About the Podcast:
Sex, Bodies, and Cinema explores films that tackle taboo subjects related to sex, embodiment, and intimacy. Co-hosts Jason Goode and Ashley Rose bring their expertise in somatic sex education and filmmaking to spark thought-provoking discussions.
Produced by: Jason Goode Editing and Mixing by: Taqi Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/infraction/ultraviolet License code: Z4EEWFS5NCW8VM6H
[00:20] Introduction to Basic Instinct and the film's premise
[02:56] Ashley and Jason’s personal history with Basic Instinct and their initial impressions of the film
[05:00] Director Paul Verhoeven’s filmmaking style and his approach to subverting Hollywood tropes
[09:46] Michael Douglas's performance as Nick Curran and his portrayal of a flawed protagonist
[12:00] Sharon Stone’s rise to fame and her iconic portrayal of Catherine Trammell
[18:00] Exploring the power dynamics between Catherine and the male characters in the film
[24:35] The famous interrogation scene: power, control, and manipulation
[29:00] Female empowerment in Basic Instinct: Catherine as both a projection of male fantasy and a symbol of overt power
[34:00] Basic Instinct as a deconstruction of film noir and erotic thrillers, with references to Hitchcock and classic Hollywood
[40:00] Michael Douglas’ character, Nick, and his vulnerability in the face of Catherine’s control
[45:00] The controversial and complex dynamics surrounding Sharon Stone’s interrogation scene
[50:00] The juxtaposition of Catherine’s overt power and Beth’s covert manipulation
[56:00] Analyzing the Hitchcockian influences in the film’s cinematography, particularly the use of light and shadows
[1:00:00] The film’s exploration of control, dominance, and vulnerability within sexual relationships
[1:03:00] The ambiguity of the ending and the role of personal drives and societal projections
[1:04:00] The final thoughts on the film’s cultural commentary on sexuality, power, and the genre of erotic thrillers
[1:15:00] The lasting cultural impact of Basic Instinct and its role in shaping the erotic thriller genre
Additional Resources:
The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: a foundational framework for understanding giving, receiving, and consent. Watch her videos on YouTube: Betty Martin's YouTube Channel
Jack Morin’s The Erotic Mind: A book that explores the psychology of eroticism, which ties into the themes discussed in the episode about arousal, power, and inhibition. Find it HERE: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/174777.The_Erotic_Mind
About the Podcast
Sex, Bodies, and Cinema explores films that tackle taboo subjects of sex, embodiment, and intimacy. Co-hosts Jason Goode and Ashley Rose bring their expertise in somatic sex education and filmmaking to spark thought-provoking conversations.
Produced by: Jason Goode Editing and Mixing by: Taqi Music from #Uppbeat https://uppbeat.io/t/infraction/ultraviolet License code: DJUI2FMUPKUJOEPR
Support the Podcast
Please rate, review, and follow the show on your favorite podcast platform. Share with anyone who loves movies and meaningful discussions about sexuality and embodiment!
Jason also offers The Authentic Intimacy Course as a follow up to the quiz, designed to help you bring clarity, confidence, and authenticity to your relationships.
[00:00] – Introduction of the podcast, hosts, and the hidden relationship patterns quiz.
[02:39] – Opening Reaction to the Moonlight Trailer
[03:44] – Relationship to the film:hosts share their deep admiration for Moonlight and the empathy it generates.
[08:26] – Disclaimer on speaking to the African American experience: hosts acknowledge their position as white Canadians and direct listeners to voices discussing the African American experience.
[10:49] – Complexity of identity and class in the film: reflection on the film’s layers, including identity, class, and orientation.
[13:55] – Discussion of Chiron’s emotional isolation and the significance of the community around him.
[16:33] – Exploration of the use of classical music in the film, blending it with hip-hop influences.
[17:19] –Introduction of key characters, including Juan, Teresa, and Paula, and reflection on their performances.
[20:30] –Examination of the developing relationship between Chiron and Kevin, focused on care and tenderness.
[21:46] –Discussion of the absence of mentorship and the challenges of parenting amidst addiction.
[23:47]–The beach scene and vulnerability: discussion of Juan teaching Chiron how to navigate the challenges of life through the metaphor of the ocean.
[26:47] – Chiron’s vulnerability and masking: Chiron’s emotional armor and the societal pressures he faces to mask vulnerability.
[28:04] – Reflection on the absence of a mentor figure in Chiron's life and its impact.
33:39 – The role of scapegoating:introduction to René Girard’s concept of scapegoating and how it plays out in the film.
35:16 – Discussion of Chiron’s response to bullying and his journey into emotional isolation.
[37:47] –Chiron’s violent retaliation against his bully as a response to his inner turmoil.
[41:56] –Kevin and Chiron reconnect at the diner, and the vulnerability they share is explored.
[44:59] –Safety, healing, and vulnerability:the emotional safety Chiron finds with Kevin, contrasting with his earlier experiences.
[53:48] –Jeremy’s experience with code-switching:Jeremy shares his personal experience of navigating different identities for survival.
[59:25] –Scapegoating and social systems: discussion of how scapegoating operates in both personal and societal systems.
[1:08:58] –Reflection on Chiron’s transformation and the unmasking of his vulnerability.
[1:11:53] –Final thoughts on the film: the tenderness of the final scene, highlighting Chiron's desire to be seen and held.
Sex, Bodies, and Cinema explores films that tackle taboo subjects of sex, embodiment, and intimacy. Co-hosts Jason Goode and Ashley Rose bring their expertise in somatic sex education and filmmaking to spark thought-provoking conversations.
Produced by: Jason Goode Editing and Mixing by: Taqi Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/infraction/ultraviolet License code: 7RCLJN6MZPXYTYIK
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