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I'm joined by my friend, fashion designer and founder of Maison Des Nus, Balim Tezel. We talk about what it’s like to build a life from scratch—moving to the U.S. for college, creating a chosen family in NYC, and launching the brand she dreamed of since childhood. Balim shares what dating for the first time in her twenties taught her about herself and what she was looking for, how she unexpectedly met her boyfriend Vinnie, and how his steady support helped her navigate the isolation of being far from home, especially during the four years she couldn’t leave the U.S. while waiting for her green card. Follow Maison Des Nus @maisondesnus on IG & @maisondesnus on TikTok Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at⁠⁠ speakpipe.com/sop⁠ ALL links⁠ here⁠ (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at⁠ nutrafol.com⁠ promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at ⁠Quince.com/seeingotherpeople⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, we talk about the chaos of prepping for our move and how we’re handling all the changes together. We also get into Taylor's engagement, which reality TV shows we’d join (and why we’d be like if we were on The Bachelor), plus some marathon training updates. Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at⁠ speakpipe.com/sop ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at Quince.com/seeingotherpeople Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I went from hating running to completing my first half marathon and signing up for the NYC Marathon. On this episode I share my full running journey—injuries, mental battles, and everything in between. I cover how to start running without feeling overwhelmed, essential gear, pacing, nutrition, and staying motivated. Plus, I dive into why I actually love running, the sense of accomplishment it brings, and how it’s helped me unplug and find community along the way. Shop my running favorites here https://shopmy.us/shop/ilana?Section_id=136776&tab=collections Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at⁠ speakpipe.com/sop ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at Quince.com/seeingotherpeople Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Just because someone ghosted you doesn’t mean they’re a narcissist. Ilana is joined by licensed therapist Carla Litto, LMFT, to unpack what actually makes someone a narcissist, what doesn’t, and why the term is being thrown around so loosely. They also talk about how to recognize real narcissistic behavior in relationships, what to do if you’re in one, and how to heal after emotional manipulation or gaslighting. Grab a copy of Outsmarting Egomaniacs wherever books are sold and learn more at https://www.carlalittotherapy.com/ Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at⁠ speakpipe.com/sop ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at Quince.com/seeingotherpeople Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We announce a major life update, talk about how absurd the logistics of living in NYC are, and debate whether or not Ilana should start another new business. We also get into our favorite types of nights out (with each other, with friends, and with family), recap the funniest movie we’ve ever seen (no spoilers!), and complain about books that we hate and why it takes families forever to pick a movie.  Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at⁠⁠⁠⁠ speakpipe.com/sop⁠⁠⁠ ALL links⁠⁠⁠ here⁠⁠⁠ (dating coaching, profile revamp, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at⁠⁠⁠ nutrafol.com⁠⁠⁠ promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at ⁠⁠⁠Quince.com/seeingotherpeople⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this Unfiltered, an anonymous guest opens up about how body image struggles, weight gain, and health issues in her mid-to-late 20s held her back from enjoying life — and almost stopped her from celebrating her own wedding. From dreading engagement photos and dress shopping to nearly eloping, she shares the turning point that changed everything and how she finally embraced the love and celebration she deserves. Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at⁠ speakpipe.com/sop ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at Quince.com/seeingotherpeople Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What really happens after someone cheats—and is there ever a way back? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Monique Thompson, a licensed psychotherapist, bestselling author of the Infidelity Recovery Workbook for Couples. She reveals why “going back to the way it was” is never the goal, how to know if your discomfort is about your partner or your own unresolved past, and the science-backed number of minutes it actually takes to heal betrayal trauma (spoiler: it’s fewer than you think). Her no-nonsense, non-judgmental approach will completely change the way you think about cheating, trust, and what’s possible on the other side. Follow Dr. Monique on Instagram at @drmoniquethompson, learn more at drmoniquethompson.com, and grab her book Infidelity Recovery Workbook for Couples. Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at⁠ speakpipe.com/sop ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at Quince.com/seeingotherpeople Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Ilana's 31st birthday! We're recapping a fun filled week including the Jonas Brothers concert that broke the internet, way too much sushi, and Jake's first attempt at painting pottery. We share an exciting and nerve wracking life update, and Ilana gets emotional thinking about what her 13 year old self would think of her 31 year old self. Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at⁠⁠⁠ speakpipe.com/sop⁠⁠ ALL links⁠⁠ here⁠⁠ (dating coaching, profile revamp, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at⁠⁠ nutrafol.com⁠⁠ promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at ⁠⁠Quince.com/seeingotherpeople⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode of Unfiltered, Sagari takes us through her powerful transformation from a self-proclaimed serial monogamist stuck in toxic relationship patterns to someone confidently single and truly thriving. She opens up about her breakup horror stories (yes, including one during a Broadway intermission), what kept her in relationships she knew weren’t right, and how she finally healed and reconnected with herself. Sagari shares how learning to trust her gut—rather than following advice, checklists, or expectations—changed everything. Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at⁠ speakpipe.com/sop ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at Quince.com/seeingotherpeople Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, I’m joined by my run coach Victoria Sekely, DPT, for a candid conversation about living life on your own terms. We talk about the shocking way she met her husband, why she never wanted a traditional wedding, and her decision not to have kids. She shares how she navigates changing friendships as her friends become moms, finds fulfillment in other ways, and deals with people questioning her choices. We also get into letting go of grudges, protecting your peace, and the mental load of social media. Follow Victoria at @trainsmartrunstrong on IG, @trainsmartrunstrong on TT, and learn more at her website trainsmartrunstrong.com Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at⁠ speakpipe.com/sop ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at Quince.com/seeingotherpeople Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at⁠ speakpipe.com/sop ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at Quince.com/seeingotherpeople Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Cohosts for Life, we’re talking about how our relationship wouldn’t exist without the Jonas Brothers (seriously), and how they’ve been woven into so many of our favorite memories. We share whether we would’ve been open to dating someone with a fandom as intense as our own (JoBros & Jets), and Ilana gives her honest thoughts on Jake’s Jets obsession. Plus, a recap of a jam-packed week: Ilana hit the Jonas Brothers’ Today Show performance, we enjoyed a staycation at the gorgeous AKA Hotel in NoMad, and more. Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at⁠⁠ speakpipe.com/sop⁠ ALL links⁠ here⁠ (dating coaching, profile revamp, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at⁠ nutrafol.com⁠ promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at ⁠Quince.com/seeingotherpeople⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ilana sits down with Allie—an almost 30-year-old who’s never officially had a boyfriend despite years of dating in New York City. Allie opens up about the emotional complexity behind her dating experience, from living with anxiety to navigating body image struggles and self-doubt. They talk about the challenge of watching friends enter relationships while you’re still trying to “meet someone,” the pressure to keep putting yourself out there, and the importance of not judging yourself for where you are. ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

TW: This episode may be triggering to those with sensitivities around sexual abuse. Fresh off a blindsided breakup, Amy Richman dives right back into dating while processing what happened. We debate the idea of soulmates, whether “right person, wrong time” is real, and what romance in relationships truly looks like. She also opens up about how a difficult first sexual experience affected her for years — and how she finally learned to overcome the social anxiety tied to it and love and respect her body. ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ilana and Jake break down a whirlwind 10 days weeks that take them across four states, wrangling three dogs, surviving a six-hour quest for TikTok-famous pizza, and squeezing in a last minute night at the Comedy Cellar. Ilana tackles an unofficial half marathon, while the duo reflects on the agony of losing out on Gracie Abrams tickets, why it's okay that they often travel without each other, Jake’s sudden passion for deep cleaning, and Ilana’s potential breakup with red meat. Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at⁠ speakpipe.com/sop ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stock up on the best elevated essentials + get free shipping & 365 day returns at Quince.com/seeingotherpeople Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We’re told that once we find the right person—boyfriend, fiancé, husband—everything will fall into place. But when I got the relationship I always wanted, I realized it didn’t magically fix my insecurities, anxiety, or self-worth. In this episode, I’m opening up about what didn’t get better in my relationship and the surprising things that actually helped me feel more confident, grounded, and whole. If you’ve ever believed a relationship would be the solution, this one’s for you. ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Get 60% off the Magic Mind offer with our link and code https://magicmind.com/seeingmm & SEEING60 #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformance  Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Carli—friend and now 4x Unfiltered guest (you can catch her most recent episode linked below)—is back for a very real conversation about all the moments we ignore the red flags… until we can’t. We talk about brushing things under the rug, what it feels like to know something’s off but not be ready to walk away, and the pain of breaking up with someone you still love. We get into what it means when someone won’t define the relationship, how to spot the difference between compromising and settling, and the surprisingly wise lessons Carli teaches her young students that we could all stand to learn. Carli's previous episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2pkIT3qzFjS6BwR3MQ9wcP?si=fb54defaca914cb0 ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Get 60% off the Magic Mind offer with our link and code https://magicmind.com/seeingmm & SEEING60 #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformance  Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Cohosts for Life, we’re taking you behind the scenes of our relationship—not just the milestones you see on social media, but the ones that shaped us the most. We walk through the major (and not-so-major) moments that brought us closer, the surprising moments that felt bigger than expected, and missed moments where we almost didn’t end up together. We also recap Jake’s birthday celebrations and talk honestly about the hate and negativity that comes with sharing your life online.  Submit your questions or share why you and your partner are cohosts for life at speakpipe.com/sop ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Get 60% off the Magic Mind offer with our link and code https://magicmind.com/seeingmm & SEEING60 #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformance  Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When this week’s guest decided to freeze her eggs at 30, she thought she was biding her and her husband time. Instead, she was hit with the news that she had a diminished ovarian reserve and that getting pregnant would be far more difficult than expected. In this episode, she opens up about the rollercoaster of fertility treatments, the pressure women carry when it comes to family planning, and how it’s impacted her relationship. We talk about the conversations with friends that helped her feel less alone, the way her husband has shown up for her, and the quiet strength it takes to keep going when the path to motherhood isn’t what you imagined. ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Get 60% off the Magic Mind offer with our link and code https://magicmind.com/seeingmm & SEEING60 #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformance  Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Comedian Paul Schoenberg joins us today to get into why “nice guys” are often misunderstood, how texting culture has made rejection feel impersonal and confusing, and why so many people can’t recognize a red flag until they’re paying $2.99 a week just to text someone. We also talk about gluten, group chats, the emotional risk of being earnest, and why knowing what you want isn’t the hard part—finding someone who matches your energy is. ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Get 60% off the Magic Mind offer with our link and code https://magicmind.com/seeingmm & SEEING60 #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformance  Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Cohosts for Life, we’re diving deep into a tradition that’s become core to our relationship: the date list. We share how it started, why it’s surprisingly meaningful, and how it's helped us remember little memories that would've been lost to time. We also take a nostalgic walk through five years of Jake’s birthday celebrations — including what we did this past week. And, in true chaotic balance, we also cover: the ridiculous cost of trendy athleisure, why Ilana can’t throw out dried flowers, and Jake’s oddly specific fashion hot take. ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Get 60% off the Magic Mind offer with our link and code https://magicmind.com/seeingmm & SEEING60 #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformance  Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We’ve all got something we’re scared to talk about. Maybe you still live at home, haven’t had sex yet, just lost your job, or are quietly working through something painful. So many of us carry shame about parts of our lives we think others will judge, but the truth is, everyone’s going through something. In this solo episode, I’m talking about what it means to truly own your story. Not justify it. Not explain it away. Just own it. I’ll share examples, reframes, and reminders to help you feel more confident in the parts of your life that might feel complicated or hard to say out loud. This episode is your permission slip to stop hiding and start showing up exactly as you are. Donate to my Planned Parenthood Marathon Fundraiser at fundraisers.nyrr.org/ilana Download Fourplay Social to meet single friends with your single friends  ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Get 60% off the Magic Mind offer with our link and code https://magicmind.com/seeingmm & SEEING60 #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformance  Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Psychologist, relationship expert, and author Dr. Harry Cohen joins us to explain the power of being a “positive energizer,” what it really means to bring good energy into a room, and why it’s often the smallest things that make the biggest difference. We dive into how to show up better in your relationship, how to recover from mistakes without overprocessing, why most people give advice the wrong way, and what Dr. Cohen has learned from 45 years of marriage. Get Harry's book here ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeopleGo to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ilana’s back from a fun bachelorette weekend in Maine and shares her travel nightmares, while Jake recaps his boys weekend with Barkley. Ilana’s riding high from her best long run yet, while Jake’s stuck on the couch dealing with his calf injury. We dive into the viral street-side walking debate that has TikTok roasting Jake for his so-called lack of etiquette. We break down what actually counts as bare minimum vs princess treatment in relationships, debating location sharing, gender norms, what chivalry really means, and more. ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Get 60% off the Magic Mind offer with our link and code https://magicmind.com/seeingmm & SEEING60 #magicmind #mentalwealth #mentalperformance  Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When Waverly Colville signed a lease with a stranger named John Guilyard in the summer of 2020, she never imagined she was also meeting her future partner. Two years of friendship, late-night talks, and dancing around their feelings later, one kiss changed everything. In this episode, Waverly and John join us to share the real story of how they went from roommates to best friends to partners — and everything they learned along the way about timing, fear, and falling in love with someone who already knows the real you.Waverly's IGJohn's CartoonVersion 1 PodcastBusiness Insider Article ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeopleGo to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Breakups today aren’t just about letting go of a person — they’re about navigating texts, timelines, algorithmic reminders, and the pressure to "heal fast." Therapist and Lonely Hearts Club founder Lexi Joondeph-Breidbart joins Ilana to unpack what actually helps people move on, why we obsess over old messages, and how to know if it's time to unfollow, mute, or block your ex for good. @lonelyheartsclub_nyc www.lonelyheartsclubnyc.com https://www.wavypaththerapy.com/ ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the very first official episode of Cohosts for Life! Ilana kick things off by explaining why this series exists, what inspired it, and what you can expect moving forward. Then we attempt to reintroduce each other before diving into a Q&A for you guys to know Jake more. We walk you through what to expect each week, from Ilana’s marathon training to Jake’s calf injury, what we’re learning on TikTok, what we’re watching, and how we’re spending our time together. Whether you’re here for the relationship convos, the life updates, or just to feel like you’re hanging out with two married best friends, we’re so glad you’re here. fundraisers.nyrr.org/ilana ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, links, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this Unfiltered, a listener shares the hard truths she’s learned through dating, heartbreak, and situationships. From realizing you can’t force someone to like you, to learning that overcompromising and over-efforting doesn’t lead to love, she reflects on the patterns she’s finally ready to break. If you’ve ever asked yourself why didn’t they choose me?—this one’s for you. ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ryan Kenny, comedian and dater, joins me for a hilarious, honest convo on ghosting, dating app fatigue, and the awkwardness of putting yourself out there. We chat about exclusivity talks, bad sex with great people, and why women in friend groups are basically unapproachable. Follow Ryan @the_ryan_kenny and check out his upcoming show on July 8th in NYC! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this Unfiltered, a 39-year-old New Yorker opens up about dating a guy who was terrible for her, but ultimately changed her life for the better. Before, she was stuck in the “cool girl” role, hiding her needs and feeling constant anxiety. After this relationship led her to work with a relationship coach, she learned to be honest with herself and others and date without shame, leading to her now connecting with people who don’t trigger her fears. ALL links here (dating coaching, profile revamp, marathon fundraiser, and more!)  Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dana, a 31-year-old nurse, shares how her seemingly “on track” life slowly unraveled in a toxic marriage that took a toll on her mental and physical health, even causing heart palpitations. After facing manipulation, family drama, and feeling like a stranger in her own life, Dana hit rock bottom — but that moment became the start of her healing. She opens up about rediscovering herself through therapy, self-care, and leaning on her family, and how she’s now focused on rebuilding her independence and creating a life that actually feels good. Subscribe to our Patreon show Cohosts for Life for weekly bonus episodes from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly cares Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

n this solo episode, I’m catching you up on life lately—books I'm reading, finishing my half marathon, how I feel about content creation right now, and whether I ever miss being single. I’m also answering your questions on dating app upgrades, chemistry that’s missing, ghosting after three great dates, confusing “what are we” situations, and wedding drama with a very pregnant bridesmaid. It’s honest, a little messy, and very real. Subscribe to our Patreon show Cohosts for Life for weekly bonus episodes from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here RSVP here for my Meet Cute Masterclass with Louis Jadot on June 10th in NYC! If there are no spots left, email kobrand@coynepr.com to get on the waitlist! Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly cares Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Real world romance isn’t dead. It’s just been buried under algorithms and ghosting. That’s exactly why I partnered with Louis Jadot to host a Meet-Cute Master Class in NYC. In this episode, I’m sharing all of my best tips for creating your own meet-cute—how to start a conversation, feel more confident, spark something real without relying on the apps, and more. Pour a glass of Jadot and get inspired to make your next first move. Subscribe to our Patreon show Cohosts for Life for weekly bonus episodes from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly cares Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m joined by Han Huante, host of How I See It, for a vulnerable conversation about mental health, dating patterns, and the real (often messy) work of healing. We talk about how moving out of her comfort zone triggered depression and anxiety, how self-hatred shaped who she dated, and why being “real” with yourself is the first step toward real peace. Hannah opens up about choosing discomfort to find clarity, busts a few big healing myths, and shares why fear has been one of her greatest teachers. Check out How I See It on Spotify and follow @howhanseesit and @howiseeitpod on IG. Subscribe to our Patreon show Cohosts for Life for weekly bonus episodes from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here RSVP here for my Meet Cute Masterclass with Louis Jadot on June 10th in NYC! If there are no spots left, email kobrand@coynepr.com to get on the waitlist! Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly cares Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I sit down with Danielle Dietzek and Julie Griggs, the cofounders of Fourplay Social (@fourplaysocial), for a real, unfiltered girl chat. We’re diving deep into what it feels like when your friends are hitting major life milestones like marriage, babies, and buying homes, while you're still single and wondering if you’re getting left behind. We talk about the pressure to define yourself by your relationship status, the confusing space of wanting a relationship but knowing it might not quite fit into your life right now, and the scary thought of maybe not finding a life partner at all. We also get into how to meet new single friends as an adult, and how to bring up these vulnerable conversations with the people in your life—without shame, and without feeling like you're being dramatic. Subscribe to our Patreon show Cohosts for Life for weekly bonus episodes from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here RSVP here for my Meet Cute Masterclass with Louis Jadot on June 10th in NYC! If there are no spots left, email kobrand@coynepr.com to get on the waitlist! Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly cares Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We recorded this episode on our actual one-year anniversary, from Turks and Caicos! We set out to recap the year, and ended up talking about how Ilana ruined the surprise trip, little moments that brought us joy, and what our marriage actually feels like day to day. We answer listener questions about what the first year of marriage has really looked like, what we do and don't remember from our wedding, what our plans are for what's to come, and more. If you love this episode and want to support the show (and our future kid's college funds) check out Cohosts for Life for weekly bonus episodes from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here RSVP here for my Meet Cute Masterclass with Louis Jadot on June 10th in NYC! If there are no spots left, email kobrand@coynepr.com to get on the waitlist! Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly cares Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m joined by therapist Annie Josephson, PsyD, MSEd, Founder of Uptown Psychology to talk about why dating make us so anxious, even when it’s going well. We discuss why it shows up, how to manage it, and how to tell the difference between fear and intuition. We also answer listener questions about spiraling after dates, ghosting before anything starts, and feeling stuck in situationships. Subscribe to our Patreon show ⁠Cohosts for Life⁠ for weekly bonus episodes from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me⁠ here⁠ RSVP ⁠here⁠ for my Meet Cute Masterclass with Louis Jadot on June 10th in NYC! If there are no spots left, email kobrand@coynepr.com to get on the waitlist! Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at⁠ nutrafol.com⁠ promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at⁠ zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople⁠Your mental health matters. Head to ⁠rula.com/seeingotherpeople⁠ to connect with a licensed therapist who truly care. Go to ⁠HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm⁠ to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

TW: This episode my be triggering to those with sensitivities around physical and emotional abuse. I’m joined by Ryan Spencer, who I met on the Tamron Hall Show, for a powerful conversation about healing, heartbreak, and holding out hope for love. Ryan opens up about leaving an abusive relationship, the strength it took to start over, and the frustration of wanting love so badly after doing the work—therapy, growth, reflection—and still not finding it. She shares how her family became her village, the lessons she’s learned in therapy, and how she’s finally enjoying dating again without the pressure to find "the one." Subscribe to our Patreon show Cohosts for Life for weekly bonus episodes from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here RSVP here for my Meet Cute Masterclass with Louis Jadot on June 10th in NYC! If there are no spots left, email kobrand@coynepr.com to get on the waitlist! Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeopleYour mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly care. Go to HelloFresh.com/seeingotherpeople10fm to get 10 Free Meals with a Free Item For Life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, I’m joined by Syd Miller , founder of the fitness brand Housework. Syd shares how a breakup at 30, right when all her friends were getting engaged, became the catalyst for the best years of her life. We talk about how she built her brand from scratch, makes friends IRL, and navigates friendship shifts in different life stages. Most importantly, Syd shares how she’s created a full life that doesn’t need someone to complete it—just someone to add to it. Try Housework with their 2-for-1 new client special at www.joinhousework.com/bookstudio. ⁠RSVP⁠ to come to my Meet Cute Masterclass with Louis Jadot on June 10th in NYC! Subscribe to our Patreon show Cohosts for Life to hear updates and banter every monday from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com  Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly caresHead to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

TW: This episode includes discussion of sexual assault. This week, I’m joined by Meg Reynolds (@meg_reynoldss), host of Not the Girl Next Door (@notthegirlnextdoorpodcast), for a real conversation about healing after a hard relationship. We talk about relationship PTSD, rebuilding self-worth, why healing can take way longer than you expect, and how to stop shrinking yourself to be loved. If you’ve ever felt stuck, triggered, or like you lost yourself in love—this one’s for you. Meg shares what it means to truly be yourself again, even when it feels messy or slow. ⁠RSVP⁠ to come to my Meet Cute Masterclass with Louis Jadot on June 10th in NYC! Subscribe to our Patreon show Cohosts for Life to hear updates and banter every monday from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com  Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly cares Head to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jen Glantz (@jenglantz) has stood beside hundreds of brides—literally. As the founder of Bridesmaid for Hire and author of three books, she’s seen everything from dream weddings to full-on meltdowns. In this episode, she opens up about her own love story, what finally made her feel ready to say “I do,” and why she and her husband chose to elope after living out of suitcases and hopping cities. We get into the messy, emotional side of weddings: cold feet, pre-wedding panic, and what it really means when you’re not sure if you want to go through with it. Jen shares what she's learned from being behind the scenes on the most intense day of people's lives—and how those lessons shaped her own relationship. Plus, we read some relatable listener scenarios about relationship doubts, wedding stress, and feeling left behind when you’re the only single one in the group. RSVP to come to my Meet Cute Masterclass with Louis Jadot on June 10th in NYC! Subscribe to our Patreon show Cohosts for Life to hear updates and banter every monday from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com  Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly cares Head to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ilana is joined by Human Design expert and author Erin Claire Jones (@erinclairejones) to break down how understanding your unique design can shift the way you date, connect, and make decisions in love. Erin explains what Human Design is, how it compares to tools like astrology or the Enneagram, and how your chart reveals insights into your relationship patterns and emotional wiring. They talk about the five Human Design types and how each one tends to show up in dating, why we’re drawn to certain people, and how to tell the difference between authentic traits and protective patterns. Erin also shares what she’s learned from working with thousands of couples, how to navigate red flags, and how your design can help you stop second-guessing yourself when it comes to love. Erin's book "How Do You Choose" is out now wherever books are sold. Learn more at https://humandesignblueprint.com/ and use code ILANA for a discount on your guide! ⁠RSVP⁠ to come to my Meet Cute Masterclass with Louis Jadot on June 10th in NYC! Subscribe to our Patreon show Cohosts for Life to hear updates and banter every monday from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com  Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly cares Head to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Jake plays cohost as we’re joined by comedian and podcast host Jared Freid—someone who’s played an unexpectedly big role in our relationship. From being mentioned on our very first date to inspiring parts of our vows, Jared has been part of our love story from day one. We talk about the grind of building a show, what Jake has learned from Jared, and what it feels like to open a DM from a listener. We dive into a listener question about food sharing, discuss dating with food allergies, and hear the behind the scenes of Jared’s stand-up career. Plus, Jake vents about what it’s like to be married to someone who wants to make new friends. Follow @JaredFreid on IG and @WizardofHa on TikTok Subscribe to our Patreon show Cohosts for Life to hear updates and banter every monday from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com  Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly caresHead to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m joined by Melissa Fitch and Michelle Unger, the BFF duo behind The M Take pod. They’re both married to their long-time loves (a college boyfriend and a high school sweetheart!) and navigating motherhood, partnership, and friendship together. We dive into what they wish they talked about before getting married or pregnant, and how becoming parents at different times affected their friendship. Melissa opens up about feeling disconnected when Michelle was pregnant and she wasn’t, and how they found their way back to each other. We also get into what it really looks like to talk with your partner about finances, parenting philosophies, mental health, and family boundaries before making big life moves . Follow The M Take on IG and check out the podcast on Spotify! Subscribe to our Patreon show Cohosts for Life to hear updates and banter every monday from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com  Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly cares Head to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m joined by Eli Weinstein⁠, LCSW, therapist and host of The Dude Therapist Podcast, for real talk about what women often misunderstand about men, the pressure to be emotionally “on the same level” in relationships, and how to approach hard conversations with care. We also get into the overload of self-help content online, what to watch out for, and how to stay grounded in your growth—even if your partner isn’t quite there yet. Eli also answers some thoughtful listener questions about dating, sex, anxiety, and emotional connection. Learn more and work with Eli at eliweinsteinlcsw.com Subscribe to our Patreon show Cohosts for Life to hear updates and banter every Monday from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com  Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly cares Head to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this solo episode, I’m sharing some unexpected life updates—including a few medical things I’ve been navigating lately—and TV shows I recently found out not everyone has seen (which feels criminal, honestly). Then we’re diving into modern dating red flags that are actually... green. From not texting all day to taking things slow to living at home and not having social media, there are a lot of behaviors we’ve been taught to panic about that are actually signs of emotional maturity, intentionality, or just being a normal person with a life offline.Let’s break down what’s actually a red flag—and what might just be your inner saboteur overreacting. Subscribe to our Patreon show Cohosts for Life to hear updates and banter every monday from me and Jake! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Stop putting off those doctor appointments and instantly book a top-rated doctor today at zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com  Your mental health matters. Head to rula.com/seeingotherpeople to connect with a licensed therapist who truly cares Head to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m joined by Benjamin Camras, Flirt Coach and host of Flirtations!, to talk all things flirting—how to build real chemistry, flirt without the ick, and actually know when someone’s into you. We answer your questions about navigating workplace crushes, why great text chemistry can fall flat in person, what it means when you keep getting the “just friends” response, and how to flirt with confidence (even if you’re socially anxious). Whether you love flirting or dread it, this episode has something for you. Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeople Stop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com!  Go to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m joined by my childhood best friend Jessie — the one who’s seen me through every confusing situationship, career pivot, and major life change. We’re talking about how she went from friends to married with her high school crush, what it was like when the three of us lived together, and her take on the guys I used to date… versus what she thought when she met Jake. We also answer listener questions about being in different life stages than your friends, falling for a friend, and how to support someone through heartbreak. Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeople Stop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com!  Go to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Author and Relationship Expert Dr. Morgan Cutlip joins me to unpack the invisible load we carry in relationships—why emotional and mental labor often falls on one partner, and how to create more balance without resentment. We also talk about how relationship needs shift from dating to marriage, how to spot self-sabotage, and why independence can be hard to let go of in your first serious relationship in your 30s. Whether you’re single, dating, or deep in a long-term relationship, this episode will make you feel seen. Follow Dr. Morgan @drmorgancutlip on IG and check out drmorgancutlip.com to order her book and learn more. Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeople Stop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com!  Go to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Cohosts for Life is our new Patreon weekly series where we (Ilana & Jake) sit down every Sunday—just the two of us—to reflect, laugh, vent, and share the real behind-the-scenes of our lives together. Think of it as our relationship diary, marriage memoir, and life update all wrapped into one cozy, chaotic, honest little episode that drops every Monday. Whether we're unpacking what made us laugh this week, sharing stories we forgot to tell each other in real time, or navigating the growing pains of being newlyweds, this is your front-row seat to the reality of being cohosts in both life and love. Episode 1 is our here for you, but the rest will be exclusively on Patreon. Come hang with us 💛 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

At 27, Alanna Vizzoni was diagnosed with breast cancer—and everything changed overnight. In this raw and honest conversation, she opens up about what it was like to go from “normal” to navigating chemo, a mastectomy, and a surprise engagement all in the same chapter. We talk about identity, body image, intimacy, and what it means to love and be loved through something life-altering. Alanna shares the moments that broke her, the ones that brought her closer to herself and her partner, and why she chose to document it all online. Follow Alanna on Instagram and TikTok Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me here Get $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE  Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeople Stop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com!  Go to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices