Scratch That: Parenting & ReParenting Off Script – Details, episodes & analysis

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Scratch That: Parenting & ReParenting Off Script

Rebekah Taussig & Caitlin Metz

Kids & Family

Society & Culture

Health & Fitness

Frequency: 1 episode/7d. Total Eps: 62

Scratch That is a weekly podcast with queer illustrator Caitlin Metz and disabled storyteller Rebekah Taussig, two friends trying to figure out how to be parents and people at the same time. Caitlin and Rebekah delve into heartfelt, honest conversations with caregivers who are going off script, starting from scratch, and building alternate paths. Join our community on Patreon!

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🇨🇦 Canada - parenting
13/12/2025
#89
🇨🇦 Canada - parenting
22/10/2025
#87
🇨🇦 Canada - parenting
16/08/2025
#97
🇨🇦 Canada - parenting
13/08/2025
#70
🇬🇧 Great Britain - parenting
17/07/2025
#99
🇨🇦 Canada - parenting
28/05/2025
#93
🇨🇦 Canada - parenting
27/05/2025
#69
🇨🇦 Canada - parenting
25/05/2025
#82
🇨🇦 Canada - parenting
24/05/2025
#51
🇬🇧 Great Britain - parenting
27/04/2025
#94

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✷ Welcome to Scratch That

Monday, September 16, 2024 • Duration 09:00

We’re launching a podcast!!! First episodes of SCRATCH THAT: PARENTING & REPARENTING OFF SCRIPT drop September 30th!

Two scrappy midwestern authors, who birthed babies in the early days of the pandemic, walk into a bar. Well, one walks in their chunky doc martins and backward cap, the other rolls in on her Ti-lite chair, rocking teeny tiny bangs.

Both challenge the norms of parenthood in their own ways — one with their gender, the other with her body — and carry deep curiosity about what it means to be human. Naturally, these wayward misfits hit record and turned their angst and good cheer at being alive — in these bodies, at this time — into a whole ass podcast.

You are cordially invited to join us on this winding exploration. Along the way we’ll be chewing on impossible questions, interviewing people who are also going off script, and sharing the books, poems, and objects that support our quest to parent and re-parent ourselves at the same time.

You will always be able to listen on Apple & Spotify, but join us on Patreon (for free) to be part of the conversation (and see our intro videos!)!!

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🎙️ What Does Disability Teach Us About Building Community? with Alex Wegman

Episode 3

Monday, September 30, 2024 • Duration 01:07:50

Alex Wegman is one of our absolute favorite people on (and off) the internet.

She’s a writer, storyteller, homeschooling mom of two, and a lifelong wheelchair user who tells stories about life at the intersection of disability, parenting, friendship, and generally existing in public.

Everything she shares has deeply impacted how we approach parenting. So we’re thrilled to have her as our first guest on Scratch That!

Tune in to hear about:

Cultivating independence for parents & kids
Disability representation in Alex’s childhood
Confronting ableist attitudes toward pregnancy & birth
Deconstructing the nuclear family
New scripts for intimacy & home-building
Learning to love the act of asking for help
Indulging in our joy

More from us & our guests:

Follow Alex on Instagram @alexwegman + v isit her website
Follow Rebekah on Instagram @sitting_pretty
Follow Caitlin on Instagram @caitlinhasfeels

✷ And if you loved this episode, please join us on Patreon for show notes, transcripts + more!

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🌪️ Dear Listener…

Episode 1

Monday, September 23, 2024 • Duration 25:28

Hello and welcome to Scratch That!

We (Caitlin & Rebekah) are so thrilled that you — yes you listening to this right now — are here tuning in to this episode.

So we wrote you a letter! And had a quick chat about who we are, why we started this show, and how becoming parents ushered us into a new era of reparenting ourselves and rewriting our scripts for family, motherhood, childhood, and so much more.

We hope you’ll press play, subscribe wherever you listen, and join us on Patreon to continue these conversations.

xo, Rebekah & Caitlin

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🌪️ What Is a ‘Real’ Mom?

Episode 2

Monday, September 23, 2024 • Duration 51:55

Have you ever felt like maybe you weren’t a “real” parent?

When we decided to start a podcast, this was the first thing we wanted to talk about — why our brains keep sending us messages that we aren’t “real” mothers.

So today we’re sharing the images of motherhood we’ve seen throughout our lives, and digging into how those images are complicated by disability, queerness, and a desire to parent differently.

Listen in as we unpack our vision of what a Real Mom™️ should be. Then join us on Patreon to continue the conversation! If you have your own green shoes moment, we’d love to hear about it. ♡

More from us:

Follow Rebekah on Instagram @sitting_pretty
Follow Caitlin on Instagram @caitlinhasfeels
Mentioned in the episode: Alex Wegman

✷ And if you loved this episode, please join us on Patreon for show notes, transcripts + more!

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🌪️ Do We Have Another Baby?

Episode 4

Monday, October 7, 2024 • Duration 44:27

Today we’re taking on the impossible question: do we have another baby? 😵‍💫

Caitlin opens us with a beautiful poem from Joy Sullivan, and then we each share the joys, fears, and swirls of question marks coming up as we consider having a second kid.

Listen in as we unpack our feelings about fertility, age, baby fever, finances, mental health, desire, and more — including how an oracle card is helping Rebekah figure out her answer.

Then join us on Patreon to continue the conversation! We’d love to hear how you’re approaching this question with your families. ♡

More from us:

Follow Rebekah on Instagram @sitting_pretty
Follow Caitlin on Instagram @caitlinhasfeels
Mentioned in the episode: Instructions for Traveling West by Joy Sullivan, Haley Brown’s Tearwater Oracle Deck, Why Fish Don’t Exist by Lulu Miller

✷ And if you loved this episode, please join us on Patreon for show notes, transcripts + more!

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📓 What Makes a Baby by Cory Silverberg and Fiona Smyth (book report)

Episode 5

Monday, October 14, 2024 • Duration 21:08

We love books. And the best part of loving books is sharing them with our friends.

So we’re very excited to kick off our book report series — mini-ish episodes where we’ll talk about our favorite books that guide us as parents and people.

Our first pick is the amazing What Makes a Baby by Cory Silverberg and Fiona Smyth.

Tune in to hear us gush about this book that will help you explain reproduction to your two year old. Then join us on Patreon to request future book reports and share your fave reads!

More from us:

Follow Rebekah on Instagram @sitting_pretty
Follow Caitlin on Instagram @caitlinhasfeels
Mentioned in the episode: Ericka Hart, What Makes a Baby, Sex is a Funny Word, You Know, Sex

✷ And if you loved this episode, please join us on Patreon for show notes, transcripts + more!

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🌪️ Where Does My Story End and Yours Begin?

Season 1 · Episode 7

Monday, October 28, 2024 • Duration 46:55

When we sat down for this conversation, we fully intended to dive into the tricky choices we have to make when deciding if/how to share about our kids — on social media or a podcast, in writing or conversation. And while we do spend some time trying to parse out that particular challenge, the conversation that unfolded quickly became much deeper. Because a conversation about representing another human is also a conversation about storytelling, perspective, autonomy, and relationship boundaries. And so we ask —

👀 What if we don't see things the same way that our kids/parents do?

📚 What happens when family members have conflicting true stories of shared experiences?

📷 How do we document our kids' childhoods without bringing an audience into their experiences.

👯‍♂️ How do I untangle where my story ends and yours begins?

🧑‍🧑‍🧒 How do we learn to tell our own stories when we've deeply absorbed a family narrative?

🪢 How do I hold onto a sense of myself when parenting/caregiving consumes so much of me?

🐣 And why even share about our kids at all?

In the episode, we mention...

Rebekah's recent Substack essay, " Dear Son of a Disabled Mother,"

Caitlin's collaborative artwork with Charlie, including the "Am I a Real Mom?" piece.

We would love to keep the conversation going on our Patreon. Have you found a way of representing your young people (online or anywhere else) that honors both your experience and theirs? Do you have tensions within family systems that hold multiple, differing true stories? What do you find especially sticky about the questions being asked in this episode?

🎙️ How Do We Talk About Miscarriage and Infertility? with Emma Parker

Season 1 · Episode 6

Monday, October 21, 2024 • Duration 01:00:17

Today, we share with you a tender conversation with the one-and-only deep-feeler, wholehearted Emma Parker.

Emma is a photographer who longs for deep connections, feels inspired by the ways we are all different and also the same, and, for the last two years, has experienced infertility and miscarriage. Emma generously agreed to share some of her story, experience, and insight with Caitlin and Rebekah – two people who do not share this experience – with the hope that it could help give all of us in the Scratch That community new scripts for processing our own unique experiences and showing up for the ones we love. We are so grateful she was willing to have this vulnerable conversation with us – and y'all, she showed up with such honesty and heart💛

Tune in to hear about:

🌟 Fumbling through uncomfortable conversations.

🚫 The scripts we want to avoid when someone is going through infertility or miscarriage.

🌗 Growing our capacities for feeling more than one thing at a time.

🌱 Showing up for our hurting people by learning to sit with our own pain & discomfort.

❤️ Practicing new scripts for how to engage our kids when they are struggling.

📦 Miscarriage care-packages!

🌊 Better scripts for when our loved ones are experiencing unresolved/ongoing suffering.

Where to find everyone:

Follow Emma on Instagram @emmybeephotog + visit her website

Follow Rebekah on Instagram @sitting_pretty

Follow Caitlin on Instagram

🌪️ How Do We Talk About Our Internalized Ableism?

Season 8 · Episode 8

Monday, November 4, 2024 • Duration 01:05:06

The conversation we bring you today is especially tender. We decided to sit down to talk about internalized ableism, because Caitlin is grappling with a potentially new diagnosis that has brought up a lot for them. We hope you'll listen to this one with care — as we process together, we lift the lids on some of the ugliest wounds ableism inflicts. And so much is still fresh.

The two of us experience internalized ableism differently for a host of reasons — Caitlin feels wobbly even claiming the title of disability and would embody a combination of old and new, non-apparent versions of the word, while Rebekah moves through the world in a very visible wheelchair, and has for most of her life — but as we talked, we bumped into a host of thought-provoking overlaps and deviations in our experiences.

Tune in to hear us explore:

🌪️ The wide range of layered emotions that can come up with a new diagnosis.

🦆 The definition of ableism through the metaphor of a duck on water.

🌊 The messy intersections of postpartum depression, internalized ableism, and ADHD/autistic burnout.

👍 The feeling of needing to prove we can be trusted to care for our kids, especially in public.

❗️ The ways pregnancy and postpartum can become disabling experiences, especially in a country that does not support new parents.

💵 How money changes the experience of disability.

♟️ Strategies for navigating mental health struggles as a parent.

🌱 A hope that adjusting to a new diagnosis can be a beautiful process, too.

Mentioned int this episode:

📖 Easy Beauty by Chloe Cooper Jones

🌀 Andy J Pizza shares a lot about his experience of ADHD as a creative — find him on or his podcast, .

🌪️ How do we build new traditions when holidays are triggering AF?

Season 1 · Episode 12

Monday, November 25, 2024 • Duration 45:52

Today we tackle what Caitlin refers to as the "cheerful nostalgia and heart-wrenching sorrow" the holidays can bring. For so many of us, this particular time of year comes with a lot of guilt and pressure, hard memories or sadness that the present doesn't look quite like we think it should. Together we process what makes these days hard for the both of us and generate a host of ideas for navigating these both/and days with full hearts and a lot of creative curiosity.

🖨️ You can download this little zine, print on 8.5x11 paper and fold it down for your pocket to reference when you need it. Here are directions for folding.

Tune in to hear us talk about:

💔 Making space for the sadness and releasing the guilt.

✨ Grasping onto joy when we can.

🎊 Caitlin's tips on how to create new holiday traditions.

🍄 Learning to take off the pressure of a single day.

🙌 Our own experiences accidentally discovering new holiday rituals.

🌱 The pains of families evolving holiday traditions as they age, grow, and change.

⚙️ Moving away from default and toward intentional celebrations.

Find us on instagram @sitting_pretty ✨ @caitlinhasfeels

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