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Most couples hit a wall, both waiting for the other to move first. This episode names the gridlock, explains why it keeps high-achieving couples stuck for years, and shows you exactly how to break it.

In this episode:
Why waiting for your partner to change first keeps you both stuck
The chicken-and-egg problem between emotional and physical intimacy
What “going first” looks like without sacrificing your standards
Why loving someone the way you want to be loved can miss the mark, and how the “princess passenger” technique changes that

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

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→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

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Your wife says she doesn't trust you but you've never cheated, you work hard, and you show up for your family. This episode breaks down why men and women define trust differently, and what it actually takes to rebuild emotional safety in marriage.

In this episode:

• Why saying “I’ve never cheated” doesn’t actually address what she’s worried about when she says she can’t trust you
• How promising too much and following through too little slowly breaks trust — and how to change that
• How being emotionally present, keeping your word, and taking responsibility help a woman feel safe and trust you
• Why independent women can have a hard time accepting support, and how learning to rely on each other can make the relationship stronger

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

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Most high-achieving couples have built everything — except a marriage they actually enjoy. This episode is about breaking that pattern with a two-day immersive couples retreat designed to rebuild real connection and intimacy.

📂 THE RECREATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCE™
https://recreateyourrelationship.com/weekend-perth-852731

In this episode:

• Why successful couples still end up living like roommates and what's actually keeping them stuck
• The truth about marriage skills: why willpower and date nights aren't enough, and what to do instead
• What happens inside the Recreate Your Relationship two-day experience (day-by-day breakdown)
• Why getting in the right room with the right couples changes your relationship thermostat permanently

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

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Most couples mistake distance for indifference. This episode names what's actually happening when your husband goes silent — and why chasing him makes it worse.

In this episode:

Why avoidant men are driven by deep insecurity — not a lack of care

How fight-flight-freeze-fawn shuts down the prefrontal cortex mid-conversation

Why pursuing an avoidant partner reinforces the exact pattern you want to break

The mindset shift that creates space for real change — for both of you

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

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Most couples aren't struggling with affection because one partner is "just not affectionate" they're struggling because of childhood attachment patterns that rewired how safety and closeness feel. This episode breaks down the hidden reason affection disappears in marriage and gives you a practical path back to real connection.

In this episode:
Why affection avoidance is a protective strategy formed in childhood — not a personality trait — and how to recognise it in yourself or your partner
The pursuit-withdrawal dynamic that turns affection into a battlefield, including how anxious attachment and hypervigilance make it worse
How Adam went from being physically uncomfortable holding hands in public to completely rewiring that blueprint — and what that process actually looked like
The 1% behavioural shifts that rebuild affection safely, and why demanding more affection always creates the opposite result.

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

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CONNECT: 

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→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Most couples have habits for work, health, and parenting but nothing for their marriage. This episode names the five daily habits that either build connection or quietly destroy it.

In this episode:
Why your marriage reflects what you repeatedly practise not what you intend
The five key marital habits: Connect, Appreciate, Repair, Prioritise, and Dream
How the five-minute coffee check-in prevents the slow drift into roommate territory
The warning signs you have no marital habits and what it's costing your relationship

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

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→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Money fights in marriage are rarely about money — they're about the hidden beliefs and childhood patterns driving your behaviour. If you and your partner keep hitting the same wall over finances, this episode will show you why — and how to fix the real problem: your money blueprint.

📂 Download Money Marriage Excercise

https://recreateyourrelationship.com/money-and-marriage

In this episode:

• The saver vs spender dynamic and where it really comes from
• Why the fight is never actually about the $500
• How high-achieving couples still carry a lack mentality
• How Adam and Aston rewired their money blueprints

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

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CONNECT: 

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→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

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Modern life is quietly pulling high-achieving couples apart — not with one big event, but through the slow accumulation of dual-career pressure, hyper-independence, mental overload, and an attention economy designed to keep you distracted. This episode names what's really behind emotional disconnection in marriage, and what it actually takes to fix it.

In this episode:
Why external success and relationship success require completely different skill sets — and how confusing the two leaves high achievers feeling emotionally alone
How the mental load, 24/7 work culture, and the attention economy are eroding connection one distraction at a time
Why hyper-independence — often mistaken for a strength — is one of the biggest barriers to intimacy, and how interdependence changes everything
The relationship vision planning approach Adam and Aston use with couples to reclaim time, energy, and genuine connection

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

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→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Most high-achieving couples aren't failing to communicate because they lack intelligence. They're failing because they carry deep childhood trauma patterns that taught them having needs is weakness, asking for help means failure, and their partner should "just know."

In this episode:

Why your needs feel unmet — and why it's usually the story you're telling, not your partner

Why "no" doesn't mean your need is invalid

The myth that your partner should "just know"

How to move from hyper-independent or co-dependent to interdependent

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

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→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Most high-achieving couples aren't failing to communicate because they lack intelligence. They're failing because they carry deep childhood trauma patterns that taught them having needs is weakness, asking for help means failure, and their partner should "just know."

In this episode:
Why your needs feel unmet — and why it's usually the story you're telling, not your partner
Why "no" doesn't mean your need is invalid
The myth that your partner should "just know"
How to move from hyper-independent or co-dependent to interdependent

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

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→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

You've handled the career, the business, the money. So why does your marriage feel like the one problem you can't crack?

Adam and Aston Simmonds dig into something most successful people don't want to hear: the habits that got you here are the same ones pushing your partner away. If your life looks great from the outside and still feels hollow at home, listen to this one.

In this episode:

• High standards, fix-it mode, efficiency. Brilliant at work. Quietly corrosive in a marriage
• There's a "science of achievement" and an "art of fulfilment." Nailing the first one teaches you nothing about the second
• "Dirty fuel" is fear, proving yourself, the dread of sliding backwards. It keeps you producing and it keeps you disconnected. Adam and Aston explain how to run on clean fuel instead
• Put the marriage first and the rest tends to fall into place. They walk through how that reorder actually works

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

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→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Most couples struggling with marriage communication think they just need to get better at talking to each other. But what's really driving the arguments, the withdrawal, and the resentment is a lack of shared agreements. In this episode, Adam and Aston break down what boundaries actually are, why couples conflict keeps repeating without them, and how to build a boundary agreement that creates safety, respect, and real connection.

In this episode:

• Why most relationship disconnection is a boundary problem, not a communication problem
• The game analogy that reframes boundaries as structure rather than walls or control
• How to create a shared boundary agreement that both partners actually buy into
• Why self abandonment masquerading as unconditional love is quietly destroying your marriage

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

If you've been telling yourself "I just feel disconnected" and pointing at your partner, this episode will redirect that conversation back to the one place real change starts: you.

In this episode:
Why disconnection is more common than couples admit
What "fully choosing the relationship" actually means
Acceptance is the first step, not a sign you're settling
How rejection shows up without a single word being spoken
Story first, evidence second - why you keep finding what you don't want
The two pathways and why you have to choose one

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READY TO GO DEEPER?

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

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LISTEN ON:
→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

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LEAVE A REVIEW:
If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples.
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→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsimmonds 

→ Facebook (Adam): https://www.facebook.com/AdamSimmonds11

→ Website: https://savemymarriageschool.com/

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.

This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

"I thought I was helping. I was actually making it worse."

In this episode, we're getting real about one of the most common patterns we see in struggling relationships:

The one who tries harder.
The one who over-functions.
The one who holds everyone accountable — except themselves.

"You cannot control someone into accountability. And the moment I stopped trying, everything started to shift."

If you're the one doing all the work and your partner just won't meet you there…

This episode will change the way you see that dynamic forever.

Save this for the next time you feel like you're carrying it all alone.
Share it with the partner who says "I just want them to step up."

Full episode: "Why Your Partner Won't Take Accountability (And What Actually Works)" is live now. Link in bio.

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READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

 Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.

This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

"Why won't he just step up?"

If you've said this out loud or just thought it quietly, exhausted and frustrated…

This episode is for you.

Because the truth is, the harder you push, the further he pulls away.
The more you do, the less space he has to rise.

And none of it is working. Not the initiating. Not the withdrawing. Not the silence you call "giving him space."

"Men don't step up when they feel like they're failing. They step up when they believe they can win."

If your man is disappearing into work, going quiet, or just fading into the background…

He's not lazy. He's losing.

And the shift that changes everything?
It's not a conversation you need to have with him.
It's the one you need to have with yourself.
Save this. Because the next time you feel that pull to push harder, come back here.

Share it with the woman in your life who's exhausted from carrying it all.

Full episode: "How to Inspire a Man to Step Up (Without Pushing Him Away)" is live now. Link in bio.

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READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.

This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

"I realised if something happened to me… I wouldn't trust he could look after our kids."

That was the wake-up call.

Not a fight.
Not a breakdown.
Just a quiet, terrifying moment in the kitchen.

And instead of blaming him…
She asked herself:

How did I create this?

Because the mental load isn't just about tasks.
It's about the dynamic you've both quietly built.
Without even realising it.

"It's not that he doesn't care. It's that you've made it so he doesn't need to."

And that's the hardest truth to hear.

But also the most freeing one.

Because if you created it…
You can change it.

Not by doing more.
By finally doing less. 

Save this for the next time you feel like you're carrying it all alone.
Share it with the woman who needs to hear this today.

Full episode: "The Mental Load Is Not the Problem — And Why Most Conversations Make It Worse" is live now. Link in bio.

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“Counselling didn’t fix it…”

In Episode 36, we break down the truth most couples don’t want to hear:

Why you can spend months… even years in counselling
And still feel stuck in the same patterns

“It’s not that you’re not trying hard enough…
It’s that talking alone doesn’t change emotional patterns.”

We share what actually shifts a relationship:

Not more conversations
But a different environment
Real safety
And doing the work in real time

If you’ve been going in circles…
Having the same arguments
Feeling like nothing is changing

This episode will show you a different way

Save this for when you feel stuck

Share it with your partner if you’re both trying… but not getting anywhere

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“We thought our partner was the problem…”

But it wasn’t them.

It was the pattern.

The same fight.
The same tension.
The same feeling of going in circles… over and over again.

“We see this every single day… couples stuck in patterns they don’t even realise they’re co creating.”

The growth gap.
The chaser and avoider.
The over functioning and burnout.
The roommate phase.
The silent shutdown.

None of these mean your relationship is broken.

They mean you’re stuck in patterns you haven’t learnt how to see… or shift yet.

And here’s the truth most couples miss:

👉 It only takes ONE of you to change the pattern.

If you’ve been feeling disconnected…
If you keep having the same arguments…
If you’re starting to wonder “is this just how it is now?”

This episode will wake you up.

Save this for when you feel stuck.

Share it with your partner… or someone who needs it.

Full episode: “8 Patterns Quietly Destroying Your Marriage” is live now. Link in bio.

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→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

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“The manosphere lied to you about being a man… and it’s costing you your relationship.”

In this episode, we break down the truth most men were never taught:

The pressure to prove yourself.
The mask of control, dominance, and “having it all together.”
The quiet insecurity underneath it all.

“Real masculinity doesn’t need to perform, control, or tear others down to feel powerful.”

If you’ve ever felt confused about what it actually means to be a man…
Or you’re in a relationship that feels disconnected, tense, or off…

This episode will hit.

Because the problem isn’t you.
It’s the model you were given.

Save this for when you need a reset.

Share it with a man who needs to hear this.

Full episode: “The Manosphere Lied To You About Being a Man (And It’s Costing You Your Relationship)” is live now. Link in bio.

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“We keep having the same argument… and getting nowhere.”

That’s what most couples say before they realise the truth.

You’re not actually arguing about the problem.

You’re arguing because you don’t understand each other.

In this episode, we break down why you feel so misunderstood in your relationship:

The way men and women communicate differently.
Why one of you shuts down… while the other keeps pushing.
Why fixing the problem isn’t actually fixing the relationship.

“Your differences aren’t the problem. Your inability to understand them is.”

If you’ve ever felt like:
“I’m not being heard”
“They just don’t get me”
“We’re speaking completely different languages”

This episode will shift everything.

Save this for your next argument.

Share it with your partner.

Full episode: “Why You Feel Misunderstood in Your Relationship & How To Fix It” is live now. Link in bio.

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“Talking more is actually making your relationship worse…”

Most couples think they have a communication problem.

They don’t.

They talk more.
They try harder.
They say all the “right things.”

And still…

Nothing changes.

“We kept having the same conversation… just in different ways.”

The real problem?

It’s not communication.

It’s that it doesn’t feel safe to be honest.

So you filter.
You hold back.
You walk on eggshells.
Or you come in harder… and they shut down.

And now you’re stuck in the same pattern…

Just louder.

If you’ve ever felt like:
“Why are we talking so much… but getting nowhere?”

This episode will hit home.

Save this for the next time you’re stuck in the same argument.

Share it with your partner… this could change everything.

Full episode: “Why Talking More Is Actually Making Your Relationship Worse” is live now. Link in bio.

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“Saying sorry isn’t what rebuilds trust…”

In this episode, we break down what actually repairs a relationship after trust is broken:

The avoidance
The fear based decisions
The patterns that keep repeating

“It’s not the mistake that keeps hurting your relationship… it’s the lack of real repair.”

If you’ve been stuck in the same argument 

or feel like nothing is actually changing…

This episode is for you. ❤️‍🩹

Save this for when things feel tense.

Share it with your partner if you’re trying to rebuild.

Full episode: “How to Rebuild Trust (Even After It’s Broken)” is live now. Link in bio.

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→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

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Trust in a marriage rarely breaks in one big moment.

It erodes in the small ones.

The promise you didn’t follow through on.
The truth you didn’t fully share.
The conversation you avoided.

“Trust isn’t built with words.
It’s built through consistent actions.”

In this episode we break down the 8 pillars of trust every relationship needs.

If your partner feels like they can’t rely on you, trust is already eroding.

The good news is it can be rebuilt.

Save this for when you need the reminder.

Full episode: “How to Build Trust in a Relationship” is live now. Link in bio.

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Conflict isn’t the problem in your marriage.

The way you respond to it is.

In this episode, we share a simple shift that can end most arguments before they spiral.

Most couples think conflict means something is wrong.

But the truth is, conflict is often just a moment where one partner needs to feel heard.

“The moment you stop trying to win the argument and start trying to understand your partner… everything changes.”

When someone feels seen and validated, the tension drops.

The fight slows down.

And connection comes back.

If arguments in your relationship turn into shutdowns, silent treatment, or days of distance…

This episode will change the way you see conflict forever.

Save this for the next time an argument starts.

Share it with someone who needs to hear this.

Full episode: “How to End 80% of Marriage Conflict Immediately” is live now. Link in bio.

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→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

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“The real reason your wife doesn’t respect you… isn’t what you think.”

In this episode, we unpack something most men never see:

It’s not about money.
It’s not about status.
It’s not about how hard you work.

It’s about avoidance.

“I wanted respect… but I wasn’t being respectful. I was avoiding the very conversations that build safety.”

We talk about:

The pursue withdraw cycle
Why avoidance feels safe but destroys attraction
The hidden insecurity underneath defensiveness
Why admitting “I don’t know how to fix this” actually increases respect

“If you don’t respect yourself, you cannot demand respect from anyone else.”

This is the episode for the man who feels:
Unappreciated.
Dismissed.
Like he can’t win.

And for the woman who feels:
Alone.
Unheard.
Like she’s carrying the emotional weight by herself.

Sometimes the turning point isn’t a grand gesture.

It’s one honest sentence:
“We are struggling. And I want to work on this.”

Save this for when conflict hits.

Share it with someone who needs to hear it.

Full episode: “The Real Reason Your Wife Doesn’t Respect You” is live now. Link in bio.

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READY TO GO DEEPER? 

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→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

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Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

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“We didn’t expect our year to begin like this.”

We were celebrating.
Telling our kids.
Sharing the joy with family.

And then one appointment changed everything.

In this episode, we open up about navigating unexpected loss as a couple.

The shock.
The waiting.
The messy middle.
The moment we had to sit our children down.

“One of us needed to talk.
 One of us needed to go quiet.
 Neither of us was wrong.”

Grief doesn’t just affect you.
It affects your marriage.
Your kids.
Your nervous system.
Your faith.
Your story about life.

But here’s what surprised us most:

It didn’t break us.
It deepened us.

If you’ve ever walked through something you didn’t choose…
If you and your partner process pain differently…
If you’re in a season that feels heavy…

This episode is for you.

Save this for when the wave hits.

Share it with someone navigating a hard season.

Full episode: “Navigating Grief and Loss as a Couple” is live now. Link in bio.

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READY TO GO DEEPER? 

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→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

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👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“If you’re winning at work but losing at home… this is for you.” 

In this episode, we break down a powerful exercise that will show you exactly where your life is out of alignment. 

Because here’s the truth: 

There are two types of success. 

External success.
 Internal fulfillment. 

And if you only have one… eventually it catches up with you. 

We walk you through the Wheel of Life — a simple but confronting tool that exposes where you’re thriving… and where you’re quietly avoiding. 

“The area you keep neglecting is probably the one that would change everything.” 

If you’re a high achiever who:
 • Crushes it in business
 • Shows up for everyone else
 • But feels disconnected in your marriage 

This episode will hit. 

Do this exercise with your partner.
Separately first.
Then come together and compare. 

That conversation alone could shift your entire 2026. 

Save this for your next date night. 

Share it with your partner. 

Full episode: “How to Achieve Success at Work and Fulfillment in Your Marriage in 2026” is live now. Link in bio. 

#marriagepodcast #highachievers #relationshipgrowth #marriagetips #worklifebalance #emotionalconnection #marriagehelp #couplesgrowth #successandlove #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast 

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→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

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Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.

This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

👉 Upcoming Retreats: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/

“Why does Valentine’s Day feel so heavy every year?”

In this episode, we talk about the real reason Valentine’s Day feels so pressured…
And it’s probably not what you think.

“It’s not that Valentine’s Day is the problem.
 It’s that one day is being asked to carry the weight of the other 364.”

The flowers.
 The dinner.
 The card.

They don’t fix months of disconnection, missed conversations, or feeling like an afterthought.

If Valentine’s Day has ever left you feeling disappointed, resentful, or quietly sad instead of connected…

This episode is your wake up call and your permission to do things differently.

Save this for when the pressure creeps in.
 Share it with someone who feels the weight of “expectations.”

Full episode: “The Real Reason Valentine’s Day Feels So Pressured” is live now. Link in bio.

#savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #marriagepodcast #relationshiptruth #valentinesdaypressure #emotionalconnection #marriagerealities #relationshipgrowth #highachievingcouples #workingonus #realtalk #relationshiprepair #connectionovergestures

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

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Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

The Relationship Health Check Quiz: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/quiz

“What does a healthy relationship actually look like?”

So many couples ask this.
And most are chasing the wrong thing.

No conflict.
No tension.
Just peace and ease all the time.

In this episode, we break one of the biggest myths in relationships
and explain why “comfortable” is not the same as healthy.

We talk about:
The beliefs that quietly keep couples stuck
Why avoiding conflict creates distance not safety
The 8 foundations every healthy relationship actually needs

“If your relationship feels calm but disconnected, that’s not peace. That’s a silent divorce.”

If you’ve ever wondered whether what you have is normal
or felt confused about why love alone hasn’t been enough

This episode will bring clarity.

Save this for your next moment of doubt.
Share it with your partner or a couple who needs a reset.

Full episode:
“What Does a Healthy Relationship Actually Look Like?”
Live now. Link in bio.

#savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshiptruth #marriagegrowth #healthyrelationships #emotionalconnection #relationshipclarity #couplesgrowth #marriagerepair #realrelationships #workingonus #relationshipeducation #podcastepisode 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

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Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“Is your unhealed trauma quietly killing your relationship?”

In Episode 23 of the Save My Marriage Podcast, we talk about the truth most couples never see:

The overreactions.
The shutdowns.
The fights that feel bigger than the moment.

“It is not that you are bad at communication.
It is that younger parts of you are being activated when you feel unsafe.”

Unprocessed experiences do not disappear with time.
They live in the body.
And they show up when you are triggered.

If you have ever thought,
Why do we keep having the same fight?
Why does this feel so intense?
Why does connection disappear so fast?

This episode will help you understand what is really happening beneath the surface.

Save this for the next time you feel triggered.

Share it with your partner or someone who needs to hear this.

Full episode:
“Is Your Unhealed Trauma Quietly Killing Your Relationship?”
is live now. Link in bio.

#savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshiphealing #marriagegrowth #emotionalconnection #traumahealing #innerchildwork #relationshippatterns #healingtogether #couplesgrowth

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

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Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“We didn't fall out of love. We outgrew our relationship.”

No one prepares you for this part of marriage.

The person you married is not the same person standing in front of you today.
And neither are you.

Kids. Careers. Identity shifts. Midlife questions.
Life keeps moving but most couples never update the relationship.

We nearly lost our marriage not because we didn't love each other
but because we didn't know how to grow together.

In this episode we share
Why marriage is not the finish line its the beginning
The reinvention cycles every long term relationship moves through
Why couples slowly drift apart without realising what is happening
And the exact process we now use every year to recreate our relationship

If your relationship feels flat disconnected or like you're on different pages
you are not broken
you are just overdue for an update

Save this for when it feels hard
Share it with someone you love

Marriage 2.0 How We Recreate Our Relationship is live now
Link in bio

#marriage20 #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #longtermmarriage #emotionalconnection #workingonus #relationshipvision #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #couplesgrowth #realtalk #loveiscreated #relationshiptruth

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

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Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“January is the month most couples give up”

Not because they do not love each other
But because everything they avoided all year finally comes to the surface

The pretending
The tension
The quiet question of
Can we really do another year like this

In this episode we share the truth most couples never hear

“Divorce is not easier
You do not need a new partner
You need new skills”

We open up about
Why January is divorce month
The lie that leaving will fix everything
How we nearly went down that path ourselves
And how couples can recreate their relationship before it is too late

If January feels heavy in your marriage
If you are questioning everything right now

You are not broken
And you are not alone

Save this for when it feels hard
Share it with someone who needs hope right now

Full episode
January Is Divorce Month Here Is How to Save Your Marriage Before It Is Too Late
Link in bio

#savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #marriagetips #relationshippodcast #marriagehelp #relationshiphealing #emotionalconnection #realtalk #marriagegrowth #relationshiptruth #workingonus #loveafterpain #podcastclip #viralreel #truthbomb 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

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Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“Why does every conversation turn into an argument… even when you’re trying to connect?”

In Episode 20, we talk about the communication mistakes that silently kill connection and the ones most couples do not even realise they are making.

The talking that turns into defending.
The ‘we need to talk’ moments that end in shutdown.
The feeling of being unheard, misunderstood, or walking on eggshells.

“It is not that you do not love each other. It is that you are communicating from protection, not connection.”

If you have ever thought:
• We talk all the time but nothing gets resolved
• I do not feel heard
• I shut down because it feels safer
• Every conversation feels heavy or tense

This episode is for you.

We break down:
• The 7 most common communication mistakes couples make
• Why good intentions still lead to disconnection
• How to communicate in a way that actually builds safety and closeness
• The simple framework that helped save our marriage

Save this for the next hard conversation.
Share it with your partner or someone who needs it.

Full episode: “The Communication Mistakes That Silently Kill Connection” is live now. Link in bio.

#savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshipcommunication #marriagetips #emotionalconnection #relationshiphealing #marriagepodcast #realtalk #workingonus #relationshipgrowth #couplescommunication 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

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Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“I didn’t get a relationship coach because things were ‘bad enough’…”

I got one because I finally realised doing it alone wasn’t working.

In Episode 19 of the Save My Marriage Podcast, we share the truth about:

Why asking for help was the hardest part
How choosing the wrong support can keep you stuck
What actually matters when finding a relationship coach
And why the real work starts when you take responsibility for your own growth

“It’s not about putting faith in a coach. It’s about trusting yourself enough to show up, get uncomfortable, and do the work.”

If you’ve ever thought:
“I should be able to figure this out on my own”
Or…
“I don’t want to be the only one trying anymore”

This episode is for you.

Save this for when pride gets in the way.
Share it with someone who’s ready to grow.

Full episode:
“How to Find the Right Relationship Coach (and Why I Needed One to Save My Marriage & Myself)”
Now live. Link in bio.

#savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #marriagetips #emotionalconnection #relationshiphealing #growthmindset #workingonus #realmarriage #consciousrelationships #relationshippodcast #truthbomb #realtalk #healingjourney #choosinggrowth 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

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Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“Can a relationship really last if only one of you is doing the work?”

In Episode 18 of the Save My Marriage Podcast, we speak honestly about one of the most painful questions couples carry.

The fear of growing alone.
The frustration of being the one doing the healing.
The quiet question of whether this is ever going to be enough.

“It wasn’t about forcing change or getting your partner to catch up.
It was about learning how to stop pushing and start embodying the work.”

If you have ever felt like you are carrying the emotional load of the relationship by yourself…
If you have wondered whether love can survive when only one person is leaning in…

You are not broken.
And this episode is for you.

Save this for the moments you feel unsure.

Share it with someone who is quietly holding it all together.

Full episode: “Can a Relationship Last If Only One of You Is Doing the Work?” is live now. Link in bio.

#marriagetips #relationshippodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshiptruth #realmarriage #workingonus #loveandgrowth #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #innerwork #relationshiphealing #podcastclip 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

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Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“Christmas was supposed to bring us closer… but it made the distance louder.” 

In Episode 17, we talk about the part of Christmas no one warns you about: 

The loneliness that shows up when you’re already disconnected.
The pressure to be happy when something feels off.
The quiet ache of feeling alone next to the person you love. 

“Christmas doesn’t create the distance — it exposes what’s already there.” 

If you’ve ever felt more like roommates than partners during the holidays… 

If you’ve smiled on the outside while feeling empty inside… 

This episode is for you.

Save this for when Christmas feels heavy.
Share it with someone who needs to feel less alone. 

Full episode: “Why Christmas Makes Disconnected Couples Feel Even More Alone” is live now. Link in bio. 

#marriagepodcast #relationshiptruth #emotionalconnection #christmasandrelationships #marriagelife #relationshiphealing #lonelytogether #couplesgrowth #realtalk #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #workingonus #holidaystress #relationshipsupport #viralreel 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“We kept saying we were just too busy… but really, we were avoiding the truth.” 

In Episode 16, we call out one of the most common lies modern couples tell: 

“We will work on our relationship when life settles down.”
Except life never settles down. 

In this episode, we go deep into: 

• The real cost of putting everything else before your marriage
• Why busy is the most socially accepted form of avoidance
• How busyness creates trauma, resentment and emotional abandonment
• What is actually hiding underneath the I do not have time story
• Why slowing down is not the problem. It is the solution
• The uncomfortable truth your calendar reveals about your priorities
• How ten to twenty minutes of presence each day can change everything
• The one question that changed our entire marriage:
 “If you were no longer allowed to use the word busy, what truth would surface?” 

This episode is the wake up call that so many couples need.
The shift from surviving your life to consciously creating the relationship you actually want. 

If you have been telling yourself you will work on it later…
If you feel more like roommates than partners…
If work has become the safest place to hide… 

This episode is for you. 

Save this for the days you forget what truly matters.
Share it with someone who needs this reminder. 

Full episode: “Too Busy To Work On Your Relationship? Listen To This”
Live now. Link in bio. 

#marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshipstruggles #busynessculture #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #intentionalmarriage #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“We didn’t realise how disconnected we’d become…
until we looked up and saw we were in the exact same place as last year.” 

In this episode, we talk about the quiet crisis so many couples fall into: 

The endless cycle.
The excuses.
The feeling of living together… but not with each other. 

“It’s not that you don’t love each other. It’s that you’ve slipped into autopilot — and no one ever taught you how to lead your relationship with intention.” 

If you feel stuck…
If every day feels the same…
If you’re exhausted from running but not getting anywhere… 

You are not alone. And this episode is your wake-up call. ❤️‍🩹 

Save this for the days you feel disconnected. 

Share it with someone who’s stuck on the hamster wheel too. 

Full episode: “Your Marriage Is on Autopilot And You’re Both Stuck on the Hamster Wheel” is live now. Link in bio. 

#marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshipstruggles #viralreel #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #connectedcouples #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

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Apply to Work With Us

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👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“I used to think, ‘If you stopped triggering me, I would be fine.’” 

In this episode, we flip that belief on its head. 

We talk about:
The real reason you get so activated over the smallest things
Why your body reacts before your brain can catch up
How triggers are actually treasure in really shitty wrapping paper
And why it is not your fault you are triggered, but it is your responsibility to heal it 

We walk you through the exact questions we use with our clients to turn:
Criticism into clarity
Feeling alone into asking for support
Blame into ownership and growth 

“When you stop avoiding your triggers and start opening them, they stop running your relationship and start setting you free.” 

Save this for the next time you feel yourself spiralling or about to say something you will regret. 

Share it with someone who keeps getting stuck in the same fight on repeat. 

Full episode: “How To Stop Getting Triggered In Your Relationship” is live now. Link in bio. 

#marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshiptriggers #nervoussystem #couplesgrowth #conflicttoconnection #workingonus #loveandgrowth #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

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→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“We feel like room mates… there is just no spark left.”

If you have ever thought this about your relationship, Episode 13 is for you.

In this episode we talk about what to do when there is:

• Zero spark
• Zero chemistry
• Zero emotional connection

…but you still want to feel like lovers again, not just team mates or co parents.

“It is not that the spark is gone. It is that it is buried under stress, resentment and both of you living in the wrong energy.”

Inside this episode we break down real, practical ways to bring back polarity and attraction:

For him: attention, affection, reassurance, consistency.
For her: respect, appreciation, receptivity, softening.

No performance. No pretending. Just simple, everyday shifts that change the way you feel around each other.

Save this for the days you feel like there is nothing left.

Share it with someone who feels like the spark is gone.

Full episode: “How to Bring Back the Spark Even If There Is Zero Connection Right Now” is live now. Link in bio.

#savemymarriagepodcast #savemymarriage #marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipadvice #bringbackthespark #emotionalconnection #intimacycoach #polarity #masculineandfeminine #marriagehelp #relationshipsupport #fromroommatestolovers #workingonus #loveisapractice

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“We still loved each other… but we felt more like roommates than lovers.”

In this episode, we open up about what really causes couples to lose their spark — and how to get it back.

The distance.
The resentment.
The moment you start living side by side… instead of soul to soul.

“It’s not that the love is gone — it’s that polarity is missing. You’ve both just forgotten how to dance between the masculine and feminine.”

If you’ve ever looked at your partner and thought, “Where did the passion go?”
If you’re tired of feeling like business partners instead of lovers…

This episode is for you.

Save this for the days you feel flat.
Share it with someone who’s craving that spark again.

Full episode: “From Roommates to Lovers Again — The Truth About Masculine & Feminine Energy” is live now. Link in bio.

#marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #masculineandfeminine #relationshipadvice #reigniteconnection #relationshippodcast #workingonus #loveandrespect #healingtogether #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“I used to think putting everyone else first made me a good partner.”

I thought love meant giving…
Even when I had nothing left to give.
Saying yes when my body screamed no.
Holding everything together while quietly falling apart.

But the truth?
Self-sacrifice isn’t love.
It’s self-abandonment dressed up as devotion.

The moment I stopped betraying myself to keep the peace, everything changed.
My energy came back.
My desire came back.
And so did we.

If you’ve been giving until you’re empty…
This episode is your reminder that the relationship you want won’t come from doing more — it comes from being you again.

Save this for the days you forget your needs matter too.
Listen to the full episode: “How To Stop Self-Sacrificing In Your Relationship” — live now on The Save My Marriage Podcast.

#marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #marriagetips #womensupportingwomen #relationshipadvice #savemymarriage #emotionalconnection #marriagehealing #boundaries #selflovejourney #realtalk #couplesgrowth #relationshiptruths #selfabandonment #healingtogether #podcastclip #workingonus #loveafterpain #selfrespect #marriagehelp

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

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→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“If only they would stop blaming me…”

In this episode, we go deep into one of the most painful loops couples get stuck in — blame, defense, and disconnection.

For years, we both thought the other person was the problem.
I wanted Adam to change.
He wanted me to stop overreacting.
And nothing ever changed.

The truth?
You cannot make your partner change.
But you can influence them — not through criticism or control, but through calm ownership and emotional safety.

“When I stopped pointing the finger and started leading with love and responsibility, everything changed.”

If you are tired of the same fights and ready to create real change in your relationship, this episode is for you.

Save this for when you feel stuck.
Share it with someone who needs to hear it.

Full episode: How To Get My Partner To Stop Blaming Me And Get Them To Change is live now. Link in bio.

#MarriageTips #MarriagePodcast #RelationshipGrowth #CommunicationTools #EmotionalConnection #MarriageTalk #RealMarriageMoments #RelationshipStruggles #TruthBomb #RealTalk #WorkingOnUs #SaveMyMarriage #SaveMyMarriagePodcast

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“We thought we just needed to learn more… but the truth is, we had to unlearn.”

In this episode, we’re sharing the six patterns that nearly destroyed our marriage — and the ones that saved it when we finally let them go:

❌ Control ≠ Safety
❌ Criticism ≠ Motivation
❌ Vulnerability ≠ Weakness
❌ Marriage ≠ Competition
❌ Resentment ≠ Protection
❌ Withholding the Truth ≠ Keeping the Peace

These weren’t quick fixes. They were deeply ingrained stories — beliefs we inherited from childhood, conditioning, and survival — and they were silently pulling us apart.

But once we started unlearning them, everything shifted:
Trust grew where fear used to live.
Connection deepened where resentment once ruled.
And our love finally felt safe again.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re trying so hard but nothing is changing… this episode is for you.

Save it for the days you feel stuck.
Share it with someone who’s ready to try a different way.

Full episode: “6 Things We Had to Unlearn to Save Our Marriage (After 22 Years Together)” is live now. Link in bio.

#marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshipstruggles #viralreel #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #loveafterpain #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshipadvice #couplestherapy #marriagehelp #relationshiptruths #growthtogether

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

Fighting about money is rarely just about dollars.
It’s about power, trust, values, and the deeper emotional stories money represents in your relationship. 

In this episode, we pull back the curtain on what’s really going on when couples clash over finances: 

• Why money fights are often about safety, control, or feeling undervalued — not the budget itself
• The hidden money stories that drive resentment, blame, and avoidance
• How to turn “money talks” from battles into powerful conversations that build trust and teamwork

“Money is not the enemy. It’s a mirror — reflecting how connected you are as a team, how safe you feel with each other, and how aligned your vision really is.”
 
If you’ve ever thought:

• “We can’t talk about money without fighting”
• “I feel like I’m the only one carrying the financial load”
• “We have different priorities and it’s tearing us apart”

This episode will help you see money as a bridge instead of a barrier — and show you how to finally get on the same page financially and emotionally.
 
Save this for the next time a money conversation spirals.
Send it to a couple who’s struggling to talk about finances without fighting.
 
Full episode: “Money & Marriage: How to Finally Get on the Same Page & Stop Fighting About Money” is live now. Link in bio.
 
#MoneyAndMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #SaveMyMarriage #MarriageHelp #MarriagePodcast #RelationshipPodcast #MarriageTips #LoveAndMoney #CouplesFinance #MoneyTalks #MarriageMatters #RelationshipGoals #RecreateYourRelationship #MarriageSupport #CouplesCommunication #HealthyRelationships #MarriageCoach #MoneyMindset #MarriageGrowth #RelationshipHealing
 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

Feeling unsafe in your marriage does not always mean physical harm.
Most often it is about emotional disconnection, not being heard, or feeling dismissed. 

In this episode we reveal the truth about safety in marriage: 

• Why “I don’t feel safe” is really about trust and emotional connection
• How dismissing your partner’s feelings creates deeper disconnection
• The shift that turns conflict into closeness and reassurance

“Safety is not about fixing all the problems. It is about creating a space where your partner feels seen, heard and valued. When you do that, love and trust return.”
 
If you have ever thought:

• I feel shut out in my marriage
• I do not know how to reach my partner anymore
• I feel more alone with them than without them

This episode will help you understand what safety really means and how to rebuild it in your relationship.
 
Save this for the next time you feel disconnected.
Send it to a friend who feels unsafe or unheard in their marriage.
 
Full episode: “Feeling Unsafe In Your Marriage? Here’s How To Create Safety” is live now. Link in bio.
 
#marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #marriagerecovery #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshipstruggles #viralreel #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #loveafterpain

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

Control and criticism aren’t about tearing you down. They’re about protecting what feels unsafe inside.

In this episode we reveal the truth about control and criticism:

Why criticism is actually a cry for safety and certainty
What’s really underneath the controlling patterns — fear, overwhelm, and not feeling supported
The shift that transforms control into connection and teamwork

“Control isn’t proof she doesn’t love you. It’s proof she doesn’t feel safe to let go. When you respond with leadership and reassurance instead of resistance, the whole dynamic changes.”

If you have ever thought:

Why is she always on my case?
No matter what I do, it’s never good enough
I feel like I can’t win in this relationship

This episode will help you see criticism differently and give you the steps to break the cycle and rebuild trust.

Save this for the next time you feel attacked.

Send it to a friend who feels stuck in the criticism-control loop.

Full episode: “Why Your Wife Is Controlling and Highly Critical (and How to Break the Cycle)” is live now. Link in bio.

#marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #marriagerecovery #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshipstruggles #viralreel #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #loveafterpain 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

Defensiveness isn’t proof your partner doesn’t care. It’s a sign they don’t feel safe.

In this episode we reveal the truth about defensiveness:
Why defensiveness is really about protection, not rejection
How shame, fear, and not feeling enough fuel the walls in your relationship
The exact steps we used to break the cycle and finally open up honest conversations 

“Defensiveness isn’t the problem. Disconnection is. When you meet the defense with compassion instead of fighting it, everything changes.” 

If you’ve ever thought:
He just won’t open up
Every conversation feels like hitting a wall
We can’t talk without it turning into an argument 

This episode will shift how you see defensiveness and show you how to create safety, honesty, and connection. 

Save this for when you feel shut out. 

Send it to a friend who’s tired of hitting the same walls. 

Full episode: “Why Is My Husband So Defensive & How To Get Him To Open Up” is live now. Link in bio. 

#marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #marriagerecovery #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshipstruggles #viralreel #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #loveafterpain 

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review.

CONNECT: 

→ Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ 

→ Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds 

→ Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...

Apply to Work With Us

If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School.

This is not therapy.
This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life.

👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/

“Resentment isn’t about your partner at all”

In this episode we reveal the truth about resentment:

• Why resentment is really grief, sadness, and unmet needs
• How unspoken needs become premeditated resentment
• The exact steps to shift from resentment into appreciation
  
  

“Resentment isn’t an excuse. It’s the reason. And when you feel it instead of fighting it, you can finally be free.”

If you have ever thought:

• I’m doing everything on my own
• My partner should just know what I need
• Things will get better if they just change
  
  

This episode will challenge those beliefs and show you how to reclaim your power and reconnect.

Save this for when you feel stuck in blame.
Send it to a friend who’s tired of carrying silent resentment.

Full episode: “How To Let Go Of Resentment” is live now. Link in bio.

#marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #marriagerecovery #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshipstruggles #viralreel #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #loveafterpain

READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

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This is not therapy.
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“We were so close to giving up on our marriage…”

In our very first episode, we open up about the raw truth behind our relationship:
 
The near-divorce.
The breakdowns.
The moment everything almost ended.

“It wasn’t therapy or some big breakthrough. It was one small, uncomfortable decision, over and over, that changed everything.”

If you’ve ever been on the edge, wondering if the love is still there…

You are not alone. And this episode is for you. ❤️‍🩹

Save this for when it gets hard.

Share it with someone who's in the thick of it.

Full episode: “Our Story — From Almost Divorced to Deeply Connected” is live now. Link in bio.

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READY TO GO DEEPER? 

→ Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 

→ Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session

LISTEN ON: 

→ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 

→ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a 

→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds

LEAVE A REVIEW: 

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