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A gay man in his 60s is perplexed about foot fetishes, and what is so damn sexy about his feet.
A man is frustrated by the concept of "false positives" when he tests for herpes. What on earth is going on here? Dan brings on the delightful and calming Dr. Ina Park to explain the whole testing situation.
On the Magnum, it's a bisexuality brawl with sex therapist Claire Perelman! Dan and Claire talk about the bisexual's plight in dating, and how to overcome the stigma.
And a gay man and his boyfriend are moving in together. The boyfriend owns his apartment and asks the caller to pitch in toward a vacation fund in lieu of paying rent. Is this equitable?
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After Action Report #49
Episode 49
Friday, October 2, 2026 • Duration 20:38
What's in the duffel bag?
On her vacation to Bali, she hooked up with a hot, rich dude with a glass house in the jungle.
But, what tricks did he have up his sleeve?
After a bad experience at home, Julia had a re-discovery of her best sexual self.
Have a listen.
And then send us your story!
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Savage Love Episode 1038
Episode 1038
Tuesday, September 29, 2026 • Duration 58:36
We begin the show...drunkenly. A lit lady enjoys the sensation of touching ears. Room temperature, or slightly chilled. Not too cold. But "ear porn?" Is that a thing?
A lucky fella won a three-month free entry to his local bathhouse. Whatever should he do when he's in there?
Our guest this week is Allen Sulkin, creator of the new podcast "Gerbil." He and Dan analyze the persistence of the insane sex myth that you've probably heard about. Do people still believe it? They go into the dark motivations that allowed such a preposterous rumor to live on and on. Gerbil is out now, and you should drop everything to listen to it.
And, should a woman demand her fiancé continue the painful, expensive tattoo removal from a previous marriage?
People. Make good choices.
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After Action Report #48
Episode 48
Friday, September 25, 2026 • Duration 15:53
Just how polite are Canadians?
Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam.
Name a lake after this guy!
Tell us your story, right away!Send it to Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Love Episode 1037
Episode 1037
Tuesday, September 22, 2026 • Duration 49:30
Grapefruiting! It's a new sex act involving fruit! Can *any* word be verbed? Apparently!
A woman wonders how anyone can successfully fake an orgasm, when the physical contractions should be noticeably felt.
On the Magnum, Dan brings on a guest to definitively answer the question you all have: How long must you wait to masturbate after you've had a heart attack? Dr. Eugene Fan is a cardiologist with nothing but good news for you horndogs. As long as your heart is beating, you can beat off. He and Dan discuss a couple of heart health issues with the charming and reassuring Dr. Fan.
And, is piss an acquired taste? Because this woman just doesn't like it.
Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 (You can text us a voice memo too.)
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After Action Report #47
Episode 47
Friday, September 18, 2026 • Duration 17:58
No words exchanged. He lying in a hotel bed. She enters and just watches. It was their first and only date.
Rachel’s story proves that scheduled sex most certainly CAN be hot.
Hear her story, get turned on.
If YOU have a delicious tale to tell, write it down and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.
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Savage Love Episode 1036
Episode 1036
Tuesday, September 15, 2026 • Duration 45:49
Bummer! A man had just met with a male-female couple who wanted him to take part in a kinky three-way. But when he confessed that he sometimes has trouble coming, they cancelled. Can he train himself to blow a load? Need he?
Speaking of loads, a woman credits her beautiful, supple skin to the facial treatments her husband obligingly administers. Can this be true? Any dermatologists care to weigh in?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with filmmaker, actor and fetish content creator Julian Shaw. He wrote and directed the thriller Use Me, co-directs the documentary Acting Hard, and is the subject of Cam Boy, a documentary currently in production. He was the face of Australia's gay marriage fight, and had to "come out'" as straight. He and Dan cover a lot of ground in this convo about foot fetishes, the benefits and perils of sex work, the ethics of dating guys on the DL, and how to avoid stomach aches.
Finally, a gay man in Italy asks if wearing a jockstrap tells the world that he is a bottom.
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After Action Report #46
Episode 46
Friday, September 11, 2026 • Duration 19:16
Meet Tom who went on a very special vacation with his girlfriend.
Packing checklist:
Kink outfits
Consent Form
Waste bag
How did it go? You'll find out.
Send us your stories, your wonderful stories!
Q@Savage.Love
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Savage Love Episode 1035
Episode 1035
Tuesday, September 8, 2026 • Duration 57:03
A man has been together with his boyfriend for 10 years. The caller works long hard hours and values peace and quiet when he comes home. But his boyfriend works from home all day and pounces on his husband, wanting to chat and interact. Dan was in a similar situation, but don't tell Dan's husband how he dealt with it.
A divorced woman with children has been dating a man. Both are in open relationships, and he wears a wedding ring. Her kids don't yet know about ethical non-monogamy and her family disapproves, making this year's Rosh Hashanah dinner extra spicy.
Our guest is the intrepid comedian Zach Noe Towers who sailed away on the gay ship that got turned away by homophobic country after homophobic country. He and Dan go Deep Gay on the scent of man, and whether uncircumcised dicks slip in easier. A little is on the Micro, and the uncut version is on the Magnum.
And, a 35 year-old gay man connected with a guy via dating app, who seemed pretty darn cool. But when he learned the man was in his 60s, he politely rejected him. The guy accused our caller of being ageist. Is he?
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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.
After Action Report #45
Episode 45
Friday, September 4, 2026 • Duration 16:24
Cat started a sex toy company, so she had to come out as kinky to friends and family. What she didn’t expect was the stampede of her mother’s boomer friends asking for product…
Do you have a story of something you tried that was like, so embarrassing??!!Let us hear it: Q@Savage.Love
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