Seeing Other People – Details, episodes & analysis

I’m joined by dating coach and author Sabrina Bendory to unpack the game-changing concept of detachment — a mindset that transformed her love life and coaching approach. We dive into the fear of ending up alone and how to move through it, what real confidence feels like, how to stop obsessing over texts or social media, break overthinking cycles, and advice for being the only single friend in your group.

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Fresh off a 20 mile run I reflect on how I finally feel like I’ve turned a corner in marathon training. Jake earned some serious credit in the Husband Duties department so I share why expressing gratitude for each other matters. We talk about what we wanted to be when we grew up compared to how many kids now want to be influencers and wrap with a new game called “Popstar or Ilana” where Jake has to guess if dramatic song lyrics are from real hit songs or pulled from my middle school notebooks.

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This week we’re recording from Jake’s childhood bedroom, which of course led us to wonder what 13-year-old Jake would think of his life now. We share our life updates, what we’re grateful for, how we started packing way too early, and how football season is going to affect when we see each other. Then we dive into fall date activities—everything from apple picking to haunted houses—and decide which ones we’d actually do and which we’re passing on.

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In this episode, a 30-year-old single veterinarian resident shares her challenges of dating while pursuing a demanding career in veterinary medicine. She discusses the complexities of maintaining relationships, setting boundaries, and the regional differences she observed in dating cultures as she's lived in three parts of the country throughout her medical journey. She also offers advice on moving frequently, forming new friendships, and maintaining old ones. Tune in to hear her candid insights and the valuable lessons she learned along the way.

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Today we're joined by Noam Raiter, a content creator, doctor, and host of You Are Not Too Busy podcast to discuss how she balances her demanding medical career with her relationship, friendships, and daily life. She shares her journey into medicine, the struggles of maintaining a social life, and how her relationship with her boyfriend Sam has thrived despite her busy schedule. Additionally, Noam offers insightful advice on solo traveling, maintaining personal independence in a relationship, and the importance of self-love and self-understanding in building successful relationships.

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So you're probably wondering why I'm in your feed today. I wanted to share my new favorite podcast, FML Talk. If you’ve been royally f%cked over in life, this is the place for you. Host Gabrielle Stone had the rug ripped out from underneath her not once, but twice, by the paws of shitty men. But instead of landing flat on her ass, she built a career out of it. Penning her best-selling tell-all, Eat, Pray, #FML was not enough; the fans demanded more tea, and thus, this very podcast was born. FML Talk has since become a safe place for you to commiserate, heal, have a (self-love) cocktail, and laugh your ass off, as Gabrielle welcomes incredible guests to share their perspective on love, sex, heartbreak, trauma, and getting the f%ck over it all. Your weekly dose of therapy — with f-bombs and no bullsh*t advice…you won’t want to miss a session!

If you like what you hear, subscribe and listen to FML Talk every Wednesday wherever you get your podcasts. Follow FML Talk on Instagram @fmltalkpodcast and Gabrielle @gabriellestone.

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In this week's solo episode, I’m catching you up on my life and answering listener questions about navigating societal and family pressures. I share an exciting and intimidating update, reflect on embracing stillness after a busy season, and talk about the pressure to “keep up” with milestones like marriage, babies, and houses. Later, I offer advice to a listener feeling stuck in her late twenties and share tips for handling family holiday questions about being single and thriving during the holiday season.

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Ken Reid returns to 'Seeing Other People' to discuss various pieces of dating advice. Together with we delve into the pros and cons of popular dating tips and phrases, offering different perspectives on what might work, what doesn't, and why context is crucial. Topics include the validity of statements like 'if they wanted to, they would,' 'the best way to get over someone is by getting under someone else,' and many more.

00:00 - 02:34 Welcome Back, Ken!

02:34 - 03:59 Debunking Popular Dating Advice

03:59 - 10:29 High Value Partner Debate

10:29 - 17:39 If He Wanted To, He Would

17:39 - 23:58 Finding Love When You Least Expect It

23:58 - 25:12 The Healing Power of Meeting New People

25:12 - 27:47 The Importance of Indifference in Breakups

27:47 - 30:38 Navigating Avoidant and Narcissistic Exes

30:38 - 35:05 The Numbers Game in Dating

35:05 - 37:39 The Myth of Loving Yourself First

37:39 - 45:52 When You Know, You Know: Debunked

45:52 - 47:31 Finding Dating Advice That Works for You

Want more dating advice? Check out this playlist filled with episodes and guests covering the dating advice you need to hear.

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In this episode, Avi from California opens up about his experience with cheating and the profound self-reflection journey that followed. He delves into the initial stages of his relationship, the lead-up to his infidelity, and the addiction-like behaviors that ensued. Avi candidly discusses the aftermath, the steps he took to understand and change his behavior, and how therapy and vulnerability played crucial roles. He offers insights and advice for both cheaters and those who have been cheated on, emphasizing the importance of empathy, self-awareness, and open communication in relationships.

We won’t cheat you on episodes about cheating! Check out this playlist with all the cheating stories you want to hear.

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Jackie Shames, friend and co-host of Fill Your Cup is back to chat all things confidence, learning from past relationships, and staying true to who you are. Jackie shares her experiences dating between Miami and New York, how the seasons have been impacting her dating life, and the challenges of balancing personal and professional life. We discuss the the New York influencer scene, friendship dynamics, and podcasting, and we live-text someone Jackie went on a date with.

00:00 - 09:30 Navigating Confidence and Dating

09:30 - 26:24 Unexpected Encounters

26:24 - 28:54 Reflecting on Closure and Moving On

28:54 - 29:49 The Importance of Detachment

29:49 - 31:25 Running Into an Ex-Fling

31:25 - 33:24 Finding Security in a New Relationship

33:24 - 36:26 Navigating Dating Patterns and Self-Sabotage

36:26 - 43:38 Balancing Personalities in Relationships

43:38 - 55:53 Influencer Culture and Personal Growth

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Treat yourself and your loved ones to spa-quality skincare essentials that deliver a moisture-rich glow. Use code seeingotherpeople for 15% off at oakessentials.com

Tackle your toughest days by microdosing with Schedule 35 and get 15% off with code SOP at schedule35.co 

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