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What happens when the roles, expectations and identities you've carried for years no longer feel like you?

In this episode, Mary Michele sits down with life coach Shelly Leslie for a powerful conversation about identity, self-expression and what it really takes to find your way back to yourself in midlife. From the ways we unknowingly suppress who we are to the small choices that help us reclaim our confidence, joy and visibility, this conversation is an invitation to stop living as the woman you thought you were supposed to be—and start becoming more fully yourself.

In this episode, you'll discover:
✨ Where you may be suppressing yourself—and how years of "shoulds,"
expectations and fitting in can leave you wondering who you really are.
✨ Why visibility begins on the inside—and how reconnecting with what you
want, what brings you joy and how you want to show up changes the way
you move through the world.
✨ The power of the "turtle step"—how one tiny, completely doable choice
can begin moving you from feeling stuck or invisible toward becoming more
fully expressed.

Shelly Leslie is a transformational life and confidence coach, creative strategist, and 17-time Emmy-winning producer and creative director. After an unexpected end to a 35-year career sparked her own identity crisis and reinvention, Shelly turned that experience into a new calling: helping women navigate change, reclaim their voices, and create lives that feel authentically their own.

Trained through Martha Beck's Wayfinder Life Coach program, Shelly brings together decades of experience in leadership, creativity, communication, and personal transformation to help women move beyond the beliefs and patterns keeping them stuck—and step more fully into who they're becoming.

Learn more about Shelly Leslie and connect with her here:
https://www.shellyleslie.com/

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What if it's a belief you don't even know you have?

So much of the way we move through the world happens on autopilot—shaped by old patterns, stories, and beliefs that can quietly influence whether we speak up, take the risk, ask for what we want, or allow ourselves to truly be seen.

My guest today, Jessica Myers, is the Founder of Be YOU Bloom® and a Mind Empowerment Speaker who specializes in helping people understand and retrain the unconscious mind.

Jessica brings more than 20 years of leadership experience across media, marketing, and medical industries, along with a fascinating background as a professional performer. Today, she teaches EFT Tapping at Duke Integrative Medicine Center and works with leaders, speakers, actors, and athletes to build greater confidence, resilience, optimism, and psychological capital.

But what I love about this conversation is that it goes far beyond performance.

We talk about the beliefs that keep us playing small, why stepping into a new identity can feel so uncomfortable, what happens when we stop waiting for someone else to give us permission—and why becoming more visible doesn't
require becoming someone else.

In fact, it may require exactly the opposite.

It may be about finally coming home to yourself.

And as Jessica so beautifully reminds us: you have to be your own first believer.

In this episode we'll discuss:
● The hidden beliefs that may be quietly keeping you from your next
level.
● Why becoming more visible might have less to do with confidence
than you think.

● What changes when you stop waiting for permission—and become
your own first believer.

Let's dive in.

Connect with Jessica Myers here: https://www.beyoubloom.com/

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Fall is the perfect time for a style reset—but that doesn't mean you need a whole new wardrobe.

Before you start chasing trends or adding more clothes to your closet, there are a few things I want you to do first.

In this episode, I'm sharing 5 simple steps to refresh your fall style so you can shop with more intention, get dressed with more confidence, and create a wardrobe that feels unmistakably you.

Plus, I'm sharing a little peek at what's coming next as I step into a brand-new chapter.

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What if the only permission you need to be seen, heard and take up space is your own?

In this episode I sit down with author, speaker and two-time TEDx speaker Dr. Rita Renee for a powerful conversation about what it means to unmute yourself.

For years, Rita was accomplished on paper. She had the degrees, the titles, the experience and the leadership roles—but underneath it all, she knew she was still shrinking in places where she was meant to stand tall.

Eventually, she realized she had to stop auditioning for rooms she already belonged in.

We talk about the experiences that taught her to stay quiet, the courage it took to begin sharing her story, and why our greatest freedom may come when we stop needing everyone to understand, approve of or applaud us.

We also explore the connection between style, presence and visibility—and why what you wear can help you walk into the room, but your voice, your message and your belief that you belong are what allow you to truly own it.

If you've ever felt like you were waiting until you were more qualified, more confident, more polished—or simply more ready—before allowing yourself to be fully seen, this conversation is for you.

Because as Rita reminds us, you don't need to see the whole staircase.

Sometimes you just need to take the first brave step.

It's time to come off mute.

Your Takeaways:

• Why you may be waiting for permission to enter rooms you already
  belong in.
• The hidden cost of staying quiet—and who misses out when you keep
  your voice on mute.
• What changes when you stop performing for approval and start
  showing up as your full, unapologetic self.

Dr. Rita Renee is a two-time TEDx speaker, international keynote speaker, best-selling author, and Executive Leadership & Voice Strategist who helps women and leaders find the clarity to own their message, the confidence to use their voice, and the courage to step into greater visibility.

With more than two decades of corporate leadership experience and a long- standing career in healthcare, Rita understands what it means to lead, achieve—and still feel called to something more. Today, she brings together her experience, wisdom and authenticity to help others stop shrinking, come off mute and show up fully in the rooms they were meant to occupy.

Let's dive in.

Connect with Rita Renee here: https://drritarenee.com/

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At some point, the style rules that once worked for you simply… stop working.

Your body changes. Your coloring shifts. Your lifestyle evolves. Trends feel different. And suddenly you're caught between clothes that feel too young, clothes that feel too old, and a closet that may no longer feel like you.

But here's the good news: the old rules have expired.

In this episode Mary Michele challenges the idea of "dressing your age" and explores what it means to create a style that feels current, confident, and completely your own—whether you're 40, 50, 60, 70 or beyond.

You'll discover why staying stylish isn't about chasing trends or trying to look younger. It's about paying attention to the woman you are becoming—and making sure your wardrobe is evolving right along with you.

From letting go of outdated "shoulds" to understanding color, celebrating your best assets, and cultivating a signature look, this episode is an invitation to stop asking, "Am I too old to wear this?"

Because ageless style isn't about following the rules.

It's about knowing yourself well enough to make your own.

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What if the exhaustion, distraction and overwhelm so many of us are feeling isn't because we're doing life wrong—but because we've been taught the wrong way to do life?

Today I'm talking with neuroscience and brain health expert Jen Shepard about the hidden cost of our obsession with productivity, why burnout doesn't always look like burnout, and what's actually happening to our brains when we're constantly working, scrolling and pushing through.

Jen shares her own powerful story of achieving everything she thought success was supposed to look like—only to realize she was falling apart inside. We talk about nervous system regulation, the beliefs we unknowingly carry with us, our addiction to our phones, and the surprisingly simple habits that can help us feel calmer, more present and more alive.

And perhaps most importantly, we ask a question I think every woman needs to consider:

What if success isn't about how much you can accomplish—but how fully you're actually here for your life?

Your Takeaways:
● Why burnout may not look anything like you think it does—and the subtle signs your brain and body are already keeping score.
● The surprising way your thoughts are training your brain to find evidence for who you believe you are—and how to change the pattern.
● What your phone is actually doing to your brain, your nervous system, and your ability to be fully present in your own life.

Jen Shepard is a Brain Health and Leadership Strategist with a Master's specializing in Neuroscience and Human Behavior. She teaches women brain-backed habits to recover from stress and reclaim their focus and energy. Jen spent a decade in cybersecurity tech sales while raising two young kids - on the outside, she had it all; inside, she was falling apart. After multiple autoimmune disorders from burnout, she quit her corporate career and built a business teaching leaders and teams stress recovery tools that actually work. She blends brain science and longevity to show you how to be successful while also being present for those who matter most.

Let's dive in.

Connect with Jen here: https://www.jenshepard.com/

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Dolly Parton didn't become a style icon by following trends—she became one by knowing exactly who she was and expressing it unapologetically. In this episode, we unpack what Dolly can teach us about creating a signature style that is recognizable, authentic, and unmistakably YOU.

In this episode you'll discover:
● The surprising thing Dolly understood about becoming unforgettable.
● What Dolly did differently that most women never think about.
● The style shift that changes everything when you stop trying to "get it right."

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What if the life you want isn't waiting for you to become someone new—but to finally give yourself permission to become more fully you?

In this episode I sit down with leadership strategist and Reinvention Road Trip creator Jes Averhart for a powerful conversation about reinvention, visibility, confidence and letting go of the beliefs that keep us small. Jes shares how she went from refusing to speak into a microphone for more than 20 years to becoming an international speaker—and why looking back at your own "highlight reel" can give you the courage to take your next bold step.

We also talk about designing ourselves back into our own lives, embracing the changes that come with midlife, and remembering that you don't need a whole new life—you need the courage to live more fully into who you already are.

If you've been feeling the pull toward something more, this conversation is your invitation to stop waiting for permission.

This Episode Explores:
● Why reinvention isn't about becoming someone new—it's about
becoming more fully YOU.
● The invisible beliefs that can keep us playing small for decades—and
how to finally break free from them.
● How to stop designing yourself out of your own life and start reclaiming
what makes you feel alive.
● Why you don't need anyone's permission to be seen or step boldly into
what's next.

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If you have plenty of clothes but still stand in front of your closet thinking, I have nothing to wear, this episode is for you.

The problem probably isn't that you need more clothes. It's that somewhere along the way, your wardrobe stopped making sense.

In Part One of my Build a Better Wardrobe series, we're talking about how disconnected purchases, impulse buys, changing bodies and lifestyles, trends, and even an outdated version of yourself can leave you with a closet full of clothes—but very little that actually feels like you.

Because a better wardrobe doesn't begin with buying more.

It begins with understanding why the one you have isn't working.

And if this hits home, join me for my free masterclass, How to Build a Better Wardrobe, where I'll show you what to do next. Sign up now:

https://www.thevisibilitystylist.com/Free-Live-Masterclass

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What if the only thing standing between you and the life you want is the
belief that you have to earn your place in it?

In this deeply moving conversation, Crissy Fishbane shares how surviving a
life-changing accident at sixteen transformed the way she saw herself—and
why so many women spend their lives trying to prove they're worthy instead
of simply taking up space. Together, we explore courage, visibility,
perfectionism, and why confidence isn't something you have before you
begin—it's something you build by showing up. If you've ever felt like you
were playing small, waiting until you were "ready," or wondering if you
belong, this episode is for you.

In This Episode, We Explore…
● Why confidence is built through action—not before it—and how messy
beginnings are the price of becoming visible.
● The hidden belief that you must prove your worth before taking up
space, and how to finally let it go.
● How courage, curiosity, and self-expression can transform the way you
show up in your life and the world.

My guest today is Crissy Fishbane, a speaker, educator, and co-founder of
HER Health Collective who helps people move beyond perfectionism,
pressure, and the need to prove their worth so they can build lives grounded
in courage, curiosity, connection, and belonging.

Drawing from her own extraordinary story, a background in psychology and
education, and years of experience building thriving communities, Crissy
inspires audiences to redefine success and create lives that feel deeply
meaningful—not just impressive on the outside.

Crissy's StyleFinder ID is Sporty/Natural with a touch of Whimsical, a beautiful
reflection of her approachable, grounded nature and the playful curiosity she
brings to every conversation. She has a gift for making people feel safe enough to let down their guard, while gently encouraging them to step more fully into themselves.

In this conversation, we talk about what it really means to take up space, why
so many women struggle with the need to prove their worth, and how
courage isn't something you're born with—it's something you build one
small, brave step at a time.

Let's dive in.

Connect with Crissy here: https://herhealthcollective.com/ and
https://crissyfishbane.com/

Follow Crissy on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/crissyfishbane/

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When Wendy Valentine found herself divorced, deeply in debt, chronically ill,
grieving multiple losses, and facing a future she no longer recognized, she
made one life-changing decision: she stopped abandoning herself.

Today's guest, Wendy Valentine, is an internationally published author,
certified life coach, keynote speaker, founder of Midlifology™, and host of the
globally ranked The Midlife Makeover Show™. Through her bestselling book
Women Waking Up: The Midlife Manifesto for Passion, Purpose, and Play and
her signature FREEDOM Framework®, Wendy is helping women around the
world redefine what it means to thrive in midlife.

In this inspiring conversation, Wendy shares the pivotal moment that
changed everything. Standing at rock bottom, she envisioned herself sitting
in the driver's seat of an RV—not because of the adventure itself, but because
of the woman behind the wheel. That single image became the catalyst for
an extraordinary reinvention, leading her to bestselling books, a top-ranked
podcast, international travel, and a life she once believed was out of reach.

This episode is a powerful reminder that reinvention doesn't begin when life
changes—it begins the moment you decide to choose yourself again.

In this episode, you'll discover:
● Why the greatest obstacle to becoming visible isn't other people's
rejection—it's the ways we've been abandoning ourselves.
● How one simple vision of becoming "the woman in the driver's seat"
transformed Wendy's life from divorce, debt, and chronic illness into
purpose, freedom, and joy.
● Why midlife isn't something to survive—it's the perfect season to
rediscover yourself, reclaim your voice, and step fully into the woman
you were always meant to become.

If you've ever wondered whether it's too late to begin again, this conversation
will remind you that your best chapter may be just beginning.

Connect with Wendy here: https://wendyvalentine.com/

Get Wendy's book, Women Waking Up, here: https://on.ltk.com/+v_g-HisZGfB2oxQ8qOB4mA

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There are moments in life that completely change the way we see
ourselves—not because our circumstances change, but because our
perspective does.

My guest today is Nicole Phillips, a keynote speaker and five-time author
whose work centers on one powerful idea: what you look for is what you
see. A former TV news anchor and hospital chaplain, Nicole now helps
audiences rewrite the stories they're living by. She hosts The Kindness
Podcast, named one of the top happiness podcasts by Oprah Magazine, has
appeared on NBC Nightly News, the Hallmark Channel, and HGTV's House
Hunters, and has shared her message with more than 30,000 people across
200-plus speaking events.

But her own transformation began with one unexpected encounter at a
neighborhood swimming pool with a girl in a gold bikini.

What started as a simple act of kindness became the catalyst for overcoming
addiction, negative self-talk, burnout, and self-rejection, ultimately leading
her to a life of greater joy, purpose, and impact.

In this conversation, you'll discover:
● Why the stories we tell ourselves shape the lives we create
● How to stop rejecting yourself before the world ever has the chance to
say yes
● The surprising lesson that taught Nicole about happiness, and the one
question that has the power to shift everything.

If you've ever struggled with confidence, visibility, or believing your voice truly
matters, this episode will inspire you to see yourself—and your life—through
an entirely new lens.

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Follow Nicole Phillips here: https://nicolejphillips.com/

Get her book, The Negativity Remedy, here: https://amzn.to/3RnJFJa

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Today I'm joined by my good friend, Liz Rossilli—a woman who has
completely redefined what it means to sell with confidence and integrity.

Liz is the president of Sales Savvy, a sales consulting practice based in Cary,
North Carolina, where she helps entrepreneurs and business owners attract
consistent clients without sacrificing their sanity or compromising their
values. With more than 30 years of experience in sales, she's learned that
lasting success isn't built on pressure or persuasion—it's built on authentic
relationships, trust, and showing up as yourself.

Over the years, Liz has turned thousands of cold calls into genuine
connections and loyal clients. Today, she's passionate about helping both
men and women in business embrace a more relational approach to
sales—one that feels aligned, empowering, and true to who they are. And one
of the things I love most about Liz is that she doesn't just celebrate big
milestones. She celebrates every win along the way, because she knows those
small moments are what build confidence and momentum.

I know you're going to love this conversation. We talk about visibility,
networking, personal style, imposter syndrome, and why the most successful
businesses are built not by trying to impress people, but by creating
meaningful relationships. So let's dive in.

In this episode, we explore:
● Why the moment you stop trying to fit in is the moment you become
truly visible.
● How authentic relationships create opportunities that no sales strategy
ever could.
● Why confidence isn't something you wait for—it's something you build
every time you choose to show up.

Take the FREE Signature Style quiz now and discover your archetype:
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Follow Liz Rossilli on LinkedIn here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lizrossilli/

Join her on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/liz_rossilli/

Visit her website: www.getsalessavvy.com

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What happens when you stop worrying about being "too much" and start
becoming more of who you truly are?

In this magical and deeply moving conversation, I sit down with Sunny the
Fun Fairy to talk about visibility, authenticity, and the courage it takes to fully
express yourself. Beneath the glitter, wings, and whimsy is a powerful story
about trusting your calling, embracing your uniqueness, and letting your light
shine—even before you know exactly how.

This episode is for every woman who has ever felt too different, too visible, or
not enough.

In this episode, we explore:

● How embracing your quirks and uniqueness can become your greatest
source of magnetism
● Why doing it scared is often the first step toward becoming
unforgettable
● How reconnecting with wonder, play, and your inner child can help you
reclaim joy and visibility

Key Takeaways from This Conversation

10 Key Takeaways
1. Visibility begins with freedom
2. Your uniqueness is not the problem
3. Authenticity is more powerful than image
4. Becoming yourself requires solitude
5. Not everyone will understand your evolution
6. Style can become an extension of identity

7. You don't need the how before you begin
8. Do it scared
9. Share your dream out loud
10. Your magic was always inside you

This may be the heart of the episode.
Sunny forgot her wings.
And yet… she was still Sunny.
Because the magic was never in the costume.
The wings were always there.
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Connect with Sunny the Fun Fairy here:
www.sunnythefunfairy.com

www.instagram.com/sunnythefunfairy

www.facebook.com/sunnythefunfairy

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In this powerful conversation, Francoise Everett joins me for a soul-stirring
exploration of visibility, self-expression, aging, and the hidden beliefs that
keep so many women playing small. Together, they unpack the cultural
conditioning, inherited messages, and inner fears that cause women to
disconnect from their own presence—and what it really takes to reclaim
confidence, radiance, and authenticity in midlife.

This episode is an invitation to stop shrinking, stop apologizing, and
remember who you've been all along.

In this episode, we explore:

● Why so many women unconsciously shrink, dim their light, or fear
being "too much"
● How comparison, perfectionism, and inherited beliefs rob us of
confidence and visibility
● Why midlife may be the most powerful, radiant, and liberated chapter
of your life yet

Key Takeaways from This Conversation
1. Midlife is not decline—it is divine design.
2. Visibility requires self-sourced safety.
3. Many visibility blocks are inherited—not chosen.
4. Comparison erodes confidence at the identity level.
5. Perfection is often the real prison.
6. Style can be a portal back to self.
7. Authentic beauty cannot be manufactured.

8. Other women can become permission slips.
9. Your desires matter.
10. You don't need to become someone else to be visible.

Take the FREE Signature Style quiz now and discover your archetype:
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The Question That Changes the Game

What if the biggest shift in your style, confidence, visibility, and life came
down to a single question?

In this episode of The Art of Becoming Visible, I'm exploring the question that
has the power to transform the way you get dressed, make decisions, show
up in the world, and reconnect with yourself.

For years, many women have been conditioned to ask, "How do I look?" But
what happens when we replace that question with something far more
powerful?

This conversation is about moving from approval to alignment, from
performance to presence, and from dressing for everyone else to dressing for
yourself.

In this episode, you'll discover:

✨ Why asking "How do I look?" keeps so many women stuck in self-doubt and
second-guessing
✨ The simple question that creates greater confidence, authenticity, and self-
trust
✨ How this shift reflects the new era of style - and why it changes everything

If you've been feeling disconnected from yourself, your style, or your voice,
this episode is your invitation to come home to who you really are.

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Midlife Women on the Verge of a Breakdown

If you've scrolled through Instagram or Tiktok recently, you may have noticed something.

Midlife women are no longer dressed 'appropriately' or 'for their age', but instead they are rocking outfits that are bold, colorful, and that fly in the face of convention.

I've noticed that - while the majority of the comments made on my reels are positive - there are still plenty that tell me women are playing by the old rules.

Comments like

• Those pants are too short (when referring to cropped pants)

• Lose the brows

• You're too old to wear that

• Not at your age, honey.

Well, ladies, if this is your current mindset, get ready, because I am going to blow your mind and all you thought you new about style - right out the window. 

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There comes a moment in a woman's life when she realizes she has spent
years waiting to be chosen.

Chosen by the right opportunity.
Chosen by the right partner.
Chosen by the audience, the client, the world.

And somewhere along the way, she stopped choosing herself.

In today's episode, we're talking about why the most underrated act of
visibility isn't becoming louder, more polished, or more perfect — it's learning
to choose yourself first.

We'll explore how this shows up in your style, your confidence, your
boundaries, your nervous system, and the identities you're still carrying that
no longer fit the woman you're becoming.

Because visibility doesn't start when the world finally notices you.
It starts the moment you decide you are worthy of being seen.

Other podcasts to Listen to:
From Closet to Confidence: 10 Signs You're Not Choosing Yourself
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/285-from-closet-to-confidence-10-
signs-youre-not-choosing/id1560924181?i=1000723548225

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Why does getting dressed still feel hard… even when your closet is full of
clothes?

In this episode, I share the hidden reason so many women feel disconnected
from their wardrobes - even after creating capsules, organizing their closets,
or buying all the "right" pieces. We explore the difference between simply
having a functional wardrobe and developing a signature style that truly
reflects who you are.

If you've ever looked in your closet and thought, "None of this feels like me
anymore," this episode is for you.

Join me on Substack, subscribe and you could win a StyleFinder ID®
Blueprint to help you discover your true style.
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There's a reason you stand in front of a closet full of clothes… and still feel like
you have nothing to wear.

It's not because you need more clothes.

It's because you've been taught to tolerate things that quietly drain your
confidence, your energy… and your presence.

Today, we're talking about what French women never allow in their closets -
and more importantly, what you've been unconsciously holding onto that's
keeping you feeling frumpy, invisible, or disconnected from yourself.

This isn't about fashion.

It's about identity.

And it might change the way you see everything in your wardrobe.

In this podcast you'll learn:
● The subtle way clothing may be disconnecting you from your body
● How chasing trends is keeping you stuck in someone else's identity
● The real cost of keeping clothes from a past version of yourself
● Why constantly adjusting your outfit is a sign something deeper is off
● The one category of clothing French women refuse to tolerate—and
why it matters more than anything else

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There comes a moment when you realize you're no longer dressing for
yourself—you're dressing for everyone else. In this episode, we're exploring
how that happens and how to reconnect with your true style in a way that
feels aligned, confident, and fully you.

You'll discover 5 steps to help you reconnect with yourself and your true style.

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Have you noticed that fashion suddenly feels… quieter?

This spring, the timeless elegance of French style seems to be everywhere —
rich chocolate tones, cream, denim, crisp white shirts, and simple layers that
feel grounded rather than dramatic.

In this episode, I'm exploring why the return of the French capsule wardrobe
might be more than a fashion trend. It may be a response to the chaos and
noise of modern life.

When the world feels unpredictable, we instinctively reach for something
steady.

Discover how embracing simplicity, refinement, and effortless style can bring
a sense of calm, clarity, and La Belle Joie — the beautiful joy of knowing
exactly what works for you.Have you heard?

'm on Substack! Come join me for weekly articles, style
inspiration, shoppable lookbooks and so much more! The Art of
Becoming Visible. ​​https://substack.com/@theartofbecomingvisible/

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upcoming book: https://tinyurl.com/ParisBookClub/

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In today's episode, I'm breaking down the five subtle ways the fashion
industry quietly trains midlife women to shrink - and what to do instead if
you're ready to be seen again.
Key Takeaways
In This Episode, We Explore:
● Why our culture's obsession with youth quietly disconnects you from
the woman you are now
● How thinness was turned into a moral virtue — and how that keeps
women postponing their visibility
● Why trend cycles create anxiety and FOMO instead of clarity and
confidence
● How dressing like everyone else mutes both your nervous system and
your self-expression
● The powerful difference between dressing to perform… and dressing to
embody
Midlife is not about keeping up.
It's about refining, reclaiming, and fully expressing who you already are.
This episode is an invitation to stop shrinking — and start showing up with
intention.
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upcoming book: https://tinyurl.com/ParisBookClub/

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How to Awaken the Woman You Were Always Meant to Be

In this episode, Mary Michele shares how style is far more than just clothing -
it's the gateway to visibility, confidence, and self-expression. She reveals how
uncovering your StyleFinder ID® helps dissolve the silent rules that keep
women playing small and reconnects them to their true presence, power,
and identity.

When your outer expression aligns with your inner truth, visibility becomes
natural, relaxed, and magnetic.

3 Key Takeaways

• Style is the first language of visibility - it communicates your presence
  before you ever speak.
• Most women hide due to inherited conditioning around being "too
  much" or standing out.
• The StyleFinder ID® system restores alignment between who you are
  and how you show up.

The StyleFinder ID® Blueprint

The StyleFinder ID® Blueprint decodes your unique style DNA and reveals
what makes you instantly visible and magnetic. You'll receive your personal
StyleFinder ID®, insight into your visibility blocks, signature styling guidance,
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Come join the 21-Day Wildly Visible Challenge:

If you're done waiting to feel confident and ready to start being seen, this
challenge will show you how to unlock the confidence that visibility creates.
https://tinyurl.com/WILDLY21

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upcoming book: https://tinyurl.com/ParisBookClub/

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You're not stuck because you lack strategy — you're stuck because invisible
patterns are running the show. In this issue, I'm breaking down the hidden
visibility blocks that keep high-achieving, soulful women from owning their
brilliance and stepping into their full power.

Today, I'm talking about the hidden blocks that are keeping even the most
brilliant, driven, and visionary women small, stuck, and invisible — often
without even realizing it.

Come join the 21-Day Wildly Visible Challenge:
If you're done waiting to feel confident and ready to start being seen, this
challenge will show you how to unlock the confidence that visibility creates.
https://tinyurl.com/WILDLY21

Join the Paris Atelier today and come along with my as a write my
upcoming book: https://tinyurl.com/ParisBookClub

Get Your StyleFinder ID Blueprint here: https://tinyurl.com/SFinderBP

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If you've been waiting to feel ready before showing up - this episode is your
wake-up call. Confidence isn't something you find before you're visible… it's
something you build through visibility.

In this episode, Mary Michele unpacks the myth that confidence comes first
and reveals how real, lasting confidence is created when you stop hiding,
start showing up, and let yourself be seen.

You'll learn how to shift from perfectionism to presence, from performing to
embodying — and why the moment you choose visibility, everything in your
business and life begins to change.

Come join the 21-Day Wildly Visible Challenge:
If you're done waiting to feel confident and ready to start being seen, this
challenge will show you how to unlock the confidence that visibility creates.
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Join the Paris Atelier today: https://tinyurl.com/ParisBookClub

Get Your StyleFinder ID Blueprint here: https://tinyurl.com/SFinderBP

Come join us in the Facebook Group:
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Learn more about Tamar Hurwitz-Fleming at: https://tamartamar.com/

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Do you ever feel like you're hiding in plain sight—blending in instead of
standing out? In this episode, I unpack The Invisibility Trap that keeps so
many midlife women feeling unseen. You'll learn how the Void → Victim →
Validation spiral shows up in your life, the subtle ways you may be dimming
your light, and why style is the antidote to invisibility. Plus, I'll share simple
shifts you can make today to step back into your power and presence.

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Paris doesn't just celebrate fashion — it celebrates women. In this episode, I
share how the City of Light invites women of every age to be visible, radiant,
and unapologetically themselves. From timeless style that transcends
trends, to café culture that turns everyday moments into a stage, to the
architecture that mirrors feminine curves and strength — Paris whispers:
You belong. You are seen. You are beautiful, at any age.

Ready to come out of the shadows and be seen again? Join me Wednesday,
October 1 at 3pm ET for my free webinar, From Invisible to Iconic:
https://livewildlyalive.mykajabi.com/pl/2148708315

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You can tell a lot about a woman by her closet—and even more by how she
carries herself. If your wardrobe is full of 'someday clothes,' if you hide behind
black because it feels safer, or if you keep waiting until the weight comes off
to buy something you love… that's not style, that's self-abandonment.

The truth is, the way we dress, the way we see our bodies, and the way we
show up in the world all reflect one simple choice: are you choosing
yourself—or not?

In this episode, I'm breaking down 10 powerful signs you're not choosing
YOU, and how it's quietly draining your style, your body image, and your
confidence. Because until you stop abandoning yourself, you'll never feel fully
alive in your own skin.

It's time to reclaim your voice, your wardrobe, and your worth—starting right
here.

Ready for Your Midlife Reset?

If this message speaks to you, then you already know it's time to stop waiting
and start choosing YOU. That's exactly what I help women do in The Midlife
Reset — my transformational course designed to help you rediscover your
style, reconnect with your body, and reclaim your confidence so you can
finally live Wildly. We start 9/1/25

Sign up here: https://tinyurl.com/mymidlifereset

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For too long, you've been waiting — for approval, for permission, for someone
else to choose you. But the truth? The most magnetic, powerful, unstoppable
women are the ones who choose themselves.

So, if you're ready to stop waiting and start living unapologetically—you're in
the right place.

Heard from a client of the 21-Day Feel Wildly Alive Challenge:
"Mary Michele's words this morning brought some clarity for me. Today's
message to "choose you" and not feeling powerless, were yes and wow
moments for me. A real breakthrough moment for me…"

Ready for Your Midlife Reset?

If this message speaks to you, then you already know it's time to stop waiting
and start choosing YOU. That's exactly what I help women do in The Midlife
Reset — my transformational course designed to help you rediscover your
style, reconnect with your body, and reclaim your confidence so you can
finally live Wildly. We start 9/1/25.

Sign up here: https://tinyurl.com/themidlifereset

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In this soothing and soulful episode of Women Living Wildly Alive, I sit down with the ever-
inspiring Kimberly Wilson—psychotherapist, eco-fashion designer, author, and host of the
Tranquility du Jour podcast. We dive into the art of cultivating calm, navigating midlife transitions with grace, and embracing self-care as a sacred practice (not a guilty pleasure!). Kimberly shares her favorite rituals, reflections on slow living, and the power of journaling, creativity, and cozy aesthetics to create a life of beauty and balance. Whether you're in the midst of reinvention or simply craving more peace, this conversation is your gentle reminder that tranquility is not only possible—it's essential.

Learn more about Kimberly and get her 15 Simple Practices to Prioritize Self-Care here:
kimberlywilson.com

If you're ready for your midlife mind-body-style reset, join me for the 21-Day
Feel Wildly Alive Challenge. We start August 11th - get in NOW!
https://tinyurl.com/WILDLY21

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Today's episode is for every woman who has stood in front of a full closet…
and felt completely lost.

Let's talk about that moment —
You open your closet. It's full. Overflowing, even.
And yet…

You sigh.
You feel stuck.
You have "nothing to wear."
Sound familiar?

Well I've got news for you — the problem isn't your body.
It's not your age.
And no, you don't need to buy another black top.
Trust me.

Today, we're going to break dow 7 hidden reasons you feel stuck in a style
rut—plus how to break free and feel wildly alive again.

If you're ready for your style reset, join me for the 21-Day Feel Wildly Alive
Challenge. We start August 11th - get in NOW! https://tinyurl.com/WILDLY21

Come join us in the Facebook Group:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/womenlivingwildlyalive

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Read the blog on Substack: https://womenlivingwildlyalive.substack.com/

The Awaken Series

In this powerful kickoff to The Awaken Series, I'm sharing the moment I realized I was no longer truly living—I was just surviving. On the outside, everything looked "fine." But inside, I was flatlining. Overwhelmed, overgiving, disconnected from my body, my style, and myself.

This is the story of how I hit the reset button—not just on my wardrobe, but on my identity. I'll share the exact moment I saw my reflection and didn't recognize the woman staring back… and how that wake-up call changed everything.

We'll talk about why "fine" is often a mask for burnout, why midlife is the time to reclaim your spark, and how style became the surprising tool that brought me back to life.

Grab your free Midlife Reset Starter Kit
Inside, I'll guide you through the first 3 steps to reclaim your energy, your clarity, and your confidence.

Next episode: I'll be sharing the boldest move I made during my reset—letting my gray hair grow in—and why it was about so much more than hair.

Other Podcasts to Listen to:

Understanding the Cycle of Style Ep. 116: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/116-understanding-the-cycle-of-your-style/id1560924181?i=1000577998077

Come join us in the Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/womenlivingwildlyalive

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Read the blog on Substack: https://womenlivingwildlyalive.substack.com/

Today, I'm letting you in on something I call The Confidence Code™ — a simple 3-step ritual
that changes everything about how you show up.

Because here's the truth:
Confidence isn't something you wait for.
It's something you wear.

I'm breaking down The Confidence Code™—my simple 3-step formula to help you feel fabulous in your skin, no matter your age, size, or season of life.

Inside this episode you'll learn:

• How to highlight your best features and actually see them
• The style shift that instantly boosts your confidence
• Mindset moves to silence your inner critic and feel powerful again

If you've ever looked in the mirror and wondered where your sparkle went—this is for you.

Tune in and unlock your confidence today. Because midlife isn't a crisis—it's your comeback.

✨ Want to go deeper?
Join me inside Body Image Breakthrough — my 30-day transformational experience for
women ready to stop playing small and start showing up like the radiant, powerful force they
are. You'll rewrite your relationship with your body — and finally feel at home in your skin. We
begin June 15th!

Get all the details here: https://stylefindersos.com/body-image-breakthrough/

Are you ready for your Midlife Reset? Book a Get Acquainted Call with Mary Michele today:
https://calendly.com/marymichelenidiffer/30min

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Think your confidence faded with your waistline or youth? Think again.
In this eye-opening episode, I'm revealing 5 subtle ways midlife women unknowingly
sabotage their self-confidence—and what to do instead.

If you've ever felt stuck, small, or invisible, this is your invitation to reclaim your
power—no makeover required.

• Listen now and learn how to stop dimming your own light.

Here's what you'll learn:

• Spot the Sneaky Saboteurs – How everyday habits like negative self-talk,
  comparison spirals, and style "safe zones" quietly erode your confidence.
• Flip the Script – Concrete mindset shifts to transform your inner dialogue from "I
  can't" to "Watch me."
• The one mindset tweak that can instantly make you feel more powerful, visible, and
  self-assured in midlife.

Want to go deeper?

Join me inside Body Image Breakthrough — my 30-day transformational experience for
women ready to stop playing small and start showing up like the radiant, powerful force they
are. You'll rewrite your relationship with your body — and finally feel at home in your skin. We
begin June 15th!

Get all the details here: https://stylefindersos.com/body-image-breakthrough/

Are you ready for your Midlife Reset? Book a Get Acquainted Call with Mary Michele today:
https://calendly.com/marymichelenidiffer/30min

Follow me on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/marymicheleofficial/

Shop with Me:
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Think aging is just about wrinkles and gray hair? Think again. In this powerful episode, Mary
Michele busts the myths about what really makes women over 50 feel (and look) older—and
spoiler alert: it's not your birthday candles.

From the silent stressors to the style mistakes stealing your sparkle, she reveals the real culprits
accelerating the aging process—and how to reclaim your glow with confidence, joy, and
unapologetic self-expression.

What You'll Learn:
- The 7 surprising things aging you faster than time
- The toll of stress and go-go-go living
- Why joy is your anti-aging secret weapon
- The toxic thought that's aging you overnight
- The magic of shifting from maintenance to radiance

Power Quote:
"You don't need to look younger. You need to feel wildly alive."

Listen now to rewrite the rules of aging—on your terms.

If today's episode hit home and you're tired of feeling like your body is the problem, it's time for
a radical shift. Body Image Breakthrough is a 30-day transformation designed to help you stop
the self-sabotage, ditch the guilt, and finally feel good in your skin—no matter your age, weight,
or size.

This isn't about losing pounds. It's about losing the shame that's been holding you
back.https://stylefindersos.com/body-image-breakthrough/

Are you ready for your Midlife Reset? Book a Get Acquainted Call with Mary Michele today:
https://calendly.com/marymichelenidiffer/30min

Ready to Find Your Signature Style?
Our Micro Course is for you! https://findyoursignaturestyle.com

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In this episode, we're celebrating the woman who raised the bride—you! That's right, we're
talking all things Mother of the Bride. Because after your daughter walks down the aisle, all
eyes are on you. Your dress speaks volumes, so let's make sure it says chic, confident, and
effortlessly stunning.

From decoding wedding vibes and navigating color palettes to ensuring your outfit flatters from
every angle (hello, photos!), you'll walk away knowing exactly what to wear, what to skip, and
how to show up as the radiant, elegant woman you are.

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:
● The #1 mistake most mothers of the bride don't realize they're making
● How to show up stylishly without stealing the spotlight
● The secret to choosing the dress that makes you feel unstoppable
● What every camera-ready outfit has in common
● The finishing touches that make you unforgettable

Be sure to grab my styling guide to Mother of the Bride Dresses here:
​​https://www.facebook.com/groups/diaryofamidlifewoman

Are you ready for your Midlife Reset? Book a Get Acquainted Call with Mary Michele today:
https://calendly.com/marymichelenidiffer/30min

Ready to Find Your Signature Style?
Our Micro Course is for you! https://findyoursignaturestyle.com

Follow me on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/marymicheleofficial/

Shop with Me:
https://shopstylefinder.com/

Have you ever felt like you had to chase the trends or 'figure out' your style? I'm here to tell you
that you already have everything you need inside you. Your true style isn't something you create
from scratch; it's something you uncover, refine, and reclaim.

Today, we're diving into how your style is a reflection of who you are from the inside out— your
values, your lifestyle, your energy — and why midlife is the perfect time to cultivate a style that
feels like home. Let's get started!

In this episode I'm sharing:
● What signature style really means (hint: it's not trends)
● How your style reflects your values, lifestyle, and identity
● Why midlife is the best time to discover your true style

Today, I'm going to show you why your signature style isn't something you have to 'figure out.'
It's something that's already within you — waiting to be revealed.

Are you ready for your Midlife Reset? Book a Get Acquainted Call with Mary Michele today:
https://calendly.com/marymichelenidiffer/30min

Ready to Find Your Signature Style?
Our Micro Course is for you! https://findyoursignaturestyle.com

Join the conversation in our Facebook Group:
​​https://www.facebook.com/groups/diaryofamidlifewoman

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It's not just about fewer shoes — it's about freedom

You've lived enough life to know what truly matters — and yet, when it comes to
travel, it's easy to pack like we're preparing for every possible version of
ourselves. After several years of frequent traveling to Europe and around the
US, I want to help you break free from that. In this episode, I'm sharing why I
choose to travel light — not just in my suitcase, but in my soul — and how you
can too. Whether you're jetting off to Paris, heading to a weekend getaway, or
planning an epic road trip, this is your permission slip to simplify, elevate, and
pack with purpose.

Other Resources to Listen to:
86 - Your Guide to Packing for Travel
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/86-your-guide-to-packing-for-travel/id1560924181?i=1000559667992

Contact me for more info on the Paris Retreat: michele (at) shopstylefnder (dot) com

Are you ready for your Midlife Reset? Book a Get Acquainted Call with Mary Michele today:
https://calendly.com/marymichelenidiffer/30min

Ready to Find Your Signature Style?
Our Micro Course is for you! https://findyoursignaturestyle.com

Join the conversation in our Facebook Group:
​​https://www.facebook.com/groups/diaryofamidlifewoman

Follow me on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/marymicheleofficial/

Shop with Me:
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Welcome back to The Diary of a Midlife Woman, where we talk all things confidence, style, and
health in this incredible season of midlife. Today, we're diving into a topic that affects every
woman at some point—menopause. But let's be honest, there's a LOT of misinformation out
there. So in today's episode, I'm talking with Dr. Polly Watson, a board-certified OB-GYN with
over 20 years of experience, to bust 10 of the biggest menopause myths that might be holding
you back from feeling amazing, empowered, and in control of your body. Whether you're in perimenopause, post-menopause, or just curious about what's ahead, this episode is for YOU.

Dr. Polly Watson is a board-certified OB-GYN with over 20 years of experience, specializing in
menopausal, sexual, and functional medicine. She is an expert in addressing a wide range of
hormonal concerns, including PCOS, PMS, perimenopause, menopause, low libido, and sexual
pain. As a certified practitioner with the Institute for Functional Medicine (IFM), Dr. Watson
integrates holistic care approaches that go beyond traditional medicine.

Her specialized training includes menopausal medicine through The Menopause Society and
sexual medicine through the International Society for the Study of Women's Sexual Health. Dr.
Watson partners closely with her patients, utilizing a combination of lifestyle modifications,
nutrition, mindfulness, bio-identical hormones, and supplements to optimize hormonal balance
and overall well-being.

1. Menopause Happens Suddenly – When does menopause actually start and how long
before we're in full blown menopause?
2. It Only Affects Older Women – When do women really start experiencing symptoms of
menopause?
3. Say Goodbye to Your Sex Life – What are some ways to manage changes in sexual
health?
4. Say Hello to Hot Flashes for the Rest of Your Life - Does everyone have hot flashes?
How long do they last and what can we do to mitigate them?
5. HRT is Dangerous – Tell us from a doctor's perspective the truth about HRT.
6. All HRT is the Same - Give us the scoop on HRT. Are there different kinds? Is it all
right for everyone?
7. Weight Gain is Inevitable – Do we REALLY have to resign ourselves to the fact that we
now have a spare tire around our middle?
8. Menopause = The End of Your Best Years – Are my best years behind me? Is it all
downhill from here?
9. I'm Supposed to Feel Tired and Achy all the Time - What's the reality when it comes
to our energy levels and joints in menopause and what can we do to support them?
10. You Just Have to Tough It Out – Am I doomed to suffering for the rest of my days?

Learn more from Dr. Polly Watson here: https://hormonewellnessmd.com/

Follow her on Instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/hormonewellnessmd/?hl=en

Are you ready for your Midlife Reset? Book a Get Acquainted Call with Mary Michele today:
https://calendly.com/marymichelenidiffer/30min

Ready to Find Your Signature Style?
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Ready to liven up your style for spring? Simply choose a new style icon to
breathe new life into your closet.

Today, we're diving deep into the wardrobes of 10 extraordinary style icons
who are redefining fashion and proving that age is never a limit when it
comes to expressing yourself. From the effortless cool of Jenna Lyons to the
daring edge of Kristen McMenamy, these women aren't just getting
dressed—they're telling a story, embracing their individuality, and inspiring us
to do the same.

We'll explore their signature looks, what sets them apart, and most
importantly, how their fearless approach to fashion can empower YOU to
create a wardrobe that's uniquely yours.

Because style doesn't have an expiration date. Let's redefine what it means to
dress with confidence and flair at any age.

Other Podcasts to Take the Learning Deeper::
5 Style Icons Over 40 to Inspire Your Style This Season
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/134-5-style-icons-over-40-to-inspire-your-style-this-season/id1560924181?i=1000584887409

Come join us over on Facebook and let me know which one you'll be inviting
into your closet this spring!

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Are you ready to shake things up and feel wildly alive at any age? In this episode of Diary of a Midlife Woman, we're diving into The Midlife Reset—how to reignite your passion, confidence, and joy in this exciting chapter of life. From mindset shifts to style upgrades and daily rituals that fuel your energy, we'll explore what it really takes to feel vibrant, sexy, and unstoppable. It's time to embrace midlife with power and purpose!

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Ready to Find Your Signature Style?

Our Micro Course is for you! https://findyoursignaturestyle.com

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How Many Times Have You Heard Someone Say, "Am I Too Old to Wear That?" As if there's a
certain age where you magically become 'too old' to rock your best pair of skinny jeans or even
think about wearing the latest trends.

Well the good news is that there is no fashion police who are going to call you out and give you
the style smackdown. In this episode I'm here to help you break free from the 'age-appropriate'
nonsense and embrace YOUR personal style with confidence. Because let's be real—if you
love it, you can wear it. No permission slip needed. So, ditch the doubts, own your look, and
redefine what style at midlife really means. Ready? Let's do this!

Are you ready for your Midlife Reset? Book a Get Acquainted Call with Mary Michele today:
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Upscale casual is that elusive style sweet spot where comfort meets
sophistication. Not quite dressed up, but infinitely more polished than your
casual wear. It's the perfect look for everything from brunch with friends to
the office, a casual dinner out or sightseeing around your favorite city. In
this episode I share secrets to master this look:

It's TIME! Join the Fr*ee Fall Style Jumpstart Challenge NOW:
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Get our 3-step Style Formula Here: https://fightthefrump.com/

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You may feel as if you've just gotten into the groove of summer but fall is right around
the corner. This month unofficially kicks off the first preview of fall fashion and fall styles
will soon be everywhere. As you transition into the upcoming season why not try a new
approach? In this episode we're talking about intuitive dressing and how it can help you
to gently ease into the next season feeling confident about yourself and your style.

It's TIME! Join the Fr*ee Fall Style Jumpstart Challenge NOW:
https://stylefindersos.com/2024-fall-jumpstart-challenge/

Discover your 3 keys of style in our signature course, How to Find Your Signature
Style, now just $47. Learn more: https://findyoursignaturestyle.com/

Download the StyleFinder Boutique APP: https://shopstylefinder.com/pages/app-download

Shop with me: https://shopstylefinder.com/

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https://www.instagram.com/shopstylefinder/

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episode is: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/style-by-mary-michele/id1560924181

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Packing for a trip can be stressful, especially when you're trying to cram everything you
need into a carry-on. But fear not! Today's episode is here to inspire you with essential
pieces that are versatile, comfortable, and stylish, so you can look your best and feel
confident without packing everything in your closet.

Other Episodes to listen to:
Ep. 86 - Your Guide to Packing for Travel - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/86-your-guide-to-packing-for-travel/id1560924181?i=1000559667992

Ep. 99 - 10 Style Secret Weapons for Travel –
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/99-10-style-secret-weapons-for-travel/id1560924181?i=1000568831294

Last Call for Color Analysis! Book Your Virtual session TODAY and save $100!
https://stylefindersos.com/color-analysis/

It's TIME! Join the Fr*ee Fall Style Jumpstart Challenge NOW:
https://stylefindersos.com/2024-fall-jumpstart-challenge/

Discover your 3 keys of style in our signature course, How to Find Your Signature
Style, now just $47. Learn more: https://findyoursignaturestyle.com/

Download the StyleFinder Boutique APP: https://shopstylefinder.com/pages/app-download

Shop with me: https://shopstylefinder.com/

Follow me on You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@MidlifeWomansGuide

Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marymicheleofficial/

https://www.instagram.com/shopstylefinder/

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episode is: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/style-by-mary-michele/id1560924181

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Color is the first thing people notice, and can be a powerful tool in your arsenal of style
tricks. Not only can it make you look more vibrant, but color can help you to look
slimmer when you need it most. In this episode I'm sharing 6 ways color can make you
look pounds thinner.

Last Call for Color Analysis! Book Your Virtual session TODAY and save $100!
https://stylefindersos.com/color-analysis/

Discover your 3 keys of style in our signature course, How to Find Your Signature
Style, now just $47. Learn more: https://findyoursignaturestyle.com/

Download the StyleFinder Boutique APP: https://shopstylefinder.com/pages/app-download

Shop with me: https://shopstylefinder.com/

Follow me on You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@MidlifeWomansGuide

Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marymicheleofficial/

https://www.instagram.com/shopstylefinder/

Leave a review and let me know where you're listening from and what your favorite
episode is: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/style-by-mary-michele/id1560924181

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S-A-L-E: It's a 4-letter word that can quicken a woman's pulse faster than another Magic
Mike sequel. Yet it can also be what wreaks havoc on your wardrobe and your budget.
July kicks off the summer sales, but before you get excited and head straight for the
clearance rack, I want to share some tips to make the sales work FOR you, not
AGAINST you.

Last Call for Color Analysis! Book Your Virtual session TODAY and save $100!
https://stylefindersos.com/color-analysis/

Discover your 3 keys of style in our signature course, How to Find Your Signature
Style, now just $47. Learn more: https://findyoursignaturestyle.com/

Download the StyleFinder Boutique APP: https://shopstylefinder.com/pages/app-download

Shop with me: https://shopstylefinder.com/

Follow me on You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@MidlifeWomansGuide

Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marymicheleofficial/

https://www.instagram.com/shopstylefinder/

Leave a review and let me know where you're listening from and what your favorite
episode is: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/style-by-mary-michele/id1560924181

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And https://www.tiktok.com/@shopstylefinder?lang=en

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Feeling frumpy? Most midlife women hit that frump slump at some point in their lives, but
it doesn't have to derail your style or your confidence. In this episode I'm sharing 5
simple tips to help you dump the frump and get back on track.

Discover your 3 keys of style in our signature course, How to Find Your Signature
Style, now just $47. Learn more: https://findyoursignaturestyle.com/

Download the StyleFinder Boutique APP: https://shopstylefinder.com/pages/app-download

Shop with me: https://shopstylefinder.com/

Follow me on You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/@MidlifeWomansGuide

Join me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marymicheleofficial/

https://www.instagram.com/shopstylefinder/

Leave a review and let me know where you're listening from and what your favorite
episode is: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/style-by-mary-michele/id1560924181

Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marymicheleofficial

And https://www.tiktok.com/@shopstylefinder?lang=en

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