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Most couples hit a wall, both waiting for the other to move first. This episode names the gridlock, explains why it keeps high-achieving couples stuck for years, and shows you exactly how to break it.

In this episode:
Why waiting for your partner to change first keeps you both stuck
The chicken-and-egg problem between emotional and physical intimacy
What “going first” looks like without sacrificing your standards
Why loving someone the way you want to be loved can miss the mark, and how the “princess passenger” technique changes that

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

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CONNECT: 

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→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

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Your wife says she doesn't trust you but you've never cheated, you work hard, and you show up for your family. This episode breaks down why men and women define trust differently, and what it actually takes to rebuild emotional safety in marriage.

In this episode:

• Why saying “I’ve never cheated” doesn’t actually address what she’s worried about when she says she can’t trust you
• How promising too much and following through too little slowly breaks trust — and how to change that
• How being emotionally present, keeping your word, and taking responsibility help a woman feel safe and trust you
• Why independent women can have a hard time accepting support, and how learning to rely on each other can make the relationship stronger

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

You've handled the career, the business, the money. So why does your marriage feel like the one problem you can't crack?

Adam and Aston Simmonds dig into something most successful people don't want to hear: the habits that got you here are the same ones pushing your partner away. If your life looks great from the outside and still feels hollow at home, listen to this one.

In this episode:

• High standards, fix-it mode, efficiency. Brilliant at work. Quietly corrosive in a marriage
• There's a "science of achievement" and an "art of fulfilment." Nailing the first one teaches you nothing about the second
• "Dirty fuel" is fear, proving yourself, the dread of sliding backwards. It keeps you producing and it keeps you disconnected. Adam and Aston explain how to run on clean fuel instead
• Put the marriage first and the rest tends to fall into place. They walk through how that reorder actually works

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

In this episode of the Worthy Woman Podcast I sit down with the beautiful Melissa Maxwell to talk about finding your purpose, self confidence and starting a business. 

Melissa is a coach who focuses on mindset, self development and business. Why all 3? Melissa truely believes they are all so important individually, and as a whole, to create a life, and business, that you don't need a holiday from!

We’ve all heard that famous Confucius quote, “Choose a job you love and you will never have to work a day in your life”, but how do you actually do that if you haven’t found your true passion yet? & what if you're just filled with so much self doubt and feel like you're lacking confidence within yourself?

Aspiring entrepreneurs often feel a sense that something’s missing from their life, or that they’re not fulfilled. And that’s a good thing, I promise. Why? Because it means you’re ready for something more. Something that’s truly ‘you’, even if you're unclear on what 'you' truely is just yet.

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GET MORE FREE RESOURCES & CHECK OUT THE WAYS YOU CAN WORK WITH ME HERE 👉https://linktr.ee/astonsimmonds👈

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👇Follow Melissa👇 

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/itsmelissamaxwell/

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

Today we're going to be talking about what to do if your husband is emotionally unavailable.

Having a partner who is emotionally unavailable is incredibly frustrating. If you're experiencing this right now I just want you to know that you are not alone. This was a key thing that I wanted in a relationship. I mean, most women want emotional connection. They want emotional intimacy. That's what makes us feel safe. 

And then we're with these men who just—you know, in Adam's defense, he'd never been taught emotional intelligence, it can feel like no matter what you do you can never reach your partner. 

Adam was not in touch with his own feelings. He was really disconnected from himself. So it made it very hard for him to connect to me on that deeper level. 

So I want to share with you how we cracked open Adam so that he could connect more deeply with his emotions for himself and then have emotional intimacy within our relationship.

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

In this episode of the Worthy Woman Podcast we're talking about self love for busy mums and how you can break free from the limiting beliefs and conditioning that are holding you back from your true potential.

I sit down with the beautiful Nikki Chamberlain @nikkiccoaching who is a Woman's Coach who specialises in helping women to grow their confidence and self love.
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Here's some of the things we chat about:⁠
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❤️ Identifying the limiting beliefs that are holding you back
❤️ Nikki's 4 step process for changing limiting beliefs
❤️ Practical ways to increase your self love
❤️ Taking care of yourself as a busy mum
❤️ How fear is keeping you stuck
❤️ Why self love is not selfish
❤️ And so much more!⁠

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👇Follow Nikki👇 

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nikkiccoaching/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/nikkiccoaching
Website - www.nikkichamberlaincoaching.com

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

In this episode of the Worthy Woman Podcast we're talking about how to heal your lack of self love & self worth so you can break free from the negative patterns that are holding you back from your true potential.

I sit down with Jessica Louise Kay who is a Woman's Coach who specialises in nurturing the woman who lacks purpose and feels a disconnect in her life; to reclaim her self-identity, connect back to her spiritual self + feel a deeper love + connection to who she really is.

👇Follow Jessica👇 

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jessicalouisekay_/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/JessicaLouiseKay
Website - https://www.jessicalouisekay.com/

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

Today I want to reflect, look back and celebrate with you because we're coming to the end of 2022 and I don't know about you, but I've been having a lot of conversations with clients and women and lots of couples that are feeling really exhausted at the end of this year. 

I feel like it's because of what we've been through in the last three years. It feels like it's just been compounded. There's been a lot of fear, many of us have put plans on hold and there’s been so many unexpected surprises. 

So let’s celebrate your wins, take a look at where you are right now and lets start to get excited about an amazing 2023!

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

Today I am celebrating myself and sharing some really exciting news with my beautiful worthy women listeners.

I have recently had an article published by Mamamia, Australia and I wanted to share it with my beautiful Worthy Woman listeners because I know that you would get so much value from this article. I am super excited that it's being shared and I'm getting all these amazing messages from women and clients and past clients, from friends from family from people I've never met. It has been incredible. 

I've definitely been in tears quite a few times over the last few days just receiving all these beautiful messages from these incredible, amazing women and mothers and it's really touched my heart, moved me and reinforced my mission. Why I do what I do! Why I do this podcast, why I share everything I share on social media and why my husband and I create the courses for couples and women who want to work on their relationships and why I work with women one to one. 

You can read the article on Mamamia here👉https://www.mamamia.com.au/how-to-find-your-self-worth-as-a-mum/

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

Have you fallen out of love and into resentment? This definitely happened to us in the past! 

We see so many couples fall into this trap and it's something we still have to work on regularly. Because, we are two very different human beings with different likes, dislikes, needs and wants. So of course there are going to be things that you and your partner don’t always agree on. 

In this video we share two ways that you can start to overcome resentment So firstly, get clear on if you have some resentment, I can almost guarantee that you do. If you're telling stories about your partner this is how it starts. You'll be saying like stories to yourself, like he shouldn't be doing this, or why does she always do that? Or he never does it this way and it really frustrates me that they do that. 

There'll be a story that you tell that literally feeds this resentment and dramatises it. It makes it so big and it's a form of judgment. It's a form of judgment to the other person. It comes across as criticism. Resentment can also come across as avoidance not having the conversation like stonewalling. Like putting your guard up in frustration as well. 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

Today we're going to talk about something which is going to probably be hard for the women to receive.

We need to stop being so masculine. I know that it's really hard to receive as a woman because it was really hard for me to receive. We live in a world today that tells women that they can be it all and have it all.

But in order to have it all and do it all we need to be strong and powerful, be the supermom and slay at work and it sends us into our masculine energy. 

We live in a world that overvalues doing and really undervalues being which can really cause massive challenges in our relationships if we are not bringing awareness to it.

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Today I have a very special guest, one of my beautiful clients, Amelia. Amelia is a mom of two and she is in a relationship. When Amelia first came to us she was working full time and she was pregnant with baby number two which is now here with us.

Amelia has a partner who works away (FIFO) and she's like a lot of us busy, worthy women. We've got a lot going on. We've got a lot on our plate, but Amelia knew that she needed to make her relationship a priority. 

Amelia has actually done our relationship challenge, our communication challenge and she's currently in our Ignite and Unite Relationship Program. 

So I just wanted to bring Amelia on to share her experience so that you can hear through a client's experience of what it's like working with us. 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Are you feeling like roommates in your relationship instead of teammates or a partnership or even lovers? 

If you're currently in a season in your relationship where you're feeling like roommates, I just want you to know you're not alone. This comes up a lot in when I work with couples and when I work with women.

Adam and I experienced it in our relationship three years ago, we definitely felt like roommates and were definitely not teammates. 

There was still love for each other but we were not in love with each other and there is a massive difference. So if you're in this right now, I just want you to know that you're not alone. There's nothing wrong with you, you're not broken. Nothing needs fixing, but we do need to bring awareness to what we're feeling and why we're feeling it.

From all of the women and couples that I've worked with and through my own experience I've now been able to pinpoint what's actually going on with this feeling of roommates, why we're feeling like roommates and how we can overcome it.

Book in a free call with me here👉https://transformmymarriagefast.com/qualifying-questionnaireqmvnlmd8

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Most couples struggling with marriage communication think they just need to get better at talking to each other. But what's really driving the arguments, the withdrawal, and the resentment is a lack of shared agreements. In this episode, Adam and Aston break down what boundaries actually are, why couples conflict keeps repeating without them, and how to build a boundary agreement that creates safety, respect, and real connection.

In this episode:

• Why most relationship disconnection is a boundary problem, not a communication problem
• The game analogy that reframes boundaries as structure rather than walls or control
• How to create a shared boundary agreement that both partners actually buy into
• Why self abandonment masquerading as unconditional love is quietly destroying your marriage

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

I want you to know that wherever you're at right now in your relationship is perfect.

It is divine, and it is perfect.

So often we do this to ourselves and I did this in the past and so did my husband. We made ourselves wrong. Like we shouldn't be in the position we are currently in and facing the challenges we are currently facing.

Maybe you're going through a challenging time at the moment or you're not happy in your relationship right now, or maybe it's not meeting your expectations. So often we do this thing where we reject and resist and we shame ourselves for where we are. 

We're ashamed for having challenges in our relationship and we feel like we should be further along by now. 

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In this episode I sit down with the beautiful Aoife McCormack. Aoife is a transformational health coach for highly sensitive women and I just love what she does.

In this chat we talk about healing health issues, self love, finding your life purpose and so much more.

Connect with Aoife👇

Website - https://aoifemindbody.com/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/aoife.mccormack.796

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aoifemindbody/

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Today I want to talk about how to love yourself in your relationship. This is something that came up recently when I did a workshop in another women's group and I realised that this is so common and so powerful so I need to share what I shared with them, with you here. 

So, if you're in a relationship right now and you're feeling like you're working on your own self love journey, filling yourself and loving yourself, but your partner is not on that journey. This episode is for you! 

👇If you’re ready to take your relationship to the next level check out the link below👇

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Today I want to talk about what to do when you're triggered by your partner in your relationship. Now this is a huge one, because honestly relationships with anybody, but particularly our intimate partners and children, can be extremely triggering. 

I've actually had to learn to change my relationship to being triggered in my relationships. In the past when I was triggered I took it really personally. I would make these horrible stories about it that would leave me feeling frustrated and stuck.

It would create so much separation between me and my own heart, and then me and my partner's heart, or even me and my kids, and it would make me go into my ego and just see the worst case scenario. From this place I couldn't learn the lesson. 

👇If you’re ready to take your relationship to the next level check out the link below👇

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There are two common myths that we hear couples talk about that cause so much unnecessary pain and suffering. We hear this from women and the couples we work with all the time. 

We're constantly hearing this feedback that the the right relationship shouldn't hurt. This is a story that we have had in the past too. Adam and I have been married 18 years, been married eight years now, but we've been together 18 years. 

We've got two kids under five. So five years of that has been parenting together, and there's a lot of challenges that come and there is a lot of growth that's had to happen on that journey. 

You've probably had a lot of growth too and this idea that relationships shouldn't hurt. Really does get in the way of a beautiful, fulfilling relationship.

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How do you know when enough is enough in your relationship? Whether to stay or whether to go or whether it's even worth it? Should you get a divorce and break up or is there a way to stay together and make it work?

These are tough questions and every time I get it in my inbox, I always prefer that the woman books in a call with me because it's very hard to answer this question without knowing your specific situation. So I always offer to have a free call so that they can get some more clarity on where they are in their relationship right now and just feel seen, heard and understood in what they're going through. 

Whatever you're feeling right now is 100% valid and true for you and you need to validate it for you. And if you can't do that then definitely reach out to me (links below), another coach or counseling or therapy if that is your thing or a trusted friend so that you can have that sounding board and that listening ear that's there to just really validate what feelings are true for you right now.

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We get this question a lot from other couples when the woman or the man is ready to make changes in the relationship but their partner isn’t. One of them's ready, but they're not both on the same page. And this is really common. 

So we want to bust the myth that you should be on the same page. So if one of you at the moment is feeling ready to make some changes, and the other one is a bit nervous, a bit scared, a bit reluctant, or maybe even completely resistant to it, it's more common than you think and this has happened in our relationship time and time again. Every time we go to the next level in our relationship, one of us is always more ready than the other.

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In this special episode I chat to the beautiful Breanna, also known as Miss Mindset, about our broken education system, home schooling and so much more. 

Breanna is an educator, podcaster, writer and mindset/biz coach for women who are feeling stuck, stagnant or trapped. Through a mix of energetics, human design, mindset and spiritual principals she takes women back to their truest essence so that they can claim their personal power and dreams. 

3 years ago Breanna left her job as a teacher in the education system after realising how broken the system really was. Her mission is to teach the things we were never taught at school.

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Today I want to talk about a topic which women share with me all the time it causes a lot of stress and anxiety for them. They find it really hard to communicate to their partners what they need. 

If you've been in a tough place in your relationship or you haven't been connecting or communicating or it's been really surface level, and you're wanting to communicate how you're feeling or what you need, it can feel really scary and really daunting. Most women end up just biting their tongue and suppressing it because they just don't want to rock the boat. They don't want to start an argument. 

They feel like every time they communicate how they feel, their partner gets defensive and just accuses them of being too emotional and it turns into an argument. So to prevent this they just stop communicating and suppress instead.

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Today I am here with my gorgeous husband Adam Simmonds as we are celebrating our eight year wedding anniversary and we want to share the 8 life changing lessons we have learnt over our last 8 years of marriage. So this is a special episode for us. 

You may not or may not have heard our story, but we have been together for 19 years which began when we were in high school. Yes, we’re high school sweethearts. 

During our relationship there have been so many highs and lots of lows too. So listen in as we share these 8 life changing lessons with you.

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If you've been telling yourself "I just feel disconnected" and pointing at your partner, this episode will redirect that conversation back to the one place real change starts: you.

In this episode:
Why disconnection is more common than couples admit
What "fully choosing the relationship" actually means
Acceptance is the first step, not a sign you're settling
How rejection shows up without a single word being spoken
Story first, evidence second - why you keep finding what you don't want
The two pathways and why you have to choose one

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There are three limiting beliefs that all human beings tend to form from a very young age that hold us back in every area of our life. Affecting things such as our ability to love and be loved, success, financial abundance and our health. 

These beliefs generally form before the age of 7 when our minds are very impressionable to outside influence from parents, teachers, friends and society and they can have a significant impact on our adult lives.

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#limitingbeliefs #abundancemindset #loveyourself

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We all know that we need to be more grateful. We all know the power of gratitude. But not many of us practice it and I was so guilty of this as well. 

It's something that over the last three years I have really tried to work my gratitude muscle more and more. And I really invite my clients to work with gratitude more because you cannot be grateful and unhappy at the same time. You can't be grateful and sad. You can't be grateful and frustrated.

Gratitude is one of the fastest ways out of any negative emotion that you're currently feeling.

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In this special chat I sit down with the beautiful Nikki Retigan. Nikki is an incredible coach and Rapid Transformational Therapist (RTT) who helps people access their subconscious mind to breakthrough limiting beliefs holding them back. 

We discuss what is RTT, how Nikki got into it and then we get into the power of the subconscious mind because deep inside your subconscious is where all the gold lives. 

Accessing my subconscious has been soo powerful for me and I know working with women and couples there's always a block holding them back. There's this thing, which we think we have no control over, this block, as if someone has just like moved a big truck in front of us and we can’t move forward.

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Today I want to talk about why your mental health is your number one priority. This was something I struggled with for years. I really loved feeling needed. I loved caring for other people. It was where I kind of had built my identity. 

And I see this in so many women, this nurturing caring side of us. That means we put other people before ourselves all of the time and often it's at the cost of our own mental health. 

When I had kids, it became very clear that there was no way I could continue to do this. It was just not sustainable.

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Today I want to talk about letting go of expectations. This has been huge in my life and I was sharing with a client recently that it's amazing how we all think we don't have expectations and then it's not until life goes the way we really didn't want it to go that we realise we do have expectations.

When I work with women and couples the biggest thing that gets in the way of everything we want, all the love, all the joy, is expectations. Expectation drains love and joy and energy and life from our life. 

So I'm going to share some stories about how expectation has got in the way of my experiences in my life.

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We want to talk about the two reasons why your lack of self love is causing your relationship problems.

The reason why I want to talk about this is because it's so important. Our most intimate relationships are the foundation of our lives and impact every other area. If we don't take the time to work on it every suffers.

This is something that we've had to battle with ourselves. 

I've(Adam) had a huge issue with this, and I know many of our clients and people we speak to struggle with this to. 

We've all been kids at one point and we have all had different experiences during our childhood and those experiences leave a lasting imprint on who we become. As we become adults we then tend to repeat a lot of the patterns that we learnt before the age of 7.

Unfortunately a lot of the patterns that most of us learn are not very healthy ones so we have to first become aware of our patterns and then make some decisions about which ones we want to keep and the ones we want to let go of.

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In this episode we talk to the amazing Fiona Weatherhead. We have invited Fiona to come and speak to us because she does amazing work in the Akashic records. One of the services Fiona offers is called a Soul Awakening Session.

Adam and I had an incredible Soul Awakening Session with Fiona in 2020 which was so powerful for us both individually and our relationship that I got the guidance that we should get Fiona on to talk about it and share it with you guys.

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Resisting change is ruining your relationship!

This is something that I can speak from personal experience about because it's something that I've been doing a lot throughout my life. I've resisted a lot of changes out of fear.

This is something we all do at times because there are things that we have to do in life that are uncomfortable and we don't want to do them. So instead of just facing up to the facts, I've avoided the change, I've made other people wrong, I've blamed Aston or the world, the government, the children or made up a number of excuses as to why I couldn't do what i needed to do. 

This made my life a lot harder than what it needed to be and most importantly it hurt my gorgeous wife and caused some really big issues in our relationship. 

Life is meant to be about constant change and growth. 

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Today I want to talk about how you can start to authentically enjoying social media. I don't know about you guys, but I had really started to not enjoy being on social media after the last few years.

I really started to find it difficult with everything that's been going on in the world to show up authentically. All of the separation, polarisation, get the 💉, no 💉 and just so much control, survival energy and fear. 

I literally feel like we've been drip fed fear for the last three years and I don't know about you, but I really am over it now.

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Intimacy is very different for men and women. Women choose to be intimate as a celebration of the relationship and only feel like it once they feel connected.

For men on the other hand they need to be intimate in order to feel connection. We are complete opposites!

So it is important we understand these differences and make an effort to support ourselves and each other to maximise our connection and intimacy in our relationships so they can thrive.

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This is not therapy.

This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

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"I thought I was helping. I was actually making it worse."

In this episode, we're getting real about one of the most common patterns we see in struggling relationships:

The one who tries harder.
The one who over-functions.
The one who holds everyone accountable — except themselves.

"You cannot control someone into accountability. And the moment I stopped trying, everything started to shift."

If you're the one doing all the work and your partner just won't meet you there…

This episode will change the way you see that dynamic forever.

Save this for the next time you feel like you're carrying it all alone.
Share it with the partner who says "I just want them to step up."

Full episode: "Why Your Partner Won't Take Accountability (And What Actually Works)" is live now. Link in bio.

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This podcast is a special episode. I wanted to invite my husband Adam on to celebrate him and to reflect on his journey of fatherhood.

In this chat we discuss what this journey of being a father has meant to Adam, the highs, the lows and the challenges along the way.

The role of being a father has changed radically over the last few generations. From men who predominantly worked out of the home to now living in a world where a lot of men are working from home and looking after the kids a lot more.

Women use to only look after the kids and the home but are now almost always required to work in order to support a young family.

Needless to say the world has changed radically in a very short period of time and these changes have created new stresses and dynamics in relationships that we are all learning to navigate.

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Today we want to talk about the fact that there is no middle ground in a relationship.

When we first start working with couples, and it was the same for us too, we find they are always trying to find this middle ground that everybody talks about where you're trying to mould the other person to be the way you want them to be so that you can be happy. 

We all tend to fall into this trap because more often than not we've been raised with conditional love from parents and role models. The problem with that is it’s not true love and you can never experience a long lasting, deeply connected and fulfilling relationship from that place.

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Expectation and assumption kill appreciation, love and admiration in a relationship. This was happening for us in our relationship. We had a lot of resentment, a lot of frustration, a lot of stressed feelings and even a bit of anxiety.

We hear from a lot of couples and most of them feel like they're not supported in their relationship and a huge reason why they feel this is because of all the expectations.

If you're really honest take a look at the expectations you're placing on yourself and your partner. Are they unrealistic?

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How do you get more support from your partner when you feel like they’re not pulling their weight?

Maybe you're feeling like your partner is not on the same page as you or they  just never do the things around the house or they don't clean up the dishes, they don’t hang out the washing, they don't clean up after themselves or they're not supporting the family and helping with the kids or doing their bit so that it feels like you're working as a team.

It can be frustrating but the good news is there is a solution!

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How do you bring back the intimacy in your relationship? Depending on where you are right now in your relationship you may just want to increase it, maybe it's okay at the moment, or maybe intimacy is non existent at the moment and you're looking for ways to bring back that deeper connection and intimacy.

I know this can seem quite overwhelming for some couples because I know it was a little bit overwhelming for us. When we were having these relationship challenges and constant love droughts where we would have these long periods of time with no intimacy and trying to work out why, it was frustrating and challenging.

But we want you to know that this is more common than you probably think. It's just a lot of couples don't talk about it.

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Today I want to talk about a concept which has helped me so much in my life. Don't wish for it to get easier, wish for you to get better.

Really let that sink into your bones. So many times in my life and in my relationship, I have had challenges that I've needed to overcome and there is always that voice in my head, my ego, that wants to put me in victim mode. It wants me to say things like, why is this happening to me? It's so unfair! Why can't it just be easier? Why does it have to be this hard?

Unfortunately that voice never goes away but in my experience, you can get better at dealing with it.

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What comes up a lot when we talk to couples is this idea that I've got to wait until my partner is ready to work on our relationship. That you can't work on your relationship until your partners on board and until you're both like making the decision together. What we found time and time again is it just doesn't work like that.

It didn't work like that for us either. So we're talking from personal experience and then experience with other couples we've worked with we're all at different points in the journey of life. We're all at different points in the journey of our relationship.

What works much better is simply making a decision that you want to learn and grow. That you want to experience more love, connection and happiness and then doing the work within you to experience it. Then, more often than not, your partner will notice your growth and will want to join you on the journey.

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The worthy woman you are born to be. That's what I want to talk about today. I have been so  overwhelmed and grateful and just feeling all the love and feels by all the messages that I've received from women who have just appreciated my journey.

They've watched my journey, they've got value from the podcast or the posts that I share, or they've been clients that are now friends and I just feel so much love and gratitude for it all.

For all these beautiful women who are reflecting back to me the journey I've been on to become the worthy woman that I was born to be. And honestly, I believe that worthy woman that you were born to be too!

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Do you ever feel like you're not enough or like you're too much?

I want to talk about this today because I recently got a question from a beautiful woman and I helped her find some answers but I thought, I'm going to speak to this because this was an issue in our relationship and even just in my life. This issue would play out in my relationship and I see it with couples all the time.

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Today we are talking about how to say no with love. Now I'm going to share with you how saying no can actually be a positive, not a negative and I know how hard this is. I found it really hard.

And if you're like the old me who was a people pleaser and a perfectionist, then I understand why you're finding this so hard. It was so easy for me to just say yes. It was just so easy and maybe you feel the same.

It was so hard for me to say no. It was ridiculous. Yes, just became my default. I would say yes, when I couldn’t. Yes, when I didn't have time. Yes, when I didn't want to. Yes, when I didn't have the capacity. I had this real deep rooted, limiting belief and pattern inside of me that I had to say yes.

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"Why won't he just step up?"

If you've said this out loud or just thought it quietly, exhausted and frustrated…

This episode is for you.

Because the truth is, the harder you push, the further he pulls away.
The more you do, the less space he has to rise.

And none of it is working. Not the initiating. Not the withdrawing. Not the silence you call "giving him space."

"Men don't step up when they feel like they're failing. They step up when they believe they can win."

If your man is disappearing into work, going quiet, or just fading into the background…

He's not lazy. He's losing.

And the shift that changes everything?
It's not a conversation you need to have with him.
It's the one you need to have with yourself.
Save this. Because the next time you feel that pull to push harder, come back here.

Share it with the woman in your life who's exhausted from carrying it all.

Full episode: "How to Inspire a Man to Step Up (Without Pushing Him Away)" is live now. Link in bio.

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Today we are talking about leaning in when you want to run away. Have you ever felt like that? Honestly, this is such a common topic that comes up with the women that I work with. Learning how to lean in, learning how to open and that's actually what leaning in means to me. I want to invite you to inquire what leaning in means to you.

And really think and ask yourself, am I leaning into my life right now? Am I leaning into my partner, am I leaning into my work, am I leaning into my children? Or are you doing the opposite, which is resisting? So I want you to think where have you got resistance at the moment in your life? Where are you resisting? And what are you resisting in your life right now?

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What emotions are you living from on a daily basis? Did you know there are more than 4000 emotions we can feel? There are so many, but it's really interesting how most of us only live from 10 or less on a daily basis.

So I want you to take a moment and just think about what emotions you’re living and experiencing on a daily basis. Think about your emotions on a typical day in your life, in your relationships and at work?

What do you wake up feeling? What do you go to sleep feeling? These emotions are like your thermostat. This is what you have set as your emotional home if you like. You've set it at whatever these emotions are. Listen in to find out why this is so important to getting everything you want in your life.

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Discover the number one tool that we've used many times and we continue to use with our clients to help people save their relationship.

When you're in that place in your relationship where you're really struggling it can be hard to see the light through the trees and to find a way out. We know because we too have definitely been there multiple times. It’s something we've had to go through recently again so it's really alive on our hearts at the moment.

Also, with the way the world shifting at the moment you need to be shifting in your relationship because there's so many uncertainties out there. There's so many stresses that you're going to have to shift your relationship in order for it to not only survive but thrive!

We're getting a lot of couples reaching out to us and messages from women and men, saying they are struggling in their their relationship. They can't get on the same page. They're doing all the things on the surface, but there's no deep connection. There's no intimacy, and there’s little to no communication.

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